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n0ahsferatu · 3 months

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i’d say they’re going on a road trip but they don’t even have a car smh

#*paul mccartney voice* boy / you’re gonna baldur that gate / baldur that gate / a long time #looking up refs of their OG outfits while drawing this made me realize that half of them wear the same boots #how peculiar!#first thing on my mind while drawing this was the wyllstarion agenda #second thing was lae’zel is the dad who didn’t want tav to adopt an owlbear #but now she’s best friends with the owlbear #also important: gale has shy tall guy energy #and astarion has rambunctious short king energy #canon bends to my will #people on insta yelled at me for not including halsin but this is the OG companions ok :(#im actually working on a halsin piece rn!#artists on tumblr #bg3 #bg3 fanart #baldurs gate 3 #bg3 astarion #bg3 gale #bg3 karlach #bg3 lae'zel #bg3 wyll #bg3 shadowheart #one day ill add a background to this #noah.jpg

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xoxomireya · 4 months

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！ᶻz﹒the ultimate friendship guide﹒🦢﹕⤾

tysm for requesting @jasminejournal < 3 ! i had a lot of fun making this.

I. YOU CAN’T NATURALLY MATCH WITH EVERYONE

First things first: You can’t be friends with everyone. apart from the obvious “a friend to all is a friend to none”, it’s quite unrealistic to expect everyone to like you, and that’s okay! You just have to acknowledge that you aren’t meant to be liked by everyone.

Find people who are like-minded, who give you the same energy back, who have the same values, people that have healed and don’t bring their baggage and toxicity into the friendship. quality >>> quantity. Not everyone is meant for you and that’s okay, because we are not seeking quantity, we are looking for quality friends who have all the values i listed before and the ones you also find important.

The world is your oyster. in this era it’s easier than ever to make friends: meet a lot of people, say yes to plans, go to events, network, etc. The more people you meet the more you will realize that you can’t match naturally with everyone, some people are just not your vibe and the more people you meet the more likely you are to find someone you do mesh well together with. I completely understand that it might be harder for some people who are introverted or have social anxiety to socialize, but in that case I really recommend to work firstly on yourself because a lot of the times those things are triggered by insecurities and a bad relationship with oneself. I also recommend to practice with people online or people who know nothing about you, because that’s the thing: they know nothing about you. If you’re insecure, they don’t know that. If you’re acting in a confident way even though you’re not, they’re also not going to know because they don’t know the way you think or act.

Maybe the problem is YOU. Ifyou’re always losing friendships and struggling to maintain them, maybe the common denominator is you because you have issues you need to introspect. Focus on yourself for some time and fix all the issues that might be making you repel high-value people such as being insecure, romanticizing your sadness, having toxic and jealous behaviors…

II. WHERE AND HOW TO MEET PEOPLE

Like-minded communities !! You need to utilize the resources you have to make friends. friends that last are the ones who think in a similar way and who share similar values and interests, and you’re more likely to find like-minded people in like-minded communities. Build up the courage to go and do things alone so you become comfortable in going to places to meet people alone.

Some like-minded communities can be classes in which they teach hobbies of yours because when there’s a community of people whom you have to coexist with you will be forced to work together in a team and talk to each other and that will make it a lot more easier to make friends. Plus, you’re taking the same class so you’re going to have an interest/hobby to bond over which means automatic conversations without any awkwardness. Another option is to become a regular literally ANYWHERE. Ranging from a coffee shop to a gym, when you become a regular you familiarize with the staff and other regulars.

We’re living in an era in which technology can help you with almost anything. Use this to your advantage! Make online friends, use social media to search for like-minded people, download apps to make friends such as bumble bff…

III. HIGH-VALUE FRIENDS.

Now that you’ve prepared yourself and know where to find friends, let’s talk about how to know when someone is right for you.

Look for people who strive to be the best version of themselves and who are surrounded by positive energy. You are who you surround yourself with, so make friends that bring you positivity and who inspire you. Make sure that you both share how you want your future to look like and have similar future plans. Meshing well with them is a must. For example, someone who prefers and feels more comfortable having low maintenance friendships won’t match with someone who prefers to have high maintenance friendships.

And of course, respect is needed. You cross my boundaries? You’re out. Any sort of toxic or jealous behavior is NOT normal and you should not be friends or be influenced by that type of people.

IV. WHAT TO TALK ABOUT AND HOW TO BE A GOOD FRIEND.

Do NOT come off as desperate. “What if they don’t like me?” Thinking like that will only make you be so immerse in your thoughts that all of your confidence will disappear. Focus on having a “How can I make them feel comfortable and understood?” mindset, you’re now not thinking only about yourself and being self-conscious, so you’re going to appear more confident and since now you’re focusing on listening and making the other person feel comfortable you will make an amazing first impression.

Ask them questions about themselves. People love talking about themselves and this will immediately make them like you. Do not make it look like an interview, tho. Make sure you provide your input too which shouldn’t be hard because every question you ask is going to be redirected to you. You can also start the conversation with a compliment!

Friendship is a two way street. It needs to go both ways and you need to follow up with each other. What are they offering you? What are YOU offering them? Think about what can you give without forgetting what can you receive. The type of friend you want is the type of friend you need to be

V. HOW TO MAINTAIN FRIENDSHIPS

Everyone has the type of friendship maintenance they feel more comfortable with, but it's a fact that low-maintenance friendships are tho ones that last. Even if you feel more comfortable having high maintenance friendships, make sure that both of you can accomodate to having to maintain the friendship even when both of you are busy.

COMMUNICATION!!! I assure you that there's probably going to be a lot of hardships and misundersatings in your friendships (And that's not bad, we're human) and no proper communication will lead to the deterioration of the friendship.

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midnigtartist · 2 months

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“Tempting. But I think we might already have the maximum number of theatrical titles.”

#put wyll in my party for a bit and he would not leave Gale alone #very “’trying to connect with my best friend’s boyfriend’ energy #baulders gate 3 #bg3 #gale dekarios #gale of waterdeep #wyll ravengard #tav #tav shit #dotty McClain #SpellBomb #galemance #artist on tumblr #doobles #digital scribbles

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moniqueesworld · 10 months

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#black friends #girl best friend #black is beautiful #black women #goddess energy #melanin #black girl fashion #blacktumblr #black woman aesthetic #friends

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fizzytoo · 1 month

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#ts4 #ts4 globetrotter #globetrotter challenge #sim: starling #it was very important for starling to make the distinction of chicken eggs since his best friend is a duck #it’s nice to play something new in ts4 #all my attention goes to plc. this is fun too #very low energy #unlike my zombie save where it’s a story. and plc where there’s so much commitment to those sims (and their story)#this is very low stakes for me

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she-posts-nerdy-stuff · 22 days

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Grishaverse text posts I made based on things my friends and I have actually said. In real life.

Pretty sure this is part 23

Wylan: I’ve got anxiety, I DON’T fall over

Jesper: … what?

Wylan: I am very steady on my feet

Jesper: Who trusted me with adult money? Today I impulse bought a pomegranate for literally no reason except that it was there and I wanted it. I think I’m gonna put it in a salad but now I have to figure out how to cut it

Wylan: How do you not know how to cut a pomegranate?

Jesper: Well I’ve never bought a pomegranate before

Wylan: How have you never bought a pomegranate before????

Jesper: Just spoke to my Da he said he doesn’t think he’s ever bought a pomegranate in his entire life

Wylan: HOW!??????

Wylan: It’s actually on my mind 24/7

Jesper: I don’t know what’s on my mind 24/7, it’s just like a duck - no, it’s a goose just like revolving

Jesper: What brain cells? I’ve just got a goose

[about a minute later]

Jesper: There’s no real way of understanding how my brain works. If I was the Truman show people would be so confused

Nina: I don’t try to be iconic, I just am

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utilitycaster · 7 days

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Eursulon also occupying a role I love namely "guy who is doing pretty fucking awesome while everyone else is going through it." His two best friends are having the most intense, nervewracking conversation about how if he's dead it will tear them both apart, Ame is generally on tenterhooks about the coven meeting, Suvi is understandably livid and also an unwitting sleeper agent about to engage in all kinds of shenanigans and he's like "I saw my SISTER, I have FAMILY here, I know how I can get HOME eventually and the goddess of nature just gave me a REALLY COOL HORSE, what is UP."

#look i love painful growth and drama and conflict and i am sure eursulon will experience all of these some more #but also there's something so uniquely fun when everyone else is like DISASTER and one character is just vibing #best friend in a 90s movie energy. get this wild one some butterfly clips #worlds beyond number #eursulon

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skyshroom · 2 months

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‘When you think about me, why do you always bring up the ball?’ Fabian is not beating the gay allegations this episode unfortunately

#fabian aramais seacaster #fabian seacaster #fantasy high #fantasy high junior year #fhjy #dimension 20 #my god Fabian #ducking a kiss from your crush to immediately blabber on and on about your boy best friend and then FACETIME HIM mid convo???#I had to pause the episode and take a breath #queerplatonic Fabriz real #also like I don’t know if it’s an active RP decision by Lou or just a commitment to the bit but Fabian has been all ‘tHe BaWl 🥹❤️’ all seas #every time riz does anything and now it’s happening when he’s not even there #im just thinking about how vocally fond he’s been over this season and it’s at a time where riz literally cannot focus on him at all becaus #Fabian is basically crushing it without his help and like imagine how stoked riz would’ve been the past two seasons if this was the energy #he was getting from Fabian :( he just doesn’t have time #anyways im normal #fhjy spoilers #dimension 20 spoilers #fantasy high junior year spoilers #riz gukgak

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lucascsinclairs · 1 year

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Lumax + Being in Sync

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welcometogrouchland · 1 year

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[ID: a digital sketch of Eda and Raine from the owl house. They're in their designs from watching and dreaming, pre epilogue. Raine holds out their arm for an injection (given by a disembodied hand and labeled "magic rabies shot") and Eda lays a hand on their shoulder and leans her head on theirs. She says "you're doing great Raine! how'd you get rabies tho?". Raine stares dead eyed at the viewer as a thought bubble connected to them shows Belos biting down on their arm. End ID]

I was gonna post a request today but I feel like it's gonna flop and this is funnier. So request tomorrow, Raine Whispers Rabies doodle today

#the owl house #toh #raine whispers #eda clawthorne #raeda #you guys have no clue the stupid shit i doodle when alone or in the company of my irl friends. this was partly their suggestion #you guys haven't even seen baldlos (he was just born today and also no one should see him ever)#anyway I'm so mad that THIS FUCKING DOODLE is the best raeda I've ever drawn. repulsive. why would god do that to me #anyway..enjoy #raine and hunter both being rushed to like. makeshift hospital tents after the finale on account of getting possessed #except when they're there they end up getting treated for completely unrelated shit #hunter had a growth spurt w/ insufficient stored energy/food in his body so he's kinda malnourished atm. raine has rabies (obv)#fun times all around #luz is perfectly healthy after death and resurrection tho! suspiciously healthy one might say...

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dyleeart · 3 months

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blorbo meme (late to the party edition)

#btw they're drawn in scale; snufkin is like 30cm tall #soon after they would realize their respective best friends have similar energy and both left them at some point #my art #art #digital art #good omens #crowley #moomin #moominvalley #snufkin #good omens fanart #moomin fanart #crossover #steven universe meme

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theereina · 1 year

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severussnapemylove · 4 months

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If I was Lily and saw the Marauders attacking my best friend…

#Lily’s “defence” of Sev was pathetic #Shows up with all the energy of “now you stop that”#Come on Lily #That’s your best friend being hurt #Start kicking some balls #Lily was a terrible friend and I will stand by that statement #Severus Snape #pro severus snape #anti marauders #anti lily evans

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lovesclinic · 5 months

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𝘔𝘠 𝘏𝘌𝘙𝘖!┊synopsis: a short blurb about you and your bodyguard miles!

best friend miles x reader

as miles' friend, he had inadvertently put your life at risk. while he protected his identity to the best of his ability, you and him were very publicly friends, and you were the figure in a lot of paparazzi photos of spiderman suspected to be a 'special' kind of friend. his girlfriend. .

so of course his enemies wanted to use the possibility of a 'girlfriend' against him. which led to now, miles having to stakeout at your home, overnight, to keep you safe. he'd never spent the night at yours, despite constantly being together it just seemed to.. couply? but your mum is a very big 'shipper' of you too getting together, and now very discreet about it either.

"now ill be in my room sweetheart, but you let me know if you need anything at all!" your mother winked dramatically before scurrying out the door to dinner with her friends.

had your mother really left you home alone? with a boy?

this was all miles' fault. he insisted on staying the night to keep watch over you. argueing "you don’t have to be alone tonight." and you would have been able to decline if it werent for the pout on his face, and those sweet puppy dog eyes.

dammit.

miles shuffled on the spot shyly, was he.. blushing?

he avoided your eyes, knowing you were glaring at him due to your predement, "you shouldn’t be alone right now. i’ll take the couch, it’ll be fine-" no way, you might not want, or need him, to spend the night, but you were not a bad host.

" don’t be ridiculous, there’s enough room on this bed for both of us." you eased up on the glare enough that miles could look tou in the eye, seemingly less flustered and more comfortsble at the. idea of being able to protect you from the same room.

your bodyguard, how lucky.

little did you know just how lucky you'd get tonight.

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travelerbasilau · 1 year

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kel kel kel!

do you know how to flex? (hehe)

Uhhh… Oops?

#🌻✉️ aw.. thank you.. [ask]#🌻 📸 one for the album! [art]#🌻🌱 oh gosh that’s me! [basil]#🌻🌵boundless energy! [kel]#🌻🌷my best friend.. [omori]#🌻🌹big brother to all! [hero]#🌻🧺do you hear a piano? [mari]#🌻🌺sweet but vicious! [aubrey]#|| unfancy tags ||#traveler basil au #omori au #omori game #basil omori #kel omori #Aubrey omori #omori #Mari omori #Hero omori #[kel nuke my beloved]

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homoeroticgrappling · 1 month

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EXCLUSIVE! After securing their spot in the #AEW World Tag Team Championship Tournament, @/trentylocks, @/OrangeCassidy and @/SexyChuckieT are ready for the #BestFriends to win the big one.

#the orange on trent's knee gets me every time #poor orange suffering through the promo #''chuck gave us his blessing'' kissing the homies goodnight energy #AEW #Best Friends #Orange Cassidy #Trent?#Chuck Taylor

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