#“why can't I be like abled people” YOU ARE DISABLED DUMBASS

[noa-de-cajou]

Me : I'm adhd therefore I am disabled

My adhd : *Disables me*

Me :

#like I'll be unable to focus and beat myself up over it before remembering I literally have the “cannot focus” disorder #or i'll be tremendously tired and loath myself for being tired when being constantly burnt out is part of being adhd #“why can't I be like abled people” YOU ARE DISABLED DUMBASS #Me: doesn't clean my apartment because I'm too tired but also feeling guilty over it #Guess what you idiot #you are D I S A B L E D #IT MEANS YOU CAN'T DO THE STUFF BUT IT'S NOT BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT TO DO THE STUFF #You can't. As if physically can't. From the verb and negation “can not”. #but noooo I just go like “why am I lazy” #imposter syndrome is real and also an adhd symptom #it all comes full circle baby #disability #adhd #audhd #disabled

[theconstitutionisgayculture]

A new law is introduced banning wheelchairs. Since both the able bodied and the disabled can use wheelchairs this law is fair and equal. Sure the disabled are far more affected than the people who can just walk instead but it is applied equally to all. In your eyes making things equitable for everyone would involve chopping off everyone's legs so they can't walk. In my eyes making things equitable would be removing or changing laws that disproportionately affect one group over another.

You can shove your dumbass hypothetical up your ass, buddy. In practice, there is no way to give everyone an equal outcome without tearing everyone down to the lowest level. And to do that, you need to give the government the power to violate basically every human right there is. This right here is actually a perfect example of why I fucking hate hypotheticals. You bring up a situation that would never happen, then act like that made up situation has any correlation to things happening in the real world. You want me to argue the hypothetical, because you know deep down that what you claim to want is a fantasy land.

Equal protection under the law means the law applies to everyone equally. That's equality. That's what the goal should be. What you want is insane. You want everyone to be effected equally, which is impossible. There will always be laws that disproportionately effect some people more than others just by virtue of people being different. That's not a bad thing if the law is applied equally.

To use a real life example, laws against public drunkenness don't effect me at all because I don't drink at all, let alone in public. But if did decide to get drunk, I would be treated the same way as anyone else who is also drunk in public. That's how an equally applied law works. But what you would do is look at that law and see that it only effects people who get drunk in public, and say "that's not equitable, that needs to be changed". So we're left with a situation where all laws against public drunkenness need to be rewritten to apply to everyone at the same time to be "equitable", or we need to get rid of those laws all together. And you want to do this to every law.

That is insane.

Equity is wrong. I'd even go as far to say that it's evil, because it's impossible without violating the rights of others.

[detransraichu]

okay not to be a mean disabled cunt but y'all need to keep the c slur out of your fucking mouths. you did it with the r slur why don't you give a shit about physically disabled people?? oh your bad mood is fucking crippling you? are you a fucking cripple then? are you? cuz i am IN THE LITERAL SENSE. is it truly turning you into me? is it making you physically disabled? IT FUCKING ISN'T AND YOU KNOW IT!!! like jfc sometimes physically abled people who have mental disorders need to sit their asses down and remember that physically disabled people are oppressed in a way that they are NOT we always get fucking trampled and talked over in disabled spaces!!!!

y'all made me use the fucking c slur in this when it makes me feel unwell everytime i see it. all bc somehow your dumbasses can't figure out that using the c slur in verb form is still ableist as fuck. only physically disabled people can use those words. and even then it's a shitty fucking adjective that i hope dies forever. i fucking hate sharing spaces with abled mentally ill folks sometimes holy shit. i'm tired

#lay text #c slur tw #i'm clinically insane btw a HUGE chunk of physically disabled ppl are also not neurotypical #bc being physically disabled is traumatic af #i'm gonna start blocking i swear to god #i'm about to pull r slurs just to shock some sense into y'all #why do you give the biggest shits about mentally disabled folks but not actual literal cr*pples?????? #using the r slur at all can cancel you forever online but c slur is no big deal???? i'm supposed to still be friends???? fuck off #don't talk to me abt this if you've used it before or rbed a post with cr*pple or cr*ppling in it. you fucked up. go away just do better no

[bread-and-roses-too]

the "you shouldn't be able to buy junk food and/or 'luxury food' with food stamps" argument is bullshit

I've seen this argument several times, even from my own fucking mother who used food stamps for much of my childhood. So let's break just a few of the many reasons why it's stupid.

1. Sensory issues/EDs/other involuntary diet restrictions

This one is the most obvious. I know someone in recovery from an ED whose safe food is poptarts. I encountered someone with sensory issues who could only eat baked goods. Some of us are lucky enough to get strawberries or celery or salad as our safe food and not have to worry about ridicule from dumbass ableds, but some of us aren't that lucky. Denying people certain foods on food stamps means leaving certain disabled people without food they can eat without distress.

2. Time

So you don't want someone on food stamps to buy a box of hot pockets. Are you going to go to their house and prepare a healthy hot meal for them? No? Then shut the fuck up. Sometimes instant meals or other "junk food" are the quickest and easiest to prepare. It's possible someone is working 2 jobs and doesn't have the time or energy to cook for themself.

3. Lack of location/resources to prepare "real" food

Maybe they're homeless and don't have a kitchen. Or their power or gas is shut off due to lack of payment and they can only buy stuff like canned soup that won't spoil. People tend to forget that food stamps aren't just for people who are struggling to make ends meet. They're also for people who aren't making ends meet and are living in conditions that many of us can't even imagine.

4. Let poor people enjoy their lives for once you fucking asshole

Some people don't have money outside of food stamps. That bag of potato chips they bought with their meager food money is a small joy in the sea of suffering that is being impoverished. Poverty shouldn't be punished. Poor people are allowed to treat themselves once in a while.

Other people's "health" is none of your fucking business. Let people do what they have to to survive, which includes supporting "unhealthy" purchases that keep people from despair. Being on food stamps isn't some moral failing to be punished by making people eat rice and beans and salad until they get back on their feet (or don't, some people stay on food stamps for their entire life and there's also nothing wrong with that).

[mellometal]

Hiyo!

For everyone new here, welcome! Glad to have you here. Hope you enjoy your stay!

For everyone who's been here for a while, Y'ALL ALREADY KNOW WHAT'S ABOUT TO GO DOWN.

Yep, this is part two of why I hate Glee so much.

Let's get it. (If there's anything I forgot to mention, go ahead and add them on in the comments or reblogs.)

Obligatory TW: This contains subject matter that may be triggering for some audiences. The following post contains homophobia, biphobia, ableism, underage drinking, faking a pregnancy to manipulate a partner into staying with them, teachers being creepy towards students, mentioned past child m0l3stati0n and invalidation of the victim's trauma, statutory r@pe (between teachers and students), pr3datory behavior....you get the picture.

If anything mentioned above is triggering for you in any way, again, feel free to scroll past this and consume media that's safe for you.

Gentle reminder: This is all my opinion. This is my take on specific moments in the show, plus evidence to back everything up. Not asking for anyone to agree with me or anything.

***If you like the show, good for you. I couldn't care less. As long as you're not out hurting people, I don't care. Live your life.***

Sit back, relax, grab some snacks and drinks, and let's get to this thing.

How about I talk about Artie for a few minutes? He's a character I have a ton of issues with. Not because he as a character is disabled. That has nothing to do with why I have issues with Artie. The issues there have to do with his actor, who I'll get to in a minute. It's because everything Artie says that's considered problematic is excused and/or ignored simply because of his disability. They only focus on the fact that Artie requires a wheelchair to get around and nothing else. Honestly, it feels like they pity him and praise him just for being in a wheelchair. While he has had some rough times in the show, it doesn't change that he's no better than anyone and he's just as bad.

There are physically disabled actors who play roles of physically disabled characters and they never make it about how they require a wheelchair, a walker, or any other equipment to get around. An example of a physically disabled actor off the top of my head would be Michael Patrick Thornton. He plays Dr. Gabriel Fife on a show called Private Practice, which nobody mentions the chair and his character is a lot more than his disability.

Kevin McHale, Artie's actor, is an able-bodied actor who was cast as a physically disabled character who requires a wheelchair to get around. The way that Glee portrayed disabled characters in general was inaccurate, extremely unrealistic (i.e., Artie joining the football team and then being told that his wheelchair would be a safety risk....like, don't you have sports made for disabled people at that school? Because disabled sports teams do exist.), the storylines with Artie made no sense (i.e., his whole backstory, how he was the lead dancer in one episode and was never mentioned again), and it was offensive. There is a term for this that I didn't even know, and it's called "cr1pface". Basically, that's when able-bodied actors are cast as physically disabled characters. This is a reoccurring theme in live-action media and it's gross.

Glee could cast a Down's Syndrome girl JUST FINE. That's great. Love that. YET THEY COULDN'T BOTHER TO CAST A PHYSICALLY DISABLED ACTOR FOR THE ROLE OF A PHYSICALLY DISABLED CHARACTER. SPECIFICALLY A YOUNG PHYSICALLY DISABLED ACTOR. Because I very rarely see them in live-action media, if at all.

There are more physically disabled characters in cartoons than in live-action media. At least younger physically disabled characters. My point about how younger physically disabled characters need more representation in live-action media still stands. Just in GENERAL, y'all.

Artie isn't all innocent. Here are some screenshots of him sex-shaming Mary Sue and Blaine (a.k.a., Diet Br3nd0n Ur!3) for them not being close in their rendition of West Side Story:

Hey, ummm....news flash, this isn't what directors would actually require their actors to do, let alone request them to do. Unless a director is putting together an on-stage production that has anything to do with sex, they wouldn't do this. (I'm mainly talking about stage productions here, not movie productions. Movie productions are a little different in that aspect.) Also....why would a director who's supposed to be Mary Sue's and Diet Br3nd0n Ur!3's friend ASK FOR THIS? YOUR PLAY WILL NOT SUFFER IF THERE'S NO SEX WHATSOEVER. YOUR PLAY WILL BE FINE.

(I mean it this time. This is your last chance to scroll past this post, click off, whatever you gotta do. This next scene contains mentioned child m0l3stati0n and invalidation of the victim's trauma.)

I want to bring your attention to this scene:

This is the nail in the coffin for me to lose any respect I had for Artie left...which I didn't have much of, to begin with.

Ryder confides in the Glee Club about he was m0l3st3d by an older woman as a child. The older woman was HIS BABYSITTER. A person who was being paid to watch over him by his parents. An eleven year old child...just children in general CANNOT CONSENT to s3x.

(By the way, pedos, this is your daily, unfriendly reminder that your attraction to children is disgusting. Pedo apologists, the fact that you justify pedos being attracted to children is also disgusting. Get professional help. NOTHING can justify grown adults being romantically and/or sexually attracted to children. Stay the fuck away from kids. Pedos and pedo apologists will NEVER be welcome here.)

He didn't ask to be m0l3st3d as an eleven year old boy by a babysitter. When it's an eleven year old girl who gets m0l3st3d by her babysitter who just so happens to be an older man, people are more sympathetic towards the girl and condemn the man. Rightfully so. On the contrary, if it's an eleven year old boy who gets m0l3st3d by his babysitter who happens to be an older woman (like Ryder), people congratulate the boy, tell him he's "lucky", and they don't take what he went through seriously. Why? Because men are expected to ALWAYS want to have s3x, women are pretty much always assumed to be asexual and s3x-repulsed....you get my point. Men don't always want to have s3x. Women actually have s3x drives! SHOCKER.

Artie's response to Ryder telling him that he was literally m0l3st3d AS A FUCKING CHILD makes me SO angry, and I'm about to tell you WHY. They play it off as Artie being naïve and not knowing any better...ALL BECAUSE HE'S PHYSICALLY DISABLED. THEY TREAT IT AS IF HE'S MENTALLY DISABLED TOO, WHICH I CAN'T RECALL IF THEY HAVE EVER DISCUSSED THIS ANYWHERE IN THE SHOW. Seriously? Can you stop pitying and infantilizing disabled people who use wheelchairs to get around all because they use a fucking wheelchair? Naïveté is one thing (this is ONLY IF Artie GENUINELY DIDN'T KNOW anything about m0l3stati0n), but you know, they could've used this moment to teach him about m0l3stati0n and how it fucking affects people. Someone could have CALLED ARTIE OUT because he said something extremely fucked up DIRECTLY TO A VICTIM OF CHILD M0L3STATI0N! But nooooo! Apparently boys can't be victims of m0l3stati0n, according to the dumbasses plaguing the fucking planet, so I guess fuck the THOUSANDS of Boy Scouts who were m0l3st3d by their scout masters since 1944, right? /s

ENOUGH SAID. Let's move on.

The second character in this part I really wanted to get to is Mr. William Schuester, or Mr. Schue for short. Good GOD, this teacher...if I can even call him one at this point, is a terrible person and creepy as all hell. I will call Mr. Schue "Mr. Pr3dat0r" because he's a disgusting waste of splooge who should be in jail.

We can talk about how Mr. Pr3dat0r doesn't have any friends his own age (except for his fiancée, who faked a pregnancy to get him to stay with her), he was literally in the boys' locker room spying on Gary Stu (Finn) WHILE HE WAS IN THE FUCKING SHOWER because he was singing, blackmailed Gary Stu into joining the Glee Club™️ by planting drugs, he has put on racist costumes on quite a few occasions in the show, encouraged his students to twerk to the song "Blurred Lines", and got off on two of his students shaking their asses to the song "River Deep, Mountain High". He's fucking gross. I'll put down the screenshots as evidence so you can see what I'm talking about.

Mr. Pr3dat0r shouldn't be a teacher. I don't think I need to elaborate more. These pictures say enough.

#mello speaks #glee is a shitty show #tw ableism #tw child molestation #tw invalidation of trauma #tw teachers being predatory and disgusting #cw sex mention #cw sex shaming #anti glee #glee #i hate this show

[outrunningthedark]

waiiit there's people complaining about microwaving water??? wtf??

look i'm a dumbass and i'm terrified of fire. (when i was like eight my dad thought it was a good idea to teach me to cook and i almost burn the house down ) like it sounds stupid but i legit can't do shit in the kitchen if involves fire since then so that's why the microwave is my best friend lmao.

i mean my mom thinks it's stupid and i should get over it but other than that i didn't know ppl felt strongly about it(???

April, girl... I envy you and everyone else who has not encountered the Squad of Hot Water Snobs aka Tea Purists. I encounter them in my "real life" because there ARE Americans who view microwaving water as the "easy" or "lazy" way when there's a kettle right over there - and then, of course, I have to point out that my hands don't always do what I want them to. Here's a sampling of what the internet will tell ya:

I distinctly remember a "friend" on here (not from 911 fandom) reblogging a post that was anti-microwave and when I reblogged it from them with tags about not really having a choice sometimes because of my disability (which they *knew* about) they messaged me and apologized out of embarrassment. How quickly the able-bodied forget that they could be me one day. . . 🙃 It is an honor to be on the "wrong" side of the debate with people as logical (and loving!) as you.🤝

#fearlessbuck #tina speaks

[supermiraculousladybug]

The Disturbing Dark Truth about Cat Noir (Theory).

Hello my name is well it doesn't matter what my name is but what matters is this dark disturbing truth behind our favorite kitten, Cat Noir and what is he really behind all the jokes/puns/flirt but mostly what person inspired Thomas Astruc to create Cat Noir.

Cat Noir is actually inspired by a little boy Thomas Astruc knew since childhood. His name is Anthony Cheung-Fernández, son of Wang Lei-Zhang Wei Huáng-Cheung, a Chinese American biker gang member and Catalina-Juana "CJ" Luciana Fernández-Hernández, an underage Mexican-Latina prostitute/stripper but i'm not gonna get into his childhood even despite he's an inspiration for Cat Noir. Behind his jokes , puns and flirtatious motivations, I think it's possible Cat Noir is an abused mentally unstable boy with special needs and so we only see the imagined world and events through his eyes because he's coping with the harsh and cruel reality of the world he's born into.

Cat Noir is a crack baby because his mom smoked all lot of crack cocaine while she was carrying him in her womb and it causes Cat Noir mental and psychological damage for life but he even has tremors from arms and legs to whole body because he's so severely damaged by crack cocaine and since he's severely uncontrolled shaky, you might mistaken Cat Noir's uncontrollable tremors for being cold and having seizures but often he has high-pitched screaming and high-pitched crying which he's often mistakenly thought to be a girl by others and his instabilities are also the results of being a crack baby.

What Cat Noir's classmates didn't know, is the frequent abuse and neglect Cat Noir has endured and suffered at home. Cat Noir is a special needs child who suffer from abuse , neglect and bullying but this traumatic experiences has left poor Cat Noir traumatized , easily scared , shy , nervous , easily startled , shaking-in-fear and easily fearful or easily frightened of others. A bunch of mean kids and bullies would called Cat Noir "stupid" , "dummy" , "idiot" , "retard" , "dumbass" and "dimwitted" since they knew Cat Noir has Autism , Down Syndrome , Mental Retardation and Hydrocephalus, they believe he's too stupid to be in school and having low-intelligence means he can't learn.

Due to Cat Noir having Autism and Down Syndrome it can be hard for him to keep up with other kids because he learns things slowly than others and it's no wonder he's put into a Special Education classes. Cat Noir was born with Down Syndrome due to his younger mother's age and older father's age but some children with Down syndrome (like Cat Noir) are born to women under age 35 because younger women have far more babies.

But if we only see the imagined world and events through his eyes wouldn't that means it's nothing but Cat Noir's imaginations we only saw on the show but if that's the case then how come we don't see the reality outside of his eyes, could it be that outside of his eyes, it's full of neglect , abuse , torture , lies , bullying and harassment that he turned to his imaginations , puns and jokes as a coping mechanism to escape from it. So we're gonna analyzed his relationship with other people and compared to the canon relationship he supposedly has.

Ladybug.

She is a friend of Cat Noir but also the closes he has but is she really a good friend to Cat Noir? In the show, Ladybug is shown to be verbally abusive and physically abusive towards Cat Noir in almost various episodes from Bubbler , Origins Part 1 , Stormy Weather and Sliencer, she uses her yoyo to hit Cat Noir with but surprisingly she never regretted but kept on doing it. Ladybug knew about Cat Noir's condition but instead of sympathizing with him and supporting/getting him help, she chose to convinced him his imaginations is real and everything he believes is reality but that's reason why Cat Noir depicted Ladybug as a stubborn , easily annoyed and bad-tempered person who's so quickly to get angry but this is the tip of the iceberg because Ladybug is not just verbally abusive and physically abusive, she's also sexually abusive towards Cat Noir. Ladybug would take advantage of Cat Noir by raping him but she usually would forced herself on Cat Noir and grabbed his penis and put it into her vagina even though despite Cat Noir not being ready for a proportional relationship, she's willing to do whatever she wants with him even if it means it the cost of their friendship, it also explains why Ladybug flirts with Cat Noir because Cat Noir knew about Ladybug being sexually abusive and sexually active. Ladybug has been doing this since the age of 12 while Cat Noir was 11 but ever since then she's been doing sexual activities with Cat Noir due to her seeing Cat Noir as a sex toy to play and have "fun" with, due it's no wonder throughout the series Cat Noir is never started dating because of the history of being sexually abused. Ladybug has Black hair with Blue reflections and Baby blue eyes but has a slim body, her middle name is Marietta although is a similar name to Cat Noir's elder half sister, Marietta "Marie" Kyle.

Marinette.

Marinette Dupain-Cheng is a teenage Eurasian girl who is close friends with Cat Noir, she's 2 months older than Cat Noir (Marinette was born on July 22, 2001 and Cat Noir was born on September 25, 2001) and she's been mistaken for Ladybug and Marietta by Cat Noir because she looks like them.

Marinette has 2 older half sisters, Bridgette Cheng and Charlotte Dupain, who were born from their parents 1st marriage which it makes Marinette born from 2nd marriage. Her parents are Tom Dupain, an Italian-French baker who love his Bakery and his daughters including his stepdaughter and Sabine Cheng, a Chinese immigrant who moved from China to Paris with her daughter to give her a better life and loves her daughters including her stepdaughter.

Marinette has a mixture of Black and Blue hair with Bluebell eyes but she's always mistaken to be Ladybug or Marietta by Cat Noir very often because to Cat Noir, Ladybug and Marinette looked the same but also it's due to how Marinette and Marietta look very similar because of their names and hair colors.

Much like Cat Noir, Marinette has been bullied by Chloé Bourgeois, one of the most popular girls in Françoise Dupont High School but unlike Cat Noir, Marinette had been bullied by Chloé since Kindergarten. Although due to being bullied at school, Marinette became insecure about herself and is scared of Chloé since then.

Marinette has ADHD , Dyslexia , Dyscalculia and Dyspraxia or "Clumsy Child Syndrome" which it explains about her clumsiness and reading difficulties but she's not alone as Cat Noir had learning disabilities himself so he knew how Marinette feels when it comes to being different from other kids. When Marinette said "But all the teachers say I don't sound natural when I read" meaning all teachers are aware of Marinette's reading difficulty and Cat Noir did a good job of depicting Marinette as a "clumsy girl with reading problems" since he knew her so too well. Despite Marinette being clumsy in front of Cat Noir, he's still doesn't understand her condition even tho he has learned about it before.

Marinette does have a close bond with Cat Noir as they're best friends and their friendship is stronger but they can very protective of each other at times because for Marinette, she knew Cat Noir has Autism and is very vulnerable to getting hurt easily and getting attacked by bullies and mean kids but for Cat Noir, it's due to his feline instincts of being protective of their owners, since Marinette is the closest to an "owner" Cat Noir actually has.

Marinette have sleepover with her friends and Cat Noir but mostly it's with Cat Noir because he's the only boy who's interested in girl stuff like makeups , dresses and skirts.

Marinette is aware of Cat Noir's instabilities and knows he's not given any help but she's able to give Cat Noir support. Marinette knew Cat Noir has long-term tremors since he's a crack baby and knows he has a hard time controlling his body movement. Marinette does frequently often visits Cat Noir in Mrs. Caroline's Class, a Special Education Class where Cat Noir goes in because of his learning disabilities and it was thought that because of Marinette's reading and learning disability, she would be in Mrs. Caroline's Special Ed class but instead she's currently in Mrs. Bustier's class.

Chloé Bourgeois.

Chloé is the most popular girl in Françoise Dupont High School and is the head cheer captain of a cheerleading squad.

She is the daughter of the Mayor of Paris and Queen of Fashion magazines and owner of a fashion company. Chloé is spoiled rotten by her father and verbally and emotionally abused by her mother.

Chloé knew Cat Noir before preschool and it was when his mother worked as a maid for The Bourgeois family but unfortunately she saw Cat Noir's mom sleeping with her father and Audrey was so angry at Cat Noir's mother that she wanted her fired but however André kept her on. Due to this it causes Chloé to take her anger and frustration out on Cat Noir by bullying him for being the "son of a hooker" but most importantly it explains why in fanfiction stories, Chloé mistreated Cat Noir. Chloé has always bullied and making fun of Cat Noir for coming from a very poor family , living in a shack to living in a 1960s motorhome , wearing baggy outfits , not being as rich as her , not being as popular as her , not being as smart as her , being dirty , being weak , being a mama's boy , not being muscular like other boys and not having masculinity like other boys. But however Chloé can go too far whenever she bullies Cat Noir, like she's been beaten him up causing Cat Noir's injuries to be more visible and bleeding.

His mother.

Cat Noir's mother is Selina Kyle, an alcoholic , drug addict and smoker young mother who gave birth to 8 children from 7 different fathers. She became a mother at a young age and she's an mentally unstable person who barely could take care of her children. She went from having multiple boyfriends to having multiple girlfriends. All of her children look more like their fathers than their mother. She bears a passion hatred towards man because she was physically abused by her father when she was a child. Her mother committed suicide when she was little and since she's the only one who looks like her mother, it's no wonder her father abuses her physically.

She had Cat Noir at 17 from a father she hardly knew and the baby daddy was 38 when Cat Noir was born. Since the baby daddy was arrested for supposedly "gang raping a minor", not only he'll never meet his baby but she'll have to raised Cat Noir on her own. She was so unstable both mentally and physically, she abused and neglected Cat Noir often 24/7 but she did leave him in a neglected state. She left her children in the care of her boyfriend but her boyfriend wanted nothing to do with Cat Noir and so as a result, he locked Cat Noir in the room for an hour or days or even a month/years whenever he has to deal with Cat Noir.

Selina abuse drugs and alcohol when she was a kid but due to this, the drugs completely fried her brain and gave her permanent brain damage but the alcohol cause her brain damage to worsen, she had memory loss. Thanks to the drugs it caused her to be unstable both mentally and physically, she went to a rehabilitation facilities for drug addicts and alcoholics like herself but she went from going to rehab often to now staying there until she's drug-free and alcohol-free because of her history of drug usage and overdosing on them but surprisingly surviving it, due to this she became absent in not only her kids but Cat Noir's life as well and she also became very sickly , extremely tired , supposedly weight gaining and severely skinny.

Rose Lavillant.

Rose Lavillant is one of Marinette's closest friends and the most nicest person Cat Noir has ever met. Rose is lead singer of a rock band, Kitty Section and Kitty Section band is a hybrid of a cat and unicorn but Cat Noir likes to call Kitty Section "Unikitty" since it is a combination after all. Rose loves unicorns which it's why Cat Noir sees her as a playmate and is depicted as sweet , kind and playful according to Cat Noir at least. Princess Twinkle Peach is Rose's favorite plush unicorn although Cat Noir finds Princess Twinkle Peach interesting because of her designs but again with his schizophrenic condition, he thought Princess Twinkle Peach can talk to him and move on her own.

She likes to sit on a soft pink cushion seat so it smoothed Cat Noir.

Lila Rossi.

Lila is the most popular girl in Françoise Dupont High School, she's from Italy and back in Italy, she used to bully a girl for no reasons. Lila is the biggest slut in school.

When Lila was at school in Italy, she used to sleep with popular guys for popularity. Lila most likely slept with Cat Noir because she knew he's the most vulnerable child and would get easily taken advantage of but Lila always raped Cat Noir which it causes her exposure in the first place and she barely took advantage of Cat Noir.

Much like Cat Noir, Lila grew up without a father in her life and is only raised by her mother but unlike Cat Noir, Lila lies about her home life , parents , why she's not in school , why she had bad grades , where she's at , why she's late , why she's failing and why she's tired.

Last but not least Cat Noir (even though he doesn't count as a relationship).

Cat Noir was born premature and as an accident on September 25, 2001 to an underage prostitute and a grown biker gang member. When he was born, he was in a incubator in the NICU room. He was an unexpected , unplanned and unwanted child because he has his dad's looks such as blonde hair , green eyes and orange-tinted skin.

Cat Noir has Autism , Mental Retardation , Severe Schizophrenia , Down Syndrome , Bilateral Complete Cleft Lip and Palate , Congenital Heart Defect , Fetal Alcohol Syndrome , Alcohol-Related Birth Defect and Hydrocephalus but he has 3 types of Autism, Low-functioning Autism , Asperger's Syndrome and Severe Autism or Level 3 Autism. Due to his condition, he even has a learning disability as a result from his Autism , Down Syndrome , Mental Retardation and Hydrocephalus. Cat Noir even has a stunted growth as a result of his mom's alcoholism and it's no wonder he's short and looks younger for his age.

Cat Noir comes from a very poor family and lives from a shack to a 1960s motorhome. He's the 7th child of 8 children and each of Cat Noir's siblings have different fathers but they all have the same mother, Cat Noir is the oldest male in the household full of girls but his mom only wanted daughters so by the time Cat Noir was born, she's disappointed her baby is male and blamed the father for giving her a son instead of a daughter.

Cat Noir's mother was only 17 years old when she gave birth to Cat Noir although he was brought into the world irresponsibly by his mother because of her drug addictions and results due to 5 times of broken condoms. Cat Noir was raised by his absent on-and-off again mother and his mom often neglected Cat Noir 24/7 but she left him in a care of someone else except they neglected and abused Cat Noir too because he resembled his mother.

Cat Noir was often abused and neglected by his babysitters and other caretakers. What's even more messed up is the fact that he's a special needs child since he's autistic and have down syndrome but one of his babysitters would leave him in filth and one of his caretakers would beat him if he make noises.

Cat Noir transfer to Françoise Dupont High School at age 11+1/2 years old when he was in the 7th grade due to frequent bullying , abuse and neglect at a previous school, he's in a special ed class. The first person he met was Marinette Dupain-Cheng who was 12 years old at the time and since then he became inseparable towards Marinette due to her kindness , good nature , sweet tendencies and being nice to him.

Cat Noir sees Marinette as a mother figure and often calls her "mommy" but he likes to cuddle with Marinette and rub his face on Marinette to his affection towards her. Marinette knows Cat Noir has Autism and Down Syndrome thus she's patient and gentle with Cat Noir. Marinette taught Cat Noir how to walk and talk at 13 years old despite what everyone told her she can't teach Cat Noir speech.

Cat Noir has a developmental delay and due to this, he can't meet his milestones like dressing up on his own , feeding himself , cleaning himself , tying his own shoelaces , brushing his hair , brushing his teeth , taking a bath on his own and toilet training.

The before and after Aftermath of abuse and neglect.

Cat Noir was placed in the care of his mother's boyfriend but sadly he was further abused by his mom's boyfriend and neglected by him, he was even locked in his room 24/7, due to this isolation and neglect, Cat Noir's only companion was his stuff animals and his schizophrenic state is worsen but he believes his stuff animals could talk to him and move by themselves but it however freaks out other people because "what kind of kid believes his stuffed animals would talk and moving on its own" but he supposedly is always talking gibberish to "someone" else when actually he's talking to himself.

Cat Noir was born premature and as an accident due to a broken condom. He has Autism , Mental Retardation , Severe Schizophrenia , Down Syndrome , Bilateral Complete Cleft Lip and Palate , Congenital Heart Defect , Fetal Alcohol Syndrome , Alcohol-Related Birth Defect and Hydrocephalus but his Severe Schizophrenia , Bilateral Complete Cleft Lip and Palate , Congenital Heart Defect , Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and Alcohol-Related Birth Defect. His Autism , Mental Retardation and Down Syndrome were due to his mom's age being 17 and his dad's age being 38 but most importantly he has Hydrocephalus because of unknown reasons but what if it's actually due to his older father and young mother then it makes sense.

Does Lila really hate Ladybug for embarrassing her in front of the boy she liked or Is it actually in the mind of Cat Noir thinking that's what it is?

Ever wondered why Lila hated Ladybug with a passion, you may think it's because of Ladybug embarrassing Lila in front of Adrien but it's actually not true in fact it's nothing but in Cat Noir's mind, Cat Noir thinks this is why Lila hated Ladybug but in reality it's because Ladybug exposing Lila on how much of a skank oh she is because that bitch sleeps with every guy at school for popularity but however Cat Noir was unaware of Lila being a slut. In Volpina, Lila lies to Adrien about being a descendant of a fox-themed heroine, Volpina but after Ladybug humiliates her in front of Adrien Agreste by exposing her lies about the both of them being close friends and her owning the Fox Miraculous, she hated Ladybug ever since then, however this is not what happened, what actually happen in Volpina is Lila slept with Cat Noir for fame and popularity even despite Cat Noir being the school's outcast and misfit but it didn't matter to her she can sleep with any guy at school. Not only did Lila slept with Cat Noir but she also raped him, Lila knew Cat Noir has a history of being sexually assaulted and is the most vulnerable child but sadly she kept on touching him inappropriately. Ladybug later saw Lila taking advantage of Cat Noir and exposes her as "a bitch who sleeps with every special needs guy at school for personal game , stardom and being well-liked or well-known" since then everyone at school knew Lila is a hoe and loves to sleep with guys with special needs at school for stardom and popularity so that day she hated Ladybug since then.

Is Marinette a normal girl or did Cat Noir sees her as one?

In the theme song it said "In the daytime, I'm Marinette, Just a normal girl with a normal life. But there's something about me that no one knows yet, Cause I have a secret." You heard it "just a normal girl" now the question Is Marinette really normal? Cat Noir depicted Marinette as a shy and clumsy girl who's nice to everyone but Cat Noir knew Marinette doesn't sound natural when she reads so in reality it's due to her Dyslexia and Dyscalculia.

Why does Cat Noir wear a mask?

Cat Noir is known to wear a mask but ever wondered why he wore a mask?, you would think it's because he's hiding his secret identity from others but I think it's because he's hiding a large burn scar on the left side of his face because his mom accidentally spills hot boiling water onto the left side of Cat Noir's face causing the scar to be badly burned and permanent when Cat Noir was younger, as a result of this incident, Cat Noir wore his famous iconic mask to covered the burn scar.

From aftermath of abuse and neglect to foster care.

Since before the age of 13, Cat Noir was frequently abused and neglected by his mother's on-and-off again ex-boyfriend who beats Cat Noir 24/7 whenever he has to deal with Cat Noir and never likes to care of/babysat Cat Noir whenever Cat Noir's mom goes out for work , with one of her multiple boyfriends , to a bar , to the movies with her friends , shopping and going to jail for crimes but most importantly she's currently in a rehabilitation center so this means her ex-boyfriend has to take care of Cat Noir fulltime but he doesn't want to so he locked Cat Noir in his room 24/7 so didn't want to deal with Cat Noir. Everyone started noticing different about Cat Noir, he was severely malnourished , has bruised fingers , bruised toes , black-eye , broken nose , bruised lips , badly bitten arms , badly bitten legs , swollen arms , swollen legs , swollen gums , badly bitten ears , badly bitten fingers , badly bitten toes , knocked-out teeth , scraped knees , scraped elbows , slapped cheeks , bruised bottom and bruised-up back but worse of all, Cat Noir even had a bruised forehead and the fact Cat Noir is a special needs child, is still shocking.

Not long after Cat Noir turns 13 years old, the abuse and neglect became far more worst until one of the school's Child Psychologists took notice of Cat Noir's wounds and find out he's been frequently terribly abused and neglected by his mom's on-and-off again ex-boyfriend since the age of 8. The Child Psychologists decide to contacted the polices and social services to come and take Cat Noir away from the home. Cat Noir was taken to hospital and one of doctors found out Cat Noir is actually 13 with the body of an 11-year-old child but they even find out Cat Noir has a small severely damaged brain.

Cat Noir's Severe Schizophrenia is already worsen up due to again being a crack baby. He believes his imaginations are a reality because of how much he's been convinced too often. Cat Noir hear voices in his head and see things that aren't there but he often talks to himself despite thinking he's talking someone else.

First foster home.

After Cat Noir's mom's ex-boyfriend was arrested for child abuse and child neglect, Cat Noir was placed in Child's Care Services (CCS) because his mother is too unstable to care for him but however Cat Noir is badly affected by the abuse and neglect he suffers for so long that he didn't want to be touched and he has a shock look on his face whenever he break things he didn't mean to which it explains why in the episode, Simon Says, Cat Noir gave a shock look after scolding at Gabriel because in reality he thought he's going to get beaten. Originally Cat Noir was gonna be placed in one of his relative's house but his social worker didn't know how to get in contact with them and he was originally going to be placed in the care of his dad but no one knows where he's currently lives and he has permanent record so he can't be around kids not even his own child.

Cat Noir's social worker decide to put Cat Noir into foster care since there's no one who can take him in. Cat Noir's 1st foster home was bad because his foster parents frequently abused and neglected him but bad enough, the only reason why they take Cat Noir in because they're only doing this for money so they can spend it on and rottenly spoiled their biological kids. His foster mom did the worst things to Cat Noir, such as locking him in his room , refusing Cat Noir to have any contact with anyone and her biological children , refusing to feed Cat Noir , refusing to clothed Cat Noir , leaving Cat Noir in a filthy state , strapping Cat Noir to a potty chair in the daytime , putting Cat Noir into a straitjacket and locking him in a cage-like crib in the daytime and letting her kids bullied Cat Noir 24/7. One day his social worker notice Cat Noir in a terrible state and deciding removed Cat Noir from this terrible house.

From Second foster home to 11th foster home.

Cat Noir had to be moved from foster home to another foster home due frequent abuse and neglect happening but it's like to Cat Noir, no matter where he goes he'll always get abused and neglected. His second and 11th foster home was so bad that he had to be removed again and be placed in a new home but he's always getting bruises all over him as if his previous foster parents don't care about him and only seems to be interested in financials than caring for their foster child. But however it did take 2 weeks for the social workers to placed Cat Noir in a new home and it's always gonna turned bad, no matter what home Cat Noir was placed in and good thing the social workers decide to removed Cat Noir from a terrible home.

12th and Final foster home.

Not long after Cat Noir was removed from his 11th foster home, his social worker almost decide to give up trying to find a good place for Cat Noir to call home and a family to belong to but one of the employees told Cat Noir's social worker that there's one more chance of finding a good home for Cat Noir. Cat Noir's social worker found a home to placed Cat Noir in, The Jackson Family, they have a stable home , love , affection , enough food and care but most importantly at least it's safe place for Cat Noir to call home. He was so malnourished that he became hungry often despite he just ate.

Adoption

Not long after months of Cat Noir being placed in the care of The Jackson family, Christine Jackson, Cat Noir's foster mom decide to adopted Cat Noir and her husband, Harold Jackson, Cat Noir's foster dad agreed to this since they are parental figures to Cat Noir but at first when Cat Noir was placed in their care it was difficult for them to care for a child with special needs but they didn't give up on him and kept providing love and affection towards Cat Noir. Cat Noir was 13 when he was placed in the care of Christine Jackson and Harold Jackson but at first Christine thought Cat Noir was 11, only to find out he's actually 13 and this causes her to take Cat Noir to the hospital but that's when she find out everything about Cat Noir. 3 months later, Christine and Harold officially adopted 13-year-old Cat Noir but they continue to take care of him.

I hope you love this theory.

#chat noir #cat noir #chaton #childhoodruined

[finsterhund]

Doctor appointment.

Was asked details about my childhood trauma.

Made the mistake of mentioning my pre-existing conditions on my paperwork and now they're making everything more complicated. I guess that's better than to just lie and say I'm fine.

I gotta do blood work again.

But...

I am getting a family doctor!

AND a psychiatrist!

AND a dentist!

AND at least one specialist!

(I say that because they're debating getting me a specialist for nutrition and dietary health on top of what I'm seeing them for as well as some other ones potentially)

But they want to "stabilize" my mental and physical health. And since I have six thousand conditions that means treating a whole bunch of issues on top of the main three which means more time spent. Which I mean is fine. Being covered under Canada's health care means I'm not spending money, just time. But I feel I don't have much time left. I wish they could just do the things that would help me the most as soon as possible.

They showed me this paper that was all "what's your functionality" to determine my stability and I said I was a 70-61 because I'm not usually a danger to myself and because I can maintain friendships but they kept telling me that I'm lower because I have "serious impairments" like not being able to sleep without medicine and not being able to operate hot kitchen elements very well and not being able to go to the store without supervision and I didn't think that was fair. I'm still stable. I'm just differently abled. I was told that me having trouble sleeping isn't normal because "people are supposed to just immediately go to sleep" and that just sounds so fake. I don't even think the people who say that they do that are even telling the truth. It's supposed to take three hours I KNOW THIS.

Then I remember that yes, I am disabled, and yes, these people do think it's serious. I've normalized how much of a dumbass supreme™ I am but this poor doctor was all "this isn't normal" and I'm like:

In the beginning she's just like "you don't feel comfortable in my office" and I have to explain that it's my fight or flight instinct and my pediatric psychiatrist had stuffed animals and toys in her office and that made me feel safer. This doctor had a frog statue so I kept staring at it. I also brought my winged doggo for moral support. Romero is my wingman hahaha

I just wish I was able to hide my mental issues so at least they wouldn't concern themselves so much with them. Fixing my physical issues is more prominently important to me.

I go in being like "body doesn't make the bone and muscle grow juice. Bone and muscle stop growing" and it ends up turning into "how old were you when your father did those things and how did he do them?" Like????? This is why I fear doctors. I mean it's good to deal with all my issues eventually, but when I seek out specific specialists it's because I thought that was a priority. They're asking me if I want to press charges against my father and I'm just like "I just want the bone grow juice for right now plz"

The vast majority of my issues have little to do with my motor function and neurological damage and mental health but they're VERY interested in it. I'm pretty sure it can't be fixed. They want me to do CBT which makes a lot of sense but I want to focus on physical health right now and they are very interested in mental health. I would like some physiotherapy so maybe their interest in my neurological problems will lead to that.

So now I have to fast for bloodwork at some point and have another appointment in a week and need to fill out more paperwork. It's all very complicated.

They seem to think I am capable of fully getting better and it's like "Yay! More people to disappoint!"

I feel stupid for letting them immediately know my mental health is a mess. I know I omitted some information to my pediatric psychiatrist to hide some of my more serious trauma symptoms because that wasn't what I wanted to deal with then, but this time around I really did let them know I'm poorly functioning like lmao why did I do that? I just went to them to fix my physical issues. I suppose once they got my record that wouldn't have mattered because they'd have been able to see it anyways but dang it. Why do I keep trusting the establishment when I know I shouldn't.

TLDR: I want surgery and bone growing juice please gibe dem to meee

#text post #long post #cw: medical

[summerlycoris]

This was originally gonna be a comment on a /r/cringe post where people were getting upset about deaf people not liking cochlear implants, but the post got locked. I put too much effort into this to not post, though.

Okay.

There's a few different reasons why deaf people don't like articles like these. If you don't know the reasons, it looks silly. So, let's get into some of the reasons.

First thing is, with articles like these, they're usually about a baby or other small child being fitted with Cochlear Implants. Sometimes hearing aids, if they have moderate hearing loss instead of no hearing. But mostly cochlear implants, because they're newer tech and make for more clickable/sharable headlines.

Cochlear implants can help with understanding, but it's not hearing in a traditional sense. It's electronic signals that bypass the middle ear, and go straight to the cochlea nerves. If you want to hear what this sounds like, there are examples here.

Cochlear implants can be really useful. But they aren't miracles, even people who get really good results with them still can't understand some noises around them. [This article from the FDA has some examples, like not being able to understand speech on the radio due to lacking visual cues.

however, there are also articles (like the one linked here) from the National Institute of Deafness, that state cochlear implants, if implanted earlier than 18 months, and followed up with therapy, can eliminate the need for visual cues.

With this, we can start to understand why some deaf people refuse cochlear implants after growing up with them. Like [Brandon Edquist, who received his implants at 3 years old, and never liked having them in. He had a weird buzzing noise, and never picked up enough sounds differently to make it worth it.

Brandon's parents would get mad at him for turning off the implant, and warn him it was essential to him fitting into society. Which I think highlights one of the problems people can have with getting these implants young- parents who think itll cause miracles dont understand when kids dont like it, or don't want it.

"This misconception may harm pediatric recipients. Some parents of children with cochlear implants believe their child is “hearing” like them, so they do not teach their child American Sign Language (ASL). Not learning sign language may delay their child’s language acquisition.6 According to the National Association of the Deaf (NAD), cochlear implants do not provide recipients with “clear and unambiguous access” to linguistic input in the same way that sign language does. For young children learning their primary language, “reliance on only spoken language input via cochlear implants may result in linguistic deprivation if sign language is excluded from [their] environment.”"

This can cut people off from a community of people just like them. I'm not Deaf, but growing up autistic, the best thing I ever did was hang out with other autistic, and disabled, people. Even when i was at my lowest points while in school, it would've been so much worse if i had no one.

So, there are reasons members of the Deaf community object to these videos. It's not cringe to admit that videos and articles showing babies and young kids "hearing for the first time!!!" Are more often that not, just glurge for sharebaiting, and essentially, virtue signalling in its truest sense. Does anyone sharing these stories try to understand anything else about disabled and/or deaf people? Or do they just go on with their day with a general happy feeling of "awww, next!"

It's not cringe to understand that its not about some jealous people wanting to prevent babies from hearing. There's more to it than that.

Whew. That was a lot. Too many ableds on Reddit with dumbass takes like "they dont like it because they're jealous it didn't work for them!" Or "they need to just accept its a handicap already" yikes yikes yikes.

A surprising amount of 'woke' people still don't understand disability- based issues at all. Yay!

#summerly talks

[ofdirnensions]

I'm a little confused about why it's such a big deal that personal blogs reblog your promos? I mean, isn't it more exposure for your blog? Like, it will reach more people the more people reblog it. And if you want to contact people who reblogged to RP, can't you just check and if it's a personal, move on? :o

It’s a big deal because it’ll end up spreading to the wrong circles. Which means more and more personal blogs end up reblogging it until it becomes something akin to a funnyman post. Plus it might get my blog into r//ckm0rty circles, which is not a thing I want to happen, as the ship makes me extremely uncomfortable.

It’s also a big deal when it clutters up the activity and makes finding potential partners harder, as well as fucking up the notes of a post. I’ve had to make several promos in a past fandom before, and on each one, I had to put ‘personals do not reblog’. Personals reblogged anyways, despite me specifically telling them ‘hey, please don’t reblog this’. Personals also frequently neglect to read the rules, of which I’ve tried to set up, time and time again with revamps.

A lot of roleplayers do not follow personals. I often follow some of my friends’ personals just to keep up with how they’re doing and see content that might be relateable to me, which I could reblog to my personal at some point. Plus, I’m working with a few other friends on a project, and because of varying timezones, I might not be able to keep up with a lot of things that get posted to the project’s blog.

Additionally, sometimes I’m a dumbass. I might look at a personal blog w/ an RNM-centric URL and wonder if it’s an rp blog. Upon clicking it to bring it up, it’s often either NSFW, meaning that I can’t see their content, but they can see mine, which deeply unnerves me because I do not have a way to disable safemode on this blog and I can’t see if they’re actually a raving mad shipper, or it’s a personal.

Which concludes with my last point, it’s kinda fucking rude to reblog a roleplayer’s promos / IC posts.

#untagged. #drama cw // #because i had to literally explain this. #Anonymous #okay to reblog //