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ladiemars · 2 months

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I said “oh boy this Halsin fic sure is nice. I should look at this person’s other fics” and lo and behold it’s the same writer of my favorite Carver / OC fics!?!? Ladiesmars. Like from Carver and Falon!?!?

Anyways, love your writing and your art. Thank you for your service

YOU ARE SO WELCOME ᡣ𐭩 falon and carver are such a deep cut, it makes me so happy that you not only know of them but enjoy those fics too !!

if you like carver and halsin you must have elite taste my friend (and by that i mean the same taste as me (>ᴗ•) !)

#i hope to write more falon and carver some day #i really do adore them #mars talks #asks

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genyasglockk · 1 year

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shut the fuck up bc it meant so much to bo-katan that din, this man that she's been at odds with until just recently, pledged his loyalty to her and recognized her as a leader. he believes in her. he saw the way her self doubt was eating at her and making her falter so he stepped up and tried to inspire confidence in her. he's a man of few words and she knows this. having din speak so plainly and openly about his faith in her leadership was so powerful. their relationship has blossomed so beautifully. bo needs someone like din at her side. someone to be her right-hand and a supporter. they make such a great team <33

#the mandalorian spoilers #the mandalorian #bo katan kryze #din djarin #star wars #lesbian and bisexual solidarity yup !!!#I really do adore them

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heretherebedork · 2 years

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Awww, tiny Maitoh not getting heard because of the fangirls and not having the bravery to repeat himself (understandably!) and watching Green get more and more jealous of the relationship that isn't but that Maitoh wants and I love them so much, okay? I love Maitoh and his crush on Shogun and Green's crush on Maitoh and the friendship between them all.

#why you... y me?#why you y me #why you... y me #thaibl #thai drama #thai series #bl drama #bl seris #shogun x maitoh #maitoshogun #maito x shogun #shogun x maito #shogunmaito #maitoh x shogun #i really do adore them

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giantkillerjack · 1 year

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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

#hlep #original #mental health #my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need.#the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it #i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support #and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist.#the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28!#a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents.#they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of #huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the #longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong.#and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives.#you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead?#or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of.#no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow.#i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel #i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong.#just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop

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barawrah · 2 months

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beloved

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catmanbowser · 4 months

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his biggest fan is in fact his own little brother

#tim drake #dick grayson #nightwing #robin #dc #catman's art #im on the roof and i needed to do a vent drawing where i adore my own brother but i also wish im close to him like before #im jealous of them. i really am.#i hate where i am right now. i wish i can talk like a normal person instead of being intimidated by him.#anyways its cold tonight and the wind’s lovely <3

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egophiliac · 9 months

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so on the subject of the "Crowley is secretly Revaan/Laverne/Levin/please Twst give us his name" theory, I think my feelings are best summed up as "I don't really buy it, but it's funny". like, in all seriousness, I'm not opposed to it; I have enjoyed the writing in Twst so far and I'm willing to trust that whatever happens will, you know, make sense and not be terrible. but I'm just not really convinced by the current evidence! maybe that'll change once we learn more, we'll see!

with that said, may I propose a few alternate theories about the possible Crowley/Revaan connection:

#art #twisted wonderland #twisted wonderland spoilers #twisted wonderland episode 7 spoilers #twisted wonderland book 7 spoilers #on this installment of things nobody asked but i'm going to talk about anyway #disclaimer that this is mostly a joke please don't get mad at me #(legit no shade to anyone) (speculation is one of the fun things about an ongoing fandom and you never know what'll turn out to be true!)#more seriously i do think there may be some connection that just isn't clear yet #but the more little breadcrumbs we get about what revaan was like the more i think crowley just doesn't act like him #i adore crowley don't get me wrong #(yes he's a dipshit. this is a feature not a bug.)#but like.#not to harp on the scene about lilia's nrc invitation (i am absolutely going to harp on it)#i do not believe that crowley would go through the trash to fish out the pieces and put them back together and save them #just because it was lilia's. just because lilia might want it again someday.#crowley can ✨yasashii✨ all he wants but we know what he's like #and i REALLY do not believe that lilia wouldn't recognize him. i didn't believe it before and i extra don't believe it now.#then again i do tend to be incredibly off about speculation so! who knows! i will trust the writing for now!#i do 100% believe that meleanor would fall in love with the world's biggest dumbass and then double down super hard. that part tracks.#that said i have decided that ambrose being revaan is actually the funnier option just because it would make crowley SO mad #it wouldn't make sense for him to be mad about it and that would just make him madder

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chloesimaginationthings · 2 months

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Are you more of FNAF or Jojo? (Ofc you will then say, I can be both-)

Why pick when they are so similar/hj

#ask reply #I GOT asked this recently on insta as well!#to sum it up I do like both!#JJBA and FNAF are probably the two series I’ve been most obsessed with?#where I literally draw it everyday #I adore both these series sm #and for very different reasons so it’s hard to truly compare them #though FNAF may be more near and dear to my heart #just cause I have nostalgia bias with it #JJBA is a newer thing but obviously it really hit right for me #anyway I’m spitting here #I could of kept going with comparisons but insta stories only have sm room

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beebox-illustrations · 1 year

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A rather short comic today, but enjoy ! 🌻🐝

#supernatural #sam winchester #being an adorable little nerd #dean winchester #having a slight crush on Johnny Lawrence?#brothers #doing their homework on a healthy diet 🥲#will I ever stop drawing them?#really don’t think so #beebox-illustrations #digital art #illustration #procreate #web comics #my art #you guys interested in stickers?

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gwyneirastorm · 2 years

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The super sweet lesbian couple across the street from me has a huge flag pole in their front yard. In order from top to bottom, they usually fly the American flag, the US Marines flag (cause they are both retired Marines, apparently thats how they met), and the progress pride flag. I love this couple so much. They are always super sweet to us. They bought my kid a present for his first birthday (that is easily one of his favorite toys; a rainbow ball, which made me giggle) and brought us food after we brought him home from the hospital. They came over the day after we moved in and brought us brownies to let us know they were excited that we had moved in. They have an extra key to our house in the event of an emergency because I would trust them before I trust a fucking cop to come in and help me or my child. I say all this to say that the surplus of old white people that live in our neighborhood tried to tell me that "that couple of gays in that house across the street from you are terrible people and they're a scourge."

They're not, but okay, Karen. They're actually delightful and you don't deserve to stand on the same ground as them, but go on.

Anyway...

The morning after the SC overturned Roe, I was loading my kid and all his crap into the car, buckling him in the carseat, when I saw one of the ladies outside taking the flags down. I just figured she was going to wash them--they usually do once a week because of the ridiculous amount of pollen that North MS has to suffer every year. I waved to her as we pulled out of the driveway and went on my way.

I got home later that afternoon and realized that she had put the flags back out, but that the American flag was now flying upside down. She and her partner were drinking margaritas in the driveway, enjoying all of the angry old white people driving by and honking at them for flying the flag upside down.

I waved to them, pointed to the flag and shouted, "Yes!" And then they toasted me and invited me and my son to come hang out with them and enjoy the Karen parade. We did, and we had a grand old time.

My lesbian neighbors are my favorite neighbors.

#josie rants #lesbian neighbors #i really do adore them #they make living in this karen-hole worth it

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turtleblogatlast · 26 days

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Small but significant character moments that I actually really adore are from both the times we see the boys as tots. There is a reoccurrence that happens in both of them that I find so incredibly interesting.

For the turtle tot short, Splinter leaves the boys with weapons. In the short, Raph is the one who suggests they do “what Lou Jitsu would do” and Leo is the one who takes point when Splinter comes back to reprimand them. Leo, in taking point, is the one to defend them and get Splinter off their tails.

And then, in the flashback regarding the Kuroi Yōroi helmet, Raph is the one who grabs and throws “Skully” as a way to replace their missing ball which breaks it into pieces, but Leo is the one who speaks for the group and rushes into action to fix the teapot.

I love this for multiple reasons, but the biggest are how it shows that Raph has always been inclined toward the bold and fun and making the plans to include his brothers in what he loves and believes they’d love, whereas Leo has always been inclined to be the “Face” of the group and shoulder the attention even if it’s potentially negative all while coming up with on the spot attempts to fix the situation.

#rottmnt #rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles #rottmnt raph #rottmnt leo #rise Raph #rise leo #I really do love this bit of character writing a ton #again it’s so small but like this is consistent!#little Raph just wanted to have fun with his bros 😭#Leo immediately coming in with the save both times (and more - remember Bug Busters?)#I really love too how none of them pointed fingers like #it was Understood that Leo would speak for them #listen there’s a reason Leo is the Face Man and it’s NOT just because he’s got a pretty face #he can talk both himself and his fam out of situations and I wish we saw it even more because it’s amazing to witness #circling back to Raph his bold nature is something I ADORE about him but I don’t see it brought up a lot which makes me so sad #like this boy is a RAPHAEL he is bold!!#and it’s cute too how the other bros immediately go along with it too #imo the Raph in these tot flashback is the same Raph that glues them all together as a bonding exercise #side note but damn…Leo saves them from punishment in the tot short and immediately gets jumped 😔#but yeah man I think a Lot about the little dynamics between the bros and how those dynamics could have first came into being #Leo being the face of the team and having been it since childhood-#-makes all the moments of immediately choosing to sacrifice himself when HE royally messes up all the more notable #if it’s one bro or the whole group individually he’s more chill about it but often still lets himself be the talker to get them out of it #he will do his damndest to get his brothers and himself out of trouble but once they’re in it he’s in the front with a smile #his own safety be damned #Raph is actually the same in that respect - he’ll jump into danger fists first but all bets are off when a brother is in danger #and like how Leo’s been the face - as the eldest Raph has been the de facto leader of sorts #he’s the one who is shown to make up their games! and I think that’s very cute #anyway their clashing in the movie is so interesting for a lot of reasons but one of them is that it shows how-#-even a longstanding dynamic like Raph and Leo’s that’s WORKED for so long is still susceptible to flaws…and to time

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lesbian-rook · 7 months

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my favorite new pair of tumblr sillywomen <3

#the amazing digital circus #buttonblossom #pomni x ragatha #tadc pomni #tadc ragatha #this is very much just a sketch and my first time drawing them but i'm honestly vibing with it :D #i think these two are so adorable both together and apart #i have such a crush on ragatha but a lot of people who know me know that rag doll characters are my weakness so not much of a shock there #i'll be honest Ragatha is really like ''oh no this woman is gonna abstract any minute''#shenanigans (and kissing] ensue XD #idk how much of them i'll draw but i had fun!#i do what i want-tober day 26

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royalarchivist · 2 months

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Pac: Oh, Nenê... How cute... 🥺💕

After dying to an atomic creeper in a cave and stressing over potentially losing all his items, Pac returns home to set his spawn and receives a sweet surprise:

His cat falls asleep on top of him and purrs when he goes to bed :')