#monicaaksamit

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Why are we assuming that he’s the one to end relationships? It might be the girls? He might be a massive wanker?

Nobody is assuming anything, I KNOW some things FOR SURE due to my insider sources. I don't know WHO broke off EACH relationship or casual dating, but some I DO know.

SAM broke it off with Amy Shiels to date Cody Kennedy (resulting in the infamous The Barbie Wars). Plenty of proof of this.

SAM broke it off with Cody Kennedy to date Abbie Salt. (My source info was later CONFIRMED by Cody's mom, who posted about it on social media).

Sam and Abbie were last seen together in November 2015 (both posted pics skeet shooting in Scotland) and after that, Sam spent Christmas 2015 and New Year's 2016 solo in Thailand, doing Muay Thai training and decompressing. I can't remember who ended that relationship, but it seems it was probably mutual.

Then with Mackenzie Mauzy, I had a few inside sources, but one particular source (who CONFIRMED on Tumblr that she was my source) said the reason the relationship between Sam and Mackenzie ended was because HE didn't want to get married and have kids yet, and she did.

As for Gia Marie, I talked to someone who DMed with one of her friends and her friend confirmed HE ended it. Gia thought they could have something longer term and he didn't want that.

The other casual ones he dated, like Danielle Kling, Georgia Ellenwood, if we can believe Monika Aksamit (she talked to some of these women and did a podcast about Sam), HE ended the relationships. I don't know about Christina Ochoa.

And Hannah James, that one, it does seem like SHE ended it, but who knows.

As for the most recent casual ones, Anna Modler, Monika Clarke, and Katrina Komitsch, signs point to HIM dating casually and moving on.

I haven't heard one story of the woman ending it and Sam being the brokenhearted one. That doesn't mean it hasn't happened, but the INFO I've gotten, doesn't support that. The INFO I've gotten from sources supports Sam being the one to break it off the MAJORITY of the time. That doesn't mean 100% of the time though.

I DO think eventually Sam will be in a committed relationship AGAIN..and for some reason, I don't know why, I have a good feeling about Karina Elle. But I could be totally wrong. 🤷‍♀️ Time will tell...

All I know is THIS 👇 man, his Scottish charm, and TMGD are hard to resist, and have been known to make grown women lose their dang minds...some for longer than others. 🙃

#samheughan #amyshiels #codykennedy #abbiesalt #mackenziemauzy #daniellekling #hannahjames #georgiaellenwood #annamodler #monicaaksamit #monikaclarke #katrinakomitsch #karinaellelisenbee #karinaelle #sources #source #christinaochoa #barbiewars #thebarbiewars #muaythai #thailand #giamarie #tmgd #scottishcharm

[bonheurjewelry]

🍂🍁 Fall Fashion via Sunday’s NYPost with @MonicaAksamit wearing our Erin #earrings in @CentralParkNYC 🍂🍁 #Style by 👑👑 @meemmap 👑👑 Article by ⭐️🌟 @Kirflem🌟⭐️ #ShopBonheur #BonheurJewelry #LoveBonheurNY — #MonicaAksamit #NYPost #Olympics2020 (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/B34cStfhfi9/?igshid=13e20ysz4nz6c

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[kevynm]

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[sports-vixens]

OMG Olympic and Pan American Medalist @monicaaksamit is breathtakingly beautiful!! ・・・ Back to work 🤺 https://www.instagram.com/p/B28EB0_APmK/?igshid=3hrt36ys1c8v

[faceonu]

OLYMPIC FRIDAY 💥💥✨ Shutting down 5th Ave with 2016 Fencing Bronze Medalist @monicaaksamit #MakeupByMe @facebysandradene using @faceatelier #complexion #HairByMe @brushedbysandradene using @chihaircare #hairproducts #blush #browgoals #Ilovemakeup #thatglow #highlight #Clean #skin #Freshface #clean #dewyskin #SkinIsAlwaysIn #nomakeupmakeup #beautyhighlight #faceoftheday #beautymakeup #olympian #FACEbySandradene 😎 (at Reebok CrossFit 5th Ave)

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So was KE a nothing burger? Now that we know he was working it just seems less likely she was there w him

She was definitely there with him, I know this for sure. 🤫 And as I've stated before, some of his past girlfriends HAVE visited him while he was working AND Mackenzie visited him on set.

The question is, is Karina still there? Heard from another source that her sister is having her bachelorette party in Mexico this weekend. So far, no sign of Karina there. I cannot imagine she would miss her sister's bachelorette party. So I expect I'll get pic or video or source proof that she's NOW there.

BUT, if not, then that means TMGD strikes again, as it has caused women to ditch their families on special events or holidays for time with one fine, Mr. Sam Heughan. But, c'mon just LOOK at him. 👇 Everyone who comes in contact with him IN PERSON, except bunny boiler Monika Aksamit, oh wait, that's right, she NEVER actually met him 🙄, says he's verra hard to resist...I said hard. 😉

Wait and see...

#samheughan #karinaellelisenbee #karinalisenbee #karinaelle #samrina #courtneylisenbee #bacheloretteparty #mexico #scotland #london #source #sources #mackenziemauzy #tmgd #monicaaksamit #bunnyboiler

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Finally home, as promised, here's the LATEST Monica Aksamit drama...

For those who don’t know, Monica is a 31 year old, 6 foot tall, American (of Polish descent) Olympic medalist in fencing, who mostly lives in New York. She and Sam Heughan used to mutually follow on social media, they flirted, DM’ed, and talked about getting together in person the next time Sam was in New York, but that didn’t happen. Instead of MOVING ON, Monica went on an all out campaign to PUBLICLY badmouth him. Sam's "toxic" behavior was that he "led on" Monica, kept promising to meet up, never did, then still kept contacting her after. Psst, Monica, come a little closer, let me whisper in your ear, “He’s just not that into you.” But Miss Thang’s Olympic size ego couldn’t deal with that and she proceeded to smear Sam in a MONETIZED $$$ podcast on Apple and Spotify, as well as other outlets. More on that later... Eventually it all died down and we all went back to forgetting about her...guess that was the problem. So, a few days ago, Monica decided to resurrect her beef against Sam 👇 Gee, what a coinky dink that she is trying to get attention again riiiiiight after she got eliminated as a contestant on the dating reality show “Joe Millionaire.” Hmm. 

Click on Keep Reading for the rest of the post. It’s a long one, so put up your feet, and grab a beverage...

And guess WHO befriended Monica and supported her bashing of Sam? None other than the biggest Outlander fandom Sam haters--Cant Resist Temptation and her Minions, who consist of Ex-Extreme SamCait Shippers, Shipper Sympathizers, and assorted fandom Mean Girls. The comments below belong to Monica aka mon mons right here on Tumblr. She left comments on CRT’s Tumblr blog and is commiserating with other Sam haters about their mutual guilty pleasure--hating on Sam. 👇 It says a lot about Monica's level of pettiness that she’s talking to FANS...I mean who does that? And on top of that, fans who clearly have a bias and an agenda. JS. But speaking of agenda...Monica knows all about it...$

And of course, the worst of the worst dedicated Sam haters, CRT, Bootsauce and Frenchy rabidly jump in to express their support of Monica. Just picture the DM’s going back and forth between Monica and that group. I can almost smell the putrid froth from here. 👇 They’re all acting as if this is some #metoo type of abusive situation when the REALITY is Sam’s “just not that into you,” and Monica was butthurt and decided to make a mountain out of a molehill. Let’s save the outrage for REAL victims of abuse. I hate when women play victim when they’re anything but--takes credibility away from real victims. I’m not a Sam mommy, I don’t think he walks on water, and I know he’s not a saint, BUT what happened between Sam and Monica did not warrant her vindictive actions. And worse, she used Sam to get her name out there, give herself more visibility, and make money. Thirsty doesn’t begin to cover it.  

But, let’s backtrack a bit and do a history lesson of how this all came to be. Like I said, a few years ago, Sam and Monica were mutually following on social media. If you do a search of Sam and Monica’s names on different social media platforms, you’ll see some interactions that were friendly and flirty. Tumblr limits screencaps to 10, so I’m not posting those, but they’re out there. At some point, Monica Tweeted that she needed help to have enough money to go to the Olympics (I can’t find that exact Tweet, so I’m assuming she deleted it). And Sam replied to her and retweeted her Tweet, thus giving her fundraising campaign FREE publicity, since his over 700,000 Twitter followers would see it. Monica got some hate from Extreme Shippers who don’t like it when Sam talks to pretty, sporty, young blondes, and she also interacted with some fans who showed her support. 👇 As you can see, her Go Fund Me campaign exceeded expectations, and in no small part to the boost Sam gave her by Retweeting on his account. 

Weeelll, as the saying goes “no good deed goes unpunished,” and things eventually went south between our two blonde giants. Sam and Monica continued to DM and flirt and made plans to get together whenever Sam was in New York next, but an in person date never came to fruition. Sam is VERY BUSY, so I’m not surprised, BUT, the reality is if a guy is into a woman he will MAKE THE TIME to see her. When Sam didn’t follow through on tentative plans, THAT should have been the signal to any woman who has dated human men, that, say it with me, “he’s just not that into you.” But, guess Mon Mon didn’t get the ages old dating memo.

Should Sam have been direct and told her he actually wasn’t interested? In an ideal world, yes. But, as we’ve seen, Sam is a people pleaser, doesn’t like anyone getting mad at him, and on top of that, he’s a HUGE flirt, who doles out his ubiquitous “let’s meet for a wee dram the next time I’m in town,” to any remotely attractive woman. I’m sure he figured when he didn’t actually SEE Monica IN PERSON, that she would get the message that it was a no go. But of course, that’s not what happened. Should Monica feel disappointed and upset that Sam made it seem like they were going to get together in person, continued to contact her, and then flaked? Of course, that’s an appropriate reaction. But once she figured out there was not going to be any Samonica, she should have put on her big girl panties and set her sights on someone who actually wanted to be with her. And realized what smart women with life experience know, when a man is into you, he will make the effort to SPEND TIME WITH YOU. Now you know.

What is NOT an appropriate reaction is what Monica ended up doing and continues to do. She went all over social media badmouthing Sam, acting like he was killing puppies FFS, AND created a podcast where she directly badmouths him and MADE MONEY OFF OF IT. 👇 And she’s STILL badmouthing him. SMH. 

In her podcast, she talks about all the men who have wronged her (Gee, who’s the common denominator here?) but it’s interesting that the ONLY one she has ever named is Sam, the one who is rich and famous and has tons of followers. Why hasn’t she mentioned the names of the other men? $$$ In the podcast, we find out exactly how over the top her reaction to what happened is. She admits that she used to “stalk” Sam’s whereabouts, she scoured the Internet to find out who else Sam had dated, going as far as reaching out to these women! (As an aside...2 of Sam’s exes she contacted blocked her). Well that sends a clear message on whose side they were on AND helps us gauge Monica’s level of crazy.

Eventually, after Monica gathered all her intel, she made the podcast where she PUBLICLY smears Sam’s name. Oh, and if Sam was such a terrible person and she didn’t want anything to do with him, how come she didn’t block him when she first made her podcast? (Now they’ve both mutually blocked) but as you can see below 👇 Sam “liked” one of her pics not long after all of this was happening. You can’t do that if you’re blocked. Also important to note, with few exceptions, ALL of Sam’s exes and ex flings still follow him on social media, including some of the women Monica talked to, like Georgia Ellenwood and Danielle Kling. If he’s such a "toxic" man, why haven’t THEY blocked him? 

Monica has a right to be pissed off all she wants that Sam made promises to see her and then didn’t, but to then launch a public witch hunt against him is so OVER THE TOP and not commensurate at all with what actually happened. They never even met in person! The same way a woman has a right to change her mind, doesn’t a man have the same right? Sam thought he wanted to go on a date with Monica and then he CHANGED HIS MIND. That’s not a crime. Or are some women under the impression that once he tells a woman "we should have a wee dram when I'm in town," he is OBLIGATED to go through with it? That sounds like forcing someone to do something they don't want to do just because there was a previous expectation. And that's NEVER acceptable for women or men. And given everything we now know about how Monica behaves, Sam had good instincts that she was a train wreck and he thankfully dodged a bullet. 

ALSO, she said Sam “threatened” her. It’s disconcerting that she used the word “threaten” to describe Sam and his legal team warning her that they would pursue legal action if she continued to malign him publicly. But if we’re going to use emotion-laden words, with viscerally aggressive connotations, let’s continue with “threaten.” SHE threatened him FIRST, she went after HIM. Um, she PUBLICLY smeared his name AKA his brand, of course he was going to defend himself. He had every right to have his legal team contact her letting her know that if she continued slandering him, they would report her to the Olympic Committee and Fencing Association for “conduct” violation. Read their rules of conduct and she violated them with her libelous words against another person. In addition, it would be understandable if Sam decided to have a cease and desist order sent if she continued to publicly slander him, since it could have an effect on his career. That's not Sam "threatening" her, that's Sam protecting his livelihood.

Here she is encouraging people to promote the podcast where she bashes Sam and inciting them to "blow it up ladies" IOW make it go viral AKA witch hunt against Sam. And notice the shout out to follow her on all her social media accounts and "support this podcast." $$$ 👇

Every woman Sam has actually been in a relationship with (not just hit on in DM’s) has nothing but nice things to say about him, and like I previously mentioned, the majority still follow him, that speaks volumes. Even, his ex Cody Kennedy’s mom, Jinx Kennedy, said “I don’t have anything bad to say about Sam, he was a gentleman,” and this was after Sam broke up with her daughter to go back to Abbie Salt! Again, that speaks volumes. Is Sam perfect? No. Can he be a douche? Of course. He’s a human male, they can all be douchy at some point from birth to death. But overall, he is a good guy, and the MAJORITY of people who know him attest to that. It’s sad that one bitter Betty, I mean miserable Monica took it so far, and for her own self-serving ulterior motives. $$$ I’m getting tired writing this...almost done. 

Here’s something that’s ironic. Monica criticized Sam for messaging her and then blowing her off, yet here she is rationalizing why it’s okay for HER TO DO THE SAME THING. Hypocrite, much?  👇

And for someone who claims to want to keep her private life private she sure DOES the OPPOSITE.  👇 Again, hypocrite, much? And she mentions she worries men will want to date her for the “clout.” Um, NO ONE knows who she is except Olympics fans...oh wait, NOW THEY DO, because she made sure of that by ranting and raving about Sam “ghosting” her, MAKING MONEY off her association with Sam, and most recently, going on the nationally televised reality show “Joe Millionaire.” Which ironically is about MULTIPLE women trying to win the heart of a MILLIONAIRE...gold digger, give me my 15 minutes of fame, much? Literally 15 minutes on the show and she was the first one voted off by BOTH men. She claims it’s because they both thought she was too tall...yeah, I guess it didn’t have anything to do with her off-putting personality and the ding ding ding bunny boiler alerts going off in both guys’ heads at all. Sure, Jan. 

Monica keeps Tweeting that she’s a “strong confident woman.” She can SAY that all she likes, but her ACTIONS have shown us quite the OPPOSITE. How she dealt with being rejected by Sam has solidified her reputation as a woman who is emotionally immature, petty, vindictive, bitter, stalkerish, fame-hungry, with a pinch of gold digger, and gives off red flags galore. Proceed with caution--if you piss her off, she’ll talk about you in her podcast and make money off you. Good luck finding any sane guy wanting to date this colossal HOT MESS now. Way to go, Mon! 👏

#samheughan #monicaaksamit #monica #bunnyboiler #joe millionaire #extremeshippers #exshippers #shippersympathizers #daniellekling #georgiaellenwood #codykennedy #jinxkennedy #abbiesalt #hesjustnotthatintoyou #meangirls #hideyourbunnies #hotmess #outlander #fandom

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Woke up to DMs alerting me to...

Monica Aksamit once again badmouthing Sam AND she even got herself a Tumblr account and is commenting on a certain Sam hater's blog. Quel surprise that Monica and the mean girl Sam haters found each other. NOT. Well Monica keeps saying she's telling the truth. But as we know, there's always more than one side to a story. And luckily, I know people who actually KNOW Sam. I'll be back later with a post on the latest thirst trap from Ms. "This is the last time I'll talk about this" AGAIN. But right now I'm dealing with the red screen of death on my work computer and need to call IT. Back when I can to post about this. Just wanted to let you know I'm aware if what's going on and yes, I have something to say about it...

#samheughan #monicaaksamit #thirsty #haters #meangirls

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Just got this in DM.

Remember when Olympic Fencer, Monica Aksamit, went all over social media and even did a podcast about how Sam "ghosted" her aka "he's just not into you?" She badmouthed Sam for weeks, all because he told her they should get together the next time he was in NY, and they never did.

Anyhoo...she seemed to really relish her 15 minutes of fame and milked the "Sam did me wrong" FALSE narrative.

Weellll, I got some heat for bashing her as a fake with ulterior motives aka fame and making money on her podcast badmouthing Sam, among others...and now it seems I was RIGHT.

She's now a cast member of the reality dating show Joe Millionaire. For those who don't know, here's the premise of the show 👇

And yep, here she is a cast member, it's now in her IG bio. 👇

And here she is in all her thirsty fame mongering glory 👇

Wanna take bets she alludes to Sam in her intro and how he did her wrong and it's made her jaded about love, but she's still willing to put herself out there?

Sorry to be so passionately against her but emotionally immature fame hungry women like her give ACTUAL victims of bad men a bad name. Sam didn't do anything to her other than tell her they should get together and then changed his mind. That's not a crime. And from the way she acted after, continued to act, and is acting now, it's clear he made the right decision and dodged a bunny boiling bullet with her.

I'm not changing my mind on my opinion of her, so don't even try.

Sam's not a saint, but he didn't deserve the way she PUBLICLY and repeatedly smeared his name. She should have put her big girl panties on, realized "he's just not that into you," and MOVED on.

Gee, do you think she's hoping the Joe she picks on the show is the millionaire or the pauper? You know my guess.

I hate it when women play victim when they're anything but. Takes so much credibility away from women who have actually been wronged.

Anyway, yes I have strong feelings about this if you haven't guessed by now.

#samheughan #monicaaksamit #joe millionaire #he's just not that into you #i said what i said

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Did you see how DM responded to the Q abt Sam and DB? She must not think very highly of Sam.

Anon is referring to this. 👇

Not surprising since Monica Aksamit went directly to Deuxmoi with the whole Sam drama that happened months ago and obviously they got HER side of the story only. All DeuxMoi has heard is biased negative crap about Sam...again, sent to them by Monika Aksamit. Enough said.

#samheughan #deuxmoi #monicaaksamit #drew barrymore

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LMAO. Monica was eliminated in the first episode .

OMG, that's hysterical. Karma. Maybe she should start to consider the problem is HER and not the men she dates. JS.

#samheughan #monicaaksamit #joe millionaire #he's just not that into you #karma #youretheproblem

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Do not forget, it is not only Anna Modler in NY, it is also Monica Aksamit, Amy Shiels......the one he went before Gia (forgot her name).

Um, Anon, we're focusing on women Sam is currently dating. Amy is just a friend now. And Monica Aksamit...well Sam is steering CLEAR of her after all the public badmouthing of him she did. There are LOTS of women in New York, we are ONLY talking about the ones he could have gone to New York to see romantically. Focus, please. 🧐

#samheughan #amyshiels #monicaaksamit #monikaclarke #annamodler #newyork

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FYI, it’s been documented pretty clearly that even when you delete a raya profile (Sam did) it’s still visible on the app.

Um, Anon, how do YOU know Sam isn't on Raya anymore? He only unfollowed their Instagram page when Monica Aksamit had her hissy fit, and pointed out publicly that he was on Raya. After that, is when he stopped following Raya on IG. But that doesn't mean he's off the app itself. Unless you're a celebrity yourself, or know a celeb that's on the app themselves, how do you know Sam isn't on there anymore?

For those who don't know, Raya is a dating app created for celebs to be able to date people in a more exclusive, members only environment. You have to pay a monthly or yearly fee and you have to submit an application that has to be approved. They don't just accept anybody like other dating apps do.

Soooo, Anon, come back with SOLID PROOF that Sam is off Raya, the ACTUAL APP, or I'll just chalk you up to being an Extreme Shipper who doesn't want Sam to be putting himself out there to *gasp* meet women to date.

#samheughan #raya #extremeshippers #monicaaksamit

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Hi P - What’s this about Olivia Caridi Bachelor fail...fame hound...SH follows her 🙄

Anon is referring to Olivia Caridi who was a contestant on The Bachelor a few seasons ago. 👇

Anon, the account following Olivia is a FAKE Sam account. This 👇 is a fake Sam Instagram account (I just reported it for impersonation BTW). As far as I can tell, REAL Sam is NOT following her.

The REAL Sam doesn't follow Olivia, but Olivia does follow the real Sam, as well as Monica Aksamit, so I can only surmise Olivia listened to Monica's podcast about Sam and decided to follow him.

Nothing to see here...

#samheughan #oliviacaridi #the bachelor #monicaaksamit

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🍂🍁 Fall Fashion via the @NYPost with @MonicaAksamit wearing our Erin #earrings in @CentralParkNYC 🍂🍁 #Style by 👑👑 @meemmap 👑👑 Article by ⭐️🌟 @Kirflem🌟⭐️ #ShopBonheur #BonheurJewelry #LoveBonheurNY — #MonicaAksamit #NYPost #Olympics2020 (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/B34afLwBQhL/?igshid=uhzozy4rmgd1

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🍂🍁 Fall Fashion via the @NYPost with @MonicaAksamit wearing our Erin #earrings in @CentralParkNYC 🍂🍁 #Style by 👑👑 @meemmap 👑👑 Article by ⭐️🌟 @Kirflem🌟⭐️ #ShopBonheur #BonheurJewelry #LoveBonheurNY — #MonicaAksamit #NYPost #Olympics2020 (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/B33Hl28h07V/?igshid=1a0hpfaosavfe

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