#men and women exposed

[diana-andraste]

Human nature, or, Men and Women Exposed, A.E. Willis, 1901

#books #art #drawing #vintage #1900s #human nature #physiognomy #internet archive #illustration #a.e. willis #eyes #the mouth #men and women exposed

[juney-blues]

"no see they're not being transmisogynistic, they don't hate trans women! they're specifcially talking about *men*, and trans women aren't men! so no one would EVER refer to them as such"

wow you're sooo smart, you're so smart and understanding, your brain is huge y'know that. you're sooooo intelligent and thoughtful and you really get it y'know, you smart person you.

#juney.txt #this post brought to you by me hearing someone say ''baeddel actually refers to effeminate men. which trans women are not'' #like have you been living under a rock never exposed to mainstream transphobia for the entirety of your life or something #transmisogyny

[and-then-there-were-n0ne]

Even something as basic as advice on how to exercise to keep disease at bay is based on male-biased research. If you run a general search for whether resistance training is good for reducing heart disease, you’ll come across a series of papers warning against resistance training if you have high blood pressure. This is in large part because of the concerns that it doesn’t have as beneficial an effect on lowering blood pressure as aerobic exercise, and also because it causes an increase in artery stiffness.

Which is all true. In men. Who, as ever, form the majority of research participants. The research that has been done on women suggests that this advice is not gender-neutral. A 2008 paper, for example, found that not only does resistance training lower blood pressure to a greater extent in women, women don’t suffer from the same increase in artery stiffness. And this matters, because as women get older, their blood pressure gets higher compared to men of the same age, and elevated blood pressure is more directly linked to cardiovascular mortality in women than in men. In fact, the risk of death from coronary artery disease for women is twice that for men for every 20 mm Hg increase in blood pressure above normal levels. It also matters because commonly used antihypertensive drugs have been shown to be less beneficial in lowering blood pressure in women than in men.

So to sum up: for women, the blood-pressure drugs (developed using male subjects) don’t work as effectively, but resistance training just might do the trick. Except we haven’t known that because all the studies have been done on men. And this is before we account for the benefits to women in doing resistance training to counteract osteopenia and osteoporosis, both of which they are at high risk for post-menopause.Other male-biased advice includes the recommendation for diabetics to do high-intensity interval training; it doesn’t really help female diabetics (we don’t really know why, but this is possibly because women burn fat more than carbs during exercise). We know very little about how women respond to concussions, ‘even though women suffer from concussions at higher rates than men and take longer to recover in comparable sports’. Isometric exercises fatigue women less (which is relevant for post-injury rehabilitation) because men and women have different ratios of types of muscle fibre, but we have ‘a limited understanding of the differences’ because there are ‘an inadequate number of published studies’.

— Caroline Criado Perez, Invisible Women: Exposing Data Bias in a World Designed for Men

#caroline criado perez #invisible women #invisible women: exposing data bias in a world designed for men

[herdemonspeaking]

Never date/marry a man who:

is a misogynist, is anti-feminist, is religious, is conservative, thinks women should cater to him, doesn't know how to cook, doesn't know how to clean, is a mama's boy, a man-child, expects you to take care of his parents, isn't willing to leave his parent's house to live with you separately, doesn't add value in your life, has a 50/50 mentality, has a traditional mentality, isn't financially stable, isn't emotionally stable, calls himself 'alpha or sigma', is broke, has a high body count, consumes xxx videos, is a drunkie, doesn't support your career and dreams, has the audacity to dictate your life, tells you what to wear, doesn't respect women, use misogynistic slurs like "whore" or "bitch" or "slut" for women he doesn't like, plays video games 24/7, barks too much, prefers physical intimacy over casual intimacy, does not worship the ground you walk on, doesn't believe women are goddesses, is uneducated, is illiterate, is dumb, is a coward, needs therapy, belongs in an asylum, belongs in jail but is free to roam, is a rape apologist, has toxic friends, idolizes misogynist men, is a tater tot, listens to his alpha daddies podcasts, sexualizes women, young girls and children, doesn't find the sexualization of women in movies/shows problematic, is envious of powerful women, isn't okay with you being wealthier than him, calls women "gold diggers" for having high standards his broke ass can't afford, only likes feminine women, but is himself an ugly gorilla who looks like a forest, thinks he deserves to be the first priority in your life, lives in a delusion that you would choose him over your dreams anytime, is miserable, has a victim mindset, is insecure about everything, thinks he's superior to you because he's a man, has an attitude, is egoistic, looks innocent but deserves a slap on his face, makes fun of your hobbies, makes fun of common women's hobbies, is annoying, is being an obstacle in your journey to your dreams, thinks your life should revolve around him, is a narcissist, and, you don't feel safe and loved in his presence.

The list goes on... I will add more red flags 🚩 if/when I find out. Men have been exposing them at an accelerating rate.

Don't make the mistake of ignoring any one of them. Otherwise you will suffer.

Feel free to add more to the list.

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*Note* if you see any man crying about this blog, it's because he feels called out. If it's a stupid woman complaining, it's because she is dating one of these red flags and is miserable about the fact that you won't settle with a garbage like she did.

#radical feminist #radblr #radical feminism #radical feminist community #radical feminist safe #feminism #women #independent woman #red flags #men are children #Exposing men

[neet-elite]

Mean thoughts about Kylar. Both F and M Kyler <3...

Bullying M!Kylar by flirting with other people right in front of him, scowling down at him in a way that makes him whimper and paw at his pants while your hand lingers for a second too long on someone else. Doesn't matter who, only that it's not him. Encouraging his jealousy to grow by joining in with your peers and calling him names. Dirty, annoying, weird. Doing everything possible to put him down and still he wants you, which is disgusting, right? He deserves to know how fucking nasty he is. Pushing him to his limits by acting exactly like his bullies in private, shoving him around and belittling him, reminding him of how gross and weird he is with your foot on his cock, digging your heel against his erection and laughing about how pathetic the whole display is. Forcing him to the point of kidnapping just so that he can show you how serious he is about you, doing everything but admitting to him that you like it so that there's a higher chance of his desperation growing, taunting him from your restraints just to have him frantically hump into you to shut you up and prove you wrong.

Bullying F!Kylar by pulling her panties to the side so you can go knuckle deep in her little cunt in the middle of class. Purposefully sitting next to her so you can keep her edged the whole lesson, letting her rock against your fingers only until she's close, whispering for her to stop and she does!!! She'd do anything for you, even if it's painful for her to be stopping every few minutes. Telling her you'll only let her cum if she gives you her panties as a reward afterwards, and she looks so cute when she flusters and sobs for release, taking off her underwear in sheer frustration so that she can cum. Pulling on her hair to get her attention only for her to moan, and to make tugging her hair the only way you get her attention from then on so that you can embarrass her some more. Making fun of her for being so weird but giving her so many kisses afterwards so that she knows you love it anyway. Conditioning her to understand that you only bully her because you love her, soaking her panties every time you call her names, standing on her tippy toes for a kiss after you take advantage of her; in public or private.

#dol #degrees of lewdity #smut #hehehe #got thoughts.... #NOT ME WRITING “MY” AND “I” FOR F!KYLAR #guess i have a preference hehe OOPS #is this F!Dom? #i dunno :D #exposing how i love men and women differently...!

[maddy-ferguson]

women will literally accuse women and esp lesbian circles of "not unpacking ""man-hating""" alleged ""misandry" sweetie xo" getting offended ppl aren't appropriately uplifting how "men are amazing and awesome and attractive and i won't be shamed for thinking so" as if appreciating men is a real counter opinion than blame whatever gave women of every sexuality instance to be jaded weary cautious and tired and who'll complain every now and then and continue on with her life until she dies putting up with patriarchy. just welcome to the "woke" internet where misogyny's over and "man-hate" "shamed for not hating men" is worth springing to defences for

yeah i've only seen people talk like men's rights activists and think they're being unbelievably progressive on tumblr it's kind of fascinating. like i can see how seeing people hate on men could mess with people and stuff but you can't demand men appreciation posts that's literally the whole world outside of idk your tumblr dash (or even on your tumblr dash because fandom misogyny from people who think they're not misogynistic at all is really something). men get praised for "babysitting" their own kids like be serious? it's very let men be masculine

i don't think being like men are soooo gross and we hate them is actually constructive and it can definitely veer into transphobia (you'll always be a man/"a male" and thus a danger to women/why would you ever want to become a man they're the enemy and the bane of society etc) and homophobia relatively quickly?

but the way people ON TUMBLR ""combat that"" is often so off to me like if the most basic feminist principles offend you then i'm not really sure where to go from here. i remember seeing a post that was like "men aren't your enemy. they're your friend/brother/father/colleague/neighbor" with a lot of notes and like i don't know how to tell you this but that's literally who's most likely to harm a woman, the men she knows?😭 and obviously not every system of oppression is exactly the same but would you say the same thing to someone criticizing white people like...just very weird

i think women who are attracted to men and dating them making jokes about how they only tolerate being attracted to men because they have no choice and especially the whole i'm bi so i love every woman and only find 1 in a 1000 men attractive (very often said while in a relationship with a man) thing is obnoxious and annoying for like everyone who has to hear it lmao but also when women who date men make jokes about it (not about them being ugly or unattractive or whatever but about them being bad partners in general) it's like. what else are they going to do like you said they're gonna endure patriarchy for the rest of their lives and as girlfriends/wives/mothers they go through the most it's very bleak? idk. it's not like you can date a better man yourself out of patriarchy

of course men aren't a all as bad as the worst guy you can imagine and they're not all out to get you or whatever but saying things like "men don't all benefit from the patriarchy rich men benefit from the patriarchy but jake, 23, is not oppressing you" is like. kind of insane. jake, 14, was oppressing me like have you never interacted with boys in school😭 and it's not like it was entirely their fault we all have to outgrow misogyny it's just you know society etc but some of them never outgrow it lmao and just...the takes you see on feminism on tumblr are astounding i hate it here

#and like i do think that young guys who feel bad about themselves only having people who make them feel worse and who actively make them #worse like incels and idk youtube algorithms to turn to is a problem but like. again it's the same thing as white people who feel bad about #being white to me in a way like are women and GIRLS supposed to coddle them and say it's gonna be okay you're great even when they're #like actually harming them by being misogynistic to them? that's already what they're taught to do always #the notes on that male loneliness epidemic post i reblogged a few weeks ago still haunt me like OH MY GOD #and if you think misogyny isn't as prevalent anymore you're very naive. and probably misogynistic yourself #i'm not even sure young men being more feminist is true (well it's probably true when you compare it to like the 50s) but even #when men ARE like yeah women shouldn't have to do everything i can help with chores (the use of the word help is already a red flag lmao) #when you look at what they actually do they still do way less like i don't have links because these are tags on a tumblr ask but i read #somewhere that men think chores are 50/50 when they're only doing like 30% of the work? like it just seems hopeless #sometimes i'm happy and then i think about the mental load #sorry for not uplifting men 24/7 you can just hang out on the steve harrington tag or something there's actually a lot of people doing that #when someone said um does the ronance fandom not seem terfy to you...because of a post that was like can the lesbian ship ronance #be about the lesbian ship ronance not about steve A MAN #like you can't make this up #i meant it when i said the average tumblr user would benefit from being exposed to more misogyny like i swear they forget it's even a thing #like obviously they wouldn't BENEFIT from it lmao but their posts wouldn't be as dumb and that would benefit me🙏 #ask

[malhare]

It's not that I forget that I'm gay, more so that I'm not a very horny person, so whenever I catch myself having certain thoughts it's like "oh yeah, I'm a faggot"

#I have very not-hetero attractions to men. I can never relate to the things women find attractive in a man #I swear I've only ever met women who like rail thin men or men with 6 pack abs. And they're always like 'omg hand kink' #Babygirl I was just drooling over a black metal musician's exposed armpits. who said that #malhare.txt

[lillazyboithings]

What's your favorite cryptide? Attach a picture if you can/@i-send-you-random-asks

Oooo, this is a really fun one! My favorite cryptid is called the "Manananggal". The name is derived from the word "tanggal" which means "to separate" because of its ability to detach itself from its lower half at night

#fun fact the upper half gains the ability to fly once separated from the lower half. #Usually depicted as women #and they primarily eat the babies inside pregnant women #but they also lure in men to eat #they also eat insides #like the heart liver and also the stomach #theyre also weak to sunlight so its said that if both halves are still separated the manannggal will be destroyed #put ash/salt/garlic on the exposed area of the lower half #and that's basically how the manananggal can no longer reunite with the other half of her body leaving her susceptible to the sun #technically its also classified as a vampire #noodleanswers #sorry for the long infodump in tags :((( #i was actually excited to finally recieve an ask from this account lol

[quillkiller]

not to short shame or whatever but the reason i stopped reading all for the game was because i couldnt get past andreil being like 5ft. BOTH OF THEM ??? tiny little men.. be serious

#listen. im just a girl in the world #im 5’3 and my specific type is tall and large women #my ex gf was was 6ft #BUT THE IMAGE OF TWO GUYS BEING 5FT AND TOGETHER AND ALSO MURDEROUS…… im sorry i couldnt #but thats just me #also i dont rly care if i short shame men #you’re a man and my oppressor #why would i feel bad #you still win #anyway<3 #why did i post this #exposing myself as shallow 😔😔 #listen. im an aspiring short king just trying to live my truth #and my truth is. i got the ick #hugs n kisses everyone <3 #ahdhfjsjfjjfldlgl

[maslows-pyramid-scheme]

I started Invisible Women: Exposing Data Bias in a World Designed for Men today, and I have a few thoughts so far:

Firstly, I like how she weaves different, typically unconnected examples of misogyny into a coherent and compelling whole, even if her execution isn't always the best.

Secondly, relatedly, I hate her writing style so goddamn much - it sucks, and, when she jumps between points, it undermines the power of her point.

Thirdly, it's not a radical feminist book, it's a liberal feminist book.

#i'd love to quote it but it's just not a quotable book #also. i don't understand who reads this book and thinks it's anything other than liberal feminism. #which is fine - radical feminism and liberal feminism do agree on some things! #but i think i will like caliban and the witch better (caliban at least started much stronger) #radblr #books #invisible women #invisible women: exposing data bias in a world designed for men

[womenaremypriority]

Learning about pregnant women in prisons: no men in women’s prisons, not guards not doctors nor anyone. Okay

#Exposing someone in possibly the most vulnerable space to pregnancy is torture IDC #we should improve conditions for prisoners but either way no men present for women 🙈 #Misogyny #radical feminism #Class issues

[mintharasthrone]

this was a comment in a tiktok live debate about trans "women" being in female spaces

#banned me for a day #fucking tiktok #this i said after this woman said it's okay for men to expose their dicks to little girls and women in change rooms and accusing all of the #women of sexualizing bodies for not wanting men in our washrooms #i can't believe what i'm listening to right now

[wild-at-mind]

If you ever see me becoming one of those transmisandry people, please fucking call me out immediately.

#it shouldn't happen though i am too triggered by MRA-lite material #i can't see that changing any time soon even though i haven't had exposure to the content for like 10 years #the transmisandry discourse on this site melts my brain it's awful it's just online stuff being argued about more online stuff #this is not the same as me saying i will never be treated badly for being transmasc i am not stupid i know that happens #and i am fully committed to fighting the patriachy which has nothing whatsoever to do with my individual manhood or anyone else's #it's a system and yes gender and how we fit into the patriachy is made extremely complicated in trans circles and that's ok! #i promise it is you don't have to design a new system that cis women and trans women are using to do oppression on specifically trans mascs #we're all being fucked over by the patriachy and how the fuck does it help to be divided #but in reality let's face it i can say this all i want but the real reason i'm never going anywhere near being a transmisandry person #is because i was exposing myself to MRA-lite content at a formative age and harming myself in the process #even if i didn't know i was a trans man guess what it would have harmed me just as much if i did have that awareness #and honestly when i see transmisandry discourse all i see is that fucking triggering stuff again #all it does is nitpick whether patriachy is real with tiny examples it doesn't talk systemicly and it doesn't help men in the slightest #it pays lipservice to marginised men but it has no interest in talking about the fact that men are usually simultaenously #oppressed and oppressor at the same time- this is not accusatory it is just factual #it's true of the queer community too and basically every community #but we can't seem to talk about it without just harming each other and blaming and not seeing each other as human #the internet makes it all so much fucking worse this stuff can't exist without it #anyway i'm super rambling but these are genuinely very triggering topics for me i have unfollowed people i LOVE becuase of this #and i still love them! unfollowing on a social media isn't a referendum on that i just can't see that stuff and i need it gone from my dash

[emmaspolaroid]

these shojos have me so gagged I’m just 100% locked into the drama like wdym her bodyguard is also falling in love with her and she’s just completely oblivious and also now there’s pirates

#I’m living for this ajkdsajk #also still a lot to be said ab how the romance genre exposes women’s deepest fantasies of wanting men to be nice to them

[hxhbutimavampire]

Chrollo only picks people he thinks are cute to be in the phantom troupe.

#he has a GREAT taste in women but and iffy taste in men #I’m exposing him 😌 #hunter x hunter #chrollo #hxh #chrollo lucilfer #adult trio #chrollo hxh #phantom troupe #genei ryodan

[zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz7]

i wanna meet ppl.

#abuse k1nk #public urination #so fuckable #smoke weed everyday #rap3toy #rap3doll #rap3 me #public toilet #piss play #piss on me #text me #kidnap fantasy #men are superior #femaleinferiority #women are dumb #dumb bitch #dumb wh0re #stupid whores #fully exposed and ruined #degrade her #take advantage of me #piss in my ass #pee on me #little piggy #ruined piggy #malesupremacy #detrans female #dyke correction #dykebreaking #tight hole