#lesbian problems

[celebrate-lesbianism]

it's amazing how the non-violent, non-problematic, non-action of simply not shaving as a woman invites so much criticism

#by amazing I mean bad #lesbian #shaving #gnc #rant #mine #butch #lesbian problems #as an aside this is the first year I've fully fully stopped shaving and it's made me realize I basically only grow hair in one pit 💀

[hedgehology]

Just finished some more super silly art, Sappho and her Llama friend. “Oh my god, they were Llama-bians!”😳🦙

#hedgehology #Oh my god they were llama-bians #llama #llama art #sapphic #sapphic art #be gay do crimes #lgbt art #queer artist #sappho and her friend #Queer art #lesbian representation #pride art #llamas #lesbian erasure #lesbian problems #lesbian pride #my art #animal art #digital art #lgbt memes #sapphic meme #they were roommates #lesbian

[cozy-hours]

11/04/2023 ❤️‍🩹

#personal #blackout #black out #lgbt #houston lesbians #cozy hours #black tumblr #cozy-hours #lesbian problems #houston #downtown

[lesbianamalvada]

Did anyone else "accidently come out" or not get to come out on their own terms? This is how it happened for me:

In eighth grade this girl wrote me a letter confessing she had a crush on me. I had never really thought of her that way before, but I knew I liked girls and she was the first one who ever took interest in me. I went home and hid the letter inside my pillowcase because I didn't want my family or friends to find it. I spent weeks deliberating over whether I should respond and what I would say if I did. When I finally wrote the response I confessed that I didn't think any girls in our grade liked other girls besides me, and that even though I didn't know her that well, I'd liked to get to know her better, would she like to go to the movies with me?

I slipped it into her locker before homeroom and in 3rd period English she was waving my letter around going "See! I told you she was a lezzie!" to everyone in the class. Apparently, it had been a matter of debate among the girls in my class when I turned down "one of the cutest boys in school" who asked me to go to some stupid Halloween dance with him. It became the gossip of the school and my cousin was in the grade ahead of me, so long story short that's how I was outed to my Catholic Mexican family.

#coming out #outed #tw homophobia #lesbian problems #lesbian #lesbophobia #lgbt #lgbtq #tw bullying

[sexy-mason-avery]

Express your love for stargazing or astronomy.

#anime guys #gayboy #trick shot #nienke kampman #demon slayer #ootd #jock #feetprincess #lesbian problems #ومپایر #pittsburgh penguins

[lavenderselkie]

Hold up... Sinister Wisdom is male-inclusive now?

Ah, so sorry to be the bearer of disturbing lesbophobia news.

@kittyit wrote a great letter to the editor about a truly gruesome male violence perpetrator they shamelessly platformed a few years ago, and they even more brazenly defended their class traitor behavior in response to her.

And I had the misfortune to see at our local women's bookstore that their recent issue in Spring 23 was called "Trans/Feminisms." So, feminine straight males not only allowed to intrude but actually centered in a so-called lesbian publication. The current editors should be completely ashamed of themselves.

#selkie overshares #lesbian problems #this is not to discredit their back issues but yeah I don't bother to buy anything from the last. six years? idk the exact colonization date

[mayahawkeswife]

my roman empire, thanks for asking, is the fact that since i’m one of the few openly lesbian girls at my school and that i’m not traditionally feminine/i am gnc, i am a lot of girls first wlw relationship/situationship/crush but they don’t seem to understand that i, too, am also a girl and not a man. so they like subconsciously try to fit me into the “man’s” role or like force heteronormativity shit onto me for a gender that is not even mine.

and like— not only is it mine but they’re shouldn’t be things that “the man has to do” or “the woman has to do” in any sort of relationship. regardless the gender of yourself or your partner.

anyways.

#like— why am i the one only being expected to take her on dates or ask or out or text first or etc etc #like a relationship goes BOTH WAYS. #and i am not a man so stop saying i “’wear the pants in the relationship’’ #like im sick of it actually. #im still a girl 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️ ik that’s scary and like internalized homophobia or whatever the fuck but don’t take it out on me #work on urself first oml #lesbian #lesbian problems #wlw #rant #rants n rambles #heteronormativity #gnc women #gnc lesbian

[emelinet]

bro i hate periods. im gay and my uterus doesn't realize it

#girl problems #gay girls #sapphic #gay women #lesbian problems #lesbian #period cramps #uterus problems

[cpapsapphic]

really cool that the second i start following the tag lesbian a bunch of porn gifs show up! great to see my sexuality is primarily a fetish! /sar

#vent post #lesbian #seriously what the fuck #sapphic #lesbian problems

[etherealacademia]

was washing dishes today when I had the lesbian realization that, as a kid, I didn’t like books or movies where the female protagonist falls in love with a man because i put myself into her shoes and didn’t identify with that at all. However, I liked books where a male main character (whose perspective I had absorbed as my own) fell in love with a female character because I could live vicariously thru him…..

#lesbian problems #hmm #personal

[celebrate-lesbianism]

When I dressed feminine, I got teased for my height, but it was never mean spirited. Since finding myself and embracing the masculine style I've always wanted, I get made fun of for being short. People say things to me or people like me with the intention of putting us down and making us feel bad about ourselves.

Stop acting like butch and masc women under 5'10 are weird and ugly! The average height for women is literally 5'4, and it's perfectly normal to be shorter than that. We look good af.

#I can't take it anymore ya'll a 5'4 woman is not a short king she is AVERAGE #stop comparing lesbians to men challenge #rant #lesbian #butch lesbian #masc lesbian #lesbian problems #mine #I see this on Tik Tok every damn day and I hope you realize how damaging this is especially to younger lesbians developing a sense of self #Seeing this come from other lesbians is also whack #It feels like the most socially acceptable way to bully gender non-conforming lesbians #it's already hard enough to feel good about yourself as a gnc lesbian in this world

[rosekiller-addict]

I don't know what to do any more. No matter how gay i dress, boys still flirt with me I just don't get it.

I'll have my hair short with eyes tips, my astronomy knee high socks and earrings, my rainbow chain shoelaces and bracelet, my corduroy jacket, my khaki shorts, and my crystal necklace.

I'm like every lesbian sterotype.

I dress like a very stereotypical masc lesbian

The only thing i really could've added was a flannel but it was already burning hot in my corduroy.

So what do I do other than write lesbian on my forehead and walk around wave a faint prideflag?

#Lesbian #lesbian pride #Lesbian struggles #masc lesbian #neptunic #Help #Pls help #Advice needed #Pride #Lgbtq #Lgbt #Lgbtq+ #L in lgbt #I in lgbtq+ #Lesbian problems #Funny #Meme

[midnight-love-song]

Lesbian is not a dirty word.

#I don’t want my identity censored #it’s sad that so many people feel uncomfortable with it #and that it is treated like a slur sometimes #you don’t have to like it personally. but it is not a bad word #let’s be proud lesbians!!! #lesbian #lesbian culture #lesbian pride #lesbian problems #asexual lesbian #wlw #sapphic #lesbian is not a bad word #lgbt #lgbt+ things #lgbtq rights #mental health #queer #queer culture #queer history #queer women #lesbian positivity #lgbt positivity #lesbian politics #lgbt politics #queer politics #gay #gay woman #gay politics #gay culture

[jedifighterpilot2727]

Nobody tells you how nerve wracking it is to actually meet the girl you’ve been talking to everyday for four months

#it’s coming up yall #I’m so nervous #I’m gonna say so many stupid things #lesbian problems #personal

[lesbianamalvada]

Women complains about show having two women be in a relationship, claims it's unfeminist somehow, swears she's not homophobic, sympathizes with man about how sad it is when a woman is a lesbian.

What's worse is that later the man goes on to say how she was the best friend he ever had, but this list is somehow proof of her going off the deep end.

Don't ever let them gaslight you into thinking "normies" don't hate lesbians, they genuinely do.

#especially butches #also male loneliness epidemic my ass when men will cut off their friends for being their own people #lesbophobia #homophobia #lesbian problems #lesbian pride #lesbian #reddit #reddit screenshot #screenshot

[hedgehology]

Historians will still call them besties.

🛒omg they were tomb mates! sticker by hedgehology

#hedgehology #etsy uk #etsy #omg they were tomb mates #historic mysteries #historians will say they were close friends #cowboy frog #capybara #yee (and i can’t stress this enough) haww #yeehaw #lesbian pride #lesbian flag #lesbian problems #queer erasure #queer history #sappho and her friend #achilles and his pal #just gals being pals #just dudes being bros #stickers #queer representation #queer pride #cowboycore