#am i being overdramatic or am i right

[rg11]

whats your fav aspect(s) of jadekat?

anon im sorry but i had like 40+ notes prepaired for my thoughts on jadekat but i lost all of them proof-reading it and this is all i got

they are the ultimate yuri to me

#jadekat #rgtxt #there was also tags that were like #karkat did not get the outcome he wanted with jade #he punished himself (slapping himself isnt that bad but i digress) #for well finding pity in such a “stupid” human #and it was obvious to him she hated him #(before the apology) #he wanted to troll her but got red feelings for her and did not like it #like i feel like if youre nice to jade she would be nice to you but with how karkat was being an ass he just got into more shit lol #like another thing is that they bicker a lot #like in the old couple way but also like... #a highschool couple shipped together by their school but they do not like eachother that much #like that probably isnt a real trope but its a trope in my head #but its like 3am sorry anon my thoughts are jumbled and i dont remember much right now soz #but in the sense of bickering it was more like opposite trolling #mainly with the passwords #but karkat was just trolling himself with that hugeass paragraph with just... i dont want to think about it hes just fucking weird #i am referring to page 3972 #i think the whole “you turned it into this overdramatic thing” is a good way to dumb down their relationship #most of her actions are just poking fun but then he will make a whole entire soap opera #she would do a puppet show he would do shakespear #and thats funny as shit

[grayisblogging]

this is the worst day of my life

#the day i have had.. #and you tell me this… #ok #cool #no yeah i don’t even care actually it’s fine #not like i am on this stupid ass fucking website posting about this shit every damn day #i knew something like this would happen bc of the strike but a whole nother year…. what. how could you do this to me #like me specifically #i know you thought about me specifically when posting that tweet and said is this gonna make her kill herself and yeah it is #ITS JOEVER #hurts me so bad to have to bring this to this blog i am supposed to be safe here however when the movie does arrive i will look back on #this post and wonder where all the time went so fast. Right? RIGHT.?! #the batman #do not tell me i am being overdramatic about this i dont know you

[tavina-writes]

spiritually screaming while chasing this fic through the word document like "GET IN THE BOX GET IN THE BOX GET IN THE BOX" rn.

"why do I do writing so much if I also hate it so much," I say, at every time I get to this point in the story (66% in).

#sorry I'm being overdramatic #but I am NOT experiencing writer joy right now #writer woes

[justinefrischmanngf]

i’m almost certain that i’m not. but sometimes i do wonder if i am just making a needlessly big deal about Things In My Life And Brain like idk. what if it’s not that bad. what if the only thing wrong with me is that i’m just really dramatic.

#oooooooooh there r things happening in my brain and body that i shld probably journal about or smth but i think instead ! i would like 2 #ignore them xoxo idw deal with any of this tbh. but i do also wonder if i’m just being overdramatic like what right do i have #except i am like very sure that i’m not. but the guilt oh the guilt #anywayzzzzzzzzz tbh ignoring it might not be such a bad idea 4 now

[magenta-somethings]

you know what fucks me up. you know what fucks me up every time. that its the stormlight archive. not the stormlight archives. archive, singular. i know its bc the archive in question is singular. doesn't matter. is still fucks me up. it should be stormlight archives. every time i say the series name, the s tries to sneak out my mouth. every time i type it, the s key beckons my finger. the rare times im using paper, the pen calls to write just one more letter. fucks me up fr

#stormlight archive #am i being overdramatic? yes #do i have any logical basis for this? no #but in my heart i am right & just

[gideonisms]

if anything happens tomorrow that makes me MORE anxious I'm getting another piercing or a tattoo if anything happens that makes me LESS anxious I'm buying myself the alecto hot sword girl print

#either way i win! unless i find out i have a scary illness. haha #uhhhhh #anyway i feel like i'm going to be more anxious tomorrow so what tlt quote should i get underneath the sword tattoo i am planning #i was going to do this time will be the time we get it right but decided it implies too much murder once you read the whole poem #oh but then it's like. what if i don't die of horrible diseases and i'm being overdramatic #then what if alecto comes out and it has a line even better than all the other lines in the books so far #and i want that one instead #it's a tough decision. i'm not getting any fucks tattooed on my body which limits me somewhat re: tlt lines

[ihaventsleptinweekz]

Sometimes I think I'm a normal person then the 11 pm thought kicks in and suddenly I'm insane

#Going to mildly and vaugly vent in the tags to buckle up ^_^ #Will not clarify on any of this because it's more fun not to. Hope that helps #Anyway I'm kind of just. Weirded out by myself rn. Like I'm fine but I'm side-eyeing myself a little bit #And recently I've been believing thay I think really I was more immature a year ago #and while I do think back at her (year ago me) and kinda laugh at her for being overdramatic I feel kinda bad about it because yknow I was #But then I got kind of weirdly slowed down? In my being less freaked out process #Mostly because of Hellenite everyone say thank you hellenite (sarcastic love those fics so much) #But reading the fic kind of reminded me of the emotions that were going on at that time #And while I don't really miss or regret what happened too much anymore I think the general emotions of it started popping up again #Like idk how to say this but I'm over IT as a whole- but the emotions are still kinda left over? #Man really do NOT know how to put this #Cause it's kinda old news and frankly I am wildly happy with where I am right now #And I'm kind of thankful?? But also just a little :I about the whole thing. Which is making me inwardly side-eyeish #And I do think that I probably wouldn't change much if I could- and honestly I'm a little more embarrassed than anything else #Sorry for the weird long rambling tags just didn't want to call either of the like- maybe 3 friends I'd consider bringing this up with #I probably should check in with them though #Ough and I have work to do tmrw #Ew ew ew ew #Feel like this week has gone too damn fast and also not fast enough lmao #I'm also kinda nervous because I might have to take the ASL placement test soon to see if I qualify for skipping a couple ASL classes #Which would be nice cause I would LOVE to graduate quicker #And with all the AP classes I took in high-school it'd be nice to knock a bit of time off my college thing #Although admittedly I DID get that scholarship so it couldn't hurt??? #It might actually give me more time to get EIPA certified and check out some internships?? #Which would make getting jobs out of college WAY easier #Although maybe it'd be easier to get NIC certified if I retook a couple classes instead of trying to skip them??? God maybe I'd be behind #Ofc that wouldn't be a thing until after college #I'll probably have to save up money soon to start thinking about taking the test since it's so damn hard and so damn expensive #At least from what other interpreters have told me #Which is good!!! The it being hard thing anyways. Makes sure Deaf people get GOOD interpreters thst they deserve!!

[resetting37]

today is simon's birthday and also the first day of oc_tober, in which the first prompt is favorite oc. So I get to draw both simon and morgan todayyyyy

#that will have to be later though #if ur following me on my main blog or my twitter I am on a thirteen hour meltdown right now and I feel empty inside #yes I'm being overdramatic and I will hopefully get over it

[earthylight]

how am I supposed to do schoolwork when laws are being passed/proposed every day to make trans people’s lives a living hell and people are debating my right and my friends’ rights and my community’s right to live

#and I literally feel overdramatic #bc other people in other countries and even this one have it worse #and there are other communities here in america who have been dealing with this for much longer #like obviously the BIPOC community #and people experiencing homelessness #I know it’s not good to compare and that’s not what Im trying to do #I just feel like Im being really dramatic and I genuinely can’t tell if I am or not #like should I be scared and preparing to move to a different country??? or is it too soon???? #I was really looking forward to graduating next year and moving somewhere with my friends and finally getting gender affirming care #but I don’t know if my friends would want to move out of the states #I can’t expect them to #and I don’t know how much it would cost to move to a different country and it’s kinda scary to think about doing that alone #anyways 🤪 lol! #if I’m being overdramatic just ignore this 👍🏻 #or message me privately and tell me to take this down 🫶🏻 #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbt+ #trans rights #trans #transgender #trans community

[businesspilled]

i am. not well.

#punch therapy #vent #basically i sprained my ankle and it hurts so bad i can't walk without falling and crying LOL #im trying really hard but i have so much stupid trauma with expressing pain and being told i'm being overdramatic and i know nobodys going #to say that to me but my words keep getting caught in my throat and im like. what if i am being overdramatic #trauma aside i also just naturally don't express when i'm in pain bc i usually just am like. what can i do i just gotta suck it up. #but fuck me if it doesnt hurt so so so so so bad #also im okay but im not. but i am but no i am not. but yes i am ultimately actually for realsies fine #like at the end of the day whatever its good itll heal. but right now it hurty oof ouch

[azaleadynasty]

where did the whole bylers are misogynistic and ableist come from??

like i saw it used as a ‘milkvans and bylers are just as toxic as each other’ on tiktok

and like i’ve only every seen milkvans be homophobic, misogynistic and ableist towards bylers and to el, will and max as characters

maybe i missed a point in time were that was everywhere in the byler community, but it just seems like a (homophobic) stereotype that because we ship a queer ship we’re misogynistic towards el, and because quite a few of bylers (and it’s also the ga and some other ppl in the fandom) agree that el isn’t/wasn’t ready for a relationship yet because of her lack of understanding of the world

like it just seems like ppl wanting to downplay the homophobia in the stranger things community and especially in the milkvan community by bringing up something that is very rare to see in the byler community

#byler #again i may be wrong #but like it just annoyed me #they were a lvm4x shipper so they don’t rlly look in to milkvan and byler shipping communitys much im assuming #am i right to be annoyed or am i just being overdramatic cause im used to seeing ppl be openly homophobic and then make comments like #‘bylers call you homophobic if you don’t ship them’ #LIKE WE CALL YOU HOMOPHOBIC BECAUSE YOU ARE

[neverquiteedenstudyblr]

I understand that the act of creating a new self is toil and requires allowing the parts of you that are dying to rot so that they can nourish the earth where you grow but that takes TIME

part of me wants to burn the whole tree to the ground and just sweep it away and start again, but i put energy into this tree goddamnit. it has borne fruit - not the sweetest or largest of fruits, but fruit nonetheless. it has sheltered me. i have watered it and tried to provide it with fertile soil, it was provided with plenty of staves as a sapling - yet it does not branch the way i wish it to

...

even if the tree had blight, or was swamped with ivy, or an invasive species was nesting in it, that would not justify the burning of a tree that you've been working on for over a decade.

perhaps the tree was given too strong a stave for the windy weather it would experience? perhaps now it still requires guidance, structure to cling onto, even if it no longer needs it just to stay upright.

You might prune a tree but you aren't going to just burn the whole fucking thing down and start over just because the branches aren't falling where you'd hoped, or because it broke a branch from producing too much fruit

the trunk is strong. The branches we can work with. we'll be ok.

#occasionally i am a pretentious mf #this actually helped me think things through though because like. bro. #come on. stop being overdramatic lad. #there's planting and weeding and watering to be done #we'll help it out and we'll set it to rights #have a cup of tea #and get on with putting some fertiliser into the bean-beds #eden speaks #i guess this is a diary entry? #talking to myself #diary entry

[myfirstandlast]

the coolest places are ones i will never be invited to

#tumblr always remaining my deeply depressing online diary #i don’t know how to be appealing to people cooler and more interesting than me #i just have nothing of interest to give i am so nothing in a huge gigantic world #i dont want to be such a fucking loser but it feels like this is it this is all there is and i’m losing my 20s to being a fucking lame #i don’t know. i never feel right or exactly happy. i don’t know what my problem is besides my general lack of knowledge and sense #even this is embarrassing like overdramatic 22 year old being embarrassing online. i wish i could blow up

[healingheartdogs]

Sometimes “drama” is not actually drama. Sometimes it’s marginalized and abused people taking a stance against something harmful. The other side of that calls it “drama” and really wants you to see it as just “drama” so they can discredit the position of the marginalized and abused and make those people look like they are overreacting, when in actuality the marginalized and abused people are being reasonably defensive in the interest of their own safety and the safety of others like them. Nothing is ever just “drama” when it involves discussions of legitimate bigotry and human rights, and calling it such is a take I see almost exclusively from white people with some form of privilege. Just some food for thought.

#ndr #not dog related #hello new people if you don't want to see stuff like this please follow those two tags #dogbook discourse #also something isn't drama just because you don't know details about it either #if you see something about a situation you are not involved in please don't be like 'ooh drama what am I missing' #or 'ooh drama I'm so out of the loop' #because that literally just helps the other side when it comes to serious issues like this in stealing the voices of the marginalized #and making them out to be overreactive drama starters when they are actually fighting for their rights and safety #if you don't know about it? just ignore it and move on #and don't voice an opinion without the actual details #this is not a vague post this time I'm just over legitimate issues being labeled as drama and treated as tea in general #especially when those issues are actively hurting people and making a space unsafe #just musing because I know this is going to happen and it's only a matter of time #and the trans and queer people involved will be the ones framed as being overdramatic for having boundaries #which is an ABUSE TACTIC #one that jessica has been using for at least a year now #so I won't be surprised

[hellohoihey]

The less insecure i get the more annoying i become it’s truly epic

#love singing silly little songs and doing silly little dances #and being maybe a tad overdramatic #..within the comfort of my own home. people scare me #but it's like wow.. i can sing.. that's possible.. mom do you know this song #don't you remember this #hey. hey. #like it's actually annoying at some point but if i keep doing it she kind of ignores it bless her #there are of course other annoying things to be done but i am talking about right now #sayingthing #👍👍 #either silent or a little obnoxious #but isn't that everyone #<- no i don't think so

[un-pearable]

OKAY season 3 thoughts time. not as long but also s3 was like half the size:

worst thing first: the jay/naya/cole love triangle is so ...... bland. its got nothing going for it. like at this point in the show jay/naya honestly speaking doesn't really have a lot going for it. like we dont ever see them hang out or do fun stuff together as a couple or have any cute bonding scenes outside of jay being like "wowww nya hot" or anything. we dont have any real reason to root for them, so why they decided to introduce a love triangle is beyond me. like i guess its because they haven't done anything interesting with jay/naya and a love triangle is the easiest and blandest option possible, but like. come on. cole & naya barely interact in the season outside of cole fighting with jay and i'm really confused as to why we're supposed to think cole has any romantic interest in naya because they... have even less going for them than jay/naya. like man if we're gonna have a love triangle anyways i'd like to have any reason to root for at least one side. please. im not asking for much. make your characters hang out a bit and have some common interests and enjoy spending time together before you start telling me they're in love.

number two: im kind of obsessed with how garmadon's moral standards consistently disappear when it comes to lloyd. like pre this season he takes his vow of non violence or whatever but after lloyd gets captured it just. goes completely out the window. moral compass: son

number three: circling back to ninjago's inability to write a compelling romance i dont inherently mind zane/pixel (and its certainly got better writing than the.... uh . competition, if you want to even bother calling it that) but i do wish the writers would start out these romantic relationships with a much more solid platonic base. like its not the end of the world but i do wish it was more compelling.

number four: ZANE GIRLBOSSING IT THIS SEASON FINALE!!!!!!!!!!! this is one of the few things i did remember from like 8 years ago and for good reason its because hes literally perfect in every single way

number five: im nitpicking here but i think lloyd should get to swear. i think he's earned it

number six: this is more of a general observation than anything else but one thing i think is really . weird. about ninjago's writing is that it seems that every season they give the ninja new cool epic powers and then by the next one they get taken away. and like i understand the reasoning for this - its like when shounen writers keep giving their protagonist increasingly world-shattering powers and the power levels just keep getting more and more ridiculous, because if your original villain is "conquering the whole world and turning everybody evil" then theres only so much you can amp that up as the seasons go on without tacking on too many powers that nobody should be able to stand up to the hero anymore - but also its just. its just weird because i dont think ive ever seen anything like this.

okay i think thats abouttt it im, as always, very excited to get to some of the things i distantly recall (namely in particular the giant green eyeball thing and possibly a tournament / survival island arc that i think was a thing (???)) i know lots is in store and all i really want rn is character interactions. thats my dream i will honestly forgive so much as long as im having fun with the characters and dynamics in a series

whuff…. yeah. as much as thematically i love pixal and theoretically jaya could be extremely interesting. they do NONE of the work to make them so. zane <3 <3 baby’s first traumatic character death. he is. he really is. he deserves it all and so much more. whoever’s censoring lloyd must get paid well bc that kid grew up in eternal middle school. kid knows more swear words than the rest of these socially isolated dorks let him use them

i’ve never really thought about that but,,,, holy shit yeah???? i’m nowhere near an active dragon ball fan but it IS baffling that instead of the usual shonen style they-just-keep-getting-new-powers and we stop using them bc a) we forgot they existed (which does happen a bit here, but less commonly) or b) they’re just obsolete, in ninjago they EXPLICITLY get said new powers taken away. multiple times. is it a medium limitation?? is it just a quirk of the writers??? i’m gonna be thinking about this all night

#have fun!!!! with s4!!!! it's my personal fave bc i love overdramatic interpersonal drama #and stupid creative fights and what else is a tournament arc but that #also i like titanium zane. he’s cool #god there’s so much potential in robot-who-thought-he-was-human now coming to terms with being a robot BUT right in the middle of him #finally processing it all. he ends up in a body that is MORE ROBOTIC THAN EVER. #oogh….. and by necessity. even if he was finally Fine with it it’s a big leap to make #i’ll shut up about zane now #hell yeah!!!!! i’m absorbing the fun and frustration you’re having through the screen. i am very much eager for your opinions about lloyd #and garmadon in s4 >:] #text✨ #sry it took a bit to post i was shooting myself in the foot (drawing) #liveninjablogging