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crookedkryptonitebeliever · 5 months

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How does Yves react to jealousy? Wether it is him being jealous or his s/o being jealous…. Cause I mean Yves must have his share fair of admirers

tw: cheating mentions

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It depends on how the relationship between the two of you is defined. He knows he has no right to feel jealous if the two of you haven't officially met or you still see him as an acquaintance. Yves won't stop you from dating others, as long as you're not doing that while in a romantic relationship with him. Because that means you would be breaking the boundaries and promises established, there are close to none if you haven't consented to be his partner.

He knows you more than enough to predict if you want him as your husband or a lifelong platonic companion. There are vastly different rules for either role:

If it's the former, polygamy is a no-go. He will lay his needs on the table on the very first day and the first thing on the list is that he is strictly monogamous, asking him to open up the relationship or for a threesome in the future will hurt him badly and is akin to cheating. Obviously, excessive physical contact with anyone else is considered infidelity, though he allows you to receive hugs and kisses from friends and family members that he trusts, and his trust is not easy to earn. No emotional cheating, he does not want you to have such an intimate connection with anyone else. Yves will express his disapproval if he catches you watching porn or gawking at attractive people on the internet, but he can fix that by making it subconsciously 'boring' for you.

He has no problem with you obsessing over fictional characters, Yves knows that they're not real and he sees them as mere toys for you to play with. He has major issues if you try to turn him into one of your fictitious crushes or your obsession has gotten so severe that it affects your life.

Whereas if you wish to remain friends, or something more special but within the realm of familial, Yves would not interfere if you're involved with someone else. Well, he wouldn't 'interfere' to a certain degree; he wouldn't beg you to leave them for him, he wouldn't try to tarnish their reputation in front of you, he wouldn't even cause a scene at your wedding no matter how much he wanted to shoot your spouse dead. Yves would just watch with an unreadable expression, elegantly crossing his legs and resting his palms on his lap. He would still do something behind the scenes if he thinks you're taking him for granted.

Before even dating your current partner, Yves will ensure that he is the person who is closest to you. He will be the one you would call if things go rough and the first one to know of any major changes in your life, good or bad. You would call him for advice on anything, from something as small as changing the wipers on your car to legal advice. Yves will be your safe space and no one can replace him, ever. Not your parents, your siblings, and definitely not your romantic partner.

You're most likely roommates with him, given the economy now. Living in a jarringly rich neighborhood with him. You feel out of place sometimes, because you're probably a university student struggling to get by or a salary worker living paycheck to paycheck. Yves is kind enough to offer you to stay at his place indefinitely with rent that you can afford.

Perhaps you have your own place, or you live with your parents instead. Or frustratingly, you live at your partner's.

Regardless of your sheltering situation, Yves will more likely act like a monster in law. Arriving uninvited, side-eyeing your spouse for not taking good care of you, every compliment about them is backhanded, bringing in meaningful gifts (i.e., flowers, groceries, freshly baked bread, dinner, food that you have been craving) to outshine your partner's goodwill of the day, subtle jabs that greatly bother your significant other but you don't see a problem with.

You would find yourself defending Yves despite his actions degrading your beloved's self-esteem.

The more serious the relationship, the colder he will be towards them. He will not be aggressively antagonistic, but there is an undeniable air around him that feels like spikes down your partner's throat. He is apathetic to temporary flings and one-night stands, though. Unless he knows they can cause grievous harm to you or carry a disease, Yves will work behind the scenes to eradicate them.

Your partner is afraid of him, and rightfully so. Yves warned him once that he would ruin everything they had if you ever got hurt, either due to direct abuse or negligence on their part. The way he delivered it sent a chill down their spine that they will never forget.

Hurting you includes breaking your heart; so your partner can't leave you without Yves skinning them alive. They can't change their behavior to forcefully make you leave them. God have mercy on them if they ever decide to cheat. Yet, they're subjected to constant terror from this man whom you call your friend if they stay. They're caught between a rock and a hard place. If they're just a regular person, they would have gone clinically insane and Yves takes this chance to wean you off them.

Thankfully though, most of them would be scared off by Yves during the dating phase or your standards became so high that you won't bother losing sleep over another person.

There is an interesting outcome if you happen to be with another Yandere. Again, it depends on their personality.

If they're one of those careless fools who keep you captive, kill your loved ones, and only care about their needs, not your happiness; they're dying of "natural causes" as soon as possible.

Those who are Yves wannabes that stalk you and steal your underwear irks him. He appreciates that they share somewhat similar flavors of love for you, but they are pathetic. They think they know you, but they're not even close to scratching the surface. It's laughable as they try to threaten him behind your back, all Yves would do is stare through them. Ten times out of ten, they would back down out of fear, because they could feel the eldritch horrors writhing under his calm facade.

Pathetic, so pathetic. Yves knows a thousand guaranteed ways he could make them disappear by lunch without any lasting consequence, yet his cheap imitation doesn't even know where Yves is at any given time. They can't even tell that Yves is standing next to them at the bus stop, he just puts his hair in a different hairdo and tries a new makeup look. How are they going to protect you if they're this stupid?

He wouldn't off them immediately though, as long as they're relatively harmless and you're happy, he will let them be.

If it's a rich one with non-negligible influential powers, Yves would keep a closer eye on the both of you. They're certainly a lot more dangerous than the first two, but nowhere near as bad as him. It annoys him that your spouse took up a sizable chunk of his library, but it was necessary to find all their weak points and predict the trend of their behavior. They might have an inkling of who Yves is, but he is still an enigma, the information they have on him is either insufficient or false. They're just as blind as everyone else and Yves always have the upper hand.

They generally wouldn't back down threatening him, though. They think they have their finger wrapped around the world just because of their wealth and connections. Yves was young once, he knows how arrogance flows through the blood of the youth. And so did prideful ignorance.

He would let them think they're winning, their immense big boy/big girl powers are sending Yves running with his tail tucked between his legs. Then, when they least expect it, Yves will scare the crap out of them through various methods. Leaving clear-cut evidence that the entirety of their party is actually working for him, having career and life-ending pieces of information, or simply bypassing all his security and meeting them in their so-called surveillance room.

They would find that all their firearms were unloaded and emergency protocols non-functional. Even the ones that no one else but your spouse knows. Yves knows how to fight, he scoffs at their setup for being so primitive. He would even be offended that your spouse couldn't get your information right.

He would dish out the most ego-wrecking insults while gracefully blocking and dodging their attacks, pointing out their incompetence at gathering data.

Yves would let your spouse exhaust themselves to unconsciousness, deriding them for their terrible physique. Then, he would leave, putting everything together back to normal. He left no trace of him ever being there as if your spouse hallucinated the entire encounter. But they definitely didn't.

He successfully sent a message that he wasn't to be underestimated. They have no idea who they're up against and he will be diplomatic only if they stay in their lane, take good care of you, and make you happy.

However, meeting someone exactly like him, though;

It would be ugly at first. Both Yves and his clone will act a bit more erratic than usual, it can go unnoticed by the untrained eye, but between these two giants? It's war. It's their first time meeting each other's match and their first time losing control over the situation.

They would revert to their default answer to anything threatening their ability to puppet reality: elimination. But both of them are too strong to defeat, so they're stuck in this twisted tango.

Yves couldn't find anything on this person. Even if he did, he knew that the information was a decoy to throw him off his trail, are they even a person? Likewise for your (soon-to-be) spouse, who the hell is Yves? Why has their expertise failed them now? How can it be possible that both of them have the same magnitude of verified information on you, yet neither of them knew about each other until you introduced them?

They both can't believe that they misled each other, making your spouse waste precious data space on your close friend that was entirely fabricated, Yves filling up your spouse's section of the library with a random person whom you never even met.

It's a Mexican Standoff between the two. Upon their "first" meeting with you, all they did was glare daggers at each other while they also suspiciously eyed their drink 'prepared' by you. In the end, neither one had their drink go remotely near their lips.

Until they simultaneously had the idea to lovingly send you off somewhere, maybe asking you to help your partner check on the pie that has been baking in the oven downstairs, fetching Yves a fresh cup of tea, leaving the two intelligence-gathering behemoths alone. Yves's lower eyelid would twitch once when he witnessed them placing an appreciative kiss on your forehead.

They don't mince their words. Telling exactly what they thought of each other, they're not kind thoughts. Once that is out of the way, they acknowledge that they're each other's formidable opponents.

They discuss some more and come to the conclusion that they can't take each other down without somehow unintentionally hurting you in the process. Yves's and your partner's tense shoulders would relax a bit when they realize that their ultimate goal is your joy in living. Trying to eradicate each other is not an efficient or smart use of their resources and your happiness is mutually exclusive to the disappearance of either figure.

Hence, the most logically sound decision was made. It was to work together. Every second spent having to interact in your best interest was agony to either side. However, they cannot deny the immense respect they have for each other despite needing to take some sort of sedative prior to meeting, to prevent accidental strangulations out of fury.

You would be in the dark about what goes on out of your sights. However, you would notice how Yves and your partner are stuck to you even more now. Yves's unannounced presence would be much more prevalent and your partner seems to be clingier than before.

Other than that, life would go on. You have two very scary dogs following you around. You are the world's safest person.

[Part 2]

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ofduskanddreams · 10 months

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Warmth Lingers in the Smoke

For @woibbelywobbegong. The request: Regency AU Azris with forbidden love where it's the last time the two get to see each other before something happens.

A/N: Though I recieved this drabble request after the deadline I set, I couldn't resist ending this lil event on an Azris note :) I hope you all enjoyed this drabble series, the masterlist is coming soon! Yes, this drabble contains a shameless RWRB reference and I regret nothing.

⁓In this drabble I said homophobia has no place in this, fuck historical accuracy we're only here for vibes⁓

Azris ✦ Rated T ✦ 783 words ✦ on AO3

Eris’s eyes are closed, but he is not asleep. The sheets underneath him are warm. The arms around him, the cheek resting on his shoulder, are warmer.

This place, right here, where Azriel’s heart beats mere inches from his own was once what terrified him most. To be in this place was all he wanted. To be in this place was everything he could never have.

Yet here, against all odds and sound logic, Eris lies. As he has during so many stolen moments before.

Azriel is not asleep either. His breaths are soft puffs on Eris’s neck.

Maybe if they don’t move, if they do not speak, they can make this moment last indefinitely. Maybe this thing that feels like the sun in his chest will be enough to change the flow of time.

It’s a fool’s hope. Delusion. It’s fingers scrabbling for a hold and finding none. It’s a pair of waxen wings too close to the light.

Eris’s fingers trace the knobs of Azriel’s spine, memorizing the topography of him, mapping out the well-known valleys where he’d prefer to linger the rest of his days and the ridges he’d gladly die climbing.

Azriel tenses against him, a long exhale following. “I hate this.” He pulls closer to Eris, like he wishes to climb inside and make a home for himself within the cage of Eris’s ribs.

Eris hasn’t told Azriel that he already has a place there.

“I do too.”

“It’s unfair.”

“I know.”

In the morning Eris would leave for London and take up his rightful place as the new Lord Vanserra. His late father is scarcely a week in the ground but the man’s absence is already a marked improvement.

“I’m being selfish,” Azriel mumbles, lips snagging on Eris’s skin.

“I wish you would be more often.” Ink-colored waves slip through Eris’s fingers like corn silk.

Silence reigns for several heartbeats.

“We don’t have a ‘more often’ anymore, Eris,” Azriel whispers. Eris wishes he would yell.

Rage he understands. Anger he can handle. But this? He doesn’t know what to do with the regretful gentleness that Azriel’s handing him. It’s a fragile sounding thing, and yet it unbalances him, shakes his foundations with a bright surge of hope.

Hope, the feeling Eris has forbidden himself. Hope, the very thing he dared not bring with him to Azriel’s cottage this evening.

Hope. Eris extinguishes the flame as soon as it appears, but its warmth lingers in the smoke.

“Azriel, I—” he breathes, but the air is suddenly thick and it catches in his throat. “Were there anything I could do to shift the strings of fate I would. But you know I need to do this for my family, for my mother.”

“You know I understand.” Azriel flattens a scarred palm over his heart.

Azriel does understand, maybe better than anyone, Eris’s need to give his mother all the safety, security, and happiness he can possibly provide. It’s the least they can do for the women who did everything for them and did it while surviving their fathers.

Azriel understands because it’s the same reason he must remain on the Knight’s estate when Eris leaves. Though Azriel’s mother is a lady’s maid living in the manor and Azriel manages the family’s horses, he still can check on her daily here. Just as it’s Eris’s duty to find a spouse with land and title, to take up his father’s mantle.

“Eris, I do not resent you for this. I don’t regret us. I… I needed you to know that.” Azriel’s voice is barely louder than the softly crackling flames behind the grate across the room.

That fickle beating thing may reside in Eris’s chest but it belongs to this man beside him. Eris fears (desperately hopes) it always will. He doesn’t want anyone else to have it.

“I don’t regret a single moment,” Eris tells him honestly, pushing up onto an elbow to look at him properly.

Neither of them is particularly forthcoming about what they feel, but it seems as if the nature of this moment possibly—likely—being their last has torn down all the usual walls and left them bare. It’s right there in the unguarded hazel eyes blinking up at him.

Eris cups Azriel’s jaw, stubble prickling his palm. “I will be forever grateful to have known you.” He swallows, but forces himself to complete the thought, “To have known this.”

And then he’s kissing Azriel like the fervor of their lips will mend his shattering heart.

Love begets heartbreak. Eris knows this, has known since before they began, and was still hopeless against the fall. He never stood a chance—doesn’t think he ever wanted to.

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helenmarie95 · 6 months

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Petition Against Raising the Income Requirement for Family Visas in the UK to £38,700 (Only Sign if You are a UK Resident)

So among the other awful things the Tories are doing to this country, they have decided to raise the minimum annual salary requirement for a UK citizen to bring their foreign spouse to the UK from £18,600 to £38,700 from next April. They have more than DOUBLED IT.

This is incredibly fucking stupid for an number of reasons, chief of which is that the median salary across all British jobs is £35,000 if you are a white man, and even worse if you are not that.

On a personal note, this does affect me as an American living in the UK with my British spouse. Luckily, since I changed jobs in October, we JUST BARELY clear this income requirement - and if I hadn't done that, I would be frantically searching for a new job anways. And we have to hope that our situation does not drastically change before I apply for Indefinite Leave to Remain next September.

Here's the thing: I am INCREDIBLY LUCKY. It's also took me five years to get to this point, including over a year working remotely for my parents' business because no UK company would hire me for 'reasons' (my fave being that I didn't sound sophisticated enough. lol.) I'm thinking of so many of my friends right now who suddently have to come up with another £20,000 in the next six months, which is absolutely insane. I'm thinking of my friends who have just had children and are counting on their parter's income to support them during this time who cannot afford to do that anymore. I'm thinking of university students who fell in love on a study abroad like myself, and had everything all planned out for their spouse to move here, only for everything to go up in smoke. I'm thinking of everyone who through no fault of their own are working essential jobs that they enjoy that are suddenly not enough. The NHS, which at this point is built on the backs of immigrants, is going to get even worse.

The government is forcing poor people to choose between the UK and their spouse. And these people are going to choose their spouse, because DUH. And people are going to leave. For some people that means moving back to their spouse's country and hoping that country lets them in. But what if they are LGBT and they cannot go back to their spouse's country because queerness is punishable by death? What are they supposed to fucking do?

It is high-key xenophobic to force British people to ignore foreigners and expect them to marry British spouses. And it's even more heinous considering that this new rule does not apply to the rich. Our own bloody PM has a gajillionaire wife who is not a citizen.

I made a video at the start of this year about my feelings being an immigrant in this country, and so many of my points still hold up and are even more true today.

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Heck, I just got an autism diagnosis but because I'm not a citizen I cannot get disability benefits because I am not allowed public funds - the SAME PUBLIC FUNDS THAT I PAY FOR THROUGH TAXES ON MY PAYCHECK. And don't even think about protesting, because you can be arrested for 'being a nuisance', whatever that's defined as.

But I'd still rather be here that in the U.S. where health insurance and student loan companies would rob me blind and there's a high chance of getting shot walking down the street.

More and more, merely existing in the UK as a person had the gall not to be born here is one of the most radical things you can do.

And I'm going to continue to do it. And so are the rest of us.

So if you do happen to live in the UK, please sign the petition in the link. If you don't, please consider phoning your country's representatives to ask them to condemn this move. Moth and I and all of the others affected by this new rule are extremely grateful for any support you offer

#uk #uk politics #helenmarie95 #i am exhausted and frustrated and angry at this point #i don't know what else to do #immigration #immigrant experience #Youtube

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immigrationlawyersuk · 10 days

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Navigating the UK Spouse Visa Process: A Comprehensive Guide

Securing a spouse visa for the UK can be a complex and daunting process. This visa allows non-UK residents to join their partners in the UK and is subject to a series of stringent requirements and procedures. Whether you are applying for the first time or seeking an extension, understanding the nuances of the application process is crucial. In this guide, we will explore the key aspects of obtaining a UK spouse visa and provide valuable insights on how Immigration Lawyers UK can assist you every step of the way.

What is a UK Spouse Visa?

A UK spouse visa, also known as a marriage visa, allows non-UK residents to live with their British spouse or partner in the UK. This visa is granted for an initial period of 30 months and can be extended for another 30 months. After five years of continuous residence, the visa holder may apply for Indefinite Leave to Remain (ILR), which is a step towards obtaining British citizenship.

Eligibility Requirements

To qualify for a UK spouse visa, applicants must meet several criteria:

Relationship Requirements:

The applicant must be married to or in a civil partnership with a person who is a British citizen or has settled status in the UK.

The relationship must be genuine and subsisting.

Couples must have met in person and intend to live together permanently in the UK.

Financial Requirements:

The sponsor (the UK-based partner) must have an income of at least £18,600 per year. This threshold increases if there are dependent children.

Income can come from various sources, including employment, self-employment, pensions, or savings.

Accommodation Requirements:

The couple must have adequate accommodation in the UK where they will live without relying on public funds.

English Language Requirement:

The applicant must demonstrate a certain level of English proficiency, usually by passing an approved English language test or having an academic qualification taught in English.

The Application Process

The spouse visa application process involves several steps:

Gathering Documentation:

Applicants must collect a comprehensive set of documents to support their application, including proof of relationship, financial evidence, accommodation details, and English language certification.

Completing the Application Form:

The application is submitted online via the UK government's official website. Applicants must provide detailed information about their personal circumstances and relationship.

Paying the Fees:

The application fee for a spouse visa is £1,523 if applying from outside the UK and £1,033 if applying from within the UK. Additionally, applicants must pay the Immigration Health Surcharge (IHS), which grants access to the National Health Service (NHS).

Biometric Appointment:

Applicants must attend a biometric appointment to provide fingerprints and a photograph.

Submission and Waiting Period:

After submitting the application and attending the biometric appointment, applicants must wait for a decision. The processing time can vary, but it typically takes around 12 weeks.

Spouse Visa Extension

If you hold a spouse visa and wish to extend your stay in the UK, you must apply for an spouse visa extension before your current visa expires. The extension process is similar to the initial application, with a few additional considerations:

Continued Relationship:

You must provide evidence that your relationship with your spouse or partner is still genuine and subsisting.

Financial and Accommodation Requirements:

You must continue to meet the financial and accommodation requirements. Updated evidence may be required.

English Language Requirement:

You may need to demonstrate that you still meet the English language requirement, although some applicants may be exempt based on their previous test results or qualifications.

How Immigration Lawyers UK Can Help

Navigating the spouse visa application process can be challenging, and any errors or omissions can lead to delays or refusals. Immigration Lawyers UK specializes in helping applicants with their spouse visa applications and extensions, offering several key benefits:

Expert Guidance:

Immigration Lawyers UK provides expert advice on eligibility requirements and the application process. Their experienced team can help you understand the criteria and ensure you meet all the necessary conditions.

Document Preparation:

Preparing the required documentation can be overwhelming. Immigration Lawyers UK assists with gathering, organizing, and reviewing all necessary documents to ensure your application is complete and accurate.

Application Review:

Before submitting your application, Immigration Lawyers UK will conduct a thorough review to identify and rectify any potential issues. This reduces the risk of delays or refusals due to incomplete or incorrect information.

Representation:

In case of complications or disputes, Immigration Lawyers UK can represent you in communications with the UK Home Office. Their expertise in immigration law ensures that your case is handled professionally and effectively.

Ongoing Support:

From initial application to extension and beyond, Immigration Lawyers UK offers continuous support and guidance. They stay updated on changes in immigration laws and policies, ensuring you receive the most current advice.

Conclusion

Applying for a UK spouse visa or seeking an extension can be a complex and stressful process. However, with the right support and guidance, you can navigate the requirements and secure your visa successfully. Immigration Lawyers UK offers invaluable assistance, ensuring that your application is thorough, accurate, and well-prepared.

If you are considering applying for a spouse visa or need help with an extension, don't hesitate to seek professional advice. Contact Immigration Lawyers UK to ensure your application is in the best possible hands. With their expertise, you can join your partner in the UK and begin building your life together with confidence.

#spouse visa extension

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vssimmigration · 19 days

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Unlocking the Pathway to UK Residency: A Guide to the UK Spouse Visa with vss immigration, Your Trusted Consultant in Jalandhar

Introduction

In an increasingly interconnected world, love knows no borders. Couples often find themselves navigating the complex terrain of international relationships, with the desire to build a life together transcending geographical boundaries. For those looking to unite with their spouse in the United Kingdom, the UK spouse visa stands as a beacon of hope. In Jalandhar, vss immigration emerges as the guiding light, offering expert consultation and support throughout the visa application process.

Understanding the UK Spouse Visa

The UK spouse visa, also known as the marriage visa, is designed to enable individuals to join their partners in the UK. This visa category caters to spouses, civil partners, and unmarried partners of British citizens or individuals with settled status in the UK. It provides the opportunity for couples to live together in the UK for an extended period, with the possibility of eventually applying for indefinite leave to remain (ILR) and, ultimately, British citizenship.

Navigating the Complexities with vss immigration

Embarking on the journey to secure a UK spouse visa can be daunting, with a myriad of requirements and procedures to fulfill. This is where vss immigration, the premier consultancy in Jalandhar, steps in to streamline the process. With their extensive expertise and personalized approach, vss immigration ensures that clients are equipped with the knowledge and resources needed to navigate the complexities of the visa application journey.

Comprehensive Services Offered by vss immigration

At vss immigration, we understand that every client is unique, and their circumstances require tailored solutions. Our team of seasoned professionals offers a comprehensive suite of services to cater to the diverse needs of our clients:

Initial Consultation: We begin by conducting a thorough assessment of the client's situation, providing insights into eligibility criteria, documentation requirements, and procedural intricacies.

Documentation Assistance: Gathering the necessary documents is a crucial aspect of the visa application process. Our experts guide clients through the compilation of essential paperwork, ensuring compliance with UK Visas and Immigration (UKVI) standards.

Application Preparation: Crafting a compelling visa application is essential for success. Our team assists clients in preparing a robust application package, addressing key criteria such as financial stability, genuine relationship evidence, and accommodation arrangements.

Guidance Throughout the Process: From submission to decision, vss immigration stands by its clients every step of the way. We provide ongoing support and guidance, addressing any queries or concerns that may arise during the processing of the visa application.

Appeals and Representation: In the unfortunate event of a visa refusal, vss immigration offers expert guidance on the appeals process. Our experienced consultants provide representation and advocacy, striving to overturn unfavorable decisions and secure a positive outcome for our clients.

Why Choose vss immigration in Jalandhar?

With a plethora of immigration consultants vying for attention, choosing the right partner can make all the difference in your visa journey. Here's why vss immigration stands out from the crowd:

Specialization in UK Spouse Visas: Unlike generalist consultants, vss immigration specializes in UK spouse visas, possessing in-depth knowledge and experience specific to this visa category.

Personalized Approach: At vss immigration, we prioritize personalized service, taking the time to understand each client's unique circumstances and tailor our solutions accordingly.

Proven Track Record of Success: With a track record of successful visa applications, vss immigration instills confidence in clients, assuring them of our commitment to excellence.

Transparent and Ethical Practices: Transparency and integrity form the cornerstone of our operations. Clients can trust vss immigration to provide honest advice and adhere to the highest ethical standards.

Continued Support Beyond Visa Acquisition: Our relationship with clients extends beyond the issuance of the visa. We remain a trusted partner, offering support and guidance as clients settle into their new lives in the UK.

Conclusion

Embarking on the journey to secure a UK spouse visa is a significant milestone for couples seeking to build a future together in the United Kingdom. With vss immigration as your trusted consultant in Jalandhar, navigating the complexities of the visa application process becomes a seamless and stress-free experience. From initial consultation to visa acquisition, vss immigration stands by you every step of the way, ensuring that your dream of reuniting with your spouse in the UK becomes a reality.

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saniya054 · 2 months

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Your Complete Handbook to UK Visas for Dubai Residents

Introduction

For Dubai residents, the prospect of traveling to the United Kingdom offers a multitude of opportunities, whether it's for tourism, education, work, or family visits. However, navigating the UK visa process can be overwhelming without proper guidance. In this comprehensive handbook, we'll provide Dubai residents with all the essential information they need to know about obtaining UK visas, covering various visa types, application procedures, requirements, and expert tips for a successful application.

Understanding UK Visas: An Overview

Before delving into the specifics, it's crucial to understand the different types of UK visas available for Dubai residents:

Visitor Visas: Visitor visas are suitable for individuals planning to visit the UK for tourism, business, or to visit family and friends. These visas are typically granted for short stays and do not permit work or study.

Study Visas: Study visas cater to individuals intending to pursue educational courses or programs in the UK. This category includes visas for students at all academic levels, from primary education to higher education.

Work Visas: Work visas are designed for individuals with a job offer from a UK employer or those seeking to engage in work-related activities in the UK. Various sub-categories exist, such as skilled worker visas, intra-company transfer visas, and entrepreneur visas.

Family Visas: Family visas enable individuals to join family members who are either British citizens or settled residents in the UK. This category encompasses visas for spouses, partners, children, and other dependents.

Settlement Visas: Settlement visas, also known as indefinite leave to remain (ILR) or permanent residency visas, allow individuals to live permanently in the UK. This category is typically for individuals who have been residing in the UK on a temporary visa and meet specific eligibility criteria.

Application Process for UK Visas from Dubai

Now, let's explore the step-by-step application process for obtaining UK visas from Dubai:

Determine the Appropriate Visa Type: The first step is to identify the most suitable type of visa based on your purpose of travel to the UK. Whether it's for tourism, study, work, or family reunion, selecting the correct visa category is essential.

Gather Required Documents: Thoroughly review the specific requirements for your chosen visa category and compile all necessary documents, such as your passport, photographs, application form, financial evidence, and supporting documents.

Complete the Online Application: Most UK visa applications can be completed online through the official UK government website or the Visa4UK portal. Provide accurate information and answer all questions truthfully during the application process.

Pay the Visa Fee: Pay the applicable visa fee online using a valid debit or credit card. The visa fee varies depending on the type of visa and duration of stay.

Schedule Biometrics Appointment: After submitting your online visa application and paying the fee, schedule an appointment to provide biometric data (fingerprints and photograph) at a Visa Application Centre (VAC) in Dubai.

Attend Visa Interview (if required): Depending on the type of visa and your personal circumstances, you may be required to attend a visa interview at the VAC. Be prepared to answer questions about your travel plans, intentions, and supporting documents.

Wait for Visa Decision: Once you've completed all the necessary steps, wait for a decision on your visa application. You can track the progress of your application online using the reference number provided during the application process.

Collect Visa and Biometric Residence Permit (BRP): If your visa application is approved, you'll receive a visa vignette (sticker) in your passport, allowing you to enter the UK. Additionally, you'll be issued a Biometric Residence Permit (BRP) within a specified period after your arrival in the UK, which serves as evidence of your immigration permission.

Expert Tips for a Successful UK Visa Application from Dubai

To enhance your chances of a successful UK visa application from Dubai, consider the following expert tips:

Start Early: Initiate the visa application process well in advance of your planned travel date to allow ample time for processing and any unforeseen delays.

Double-Check Documents: Thoroughly review the visa requirements and ensure that all documents are complete, accurate, and up-to-date before submission.

Be Honest and Transparent: Provide truthful information throughout the visa application process to avoid potential complications or visa refusals.

Seek Professional Assistance if Needed: If you're unsure about any aspect of the visa application process, consider seeking advice from immigration consultants or legal experts with experience in UK visa applications.

Conclusion

Obtaining a UK visa from Dubai can be a significant milestone in pursuing your travel, educational, work, or family goals in the United Kingdom. By understanding the visa types, application process, and incorporating expert tips into your application strategy, Dubai residents can navigate the process with confidence and increase their chances of success. Whether you're planning a short visit or seeking to establish a long-term presence in the UK, this handbook provides valuable insights and resources to guide you through every step of the journey.

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Success Story: Spouse Visa Granted Under Less Than Two Months

Our specialist Immigration Team has recently been successful in securing a spouse visa for our client, a USA citizen. The client and her British spouse were long-distance for several years and decided to instruct us in making an application on their behalf to allow for the two to establish a life together in the UK. Our team worked diligently to ensure all necessary documentation was completed…

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UK Residency Through Business Ownership: The Self-Sponsorship Route Advantage

Introduction to UK Self-Sponsorship Visa

Starting a journey to UK permanent residency and British citizenship is a significant milestone for individuals looking to establish themselves in the UK. Among the various immigration routes available, the UK Self-Sponsorship Visa stands out as a compelling pathway, especially for entrepreneurs and experienced professionals seeking autonomy and long-term stability in the UK.

Key Benefits of UK Self-Sponsorship Route

1. Unparalleled Control Over Entrepreneurial Endeavours

The UK Self-Sponsorship Visa offers an unparalleled level of control over your entrepreneurial ventures. Unlike other visa options, this route empowers you to pursue your business goals with minimal constraints, allowing for greater autonomy and decision-making authority in shaping your enterprise.

2. Flexibility and Freedom in Business Operations

Navigating the immigration landscape can be complex, but the Self-Sponsorship route streamlines the process, providing a clear and proven pathway with fewer bureaucratic hurdles. Enjoy the flexibility to structure your business according to your vision, coupled with the freedom to innovate and adapt in a conducive business environment.

3. Pathway to Permanent Residency and Stability

One of the most significant advantages of the UK Self-Sponsorship Visa is its potential contribution to achieving Indefinite Leave to Remain (ILR) status, ultimately leading to permanent residency in the UK. This long-term security not only offers stability but also opens doors to a myriad of opportunities for personal and professional growth.

4. Benefits for Dependents

a) Family Unity and Support

Applicants under the Self-Sponsorship Visa can be joined by their spouse and children, fostering family unity and support throughout the immigration journey.

b) Right to Work for Dependents

Dependents accompanying the primary applicant have the right to work in the UK, enhancing financial stability and creating opportunities for the entire family.

c) Free Education for Dependent Children

Dependent children are entitled to free education in the UK, ensuring access to quality schooling and academic opportunities, further enriching their future prospects.

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How The SmartMove2UK Can Assist

1. Entrepreneurs and Business Owners

Whether you are a seasoned entrepreneur or venturing into a new business endeavour, The SmartMove2UK specializes in providing tailored solutions that cater to your specific needs and aspirations. Our expertise ensures that you can navigate the complexities of the Self-Sponsorship route with confidence and efficiency.

2. Global Professionals

For global professionals possessing valuable skills, business acumen, or entrepreneurial experience, the Self-Sponsorship route presents a compelling opportunity to realize your ambitions in the UK. Our track record of successfully assisting clients from diverse backgrounds and industries underscores our commitment to facilitating smooth transitions and securing UK permanent residency.

Eligible Businesses for UK Self-Sponsorship Route

The inclusivity of the Self-Sponsorship visa is a defining feature, as there are no restrictions on the type or sector of the business you wish to establish. Whether you operate in tech, finance, healthcare, or any other industry, this visa route accommodates diverse entrepreneurial visions, fostering innovation and economic growth.

Typical Requirements of the UK Self-Sponsorship Route

While specific financial requirements may vary, it is crucial that the business be genuine and viable. Additionally, demonstrating basic English proficiency (CEFR level B1 or higher) is essential to meet the eligibility criteria under the Skilled Worker visa route.

Also watch our video on How can a Self-Sponsorship Visa help Establish a Business in the UK?

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Conclusion: Seize the Opportunity

In conclusion, the UK Self-Sponsorship Visa represents a golden opportunity for individuals seeking to establish businesses and secure a path to permanent residency in the UK. By taking control of your entrepreneurial journey, unleashing your innovative spirit, and leveraging the expertise of The SmartMove2UK, you can embark on a fulfilling and successful venture in the United Kingdom.

For further information and expert assistance, do not hesitate to contact our dedicated UK Business visa consultants, who have been guiding clients through their business expansion endeavours since 2009.

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Your Comprehensive Guide to the UK Spouse Visa: Reuniting with Your Loved One in the UK

The UK Spouse Visa, also known as a UK Partner Visa, is a gateway for non-UK residents to join their UK spouse (or civil partner) and build a future together in the United Kingdom. Whether you have recently married or have been in a committed relationship for years, this visa allows you to officially establish your life with your spouse in the UK.

Eligibility Criteria: Demonstrating a Genuine Relationship

The foundation of a successful UK Spouse Visa application rests on proving a genuine and subsisting relationship with your UK spouse. This can be established through various means:

Marriage Certificate: A valid marriage certificate issued by a recognized authority is the most straightforward proof.

Civil Partnership Documents: If you're in a civil partnership recognized in the UK, the official civil partnership certificate will suffice.

Evidence of Cohabitation: For couples who haven't formalized their union but have been living together for at least two years, providing documents like joint tenancy agreements, utility bills with both names and shared bank statements can demonstrate a genuine cohabiting relationship.

Meeting the Financial Requirements for Your UK Spouse

To ensure your well-being in the UK, the visa process requires your UK spouse to meet a minimum income threshold. This amount is currently set at £29,000 per year but is scheduled to increase to £38,700 by early 2025. Your UK spouse can meet this requirement through their salary, savings, or a combination of both. Additionally, income from certain sources like pensions or child maintenance payments may be considered.

Navigating the UK Spouse Visa Application Process

The application for a UK Spouse Visa is handled entirely online through the UK government website. The process involves gathering and submitting various documents, including:

Your passport and any previous passports you've held.

Your partner's passport and proof of their settled status in the UK.

Marriage certificate, civil partnership documents, or cohabitation evidence.

Financial documents demonstrating your UK spouse meets the income requirement.

Tuberculosis test certificate (may be required depending on your nationality).

In some instances, you might be called for an interview with an immigration officer to discuss your application and relationship further.

What to Expect After Your UK Spouse Visa is Granted

Once your UK Spouse Visa is approved, you'll be granted an initial visa typically valid for 2 years and 9 months. This allows you to reside in the UK with your spouse and enjoy certain benefits:

The Right to Work: The UK Spouse Visa grants you the authorization to work and contribute to the UK economy.

Path to Permanent Residency: After the initial visa period, you can apply for extensions and eventually settle permanently in the UK, leading to Indefinite Leave to Remain.

Staying Updated and Seeking Support

The landscape of UK immigration is subject to change, and it is important to stay updated with the latest information on the UK Spouse Visa.

Additional Tips for a Smooth Application Journey

Gather Documents Early: Start collecting all the required documents well in advance to avoid delays in processing. The earlier you have everything prepared, the quicker your application can be assessed.

Seek Professional Guidance: If your situation involves complexities, such as previous marriages or dependent children, consider consulting with an immigration lawyer or advisor for professional guidance.

Demonstrate a Genuine Relationship: Remember, the UK Spouse Visa is intended for couples in a bona fide relationship. Be prepared to present strong evidence that showcases the depth and authenticity of your bond with your UK partner.

By following these guidelines and staying informed about the latest regulations, you can confidently navigate the UK Spouse Visa process and embark on a new chapter in your life with your UK spouse.

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The Essential Guide to UK Spouse Visa Requirements

UK Spouse Visa – Where Hearts Unite, Borders Can’t Divide!

Finding a spouse visa in the UK is one of the hardest things to do. To prove your status, you must provide a lot of proof that your relationship is real. The person sponsoring you in the UK must make over £18,600 yearly. You must also ensure you have enough accommodations to meet the UK Spouse Visa requirements.

Your specific visa needs will depend on what’s going on with you. A spouse visa application must be made if you want to move to the UK with your spouse. You can also apply if you are engaged to or unmarried to a British citizen or person with settled status. People who want a spouse visa must either have become British citizens or have been born in Britain.

A fiancé visa is only suitable for six months, during which you must get married if you meet the UK spouse visa standards. A spouse or partner visa for an unmarried person is suitable for thirty months. You can ask for another thirty months as soon as the thirty months are up. If you meet the requirements, you can apply for Indefinite Leave to Remain (ILR) and then British citizenship after five years.

The UK Spouse Visa Requirements

To get a spouse visa in the UK, it is necessary to be legally married to either a British citizen or a person with indefinite leave to remain in status. In addition, you are required to fulfil particular criteria, including:

The actual relationship criteria require the demonstration of sincere affection and the intention to establish a permanent residence between you and your spouse.

The financial requirements include evidence of your ability to sustain your family without appealing to public assistance.

The accommodation criteria require offering suitable housing for your family to reside in the United Kingdom.

You need to be able to communicate in English to meet the criteria for the English language.

You must compile thorough documentation proving your eligibility for these criteria. Seek assistance from UK immigration solicitors for expert guidance in your application process.

Spouse Visa Applications Need Documents

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For your application to be accepted, you need to put together a bunch of supporting papers. These documents must include:

Any proof that you and your partner love each other, like photos of the two of you, call and chat logs, money transfers, or shared bank accounts.

Show proof that you’ve met at least once.

Signs that the person speaks English well. Depending on the country, this could be the IELTS test scores, a degree taught in English, or a card from an English-speaking country.

Bank records, pay slips, or job contracts listing your salary prove you make enough money to meet the minimum income requirement.

Your proof that you can afford the place to live, like a mortgage or a shared rental agreement.

Depending on your situation, you might need to show more proof. Talk to a professional from our team right now to get help – Learn More

The Genuine Relationship Requirement

Your British citizen partner and you must show that you are genuinely in love and that your relationship is stable to get leave to stay in the UK together.

The Home Office will mainly look at the following to decide if your relationship is real:

You must have met your partner in person at least once during your marriage.

You can get an Unmarried Partner Visa if you and your partner have been together for at least two years and are serious about being together.

You need to show proof that you and your partner have been together. To do this, you can show logs of your calls and chats, pictures of the two of you together, and bank accounts that you both use.

UK Spouse Visa Financial Requirement

For you and your partner to be able to get a spouse visa and stay in the UK, you must both make a gross annual income of £18,600 before spring 2024. This goes up by £3,800 for the first child who depends on you and by £2,400 for each new kid.

Any of the following sources, or a mix of them, may provide this:

Salary from a job (including self-employment)

Stock and share money

Pension

Income from Renting Out (if Used)

Savings worth up to sixteen thousand pounds

You can only use your pay to support your application if you live in the UK and make the money there.

Sometimes, you may not be required to meet the financial criteria. Typically, this happens if you get any of the following advantages:

Allowance to Live on Disability

Allowance for Serious Disabilities

Disability Benefit for Work-Related Injuries

Showing up Amount Given

Payment for Personal Independence

Guaranteed Income or Payment for Independence for the Armed Forces

You will get money through the Armed Forces Compensation Scheme.

Allowance for Constant Attendance, Mobility Supplement, or War

Pensions for disabled people under the War Pensions Scheme

Benefits for loss

If you want these benefits, you must prove that you can provide “sufficient maintenance” for your partner and any children. There are certain situations where the Home Office must consider if the UK supporter needs more money.

Spring 2024 Financial Requirements Changes

The new minimum income will start at £29,000 in the spring of 2024 and gradually rise to £34,500 and then £38,700.

Apply as soon as possible to avoid this new change.

Most importantly, starting in the spring of 2024, the minimum income standard will no longer include a different child factor. This means that each child won’t need any extra money.

Their decision will be based on the current income requirement for people who already have a visa or who are applying before the minimum income level goes up. This also goes for people who have a fiance visa right now, even if they want to apply for a spouse’s visa later.

People who are switching from another route to this one (after the changes have been made) will be evaluated using the new standards.

English Language Requirements

The person who is not British must show the Home Office that they can speak and understand English very well to get a spouse visa to stay in the UK.

One of the following must be done to show your skill:

Take and pass an official English test at a level at least as high as A1, based on your situation.

Have a degree from a well-known school where you studied or took classes in English.

Come from a place where English is the primary language.

Accommodation Requirement

You may need to find suitable housing for your family to live with you and your partner in the UK. It could be:

A rented house

A temporary place to stay

A building that is mortgaged or owned.

A flat with one room and a shared bed is enough for most couples. In any case, your house needs an extra bedroom for every child over one.

Our offices are in London, Manchester, Birmingham, and many other places in the UK, so if you need help with your spouse’s visa application, we can help.

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Forgiveness: Love & Respect Takes Two Good Forgivers

Today's inspiration comes from:

The Love and Respect Devotional

by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs

"Make allowances for each other’s faults and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others."— Colossians 3:13 NLT

"'Ruth Graham, whose marriage to Billy lasted over sixty happy, God-glorifying years, was often heard to say, “A good marriage is made of two good forgivers.” Her comment, while true for every marriage, applies especially to a Love & Respect couple, because forgiveness is the ultimate strategy for halting the Crazy Cycle or, better yet, for preventing it from getting started. A paraphrase of today’s verse says it all:

forgive each other as Christ forgave you. We know we should forgive, but between the knowing and the doing there can be a big gap. And when you are sitting on the unforgiving side of that gap, you can pay a price. Jesus warned His followers of how big that price can be when He taught,

If you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins. — Matthew 6:15 NLT

Was Jesus saying that unforgiveness could cost you your salvation? No, but it can disrupt your fellowship and favor with the Lord. God does not damn us for unforgiveness, but He does enact discipline. Sarah and I learned this early in our marriage, when a typical morning scene would find us in an angry spat, neither one willing to forgive or ask forgiveness. Still smoldering, I would leave for my office at the church to work on my sermon for the coming Sunday. But when I sat down to pray and read the Scriptures, the heavens would not open. God seemed to have something on His mind. I heard no audible voice, but He spoke quite clearly nonetheless: If you do not forgive Sarah and seek her forgiveness, I cannot allow My Spirit to touch your spirit. Things will not be right until you call her and reconcile.

More often than not, I would reach for the phone to make that call and it would ring first. It would be Sarah, wanting to reconcile because she had been getting exactly the same message from the Lord!

Feelings can make or break a habit.

Our spats were usually small stuff — two young married people butting heads over very little. Our conflicts were nothing compared to what some couples go through due to adultery, abuse, or desertion. But whether the matter is major or minor, the path to forgiveness is to realize that the issue that prompts your need to forgive isn’t primarily about your relationship to your spouse; it’s about your relationship to God. Suppose Sarah is 100 percent guilty in wronging me. Her guilt cannot justify my unforgiving heart. I can remain unforgiving of Sarah as long as I wish. While I lick my wounds, I can argue with God and explain my “right” to be unforgiving. But God’s spiritual law stands firm: if I don’t forgive, I remain in a place where God’s forgiveness will not go because sin blocks our fellowship.

INSIGHT: To not forgive is to shoot yourself in the foot and put extra gas in the Crazy Cycle.

Do you remember the scene where Peter comes to Jesus, wanting to know how many times he must forgive? He gives an estimate that he hopes will impress Jesus: seven times. That was twice what the law required, but Jesus simply replies,

Not seven times, but seventy-seven times. — Matthew 18:22 NIV

His hyperbole makes the message clear to every couple — forgive indefinitely.

Granted, right about here you may be asking, okay, Emerson, to be right with God, does forgiving mean just letting the same hurtful, unloving, or disrespectful stuff go by over and over without ever talking about it?

No, not at all, but that’s part II of our study of forgiveness (see chapter 27). For now, focus on the fact that your Love & Respect marriage does take two good forgivers. You make allowance for each other’s faults as you forgive as many times as it takes. And you both forgive for one simple but profound reason: because you know Christ has forgiven you!

PRAYER: Thank God for forgiving you through the sacrifice of His son. Ask Him for the wisdom and courage to forgive each other seventy times or as many times as it takes. (Also consider bringing up people whom you need to forgive at work, at church, or in other situations, because these issues could be affecting how you treat your spouse or children.)

ACTION: Practice “quick forgiveness” this week no matter what the offense. Don’t let “little things” fester. Pick up that phone and make that call."'

Excerpted with permission from The Love and Respect Devotional by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, copyright Emerson Eggerichs.

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