#invasive here my friends

[gardener-but-i]

Am i going insane or can bittersweet (climbing nightshade) change the shape of its leaves?

#plants #gardening #new england nature #invasive here my friends

[aprito]

love @simplelations's Hope Springs Eternal and this scene in particular

#my art #sasosaku #based same age au #sakura haruno #sasori #akasuna no sasori #ino guest appearance #truly a sos CLASSIC #this is like right before the invasion happens and sakura is thinking about apologizing for the mean thing she said the other day #meanwhile sasori was hoping she wouldnt talk to him bc he wasnt supposed to have friends here #they are so cute. your honor #i would draw the entirety of the fic #if i could #tori my ride or die truly

[dungeons-and-dragon-age]

"It's just you now. Take care of mother."

i have the normal amount of emotions about them (lying) <3

#a redraw but also not really cus i ended up tracing a lot from the old one hfldsjdfs #it was only supposed to be for reference but i ended up keep messing w it instead of redrawing it proper...... #feel like i got his expression down better in the old one; looks more strained/ hearbroken like i feel #but thats fine #my art #my ocs #oc: liam hawke #i'm still not sure if liam or varric is the one who deals the killing blow #love both the thought of liam having his own sisters blood on his hands and never being able to wash it off fully #or his (future) best friend saving him that fate but now having that stand between them #cus liam would be grateful for it but part of him would always remember that and hold it against him #(both options also make the bartrand encounter crunchy in slightly different ways) #either way in that moment he kind of hates varric for even just being there. and fenris too #(though tbh im not sure how realistic it would be for him to take sb else except bethy and varric down into the deep roads) #((so maybe in canon fen wouldnt be there idk. havent decided this yet either)) #logically he knows its not fair ofc but it just feels like an invasion of privacy. it feels Wrong. #they have no place in this they shouldnt have been there they shouldnt have been part of it they shouldnt have seen him like this #but its sth that binds them too #the rest of the trek is miserable and awkward for all of them in any case #but yeah. #idk if they would be able to bury her down here properly so maybe they end up doing it via lava? #theyre not leaving her body out in the open to rot and/or become food for darkspawn or spiders thats for sure

[pastafossa]

TELL ME HOW IT'S FREEZING OUTSIDE AND I WAS JUST ATTACKED INSIDE MY HOUSE BY A LADYBUG FLYING AT MY FACE

#what the FUCK bro #WHY ARE YOU HERE #my friend on discord was cracking up cause we were talking and then I just shrieked WHAT THE FUCK #i took the little thing outside on a tissue and took a vid so I can identify it later in case it's the invasive one but STILL #WHY

[valyrfia]

what you thing about Max using Grindr. I wonder if he was just joking. I don’t want to speculate about his sexuality/relationships but I saw these threads about him being fruity and damn….something is up

I mean generally he does also strike me as the kind of guy to be an incredibly supportive ally but between you and me anon he defaulted to grindr in that list of dating apps a little too quick.

Also frankly how straight can you remain with Daniel Ricciardo and Charles Leclerc around you 24/7.

#and here’s my best friend max verstappen he’s an ally. speak max! ALLY! #yeah i don’t mind jokes but I’m not seriously speculating because that feels invasive as hell #lestappen #anon

[kukurubean]

a blazing sun against winter frost

#when they said that was the prosecutor's badge was supposed to represent i had to get up and walk around a bit #just something about all the finale cases happening in winter GETS TO ME ALRIGHT #A PHOENIX IN WINTER #MEANWHILE THERE'S THIS ASSHOLE #throws hands up #anyway this is my ffxiv au bc i am mentally ill #and creating DL-6 in aus is practically this fandom's specialty so here's my shot #CRIMSON DUELIST GREG...........TAKEN IN BY LEGATUS MVK.....................IT WRITES ITSELF #holds up baby miles by the arms: anyone gonna traumatize this? #i need to get back into the hang of editing but once i do and finally pull off a decent phoenix #shakes my fist #what if we were childhood best friends separated by the garlean invasion :blush: and i joined the resistance to meet you again #mypost #how the hell do i tag him so he doesnt show up in searches #miles rem edgeworth #SNORTS

[paris-geller-was-straightwashed]

I am about to say something that will probably put a giant fucking target above my head, but against all good reason - I fucking hate this whole 'gaylor' trend.

let's get the facts out right now: 1. I am a non-binary dyke, in case anyone wants to play the queerphobia card 2. I've been a fan of taylor since fearless first came out when I was 11 (before some of you had probably even reached double digits) and 3. yes, this is inspired by the recent ny times article.

honestly I'm usually too much of an old man to be interested in a lot of celebrity news, even for artists I like, so I generally stay clear, but this came through my morning news feed via, bizarrely, ctv (fucking ctv thought this was NEWSWORTHY enough to put on their site which is bonkers, and if you're not canadian, ctv is a nationwide news broadcaster). and it made me livid - because this has now far beyond stretched the line of acceptable.

fucking ny times. this would be perfectly expected for rags like daily soap dish or enquirer or some other bullshit circus, where they spend all their damn days crafting celebrity stories of who's secretly pregnant and who's getting an underground divorce. ny times, in case they fucking forgot, do still have some sort of legitimacy to their name, but I guess they decided they'd run out of enough stories to now outsource to conspiracy theory level fans who's parasocial relationships with their favourite celebrity reaches deity levels. dear ny times, there is actual news still happening in the world in case you're out of ideas.

putting aside this bizarre so called attempt at 'journalism', onto the second point - which is that this. is. gross!! I've had issues with the whole 'gaylor' thing since the start. we, as a fanbase, have seen taylor ripped apart and broken down by this intrusive and harmful celeb culture that analyzes her every move for who she might be seeing, who's she interested in, which male friend could be a potential partner, etc etc, over and over, and how it's been both damaging to her and her love life as she's said. fans have even criticized the media for it and said to leave taylor alone! but now, all of a sudden, just bc you're a fan or bc you're queer or both, it's okay??? it fucking boggles my mind when so-called 'gaylor' fans gush about her and her work, always at her defense and say they care about her, and then do this 180 where they partake in a super invasive thing at her expense and don't even blink an eye??? making your own guesses by yourself is one thing, but creating a whole plot around the fact of taylor secretly being gay and pushing her to come out is a whole other ballroom of nuts.

let's get this out onto the table - she hates this. she doesn't like that you guys do this. she's already stated so and you all keep doing it. just because you're replacing the male character with a female one doesn't mean shit when you're doing the same harmful activity, just switching pronouns. you're not subverting anything, in case any of you need to be told. as a queer fan, this is embarrassing. it is such a gross over-stepping of someone's private life, and now that the goddamn ny times have posted it about it, makes the behavior even more legitimized!! while nothing excuses homophobia, if taylor eventually starts distancing herself from anything and all things queer and starts pushing back, I don't want to see any fucking one of you crying bc it'd be your own damn fault.

thirdly, even if, even if, taylor was gay - it's none of our fucking business!!! it's like all you up and completely blanked out what it was like to be closeted. if you're staying closeted, it's because you're not ready to come out!!! you don't want to or it's not a good time for you or whatever there doesn't need to be any reason for why someone doesn't want to say they're gay!!! it's hard enough trying to make that choice, and then you have the rest of the whole world posting ''''articles'''' about your sexuality, putting a million pairs of eyes on you - fuck, that'd send me back ten more layers into the closet if it happened to me! it's super rude not only to discuss someone's sexuality like it's the weather over brunch, but even worse to demand they say something about it! this is queer etiquette 101 people - you don't run around gossiping about someone's sexuality bc whatever that person decides they doesn't need your fucking input!!

basically if I could spray you all with a spray bottle I fucking would right now - nobody needs your input on their sexuality, celebrity or non! all this does is perpetrate harmful celebrity gossip that just hurts the artist you claim to love so much. taylor is a real person with a real life, she's not a storybook character to speculate over! please, I am begging you, stop this! go outside! touch grass!!

and at the risking of being meme-ified, leave taylor alone!

#taylor swift #ny times #I have had it up to HERE if you can't tell #I swear to god gaylors are the most off-the-walls people I've ever met #literally I saw someone post a pic of taylor at her birthday with a female friend holding the cake up for her #and with 100% earnestness saying 'the way she's holding this for her is so relationship-coded???' BRO IT'S A BIRTHDAY PARTY #friend: *holds up cake for taylor for her birthday* #gaylors: is this Lesbian?????? #I'm about to loose my mind #now they're crying about taylor's team slamming the article WHICH THEY HAVE THE RIGHT TO #you all wanna play the homophobia card but I'm pretty sure it's less about the gay thing #and more about it being HORRIBLY INVASIVE AND WEIRD #the only thing I'll agree on is that them saying this doesn't happen to male artists was weird #it does in fact happen I'm pretty sure it's been happening to harry styles for a while now #and that's just as weird as long as we're here leave harry alone too #this has been a PSA

[danrifics]

anon, as an autistic non binary babe i think you sent your ask to the wrong person <3

#im not answering it properly cos what an ask to send to me of all people #anyway i can assure u dnp literally do not care for conspirussy #also lets be real theres worse shit theyve gone through than people seeing themselves in them and relating to the way they act etc #its literally harming no one #you wanna know how i figured out i was autistic?? people telling me i might be #my best friend figured out they were non binary cos i told them to consider it #its not always a bad or invasive thing #and besides no one is tagging dnp in this and being like omgggg ur an enby or ur autistic #they arent seeing this shit #its tumblr theyre not here ever

[grassbreads]

I'm gonna have to really tighten up my budget soon (the student loan pause is ending 😔), so I decided to give myself one big manga buying last hurrah before I sit down with the finance spreadsheet. I also, for unrelated reasons, ordered a couple volumes of manga, a webcomic printing, and a book earlier this week.

I have more packages coming in the next month than I've had at literally any other point in my lifetime. It's Hanukkah in August for Andromeda.

#I'm usually. uh. kind of a miser #Even the past few months. as I've been celebrating having a good job and disposable income for the first time #I'm still pretty careful about what I spend money on #but I've ordered eleven packages in the past week #10 of which are a book or manga of some kind #used book sites you are my very best friends #I got 5 things today for like 45 dollars total #and a large chunk of that was one specific expensive thing #we're cutting down the book budget from here out #but damn I'm excited #I read a LOT of manga digitally for obvious convenience and price reasons #can't beat the low low price of 🏴‍☠️ #but there's something so special about being able to curl up w a physical copy of something I love #I had like no physical case study volumes for a long time #so it's good to remedy that #invasion of the frogs #I promise I'm not bragging I'm just very very excited about this

[hauntingblue]

Yabushige count your fucking days. I am so mad

#the fucking flash forward. insane #toranaga in the fucking forest... ALL YOU HAVE LEFT IS THAT FUCKING EAGLE!!!!! NO SON NO FRIENDS!!!! #ishido blaming toranaga...... you should seppuku yourself...... shameless.... #so all out war now??? no toranaga invasion???? mmm..... #yabushige has lost it.... all that for nothing... oof #oshiba and her kid finishing marikoa poem..... i think i huave covid #HIS SHIP?????? #toranaga did this to keep him here knowing he wont stay now that mariko is dead.... i know it #the christians???? mariko???? to keep him here too?? #omg fuji......... #toranagas baby is so big ajdhaksj 'i have more sons thanks to you' hello???? #OSHIBA TURNED!!! ISHIDO ITS SO OVER!!!! #NO!!! LEAVE FUJI ALONE LET HER BECOME A NUN!!! ANJIN YOU ARE ON THIN ICE #toranaga is sucha bad bitch #i feel like anjin really felt ashamed about his first intent to arrive to japan and that mixed with marikos death... he said fuck it #and then toranaga turns it around and says nah... I am using YOU!! get your pussy up!! get your ships up!!! #'que la muerte le sea leve' thats what me and my friends say when we say goodbye to go to class ajshajanaakak i love this guy #favourite secondary character #this shot is so pretty... with the tree and the sea... the framing.... #SEE how toranaga burned his ship!!!! bc he wants to keep him!!! thats his foreign pet!! #he makes him laugh and distracts his enemies ajdhajdjsj.... his jester... #beef squashed with my girlfriends husband 🤝🏻 now we hold respect for each other #that was so good #i said yabushige better count his days and here we are.... #i post about someone and they die. 3/3 sobfar #if i reach far enough shogun is about a daimyo and the psychosexual relationship between him and his foreign pet... #he makes me laugh... and the last scene is the anjin laughing while looking at him... okay..... #talking tag #watching shogun #also!!! toranaga wanting to be shogun!!! this man is so complex!!! i hate him!!!

[madhushala]

half of my loneliness stemming from not having enough female interaction and constant urge to talk to bf wouldn't have risen if my roommate was a normal person and we'd have had a normal bond

#the sex ratio in our batch is insane #and to that most girls are day scholars or chose to live outskirts to campus #remaining are busy with their friends and roommates and boyfriends and apparently its enough i can't blame them i get busy with my bf too #but at least they have their roommates #firstly i think it as a boon that me and my roommate share nothing therefore i live in peace without invasion of my privacy #and most days its for the best #but we don't speak even a word and days pass can you imagine a person sleeping next to you and you live that aloof #not that i would want to know. her ive tried and our vibes don't match at all she might be the first person #and then i image of a healthy female interaction of being girly girl talking girly stuff and embracing the girly #and it sucks because i got no one here and its okay im not complaining #but i see guys and they might abuse and kill each other but when it's about having fun and helping out its like they're against everyone #thats the bond i crave #im a social person #im expressive #and then i can't

[starblaster]

really sucks that there is no way for me to be less lonely (in any meaningful way) that isn’t cost-prohibitive and/or bound to be a short-term solution. trying to take 1 college class costs me money and most of my classmates are students a fair bit younger than me, who won’t stick around after they graduate, anyway. the community ‘classes’ available are one-time workshops, and what you’re creating is a single craft prescribed by the instructor rather than a series of works with mutual, depthful critique involved. no studio hours, either. the closest thing to what i’m looking for is an art-and-therapy program hosted by two people i’m acquainted with professionally on the other side of the city, and it only meets once monthly (if that).

#my only other option is going to the ace group meetings #which also only meet once a month #sometimes i wish i really were back in school so i could be around the same people my age every day again #i have no local friends my age #i have no local friends period #it just feels like no one here cares about me which makes it hard to shrug off invasive negative thoughts #i don’t know why i try when clearly i just need to get better at accepting my loneliness for good #i just hate people only talking to me when they need to use me #i hate ‘friendships’ lasting no longer than a year #i hate not being a permanent fixture in anyone’s life #it just feels like no one here wants me unless i have something i can do for them #nobody here wants me simply because i’m a person and i need their companionship as much as they need mine #and it sucks being here and having to pass by the same hospital that abused me every day #which—speaking of permanent fixtures in my life—seems to be the only constant #i don’t have friends and never had friends. i just had people who fucking abandoned me

[cottagecryptic]

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#close friend offered to pay for my top surgery in full #just. out of the kindness of his heart. #its hard to comprehend it #he’s serious about it #i dont feel like I deserve it. i dont feel like I deserve the kindness #im waiting on the other shoe to drop #the haha im kidding #i know its not going to come. he wouldnt do that to me esp after what ive been through #i never thought i would actually be able to afford it #i grew up poor and ill likely spend the rest of my life poor #im honestly at a loss for words #tez talks #the self destructive part of me wants to decline #to make myself suffer #because i feel as though i do not deserve to be treated well by others #i feel like i do not deserve gifts. or to live in a body i feel comfortable in #i never thought id get here #rhys you truly fucked me up farther than i can comprehend #some of this was not started by you. the roots were already there. but you made damn sure to cultivate it and grow it like am invasive weed #an* #i cant escape it

[0uterspacew0rm]

ok its been like a week of uni and my flatmates r loud as fuck at 2am and always slam doors and leave me out of everything and multiple strangers or almost strangers have forced me into coming out as bi im done with trying to be nice and friendly and normalcore and going back to be an online girl hater <3

#might even go as far as to post some fanart if it goes well who knows #personal #yeah but like genuinely why do uni students think ur sexuality is just like. basic free reign info and not uhhhh kinda personal #like im still shaken from the first time bc this girl was so fucking persistant she wouldnt leave me alone. it was in front of an entire #group of people . like i get its 2022 no ones here is gonna say like 'ew gross' but why are you being so invasive. why do you need to know #like 1. im still so fucking uncomfortable abt it bc parents society i was a little later than all my friends i havent dated anyone etc etx #and 2. im a private person. people knowing what movies i like makes me want to die

[pagingdr-iverson]

Bruh. I just want my home WiFi back. On MY MAMA I AM SO BORED, it HURTS. I’m fucking missing Star Trek SNW and Secret Invasion. I. Hate. It. HERE. Just BROKE as shit for no earthly reason. *inserts pout here* 🤦🏾‍♀️😩😭

#no wifi #wifi my old friend #where are you #help a G out #someone DAMN! #cant have shit around here #ugh #this SUCKS #I MISS my #paramount+ #Star Trek #secret invasion #law and order #svu #etc #the boredom #is REAL AS SHIT! #disney+ #Hulu #Netflix #prime video

[grassbreads]

About to majorly level up my functional adult points today

#getting a mattress delivered!! #due to. circumstances. it took well over a month longer for my mattress to arrive than for my bed frame #so I have been sleeping on my fold down couch since I moved here almost three months ago lmao #cannot wait to have a real bed again <3 #and also cannot wait to stop having to explain to visiting friends/family why I have an empty futon frame with no mattress #plus as a bonus. I had to take the day iff from work to meet this delivery #and it's coming in the morning. so I have the rest of the day to just chill <3 #invasion of the frogs