#why are mens backs attractive

[ballpitwitch]

John Wick: Chapter 4 - 'Train Like A Killer' Featurette

#OKAY I GUESS #Keanu Reeves #kreevesedit #keanuedit #* #i love arm #why gif the movie like a normal person when you can be a bog witch like me and randomly gif the blu ray special features #IN JEANS.....my guy...... #i would like to be next #please form an orderly queue #no pushing #i love me a sweaty man #it's me hi im the problem it's me #keanu has been here and hot my whole damn life #i take a certain special level of comfort in that #why are mens backs attractive #someone get bill nye on the phone i need science #kinda hypnotized my own damn self with that first gif.....

[focsle]

Do I still have to see people blanket defining bisexuality in a reductive and incorrect way in 2023? Do I?

#saw a post sometime back that was just…Incorrect #and was like ‘bisexuality is attraction to multiple genders but not all genders’ #and saw a bunch of people in the notes being like ‘I didn’t know that!’ guys…. #THAT’S NOT IT…that’s true for some people but don’t use that as a general definition cos it’s Wrong #anyway i identify as bi rather than pan because while I’m attracted to all genders #it’s not REGARDLESS of gender it’s BECAUSE of gender #and how my attraction manifests for men vs women vs nonbinary people etc etc etc is different for each #it doesn’t Disqualify the attraction it’s instead a specific Component of the attraction. #which is why pansexual personally doesn’t feel accurate to my identity #ANYWAY. HAPPY PRIDE LOL BYE

[ja3yun]

let me tell you, men?? not worth a single part of your time

#aj talks #literally went on a date and yknow... #AND NOW HE UNFOLLOWED ME ON INSTA #he will rue this day i'm blasting him on every gc i own #like how did he literally beg me to see him #i had him whimpering in the back of his car and all for him to unfollow? #its me isnt it?? 😮‍💨 #i gotta be doing something wrong or done something in a past life bc why am i attracting these shitty men #and this is a different one from the one i spoke about earlier </3 #sticking to my book men from now on

[diorsbrando]

these men are literally the same person but in different fonts. copy n paste ! one is in bold and the other in italics.

#ʬʬ.sosa speaks.com #equally slutty men with slutty voices #that could stick their gun up my pu— #hmm. #the same lackadaisical nonchalant attitude #‘my back story is shrouded in secrecy and lies and/or dishonesty #FUCCKKKKK i need them. i need them to talk me through it and their seed overflowing in my hole <3 #idk why im so insanely attracted to this personality type but #yeah <3 yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah

[ceruleancattail]

Sometimes I have to be humbled, so I remind myself that I like a fucking clown who says “Cay Cay gotta’ Slay Slay” on the regular.

Gods why am I attracted to a card. A playing card. A flat sheet of paper. A ginger one, at that. A common ingredient used in stir-fry fish. A freaking ROOT-

Why is he the way he is…. Cater Diamond…

#the mage’s hat 🎩 #my taste in men is no #no #I will fist fight him at the back of the mystery store anytime #like why are you so attractive???? I’m going to beat the secrets out of you

[kithj]

there’s a scene in hijab butch blues where the author (lamya) comes out to a queer friend’s family because his family is convinced that she’s secretly in love with him and that he’s “leading her on” and her friend also wants her to have the “authentic gay experience” (gag) of coming out to Parents, which lamya never plans to do with her parents. she ends up agreeing, comes out and tells them that she’s gay, and then later the friend tells her that his mother is now convinced that she’s actually “a bisexual” and is still in love with him. lamya laughs at first but later feels very distraught over the fact that she finally had the courage to say it out loud only to immediately be doubted. anyways as someone who is a Lesbian and only ever calls myself a Lesbian or gay i really related to this especially in recent years where even other members of the lgbt community take issue with the word lesbian and try to paint us as regressive and “not queer enough.” there really is something so painful about that doubt and even scorn that can come from others that are supposed to understand you and support you and be a part of your community.

when you’re a gay woman, lesbian or bi, there is this constant outside pressure: if you’re a lesbian, they want you to be bi - you’re confused, you haven’t met the right man yet, you just need to give men a chance and be open to the idea. but if you’re bi, then you’re just doing it for male attention, you’re promiscuous, it’s a phase and you’re just an obnoxious straight girl. the reality is that no matter what, they’re always funneling us into what makes them more comfortable (which is, of course, with men), and they really just wish we didn’t exist at all.

#it did strike me as interesting that this scene happens right after another scene #where lamya herself challenges a woman who calls herself a lesbian #and asks ‘why that word instead of queer’ #maybe this is self awareness on the authors part to put these scenes back to back. i dont know #to be clear the lesbian woman was absolutely in the wrong in context but it still didnt feel great #for lamya’s response to basically say well queer is a better word than lesbian… #the sad thing is that it doesnt matter what we call ourselves; queer lesbian bi pan gay #theyre still going to find a problem with us #we’re still going to be Dividing The Community #whether its your lack of attraction to men or the way u perform femininity (or subvert it) #how you carry yourself how you talk. the boundaries you set #always Wrong #anyways! i have to take a break from this book after that. lol

[butchcharliee]

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#i just realized how many people blocked me for identity as “gay boy lesbian” :o #like mutuals.. #im not a bi lesbian or a trans man lesbian y'all 😭 #now i dont go policing peoples identities so if you identify as those then i dont really care at all lmao #back to the point tho #when i said im a gay boy lesbian #i just meant im very butch4butch 😭 #i didnt mean I'd date and fuck men bc hell no #im not into people who identify as a binary man!! #im a lesbian!! #also i dont identify as a “gay boy lesbian” anymore if that'll make y'all happy #it hurts when other butches block you like y'all my family :/ #and the reason why i identified as a gay boy lesbian was bc im a boy but in a non binary butch dyke way #and im attracted to other butches or transmasc who also identify as that #will delete later

[alsktudy]

oh my goodness. im deceased.

#i cannot explain in words how attractive i find this man #genuinely #why is he so attractive to me #wow #wow hes just #guys if he gets a mullet im scared i will not be able to let him go #OMG HES SO HOT #I ACTUALLY CANT #WTF SOONYOUNG #hoshi #soonyoung #mina's thoughts ୨୧ #mina talks svt ୨୧ #how can a man be this fine #hes literally doing a oeace sign and thats all #yet im frothing in the mouth #goodness #i love men #no i take that back #i just love soonyoung #yeah #i love soonyoung #mina's daily dosage of hoshi ୨୧

[andy-clutterbuck]

#HE #Andrew Lincoln #* #andygifs #Ride #tag reads: Made of 100% Dad™ #i would always claim him #his back tho #why are backs attractive call bill nye i need science #an actual shot of serotonin #*david attenborough voice* THE SUN #even his elbows are nice I hate myself #love when handsome grown men can also give you cute aggression

[motherthroat]

tumblr not as gay as it insists crying

#aside from overcorrective ttp of circling back to conservative bs #oh why mock women n their attraction to mediocre men when u are not that different frankly. have fun w those labels

[mikoran]

sometimes ill see a st3ddie post about their hypothetical struggle of being queer in the 80s and ficlets about the homophobia they deal with. and the rational, logical side of me thinks that its fandom and everyone is allowed to do what they want and finding comfort in characters experiencing your experiences can be very helpful to people. but the other side of me is yelling WILL BYERS IS RIGHT FUCKING THERE

#like theres nothing wrong with shipping it and portraying those things with them #but something about choosing the only slightly implied queer character and the very much straight one to use as an outlet just #reallyyyy rubs me the wrong way when a character in the show already canonically faces that shit #not to mention the fact that steddies popularity mostly comes from the ability to sexualize them which is a whole other can of worms #and said people doing the sexualization is often cishet women #and then they pull out other cards like oh actually lets focus on steves trauma guys and the tragedy that is eddie #and theres no harm in that either ofc character analysis is great i live for it #but we all know its not actually about their depths as characters #its about being attractive white men #contrary to what this post might tell you about me i dont mind steddie its like fine ig #and i like steve and eddie but god their stans annoy me sometimes #anti steddie #but back to will #hes had to face so much. hes had deal with people calling him slurs his whole life. hes in love with his (supposedly) straight best friend #hes got queer depression written all over him #and yet hes somehow not the top choice for crying over those things about #instead its two characters with like. a singular one on one interaction #again #no problem with shipping them etc etc #but seriously?? why are we focusing on them as opposed to the canonically queer much deeper romance playing out right before our eyes #with mounds of trauma and angst on the side #cough cough fetishization #ill shut up now sorry #will byers #byler

[kjzx]

I've been thinking a lot about my sexuality these last few years, I'd even say sometimes obsessing to an unhealthy degree, and I think I've come in terms with the fact I almost certainly am bisexual and denying that is pretty lesbophobic and frankly dumb in many ways, and mainly cruel towards myself. Gonna be reading up on internalized biphobia and whatnot

#Turns out men around me just suck #And men that are thirsted over most of the time do too #Alright they don't meet my preferences** #No toxicity here everyone's valid #I have had my reasons to think I'm gay and I don't think I was that 'delusional' (idk a better way to say it) thinking that I am gay #But the more I move forward the more I realize I'm just lying to myself #I don't have to date men or be interested in what most people think is attractive in men to be bisexual and that's alright #I am a little disappointed in the way bisexuals are treated in certain lgbt+ spaces specifically chronically online ones #Is it cringe to admit that the thing that broke the camel's back was a fandom meta post where the author said that people in fandom #can't tolerate bi characters/HCs because the idea of a character having history is repulsive to younger fans that want there to be one and #only love interest. Or smth along these lines. That resonated with me. I have no clue why tho. I don't have much history with anyone myself #Aside from a homoerotic childhood friendship or two (celibacy sweep) #Not just that there were a lot of good points made but yeah. Fun things #I have a feeling I'll continue obsessing over this stuff #Obsession grind never ends babyyy 💯💪 #It does feel nice to admit to things I like without feeling like I have some sort of reverse religious trauma #the center of it being one ultimate queer experience and if you've straighted you're condemned to be seen as a straight by gays #for all eternity #Bisexual #Bi pride #//rambles

[rahabs]

Holy shit! Doom spiral.

#Brain goes brrr #Brain freaks out about being left behind and left alone #Brain freaks out over being unemployed but freaks out more at the idea of going back into private practice #I barely survived that I can't go back #But I can't seem to get a job anywhere else either #So I get to watch everyone else do well and have careers they like #That give them freedom to have a life #Meanwhile my only viable career path seems to be FUCKING private practice law and that made me want to kms last time #No free time no time off just work work work and lots of deadlines no vacation no space no nothing #Just toxic old men sucking the life out of you #Brain freaks out about not being Normal #Man why is my 'oh shit! I can't have normal relationships!' thing happening at almost 30 #Never bothered me that I wasn't attracted to people before but Now. #Had enough always being the one left behind on the side

[goldlightsaber]

there was not a single person shiv was not fighting this season. she was fighting tom. she was fighting greg. kendall. roman. all while pregnant??? and being mattson's waystar plug. and grieving her dad who she probably fights with in her dreams. she was done so dirty by them and often left powerless. the vote against kendall was only a small, singular moment of vindication

#maybe that’s why she has the most lines of anyone on the show. she has to constantly overexplain herself lmao #this isn't even an in-defense #it's me thinking back on the entire season and how she had like three explosive fights and and other smaller fights with all these men #who weren't fighting with each other nearly as much #like girl was stressed 24/7!!! #'do you find me attractive gregory. cause i'll fuck you' or w/e she said. and she didnt even have time to exact her revenge!!!! #I thought she’d take Greg down fr #shiv roy #succession #succession spoilers