#we just want to exist in peace

[transmascissues]

gay trans men: isn’t it fucked up that so many cis gay men proudly talk about how disgusting they think our bodies are, get violent when they realize they were attracted to one of us, push us out of community spaces because they don’t think we belong there, invalidate the orientation of the cis gay men who enter into relationships with us, accuse us of raping the cis gay men we’ve had sex with, aggressively misgender us and make assumptions about our bodies, act like their personal lack of desire to be with us means we must be fundamentally unattractive and morally reprehensible, and generally treat our existence like a personal attack worthy of a violent response when all we’re trying to do is exist?

those cis gay men & their friends: oh my god, you’re literally trying to force your disgusting female pussy onto gay men! this is conversion therapy! you’re a predator and a rapist and you deserve to die!

gay trans men: …we literally do not care if you have sex with us. nobody said anything about that. a lot of us are t4t, asexual, and/or already in a relationship, and the rest of also don’t want to have sex with you that badly because we would much rather be fucking someone who actually likes us; this has never been about who we personally want to sleep with. we’d just really appreciate it if you could treat us like human beings and not actively try to make the gay community hostile toward our existence. you don’t have to be attracted to us, just don’t be awful to us? and maybe, once you have that part down, ask yourself why you were so quick to assume a subset of queer people are all violent predators?

those people: HOMOPHOBES! EVIL GROSS FETISHIZING RAPIST HOMOPHOBES!

#it really is like talking to a brick wall. an aggressively bigoted brick wall #i promise none of you are such spectacular lovers that we’re going to those lengths to fuck you #the more mad we make you the more likely it is that none of us would touch you with a ten foot pole #like. ​me and my five year committed gay relationship do not want to fuck you #and even if it ended tomorrow. i still would not want to fuck you personally #bc i 1) am primarily t4t. 2) have fucking standards. and 3) have no interest in fucking people who don’t want to fuck me #this was never about wanting to get in bed with you #we just want to exist in peace #transandrophobia #transandromisia #transmisandry #virilmisia #virilphobia #anti transmasculinity #transmascphobia #trans men #transmascs

[sitephi]

The loss of that CHILD just breaks my heart i was trying to keep it together but i saw that their cat had the same name as my first cat and just lost it. They were sixteen years old. They were a kid like we all were. i cant imagine the pain and fear theyve felt. God it hurts so much

#we just want to exist in peace

[tapakah0]

You know

We had the canon story with where they could at least save another timeline

You did a story where they managed to have their happy ending

And now, I suspect

It's time for the complete failure?

Nope, I've mentioned before that it will be good for one person, don't worry

#reverse canon #Still canon but in other way #just different #Can I also mention that we have a saved past universe in the happy future canon #And one canon that is still up to happen and looks like this one will not be very happy too #There are plenty of canons that I don't know about and I'm pretty sure something like what I do might exist somewhere and I don't know abou #it *giggle* #So yes #At least my mind will be in peace when I do the ending that I wanted to do from the very beginning #It might be a bit of surprise #At least I was surprised by myself ans wasn't sure if I can even really put it in the story #I hope no one will mind me about it mehh #*running away*

[ichthyorelationships]

an idea i invite anyone else to write about / run with lol....

the premise that The Change gets all messed up for alberto, say it's something that can happen from stress, &/or happens rarely and you just have to wait for it to resolve itself....used as some parallel to struggling through some emotional turbulence / upheaval / questioning / Realizing Things, etc etc

#luca 2021 #pixar luca #alberto scorfano #another idea i've failed to write for & so invite anyone else to run with: ciao alberto but what if he peaces out by swimming off lol #ends up in a coastal town maybe an hour's swim from genoa. but not Getting In Touch w/anyone for a while b/c plausibly he thinks that #giulia may not be a fan of him now by extension; just being too embarrassed asf to reach out to luca kinda lol....luca off doing his own #thing just fine & alberto not wanting to write him now like b/c i Ruined Everything again ahaha.... #and by ''not in touch w/anyone for a while'' who knows. months; a few years even....might stumble across news of him b/c like. #say more sea folk are coming to land / more humans know abt them & not many places are as [harpoon]ly from the start anyways #portorosso exceptional in that way....maybe where alberto settles down they're like legendary but also considered Good Luck anyways lol. #anyways like some people know of him who might; say; swim down to portorosso. have their own teen who knows a teen who mostly lives on land #most convenient re sparking [wow could they mean Our alberto] if he doesn't go so far as to take up an alias lol. but why would he.... #that difference in that massimo might figure that however alberto was surviving before; he could continue to do so now; but even though tha #is some comfort it's still Not Actually Enough....feeling way more Parentally towards alberto than his biological dad like that; obv #and anyways re: this [The Change gets messed up] idea it's more of an inconvenience lol but one that could still have some significance #like if he first finds out the issue exists via hopping right into the ocean; failing to change forms; never being human form'd in water b4 #thee worst....crash intro course to the experience of drowning. observation of How Humans Swim / being able to grab any part of the boat... #and besides That unpleasantness it's like; hey. where's my nonhuman form at #or; of course; being in sea form even while dry....especially if he's still dealing with Nonsense on land. which is presumed. #&/or if there's an upswing in nonsense b/c of Other ways you're Othered...ofc we can consider like; tfw you're a gay fish & maybe that's no #something that on its own would be like Aah until it's like well a) i kinda wanna do things that would make this Visible and b) i've learne #that humans also Have Issues about this kind of thing.... #appropriately my tablet was also all thrown off. no pressure sensitivity; input sensitivity overall was rough #but i would've had to restart my laptop about it lol like eh i'll just work around it

[liquidstar]

the goddamn show came out

#no actual hate tbf i dont think its BAD but. very annoying on a personal level if youre greek sorry 💀 #i think the past couple weeks have been horrible for a lot of reasons and i do not have the energy to like #be reminded of dull takes on our mythos every 3 seconds esp when they hardly even acknowledge greece exists its just fandom blorbo shit #its annoyingggg its annoying i dont wanna see it i want it Gone #i actually think pj itself is a pretty middling example of this though. again its not bad esp compared to like booktok shit #a lot of it is often the /fandom/ but even still i find it annoying #at the very least the show does have jason mantzoukas which is more than the books did w like. acknowledging greece lol #to be clear tho i dont think all the characters have to be greek or played by greek ppl i think its cool to have a diverse cast play gods #and their kids and whatnot. its mostly just abt like somekinda nod to where youre taking it from i guess? acknowledging the culture #that still exists! in the books they go to fucking italy ffs whats the deal #basically i have complaints and find it annoying bc it doesnt care about greece like most things about.... greek mythos #so im not excited to see it all over my dash i just think its very annoying personally sorry #ppl can still like it and have fun with it idc abt that but doesnt mean i have to like it either 🤷‍♂️ #ergo. blacklist my best friend do your thing and get it away from me. and we will all be at peace again

[quetzalqueen]

The insatiable urge to retreat within a forest and just lay down on the ground in the dirt and moss and leaf litter 😔

#we as humans need nature #we need peace #we need compassion #and I'm feeling a glaring lack in my life #just want to live in tune with nature fr #I want to go to the park today but I CAN'T gahhhhh #making me mad #nature is one of the only things making me feel okay about existing rn #life is suffering #as it always is

[butwhypants]

Israel is absolutely not a settler colonial state what the fuck. I have no idea where that started, there are like a million different criticisms at the current government you can make but it is not a colony? What the fuck?

Like, if you want to call the current Israeli government far-right, you can do that. If you want to call them a theocratic police state, you can do that. Those are all genuine criticisms that can be responded to, and used to shape a better world for both Israeli's and Palestinians. You don't need to make up some hogwash about Benjamin Netanyahu being a fake Jew or an evil convert to justify criticizing his current government! Fucking Goyim! Just say you don't like the police state! It's fine!

#I know it's not the most important part of the current crisis #but it's the most infuriating to me #a bunch of american goyim who've never interacted with any world issue outside of their own country thinks that oppressor = colonist #when Israel as a state predates not only America but England and literally every single modern European state as well #I also feel obligated to point out that every single criticism that the American left is throwing at Israel is also true of America #but the antisemitism really wants to make everyone here believe that we only exist as a subset of white european christians #There is no peaceful solution that ends with the Jews just leaving Israel. Not now and not ever again #Israel is as legitimate a state as any in the world #jumblr #politics #I ramble

[asickandtirednobody]

As we gather around as Jews, we are taught this:

As the Jews finished crossing the parted sea, the angels wanted to start to sing about (Praise) the water collapsing on Pharohs soldiers.

G-D was enraged by the angels. As even Pharohs people were also G-Ds children.

My grandmother taught me that G-D loves all of his children, and we are all seen as human. We make mistakes, we fight, we argue, but being human is to err. It is not us as humans to judge another human.

Every time I was a child, I would fight with a cousin, and my grandmother reminded us of this. We were going to be related, so we might as well get along and get it over sooner than later.

#jew #jumblr #Pseach #passover #all of us are equal #we all have good and we all have bad #if only everyone thought it was okay for someone else to just exist #haggadah #passover seder #i think about this a lot #chag pesach sameach #i want peace #Talmud teachings passover #ashkanaz jew #jewish aboriginal #added personal story

[maledistributionsystem]

thank u for posting transhet stuff, sometimes i fall down the "all men are a danger to themselves and others" rabbit hole so to speak and it makes me feel hopeless so seeing stuff of girls loving us being men and wanting us to be men is very helpful anyways your stuff rules no matter what :) have a great day bro

Thank you for contacting the Male Distribution System Bark Line. Remember: Self-made men are loved and adored. All of them. Your message is in the queue...

Hey you're absolutely welcome! I know what you mean too, there's this very loud and proud "i hate all men because theyre evil and they suck!!" mentality that has (in my opinion) a rather large presence in queer spaces and it makes existing in them as a trans man really, really exhausting. Especially when some people decide its okay to say these things to your face, as if you aren't a man. Especially when it comes from white people, since they tend not to recognize how they look saying that kind of thing to men of color.

But hey, i have a wife and she's like the coolest/strongest/lovliest person i know, and is my best friend. I promise there are literally millions of girls who love trans men and don't think we're becoming evil/violent/dangerous, and who also don't think we're hurting ourselves/making ourselves uglier.

I also know a handful of other men who have wives/fiances/girlfriends, and I wont lie and say that it was easy for them, especially since they tended to go for cishet women, but they're in long happy relationships nowadays. You can do it too. I promise dude :)

You take it easy and have a great day!

#MDS Bark Line #i'm gonna use the tags to continue a line of thought i had but didn't feel necessary to respond directly to nonny with #it really truly fucking sucks that it feels like as a trans man i have this very noticable very palpable 'decision' to make between #being seen as a man-full stop-but also being shunned from your community if you just look like some random dude bc you wanna be stealth #or accept proximity to womanhood/femininity to be given a sort of 'pass' from being assumed to be dangerous #it hurts my heart to talk to other binary trans men. you wanna know why they dont exist very much? #its because we get pushed out of spaces we technically belong in because we DONT want to be overtly readable as queer #and men get fucking tired of that and decide to make peace with cis bi/gay spaces or they decide to just not have any community connection #and thats. really fucking sad. #it shouldnt be so fucking hard to find other binary trans men who are deep in their transition. but it is. #and i feel like it really really shouldnt be. #It would really help if queer spaces would uhhhh stop demonizing men and our masculinity. :/.

[soldier-poet-king]

I also read and crafted and got a lil wine drunk at a party for my aunt's bday + end of her chemo treatments and it's like??? Maybe sometimes things are good and I can spend a few hours without wanting to murder my family and without them saying something egregiously offensive or hurtful and it can be a decent conclusion to a weirdly emotional but kinda healing week?? Or at least. Peaceful? Tentatively????

#franposting #anyway idk what im saying and i still have sunday scaries bc mass tmrw #and maybe those dont ever go away #but weirdly despite everything this week was . ok? #the weird meltdown spiral on wednesday was like. oh. maybe im even slightly more at peace with it all now #art and stories and the divine and why we exist and its beautiful and wonderful and terrible #and YES im a lil drunk. but i meant it all the days previous this week too when i was sober #so im just. idk what im saying. but i know i mean it and i mean it with love #now if my hormones would just get in line Everything would be fine #once again. uterus to a good home. dont want this. can it get on schedule PLEASE #why is it always the megavirgins missing months and worrying about being the next Mary #THATS NOT HOW IT WORKS #but anyway. even despite the PMDD. im well??? im well. im well.

[perenlop]

i remember when people were saying mewtwos inclusion in the genesect movie felt random and pandering to the gen 1 crowd that was uncommitted bc this wasnt even movie 1 mewtwo, and i dont think anyone says that now but wow i think they were wayyyy off the mark there lol. mewtwos the perfect choice for them that couldve existed at the time and she made for perfectly good xy teasing too

#i remember the mewthree ppl freaking out when we first saw that form and didnt know what mega evolution was #but yeah mewtwo being someone who was forced into existence and had a terrifying beginning to her life and despised humans #and was initially so much more hostile but has come to accept her place in the world and made peace with other pokemon #while the genesect as basically in the same position she was- and even worse bc theyre revived fossils #they died- were brought back to life- and now theyre in new bodies made for destruction #and one of them is a CHILD one of them is a baby that doesn’t understand whats happening and just wants to go home but they cant go home #bc its all gone. they should be gone. they shouldnt be here none of them should #mewtwo is a GREAT character to use for them to help them through that #bc shes grown past what happened- even if shes still got her trauma and distrust to work through #and she can help them see the beauty in and make the most of what they have now #fuck dude this movie is so underrated #echoed voice

[rideroftheoctocorn]

Maybe this is my “I’m from New York so I didn’t choose to live here I was just already here” kicking in but can we actually learn to respect people’s privacy and acknowledge the fact that not everyone who lives in a major city is doing so because they want to be famous or the main character or an influencer or whatnot. I’m so sick of seeing tiktoks go viral that are just plainly stalking or doxxing random people who didn’t ask for attention or fame and are just living their lives. Especially given how many people in NYC are living with a wide variety of mental states, abilities, divergencies, and diversities treating them as a spectacle for your entertainment is deeply dehumanizing. Particularly in the past few years seeing so many content creators move here and gain their fame here it is becoming increasingly frustrating to feel like just existing in my home is not coherent with the burgeoning voyeurism culture that’s growing online. I, nor anyone who lives in a large city, should have to leave their homes every day worrying about the potential of being recorded and ridiculed online for just being a person.

People should be able to live their lives with the right to privacy. This isn’t to say that certain instances of internet activism shouldn’t have happened; for instance the Central Park bird watching incident (google it if you aren’t familiar but a woman was being racist towards a black man bird watching in central Park and his recording on the incident vindicated him). But instances like those are the exception and not the rule and many cases of publishing interpersonal conflicts/interactions is not from good faith activism or even from an activist point at all. Honestly what sparked this for me was that dumb tiktok that blew up of that girl looking for the person who kept writing “monke” on the whiteboard at her gym and the series of videos she made amassed more than 25 million views as she made a very public game out of trying to find the identity of this person. Some of her tactics included staking out at the gym waiting for this person or even asking the employees at the front desk who the person was. Maybe this person didn’t want to be a viral tiktok sensation and just wanted to write something goofy on the whiteboard at their local gym. Instead, this person has millions of strangers online seeking them out using unethical/invasive methods. All over someone who just wanted to write “monke.” Can we not just be a little silly in public without being at risk of it being the next internet sensation? If you live in a busy metropolitan area is it now your responsibility to make yourself as invisible as you can every time you step outside your front door? I genuinely leave for work each day wondering if I’ve maybe picked the wrong outfit, makeup, or maybe there’s an embarrassing stain or issue with my appearance that someone is going to see, record, and share online. I’ve even now seen TikTok’s of people recording through peoples windows commenting on how they’re living in their private lives now as well (the video in question is of a young woman recording a couple dancing through their apartment window). Even the guy who goes around “turning average people into models” initiates these videos by first taking non-consented photos of strangers on the street. Invasion is not flattery as much as people on the internet might like to think it is.

It is deeply unfair to ask human beings to live their lives in an unending panopticon. We should be able to go outside, make a joke, leave a silly note, have a bad day, an embarrassing moment, an emotional outburst, leave the curtains open with the knowledge that these moments belong to ourselves and are not suddenly (and without our consent) just become something for the masses to consume. Small spats that should remain small spats become global debates, a conventionally attractive or unattractive person becomes the internet’s object of desire or disgust. Let people exist. Let them have their dignity.

#I FUCKING HATE TIKTOK CULTURE #This is also hitting a bit close to home for me but I work at a museum and I constantly dress to hide my identity #because of how many cameras are pointed at me all day everyday #and in the year of two thousand and twenty three it’s pretty hard to be a person #so to ask people to be media ready all the time is just impractical and inhumane #we aren’t all public figures but we are now expected to be ready for that level of attention #even certain internet phenomena that came from a good faith place such as recording Karen’s as a way to combat a certain kind of a racism #was co opted by non black people to publicly shame and embarrass any older white woman they don’t like #now the entire concept of a Karen has lost its original meaning while still existing as an open threat to older women who don’t behave #as expected in public #and yes I have seen white teenage boys yelling at women calling them Karen’s for just asking them to stop being rowdy #which is anecdotal evidence so take with a grain of salt #but I am simply EXHAUSTED #apparently I need to live in the mountains if I want to live in peace #also I wrote this in like a 5 minute rage so feel free to DM me or comment if I got something wrong

[orcelito]

My druid has "fuckboy" written all over her

#speculation nation #shes a druid but she does Not look it. nor does she act like it really. #druid stuff exists to beef myself up as a front liner (spores druid ftw) #and to act as an excuse like 'whaaaat why r u so suspicious of me im a druid 🥺🥺🥺 i just want what's best for nature 🥺🥺🥺' #meanwhile here i am hogging ALL the worms we manage to find (or. well. most of them.) #bc im going full ham into my powers lol theyre so useful #this is a game of pressing Every button and seeing what happens. yet still going along the lines of good? approximately? #it very much does feel like the kind of thing a druid drow would do. willing to consort with the darkness #but still ultimately striving for peace and order. #i am just perhaps a little bug-brained to accomplish this :3 #ive been playing a Lot of bg3. progressing well through act 2. everything is so very scary and i am just 1 druid 🥺 #(i say as if i havent killed literally every single enemy ive come across. im so fucking good at this game.) #the house of healing was by far my least favorite part (so far). that boss battle was TERRIBLE but i managed to get through it. #according to my friends they just talked their way out of it. not me tho. i saw that guy strapped to the table and i was just like #'GET FUCKED BRO' *casts moonbeam* *proceeds to get the shit stabbed outta me* #holy shit he did so much damage. and he was focused ONLY ON ME....... #took me and shadowheart both healing to keep up with the damage he was doing (while astarion and karlach did most of the attacking) #but i did it! hes gone! but holy shit poking around his stuff has been so. eugh. #im in the towers now. so scary. just barely started them tho. gonna look for the prisoners and then proceed from there. #that ketheric dude is fucking terrifying. so big scared about him. but All Men Die The Same 😈 #.....well maybe not exactly the same given his 'immortality' thing 😂 but i'll figure it out. #anyways yea check out taltana im going for a mixed feminine and masculine kinda vibes with her. and enjoying it very much. #bg3 spoilers/

[silenthillbunni]

maybe if we lived in a society that valued individual needs and nurtured and cared for ppl who are different i wouldnt "wish" death upon ppl ._.

#my proposal is: #communities specifically made for noise sensitive ppl #like apartment building made w materials that isolate noise #and where for example on some floors kids arent allowed to live. some floors arent allowed to take in dogs etc etc #no loud music is allowed to be played #and outside of the buildings loud noise isnt allowed such as no playgrounds or dog parks etc etc #and this housing area could be fenced so it's rlly just the ppl who have chosen to live there that can be there #then ONLY ppl who wanted peace and quiet could live here and have a safe haven in the world #if u choose to live there then u will want and choose to respect the rules and be mindful abt others and be quiet #and if u want a 'normal' living situation u choose to NOT live there #if things like this existed i'd be so fkn happy #we all should be able to CHOOSE how we want to live #there are other groups of ppl who want to live in other ways and they should also be able to choose #there r many of us who are different but we are still a minority #and we are forced to live in a wild messy jungle that we arent naturals in. we survive not thrive #we are forced to be in mental agaony every day bc we dont fit into society's regulations and boxes #no one should live like that. society should be built for ALL of us and all out different special needs #but the thing is that ok even if society doesnt care and give us it for free or without fight #ppl actively work to HINDER and prohibit ppl to create new ways of living #when ppl try to make new exclusive spaces that fit their own needs #here comes a sudden influx of normal ppl being angry and upset that theyre excluded from smth #if i tried to suggest building these communities and even succeeded in gathering support for it #ppl in the state and normal ppl in society would be AGAINST me #theyd be angry that i wanted to create a space that excluded them #why cant i live there??????? I ME ME ME ME who is normal is all that matters #everything should aaaaaalways be made for normal people #if any other of us who wants to make their own space dares to even suggest it normies get mad #hell if ppl w wheelchairs wanted to create a walled community where only they were allowed i'd be supporting them #bc i think every single one of us deserves to live in a safe space that calms us #and it isnt your right to encroach on someone else's safe space. everyone are entitled to safe spaces no matter who that excludes

[honeybabymp3]

1989 (Taylor’s Version) will be Taylor Swift’s first album without a feature since 1989 (2014). real legends never die!!!!

lkfjksd good for her !!! i don't actually hate features honestly i just find it hard to get excited for them and like with pretty much anything the fandom fixation is exhausting + their ideas are bad + i fear some day they might manifest something evil

#Anonymous #like you know geniuses are my favorite boy but WHO wants boygen on NINETEEN EIGHTY NINE ? are we listening to the same music ? #i'll be down for like. peace (the julien remix) but 1989 ???? #i'd love for her to have a collab that feels like a collab. like an interesting match of her style with someone else's #pretty much like the whole folkmore endeavor and following aaron collabs #but the artists fandom usually suggests are like.. idk current pop artists i don't really listen to or can't imagine smth interesting w/ #which is not to say these potential collabs couldn't be interesting or fun or innovative #also it's very silly of me to get mad at fandom for doing what fandom exists for doing #i just um. ✋🏼 not for me thank you

[milkpansa-archive]

j-hope - more 

happiest of birthdays to you darling @ipromisedthesunset ♡

#bts #bangtan #jung hoseok #jhope #hobi #ftd: be #shelby ☀️ #zzarchive #tosnimeat #cianshine i know you like bangtan so i hope you dont mind the tag! #anyways. shelby darling hi!!!! #happiest of birthdays to you love!! i just realized idk your timezone but it's 4am for me rn so i hope that counts as on time adajgkfh #we havent talked in a bit but pls know i adore you lots and every time hobi pops up on my dash i think of you <3 (i hope you dont think that #is weird. youre just the number one hobi lover in my head) #i hope you have the most wonderful day full of love and light and laughter and peace and that you get to spend it just the way you want #i wanted to make you something really really lovely but then i got covid and my energy is still a bit non-existent sorry :( also ps hates me #and kept crashing so yeah. this is not a lot. but i hope it makes you smile either way <3 #pls pls pls ignore that the coloring doesnt match :( i couldnt get the pinkish coloring to work on all the scenes so now its just. three #different colorings ahdjkshl. at least hobi's pretty always!! #sending you all my love and all the hugs (((hugs tightly))) may you be happy and healthy always love bye now im going to bed <3