shout out to everyone who participated in the january-february mass depressive episode
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Literally me rn
it’s become a problem i fear
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Like they literally implied that they were polyamorous hello…
Why is no one talking abt the whole polyamory and “non-normal” relationship discussion in the dapg video today…I found it interesting🫢
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Why is no one talking abt the whole polyamory and “non-normal” relationship discussion in the dapg video today…I found it interesting🫢
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The way that I was wrong 💀
I just realized I am a lesbian and I can’t describe this feeling
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It’s so crazy to me how I went from having an active social life, going out every weekend and always having someone to talk to, to having no friends and being alone 99% of the time 🫠
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january is one of those months where you experience every feeling on the human spectrum and you just have to go about your day like that isn't happening
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Shouting this at all the tumblr porn bots that have been following me
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This tumblr blaze shit??? Huh?
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ugh dont you guys know that gay people didnt exist in the 80s??? they obviously started spontaneously spawning on September 16, 2009 when season 1, episode 3 of Glee came out, in which Kurt Hummel came out to Mercedes Jones, making him the first gay person ever. get your facts right ✋🙄🙄
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you can’t be a gay icon if you leave your shopping cart in the middle of the fucking parking lot
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Hey sorry to bother you but i feel like I'm out of the loop on something here but as far as I was aware katya did identify as a guy but I'm not very active on social media so I'm probably wrong sorry again
Anonymous said: do u happen to know what katya’s exact pronouns r?? ive seen podcast and videos talking about her gender identity but i just issue she goes by she in drag, not sure what she goes by out of drag tho
Anonymous said: Wait are you saying Katyas drag character isn’t a man or Katya as in Brian isn’t a man..? I’m a lil confused
Anonymous said: wait fjsjfjk does katya id as something other than a man out of drag ? i know her saying that she would rather be a woman but doesn’t feel like she should change her gender is a thing but did she ever confirm that she identifies as something else ?
Anonymous said: wait does Katya no longer identify as a male?? what did I miss and how long ago did she say anything
Anonymous said: wait whats katyas gender identity if you dont mind me asking?
Anonymous said: i hope this doesn’t sound rude because i don’t intend to be! i’m just asking about your recent post, what is katya’s gender identity? because i thought she was a cis male and i’m just looking to correct myself if i thought wrong
Anonymous said: out of curiousity i always thought katya WAS a man, what is her gender identity?
@cleansoftcalm said: what is katya’s gender identity? I don’t want to misgender her
@sissy-that-walk said: wait, what’s katya’s gender identity and preferred pronouns?
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i’m not going to sit here and speculate on katya’s gender, because i don’t know her! but i can provide a few links to things that she’s said in the past about herself and how she identifies. based on what she’s said, it’s best to use the pronouns and ‘labels’ she’s always used for herself in public and with fans, which have usually been she/her, and they also tends to be a safe bet. she calls herself a woman a lot and below are some links that can provide some insight into why i personally don’t think we should call her a man:
in this periscope she discusses being transgender and how she identifies (and uses the phrase ‘a girl like me’ when discussing a transgender woman)
in this interview she talks about gender and how she doesn’t feel that she lines up with any particular gender when she’s out of drag (her portion begins around 1:03:00)
this excerpt from an interview here (i can’t for the life of me find where this is from, if i do i’ll update with a better source)
ginger made this post on instagram a while ago. it specifically talks about how fans shouldn’t use drag queens’ real names unless given explicit permission because it’s invasive. in the comments she talks a little about pronouns and basically just says to stick with she/her for any queen you meet as a fan until you absolutely know otherwise.
also, in her live instagram video from last night (24/08/2017), she said “i’m not a man i’m a woman” (around 4 minutes in)
there are definitely other things i’ve come across but these are what i could find quickly. i’m not an authority on katya and i don’t claim to be; none of us are unless we know her personally. but the most respectful way to treat her is to use the pronouns and names for herself that she uses in public! basically, it’s not our place to debate how she identifies, because it’s none of our business, so just follow her lead in how she presents herself to us.
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Reblog if you want your followers to ask you anything they're curious about.
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