#Straight aspec

[thatqueergarbagerat]

Shout out to queerhets, love y'all sm

#queerhet #straight queer #mspec straight #straight lesbian #straight vincian #straightbian #straight gay #straightcian #transhet #straight ace #straight aro #arohet #straight aspec #enbyhet #straight nonbinary #straight intersex #i know there are other queerhet identities but i forget them T-T

[straight-lgbt]

Queerhets are cool actually-

#queerhet #transhet #straight aspec #straight enby #straight trans #straight mspec #straight acespec #arospec straight #heteroromantic asexual #aromantic heterosexual #heteroromantic homosexual #homoromantic heterosexual #lgbt

[thetisming]

people who exclude straight trans people and straight aspec people are my worst enemies. btw

#trans #ace #aro #apl #transgender #asexual #aromantic #aplatonic #im not straight but guys do you not realise how important they are #I love you straight trans people I love you straight aspec people

[baldchristianborle]

starkid has such a talent for writing straight couples. like they’re really getting me invested in a man and a woman. i respect them so much.

#straight being a relative term #they’re all bi/aspec #starkid #npmd #tgwdlm #black friday #paulkins #ethan green #lex foster #paul matthews #emma perkins #peter spankoffski #stephanie lauter #tom houston #becky barnes #barneston #lautski

[catsafarithewriter]

v tired of coming out to ppl who are familiar and accepting of the aroace term, who then still turn around and say "yeah but you might still one day meet someone, right?" like I promise you most aspec ppl are aware it's an option, but it's still rude

I get you're trying to be supportive, but it still comes off as "don't worry, perhaps you're not really aroace/broken"

#work colleague: 'well i didnt find love until i was in my 30s' #okay but you still felt attraction??? you still knew you liked boys and girls from a young age?? #ace #asexual #aro #aromantic #aroace #aspec #maybe one day i will meet someone! #but there's a good chance any 'romantic' relationship i get into will be more a qpp #you wouldnt go up to a straight girl and go 'perhaps you havent met the right girl yet' #why is it okay to backseat diagnose an aspec's identity? #i am. tired

[redysetdare]

A character looks straight into the camera and says "I'm not interested in romance" and people will still say "No, it's not confirmed they're aromantic!!!" "They could change their mind!!!" "it's a challenge for them to overcome!!!" "They'll have character development that makes them fall in love"

It's like they are given the most blatant answer to a character romantic orientation and they actively ignore it. all the while all it takes is subtext for people to speak as if it is fact for a character to be any other sexuality.

#text #yes I'm calling out the hypocrisy within queer readings of a text and how often people dont see aromanticism as queer #and thus they will hear a blatant omission that a character is aromantic and still say it is not enough #mean while a character saying 'im not interested in the opposite gender' is rightfully taken as the character being queer #the queer community hates aspec characters because they don't match their perfect idea of sex sex relationships as being peak queerness #aphobia #aro #aromantic #aspec #aroace #im sorry but n oit isn't a difference of opinion if you blatantly ignore a character outright saying 'im not into this' #like y'all complain abt ppl turning gay ppl straight but will defend ppl erasing aro identities all the time #fandoms will throw a fit if you ship gay characters in straight relationships but ppl shit aro characters and we r told to shut up #im so fucking tired of this bs #I will keep complaining and keep calling this shit out #until it is drilled into ur skulls that you are being APHOBIC becaue WHAT? You want to REALLLLLY SHIP a character? #Because you'll die if you dont??? #fuck man just say you hate aspec ppl and move on #it's easier than dealing with your 'im not aphobic ur being unfair i supposed aspec people really' bs

[fritz-is-bipolar]

This might be a hot take for some of the aphobes and whoever else, but I would much rather "let cishets into our safe spaces" than deprive a single queer kid of community on the basis of "what if"

#lgbt #lgbtq #aspec #aromantic #aro #asexual #ace #aplatonic #apl #mspec #mspec straight

[vroomvroomwee]

New Years is just a few days away. So can we all, as a collective, stop saying things like "they HAVE to kiss" or "they HAVE to fuck at least once"? Because it's so annoying. No, they don't HAVE to do that. As an aroace it's so tiring hearing those phrases, not to mention invalidating as fuck. Aroaces aren't boring for not kissing or having sex, and it's not a MUST in a relationship, even if the couple is allo. And it's not just with fictional characters, it happens with real people too and it's creepy and invasive as shit

#looking at you good omens fandom #its perfectly alright if YOU want that to happen #but to say its going to be a disaster if A and C dont fuck 30 times for 10 minutes straight is just... #come on... #good omens #goodomens #crowley #aziraphale #ineffable husbands #ace #aro #asexual #aromantic #asexuality #aromanticism #aroace #aspec

[im-a-goddamn-cat]

can everyone stop using virgin as an insult and implying/saying that not having sex is bad and makes you a loser or whatever

#im already insecure about this shit and then i come online to relax and see shit like this that makes me hate myself more #at this point i straight up block ppl who do this shit idc if its petty or stupid #meowing #aspec tag #ace #asexual #aroace #aromantic asexual #aspec #acespec #queer #lgbt #lgbtqia #lgbtqia+ #lgbt+ #mogai

[gay-otlc]

People on this webbed site have their brains explode when we try to talk about how trans men of any sexuality are oppressed, so I genuinely do not think your brains could handle it if I said the Scary Privileged Straight Men ™ are oppressed, but at some point we're gonna need to talk about how your "ewww straight man" jokes directed at trans men is genuinely just TERF rhetoric.

#in case it wasn't clear i don't think straight trans man are necessarily *more* oppressed than gay/bi/aspec trans men #i just think our oppression tends to be more invisible #cause people can acknowledge that mlm trans men will face homophobia #but a lot of yall think transhets automatically gain Straight Privilege when that is really just not the case #so if these people can't accept that gay trans men are oppressed they Really can't accept that straight trans men are oppressed #anyway #transhet #anti-transmasculinity #i can elaborate if asked in good faith ig

[imhere-imqueer-ilikedeer]

hehehe >:3

#Like I said #its a wonder anyone still thinks I’m straight #Asexual #aromantic #aroace #ace pride #aro pride #arospec #aspec #pride jewelry

[mossy-aro]

being aspec is weird sometimes because exploring my boundaries and (a)sexuality in my own way is such a personal and normal thing to do as you go through life but it feels like if you do something or experience something differently than aspec people are ‘supposed to’ it puts the validity of your whole identity in danger

#this is not an original thought but i am expressing it anyways #i do not feel as if the ppl in my life can equate ‘getting the aroace thing’ and my not being sex or romance repulsed #so i either can tell them the truth abt being aroace or i can straight up refuse to disclose my identity #it feels so frustrating idk. a non issue maybe but it feels ugh. #for example. #i kissed someone recently n i didn’t hate it. it’s hard to know who to tell because if i was anything else ppl wouldn’t side eye #me for even talking abt the situation but in this case it’s like 🤨 why r u an aroace person doing that 🤨 #idk if this is getting too personal but u get my point i hope #🌿 #aroace #aspec #personal

[kiwinatorwaffles]

we all know saiki is the aroace king but the manga confirms that hairo, too, is an aroace king as well

(context: kuboyasu and kaidou were convinced that he was gay because he didn't really care for girls' chocolates on valentines) (and also a myriad of other things) (but im not saying all that here read the chapter for yourself) (for those wondering its vol 13 ch 134)

#ive always been an aroace hairo truther so glad i have basis now #also that was straight up the funniest fucking chapter ive ever read #the disastrous life of saiki k. #saiki k #hairo kineshi #kiwi’s aspec posting

[iamaqueerbitch]

#lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #lgbt pride #queer #lesbian #gay #straight #bisexual #pansexual #omnisexual #asexual #aroace #aromantic #arospec #aspec #transgender #cishet #cisgender #nonbinary #intersex #pangender #genderfluid #tumblr polls #my polls #polls #random survey #sampling bias probably #science #scientific study

[arofulboyfriend]

I'll be so honest, I really think that if we're ever gonna make any progress against the growing trend of respectability politics and authoritarian informed infighting in the queer community, we aspecs need to start pushing our fellow queers to challenge their own deeply held amatonormative beliefs and biases, especially before they commit to activism and maybe even before they commit to their own romantic and sexual relationships. The recent spike in aspec exclusionism proves that alloallo queers are not inherently immune from perpetuating amatonormativity, and the sooner we can collectively agree to unlearn that, I think the better off we'll be

#aspec #arospec #acespec #im not in the aplatonic or afamiliar communities so i dont wanna crosstag but feel free to rb #actually aroace #actually aromantic #actually asexual #asexual #aromantic #aroace #Amatonormativity #seren yaps #is this anything or is it 9am after i woke up at 6 and im tired as hell #this is an aroace blog so i try to keep posts relevant to that but to be clear as a transmasc #this also absolutely applies to the rampant man hating straight up misandry against queer and trans men

[siriusly-remu]

i need to know what everyone else thinks.

please reblog for a larger sample size!

#elsa #queen elsa #frozen #disney #disney frozen #frozen 2 #aromantic #asexual #aroace #gay #lgbtq+ #straight #aspec #poll #tumblr polls #my polls