#homoromantic

[wilkenslouisa]

#rachel #woc #icons psd #homoromantic #ashton 5sos #fat #mod starry #mha oc #toned

[avenpt]

Romantic Orienations

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#romantic orientation #aromantic #aro #lithromantic #fictoromantic #homoromantic #heteroromantic #panromantic #biromantic #lgbtqia #demiromantic #questioning #poll #queer #lgbtq

[beawritingbooks]

Here is how I explained asexuality to my mother:

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My Mom: What exactly is asexual?

Me: It means that I experience little to no sexual attraction.

My Mom: I just don’t understand that. You thought [name redacted] was cute.

Me: I still think [name redacted] is cute. I just don’t experience any sexual attraction towards them.

My Mom: That doesn’t make any sense to me.

Me: Well, I can recognize when someone is ugly, cute, uniquely hot, and when they are considered sexy, but I still don’t experience sexual attraction to any of them.

My Mom: I’m not saying that you don’t feel this way, or that I don’t believe you, but how could that be possible?

Me: Okay, so, let’s say that I have 4 pairs of shoes in front of me. The first pair are crocs, the second pair are ballet flats, the third pair are those chunky spice girls platform sandals, and the fourth pair are red stilettos.

My Mom: Okay…

Me: Now, I would classify the crocs as an ugly shoe. Do you agree?

My Mom: Yes.

Me: I would classify the ballet flats as cute.

My Mom: So would I.

Me: I would classify the platform sandals as ugly-hot. I know you hate them, but they call to me, and I still love them to this day. Does that make sense?

My Mom: *laughing* Yes.

Me: Lastly, I would classify the red stilettos as hot and/or sexy. Like, that’s a sexy shoe.

My Mom: Absolutely!

Me: Okay, now, even though I can recognize that these shoes have varying degrees of attractiveness, I do NOT want to fuck the shoes…and that is also how I feel about people.

My Mom: Ooohhhh, that makes way more sense to me. I get it now. Well, I don’t “get it,” because I’m straight, but I understand what you mean.

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Basically, this is how I felt trying to explain things:

#aspec #asexual #asexuality #demisexual #graysexual #aspec stuff #demiromantic #grayromantic #aromanitc #aspec pride #aspec community #aspec friendly #biromantic #homoromantic #panromantic

[holy-ground-tv]

How Queer Is Tumblr?: Year 2 (Romantic Orientation)

read below the cut for the backstory/update on last years polls

sexual orientation poll || romantic orientation poll || gender identity poll

ok, so hi! this is my main blog. i’m tom, formerly known as t0mbles on this main blog (now the url is moved to my secondary blog), and last year, around this time, i made a ‘how queer is tumblr’ poll asking people which queer identity they are and seeing which one is the most popular. the poll blew up and people liked it but some identified with multiple identities (like a trans lesbian for example) and so i made two separate polls; one for gender and one for sexuality. and that worked out well!

its been a year now; and i want to see if the results will change. a lot of people from twitter and other platforms came in, fandoms changed, and some people have changed their identities altogether! so i’m making 3 polls this year. a sexuality poll, a romantic orientation poll, and a gender poll. i added the romantic poll because i put aromantic on my sexuality poll last year, but that isn’t really a sexuality, is it? so i want to see how that effects things now. that’s the jist of it!

#tom polls #lgbtq #gay #lesbian #homoromantic #biromantic #panromantic #romantic #aromantic #aroace #pride #tom’s greatest hits

[boob-gremlin]

”oh i don’t know if i’m [thing] or [other thing]!”

TAKE BOTH.

do it.

BE BOTH

“but i can’t do that!”

who said you can’t?

if anyone did, fuck them, and be both.

#two shots says shit #lgbtqia #lesbian #gay #bisexual #transgender #queer #genderqueer #arospec #aromantic #asexual #acespec #aspec #aromantism #aromantic asexual #aroace #asexuality #nonbinary #intersex #biromantic #homoromantic #queer community

[siriusblackslastmarsbar]

I’ll pay for your nails if you promise me they’ll be running through my hair later, preferably with you lying over my chest watching some random tv show I’m only watching because you like it:

#lesbian #masc lesbian #butch lesbian #butch #dyke #butch dyke #butch pride #gay #homoerotic #homoromantic #asexual #im a minor

[gaygrayfox]

#gay #queer #men loving men #gay men #gay love #homosexuality #homoerotism #homoromantic

[spontaneousglitterbees]

happy pride to whatever these two have going on specifically

#danganronpa #dr #ndrv3 #killing harmony #kaito momota #kokichi ouma #TAPP AU #TAPP AU adjacent #asexual #bisexual #homoromantic #lgbtq #pride month #the only definitive descriptor for their relationship in this AU is 'traumabonded' #possibly 'those two guys' #glittersart

[cinthean-yearning]

yo it would be so funny if we held hands. and sat close to eachother. and if u let me put my head on your shoulder. and if we cuddled. and maybe even kissed a little. and if u told me about ur interests and i tod u about mine. and if we could lie holding eachother in the comfort of our company. Haha but like only as a joke tho because that would b super funny lol.

#cinthean #gay #mlm #nblm #homoromantic #homosexual #gay gay homosexual

[doodle-nerd]

Okay so

Headcanon time because I feel like speaking my mind (also his face looks kinda weird I haven't learned how to draw him yet-)

#doodle #art #digital art #ambrosius goldenloin #nimona ambrosius #ambrosius fanart #ambrosius headcanon #nimona headcanon #nimona movie #lgbt #graysexual #homoromantic

[vampire-meta-knight]

Aces are queer BECAUSE they’re ace

It never ceases to piss me off that some ace exclusionists will claim you aren’t queer because you’re ace, but you are queer because you’re also homoromantic/biromantic/[insert any non-hetero and non-aro romantic attraction here].

I’m a sapphic ace. I am grayromantic, but the part of me that does feel romantic attraction feels it towards women, so I do identify with being a lesbian. However, I am far more of an asexual than a lesbian. I have more in common with asexuals, I am more impacted by my asexuality, and overall, it’s just a larger part of my identity and always has been. I knew I was ace long before I knew I liked girls.

I don’t fit in with allo lesbians--not all the way. There’s still that barrier there. I like women romantically and aesthetically, but not sexually. I can’t relate to a lot of lesbian experiences because of my lack of attraction and my sex-aversity, so although I still feel comfortable calling myself a lesbian, it doesn’t always feel like home in the same way “asexual” does.

Because I can relate to ace experiences. I do feel what aces feel. I feel the frustration of not being able to understand what allosexuals and alloromantics feel. I feel the anger at being the only one in a room who’s grossed out by sex and gets made fun of and infantilized for it. I feel the irritation at not being understood by those around you, how they just don’t understand that you aren’t interested in dating, don’t want to have sex, don’t find people attractive. I feel the internal pain of questioning yourself over and over, of feelings changing and wondering if you’ve been wrong about yourself all along, or feeling like you can’t change because you fear it would just prove everyone else right--that it was a “phase” and you did just need to “grow up” or “meet the right person” or “try it once to see if you like it” and denying your own complexity and fluidity to fit in the narrow box of what society thinks asexual is, all so they can’t invalidate you. I feel the despair at feeling broken, at fearing you’re missing out on something wonderful, at wishing you were something you weren’t just so you could fit in with everyone else and finally know what’s so great about being allo.

I am queer because I am ace. I am queer because I am grayromantic. I am queer because I’m sapphic. I am queer because I don’t belong with the alloromantic straights. I am queer because they way I view romance and sexuality is different from the mainstream.

My identity is shaped by many parts. I am queer because of all of them together, not by only one on its own.

#asexual #asexual positivity #queer #ace experience #sapphic ace #asexual lesbian #fuck exclusionists #ace #homoromantic #grayromantic #my thoughts #mine

[anewgayeveryday]

Today's LGBT+ Character is;

Abbi Singh from The Imperfects-Asexual Lesbian

Requested by Anon

Status; Alive

#Abbi Singh #The Imperfects #asexual #lesbian #homoromantic #lgbt #character of the day #wlw #tv shows #lgbt poc #aspec #requested #fandoms i'm not in #alive #LGBTQueue

[snowcapmt]

I FOUND THESE COMMENTS IN THE WILD ON INSTAGRAM IF YOU FIND MORE LIKE THIS THAT FIT CERTAIN CHARACTERS PLEASE SEND THEM TO ME LOL original usernames are edited out and replaced for the sake of the OPs privacies LMAO

#danganronpa nagito #komahina #sdr2 nagito #sdr2 au #sdr2 #pride #kazuichi souda #sdr2 kazuichi #danganronpa kazuichi #pansexual #homoromantic #gay mlm #mlm #gay #not ship art between Kaz and Nagito btw #though that’s a fun idea it’s not my thing lol #I’m imagining Nagito is asking Hajime to put the leash on him LOL #and Hajime is also making Kaz question is sexuality #Hajime makes everyone gay #yes I used homoromantic for Nagito #I do headcanon him as Asexual #I PROMISE there’s a way to make that makes sense #to those of you who might not fully understand the ace umbrella #He is indifferent ace in my AUs #AND hyperromantic LOL #meaning he doesn’t experince naughty attraction #but he isn’t grossed out by the concept as a whole #and enjoys the romantic side of it

[fwags]

#bi lesbian #bisexual lesbianism #pan lesbian #pan lesbianism #mspec lesbian #multisexual #biromantic lesbian #lesbian positivity #contrapunk #contradictory labels #terms #harmonial #label #liom safe #mogai friendly #queer posts #panromantic lesbian #homoromantic #homosexual #abrosexual #multi #m spec