#r we dating rn

[rystiel]

wait hang on i knew jack & ianto would end up together but i didn’t realize it would happen so fast 😭 felt like all of their development happened off-screen in s1 i was lowkey expecting more like… relationship build up

#just started s2 #waiter where’s the longing glances and pining i ordered #tosh took all of the pining screentime for herself trying to get owen to take a hint 💀💀 #like not to complain. jack & ianto are cute i like them but i love when ships have more hints before they get together yknow 😭 #in s1 ianto was focused on his cybergirlfriend then when she died it was implied that he & jack spent some time together off screen #but ?!! #we don’t get to see that? 😭 #yknow what i mean ????? #torchwood #janto #sorry guys </3 #don’t mean to diss the best torchwood ship rn #likeeeee to be fair. #relationships do happen pretty fast in this show #BUT !!! #i don’t tend to care too much for them until i see more development and whatever #yknow #?? #i’d love to have a YES FINALLY !!!! moment when characters get together #💀💀💀 #jack asking ianto on a date and ianto being like …r u asking me out rn??? was a cute development moment tho i’ll give them that #and then we didn’t even get to see it happen </3

[oatbugs]

pls i need to provide updates

#basically yesterday night was chaharshanbe suri . which is a solar new yr tradition where we let go of the past suffering in our year #and like...start the new yr w fresh vigour . anyway so my friend was at the event and we were abt to leap over the fire #and she was like bro im im glad u blocked her (situationship) etc etc . and then. my phone started vibrating. and i look at it. and my f #friend looks at it. and its her. and were both like what the fuck?? i blocked her things r Over and anyway so i pick up the phone and shesl #acting like nothing happened (bc nothing DID happen for her) and she was like ohh ur doing chaharshanbe suri im not doing anything etc what #are ur new yr plans so i jusr .IDK WHY I DID THIS . but ig i didnt wanna come off as like lonely i said probably hanging out w family and #friends maybe reading poetry together . et cetera and she was like wait that sounds so fun why didnt u invite me! #LIKE WDYM YOUVE BEEN CONSISTENTLY MAKING IT CLEAR U DONT WANT TO BE IN MY PRESENCE . and i told her that after #everything i thought she didnt want to see me again and she was like you always think that 😐 . like. ?? ok anyway so she expects me to #invite her . and like. there is an above 0% but sub-5% chance she will actually show up . but the panic that gripped me #i started making calls to my friends asking them if they can come on the 23rd bc there must be an event and also i asked my mother #and she said actually yeah i am doing a thing on the 23rd :D it involves over 16 ppl (we live in a v small flat) of which like...7 are kids #so you wont have space to be in ur own room let alone invite others. which tbh like ...being around a bunch of loud kids doesnt seem fun fo #any of my friends or me etc so i thought maybe i should arrange things so that we all go out together and if she shows up she shows up 🤷‍♀️ #but . im so. WHY DID I SAY THAT . i had to panic-call my research partner and ask him to get from oxf to where i live on the 23rd #and when he heard the explanation he like. the light in his voice disappeared 💀 but he potentially agreed so idk #THE ISSUE IS. 23rd im supposed to also have . a date #w this girl that i had a huge crush on when i was 15-16 (posted abt this b4 but id get shitty black coffee in the mornings just to spend a #few more minuted w her each day and she was the cleverest girl in school and she cared abt nothing but her academics but now shes very gay #scraggly homosexual etc etc shes cute) and YEAH IDK #like id have to go there on the date come back fast meet ppl POTENTIALLY (again under 5%) meet situationship girl #like is that even doable #but the thing is it would be so so so funny bc all of my friends dislike her sooo much #.........what if i invited the girl im supposed to have a date w over to hang out w us #god that would be so hilarious and chaotic . i wont do it tho im a mature person x #but it would be soooo funny #I HAVE AN ASSIGNMENT DUE TMRW 12:30PM IT IS 10:49PM RN I HAVENT STARTED IT bc i was rotting sadly in bed #popped a ritalin pill tho so here we go x #i have found myself in a state of such sheer agony and rage and sorrow and grief over this girl that atp i feel like #its just so entertaining . like i feel vaguely over it? ik nothing will come of it so its like just . have fun . vibe

[nostalgic-muffins]

walks out of new york alleyway like a sopping wet cat and slides this to you hhey guys

#i couldnt NOT do it. tf kinda person do u take me for bro? #ok wait im gonna speedrun tags my phone is on the verge of death rn #TRANSPARENTS R FROM SILENTSTREETSERENITY #AND I MADE IT ON IBIS PAINT BC PICSART HATES MY ASS ALL OF A SUDDEN #obey me mammon #obey me leviathan #obey me swd #obey me! shall we date? #obey me! #obey me shall we date #obey me shitpost #THATS A TAG??? ok yeah sure fine ill use it #obey me #OK DONE #tjat literally felt like i was on like a gameshow w a time limit or smth #like those parkour ones on netflix #or like those baking ones #idk what im even saying rn

[haknom]

i have a confession to make

i Love Sunghoon

#☆ — k’s thoughts #we r acc on a date rn #then we r gonna go eat!!! #swimming was fun #< i cant swim

[silenthillbunni]

📓🕯️🐇🖤pt.2

#only 30 tags lol i ran out... so furthermore #we only get one life. im gonna try as much as i can to enjoy the little moments. nd to not give up on myself nd my life #i will die one day anyway. why rush it. i'll enjoy as many books and as many walks and songs and tv shows as possible #if i get a loan nd have more money i wanna bleach my hair nd dye my hair green #and later this year i think i might change my name #it was the name i wanted to change to from the beginning. but i was in such a bad headspace i just picked eden at random #i do kinda like it now nd im attached to it but i more feel like this other name actually is me. my birth name nd my current name dont feel #really right. so maybe. i havent decided yet. like i rlly dont know. im also attached to this name for some other reason. like it's who i am #to a person i rlly like and if i change... will i be anything to them? i cant put it into words but that makes me hesitate #but it's unhealthy to stay attached to someone i cant truly have even if i want to. so i mean. idk im just weird abt it #but i do kinda wanna change my name (to embla. my mom wanted to give me that name but my dad was like nooo >.<) i am not 100% sure tho so #when i've been getting used to going to school nd working out at the gym. nd after my surgery nd i have more energy #i will try to face my avpd and try apps for making friends. there r two apps where u can find new girl friends!! maybe i can try that #also like i've never tried apps but i think maaaaaybe i can use bumble to try to find friends and women to date. potentially. idk..... #rn it's hard for me to think in those terms bc. i mean i am hung up on someone!!!! i cant evwn imagine dating or being intimate w anyone els #sometimes i feel like.. they're the only person i've ever felt like it'd even be possible. who i'd event want to do that w #not only physically but emotionally. so ig it's even harder to let go bc im so scared i will never feel like that w anyone else #but i rlly need to try to make the most of whatever life i have. the world will collapse soon anyway #that makes me even more sad that i cant be w who i wanna be w nd do what i wanna do but #all pain will all be completely descimated eventually. it's not forever bc life isnt forever #i've just never felt this before. like i want smth to be real so bad but if it happened once surely it can happen again? right? #i wont spend my life alone without intimacy and love and comfort nd support nd understanding right???? :o hope not #im still so sad nd exhausted rn. nothing in my life is working nd theres no repreive nd no help #it gets sooo hard to endure everything sometimes when everything just keeps piling up and gets so heavy it feels like im drowning #nd atm i dont feel like i have any anchor. nothing that keeps me grounded nd im just floating away nd im constantly being overwhelmed by my #feelings nd emotions. im like a stupid little kid who dont understand how to handle what im feeling. or make rational decisions #i feel so ... stupid and useless. i dont know what im doing. i have no idea. i have no compass. its so scary

[mariproducer]

practicing some self care by logging off for most of the day on my social medias and i come back to find out that yes this show is still and will always be amatonormative (and heteronormative but we already knew that its fruitless to hope otherwise)

#r(en)bles #romance doesnt fix anything in fact romance adds a whole new slew of problems to your life that you and your partner deal with together #<- not saying this negatively ofc when i was dating someone we did just that but its this perception that being in a romantic relationship #is a happy little ending that you wont struggle that you can overlook ur fuckups its ok you love each other no? #dude that is a one way ticket to a dysfunctional relationship be fucking fr rn

[bimiio]

<3

#unfortunately it’s over w da ‘older woman’ i mentioned in my tags yesterday #she wants a monogamous relationship w me but hasn’t even asked me on a date🙄 #plus she’s 40 n i’m 20 like ofc i wanna explore my options still i’m not tryna settle down rn i’m srry😭 #it’s almost summer i’m abt 2 b outside!! like pls.. #kinda sad i was enjoying my little princess treatment sugar baby moment #but oh well🤷‍♀️ here we r #m1n3 #m1sc #st0ryt1m3

[cloistergardens]

if I had a nickel for the number of youtubers I watch(ed) who cheated on their wives, flirted with fans, got kicked out of their company, ruined their relationship with their wife and two kids, and undermined fans’ belief in their status as men who genuinely loved and valued their wives and family, I’d have two nickels which doesn’t seem like a lot but it’s weird that it happened twice (in under two years!)

#the muse emerges #Ned fulmer #Ryan Haywood #the try guys #obviously ned hasn’t been outed as r****g fans yet so it’s not as bad as rh #but sleeping with your employee and taking her publicly out on dates is really some next level shit #also I know I’m not the first person to post in this format but the similarities are fucking eerie #also also not putting this in the ah tag bc we don’t need that kind of negativity in there rn we’re all talking about it already anyway <3 #and let’s not forget John mulaney is in a very similar category lol it’s just ned and rh are too similar for me not to comment tbh

[stinkrascal]

i swear to god bg3 wants me to become a mind flayer so bad bc i had to reload my save twice last night bc i got turned into a mind flayer mid battle and the whole game ended at one point, and then when i realized why that happened and fixed it, i was turned into a half illithid and had to reload my save again bc i dont wanna be one! like baldurs gate wtf let me live 😭

#bg3 spoilers #also THE EMPORER #i love him hes my husband now #apparently he’s romanceable… you know im gonna smooch that mind flayer #not this playthrough but eventually #im still trying for halsin 😁☝🏻 astarion is my situationship rn but he annoys me #hes so flippant like sir i need u to dedicate ur heart and soul to our love not struggle to use the term ‘girlfriend’ u rat #i hate when ppl are romantically unattached that is NOT me so astarion i hate you. be romantic why don’t you #actually it’s funny bc he’s the guy my pc is romancing rn but he also has the lowest approval of all her main companions lmao #shadowheart and gale would DIE for my pc right now. and halsin likes her a lot too! astarion is just like well she’s ok ig 🤷🏼 WE R DATING? #sorry i had 2 get this out. i stayed up til 5 am playing bg3 this game has taken over my life #FINALLY im at baldurs gate!!!

[luvbug724]

guys we should think about jean and renee sending each other photos of them dressed up for their banquets :)

#jeanee #while we are here……….. imagine a world where renee brings jean as her date to a banquet and all the foxes r like r u fucking kidding me rn #(in a world where the ravens r not at that banquet bc i can’t imagine renee asking him to come there if they are) #jean: jeremy i must catch my flight. i need to go to the southeastern fall banquet.

[ladyofthenoodle]

au where everything is the same except ladybug doesn’t learn chat noir is really in love with her in glaciator 2 and every subsequent scene she’s still thinking he’s just being flirty

#imagine chat blanc #chat blanc: OUR LOVE DID THIS TO THE WORLD!! #ladybug: hold on wait did you say love. just. [dodges cataclysm blast] r u for real rn?? #oblivio #ladybug: alya delete that picture #we are NOT dating. chat noir isn’t into me and i’m in love with a—someone else!!! #alya: [to chat noir] are you going to tell her or should i #chat noir: ha ha ha ladybug and i are just good buddies yes #miraculous ladybug #noodling

[sapphic-saionji]

I need pizza right now wehhh

#we r getting some for vday (gf and I are getting pizza and watching a movie for a lil date that weekend) #but I want a big greasy pepperoni stuffed crust pizza in my mouth rn #/personal

[girlwithfish]

maybe ill know if someones the one if tjey listen to the songs i say i like 🙄

#well there was one guy who listened to all of beach music he said he listened to it while he was at the gym. thats nice but he is giving me #platonic vibes we just talk like friends rn no flirting at all im not sure if im goin on a Date w him next weekend or if were just hanging #out LOL #i mean ig its a date but it doesnt rly feel like one. or maybe im jsut really bad at gauging other ppls intentions and social cues but #it is trew he is giving platonic energy like 0 flirting or showing romantic interest but i get some ppl r more #reserved w that and take stuff slower lolol

[opens-up-4-nobody]

...

#ay ay ay. now that the soul crushing project is done ive elected to spend the week managing data #which is decidedly more chill than what ive been doing for the last month but also isnt not doing anything and it isnt getting stuff done #for when i have to move. so thats annoying. and ive been drawing again at least but i can feel the escalation in my controlling behavior #so its now very frustrating trying to draw anything. coloring is gonna take a million years rip. #also suddenly everyone wants to b social rn? like tomorrow my boss is organizing a thing with an old lab mate and this weekend a #collaborator is having a retirement party. and next week my lab mates wanna do a trivia night. and i kno that i should go to these things. #and i will try but i really dont want to go to any of it. mostly for driving reasons but also im a husk of a person rn. but the more #devastating thing is that uh next week one of the kids i grew up with is getting married to a rich girl lol. and like we werent that close #bc i was and am such an asocial freak but after the wedding my parents r picking up their new camper and camping their way across the #country with my sisters. and im sure someone probably told me the dates of these things at some point but if u tell me dates i will #instantly forget them. so thats. ya kno. happening over basically the next 2 weeks while i have to kill myself over measurements for a #different study i dont care abt. and like. its fine. ill see them mid may for a different planned trip. it just makes me kinda sad #a product of living halfway across the country i guess. im just inherently more disconnected to everyone. i would suspect thsts semi #intentional subconsciously. u cant b upset abt not being able to connect with ppl if you create enough physical distance that u never see #them in the 1st place. u cant misunderstand me if i make myself absent and unknowable. idk. i was explaining to my mum that i didnt realize #the timeline and she was like. understandable whatever u wanna do! and idk y that upsets me so much. i guess its just that i dont want to b #doing this. its causing me pain but dont kno how to articulate it in a way that makes sense. whatever. my mouth hurts. my lips r so chapped #that the irritation is spread past my lip line. probably doesnt help thst i keep rubbing at it lol. anyway things r still annoying #less soul crushing thsn last week but still frustrating #unrelated

[8-bitbrainrot]

i present: the only proof ive existed the past 2 weeks

we're just like super hot and cool you wouldn't get it i think

here's one without the background, mindblowing

#were so queerbait best friends coded #im queerbaiting u rn #ooooooooo get queerbaited #but also we r dating #jkjk #unless? #lol #8-bitsart #personal art #sona art #? #bug art #i hate queers not really #i didnt want that tag to reach ppl who acrually hate queers #so i added the 'not really' #would be a little funny tho

[hella1975]

everytime i experience a symptom of Daddy Issues i immediately tamp down on it like we’re better than this babe caught myself looking at an older guy thinking ‘but he’s so mature 😫’ DOWN GIRL

#this is about my colleague I’m in love with him #NO IM NOT bad joke BAD joke I do not want to put that thought in my head #he’s 27 and asks me actual real questions #we started talking about romance also #he was saying how he’s not a fan of dating apps and wants a more organic love #and I was like ohhhh same r we flirting rn #and I felt myself starting to justify getting with someone 8 years older than me #and immediately was like HOLD ON #this is soooo stereotypical like girl where is ur dad #checking the list for absent father syndrome rn #cut that shit #will not get with the hot colleague purely bc it would be cringe to do so #I will not perpetuate the stereotype #stay strong girls #hella slaves to capitalism