thehavochouse

[thehavochouse]

Important info:

This account will become inactive due to:

We feel like interacting so heavily with only CDD content is not very good for us. Mental health wise and also we need actual interests. As much as we love the community it can't be the ONLY thing on all our socials.

We're yet again getting lost in the petty little dramas that don't matter irl. Endo vs Traumagenic. What's valid and what's abelist. Who's faking, who's fakeclaiming. Etc.

We're an artist first and foremost. So it'd make more sense for our main to be art acc.

That being said we're not leaving completely. Some alters still have sideblogs connected to this account and will log in once in a while.

If you want to stay in contact feel free to dm us for our discord. Or join our system server (dm for inv). Our new main Tumblr acc will be our art account: @rabidclownartz

And last things MOOTS WE LOVE YOU!!! <33

Dm us on the art account we're logging out of this one!!!

#important #moving accounts #did system #🪐 posting

[thehavochouse]

This is regarding an ask I had earlier today

Ahem

US BEING ANTI-ENDO DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO COME INTO OUR ASK BOX AND TRY TO CONVERT US BY DIRECTING US TO BLOGS WHO ARE PRO ENDO. THAT IS A ONE WAY TICKET TO BEING BLOCKED. FUCK YOU.

[thehavochouse]

daily reminder that an inner world is not required for any sort of system! it can be an excellent visualization tool for some but it’s not something that everyone is going to have.

if you have an extremely complex inner world with pages of lore and thousands of alters/npcs, you’re so valid. but, someone who also has no sign of an inner world or one that’s simply a singular room in a house? equally as valid.

understanding we all have different experiences is key in fully accepting the collectives around us!

[thehavochouse]

This post was brought to you because of a reddit post I saw of people claiming transIDs

Transabled, transwheelchairuser? Give me a bat or steel rod and I'll help you with your transition. That's what you want right? You want to be disabled?

TransRAMCOA, transCSA, transcultsurvivor??? Why... just why. And since these communities are full of young people... I worry about just how far they'll go to achieve their "transition"

Transplural is literally just faking, roleplaying a disorder. So is the rest. Transautistic, Transbpd, TransADHD, TransASPD etc.

They're not even serious disorders to these people anymore. It's just another identity they can add to their list.

"ohh you're so valid for wanting a SERIOUS and DEBILITATING DISORDER <33" no. What you want is attention and pity. Like I said please go find professional help. I promise you're not transkawaiitourrettes you're cis-chronically online and do need help.

(I'm not going to comment on transrace because that's called being a racist :// )

Merry fuck you to all the transabled, transrace, transplural and more dipshits

Please stop romanticizing disorders and being racist you braindead fucks <3

Get some actual professional help

#transid #genuinely get help #rant

[thehavochouse]

Merry fuck you to all the transabled, transrace, transplural and more dipshits

Please stop romanticizing disorders and being racist you braindead fucks <3

Get some actual professional help

[thehavochouse]

Specific lead singers from metal bands TwT

RIP homies no sourcemates for you

plural culture is being a factive with a niche source and seeing ZERO introjects with the same source

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[thehavochouse]

"Uuu having introjects is so much fun!!" /sar

There's a factive, who's source we write as "no <3" or "Nuh uh". He exists. He fronts...or rather co fronts and there's nothing we can do about him. Just knowing he exists in my brain makes me sick to my stomach.

So much fun isn't it? :,,)

#system things #introjects #factive #did stuff #system #✨ posting

[thehavochouse]

^^^^^

Plural culture is THERE IS NO WAY AN ENDO FAKE CLAIMED US 💀

Very long rant after this

CW/TW: Mentions of trauma, maybe syscourse(?), lots of swearing, me being kinda a bitch(?)

Also, I’m making it so if I post smth abt endos, endos can interact. It just seems fair.

You’re telling me, you, someone who claims to be a “system” without trauma, IS FAKECLAIMING ME??

No because I’m (not) sorry, but if you support endos or are an endo, any opinion you have when it comes to systems is immediately invalid. Like be so fr.

“You can be a polyfrag OSDD1B system” an endo who I didn’t know was an endo told me this. Thank god a real system informed me on what being polyfrag actually is.

I have massive trauma, I have to deal with this disorder every single fucking day and it sucks sometimes. And whether you stupid ass endos wanna hear it or not, yall chose to pretend to be “systems”.

Jokes on you bitches (endos), systems form between the ages 1-9. I guarantee you, you were not pretending to be a system at 1-9 years old. You discovered what systems are at 12-13 years old and decided ‘yo I want this’ but found out you didn’t meet the criteria to have Badboyhalo and Technoblade as alters.

(Not hating on anyone with these alters btw, this is about fakers and im just using examples 🫶)

Dear endos, y’all are fucking pathetic. Seriously, go outside and get a fucking life instead of making real systems look bad. Y’all romanticize systems, we’re not just a bunch of comfort characters who talk to each other.

Most endogenic systems I’ve seen spread so much misinformation on DID/OSDD. Heavy on ENDOGENIC SYSTEMS I HAVE SEEN. Not a fact, this is personal experience. How are you gonna claim to have a disorder without knowing what the disorder is? It’s like saying you have a non-ticcing tic disorder. You only tic on command. Sounds stupid, I know (I have tics in my neck). And having actual tics and your tics being triggered by the word tic doesn’t count.

It is physically impossible to have DID/OSDD without trauma. Trauma is what causes DID/OSDD in the first place. If you don’t have trauma but you have literally every other symptom of DID/OSDD or some, you don’t have DID/OSDD. You have something else (not gonna diagnose anyone just stating facts).

Many symptoms of DID/OSDD overlap with other common disorders, which is why it’s so hard to diagnose. Again, do actual research before self diagnosing. And yeah, I support self diagnosis. Why? Because I grew up in a household that didn’t believe in mental health in the first place and that was my only option, I tried to get diagnosed and my last therapist turned out to be a p3d0. And others may have similar experiences. I don’t support self diagnosis if you don’t do your research.

“Endogenic systems probably just don’t remember their trauma”. The excuse that endogenic systems don’t remember their trauma is stupid. All trauma is valid, even trauma you don’t remember. Being endogenic specifically means you don’t have trauma, and that includes trauma you don’t remember. Being endogenic does not equal not remembering trauma. They may think they are endogenic, but they aren’t.

“You can’t be against endogenic systems and be pro-spiritual at the same time” womp womp I am. Disorders don’t equal spirituality. I am highly spiritual, I practice witchcraft, and investigate paranormal activity, and they do not connect to disorders or being a system. “It’s not scientifically possible to have more than one soul” scientifically, not proven. Spiritually, it is, but that isn’t DID/OSDD/being a system. “It’s not scientifically possible to share a body with spirits” scientifically, not proven. Spiritually, it is, but that isn’t DID/OSDD/being a system. There was also something about imaginary friends but that’s just fucking stupid to me to compare imaginary friends to DID/OSDD/being a system so imma just not. “The moment you use science as an excuse to disrespect others' spirituality and spiritual beliefs your whole argument just becomes anti-spirituality.” Science and spirituality are different but also the same. Guess what else has been scientifically proven? You can’t have a disorder based on trauma without having trauma. And you can’t be a system without trauma. Any arguments about science are debunked. And guess what, I love spirituality. I just fucking hate endogenic systems. Womp womp, I’m going to continue my spiritual journey and hate ENDOS in the process. Because again, disorders and systems are not spiritual. The whole point of being an endogenic system is having DID/OSDD without trauma, and DID/OSDD are disorders. If you believe you have voices in your head that are spiritual, reach out to a spiritualist. You don’t have a disorder. It could be a deity reaching out to you, spirit guide, ancestors, etc.

Also, I fucking dare any endo to go up to a medical professional and say you’re spiritually a system and are hearing voices. News flash, you’ll be sent on a grippy socks vacation.

“Endos paved the way for the mordern plural community” no one cares. This is most likely not even true. If people who faked anxiety ‘paved the way’ for the modern community of people who actually had anxiety, does that make the people who faked anxiety valid? No, it doesn’t. No matter how many labels you wanna put on it, it doesn’t make it valid.

“You can be willogenic, or intentionally creating your system, or protogenic, being born a system.” Unless you purposefully put yourself through trauma (which if you did, talk to someone), willogenic is not valid. You cannot purposefully create your own system. If you’re claiming to create your own system, guess what? You have an imagination. Imagination is not a disorder and it does not make you a system. Sure, there are certain parts of DID/OSDD that are up to you, like an alters FC based on how they described themselves, or (as I’ve been told) your inner space, but choosing to be a system is not possible. Willogenic is not spiritual and has no place in the spiritual community. Whether you like it or not, ENDOS and willogenics mock people with DID/OSDD/actual systems (yes by simply existing). Protogenic is not valid either. You can’t be born with trauma, so you can’t be born with DID/OSDD/a system.

“Systems aren’t always associated with DID/OSDD/aren’t always formed from DID/OSDD” that whole sentence debunks itself and ENDOS. Sure, systems may not be based on/formed from/associated with DID/OSDD, but you know what is? Trauma. Therefore it is impossible to be a system without trauma. Also, based on what information I’ve research I’ve done..systems are associated with DID/OSDD, considering that’s literally what the disorder is. Again proves that endogenic systems can’t research their own ‘disorder’.

“Being plural can be a religious thing” oh I just love bringing religion into everyone (I’m being sarcastic). Name me one religion that tells you to be a system, any kind of systen. Or plural for that matter. Either way, still not valid. If it’s a religious belief, then that’s an even better reason to keep it to yourself. If it was a religious thing (if it’s even religious in the first place), and you claim it wasn’t a choice, then you most likely have religious trauma. It’s like being forced to be baptized or forced to go to church or forced to read the Bible and being forced to be a certain religion can cause trauma. If you claim you didn’t choose to be a system or plural because of religious beliefs, you most likely have religious trauma you need to work through. For one, I’m not diagnosing anyone. Two, the religious trauma is most likely not the reason for being plural or a system, but it’s possible since religious trauma is valid. It’s like being forced to pretend you have anxiety, being forced to have anxiety doesn’t cause you to develop anxiety, but it can cause something else. If you claim it’s religious and it’s a choice, you’re still invalid. That religion most likely isn’t telling you to fake having a disorder, it’s telling you something else from a spiritual standpoint. And again in my last point, spirituality doesn’t equal disorders and it does not create systems.

“It’s a coping mechanism” if your only coping mechanism to actual bad mental health and actual trauma is to fake disorder you need help. There’s this fun thing called journaling, seeing a therapist, and way better coping mechanisms than going online and dedicating 365 days a year to faking a disorder.

“I like to Roleplay” cool I like to write. Doesn’t make writing a disorder. Hobbies don’t equal disorders. Roleplay all you want, Roleplay is cool as fuck. But it’s not a disorder. Role playing may help you realize you have DID/OSDD in a way, but it won’t diagnose you or make you develop DID/OSDD or become plural or a system. Also if you compare systems to roleplaying you’re a little hoe <3

“I discovered being a system by faking being a system” the fact you faked being a system in the first place is so sad and nasty. No, this does not apply to people who sometimes think they are faking it or thought they were faking at first. This is for people who legit faked being a system for attention or to make fun of actual systems. I’m pretty sure you didn’t develop trauma by faking having trauma.

“Plurality is being more than one, you don’t have to be disordered to have it”. Plurality ≠ being a system. This is about endogenic SYSTEMS, and willogenic SYSTEMS, and protogenic SYSTEMS, if you’re trying to say you’re plural and not a system, stop calling yourself endogenic or willogenic or protogenic.

plural = multiple personalities/alters/beings/whatever person wants to call it in one body but not due to a system, like "tulpas" (educating, I don't support. Also Tulpas DNI)

“We don’t know enough about DID/OSDD/UDD/systems to prove that they can be formed through only trauma!!!!” That’s because the only way to prove that they can be formed without trauma would be to take 50 kids between the ages 1-9, put 25 of them through severe and consistent trauma, and tell the other 25 to just become a system. And I know damn well at the ages of 1-9 you did not wake up one day and decide ‘I’m gonna be a system’.

“But I thought you hated fakeclaimers!!!?!?!!” I hate fakeclaimers, I hate disorder fakers even more. If you’re mad about getting fake claimed as a endo, tulpa, etc, womp fucking womp. Don’t fake a being a system and you won’t get fake claimed.

“You’re just a sysmed-” nope I just know selling/buying alters, claiming to have a traumatic disorder without trauma, choosing to be a system, etc is bullshit. Anyone who isn’t delusional enough to fake being a system knows that.

“Give me one source that proves you can’t be an endo-!” And then all of their proof of endos is spiritual possession and other endo websites. Not only are they endos and misinformed as fuck, they’re hypocrites. Pick a struggle💀

Also, if you claim to be a system spiritually, then I’ll gladly use spirituality to get rid of your “system” since you claim to hate it sm <3

I’m a spiritualist and I practice witchcraft. I’m also studying paranormal investigation. Don’t you dare bring up systems “spiritually”.

Also idc if this is considered syscourse. It’s facts, argue with the fucking wall.

Endos, cry. Scream. Sob. Wail. Throw a tantrum. Rant about how much of a ‘sysmed’ I am on your pro endo tags. Idgaf. You’re mad because you can’t be a system.

You don’t even want to be a system. You want a to be in a community. You want to ‘heal’ from something you never experienced. You want to be different. You want to Roleplay. You

Also, stop calling endos endogenic systems. They’re not systems. Just call them endos. Or fakers, because they are fakers.

I understand if you were misinformed and thought you were an endo because you didn’t remember trauma, or an endo misinformed you, but endos are still stupid little bitches. Sorry 🤷

#this!!!!!! #actually plural #actually osdd #osdd system #actually did #did osdd #did system #osddid #osdd #osdd 1b #actually traumagenic #plural system #plurality #pluralgang #plural community #system things #system posting #syscourse

[thehavochouse]

"we need more weird systems!" stfu you can't even accept that systems HAVE to have trauma to be systems.

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I m yet again politely begging for some emojis in my ask box 🥺

system ask game! send the corresponding emoji(s) & the person who reblogged this may answer the question. :-)

🥀 - do you keep track of your alter count? how do you do so?

🫀 - do you have non-human alters? what species are they?

🍄 - when did you realise you had a complex dissociative disorder?

📻 - do you experience amnesia?

🥩 - who was the most recent split?

🦴 - do you have an innerworld? what does it look like?

🦷 - what’s a fun fact about the current fronter(s)?

💀 - is your system more overt or covert?

🍷 - does your music taste differ from alter to alter? how?

🦇 - do you have any friends with CDDs?

📺 - are you “heavy” with any type of alter? (e.g. little-heavy, introject-heavy, etc.)

this is for traumagenic systems! thank you.

#🪐 posting #ask game #system ask game #did ask game #please send asks

[thehavochouse]

I wish so bad I was just faking this

That one day I'll wake up and all of this will be gone

That all I need is to just...stop and everything will stop

I've tried

Ignoring everything, pretending like the disorder doesn't exist.

Guess fucking what...it didn't go away

Like yes.. it can be helpful at times. Even fun once in a blue moon. But the negatives??? Holy shit

Plural culture is coming out of your denial phase of systemhood and instead now constantly saying to yourself that you wish you were faking it because sometimes this disorder is hell on earth to deal with

- 📖⭐

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[thehavochouse]

As someone who's aspec THIS!!!!^^^

There's SO many reasons someone is aspec. Just because you don't understand it doesn't mean it's not a real thing.

Btw coming from a non aspec person if you're also not aspec you can't claim to know what it's like. So stop. I have absolutely no idea what it's like and personally can't fathom the concept of people not feeling romantic or sexual attraction and not wanting a romantic or sexual partner but guess what? Just because I don't get it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. You don't know everything, so stop claiming aspec people are lying or just haven't found the right person.

#this!!!!!! #aspec #aromantic #asexual #aroallo #aceallo #aroace #aro

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being a system be like

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dissociative amnesia haver: wow i wish i remembered shit

dissociative amnesia havers when they remember:

dissociative amnesia havers when the memories then get taken from them:

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A "friend" of mine (irl, nobody here AFAIK) told me last night that they "had cult trauma too" when I admitted in passing that I'd realized the church I grew up in was one.

He meant in one of his alters' source as Sally Face. I'm just at a fucking loss. What in the hell kind of childish mother fucking bullshit is that?

What the fuck is this obsession lately with claiming shit that didn't even happen to you (or anyone!) is your trauma just because "it happened to me in source lol"? What the actual fuck is that.

If you think that's an okay thing to do, just know I don't want you here. Fuck off.

Source "trauma" is anything but actual trauma. It's a story you related to real hard, that is all. It is not anything that you experienced in any fucking way. There is a kernel of truth at the center that you internalized. That can be as simple as feeling totally helpless so you introject someone who'd been eg kidnapped, to as complex as it being very similar to your real life trauma.

But the only trauma that is actually trauma, that actually harms your psyche and must be healed from, the only kind you actually understand, is what you experienced in this body, in this life. That's it. Claiming anything else as "your trauma" is bullshit and straight up false.

#this!!!!!!

[thehavochouse]

Systems be like "I'm gonna get shit done today!" Then sit in front of the computer and grey-out the whole day