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[i-love-my-trans-body]

So I have a gender-related question to y'all. It's something I've been wondering of as of late.

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Use 🍇/🍈/🍉 and so on, if you'd like to share your answer in the tags.

#🍄 #transmasc maverique genderqueer thing 🫡 #also a little 🍎 #being a trans man is Vital to understanding me i think #im just also more than that gender-wise

[i-love-my-trans-body]

No one else's identity or presentation cancels yours out. It's ok if you share a gender with someone and they experience it differently than you. It's ok if someone with your same gender uses different pronouns. It's ok if someone with your same pronouns is a different gender. It's ok if someone shares your gender and has other gender identities. It's ok if you both identify as gay or lesbian but those mean different things for each of you. It's ok if someone's identity is complex and you don't relate to or understand it. It's ok if someone reclaims slurs that make you uncomfortable. Other people's identities and presentations are not hurting you. There is no such thing as a "respectable" queer. Be aware that trying to further marginalize queers you disagree with is siding with your own oppressors.

[i-love-my-trans-body]

fuck "girl lunch" fuck "girl math" a woman is a hairy animal who sweats and grunts and excretes and hungers and gets wrinkly and dies eventually. you have to love that.

#misogyny #gender essentialism #ask to tag #? #yeah we are all literally animals #i hate the dehumanization/objectification/woobification of women it makes me insane

[i-love-my-trans-body]

Re-coining: Coexta

Coexta is an abinary, fluctuating neogender defined by vagueness and inconsistency. Coexta can fluctuate from rejecting gender entirely, fitting within the concept but not engaging with it, feeling partially gendered, and fully gendered, but in a vague, undefinable way.

I wanted to redo coexta, to clarify the definition and differentiate it from other terms. The previous definition is as follows:

“A coexta person has a vague, inconsistent relationship with gender. They sometimes feel like gender does not apply to them at all; Other times they feel they may have a gender, but cannot describe what gender they are experiencing. A coexta person’s gender never feels masculine, feminine, or strongly aligned in any way, and as a result is difficult if not impossible to describe accurately.

This differs from terms like demigender and polyagender, because the person fluctuates on the idea of gender itself, not necessarily genderlessness. ” - The coexta coining post.

Usage: “Coexta” is can be used as an adjective or a noun. You could say “A coexta person,” or “A coexta.”

Name: The term coexta is a combination of the word extant and the prefix co. “Extant” meaning existing, and “co-” meaning with. This could be interpreted two ways: A coexta person exists with gender by experiencing it, or by existing next to gender itself.

Flags: The greys represent degrees of feeling or relating to gender, as well as the in-between, foggy experience of being coexta. Yellow represents abinary gender. The stripes were made vertical following the theme of standing next to gender, although I made a horizontal version alt. The five stripe flag has the same meanings, just in a more basic pride flag format.

Pupyzu also made an alternate coexta flag here!

Related terms:

Demigender - Partially being an unspecified gender; partially being a nonbinary gender.

Quoigender - An experience in which gender does not apply to you at all; Rejecting the concept of gender entirely.

Greygender -  Having a strong ambivalence or neutrality towards gender identity, as a concept and/or in personal experience.

#gender coining #gender flag #flag redesign #coexta #USIN #UXIN #UIN #NIN #ABIN

[i-love-my-trans-body]

You’re not gonna believe this

(I love speculative gender posts like this, because there’s usually a pre-existing neo- or xenogender that fits! See also: genderbit.)

new gender idea: guy who is super masculine and uses he/him pronouns, but every time someone acknowledges his gender or asks about it he switches to feminine presentation and she/her pronouns and refuses to acknowledge the change

#observigender #mutogender

[i-love-my-trans-body]

I feel so… down whenever I want to watch queer or trans videos because I know in the back of my mind that none of the current large queer content creators’ content or community is safe for people like me, intersex people.

I love their work otherwise, but it hurts badly to hear them toss around casual intersexism in their videos constantly when discussing queer and trans issues and nobody ever mentions it.

And because these are large, popular creators, nobody has ever listened when I’ve tried to ask they adjust their language. My dms go ignored or unseen and my public comments get drowned out by fans defending their intersexist comments. It’s emotionally draining and exhausting, I just want to be included in my own community.

#intersex #intersexism

[i-love-my-trans-body]

Hello there! Do you give permission for your flags to be sold by other people? Like on pins or mini pride flags for exemple? /gq

Sure! No credit necessary, use my flags for whatever. I only have an issue if someone claims they designed the flag itself.

#ask #although credit is appreciated! #just bc niche flags can get origins mixed up sometimes #👍

[i-love-my-trans-body]

Girlboy with a he/him pin on one sleeve and a she/her pin on the other. Two people sitting on either side of her aggressively correcting each other on his pronouns

#gender #multigender #bigender

[i-love-my-trans-body]

Happy Disability Pride Month!

For those of you who don't know, July is Disability Pride Month.

July marks the anniversary of the Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990. The picture included here is the visually safe and inclusive version of the Disability Pride Flag, designed by Ann Magill, as the original wasn't safe for those that suffer from migraines and visually triggered seizures. The color changes made from the original design also makes it more accessible to those with color blindness.

From the Disability Pride Flag section of the Disability Pride Month Wikipedia Page:

All six "standard" flag colors: Disability spans borders between states and nations

Black Field: Mourning for victims of ableist violence and abuse

Diagonal Band: "Cutting across" the walls and barriers that separate disabled people from society

Red Stripe: Physical disabilities

Gold Stripe: Neurodivergence

White Stripe: Invisible and undiagnosed disabilities

Blue Stripe: Psychiatric disabilities

Green Stripe: Sensory disabilities

#disability #did you know? #it’s not wrath month! #i don’t talk about it much but i’m multiply disabled :]

[i-love-my-trans-body]

mutual recognition

#art

[i-love-my-trans-body]

the multigender and nonbinary communities NEED to get better at listening to intersex people. intersex people are not “biologically nonbinary”. intersex people do not exist as a gotcha for debates about gender and sex. not all intersex people are “both” male and female. non-intersex people can’t identify as intergender. please consider us when you talk about your identities

#intersex #intersexism

[i-love-my-trans-body]

hi. putting in a request for roachgender. reasoning. made of bugs jane prentiss style. -hollis (thefleshnest)

Alright, so: It says in my BYF I don't do requests anymore...but I'm going to amend that. Full-on fulfilling requests is too much for me personally, but I don't mind suggestions.

I'll elaborate further, but for now, roachgender is posted!

#ask #request #blog update

[i-love-my-trans-body]

Coining: Roachgender

Roachgender is a xenogender defined by connection to roaches. It is a subset of buggender.

I’m making buggenders! The term itself has popped up on the internet a few times, but I couldn't find a coining. The closest I could find was this post, which has a flag, but no definition.

The flag colors have no meaning, they're just colorpicked from roaches.

#gender coining #gender flag #xenogender #roachgender #buggender #cw bugs #cw insects

[i-love-my-trans-body]

Are you comfortable with edits to your jewel gay flag? Specifically in terms of rearranging the stripes(for contrast) and/or if someone prefers to personally swap the blue & pink stripes' meanings in their subversion?

Go ahead! I generally don't mind people editing or customizing flags I've made :]

#ask #ty for asking!

[i-love-my-trans-body]

Did you know about the terms transmaverine and auingender/autonomique? I believe transautonomous could be a form of auin gender

OH I did not! :0

#ask #transautonomous #auingender #inch resting... #in that case maybe i'll redo the flag

[i-love-my-trans-body]

i'm on mobile and looked through your asks tag so i apologize if you've answered this before but i didn't find anything... anyway what are the flags in your icon and header?

I don't mind at all! Both my gender and sexuality are fluid, so I change icons and such semi-frequently :]

My icon is an alternate multigender flag, made by the now deactivated @duwang-flags-inc! And my header is the outherine flag, made by @imoga-pride.

#ask #multigender #outherine

[i-love-my-trans-body]

Flag redesigns; All my -spike flags!

I wanted to put all the flags in one place, so here they are. I originally designed just the acespike, arospike, and aroacespike flags, but I wanted to complete the set of common attraction types. As for flag meanings...

The white stripe represents the absence of attraction. The other stripe colors specify attraction type, with the pale top stripe representing weak attraction, and the saturated bottom stripe representing strong attraction. The pink diamond represents the “spikes” of feelings themselves.

Definitions:

💜 Asexualspike (ace-spike): An orientation in which someone usually feels little to no sexual attraction, but occasionally has sudden, intense spikes of sexual attraction for a short amount of time.

💚 Aromanticspike (aro-spike): An orientation in which someone usually feels little to no romantic attraction, but occasionally has sudden, intense spikes of romantic attraction for a short amount of time.

💙 AromanticAsexualspike (aroace-spike): An orientation in which someone usually feels little to no romantic or sexual attraction, but occasionally has sudden, intense spikes of romantic or sexual attraction for a short amount of time.

💛 Aplatonicspike (apl-spike): An orientation in which someone usually feels little to no platonic attraction, but occasionally has sudden, intense spikes of platonic attraction for a short amount of time.

🧡 Asensualspike (asen-spike): An orientation in which someone usually feels little to no sensual attraction, but occasionally has sudden, intense spikes of sensual attraction for a short amount of time.

🩷 Anaestheticspike (anae-spike): An orientation in which someone usually feels little to no aesthetic attraction, but occasionally has sudden, intense spikes of aesthetic attraction for a short amount of time.

🩷💛 Aqueerplatonicspike (aqp-spike): An orientation in which someone usually feels little to no queerplatonic attraction, but occasionally has sudden, intense spikes of queerplatonic attraction for a short amount of time.

🩵 Analterousspike (analt-spike): An orientation in which someone usually feels little to no alterous attraction, but occasionally has sudden, intense spikes of alterous attraction for a short amount of time.

#flag design #flag redesign #flag recolor #acespike #arospike #aroacespike #aplspike #asenspike #anaespike #aqpspike #analtspike #aspec