#but still...it makes me sad/annoyed

[sunlitmcgee]

guys be real with me did I come off too mean or accusatory here or was this. fair and honest

also the bit about it being okay to sexualize him being chubby refers to like. him being fat and Hot. like I'm trying to ask people not to be Weird about him being intersex while gently showing all the other things abt them that are hot and sexy and fun to talk about as such......idk I'm just worried I came off in a weird way here...

#h slur #i think that will help people filter #i rlly hate how fa has that word #as an option in so many filters #i mean i get WHY #because most people don't know it's a slur #i didn't until a few years ago! #but still...it makes me sad/annoyed

[moonpaw]

Fighting DEMONS rn trying not to get invested in one piece to figure out wtf you're posting about!!!!

come here cyber.... we have this thang

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#mp answers #i've been trying so hard not to be annoying to my bnha friends but if you will allow me to push this for this ask let me say 🙏 #if you're afraid of the episode count for one piece the manga is a lot quicker read while being just as enjoyable because the art style is #an actual delight. its great its fantastic im absolutely in love with it #the series is soooo good and i know luffy can seem unappealing to people before they start but he's just SUCH a great character & continues #to be even now. the story is SO GOOD the characters are SO GOOD... theres so much lore and world building that its insane #if you read the manga we get 'cover stories' on what's going on with previous characters to see what theyre up to even though we moved on #from where we left them. a lot of these cover stories blend into the main story so well its just seamless #there's one where we get introduced to a character we dont see hundreds of episodes into the anime and they show up like; during the second #saga. the series is about traveling to other islands and every single arc has been tied to another in some way or form that shows up later #even if its sagas and sagas later- it still becomes relevant again!! it's a huge ongoing story and there isnt a single arc that feels like #it has no purpose (sans filler in the anime-but even then!! some filler arcs are really entertaining!) #it's emotional! its sad! its downright stupid and silly but GOD... you can feel the love that oda put into this series and his characters #and the emotions in the expressions and the messages the story gives off it just makes me UEUHGHHAHGHH!!! #it's all about the adventure and the romance of it all! its about the freedom it brings and bringing freedom to others! #its a series where treasure should be a focus given its pirates and the its a giant treasure hunt for the one piece and yet! and yet so man #of the characters treasures are things that are not coins and gems but people and promises and family and and #im going to EXPLODE i love one piece

[kaeyapilled]

challenge to all ao3 writers use the major character death warning

#like oh my god. okay they're tagging ''character death'' but it still annoys me #it's a MAJOR CHARACTER i dont want to read about kaeya fucking DYING #i should filter out character death as well i guess it's just that i don't mind it if it's just a minor character #i just dont want a fic with an ending that unhappy yknow #sorry i am NOT a major character death girlie it doesn't make me sad in the fun way it's just a bad feeling

[theamazingannie]

Either The Circle is dead on here or tumblr is making it nearly impossible to go through the tag cuz there’s barely ever any posts and my sister is slacking on watching and I NEED to discuss this

#the circle #the circle netflix #i usually use the second tag cuz otherwise I get stuff from that wretched movie #but Im still getting stuff from random other things that are completely unrelated #It’s so annoying #it feels deader than usual this season and that makes me sad #there’s never the same people talking about it each season which is so weird #i need seasonal circle friends lol

[mosspine]

DA-4811-5086-7216

#acnh #acnh inspiration #acnh island #animal crossing #animal crossing new horizons #forest core #dream address #i had a bad day today tbh #acnh makes me feel better ig #i’m still sad #i have a chicken sandwich and a bong waiting for me #off topic but has anyone watched the school for good and evil? #it’s kinda goofy but kinda cool #i need movie recommendations #i LOVE goofy 90’s rom coms and step brothers esque comedy movies #but i will honestly watch almost any movie it’s actually one of my most annoying traits #i don’t remember ANY of them though #i also never watch any shows last episode #last episode of the office? never watched it. #last episode of the 100? i didn’t even watch the last season just to avoid the pain #the last episode of new girl? no thanks i don’t want to SOB #i hate when things end i think #ok i’m gonna shut the fuck up now. ty for coming to my ted talk

[jensensitive]

i feel like i cannot hold onto mutuals anymore on this website to save my life

#makes me sad like damn i really am that annoying #i think it's just because of differing fandom opinions #but it sucks when your fandom opinions differ from so much of fandom on certain things #it isolates you so much #like even if you're a perfectly cool person no one wants to engage with you or see you unless you agree on everything #they just unfollow you if you say something they disagree with #makes me miss lj lol #we disagreed on lots of stuff but more often than now we'd just have conversations about our different ideas #instead of just ignoring the existence of them entirely #given my opinions on things i'm sure i disagree about something major with most of the people i follow but i still enjoy following them idk

[lunar-years]

New 1989 outfit is fugly (I’m so sorry Taylor) but very reminiscent of 1989 tour (when many of the costumes were indeed also fugly 🫡)

The acoustic set outfit is also worse :(

Combining folklore and evermore is meh tbh like I don’t love that at all but I also completely see why it had to be done

I stared at the “this is not Taylor’s Version” t shirt for an embarrassingly long amount of time trying to figure out what on earth she was trying to say and I still think it’s not something that makes much sense out of context/accompanied by a side explanation and it was a weird choice for the shirt lmao.

ttpd set goes incredibly hard 100/10 NO NOTES.

her coming out in that same freaking reputation jumpsuit after changing every other outfit in the show was peak comedy (she’s so funny and we can never talk about that enough)

the entire shape of the show has changed imho so I think it’s fair for fans to be sad about missing last years half or missing this years half or about not getting to see certain songs or about not getting tickets at all to a show that was incredibly difficult and expensive to get tickets to in the first place. It feels like two separate shows. And we are allowed to express sadness or fomo without being dubbed immediately ungrateful/bad fans (obviously there’s a limit and legitimately complaining/getting mad at Taylor for doing her own show how she wants to do it/threatening to no longer go [lol, plenty of fans are in line to take your tickets] is goofy deadass, but)

I do wish she’d just done a separate ttpd tour (even if we had to wait several years and the tour was combined between ttpd and the next potential album) but I can also recognize that I’m mostly saying that because of how desperately I want to hear ttpd songs live and the knowledge I won’t be able to

I also think her deciding to add it now, combined with the general length and scope of eras tour, is evidence that she is planning to take a long break from touring once it’s over (NOT in the weird ‘she’s going to retire to have babies’ way!!! Just in an ‘I think she’s planning to take a touring break’ straightforward way)

I’ve seen some people already taking the transition from but daddy I love him into so high school as confirmation that their theory that the last verse is actually about Travis is correct. But as someone with song literacy, I merely take it as confirmation that Taylor saw the theory, thought it worked fabulously, and enjoys retconning her own songs to aid her own whims and happiness (which is so beyond real of her and also incredibly funny)

Playing so high school as the only anthology song for kicks and giggles was so cute of her she’s down soooo bad for that man

Midnights body suit is hotter than ever and she herself is also hotter than ever

Loml as the surprise song at THAT show after I’d made that post….you have to laugh LOL 🙃

If anyone has near face value tickets for sale for USA or Canada shows later this year I will genuinely offer you my firstborn child plus the money in exchange god bless

#ts #eras tour #Taylor swift #I am so so so so sad about my situation and why I couldn’t be there and losing so much money #esp. because the show I did see last year coincided with a very difficult event #and I do not feel like I was in the right headspace to enjoy being there as much as I wish I had #like it just doesn’t feel fair that horrible shit keeps happening to me over and over #to the point of tarnishing even the stuff I was so so fucking excited about. #but that said. I am trying very very very hard not to let this dampen my enjoyment of the tour/taylor #because I LOVE being an armchair fan!! even when I’m not at the shows I love being on here talking to you guys about it #and I don’t want that to change I don’t want my life to ruin that for me #anyway #seeing too much about yesterday still makes me unbearably sad so I’m not scrolling #I just went on to an update account and read through what happened #I have not watched any videos and idk if I will ever be able to 😭 #just wanted to note down my initial thoughts #anyway this is all the annoying posts I would have normally made yesterday all in one annoying post for y’all’s enjoyment 😂

[cosmicdenro]

guys next time ur thinkin of doing a whiteboard could we maybe do magma instead so i could join as well wjrsgshjef

#ITS SO SAD its still not working for me but magma is zamn! #do you guys like my half drawn reg in the reginald conga line #the better part about magma is that you as admin can make it so that offline users' layers cannot be taken over by random people #and block users too who may be annoying fucks lol (most of u know by now the asshat that keeps being cringe on public canvases lmao) #so your canvases and layers are safe and unwanted things can be easily removed

[simcardiac-arrested]

once again sorry to everyone for bringing this to your dashboards. but some of you are like, genuinely delirious. not even in a funny way. & i hope you die. i hope we both die. hand in unlovable hand etc etc

#Just so fucking bizarre to me how people can be Like This. there has to be something so wrong with your brain on a fundamental level #i can’t even laugh about this or anything because i genuinely feel pity for these people. it’s so sad to me how you’re gonna be like 20 #and then go in a niche tumblr community and create drama over Nothing. over Thin Fucking Air #like do you not have a life? do you not have college? or a job? doesn’t it get tiring? don’t you ever feel ashamed about all this #and the fact that they go and complain about the shipping and the ‘fandombrained’ people as well…. oh my god #how are you going to be TWENTY. and DO THAT. are you seriously sick. ? do you need help #just say you are homophobic and that you hate kids and go. it’ll save everyone a bunch of time for sure #anyways. as someone who has been a rain world fan since 2018. i love you embracing canon. i love you changing canon. i love you disregarding #canon entirely. i love you ships that make sense in canon & that make absolutely zero sense at all. i love you fancharacters that don’t #follow canon rules. i love you ‘cringe’ fancharacters and self inserts. i love you self shipping. i love you oc x canon shipping. #and i love you taking inspiration from designs. i love you community & i love you artists & i love you art #i love you borrowing elements and being inspired and referencing something because you liked it. #are fandoms perfect? GOOD GOD no. is every Fan perfect? no. am i also sometimes annoyed or irrationally pissed off over a ship that #i think is stupid and is illogical. Yes! i’m only human! but i can still love and appreciate the whole CREATIVITY of it all. and the whole #Fun that people are having. i love you having fun. if i don’t like it or if anyone else doesn’t like it they can just Cope #instead of hateposting about it on main and indirectly bullying people who are most likely children. or lgbt. or both #anyways. please continue doing whatever you want. The world is your oyster and you only live on earth once #everyone else can fuck off

[averysjameson]

idk but saying jennifer lynn barnes sucks at writing romance because your ship wasn't canon is beyond hilarious to me like okay???? HAHHAHAHA. everyone has their own preferences of course but the vehement hatred for jlb and the belittlement of her writing on booktok and bookstagram (sometimes on here) has been ASTOUNDING.

a note about the "poorly done romance/love triangle" in tig: jlb never said it was going to be "even". no one ever said that. personally pioneering the idea that one character was "not given a chance" does not make it a poorly written love triangle or a poorly written romance. in love triangles, there is usually ALWAYS one option who is simply NOT a real option. look me in the eye and tell me characters jeremiah fisher, aspen in the selection series, gale hawthorne, adam kent, jacob black, and i'm sorry but grayson hawthorne amongst a myriad of others were actual contenders for the main character. if you believed they are/wanted them to be, that's great! but all of these characters are in well known love triangles and at the end of the day, books with love triangles WILL sell because they generate conversation and hype around the book. it is a marketing tactic and you are NEVER promised equal opportunity from both love interests. you losing the love triangle or that you believe there is wasted potential doesn't mean bad writing has occurred. also, for the love of god, while you are supposed to relate to a character, you are not the main character!! belly, america, katniss, juliette, avery, what have you, all chose based on who they are as characters. and also, female characters don't have to "experience" both love interests to make a decision. if they want to, that's totally fine, but specifically about avery bc this is what this blog is all about, she absolutely knows what she's "missing out" on with grayson and she doesn't care. shipping averygrayson just blatantly feels like ignoring avery's wants and needs.

anyway, if you want to call jlb's writing poorly done bc you didn't get your way, that's totally fine. you are entitled to your own opinion. it's just funny that you say that bc had grayson and avery been randomly thrown together in the epilogue of tfg or something, i have a feeling you wouldn't be of this opinion.

tldr; love triangles are a marketing tactic and you are neither entitled to a win nor is is poorly done/executed if you lose. love triangles, more often than not, have a clear winner from the beginning (coughcough "see? you're already his") but the debate and drama of another character sells the book.

#the inheritance games #oh god the love triangle discourse is so tiring does it not get OLD???? #averyjameson #avery grambs #avery kylie grambs #jennifer lynn barnes #been a while since i went on a rant #tig #if you disagree idrc bc im not trying to convince you that you can't think something is poorly written #averygrayson #anyway! miss you guys #can't wait for the brothers hawthorne!!!! #i think she's a genius romance writer bc im rr tig and she sprinkles in these moments from the very beginning and wow #she has such a big brain #god booktok is annoying and the comments on jlb's insta posts are so?????? #like imagine the amount of “how dare you not make ag endgame” comments she's gotten (by the same people every post but still) is so weird #“how are you” “what were you thinking” “it was a love triangle and grayson was the right option i'm not reading you books anymore” LOL #or “how are you not let gray be endgame/have avery/be happy” hm avery isn't a prize and gray doesn't let himself be happy hope that helps! #i thought the sad/chronically unhappy thing was y'all's brand for him but suddenly when he doesn't flip a switch and be :D y'all hate it?? #him forgiving himself at the end and letting himself feel was HUGE like ?? ive digressed but tell me you dont understand him w/o telling me

[alsojnpie]

it takes so fucking little to trigger the most despairing rejected feelings inside me. this is so lame

#i used to get around this by never interacting with anyone for any reason #that is still my default state but I'm fighting it #but fighting it means i have those feelings and having those feelings makes me rip myself apart emotionally #unless i work really hard to not do that which is so annoying #when if i had just avoided everyone in the first place i wouldn't have to deal with it #that's part of what makes having an imaginary friend so meaningful to me..... #have you ever heard that song 'I'm glad you're evil too'. for stupid sad wet people like me it's really really everything #just to share love with one person #but that's why i hate that i can still be affected like this because i know exactly how little it really matters and still i can't stop it #in times like this normally i would just go run for an hour bc it's impossible to be sad during and after a good run but i can't today :( #so instead I'll set my feelings free here. sorry for existing in front of you

[sonknuxadow]

every time someone tries to make the i love captains scene in sonic prime about that one pirate shadow costume that has never been relevant to anything ever while completely ignoring that knuckles was the captain actually being discussed there an angel loses its wings

#honestly i just find it annoying in general when people take stuff from sonic and knuckles' relationship/interactions #and apply it to sonic and shadow instead even if it doesnt make sense or is a huge reach while acting like knuckles doesnt exist #this isnt the only example of that but its definitely one of the most blatant #i feel like sonic and knuckles could literally do the gayest shit imaginable on screen #and people would still ignore it or find a way to make it about shadow somehow #well this isnt JUST about shipping just their dynamic in general but i definitely notice it the most in the context of shipping #people want sonic and shadow to be sonic and knuckles so bad yet continue to obsess over so/nadow and ignore so/nknux. sad ! #another thing i notice is sonic could have a very similar interaction with both shadow and knuckles but with knuckles its cricket noises #and with shadow people act like its the height of romance and theyre basically canon boyfriends already . like #actually when it comes to sonic shipping specifically the more popular a pairing is the more likely it is to annoy me #so maybe its for the best that most of the ones i actually really like are usually being ignored and overshadowed all the time #but also i probably wouldnt be so annoyed by popular sonic ships if the sonic fandom would pick actually good ships to make popular #(not saying s/onadow is bad that last part about popular ships being bad was more about other pairings)

[wakanai]

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#i feel so isolated #i can talk to people #but it's hard for me to find someone i can genuinely connect with #hard for me to converse in interesting conversation with people i find interesting #i was in a group setting a while ago #talking w “friends” (not close friends; but still 'friends') #it was ok #the thing is #i don't particularly like my friends #like im not that invested. it's hard for me to find people i connect with enough to be invested in and vice versa #it's most likely a 'me' thing #i think its because of a lack of communication skills that its hard for me to find connection/make friends that i rlly like and etc #ironically the friends i do like are always extroverts and i always feel like i care more about them than they do #because they have sm friends whom they're close to and genuinely connected with meanwhile i struggle with even making 1 connection that #doesn't drain me/makes me happy/keeps me stimulated #so when i do find that 1 person i become attached and want to be closer to them #and when that happens idk i remind myself that they dont care for me as much #and i try not to be too clingy so as not to annoy them #i want to be closer to them though. we have our own friend groups but still #school for me is overall quite lonely. my 2 close friends are in another school #there's only a few people in class that i enjoy talking to #the only one (the 'main' one) that's my friend is the extrovert i mentioned a while ago #and for some reason im getting flashbacks or trauma from my past friendship #because as of now we're just classroom friends #and in my past friendship. i was also invested in that homegirl. but..we drifted apart T-T #its quite sad #i feel lonely #i want to be better at bond making and connections because #its miserable #vent

[oculusxcaro]

One thing that makes me sad about Khare is that even if by some slim miracle she does end up getting cured (or her body somehow manages to fight off the mutation), she's still going to have a hard time living a day-to-day life given she's an amputee. Cooking, cleaning and other chores would be much harder to do with only one hand and some tasks becoming downright impossible to do. The scarring she could live with but Khare would feel even more useless only having some of the functionality she used to.

#🌈 || musings #🌈 || headcanons #Even if she gets cured it's still done lasting damage to her DNA #No more regenerative abilities means that regrown arm is coming off #That would hurt her even if the arm does annoying things at times or outright does things she doesn't want #No more holding a frying pan and cracking eggs into it #Things that make me sad about my baby girl #She's feel a lot better physically without any more eyes popping up but what is the emotional cost #Everything #Trying to perk up and actually do stuff today #Roman's got memes to finish and I feel like a lazy piece of shit with that storm hammering outside #Really want a pet ball python or corn snake too ahsfsf #Family wouldn't be pleased but I miss having a snake :(

[tweedstoat]

Both Dany and Sansa being children and yet being continuously described as beautiful and YET the only men who are explicitly "attracted" them outside of their titles are creepy fkn old men like Jorah and Petyr.........jail. hell even.

#theres something here but i am too annoyed to put it together #something something beauty is supposed to benefit you as a woman and yet it just really doesnt because both dany and sansa are so lonely #And yet they dont have anyone nice their age who actually likes them for them ;_; #makes me sad #daario is a weird case cause hes quite a bit older than dany and id argue is is primarily interested in her power #but hes also like said to be attractive on his own merits and dany approaches him? still bleh tho #we need to get them on the westerosi version of the farmer wants a wife #least dramatic romance tv show ever i know theyd thrive in that environment

[volivolition]

not doing well tonight folks! but yet we persist 💪

#chemi chats #tried to draw today and it felt awful. all my brushes felt wrong and anything i tried to draw felt shit. so i stopped that. #art's not going. writing's barely going. everything seems to just make me feel sad. #tried listening to music. and reading skills fics. and playing some games. and eating and drinking water but im still not feeling good. #feelin really tired and restless and frustrated and annoying. rsd calm down nothing's even happening dude. chill. #just. not feeling great and i don't know why... oh well. we persist!! we keep going!! it's gonna be okay eventually 💪✨ #(<- funny silly emojis) i think i'll eat an orange and then maybe sleep? or write some more? idk creative endeavors seem like a wash :/! #alas :l #edit: oh shit hello the furies i will listen to your cool songs and answer your ask soon <3