#honestly i’m just annoyed these days

[padfootastic]

hey hey hey since we’re popping in just for hot takes, here’s another one:

platonic. prongsfoot. isn’t. a. thing.

how many fucking times does this have to be said.

should i start tagging every remus and sirius interaction as platonic wolfstar??? clog up the whole goddamned tag for u????

honestly what is so hard to understand that a ship name denotes…A FUCKING SHIP

and in case it bears repeating: a ship is inherently non-platonic thank u very much. a ‘platonic ship’ is…wait for it…a friendship. there u have it. shocker i know.

#prongsfoot #sirius black #james potter #honestly i’m just annoyed these days #and i think this is my way of channelling it #i’ve seen people complain ab bambibelle #and ur totally allowed to think it’s not a great name or wtv i guess #but?? not recognising ur fucking fandom is the problem?? #like yeah i like prongsfoot. hell starbucks is beautiful. but have u tried using the tags for those??? #it’s so clearly a problem faced by people who don’t actually ship it #boohoo ur platonic ship doesn’t have the name u want anymore? #cry me another fkn river #pen’s whining

[bluesadansey]

As a Kandreil enjoyer and known Kandrew lover, I think it’s weird and embarrassing as hell when Kandreil/Kevin stans who’s least favorite pairing in it is Andreil try to frame them prioritizing each other more and more as the series goes on as somehow insidious or toxic. Like, you can dislike the direction For Sure and wish it was written differently, but be honest that it’s because of Kevin being your favorite (perfectly valid, I also react disproportionately when my favorite character is hurt by something narratively vs when it’s other chars even if I like/love them) and has nothing to do with *problematic messages about romance* (BAH!) or whatever you are trying to frame it as being the concern instead. 

#especially funny when they’ll try to be like ‘it isn’t JUST about Kevin Andrew also chooses Neil over his family and that’s unhealthy!1!’ #the choosing Neil over his family in question being him and Aaron’s deal being null which is a positive for their relationship and they’re #in therapy together now (I mean you could poke some holes in how good a therapist Bee is but like. Definitely a healthier place than where #they were to start) #Andrew and Nicky are more distanced but honestly also a good sign for their boundaries in the future because that needs work #and Neil is very much closer to the other foxes by the end of the series than he has ever been. So what’s the truth lmao #I could write a detailed meta about the shifting dynamics and Andrew and Kevin in the last two books specifically but I’ll save that for #another day… #s speaks #also have thoughts on why the shift in prioritization occurs as it does for the characters #Aftg #and yes I’m most annoyed by this pattern because Andrew is my favorite and I acknowledge that #andrew minyard #kevin day #neil josten

[mosspine]

DA-4811-5086-7216

#acnh #acnh inspiration #acnh island #animal crossing #animal crossing new horizons #forest core #dream address #i had a bad day today tbh #acnh makes me feel better ig #i’m still sad #i have a chicken sandwich and a bong waiting for me #off topic but has anyone watched the school for good and evil? #it’s kinda goofy but kinda cool #i need movie recommendations #i LOVE goofy 90’s rom coms and step brothers esque comedy movies #but i will honestly watch almost any movie it’s actually one of my most annoying traits #i don’t remember ANY of them though #i also never watch any shows last episode #last episode of the office? never watched it. #last episode of the 100? i didn’t even watch the last season just to avoid the pain #the last episode of new girl? no thanks i don’t want to SOB #i hate when things end i think #ok i’m gonna shut the fuck up now. ty for coming to my ted talk

[devilsskettle]

i feel like i’ve been WAITING for the other shoe to drop wrt people’s opinions about watcher for this very reason. not that i think the reaction is completely not understandable but the greater the parasocial relationship, the greater the fallout as soon as public opinion shifts. you don’t have a relationship with these people they’re just content creators, chill

#ready to see all the people coming out of the woodwork to say how they’ve never liked watcher/unsolved/etc #and act like it’s ‘cringe’ now that their fanbase feels ‘betrayed’ #it’s great to have a fanbase but parasocial relationships will bite you in the ass every single time #it’s interesting too though because i’ve seen watcher have a LOT of support as they’ve tried to build something separate from buzzfeed #so this is the first time they’re getting real pushback about a decision they’ve made wrt shifting their platform/expanding their brand #so ig we’ll have to see how they react moving forward #but it’s soooo interesting to see how enthusiastically people dump on buzzfeed #AND how many people dump on youtube and how over the years so much of its functionality has been stripped away #how many ads you have to sit through. how much sponsored content there is now. etc #but when they try to do the same thing with youtube that they did with buzzfeed it’s like how dare you not lick their boots #because if you lick their boots and we lick their boots we can watch stuff for free #anyway. #even if you don’t any to say it’s a bad business decision. it’s not like there’s not precedent for it #1) the move away from buzzfeed was successful and 2) what about the dnd shows or whatever #don’t you guys watch those dnd shows that are ‘behind a paywall’ #don’t you guys have netflix hulu disney hbo amazon etc ad nauseum that are actually owned by billion dollar corporations #don’t you guys get on your high horses about supporting independent artists all the time #it’s interesting that people will profess to be such big fans!!! and feel like they’re friends!!!! #but how dare they think their work might be worth paying for #idk. idk. it’s entitlement though #sorry for the rant i’m ALSO not trying to blindly defend a bunch of people i don’t know #but you guys are being soooo fucking annoying about it lol #anyway i’m still waiting to see what their response is going to be from here before jumping to conclusions #also to be fair i am biased to be lenient about decisions made by independent filmmakers vs big studios etc #like everybody freaking out about the ai art used in late night with the devil. who cares honestly #‘they should’ve paid a real artist!!’ idk maybe their budget didn’t cover that #i don’t want it to become the industry norm but at the end of the day i would rather see indie shit getting made then only seeing #the big studios (who don’t have equitable practices anyway!!) making shit #but that’s another conversation. just to be transparent about my viewpoint on this kind of thing #maybe controversial but also can’t we have nuance. for once.

[werebutch]

Why does my sister crush all hope of having a good time with her when we’re out. Like she does it on purpose. And I keep believing that the next time will be better 😭

#either she doesn’t say a word to me and is angry for zero reason #or like today.. stands 2 inches from me at all times. constantly talking but it’s not fun talking it’s her saying the same fucking sentence #over and over again. for like an hour until she latches onto a new one. she also does this thing where I’m trying to walk or look at #something and she just doesn’t move. stands in my way on purpose in the most annoying way possible. she thinks it’s funny I guess #idk I know I’m just complaining but I honestly had kind of a mini breakdown moment a while ago #she’s so frustrating and I also frustrate myself. I wish I didn’t keep trying to be friends with her so bad after she treats me so horrible #especially the other day..if u know wat I’m talking about

[whumpy-wyrms]

ITS BEEN A MONTH SINCE TLLR CHAPTER 11????? WHAT

#wyrms says stuff #SORRY ITS TAKING FOREVER TO WRITE HOLY SHIT??? #i thought it had been like 2 weeks or something #dude i’m actually sorry it’s taking so long to get chapters out #BUT like the next three chapters are all around 2/3 of the way done #i miss those phases where writing becomes sooooo so so easy for me and i write like 3k words a day #i’ve never been able to like stick with a writing schedule #my energy for writing comes and goes as it pleases and it’s been like that all my life. drawing comes naturally #it never bothered me before that i’d just not write for a few months at a time and then suddenly get motivation #to write a shit ton of stuff at once in rapid succession #and it sucks because forcing myself to sit down and write is hard it just doesn’t come super naturally like drawing does. #like forcing myself to draw can be a lot of fun and it’s easy. but honestly i don’t chose when my brain tells me it’s writing time #but that’s probably not a good thing huh #and also i’m like?? SUPER SUPER excited about some of the chapters coming up?? like chapter 14 is THE chapter i’ve been most excited about #since i started this series. AND ITS BASICALLY ALREADY WRITTEN TOO #the parts in between are hard to figure out i’ve realized #and also hard to give myself motivation to write them. im basically just annoyed that writing doesn’t come as naturally as art does for me #and that ever since i started actually writing about my own ocs like 6 years ago #i’ve only been able to write in short bursts of a few months at a time #it’s annoying but it’s a good challenge for me to overcome. i just have to sit down and write and then i’ll get that motivation back #the next chapter should be done very very soon!!!

[taliskermortem]

honestly I’m pretty pissed off about that preview like they couldn’t even give us one nice week after finding out seongho left the message for junseong

#and honestly I’m going to start getting annoyed with seongho soon #not because he has feelings for someone other than junseong he’s totally in his right to not return those feelings #but I just don’t understand how he is so under Seonwoos spell #the only times that guy has been genuinely sincere are when he’s pissed of that junseong isn’t paying attention to him #like I didn’t notice it the first time but on the second rewatch from the start it’s junseongs attention he wants #and part of me feels like everything else that’s happened since is because he was made junseong never called him back on the second day #like he had three calls but was still sulky that junseong wasn’t one of them #and now that he knows junseong has such strong feelings for someone else and he doesn’t stand a chance #it feels like he’s panicking because he doesn’t want to loose face #so he’s clinging to seongho when actually I’m not sure any of his feelings for seongho are genuine #you’re special to me yeah yeah like a good little brother maybe #sorry I’m really mad #I woke up early to watch some of it and watch the junseongho date and then skipped to the voicemails just to check #and then they ended it like that #I get trying to keep people engaged but this is just irritating #anyway I have to go to work #I promise I’ll be happy and gush about the good stuff we got later #LIKE SEONGHO DID CALL JUNSEONG THANK GOD #but yeah for the minute I’m really mad #his man 2

[flowersforfrancis]

Why has introverted been replaced with emo?

#My classmates are annoying me #Like #anyway lmao #aparently #I’m “emo” because I read #listen to music in class #and don’t spend all day talking?? #idk honestly #it’s just

[thebumblecee]

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#I’m so exhausted idk what’s wrong with me #I’m ranting on this blog because if I do it on my main my friends want to help and I love them but I don’t need it #I’m trying so hard to keep up creativity productivity and doing things that keep me happy #but I feel like I’m being swallowed into the void and I don’t know what to do about it #anyhooo I’ve scheduled some things to post throughout today #i know it’s annoying I post new shit every day but I have to keep my mind occupied and honestly what else am I going to do with it? #is it too early to take a nap?? it’s 4pm? i can nap right #tbd later #I’m just so tired #I’m so tired of trying to be fun! and positive! all the time #i really do want to hype you all up but I don’t have the energy

[lucysweatslove]

Tw for the tags I just need to get this out (ED bullshit related)

#tw ed #I forgot to eat a proper lunch today #it wasn’t intentional exactly but because my day was so weird with gym and errands in the morning #I brought a (gross) matcha + greens protein shake and oat bar for after the gym #but a post workout snack =/= meal #when I got home after errands I wasn’t hungry so didn’t even think about lunch #until I got my perfumes and opened it up and instantly felt so sick #I had to eat a candy for the quick carbs to feel well enough to eat a bagel #but honestly it’s just annoying #like my body has all this actual fat on it but no it has to get SICK when I’m hungry #I know it’s because fats don’t provider energy super fast compared to carbs/glycogen #and I had basically depleted glycogen via workout #but cmon body you have all this energy RIGHT THERE what is the point of making me sick? #true talk tho I wonder if nausea hunger has a protective effect against refeeding syndrome? 🤔 #not that it’s relevant to me now really

[insanechayne]

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#I actually had interesting things from last night I wanted to share with you #but honestly now it just feels like what’s the point #you sent me barely a few sentences and some of that was literally about the weather #you don’t send me anything else through the whole day like I would usually do with you #so why should I even bother sending more than a few sentences back? #why should I bother trying to carry our conversations if you won’t help me with the burden? #friendship is a two way street you have to walk together #but you’re kinda just standing on your own end expecting me to come to you it seems #I didn’t want to start the day angry but I’m already tired and hungry and in pain #I shouldn’t let you effect my mood so much but you mean too much to me and I care too deeply and now I’m stuck #I know I’ll be fine later on once I get to work but right now I’m just annoyed #you couldn’t think of anything else to say to me? the entire day? you couldn’t figure something out? #personal

[lazinesswrites]

Did I really wake up early and go all the way to the university library, in the rain, in order to motivate my self to actually work on my thesis instead of staying home and doing nothing, only to give up at lunch and write The Bad Batch fanfic instead?

Yes. Yes I did.

These clones are gonna be the end of me, clearly.

#tbb #the bad batch #fic writing #I guess? #Laz complains #to be fair today is also just a bad day for sounds #in that every single sound around me that’s not my music (tbb theme on loop…) or people quietly studying #is just SUPER annoying and making me want to rip someone’s spine out #or possibly my own ears off #honestly even just people calmly talking about whatever they’re working on is almost too much #but the most annoying things are: people walking and talking loudly; people stomping down the stairs; a microwave dinging somewhere #the cleaning lady with her… hand-pushed Zamboni for floors; the other cleaning lady on her phone; something that sounds like a shower??? #someone playing music although I think that was for their project too and it didn’t last long #several people talking on their phones actually #do people not know about the ‘phone booths’ upstairs literally for the purpose of talking on your phone #without disturbing anyone else/being overheard? (one guy was talking to a doctor about either a sick child or a sick pet I’m not sure) #(he said a number that could be a social security number)

[ragazza-paradiso]

one thing that bothers me is when you tell people you’re a fan of eurovision and they just shit on it to you immediately. like if someone told you they had any hobby, like they follow F1 or they like knitting or they go climbing or they’re a big fan of jazz music or whatever else, no one would just instantly shit on it to that person knowing that they enjoy it and it brings them joy. so why do people constantly do this to me?? i’m really tired of awkwardly laughing and going haha yeah. next time i’m just going to ask them what they’re into and tell them it’s stupid too and they’re an idiot for enjoying it.

#this post comes off so dramatic but honestly this is so annoying #had a conversation with a ‘friend’ or i should say someone i knew a few years ago and i hadn’t seen in ages #he immediately said ‘i don’t believe anyone watches eurovision unironically’ while he’s talking to someone he knows is a esc fan #like firstly 180 million people watched last year they can’t all be watching it as a joke lol #and secondly i get it if it’s not your thing but it doesn’t cost anything to be nice or just switch the subject #this with many other things is just making me feel completely out of touch with like 90% of people now #yesterday i was on a really packed bus and there was a group of like 5 or 6 teenagers and none of them sat on seats next to each other #so when the bus got packed they were all sat next to strangers instead of their friends #which is so bizarre but i don’t know what’s cool anymore i guess #completely unrelated but yeah so much stuff is anti social and just miserable these days or at least i notice it more now #and btw i’m not someone who brings up esc constantly i honestly don’t talk to anyone irl about it apart from my sister and mum

[dontneedmyheart]

x

#i had a dream that i was seeing louis live #last night #and he took a walk around the audience #i didn’t want him to see me so i sat down #but he still noticed me and commented that it was nice to see old people attending his shows #and i was like bitch??? you’re only two years younger than me i am not old??? #and he just laughed and then i woke up #also he had some guy on the stage in a white dog suit #you know. like a mascot. #and the mascot was wearing a hockey jersey that read harry styles on the back #and i thought great. this is gonna do numbers on tumblr i’m already annoyed. #JHJHJHDSFSFF #honestly freud would’ve had a field day with me and my dreams #anyway i’m not seeing louis live and after this dream i never will #jhjhj okay i’m kidding i’m kidding #well i mean i don’t plan on seeing louis live #at the moment niall is the only former 1D member i am willing to give my hard earned money

[imaginarypasta]

nothing grinds my gears quite like a second “why haven’t you responded to me yet” message a mere 1-2 days after the original text

#personal #of course something like further elaboration or a change in subject would be valid #im saying literally like along the lines of ‘why haven’t you responded’ #im not saying no situation ever demands it but that urgency every time we text is so exhausting #like give me a little bit of time. i say 3-5 days is more reasonable but i’m personally fine with full weeks in between #and i understand the logic of ‘oh they’re not responding to me -> possibly feel bad about it possibly neutral -> i’ll just give them a #reminder so they know no hard feelings’ i really do understand that #but the constant demand of respond to a thousand texts within a day #is personally too much and honestly just not something i’m interested in participating in #and i have said before ‘im not on my phone that much. that is simply how long it takes me to respond to messages. if it’s urgent either #call or say it is urgent that way i know’ #AND importantly ‘i don’t go on my phone when i’m hanging out with people’ because that’s almost always what the situation is #and i try so hard to not be annoyed bc i know their intentions are not bad and they just want to talk to me #but idk how many time i have it in me to explain that to the same ppl over and over #and it would be less annoying if there wasn’t a habit of like forgetting this kind of thing about me. i don’t know a better way to say it #anyway. trying so hard to not make this is ‘this is what’s wrong with everyone today’ or ‘i’m so unique’ thing bc i realize how close this #annoyance can get to those places & they’re very much not the attitude i’m coming into this with #ok rant over :p

[oh-lacy]

every day gives me another reason to hate my entire existence

#shut up sadie <3 #today i was feeling a bit talkative #the moment i opened my mouth i regretted it #nobody fucking cares #and then ppl ask me why i don’t talk #oh maybe it’s bc nobody gives a shit when i do #i only exist when everyone else has nobody else to talk to #and i’m just so lonely #yeah people would care if i died but they don’t really care if im alive either #they don’t care about me at all and i get why #im a forgettable person who’s kind of annoying #and i’m not trying to be like oh poor me it’s just a fact #but it makes it really hard to want to be alive when nobody cares #but for some reason i still have hope that one day i’ll get out of this place and find people who do #and honestly i wish i didnt