If you could give a stranger one bit of life advice, what would it be?
Strive to be the person that You, as a child, would Feel safe Around.
Your younger self wouldn’t care if you’re a Doctor, or Engineer, or anything like that. All they care about is whether you’re still the Kind, Fun, Loving You that they always recognized you to be. So stop for a moment and consider that. And be Kinder to yourself. Say nice things about yourself. Treat yourself to that thing you’ve always wanted. Love everyone. And take Good Care of the People dear to you.
I promise that if The Child that You once were Saw You then, They would be Just a Little Braver about Growing Up :)
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how do you think in poems? i really enjoy the tags under your posts i've always wanted to write down my own thoughts that way bc in my head they feel so thorough and magical but whenever i put it in words i feel it just gets so much flatter and i no longer see a point and give up
oh oh oh, but lovely, can't you see that you've already started? it's a perspective that you hone, over time, something that is specific to you and you alone – that's the piece of it that makes it so special! you've already begun, and it only goes forward, up, sideways from here, wherever you wish to go!
think of it like a skill, for a moment, or a kind of muscle, if you'd prefer. you have to work at it, with it, over time and differing experiences, in order to progress.
(a quick important note: not progression as in the kind of quality-check of a grading scale, but progression as in evolution. shifting change. think of the leaves and their colors across the months of autumn, or temperatures rising with the sun and cooling with the evening dark. change isn't intrinsically a qualifying thing, it can just be, sometimes. this is difficult to remember, especially in the midst of frustration, but it is worth it. you are always doing better than you think you are – harshest critic, and all that.)
which is not to say that it's a simple thing to do! compare this to the vibe of me picking up crochet recently, with my shaking hands and too-quickly dwindling adhd focus – my first attempts at making a lil headphone sprout have not been going as well as i once hoped. my stitches are either too big and sloppy bc i'm not holding the yarn tightly enough to get clean ones, or i feel frustrated due to it not looking like how i'd like it to look in my mind when i started it, or even as i begin my umpteenth attempt.
but!! i know that it won't ever look the way i want it do if i set it down and never keep trying. it'll take awhile, like everything does, even the seasons take their time, the moon and its phases; but what i do know, is that, eventually, it'll resemble something i want it to. vaguely, maybe, but it is something. it doesn't have to look exactly like the guide i'm following, or the examples i'm inspired by, because it's mine – something made by my own hands, my own time and experience with every mistake and thrilling joy along the way to learn by.
take it from me: i want to be good at things i want to be good at so badly. and that excitement makes me want to be at the skill level i need to be at in order to do so right then and there, no learning curves or building blocks allowed. which is never how it happens, unfortunately, but –
i think, gently, that we tend to overlook what a pleasure it is to learn. to see the slow progression of things, to begin and change and continue and get better. and even if it's different as we go along, in a way it's our own little kind of magic, maybe, to create and never be done if we don't want to be.
which is all to say: it's already yours. why does it have to be anything else, anything more? why can't it just be good as it is now, where it might never be again? what is there to lose by enjoying the moment of where you are?
like everything, it will grow and shift and evolve with time, maybe into something you'd hoped for, or maybe into something you don't even have the words to describe right now at all. but that's the fun of it: how even now, even then, there, across time and distance and skill, there is a common thread of things; it will always come from your heart, your experience, where you are right then and there and now.
and if you think of that like magic, well, it becomes a little like magic, doesn't it?
also, something to consider: sometimes things you feel or think can't be put into words at that moment, or even at all! something else you could try (that i certainly do) is making something else with whatever it makes you feel - whether that's another form of art, or any other kind of media. if it makes you want to go outside and take a walk or get cozy and read or play a video game? that counts too! that's still an experience, you're still feeling.
i think that counts a little more than anything else, you know?
and as a little ending fun side-note, can i share something cool? i've never thought of it that way before, as thinking in poems. in my mind it's always been a kind of perspective of personal wonder, but you're right – it's poetry, in it's own way. you gave me that – so thank you, from the heart of me. i hope your journey finds you with every bright joy.
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Hi! Your art is really good it inspires me to keep going despite still feeling quite like a beginner artist
But I would like to ask if it Is possible for someone to become a good artist/animator if they aren’t very experienced with drawing or lack talent ?
Oh it is 100% possible for any person to become a good artist! Artistry also includes poetry, writing, digital art, painting, animating, sculpting, etc, so theres a ton to discover, learn about, and specialize in :)
I recommend drawing daily or often. Sounds kinda dull, but i drew for fandoms regularly over the years. Through my exposure of that, I slowly got better at art and writing.
There will always be a bigger fish, but know your a big fish in your own right! It's healthy to be proud of your creations, even if they have a ton of flaws. You made it and thats an amazing feat! Gratification does not equal arrogance.
Find Friends to Draw With. Many of my art friends are online or long time friends of mine 💕 and my relationships with them goes to show just how much other people can inspire you to keep going with your own art and ideas!
It's taken me more than 7 years to get where I am with drawing (not to scare you or anything, i started in high school), but for some it may take way less than that. It really depends on your work flow and art availability. Take your time, have fun, and remember to stay connected with people. It's hard to do it alone <3
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