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At this time last year, I had 2 of my absolute best friends in the world, now I don't have anyone. It's fine. Growth comes with losing important people. Lesson learned.
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xoxolovescar · 1 month
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Whispering Grove [Part 1]
Sandra always voices her doubts, but when Logan suggests their risky plan for tomorrow, the group's dynamic shifts. With whispers of urban legends and a daring adventure ahead, tensions rise. Yet amidst their everyday struggles, each harbors secrets that could unravel their bond. As they navigate the mysteries of adolescence, friendships will be tested, and destinies forged in the crucible of uncertainty. Welcome to a world where every step forward is a leap of faith, and the shadows hold more than mere secrets.
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Sandra always expresses her discomfort pertaining to the slightest sight of almost guaranteed danger, “All that I’m saying, is that it doesn’t seem like the greatest idea.”
Olivia chimed in, “besides, we’re supposed to be home before the street lights are on–”
Before Olivia could continue, Logan raises his hand in a shushing manner, “Fine, we won’t do it today.”
The girls sigh in relief. 
“We’ll just have to do it tomorrow,” he continued, “It’ll be Friday anyways.”
Dylan then asked, “Does anyone's dad have headlamps?”
Maya nodded, reluctantly mentioning, “Yeah, but I'm not sure he would let us borrow them when I tell him why we want them.”
“So? don't tell him? Simple,” said Logan, grumbling.
Maya exclaimed, “You know all the rumors of that place!”
Dylan, always the mediator, suggested, “But someone should know where we are, you know, just in case.”As the group considered his words, Dylan continued, moving to stand on Maya’s side, “Yeah, rumors have to start from some truth, right?'"
They continued their walk to school that day as normal as Thursday could be. Inside, each of them felt different emotions over this adventure they were planning. 
Sandra continues to explain reluctance through her velvety tone; her words always flow languidly. She adeptly expresses her emotions further through her eyes. Sandra would describe her eye color to fall between brown and green; clearly hazel but her obstinacy would never allow her to say it out loud. The boys tend to tease about that depiction of her eyes just as much as her stubbornness. 
Many attribute her ability to articulate requests persuasively to her voice, believing it to be the key to her obtaining everything she could ever desire. Never lifting a finger, she possesses the ability to navigate conversations into her favor effortlessly.  Her mature tone always carries a persuasive charm that can coax even the toughest souls her way. Sandra can’t help but wonder why some mistake her persuasion for a flirtatious attitude. She genuinely doesn't intend it to be interpreted that way, or so she insists. Perhaps, many of her relationships have ended because of this misconstrued situation. 
Maya struggles to communicate her thoughts enough for her and Sandra. For everything Maya couldn’t say, Sandra said it for her. Maya, though beautiful, is a very shy girl. The group has many times attempted to unravel the mystery of just why she is so sheepish; outside of her presence, of course. They have still not come to any conclusion after years of knowing her. They however blame her parents, anyhow. Maya's parents have let the drink hold a mean grasp onto them; and their constant comparisons of Maya with her cousin certainly do not help her bashfulness. 
Maya’s cousin is tan, blonde, and already dating; the complete opposite of Maya. Through it all, behind her reserved demeanor, she buries herself in a world of books. Maya has attended Jay Gatsby's extravagant parties; was among the crowd, witnessing the persecution of Hester Prynne; visited the ranch where George and Lennie bucked harley; manned the crew aboard the Pequod; attended the Wilkes’ barbecue at Twelve Oaks; and even joined the exhibition with Huck and Jim on their raft. 
The comparisons never got in between Maya and Sam's relationship over the years. To this day, they remain in close contact through letters in between holiday seasons. Both households have rotary phones, which the girls used often but they preferred the personal touch of a weekly letter. Sam attempts to help Maya with her confidence, whereas Maya helps her with subjects like math and science. Throughout Maya’s own struggles, she never hesitates to throw out a life raft to those who need her most. 
Dylan has always been a sweet, light-hearted boy who attracted those in need of a referee. Growing up the middle child, he learned to maintain harmony fairly younger than most due to his extraordinarily volatile brothers. The three boys were latchkey kids and they spent a lot of time together. Most days their parents returned after six-thirty at night and they ate together a little after seven-thirty. The issue with their parents is not that they’re neglectful. This need to work has bled into Dylan’s personality and the way he earns his money is through a hand-me-down job. He’s able to make his own schedule by mowing lawns, pulling weeds, and shoveling driveways during the other part of the year. He, however, cannot wait until his birthday this year so he can hold a not-so laborious job with his father, like Jason, his older brother did. Also like Jason, Dylan will hand down his client list to his younger brother, Kevin. 
Dylan finds more interest in stockpiling money than he does school but he still manages to get his schoolwork done and he does it well. The same cannot be said for Kevin however, Dylan doesn’t let that hinder him from encouraging his younger brother to succeed; he will not let him fall behind. For some reason, Dylan feels that the success or even the survival of his family is his burden of responsibility. The fear of failing consistently weighs heavily on his mind and clouds his own aspirations. Though he won’t blatantly say it, he seems to be drowning while the life raft he’s reaching for isn’t picking up on his self-evident hints. It seems that Dylan cares for and protects those around him but tends to neglect himself. 
As for Logan, the “opposites attract,” has become apparent through this inseparable duo. Logan has spent his life wanting for nothing and for this, many would call him spoiled. Some would disrespect Logan like this directly to Dylan’s face. Dylan would kindly explain that Logan is not entitled, he just knows what he wants. At 16, Logan is already handsome and has become the eye-catching boy at school. There are times where people will mistake Logan for Dylan, which Logan will take as a high compliment and not always correct the oversight.
Logan is described by many as a leader but this is not always true; sometimes he looks to his best friend before making decisions.  However, Logan has a hot temper and has not yet learned to control it – there are many occasions where he has flown off the handle and ends up regretting it. For this reason, many people do not see him as sweet like his counterpart but that is also false. Logan just doesn’t understand how to control his emotions but he’s still learning. 
There are more issues that Logan battles with such as falling out of love with the girl he has been dating for the last, close to, three years. However, hasn’t left because everyone tells him “they’re meant to be together” mainly due to their looks and popularity, and he simply believes it while he suffers in silence. 
Logan is also a latchkey kid due to his parents busy social life. Usually the maid fills the role of mother; she wakes him for school, fixes his lunch, and his dinner. Logan feels very close to her and will usually call her if he is needing advice. It does upset him that he dials a non-relative rather than visiting his mother in the next room. He shares his mother’s eyes and his father’s rage but besides those few aforementioned aspects, Logan feels no connection to his parents. No hatred towards them, just disdain. He tends to spend most of his nights at Dylan’s. Other nights, while he’s at Jennnifer’s home, he spends those nights thinking of Maya. 
Olivia has always found beauty and horror that would surround her. She learned to do so fairly quickly due to growing up in the foster care system. 4 years ago, she was adopted. Maya was absolutely floored for her yet terrified to lose her closest friend. Olivia's adopted parents, who she already calls mom and dad, lived just down the block from the town center. Along the way to and from school, Olivia picks forget-me-nots, which she adorns throughout her braids. She adores the way they complement her brown hair and how the petals match her eyes. She always makes sure to hang a bundle of flowers from the chest pocket of her overalls; cherishing the way they brighten her journey to school. Despite her careful placement, the flowers often sway and tumble out of her pockets as she skips along the familiar path, adding a playful rhythm to her morning routine.
Olivia tends to enjoy unconventional things, such as downpours, bees, waking up early on the weekend, and public speaking. Olivia is an unwavering column of support for Maya as well. Her new found parents taught her how to stand up for herself, respect and identify boundaries, and do the same for others. Olivia is consistently trying to instill these teachings on to Maya, but Maya isn't quite there yet. This year, Olivia was relieved to have Maya in almost all of her classes, except for three; however, she found comfort in knowing that Dylan was in at least two of the three. 
Being as empathetic as she is, Olivia has honed those skills that are attributed to her most apparent traits. Her wonderfully attentive ears and the ability to understand the emotions of just about anyone are practically her superpower. Additionally, Olivia’s pragmatism is one of her favorite skills to practice. Her proficiency to logically find solutions to problems of her own or whomever she is close to is one of her favorite skills to practice. Ultimately, Olivia thrives on being needed, as if her own well-being is intertwined with the care she provides to others. Without this sense of purpose, she fears she may wither away, much like her beloved forget-me-nots.
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kathybarnes · 2 months
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Secrets, jealousy, obsession, and fortune force young Samuel Calo into a fight to save not only himself but the friends he makes along the way, as well as the family he has left behind. He must fight so that others may live as either masters or prey...
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sairalynch · 3 months
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Secrets, jealousy, obsession, and fortune force young Samuel Calo into a fight to save not only himself but the friends he makes along the way, as well as the family he has left behind. He must fight so that others may live as either masters or prey...
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spiritualsoull1969 · 5 months
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"Sacred Symphony of Roles: Navigating the Spiritual Significance of Rulers, Gurus, Parents, and Friends in Life's Divine Drama"
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Introduction:
In the tapestry of existence, the saying "देश में 'राजा' समाज में 'गुरु' परिवार में 'पिता' घर में 'स्त्री' जीवन में दोस्त✍ ये कभी 'साधारण' नहीं होते, क्योंकि निर्माण और प्रलय इन्हीं के 'हाथ' में होता है!" unfolds a profound understanding of the divine orchestration behind societal roles. This exploration delves into the spiritual context of these roles as rulers, gurus, parents, and friends, unraveling the intricate dance of creation and dissolution in their hands.
The Spiritual Dimensions of the Ruler:
In the spiritual context, the role of a "राजा" or ruler goes beyond mere political authority. It symbolizes a divine stewardship entrusted to an individual to govern and guide a nation. This role reflects the cosmic order where leaders are seen as instruments of cosmic governance, responsible for maintaining balance and harmony in the societal fabric.
Spiritual teachings often emphasize the concept of dharma or righteous duty associated with leadership. The ruler, according to spiritual wisdom, is a custodian of justice, compassion, and the well-being of their subjects. The saying underscores that such a position is never ordinary; it carries a sacred responsibility of contributing to the spiritual evolution of the collective consciousness.
The Guru's Role in Spiritual Evolution:
In the social construct, the "गुरु" or guru holds a revered place as the spiritual guide and mentor. Beyond the conventional understanding, the guru in a spiritual context is a beacon of wisdom and enlightenment, leading disciples on the path of self-realization. The guru is considered a spiritual parent, guiding individuals from ignorance to self-awareness.
The saying implies that a guru is never an ordinary being; they are bestowed with the profound task of illuminating the path of spiritual seekers. Their teachings are not confined to intellectual knowledge but encompass transformative wisdom that catalyzes spiritual growth. The guru-disciple relationship is viewed as sacred, mirroring the divine connection between the seeker's soul and the universal consciousness.
The Sacred Role of "पिता" in the Family Structure:
Within the family, the role of a "पिता" or father extends beyond biological parenthood. It symbolizes the spiritual father, providing guidance, protection, and a nurturing environment for the family. In a spiritual context, the father is seen as a source of strength, stability, and moral grounding within the household.
The saying suggests that being a father is not an ordinary role; it is a sacred responsibility to instill values, ethics, and spiritual principles in the family. The father is considered a guardian of the family's spiritual well-being, ensuring that the home becomes a sanctuary for love, compassion, and spiritual growth.
The Divine Essence of "स्त्री" in the Home:
The role of "स्त्री" or wife within the home is portrayed as a divine expression. In the spiritual context, the woman is seen as the nurturing force, embodying the creative energy of the divine feminine. Her role extends beyond conventional domestic duties; she is regarded as the heart of the home, infusing it with love and spiritual grace.
The saying emphasizes that the role of a woman is far from ordinary; it is a manifestation of the divine Shakti, the creative power that sustains and nurtures life. In the spiritual household, the woman is considered the guardian of the family's emotional and spiritual well-being, fostering an environment where each member can thrive on their spiritual journey.
The Spiritual Dynamics of Friendship:
In the context of friendship, the saying underscores that true friends are never ordinary. Friendship is seen as a divine connection where souls come together to support, uplift, and share in the journey of life. True friends, in a spiritual sense, are companions on the path of self-discovery and mutual evolution.
Spiritual teachings emphasize the sacred nature of true friendship, viewing it as a karmic bond that transcends lifetimes. Friends are seen as mirrors reflecting the divine qualities within each other. The saying implies that these friendships are not accidental; they are orchestrated by divine hands to facilitate the growth and learning of each soul involved.
Conclusion:
In the intricate dance of life, the saying "देश में 'राजा' समाज में 'गुरु' परिवार में 'पिता' घर में 'स्त्री' जीवन में दोस्त✍ ये कभी 'साधारण' नहीं होते, क्योंकि निर्माण और प्रलय इन्हीं के 'हाथ' में होता है!" leads us to unravel the divine tapestry woven through the roles of rulers, gurus, parents, and friends. Each role, far from ordinary, carries a sacred responsibility in the cosmic drama of creation and dissolution. Understanding these roles from a spiritual perspective unveils the profound interconnectedness between societal constructs and the cosmic order, inviting us to navigate life's intricate dynamics with a deeper awareness of our spiritual essence.
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yetifazendacoffee · 5 months
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Roadtrip with your friends Hit the open road with your best buddies and embark on an epic
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stgibsonofficial · 5 months
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Roadtrip with your friends
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Hit the open road with your best buddies and embark on an epic
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otaviogilbert · 6 months
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Making Friends with Everyone: Bridgetta Tomarchio's Approach to Building Connections
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Discover the art of forging meaningful connections and friendships with Bridgetta Tomarchio! 🤗 In this enlightening journey, explore her insights on creating bonds, fostering camaraderie, and building a network that spans the spectrum of personalities and backgrounds.
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edwardgdunn · 7 months
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Understanding The Transient Nature of Your Friends (and yourself)
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Your friends will come and they will go. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this. As a matter of fact it is, in many ways, exactly as it should be.
When we are young, our friends are almost exclusively the product of proximity. In other words, we become friends with those who are around us all the time. Granted, we will gravitate to those who we have at least something in common with however, the frequency with which we encounter them is the primary driver. Occasionally, we may have so much in common and feel such a close bond to a childhood friend that we may remain friends throughout an entire lifetime. This is a blessing beyond measure. But most of the friends we make at school, church, from down the street, will fade away as people move on and change. This is completely normal.
As we get older, while proximity still plays a role, we begin to choose our friendships based much more on shared interests, shared values, shared opinions, shared activities, and the like.
Then, eventually, we notice something. We look back some number of years and realize that many of our friends are simply no longer a part of our lives. They may still live nearby even, but we simply don’t spend time with them any longer. Typically this happens over time, excepting a major disagreement or something similar.
The reason for this is relatively simple. Most of our friends are relative to who we are as people in any given stage of our lives. As we grow, change, become different people, the foundation of the friendship weakens and people move on. Such is not only to be expected, it is the natural progression of things. It is rarely a comment on the value the friendship once had.
And while we may miss the friendship, this process allows us to continue to grow, to change, to become different and hopefully better versions of ourselves. We can, and should, look back with fondness and appreciation on friendships from our past. Most likely there are many lessons we learned, memories we created, good times we shared. There is no reason for sadness.
The new friendships and bonds we forge will be in keeping with who we are becoming as people. These new relationships will nurture and support us just as the old ones did in their appropriate time and place.
So, take heart. The impermanence of all things is one of the truths about life that make it so precious.
Be gentle with yourself and others. Be happy.
Check out the podcast episode…
Check out the Happiness 2.0 Podcast — https://podcast.edwardgdunn.com/
Happiness 2.0 Blog — https://edwardgdunn.com/blog
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theloulouge · 7 months
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Balancing Work & Friendship
What’s your #1 priority tomorrow? Alright, so tomorrow’s game plan is this: I’m in charge of our meat shop, and it’s a busy place. But, you know, life isn’t just about work. One of our college buddies is taking off for Australia, and she can only meet us for lunch. That’s a big deal, so I’m handing over the meat shop to my trusty assistants for a bit. I’ll dash off to meet my friends, and we’re…
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travelunraveluk · 8 months
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Fun is where your friends are, so plan a friends-only trip with your group to one of your favorite destinations! Book a Flight through My Flight Pal and get great deals on the top airlines!  
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kathybarnes · 2 months
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Secrets, jealousy, obsession, and fortune force young Samuel Calo into a fight to save not only himself but the friends he makes along the way, as well as the family he has left behind. He must fight so that others may live as either masters or prey...
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devrajcollege · 9 months
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Happy International Friendship Day!
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Happy International Friendship Day! Celebrating the beautiful bonds that span across borders, bringing together students from diverse cultures, backgrounds, and experiences – making college life an unforgettable journey of friendship and understanding!
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trendingnow3-blog · 9 months
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Kota Diaries: Do Saal Baad Ghar Aa Gaye
In the bustling city of Kota, known as the hub of IIT JEE preparations, there lived a young boy named Siddharth. He hailed from a small town and had dreams as vast as the open skies. Determined to make his mark in the world of engineering, he left the comforts of home to join a prestigious coaching institute. Siddharth’s journey was not an easy one. He faced the daunting challenges of…
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gesslen · 2 months
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Friend-Finding Fiasco
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Als 👶🏼🤗😊 Kinder war es ein Kinderspiel, Freunde zu finden, wie Äpfel von Bäumen zu pflücken. Aber Freundschaften mit Erwachsenen sind wie die Navigation durch ein 🌽🧩🤔 Labyrinth voller Wendungen in endlosen Tagen. Der Terminkalender eines jeden ist bis zum Rand voll, sodass es schwierig ist, noch Zeit für eine freundliche Laune zu finden. Wenn also plötzlich Gedanken an einen 😅🫥😶🌫️ Freund auftauchen, zögern Sie nicht, ihm eine SMS zu schreiben und zu beobachten, wie die Freude und das 🤦‍♂️🙄😂 Lachen aufkommen. Letztendlich sind es die Verbindungen, die wir knüpfen, die uns helfen 🌱💪🌻 zu wachsen. Scheuen Sie sich also nicht, Kontakt aufzunehmen. Wer weiß, ein zukünftiger wahrer Freund ist auf jede 😏😉 erdenkliche Weise für dich da.
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