What’s your favorite aspect of feedism? If you don’t mind…
there is nothing more primal or carnal to me than appetite.
appetite is desire. it is need and want, powerful craving. eating is sensual; it is rooted in the body; it is a sensory feast.
what greater expression of care is there than to provide something that is both essential and a source of pleasure? to be a provider of abundance, to indulge the appetite, to say, "you can have whatever you want, as much as you want. I will give it to you."
it is the wanting that I love. wanting beyond the limits. you're full, and you still want more? it hurts and you still want more? (bonus: you know that I want you to have more and you're willing to do that for me?) and you trust me enough to be vulnerable and admit that, when the world so often tells us to be ashamed of wanting, especially when it comes to food?
we gather over meals because we understand, intuitively, that to break bread with someone is to form a connection and share intimacy. that intimacy is exponentially greater when feeding someone.
maybe this all seems overly philosophical or spiritual, but...it is that for me. I mean, I definitely have a belly kink, and I get very flustered when people eat till it hurts, but all this also plays right into my personal philosophies about care and a kind of non-sexual sensuality that my ace brain is completely infatuated with.
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oh Milly, you care too much.
i just wanna hug her and hold her cause ho boi does she hold up everyone all on her own usually, she loves too much, she cares so much, i wish to be a fraction of her in regards of emotional strength, you have to understand she cares she-
anyway i cannot say it enough - go and read this wonderful work and send love to the author @noaafishfieldguide
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Something about characters in the bath, especially one in the bath and the other sitting besides it, that is just so...
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monica is the best character in friends im not taking opinions or questions
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In case anyone's wondering what I'm up to since finishing House MD, the answer is playing "The C-Word" in my head non-stop
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i feel like a lot of the 'i hate kids' crowd would be more tolerant if they understood that due to a kid's limited experience of the world that 4 hour flight might just be the longest they've ever had to sit still for or that trapped finger might literally be the most pain they've ever felt in their short life or they might not have ever seen a person with pink hair ever so of course they want to touch it or nobody's told them yet that they can't run around the museum and they only just learned cheetahs are the fastest animals so of course they want to put that to the test. how were they supposed to know etc etc.
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we're having sex and you pull out at the end to discover your cock is entirely gone, dissolved (ive digested it like a pitcher plant). bye!
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really love dynamics that are like 'it honestly doesn't matter if you view them as romantic or platonic, the point is that they love each other. the type of love is inconsequential, all that matters is that it's there'. gotta be one of my favorite genders.
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annie lennox calling for a ceasefire during the grammys but being completely overshadowed by taylor swift announcing the release of some new songs is like an onion headline except it actually happened
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I know this is a tiny part of the wider problems born of diet culture, fatphobia, classism, and racism but like god the idea that "healthy" food must inherently taste bad has completely ruined us as a society.
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