#he's nonbinary fight me

[everyothermouse]

I love it when victims are written as actual characters and not just victims. Characters who are just written to be poor suffering bodies at the hands of murderers and abusers are BORING. If I'm being really honest with you, I would much rather read about interesting and dynamic victim than an interesting abuser, even though I like writing both.

#thats what i love abt cayanne. if you took away his abuse storyline hed still be a full character wirh a storyline #and within the story hes actually written with ALL the emotions of an abuse victim. hes angry and depressed and fawning trying not to be #hurt and fighting trying not to be hurt and doing everything he can but ultimately feeling lost and hopeless and!!!! #HES ALSO A NONBINARY MAN. HAVE I EVER MENTIONED HOW IMPORTANT REPRESENTING MALE VICTIMS IS!!!!! #also no im not misgendering him he identifies as a nonbinary man. hes both bcus hes cool like that #i could ramble about him forever i love everything abt him #i love his personality i love his age i love his design i love his guilt i love him #ALSO THE BASE POST OF THIS IS ALSO ABOUT EDGAR. BTW #not my oc but omg i love edgar. edgar is such a good victim char #i hate to even boil him down to being a victim because edgar is SUCH a full character to me ugh i love him #not art #cayanne

[ceaselessbasher]

I don't think I ever noticed that in the episode Football, it is explicitly stated that BMO uses he/him pronouns while Football uses she/her pronouns

#football says: 'HE says for you guys to treat HER I mean me as nice as you treated HIM' #neat detail #btw bmo is a he/him nonbinary fight me #adventure time #at #bmo #adventure time football

[oldestmovieieversaw]

crazy to me that whenever pete posts innocuous shit everyone is suddenly a detective and a gender studies professor but when it comes to the very concrete proof that pete abused an underage heroin addict nobody knows anything

#the pete gender stuff is literally not that serious sorry #if u wanna headcanon him go ahead have fun #but so many people treat every single post of his like its some secret proof that he is ACTUALLY a nonbinary trans woman or whatever #once again if thats fun for u go ahead and post idgaf! but so many people get into like serious fights and discourse about it and like #put that energy into a fanfic or something bro #also on a more serious note it actually is so sick how many people totally ignore or straight up deny what he did to jeanae. #textbook victim blaming in some cases #tldr tumblr fandom bullshit is not the cutting edge of social justice people often treat it as. its tumblr fandom bs #cloaked in academic language so it sounds like its more than that. it is not #this is not talking about anyone specific just general trends ive noticed in the past few months being active on fob tumblr that bother me #also if u want to defend what pete did to jeanae in any capacity argue with the wall i do not have time for victim blaming

[strangelyregular]

first time doing a colorpicked pride flag! next time i am doing this in paint

#bsd #bungou stray dogs #pride edit #colorpicked pride flags #nonbinary #color picked flags #bungo stray dogs #sigma #sigma bsd #he's/they've got nonbinary swag what can i say #practically had to fight with gimp (as in open-source photoshop) to make this. maybe these pride edits are NOT complicated enough #to require the usage of fancy photoshopping apps #when i could simply do them in ms paint instead like so many other versions of me from days past

[andro-dino]

they both get to wear the shirt

#mfb #metal fight beyblade #aleksei beyblade #ian garcia #hope u didn’t think you’d seen the last of these guys #u cannot take away nonbinary he/she/they aleksei and bigender he/she ian from me #it’s real they told me themselves

[thewhizzyhead]

you know when you get a friend that was even more "tomboyish" than you were in your teens and then as the both of you grow up and enter college, you see them explore expressing themselves more femininely and absolutely fall in love with it and with the concept of womanhood - while you on the other hand become all the more estranged with "being a woman" because good God you really don't fucking get it and that seeing your once-tomboyish friend find joy and an emotional connection to womanhood makes you really realize that you have no such connection whatsoever, hence making you feel left behind in actually "becoming a woman"? Anyways what I'm trying to say here is I'm definitely not fucking cis-

#when i told my cis girl classmates that i feel nothing but indifference towards the concept of womanhood or girlhood #they felt really fuckin sorry for me #and i'm like my bros my dudes i dont really give that much of a fuck for something i don't really understand in the first place #like of course i know feminist theory and all that and as someone born a woman i know and experience and study gender struggles deeply #be it with double standards or dealing with gross perverted dudes #that being said - i dont know what being a woman is outside of our shared struggle in patriarchal structures #like when u take away all the shit we definitely need to fight for - what else is there left for me to enjoy on a personal level #and the answer to that is nothing because i never really gave a fuck about gender be it now or as a child #perhaps its due to my upbringing as well na like i was more responsibility minded but still #to see once really tomboyish classmates grow to love being a woman makes me feel lonely because how can i love a concept i cant comprehend #so anyways when i told this dilemma to a nonbinary-questioning friend of mine he jumped with joy because BESTIE SOLIDARITY #and my bro here was never female to begin with and yet he fully understood my disconnect to concepts of gender #and the coming of age rites that come with them like 'nagiging dalaga na talaga' 'ay nagbibinatilyo na to' #so um yea #thats my ramvle for today and my update on my gender crisis #i dont mind being called a woman tho like im used to it and it doesnt unnerve me - but id rather not be like trapped in having to be that #so um woo #personal shit

[darrengrave]

As a transmasc, I would've loved it if they had NOT decided to suddenly write Jim as wlw. That's SUCH a major peeve of mine.

#ofmd #idc about the he/him lesbian debate if that's your experience cool i love that for you #its not mine #having those labels CONSTANTLY pushed on me despite not even liking women is my experience though #gets really damn old after awhile #idc if jim is bi or has a romance with a woman either #what is annoying is that it suddenly has people talking like he's a woman in the script though #im not mad its just SUCH a common assumption and it really bothers me because i have really nothing to do with the entire spectrum of wlw #i never have #outside of general queer solidarity #i love the women in our community and there's a very important reason lesbian is first in the lgbt anagram #its just not my personal experience and im so gd tired of people assuming it is #jim can be nonbinary no problem but maybe like address that so it's not yet another transman forced into the box of lesbian or bi woman? #i really like the new character too she seems really cool #but maybe don't call forcing them to fight misogynistic as a joke if last i checked one of them doesn't id as a woman?? #just hoping the language around jim doesn't stay like that through the rest of the season

[imhyperfixatingrn]

Lil drafted story abt Jargyle and Jonathan's gender identity. I can't write for shit, bear with me.

Jonathan looked outside the vans window, smoking on the blunt as he distantly listened to Argyle rambling or humming or something like that. He's been doing a lot of thinking lately, a lot of thoughts that gave him this antsy edge that even the weed had a hard time getting rid of. It always helped though, and Argyles company helped too.

He realized Argyle had put that cheesy song on, the one he had played over and over for a week now. And when he wasn't playing it on tape he had been humming it, everywhere he went. Not that on song "Pass the dutchie", no this one was about love, which wouldn't be surprising because Argyle had a big sweet soft heart, when you got to know him.

"Something happens when I'm head over heals hm-hm.."

He heard his friend sing to himself, along with his tape that started to get glitches because of how much it was played.

"Why have you been listening to that song on loop? Didn't take you for a Tears for Fears guy.." Jonathan asked. And when he spoke he realized he was higher than he thought he was.

Argyle looked over at him like he almost forgot Jonathan was here in the first place.

" I don't know dude, sometimes, love songs, they get me all dreamy and shit, guess I'm a hopeless romantic."

Oh, and that made Jonathan's heart a little warm. Argyle, once you got to know him, was a sweet, kind, selfless guy, who was full of love to give out to everyone he met. That man didn't have a single bad bone in his body.

And sometimes Jonathan found himself wondering what it would be like to be with Argyle, in a romantic way. Since Argyle had so much love to give, and Jonathan realized after his breakup with Nancy that he was kind of affection-deprived. And that's how he came to the conclusion that he was probably queer, and probably crushing hard on his best friend.

"So... What, you got like, a crush right now? That's why you get all cheesy with this song?" He asked, tried not to let anything show outside of pure curiosity, no hope, no disappointment, no personal interest in the answer.

Argyle sighed dramatically, a whole cloud of smoke escaped his mouth and he closed his eyes for a second. Jonathan started to stress, why would he react like that? Did he not want to talk about it? Should Jonathan just shut up, like usual? Definitely.

"I feel like I like most people I meet, you know, man?" Argyle said after reopening his eyes. He still said that with his lighthearded tone so Jonathan untensed.

But, no, he did not know what Argyle meant. Most 'people' he met? Why would he say 'people' and not chicks? Because then Jonathan counted as a person he had met and that might have meant that Argyle was also... Not straight. Maybe. Maybe not. Maybe Jonathan was delusional.

"But enough about me, brochacho, I can see you've been worrying your pretty little head about something lately. What's up dude?"

Again, Jonathan be damned, for a man as high as a kite 24/7, Argyle had the observation skills of the century. And he knew how to help people so, might as well.

Jonathan knew he would never talk about it if it wasn't for the weed making it seem like a normal thing, and the fact that he knew Argyle and Argyle was chill about everything so...

"Well.." He started, unsure and tried to organize his thoughts. "Have you ever felt like, you know, like you don't feel connected to being a man? I don't know how to say it, um..."

Once he said it out loud, it sounded way less normal and way more queer than he thought. He didn't want to make that a big deal, obviously, but this weird feeling in the back of his head was getting a bit more annoying, the longer he couldn't figure it out.

Argyle turned around towards the back of the van, grabbed a bag of chips, opened it and put it between the both of them, the munchies kicking in he assumed.

"Hm." Argyle ate a chip and fought out every single word in his response, with a look of focus on his face. "Well, I've read abt transsexuals in a library in L.A. Do you feel like a chick instead of a dude?

He said that with such a calm and so genuinely that Jonathan wanted to sob. How was he so lucky to have met this golden guy who made his life better everyday?

"No, I, um... it's like I don't feel like a guy, but, like, I don't feel like a girl either... Sorry it's stupid, I just.."

Jonathan backtracked, he felt dumb. he thought a guy feeling like a girl or vice versa would make actual sense, even though he had never heard of it before. But someone feeling like nothing, feeling like neither, that sounded so foreign, like something that he made up in his own stupid brain.

"No, no, brochacho, I don't know much about it but I've heard of people who feel like neither, or both, or it's more complicated than that it's like, like a spectrum, dude. But you don't have to be anything. You can just be Jonathan."

'You can just be Jonathan.'

This time he was going to sob for real. He felt small tears in the corner of his eyes, not enough to actually start crying but he was well on his way. God, how did he manage to find someone like Argyle and actually maintain that friendship. He felt like he would be nowhere and lost in life without these warm brown eyes to watch over him like an angel.

He just plonged forward, ignoring the dying bag of chips between them, and wrapping himself on Argyle like he was his lifeline and he was drowning, which was how he felt, on the daily.

"Hey, dude, you're okay, I... I'm here,"

Argyle was probably confused, considering Jonathan was never the one initiating physical contact, even though he was touch starved.

Jonathan got himself off Argyle, returning to his space but still having his body turned towards his best friend, and now they were closer than they had realized.

"How did you know so much, about the gender stuff...?"

"Well, I read about it while I was figuring my own shit out, dude."

Jonathan froze. What did that mean? That Argyle was somehow 'gender-queer' also, or something else? Figuring his sexuality?

The questioning look on Jonathan's must have been too evident because Argyle explained:

"I told you I like everyone, not litteraly, but I can like dudes and dudettes and others, no matter the gender, no matter the junk, you know? I also fall in love all the time so that too."

Jonathan swallowed, his heart beating a bit fast for his liking. So that meant Argyle was, what? Bisexual or something like that. Definitely not straight. Jonathan's mind flared with hopes that he tried to shut down.

"Hm. I am too, I mean, not exactly like you but I'm queer too, I like both, I think. I'm still not sure about everything."

Argyle had given such a clear perfect explanation and Jonathan was rambling, he sounded Iike he didn't know a single thing about himself today.

"Yeah I gathered, brochacho." Argyle said, lighthearded, chuckling a bit.

What? What had given his sexuality away? Or was it the whole gender conversation? It didn't make sense.

Again Argyle sensed the questions hanging in the air.

He grabbed Jonathan's cheek with a firm but gentle touch, looked him right in the eyes with a big smile.

"It's the way you look at me, dude."

Then he slightly turned Jonathan's head to the side and kissed his cheek, like it was normal, usual behavior, like he had done it a thousand time before. Jonathan gasped and felt heat rise in his face, his heart was beating like crazy, he felt helpless and yet envolepped in happiness. Argyle released his cheek with a content expression and started slowly gathering his stuff.

"Well, brochacho, I don't wanna leave you so soon but I gotta get back to work so... I'll call you tonight, talk more, whaddya say dude?"

Jonathan could only smile shyly and nod, like an idiot. He really didn't know where he would be without this gem of a person that was Argyle, he didn't think he would ever fall in love properly but, in the end, he did, and it felt so incredibly idle.

I never find out till I'm head over heels...💕

#and then they talk about pronouns and Jonathan ends up using They/He #dont be mad at argyle for saying transexual the term transgender didnt exist in the 80s #the term pansexual didnt exist either but Argyle invented it fight me #jargyle #stranger things #jonathan byers #argyle #jonathan x argyle #nonbinary #pansexual #jonathan uses queer as a label #like hes unlabeled yk #i cant write

[jankwritten]

hm.

#maybe it's time i put some actualy thought into the possibility that i'm autistic #because the more i read about it #the more it becomes very clear that every facet of my mental disorders could. very easily stem from autism in some way shape or form #my anxiety #my social anxiety specifically #my thing about specific noises and foods as sensory related issues #the way that burnout affects me and also the way that I can't verbalise how things are specifically in my brain #a lot of my other attributes like my gender/sexuality also align with more autistic behaviors but that's obviously not a telltale sign #aroace nonbinary people are not all automatically autistic #i always go in circles with myself about this because my brother has an autism diagnosis #or at least he has been tested and been given a 'very likely' kind of answer #but my mom has ADHD #(her dad and her brother are also suspected to be on the spectrum but they've never been tested) #but every time I bring up the possibility of me being autistic with ANYONE outside of my friends it immediatley gets shut down #idk how to feel about it anymore #but me being autistic would explain so much? but also i don't want people to just think that i'm using that label because it's #like 'hip' nowadays or whatever the fuck in online spaces for people to self diagnose autism and shit like that #i'm just really tired of fighting with myself 24/7 about this #so. #it's a label i want to be able to use because it makes SENSE and it explains so much about me? #but i don't know for sure and i don't know if i ever will #tonight's one of those nights man #i am once again oversharing on the internet #the depths of the blog #not pjo #not omgcp #not fandom

[chikagestits]

Chikage is nonbunary U^ェ^U

#I just did it for the pun #jk he’s actually nonbinary fight me

[bludhavensbirdboy]

washing your binder in the bathroom sink at 2am because your parents are transphobic core ❤️❤️

#it’s giving that ultimate trans experience #romanticising my life #I’m living my life right now I just want nap but no it’s binder wash Time wtf #and then I have to find a way to dry it without it being obvious in my room like why is this such a hard task every 1/2 weeks #besties fighting for his life right now pray for me #transgender #trans #transmasc #transfem #nonbinary #NB #enby #queer #lgbtq #lgbt #he/him #they/them #they/he

[finnlessshark]

i have this very odd feeling that 2023 is gonna be the year my mother disowns me again..

#i've been avoiding using tom's pronouns and just referring to them by name with her #mainly bc she said she was gonna throw some money my way at the end of december #and as bad as it is i wanted to stay friendly up until that point #mostly bc she kiiiiiinda owes me #but i see no sign of it and tom has given me permission to tell her they're out as nonbinary even though we both know it'll cause a fight #btw this will be the 5th disowning if it does occur #but tyler why would it cause a fight? you use he/they? #YEAH I DO but she refuses to acknowledge the they part bc she thinks they/them pronouns are [ableist slur] #HENCE WHY IT WOULD CAUSE A FIGHT

[grubloved]

i think finnstr is delightful to me because in a lot of ways he is single handedly reintroducing everybody to being a transvestite as like, a thing. to cross-dressing as a lifestyle. nobody could look at this guy and tell me he's not a little bit queer -- he's definitely not standard model -- but our modern taxonomy doesnt have a spot for him: he isn't trans (in its current definition), but he also isn't really cis.

it's interesting because it was only relatively recently that transvestitism got shoved out of the official rainbow flag. our modern definition of trans as just "transgender" is a reduced capacity of what it was just ten years ago, when "trans*" was often used to mean "transgender, transsexual, transvestite, genderqueer, nonbinary, etc".

i think the main "party line" of the marriage equality movement being "we should be allowed to be weird because we were born this way, we don't have a choice" did some major damage but one of the most significant was definitely the removal of people who do "have a choice" from the "community" entirely. transvestites got kind of entirely booted, and people fight about whether bisexuals or asexuals should be allowed because they "have a choice to blend in". finnstr does have a choice, but he keeps making it. why should that preclude him from being queer?

#scraps book #i love the little explosion of people who become aware of finnstr and then start dressing up cute on their own #it's contagious :3 #birdenest #queer

[r3ynah]

THE FAMILY OF BEAUTIES

The girls the boys they all like Carmen.

(In this scenario Carmen is the fentons).

I just want to headcanon, that the Fenton's have a ethereal type of beauty, not sexy or hot. Ethereal, like if you didn't know that they're a family of Mad scientist, a obsessive therapist and a dead boy. they could've passed as deity's.

And the amity park's citizens can and will totally agree, they might've disagree and fight for a lot of things but the only thing they can agree on was the Fenton's was down to earth beautiful.

Like Jack Fenton for example, He has built that can seemingly bench you without any hesitation, but a himbo at heart, the greys of his hair compliments way it mixes with the black hair of his, if Jack isn't in his ghost hunting suit, he is pretty decent when it comes to his fashion sense, When Jazz first brought along her friends, the first thing they asked was if Jack was single, which caused Jazz to smack their heads individually with a newspaper.

And don't get me started with Madeline Fenton, because I cannot stop when it comes to her, My girl with her short straight Reddish-brown hair, looks like a masculine but also feminine beauty, Can and will bench you, if you have any ill intent towards her family, she came from a long line of riches if I say so myself. Tall as fuck, about 6'7 while Jack is 7'0. very elegant when it comes to fighting, that it looks like she's just dancing, Was titled as a Milf by Danny's classmate which made the boy groan in annoyance, Sam and Tucker calls out to Maddie and says "Mother is Mothering", just to get something out of Danny who looks at them with disgust knowing full well what they were trying to do. While Maddie is just happy for the kids to see her as a mother figure.

Now Jazz, My love, my girl. Her long Red hair that came down to her hips, and her blue eyes, made all the girls and boys in her college swoon, with her 6'4 figure she strutted down the halls with confidence, beauty and brains everyone would oh so called it, and her knowledge in martial arts didn't lessen her attractiveness, The humans and ghosts can agree with that delightfully.

And now her dearest sibling Danny, Danny is a nonbinary fuck that can gender envy anyone he meets, that's why he got bullied in the first place, he was too fucking beautiful and handsome at the same time, all the boys and girls of his school have atleast had a crush on him, He was the only cute boy there, what could they do? He stared at them with his icey colored eyes that made their legs tremble from the pressure, and that black hair that always seemed messy but in a good way. It didn't help when he got that lichtenberg scar, that ran up his neck and the side of his face. you should've seen him in P.E cause my guy got everyone staring at him.

And the Fenton family has fashion sense, if they really put their mind and soul into it, everytime they dressed up for a family reunion or just an outing it was a very sweet treat for everyone's eyes. like how it is right now.

The Amity parkers waved goodbye at the Fenton's as they went on and attended a gala they were invited to, it was supposedly because of the sudden rise and popularity of their works and how's it been helping the environment.

One citizen sighed as he looked at the car that family was driving as it slowly became smaller and smaller.

"You think they can handle Gotham, heard nasty thing bout that place." She questioned

"Girl, Gotham should be the one readying to handle them, that family may be beautiful, but their crazy." Her friend's answered

"well that does give them a more attractive look isn't it?"

"I hate how you're right."

__

The Gala the Fenton's went to certainly had an awkward atmosphere when they went inside, all the guest kept staring at them that it was starting to get creepy, did they overdress or underdressed, come on just walk towards start to talk or criticize them, because it's starting to get embarrassing for the family.

Gotham wasn't fucking prepared to meet the Fentons like as in, They had been awestrucked when the family walked in. A very tall man seemingly in his 40's with his hair gelled back, and a suit that fitted him too perfectly, gosh dang, even the homophobic guests couldn't help but stare, And then there was his Wife her straight her was curled and brushed out leaving a wavy effect that compliments her face shape, and that dress she was wearing was utterly gorgeous, fancy but also simple and mature, the heels certainly helped her height more and made her look more intimidating, The ladies blushed when she looks at them and smiles.

And don't get them started with the couples children, who looked adorable and elegant at the same time, The older sister had a aura that says: 'Im in your presence bow down' (And they would've if it was in a more private area due to the paparazzi's out the window). She wore a spaghetti strapped dress that had a slit on either side and was , making it more comfortable to move in for the girl, partnered by a white shawl made of silk, she had heels that also complimented he already tall stature, her hair was tied in a neat bun, with a few strands free to not make her face feel bare. And lastly the youngest everyone assumed, wearing a suit, double-breasted suit that was elegant and sophisticated it matched the way his hair is messed up for him to still look young, he was also wearing a black shawl that had specks of white making it look like stars. The family had a colour scheme of green, that made all gothamites present swoon, Including a certain family of bats.

(I might make a fanart of this later.)

#dp x dc crossover #dp x dc #dpdc #dp x dc prompt #dp x dc fanfic #dc x dp crossover #dpxdc fanart #dc x dp #dpxdc #danny is nonbinary #the fentons are beautiful #amity park is just built different #Spotify

[that-ineffable-devil]

I'm processing a lot of emotions tonight and I keep being drawn back to Good Omens--not just because it's the new hyperfixation or because it's so good. That's what I thought it was, at first.

But this year--hell, the last 3 or 4 months especially, I finally started taking steps to accepting and being myself. I'm rapidly approaching middle age and I'm only just now beginning to feel like I'm allowed to be me. I came out to the people in my household, a few select friends, and a few select family members--most of whom were wholly supportive. I started testosterone injections. I stopped trying to be someone I'm not. I stopped hiding who I am and who I love.

What does this have to do with Good Omens? Nothing. But also... Everything.

So much queer representation is in characters vastly younger than me--and that's good! I want queer kids to feel safe and loved and accepted in ways I never did. They deserve better than we had. And it gives me hope for their futures. I bawled like a baby when I watched The Owl House with my son and he was totally unphazed by the queerness. It's just how people are to him.

But when something like Good Omens comes along and not only grabs every opportunity to show average, everyday old(er) queer representation... It just. I've never felt more seen. More accepted. More hope for all our futures. And season 2 just knocked that out of the fucking park. And the nonbinary, genderfluid, and genderqueer rep? My God.

And it's not subtext, it's not it's own separate plotline where they're fighting for acceptance or dealing with hateful bigotry... It's just... Accepted. It's normal. No one questions it. No one even comments on it.

It's people of any age (even millions of years old) being unapologetically themselves and loving who they love openly and fully (with one notable uncommunicative group of two ineffable idiots, but they'll get there).

I just.

I can't express how grateful I am to see older queer rep at this time in my life. It's been a rough year, and I expect it'll get rougher before it gets better. But I've never been happier in my own skin, and it means the absolute world to see my literary and media heroes like Neil Gaiman, David Tennant, and Michael Sheen (and Terry Pratchett and everyone who worked on Good Omens, honestly) making this beautiful, messy, adorable, excruciating, wonderful, heartbreaking, ethereal, down-to-earth tale.

There aren't enough words in all the languages of the world to express how I'm feeling. "Thank you" just feels... Insufficient.

I just hope they know how much it means to people like me, especially after a lifetime of buried subtext and overt queerbaiting and media ridicule and general lack of acceptance, to experience this story with them.

#And I get it #This should be the norm not the exception #But if we don't appreciate the exceptions when they come along #They'll never become the norm #thank you #with all my heart #neil gaiman #david tennant #michael sheen #good omens 2 #good omens season 2 #good omens #queer #nonbinary #genderqueer #genderfluid #lgbtq+ #lgbtqia+ #representation matters #ineffable idiots

[pkmnprideflags]

Cute spoopy boi 😊

#Morty #nonbinary #pokémon #pride flag edit #He's supes cute fight me