#i dont know what to say to that i think you should understand that sometimes an author makes characters do bad things to progress the story

[kosmicdream]

im confident enough to post FFAK, which has anal prolapse, but i dont post the true drama....... my opinions about manga. *dramatic music* sometimes i kinda want to do some reviews.. its mostly me complaining.. it makes me sound so bitter like "do you like anything kosmic!" and..yes ! i do!!! okay!! i like a lot of things. once in a while, i dip my toes into a popular series to try to see if we are a good fit. Series like: Beastars, Dorohedoro, Dungeon meshi,ect.. and i kind. well. I dont like any of them LMAO. I mean, Ok, i actually really was into Beastars for a time, but after the fight with the bear guy (its been a few years sorry) and that story arc concluded.. it just spiraled to laughable levels and did not recover. I was genuinely laughing at it at times bc it kind of felt like a desperate scramble with the like. loopholes and power upgrades.. But I was invested for a time, it had a charm to me! I also loved the art and im curious about the authors next series about santa (partly because i too, am writing a story about santa). Dorohedoro has a great visual style, fun characters, i enjoyed reading but it also kinda didnt ...land for me beyond that, which is a shame. I feel like it is a series that "should" have clicked with me. And its like, not offensive to me but.. I'll forget that ive read the whole thing. I like STUFF in it. but thats not enough for me anymore. If i had read it when i was younger tho, it might have been a diff story. idk. My most unpopular opinion of all is that... I hated Dungeon Meshi.. Sure its ..pretty! cute designs. but i found it SO painfully boring and it actually was a struggle to finish. in the end, it felt like a waste of time.. SHOCKING take i know. That is the darling of everyones heart and i like, understand WHY its popular. .. but for me, i was not fed by anything. i am unfed and starved and going to eat elsewhere oh, and i.. as a person who has read a lot of fighting mangas.. I have tried to read chainsaw man, but i dont know if I can. I did finish Fire Punch. I'm surprised to say: i kinda liked it but it took a long time to force myself to read thru it. I honestly hated many aspects of Fujimoto's storytelling/character acting that i didn't think my opinion on it would change, but I'm a little more open to it now. I dont think i could ever super be into it or whatever, but i did find genuine enjoyment in aspects of fire punch. I did not really like look back. I haven't read his other one shot(s)? Where am i going with all this..I guess im giving some unrequested reviews after all...oops... a lot of this is spurred by how houseki no kuni is one of my most fav series, not only visually/characters/story/ect.. but i cant lie.... the ending... was kind of a flop for me... gorgeous and poetic ig sure but.. AUGH! it isnt what i wanted. maybe it'll be one of those "it'll grow on me" endings but thats mostly me having to go thru the 5 stages of personal grief and gaslight myself into it, but as the like actual honest first-reaction feeling it kinda lost me. I think it did not work when i felt the confrontation btwn phos/cinnabar wasn't the one i wanted to see. i will say tho, while im dissapointed, its not like a DEEP one or anything. I know its a miracle to even get to an ending.. i guess my take away feeling from it was like "everything fit together too well, too planned" but didnt feel planned, emotionally. I wasn't sold on it. Anyway, im here to speak my truth and my hot takes which, i honestly dont even want to have that one about HnK but its the real feeling i have for it.. Once again Utena's ending just has made all these other issues i have with various stories more obvious LOL

#the series i hate MOST is one piece #those who know me in my life #know this truth about me #i loathe that thing!!!!!! #i am a hater and i dont wish to be changed #oda does good color spreads tho

[moeblob]

What if I straight up didn't explain myself? What if I just said trust me on this? Would you?

#fe warriors three hopes #mercedes von martritz #miklan anschutz gautier #we really only need to clarify this is STRICTLY warriors miklan and i think ive already condemned myself but i accept it #i am very sorry but the person i usually would talk to about rare pairs has been a bit busy so i couldnt go to them to get it out that way #so art is the only way i have you have to understand its not my fault (its my fault) #did you guys know i reset the azure gleam map three times before googling the chapter where he dies to try and save him #no i dont think he deserves to be pardoned for what hes done but i liked that w3h gave him a small chance to be better FOR HIMSELF #no i dont think he should simply be forgiven for everything he did but i do like that he was given humanity and how #he was still not a good guy but damn you guys i think about that npc sometimes #who says that they admired him becoming something despite being a criminal bc if miklan can do it whats stopping them from being better ? #like that npc stuck with me a while ok #just ......... there are a lot of thoughts here that i dont think many of you care to read even in tags so ill stop now #i will say the canvas is saved as speed run to cancellation lesgo

[fudge24-7]

Ok while I do agree what caine did is messed up, I don't see anyone coming to his defense with this point, and I feel like it should be considered more

Tadc spoilers ahead for episode 2 if you don't have the tags filtered:

Caine didn't have any way to know gumigoo was centient, I know it was easy to forget that when we as the audience could clearly see it, I did too for a moment but, when you think about it, he didn't see gumigoo become self aware like we did. Like he's said he only has eyes on the circus, and while I don't 100% trust every word he says, the fact he didn't just close the portal the moment gumigoo approached, or hell intervene the moment pomni mentioned bringing him back, Instead just seeming surprised when he noticed gumigoo there, it shows to me that he really doesn't see what happens there, so he most likely didn't know. from his perspective pomni just got way too attached to a character he created, he had no way to know why she did or that he was more then what he made him now

#the amazing digital circus #tadc spoilers #the amazing digital circus spoilers #anyway yeah i fekt this needed to be said #this isnt to say we shouldnt be uoset i still am hinestly that it happened #but i don't think it hurts to acknowledge caine didnt know what was happening there as much as we dod #in general caine isn't malicious he just doesn't understand humans #and while it is deffinitly frusterating to witness as an audience i don't think we should act like hes evil or anything like that #caine #tadc caine #whew boy i know this is probably gonna be a hot take here #but what can i say sometimes a person has to speak their truth especailly when they dont see anyone else saying it #i dont necessaarily think he 'did nothing wrong' even I'd argue he deffinitly did #but he didn't have all the knowledge to realise what he had done if you ask me #this probably isnt as well put as it could be but oh well i hope people still get my point #fudge does a talky talk #weird to think that this is my first contribution to this fandom #like i know I've talked in replies here and reblogged others posts but I've never made an original post for the fandom until now

[paging-possum]

Who up listening to good luck babe by chappell roan and having it resonate not in the way intended but resonating nonetheless. About to go ham in the tags about the overlap of being a lesbian and being aromantic...if u even care....

#my art #gore #organs #its 2am so not a lot of this is going to be very coherent but this song makes me feel a lot of things about it all #like. its the Expectations #the expectation that im going to date men and the expectation that im going to date at all have always felt equally stifling #theres that feeling of not trying hard enough or not realizing it at first or trying to lean into what you're told you should feel #and having it not pay off time and time again and wishing you could just make it work #because everyone else around you has it just fine and you dont get why you're struggling with it so much #THERE ARE MORE SIMILARITIES BETWEEN THE TWO IS WHAT IM SAYING #like obviously figuring out aromanticism is especially weird because its a lack of something BUT THEYRE PRETTY SIMILAR #realizing I dont want to date anyone mirrors realizing I didn't like boys but like. idk man its worse sometimes? #I wouldn't trade it for the world it means a lot to me but its almost like people go out of their way not to understand it sometimes #at the end of the day I am the you in that song #it was a very very long road to being okay with never falling in love because that was something I wanted for a very very long time #at the end of the day I will never have to be someones wife and I think its better that way #but its also hard not to get jealous sometimes #like I know its irrational I know I get physically ill at just the thought of being asked out but like #sometimes ill see my friends with their girlfriends and ill feel like clawing my own chest out with want #but also if anyone asks me out I will have to dig myself into a pit and never come out. I think. #I want to be with women but I dont want to Be With Women if that makes sense #its another layer of difficulty that I dont think I'll ever be able to get past #I feel like at this point I should just be trying to conditioning myself out of any form of desire because its just not an option for me #which definitely isn't true and like chappell roan says. you'd have to stop the world just to stop the feeling. #but its also so tiring to have to sit here with the feeling and feel bad for having the feeling. #I dont know #I think if I felt a little more or a little less I’d be fine but I’m stuck in the middle #it feels very weird talking about this openly but also its very difficult to talk about with friends because most of them dont get it #anyways something something Josies monologue from bottoms #im going to bed

[weirderscience]

if i had a nickel for every time someone has been entitled and weird towards a creator. for depicting conflict and characters that do bad things that are depicted as bad things in the context of the story. and told them to change it. id have several nickels

#ive legit had anons in the past tell me to redirect the entire arc of an rp they werent even in #just bc they found it upsetting that we were exploring themes of generational trauma and familial conflict in it #i dont know what to say to that i think you should understand that sometimes an author makes characters do bad things to progress the story #and not because they have some kind of agenda where they think thats a good thing. its important to understand context #(note: this rp was viewable via blogs it was not closed to the public) #labz.txt

[nthflower]

Tumblr is always like social norms are evil and stupid and hurt people that doesn't fit in (which is extremely true and I say this all the time too)

But the moment someone do something here stupid everybody is like turn into hive mind and bully them.(not racism or bigoted stuff like terfs idk I am talking about just weird things)

Like people preach be yourself, current social norms are fucked up then mock you for not following Tumblr culture or whatever.

#people who make angry posts to other users about tumblr etiquette etc. #like how dare you spam liking my blog how can you not know this is wrong why are you not thinking #or how dare you asking them something because you cared you clowns go learn unwritten tumblr interaction etiquette rules #we love people who dont understand social norms easily tho 😌 #ughhhhh i am angry #and this is not about me btw all my interactions in Tumblr was amazing following and follower #but some other post that u saw #like yeah they are annoying maybe why are you mocking or smugly mean about it just teach them whats wrong #like its my neurodivergency i know but i genuinely can't see sometimes not wrong i only can find patterns but not explain them #and if you tell me instead of mocking whats wrong here i can then see my problem and just fix it and also it would be amazing for me too #i would also develop as a person #this is my strategy irl tbh first i explain someone what's makes me feel wrong and bad about their thing #then if they don't understand after a while and its hurting me i just then be angry to them and say okay this persom is stupid/annoying #anyways i just especially after starting therapy stopped judging people even when how much weird weird they are #i cant know without asking and i can be same too #rant #long long tags #i should learn telepathy so much i want telepathy its only communication way that would satisfy me

[dog-girl-zezora]

...

#personal #so like ive been thinking about why i have this strange uncaring feeling about family during this vacation #i hate spending time with them i find them annoying and just not enjoyable to be around extended family is like having a customer talk to m #and bc of that i am the most insufferable person to be around. i dont have it in me to care about looking happy or being my best #i just exist i am here i am here with you and thats all it is to me. if i had a choice i would not be here. #they get mad with the way i am they dont like my indifference about everything we do but i am just LIKE that im honest about my feelings #it shows on my face and my voice. but i would never say anything bad outloud. so why does my body language matter anyways #i still think they should be happy im physically with them even if my heart is not so it should be enough... #i dont know when i stopped being happy around them #i think ive been this way for so long that i just have no room to really grow too much #and my friends and partners have a side of me that will never be shown to my family. #i feel two faced. but its not a bad thing #i wouldnt abandon them i respect what theyve done for me #but that doesnt erase the past. #... i understand it more. we have to live with our demons and the ghosts thay haunt us #but learning to not hold on to the hate and dread. not letting it kill you #thats. the hardest. part. because it comes back and it goes and its back and its gone #mmm #sometimes i do wish i could forget. #i would maybe be nicer.

[bingobongobonko]

just the slightest.......... and by slightest i mean extremely frustrated i cannae focus on the things i need to do... but on shit that really don't matter, but also it matters to me. but in general i know i gotta focus on other stuff but i cant and its damn frustrating!!!!!!! how do i focus on stuff!!!!!!

#begrudgingly working on thangs... but i like it.. #but i should do other stuff but then i stop focusing.. #wtv... #slapping my brain around at full speed. Work you fool! #tho i do think its good im getting better at drawing mechs hee hee hoo heee hoo.. #thinkin if i just do what my heart asks of me then eventually ill have the ability to focus on the stuff i wanna work on #i think too. srry i got a lot to say.. been retrospective #i know i have a difficulty connecting to ppl it just frustrates me to no end how big the wall feels sometimes #i dont want that wall to BE there #difficulty connecting to people. even ppl i care about recently and it makes me sad. i dont know how to get it across #it feels like a different language again i guess. and its real frustrating not understanding how to put myself across #sucks 2 suck i guess. im not sure how i come across sometimes. maybe too talkative or too unresponsive idk man #it gets scary. i dont pick up on the signs nowadays. i dont KNOW how people think of me and i dont wanna do something wrong #agh!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im thinking hard. just not been able to connect to people and its got me in the dumps i guess #i wish i knew why #oh well im workin on it. i gotta get better. been struggling to feel normal and its distressin to know i might not ever be #just got me cryin outta frustration

[horrorwebs]

fucking hell fucking hell is she gonna reject me? i want to let sth out for a second and didnt want to tell my psychologist until i have answers so. tags it is

#so. i told my friend i like her. i really really do you cant imagine how much. this was while i was away on a trip last week and we were #messaging.honestly i wanted to be brave enough to tell her in person but i tried already and i was tired of waiting for 'the perfect moment #i was tired of not doing anything ever and watching my life go by. so i drann a bit and told her. not bc i was a bit drunk thats just an #excuse. i was plenty conscious and still scared as fuck (so much that after i sent the message i took a lap around the building lol) #she said i should be scared first. then that she wasnt sure what to say. in her words 'more yes than no. but i dont know what to say' #understandable. she prob wasnt expecting it and its not amazing to have a conversation like that through text (despite the fact that our #relationship has always relied heavily on texting cause weve always stayed up talking. like from day 1) #anyway. she said that before we met she had a crush on me (i already knew this) and that she sometimes felt this way too wbut was scared i #didnt feel that way as well and didnt wanna risk anything so didnt do anything (granted. but she DID say plenty of ambiguous things + #told me i could sleep w her then um. slept on top of me. hugging. you know) #my friend said this was a good sign i was nervous and told her that i thought it was weird and she said her response was p good #and later she uploaded on her cf story a video that said a ring she shares w me is her 'married ring' so i think thats good?? #but also. we havent talked yet (hard to do in 15 min at school) and i have a bad fweling #i feel shes going to say sth like she likes me but doesnt want to risk what we have esp considering her other friends sometimes treat her #badly/exclude her and that shes worried if we fight we are going to lose our friendship + shes going to lose my friends as well #which is well. stupid of course. because i always want her in my life. i think she knows this. i want her to know this. #ever since we met i want her in my life and i cant stop thinking about her and how i miss her and her eyes and how she hugs me and GOD #THE OTHER DAY WHEN WE SAW EACH OTHER AFTER I WENT ON A WEEK LONG TRIP SHE FUCKIN. LIFTED ME OFF THE GROUND AND. CARRIED ME AROUND #HONESTLY IT WAS A BIT EMBARASSING THERE WERE LOTS OF PPL SRIUND AND IM A VERY PRIVATE PERSON BUT I WAS SO HAPPY !!!! #and idk i just dont want her to reject me. shes the first person i really like and i see myself together with. we have so much in common an #we understand each other and we are GOOD for each other. shes so good for my life and i want to believe i am as awell and god how i #want to kiss her and call her my girlfriend and just. agh #its exhausting liking someone huh #loveposting #spikeposting #if anyone has read this far omg hi thank you what do you think?

[dawningfairytale]

mad about a tweet of an article portraying something technically true but basically wrong

#while yes it's conservative under larger society given this thing's circumstances it's actually pretty fucking progressive #also 'church of england so scotland should just leave' DO YOU NOT THINK ANGLICAN CHURCHES DONT EXIST ELSEWHERE #READ THE DAMN ARTICLE #i know it is bad. i am acutely aware of the homophobia in the church for some fucking reason #but like. this is genuinely better than it is elsewhere. #anglican churches being able to bless gay couples is a huge step in the right direction #no! it's not enough! i know that. but guess what? sometimes you have to muscle through it and wait for the homophobes to change their minds #or die out #this conundrum takes a long time. clearly. but this isn't the worst treatment of queer christians in the western world #(by the church at least) and i'm sick of people acting as though it is #do you know the homophobia that exists specifically in the sydney anglican church? #do you know that the nsw and act baptist association is debating over whether churches can be churches if they're 'same-sex affirming' #ie. can churches still be baptist if they're doing LITERALLY WHAT THE UPDATE SAYS THE CHURCH OF ENGLAND IS DOING #and the coe is worse in my state than most other places in the western world so ya i shit on it #but still. read the fucking article and understand that it's a bloody nuanced situation #vent #vent post #tw christianity #tw christianity mention #tw homophobia #in tags #THE ARTICLE IS PROGRESS YEAH PROGRESS IS SLOW BUT I'D MUCH RATHER CELEBRATE IT THAN REPRIMAND IT #OH YEAH AND THE FUCKING BIBLE BELT IN AMERICA #you're going to tell me. that whatever the fuck's going on there is comparable to 'sowwy we still can't marry gay couples but we're trying! #we can bless the union which is an improvement!!!'

[arinmoss]

women and femmes is like. what the fuck r u talking about lol.

like ppl will be talking about shit that effects me but postulate it as something that effects only women and femmes, two things i am not lolol

#its like even the video essay girlies i like say this kind of stuff #women and femmes or women and nonbinary #or women and femme presenting #like that doesnt mean anything what the fuck r u talking about lolol #maybeee women and people percieved as women #or sometimes people with marginalized gender identities maybe depending on the topic but like idk #its just something i still being used even by well meaning people #and it sucks when the converstions their having are important and good but like #idk idk man #women and nonbinary people is like the fucking funniest to me #but also i remmeber someone was talking about how woman and femmes would techincally include men cause men can be femme presenting #and like u know the girlies who say shit like women and femmes arent talking about men lol #idk i just think people should like think a little bit more before saying things and using words they dont understand lmao #like u wouldnt men and masc presenting people cause thats fucking stupid #masc presenting would include women whether u like it or not and masc women arent exactly treated the same as cis men #same with femme men and cis women lol #masc women and femme men are treated like shit for their mascunalnity and femininity but cis ppl do not fucking care about that #whatever anyways theres a lot you can say about htis shit but im kind of stupid and bad with words and idk waht the fuckim talking about #anymore just wanted to rant a lil #anyways its just like afun reminder people dont respect nonbinary people or people who arent what they think a man or woman should be

[bellamygateoldblog]

idk i feel like everyone would be so much happier if u just minded ur business and let ppl get on with who they are

#like i soooo don't care just let people do what they do and be who they are u dont need to #b making a callout post for ppl just living their lives n somehow that makes u feel victimised #just be open and take people at their word???? dont challenge ppl abt their own identity dont bring up politics and discourse #when someonr is just like. trying to be comfortable w who they are its so counterproductive and unnecessary and SO terminally online #'i wish yall would learn ur history' girl i communicate with the elders irl DAILY and they do not act like u r acting rn #knowing textbook info abt shit and acc communicating w people from other generations r two separate things #idk idk #sometimes other parts of tumblr (non-fandom) leak onto my dash and im reminded of how. ridiculous it all is #like turning on eachother.......picking EACHOTHER apart.....that is NOT the enemy its soo si so so so stupid #sowing distrust and seperation in a community instead of standing united against the ACTUAL oppressor...blows my mind truely #these r the same ppl that would callout an elder for saying something problematic that they used back then but we dont anymore #like it doesn't work like that #💀💀💀💀 #u cannot b acting like this fr #just listen to eachother #b like oh that isnt my experience but i understand and i get why you feel that way #sooooo many things determine how we are and what we do the main thing is to just be. open honest and non judgemental #telling eachother theyre wrong for being like they are is just doing the same thing the oppressors are doing #just think ppl should b more mindful abt what discourse is acc appropriate and productive #what is actually worth criticising and what rly isnt that big of a deal and should absolutely not be getting more attention than the former

[sexybabystevie]

this is to ONE PERSON and one person ONLY. if you're confused, it's not you!

#you know. i saw you posted today from a different account. and it was one i totally forgot about #i didnt even feel like running back this time. was i curious? yes. did i end up looking? yep. #im saying this even though im 98% sure you cant see it but whatever. since when has that stopped me before? #you seemed fine. to say seeing that didnt piss me off would be a lie. oops i guess #i think its funny how the last thing you posted was stolen from me. #today it was one of those tag games we used to do together. your taglist was empty with some excuse of being absent on this app #i cant help but wonder if thats really all of it. if thats the whole story or not. i have a feeling the answer is no #i dont think youll ever understand the impact of what you did to me and the ways that you treated me. how that immensely fucked me up #or how youve basically thrown me to the wolves ever since you emotionally checked out. #you act like i never mattered to you and its been like that for forever. i made so many excuses on your behalf that i never should have. #these days the thought of you makes me go insane. the kind of insane that leaves me up all night and makes me wanna scream at the top #of my lungs. i have been consumed by anguish and hate. yes. im not afraid to say it anymore. i hate what happened and what you did to me #and sometimes i even hate you. and i dont even feel bad about it. im so over that because if theres anything i deserve after this hell then #its the capability to hate. for once in my life. #i saw your post and wondered if you thought of me. and i hope you did. i hope you thought of me and at the very least it stung. #because whether you want to admit it or not i was someone good. i bent over backwards for you every other day. try finding someone to do #everything that i did for you that you never appreciated. try finding someone who will care as much as i did about someone who couldnt be #bothered to tell me happy birthday. i dare you. because im tired of being sad that youre not here. im tired of being the one whos mourning #im so over it actually. because really i did so much for you. i gave up so much to be a good friend and it was never enough. i genuinely #cared about you. im not going to torture myself anymore by overanalyzing your posts or by thinking that i was nothing to you #because in one way or another youll miss me. and i hope the feeling is hell. #in the wise and paraphrased words of taylor swift. karma only comes back around to those who deserve it #in other words ill be fine #em speaks #tw vent ish #sorry to everyone else although i applaud you for being nosy lmao. gotta have my girlboss moment <3

[consciouschunkofmoss]

yoo how do i tell my father who is very much as stubborn as one can get that i dont in fact like google and dont want to use anything from it specially google drive because i think its pretty fucking disgusting to have to give this much information about myself solely so then i can store files to a place which ill forget about in less than an hour that will most likely be monitored by google too 💖

#literally love how he just casually says 'oh i added drive to your bookmarks btw' on my fucking laptop wihout any permissions #sure they bought it therefore they can totally use it if they want #but as far as my own privacy goes i cant help but feel disgusted at how ignorant he is to my boundaries #i said i hate windows. i hate google. i hate crypto #and yet he throws it all down my throat like its normal to just ignore a persons opinion if its something you disagree on apparently #and i know it may sound petty but i just try so much to stay out of his way #not talk negatively about the things hes interested in even if its fucking crypto or whatever #but dude it makes my blood absolutely boil to see how he just doesnt give a fuck about my own personal space and belongings #its a fucking browser for fucks sake ! why should he be so annoyed at how *I* use my own things #why should he feel the need to scramble around places where hes not even supposed to be on #im a kid in their eyes but fuck it hurts to see how incompetent he thinks i am #and if he really doesnt then hes doing a pretty fucking shitty job at showing that he trusts me #as far as privacy and comfort goes im willing to listen and genuinely interested in knowing of what he knows #but as soon as he casually starts to disregard the boundaries ive tried so clearly to set then im turning a plain blind eye #we both love computers. we both are amazed by how such systems work and its connections like the internet #but its impossible to have a conversation when he wont even try to understand Why i dont like certain things and why i do things My way #i dont go around messing on his things and yet he feels so entitled to do so in mine that i just feel sick sometimes #i hate to vent here but sometimes there really is no other place where people will actually think im a fucking human being #anyway i just #idk

[the-cooler-king]

breaking news: i asked my crush about his baby mom, and gave him the option to not answer. Shockingly he chose not to answer and I havent heard from him since

#It wasn't an overly intrusive question. Just like. Does she do anything with their kid #He's always doing stuff with his kids but I never hear about her specifically #Even the other baby mom does stuff with their son. He also doesn't talk about her #I am so interested in this backstory and he is so terrified to tell me about it I can feel it #It's alright... I can be patient sometimes. This is such an occassion #I dont want him to think im upset that he doesn't talk about it bc im not! I gave you an option and you sure chose one of two lol #You should always have the option to bail. Even if its just a question you don't know how to answer #Maybe he doesn't want to talk badly about her with me. Maybe he doesn't have anything bad *to* say #I have a feeling that he wants it to work with her but he can't understand why it wont #And im like dude it is *so clear* to me. I can tell you exactly what went wrong #But it feels condescending coming from me or through text. And I dont want him to feel like im judging him #Alternatively? I dont know if I could bring myself to tell him about. The bad stuff #If he asked I guess I'd figure it out but he doesn't ask. I dont know yet if that's good or bad.

[gothmods]

..

#i reblogged that previous post without the addition that had someones blatantly racist ableist tags #because it seemed unnecessarily cruel to subject people to the sentiment expressed #but i just wanna say if you think a mentally ill person behaving violently (which didnt happen here but the commentor still felt the need #to bring up) justifies the use of further violence against them you are not the ally to mentally ill people you think you are #like there is a whole conversation thats been happening for years about how cops and wannabe cops use of force only further escalates #situations and yet you are out there advocating for it just because mentally ill people sometimes act unsafely #like straight up saying you think its okay for mentally ill people to be killed as long as you deem their behaviour as threatening enough #as if people dont tie themselves in knots trying to paint the actions of mentally ill people as more dangerous than they are??? #just #the complete lack of compassion the dehumanisation #expressing more understanding to the hypothetical intervener who acted with violence intentionally and fully aware #than to their hypothetical victim #like how is that not just straight up admitting you think someone not sane is inherently deserving of a violent response???? #skip de-escalation skip addressing them as a person in pain/crisis just go straight to physically assulting them #god i just #i dont know how you can live with yourself deciding use of physical force is an appropriate response to someone having a mh episode #regardless of how unsafe you percieve them to be #i dont think that should be controversial to say tbh like in no scenario is that not going to result in increased risk of physical injury #to an involved party or further mental trauma inflicted on someone already suffering #and i do think that makes you an unsafe person for any mentally ill person to be around because what it tells me is my safety is #on the condition my crisis-point never moves to a level at which i cease to be a person in your eyes