#when he was barely even a partner

[greensaplinggrace]

I think one of the biggest differences between bangel and spuffy is that angel isn’t a partner to buffy. he’s not even someone she knows that well. he’s not someone she’s ever familiar with, and he’s not someone she can ever fully rely on.

yeah their romance was big and grand and all the things a tragic fairytale romance is. but at the end of the day their relationship is so incredibly surface level. all there is is the idea of love, and not even the real thing.

#btvs #spike btvs #spuffy #buffy summers #anti angel #anti bangel #just in case #tbh I’m usually a multishipper when it comes to this sort of thing but… #b*ngel comes across as so surface level to me #there’s no real force or depth to it #even disregarding the weird vibes angel gives off about buffy’s age and his condescension and when he first fell in love with her #and all the ways he keeps her hooked by refusing to leave her alone after breaking up with her #a choice that he makes ‘for her own good’ - which he seems to do a lot #it’s that he has no real impact on her as an actual person/slayer with interests and complexity and depth #while he hurt her and affected her #sometimes it feels like he barely made a scratch at all to what actually represents her personhood #anyways I don’t hate him or the ship really and I get why people like him #it’s just to me it’s kind of ridículous that people #say he was it for buffy #when he was barely even a partner #that’s high school romance not real bone deep love #myramblings

[spatio-rift]

we should use kokomis charm as an indicator of love more often i think. like it suddenly not working on someone it used to affect being a dead giveaway that theres someone else

#takahashi grilling the shit out of saiko about it when he gets partnered w kokomi on an assignment and hes barely even fazed #saiko-sama are you blind? did you not hear? are you so shocked that you dont know how to react? #youre working with teruhashi-san. one-on-one! with teruhashi-san!! you know? the girl you came here to propose to? #saikos like shut the fuck up im trying to focus here. and he throws his pen at arens head #and takahashis like no way. NOT KUBOYASU. YOU CANT BE FOR REAL

[twentyfivemiceinatrenchcoat]

me when i remember that gojo never hated geto even once and never stopped seeing him as a best friend even after he killed him. me when gojo’s only regret was not having geto there to support him before his final battle. me when im satoru gojo and i choose to love one single person for the rest of my life

#this is the main reason i do Not subscribe to toxic gojo .. or cheater gojo …. or any version of disloyal gojo #this is a man who was met with complete understanding from exactly One person one single time and decided to stay in love w him forever #who was willing to bare his heart to him over and over again even when he didnt receive the same vulnerability in return #even if u see stsg as strictly platonic it says something abt gojo as a person . and how unconditionally he loves #if gojo ever fell in love w someone and actually dealt w those emotions properly instead of closing himself off #there isnt a single chance in hell that he would ever make them sad #i said what i said. #satoru ”my partner can do no wrong” gojo u are so special to me

[clits-and-clips]

Spiralling AGAIN would you believe it

#txt #trying to figure it out #i tried to be there for jim and listen to him and be a good partner #but he barely opened up #i didnt know he wanted to leave me #he chose to open up when i was mad #so i didnt respond #so that i didnt yell #not that that is his fault #i should have done better #but i couldny #in that house #i was so overstimulated all the fucking tome #time #like always #and i didnt even realise it #until he kicked me put #out* #and now im just guilty over everything. #why wasnt i better #why cpuldnt i be better #its not fair that he didnt tell me #3 months and you really couldnt tell me what was on your mind #thats unfair man #i was trying so hard to be better #to do better #giving him space is almost impossible #hes my best friend and my soul mate #i dont want to talk to anyone else tbh #so being ignored is like a knife to my chest and idk what to do about it and this is my last tag i can put it and i just dont even know

[cerealmonster15]

this wasnt supposed to be a page about oakworthy scenes but thats what ended up happening lol. dialogue i havent seen in fanart as much but cant stop thinking about!!!

like. hello?!?!?!?

also lincoln and taylor are here :3

#dndads #normal oak #hermie the unworthy #oakworthy #taylor swift dndads #lincoln li wilson #dungeons and daddies #should i even tag lincoln and taylor if theyre like 10% of this page. SURE #cereal tries to draw #anyway. hermie said he thought they were special. SPECIAL!!!!!! #and the little bitter 'i knew it >.>' IS SO FUNNY TO ME #HES STILL JEALOUS god . jskdlfjs #sorry im just rotating these little guys in my mind at top speed i cant stop thinkin about them #hermie barely is ever on screen but when he is. omg. shakes him sdkljfsdlkj #funny little theater kid #and his weird mascot will they wont they partner #THEY WILL. I BELIEVE IN THEM. #ik they probs looked more beaten down in like. #well really all of em but especially ep 22 #but im laaaaaaazy and didnt wannaaaaaaa im sorryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy #mostly i just couldnt remember what exact context of fights theyd been thru for each #or like what they were wearing #im so so so lazy about clothes im SORRYYY

[arcadianico]

it makes so much sense that quackity couldn’t talk to SOPHIA about love without also talking about grief btw. the two are so intertwined in the smp as a whole but especially in qquackity’s story. his love and grief are inextricable from each other, they’re symbiotic

#he refuses to talk about his feelings for wilbur as love. because he knows its not #its attraction yeah but not love. they barely know each other #also i maintain that his desire for wilbur is less about wilbur and more about the role wilbur can fill or should have filled in his life #quackity’s obsession with wilbur is fundamentally tied into his grief for tilín #literally the whole thing is about q thinking wilbur was meant to be his partner and therefore also tilín’s other parent #and that massively colours how q views both wilbur and tallulah #that’s why he’s been so obsessed #his talk about roier and cellbit was cute but really when he was describing love he wasn’t talking about them because so much of what he #said doesn’t apply to spiderbit’s relationship at least yet #(there’s still time) #but there’s a reason he couldn’t help but circle back to tilín #tilín has been q’s biggest motivator for most of the series in one way or another #his relationship with tilín might have been doomed but that doesn’t mean he didn’t love them #he loved them to the point of self destruction #and after that conversation with SOPHIA i think he’s only now picking up the pieces #or even examining them in detail #the grief and love he has towards tilín have been overshadowing him this whole time and he hasn’t dealt with it #idk he’s tried at points but he always falls back on denial and pretending he’s fine #maybe because he feels like letting go of any part of his grief is like letting go of his love for tilín and he doesn’t want to do that #after all they are two sides of the same coin #god this is a ramble anyway #quackity #sophia qsmp #tilín #tilin #qsmp

[aro-ortega]

constantly thinking about lonely!ortega

#hi im dani im going to combine elements from the media i enjoy #not necessarily in a -the entities are now also a thing in los diablos- way #just in a. the lonely is neat and its the best way to describe it way #but like. okay. imagine that you are ricardo ortega (lucky you !) #and it turns out that your best friend is still alive. and also he wants to and is kissing you now. and theres also this other girl you #you like who you kiss. and then you find out that theyve both been lying to you the whole time bc they are the same person #so your two romantic partners are not who you thiught they were at all #but also. at some point. apparently. your best friend and your oldest friend became friends #and not only friends but so close that when your best friend is in trouble and desperately needs help - #it is not necessarily you they go to for help. but your oldest friend instead #when did those two become friends ? how had you missed this ? do either of them even need you ? when they seem so happy together ? #+ your best friene and the man you love. can now barely look at you let alone talk to you. but he has no problem w looking at/talking to/ #/touching chen. not you. didnt they hate each other ? when did this happen ? how/why didnt you notice ? #are YOU the bad friend ? #ortega #op #fh

[murdoc]

not to have a boring adult on the internet moment but making your own meal from scratch to enjoy is so healing

#diary #especially when you let yourself make something new. even if its just a take on something youve had before #i literally just made chicken mashed potatoes and green beans but i havent made mashed potatoes from scratch in YEARS #and when i make both chicken and green beans theyre usually paired w some sort of sauce. i got to SEASON them BARE for the first time #it was a liittllee off but the idea i could make this again and make it better... sighs. #<----- hes posting domestic thoughts here because his partner is in jail </3333

[aleatoryw]

Asajj Ventress as this quasi-eldritch-horror figure who everyone used to know as a sith, who uses strange green magic and moves completely silently, who can kill you in a dozen ways even without the use of her dual green sabers, with eyes that reflect the light and intimidating tattoos and a smile that's still just a little wicked...

but no one can say shit about her living in the temple now because they know she's one, quite genuinely redeemed, two, immensely helpful in fighting the new sith empire, and three, master Obi-Wan's beloved partner. he's mostly known for his leadership and diplomacy after his injury on Mustafar, but if needed this feral green blur will come eviscerate you and then return to his lap, so watch out!

#ventrobi #asajj ventress #see THIS is what i mean when i say unhinged ventrobi posting #this is the core of my beloved 'post order 66 but some jedi survived' au #the jedi need to adapt or die in their new situation as wanted criminals. with kenobi at the helm they're doing exactly that. #so who better than to teach them some stealth and resilience and law enforcement evasion than a reformed ventress? #some of the jedi don't like her but what're they gonna do? say that to their leader kenobi who openly treats her as his emotional rock? #but also just... fucking violent defensive asajj who will fuck you up if you even barely threaten her injured partner #asajj as the attack dog kept on a leash only by her loyalty to kenobi. negotiation is his first weapon. she is his second. #i think in this au kenobi was physically wounded on mustafar and says he's still healing but also his hands shake when he holds a saber #only asajj knows about that which is why she keeps her own close at hand and kenobi at her side at all times #come play in this space with me babes i have aus for days

[braidwoods]

reusing serafine for wren is exactly the kind of expected laziness pb always resorts to. i dont think its fair to compare the asset recycling to tyrils family or imturas mom though because yknow. theyre not humans. of course editing an existing sprite wouldve been the same amount of work to just make a brand new one for entirely different races

#they couldve changed her clothes but ngl im not mad about it when a b3 is extremely unlikely and shes barely even a side character #ever since wb ended and i stopped playing until cop2/bolas2 i always forget about this blog rip #besides the pacing and wasting aerin/valax by having them be completely absent from so much of the book i like b2 #i dont hate what theyre doing with mal but its absolutely bc they had to make room for aerin/valax at the expense of the actual lis #imtura last chapter got more than i was expecting tbh i was just assuming she wouldnt have any plotlines like in b1. thats it for her thoug #i guess i dont see much of a point in how theyre handling aerin/valaxs arcs. both romance wise and general plot wise #neither of them are there for long enough to make their romance routes meaningful and when there is actual development theyre just #written out for a few weeks until they waltz back into the narrative. its a waste to have antagonists turned lis when theyre never there #id love to see an alternate b2 where aerin and valax arent shoehorned into the party solely bc i wanna see what theyd do with mal and imtur #without having to give up so much for two new barely fleshed out romance routes #oh id also wanna see nia pissed about aerin too. i get that when he was there she needed to believe he wasnt just shadow as hope for her #but no!!! let her go apeshit on the man who kidnapped her lead to her being possessed and killed by mc!! her best friend or partner!!!!

[wild-at-mind]

I wonder if there is a particular loneliness in being a trans person who transitions within a relationship with someone who never considered themselves part of the LGBTQ community at all. :(

#it's not about getting partners in this position to change their identified sexuality FYI! That's not something i'm interested in #cis bi and pan people in 'straight' relationships go through something a bit similar i think #i would know i was in that position for a while before coming out as trans #it's so boring and shit to constantly overthink everything and everywere i look i see something else to make me feel bad #about whether i measure up whether my relationship measures up to some arbitrary standard #do we matter? am i worthwhile? is my straight socialisation tripping me up?? (/joke) #how can i gain the boundless confidence of someone who never stops talking about being queer with joy and happiness #and how can i bring my boyfriend into the queer world in an accepting and loving way for him #when he is part of many groups ostracised in any community #and we live so far apart it fucking sucks he's never even met my lgbtq meetup group friends! #and even then they have a no allies rule so it's like is he even an ally now? does dating me and i'm a trans man count?? Can i bring him??? #honestly i barely want to talk to them about it i don't want to go there :( #i preferred it when my extremely cis and straight friend asked me 'so are you and bf gay now how does it work?' #that felt honest y'know?

[sapphicdessi]

Are the bisexual women in that video calling gay/lesbian people queer?

i'm more concerned they're saying "bi lesbians" are real and telling every lesbian who says to stop that "sexuality is fluid" and that lesbians can like men. they have larped and support larpers. acting like lesbian is someone who hates men but is attracted to them is fucking absurd. shit take after another. it's basically a homophobic lesbian shit talking sesh where they speak over an for lesbians and act like incels too

#I can't stand to watch it all but surely there's more crap homophobic #they act and pm admit lesbians are just sex toys they will never be serious about but get mad when they get rejected :)) #I mean they call everyone queer #and their labels and terms queer #they larped as lesbians and call themselves queer #"are bisexuals queer enough?' aka am I gay enough no bc ur not fucking gay and its so pathetic bc they're so homophobic and only see men as #real partners and many even see het sex as only real or better sex purely for being het or involving a penis #so leave us alone they show how much they hate lesbians prefer men then spend their time shit talking and being homophobic toxic clowns #and how many actually prefer women and see them as first choice and doesn't base their opinion or choice on men or male behaviour? #is it appealing that you're with a woman because men suck? and then they go off to a bare minimum man bc he sucks less than most shit men #low standards for men and high standards for women #always putting men on pedestals or preferring the most privileged life and fitting in with other homophobes #will bi women ever just date bi women or hook up w them and shut the fuck up? then they can both happily go marry a man like they always #planned to! instead of harassing/demonizing lesbians for saying no oppressing us then go heterophobia is real dykes are mean

[cauldron-chatter]

Absolutely wild overhearing straight women fantasize about wishing they'd married a woman and its just a list of chores they wish their partner would do

Like girl idgaf if you wife me up I ain't washing a single dish

#messy witch #but also like #you dont want a woman you want a partner that shares the workload lol #the fact that even progressive women will reduce other women to nothing but cleaning robots #also like i guess i just grew up in an atypical household #my dad wasnt a stay at home dad but he still did 90% of the daily cleaning when he came home from work #he would help cook if not do it himself and then clean up after #so miss me with all your 'men only do the bare minimum' bs

[darknessontheedgeoftowndyke]

Sorry for personal posting but i lost the first person who’s ever made me feel wanted and loved and like myself and then my best friend who’s kinda made it blatantly obvious I’m not that important to him within this last year and it hurts lol even tho i pretend it doesn’t

#he moved up to the north island and made barely any effort to see us #and didn’t bother telling us he has a partner now #my friend said ‘why did you not tell us!’ and he goes ‘ah slipped my mind’ #and laughed it off #and i didn’t even know what to say i just like stood there #i haven’t heard from him since he moved and we used to be so close #but the more i examine our friendship i feel like it was so much of me and not him #i jsut wish i was more confrontational like my flatmate and my ex #they just tell people how they feel when they’ve been hurt and idk #why i can’t do that tooo

[xhatake]

what if i simply go insane? what if i lose my mind & start an online dnd campaign, what then?

#ooc. #tbd. #i haven't dm'd in like three years #bcs i cannot get a steady playgroup together [ apart from my main group who barely makes it to our sessions as is ] #[ its actually how my partner & i got together; he was playing as an oathbreaker paladin & someone covered him in grease so he set himself #on fire & penguin slid at some guards & i knew i was in love on the spot ] #i have thought about doing it online before but the itch is getting scratchy #from watching this damn show so good #i have always always wanted to get a game going that lasts for years #where i can get invested in my players' chaarcters #but every time i try to get a game going no one wants to idk put in the effort #i like to get deep into character building it is just the kind of dm i am & that doesn't work for everyone #i used to play a lot of 3.5 e [ like a sociopath ] so that is probably part of the issue i will say but even when i shifted to 5e #the character building just wasnt there #my brain is just simmering rn

[doggirlviscera]

man. i think it's so neat how ezau banjex's story kind of wrote itself as we wrote out things happening with other characters

#as soon as bamburai fixed things with yambo and started dating him he didnt even help banjex heal from their trauma #hell he barely even spoke to her until he and yambo fought #and then as soon as she confronted him #he just ran off to see yambo again #even after promising banjex he'd be a better partner to her #promised her he'd treat her better and spend time with her #and ultimately #banjex hadn't even been fully alive in a sense #not after yambo and bamburai started dating #the other half of their death happened when she stabbed herself #and in a way she brought bamburai down with her #tbh banjex is one of the most tragic characters in ezau i think