#fuck you actually

[drowsystarlight]

Do I throw out everything we built or keep it?

I'm getting tired even for a phoenix

Always risin' from the ashes

Mendin' all my gashes

You might just have dealt the final blow

#soul eater #deathstar #black*star #blackstar #death the kid #neeks draws #fuck you actually #i made a whole ass playlist for this fic #and it hurts #so im here like Ok den!! #fic is linked in the lyrics #you’re losing me by taylor swift #Spotify

[winterf4iryy]

#genuinely genuinely so dystopian #i cant even comprehend how this isn’t what people are talking about 24/7 #the way people can go about their lives as normal #i feel like im going insane #not to mention people literally CHOOSING to be silent and not reshare stuff and just turn away from this #or worse say they’re uneducated and they don’t want to pick a side #like oh im sorry #get educated then? #also i didn’t know you had to have a pHD to know that a genocide is horrific and should never happen. #i thought we learned that in history class? #shame on all of you who aren’t using their platform right now #fuck you actually #wonder how you’ll tell people in the future that you were complicit in genocide and stood by #watching while it happened #free palestine 🇵🇸

[hppjmxrgosg]

theres nothing more punk rock than the rejection of all agendas, INCLUDING the punk agenda.

you can like harry styles, the clash, and good charlotte all at the same time. its okay. combat boots come in glitter for a reason.

#shout out to all the people who ever told me such and such isnt very punk rock #fuck you actually #nothing more punk rock than loving yourself in my book #punk #alt #stop gatekeeping shit that isnt meant to be gatekeeped

[swagging-back-to]

just fired my therapist who has been ghosting me for 4 months because she sent me a letter threatening termination because "i have not responded to any contact and continued silence will be taken as agreement to cancel services"

literally fuck you. actually fuck you. she would call WITHOUT WARNING when i would be out running errands and then when we actually have a scheduled meeting she would cancel 20 minutes after it was supposed to start.

therapy is sooo incredibly useless. i have never needed it, it has always *harmed* me more than not having it.

#it's actually so annoying. #the only reason i stopped responding was because she would always ghost me #to the point where i would place bets with myself on how far into the scheduled time it would be before she would cancel #every. #single. #week. #at one poiny she even acknowledged that she missed more appointments than i did during one of my worst dissociative phases #that lasted two years. #because she would miss every. single. appointment. #alwyas last minute #after id been waiting for an hour #Fuck you actually #the way i completely forgot she existed until that letter was sent because thats how long it's been since she messaged me. #anti psych #she would make me cry when i first started working with her from how hostile her tone was. #like not in a 'work through the pain' way #literally just her picking up the phone and so clearly not wanting to talk to me that it would make me cry #or her completely just. being so insensitive. #i would say something that was really bothering me and she would either go 'so?' or she'd get obviously uncomfortable and be like 'welp. #tough shit' #ACTUAL QUOTE SHE HAS SAID TO ME #and whenever i would discuss my dissociation--THE MAIN REASON I WAS IN THERPAY TO BEGIN WITH-- she would get soo dismissive #she would regularly say 'i dont think you actually have dissociation' #ok girl tell me how you know my life more than me when i talk to you maybe 4 times a year for 30 minutes. #go on. #tell me.

[fitzrove]

Protip: If your young female friend is agonizing over her thinning hair, don't tell her she'll be more confident and look better if she gets an undercut/sidecut/shaves it all off :) Even if that friend is gay... Not everyone can or wants to pull off that look and I think it's actually mildly homophobic/idk gender experience invalidating to assume that every queer woman secretly or openly likes buzz cuts on her own head

#fuck you actually #😭😭😭😭 #i know people mean well but its fucking annoying #maybe when someone is worried about losing their hair dont tell them to get rid of all their hair????????? #ugh this is gonna sound insensitive but #if a not cis girl was going through this same thing i doubt most people would tell them to shave lol #i think for cis ppl its often taken for granted that they're secure in their gender expression #which is not always the case lol

[neherandunasflor]

#Fuck you actually #The moment I see someone use smooth brained as an insult I lose all respect for them tbh #Like let’s not babe 🫶

[mcrololo]

Swear to God the mobile experience is infuriating. For years I've used the tag thing and got attuned to it so going to the right and tapping there is just natural instinct for me, but now I'm met with that god damn community system or whatever. I hate this change and it's making me hate the community labels. Who thought this was a good idea? I want to hunt you for a sport. I don't usually think like this, I hate people who think like this, but I'm making an exception for you. Sleep with all your eyes open. I'm coming for you

#changing buttons places when you KNOW your userbase has not only been receptive to it but actively against it for a while #and you go: we hear you. we love you <3 #and then you turn around and do it with something else. vile #fuck you actually #did they get rid of the terfs in staff or are they still in there? i will always be against staff no matter how many good implements they #seem to introduce #this is absolutely not one of them #rolo vents

[merecot]

i absolutely despise it when anyone compares short-haired women to men like please get a grip why do you care so much to point it out seriously

#always treating it like it's a bad thing whenever a girl is even slightly gnc #fuck you actually

[dont-look-me-in-the-eye]

if your only advice to a child struggling with parental abuse is “tell a trusted adult” and then nothing else im fucjing. stabbing you repeatedly with rusty nail. exploding. no. please. this is not helpful and here’s why:

“tell a trusted adult” when im fucking conditioned to not trust anyone??? are you hearing yourself

also like. you haven’t elaborated on how specifically that will help them? sure, tell an adult. what then. get put through foster care? parents in jail? rather the monster you know, right.

“tell a trusted adult” works when a kid has a support system. guess which kids specifically don’t.

“tell a trusted adult” works when a kid has gotten past the shame and fear that comes from being screwed over by your own family? You must be terrible, why else would they hurt you like that-

“tell a trusted adult.”

damn, how helpful. you’re a saint. who should i tell, huh?

teachers? right, the people who are supposed to report everything you do wrong.

friend’s parents? maybe this one, actually. if you can bring yourself to trust them. how will you know they’re not the same? (and if you’re queer, finding some adult who doesn’t think you’re a mistake? in this economy?)

school counsellor? see “teachers”. also trust issues, and not everyone has access to them. i sure fucking dont.

then who? your friend who’s 19 and struggling with their own shit? some fucking priest? who? the cops? cps? you need evidence. and if you can’t prove they hit you, it’ll only serve to make them more pissed at you.

because at this point, “tell a trusted adult” is not going to fucking work.

im fucking angry. because all the things i need to follow your advice are things i don’t have because of the thing im trying to tell you about! why can’t you understand that?

“tell a trusted adult” fuck you, actually.

#vent #tw abuse #trauma vent #tell a trusted adult 🤓 #SO FUCKING MAD RN AAAAAAAUGH #FUCK YOU ACTUALLY #WITH A FUCKING CACTUS GIVE ME OTHER ADVICE #I DONT WANNA BE REMINDED OVER AND OVER AGAIN #THAT LITERALLY NO ADULT THAT I KNOW PERSONALLY GIVES A SHIT ABOUT ME #I LACK A SUPPORT SYSTEM THAT’S THE THING THE FUCK DID YOU EXPECT #AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

[nico-di-genova]

Max calling herself the shitty little sister :(. Girl, no. And her having survivors guilt over not being able to save Billy, when that’s not what he would have wanted her to do anyway. When he died protecting her, and he was okay with that. He would have never wanted her to even attempt to save him, not if it meant putting herself in harms way. I’m not okay. Also @ the duffer brothers, I am in your walls. Just give the angry siblings back to me, let me have them and I will take care of them. I will care for them, since you simply cannot.

#also don’t even get me started on fucking neil #I’m so upset that they were just like ‘he left because he was sad about Billy’ #no #fuck you actually #Neil was a piece of shit who abused his son #i don’t give a fuck what he felt #that bastard deserves to rot #and once Billy died #he lost his punching bag #so then he had to turn it around on Max’s mom :(((( #I fucking hate that man #billy hargrove #max mayfield #stranger things spoilers

[macabremoons]

got a comment by either a bot or a marketing team on my wattpad advertising neobook. glad to know i will never be using that!!! no thanks <3

#extra bloody rambles #fuck you actually #there's no need to be going around asking if i use neobook so i look it up and use it smh #i miss reddit id know exactly what it was if reddit was still useable #im sure it is but i dont plan on using it when the redditors literally fled from it lol

[angelsinvestigations]

Anyway, if you have an issue with people suggesting that the reason why part of the fandom wants a female character to remain dead while they clamored for every single other character to be immediately brought back to life is because of misogyny, you really, really, should take a hard look at yourself.

#laudna #laudna cr #cr spoilers #i mean it's not like marisha ever suffered from misogyny from this very fandom am i rite #i just. come on #people tortured themselves for a WEEK at the idea of losing Orym. People wanted Molly back 100 episodes after he died #but apparently it's a fucking problem that we want Laudna back #fuck you actually

[hwanswerland]

hi not to be cringe on main but it's been two days and I miss u

#'turn off your emotions now' #fuck you actually #I miss you too :((( #ask #woosansang

[leonsmain]

i think i’ve progressively gotten weirder as the days go by

#by weirder i mean incredibly hilarious #and lovable #aha #fuck you actually #leo talks [🦔]

[fiadh-doodles]

Absolutely fuck you ryan reynolds for getting my old tumblr banned!!

#ryan reynolds #fuck you actually

[anditwentlikethis]

me breaking into PSG facilities to burn their contract with Pablo so he can be free

#FreePablo you mfs #they're not gonna give him playtime anyway so why tf don't they let him stay where he's happy #I mean I know why #the money and all but like #fuck you actually