#fear the men

[chloesimaginationthings]

Abby isn't scared of any FNAF animatronic..

#myart #chloesimagination #comic #abby schmidt #fnaf gregory #music man #mini music man #fnaf #fnaf movie #security breach #fnaf fanart #five nights at freddy's #Gregory was trying to be the cool guide for Abby #only to find out Abby doesn’t fear any animatronic #Abby gives off such ‘little girl who wants to adopt an opossum as a pet’ #if that makes any sense #so the little spider music men do not scare her BAHA #SCARES Gregory for sure and is shocked she’d just pick one up like that 😭 #these two are just lil goobies #just lil guys exploring the pizzaplex 🩵

[neneisadumbpuppy]

Fuck me so hard it hurts to the point I try to crawl away from you, trembling and whining… I wanna feel helpless, I wanna feel scared, I wanna feel tiny and breakable… please👉🏻👈🏻

#dumb puppy #r4p3 fantasy #bd/sm community #r4p3 m3 #bd/sm kink #rough kink #cnc rough #rough cnc #bd/sm pet #size difference #forcedsex #fear play #sick love #somno fantasy #kidnap fantasy #stalking fantasy #size k!nk #use me use me use me #cnc free use #cnc k!nk #soft cnc #cnc daddy #puppy sub #dumb slvt #desperate puppy #rough daddy #dumb wh0re #daddy's good girl #older men do it better #1cky puppy

[sadbeauty666]

I need >////< 🩷

#mask kink #masked men #masked man #balaclava #military kink #kidnapping k1nk #kidnap fantasy #roman partizan #stalking fantasy #stalking k!nk #1cky thoughts #1cky princess #dumb bunny #send threats #send me threats #fear kink #prey kink

[awetfrog]

d'arce is very cool, actually

#stop calling her a girlfailure!! shes just got bad taste in men #fear and hunger #my art tag? #d'arce cataliss

[tokkosoap]

I fear for may 8th

#xmen #x men 97 #xmen meme #scott summers #jean grey #nathan summers #charles xavier #wolverine #nightcrawler #xmen morph #I fear episode 9 #x men spoilers #x men 97 spoilers #Charles coming back was so funny ngl #Cus what do you mean 'I hope I'm not too late' THE SCHOOL IS GONE #AND JUBILEE AND ROBERTO ARE CAPTURED YOU ARE WAY TOO LATE

[lazer-meme]

love love love steddie + supportive wanye

thinking about wayne and eddie going on an annual fishing trip (like thee Munson Men Annual Fishing Trip™️) just like a little weekend away. and the first one is coming up after eddie and steve starts dating. over breakfast eddie jokingly complains about having to go and tries to get out of it. but wayne is used to his dramatics so he just gives hmms when appropriate because eddie’s whole spiel never got him out of it before and he tells eddie that.

steve watches the whole exchange with amusement when wayne asks if he’s looking forward to it. and he’s like ??? because he assumed it was just a wayne and eddie thing. and wayne is like i just told eddie all munsons must go can’t get out of it kid.

steve gets flustered and is internally is like oh??? all munsons,,,

or like after the trip a neighbor asks wayne if they caught anything and he pulls out his wallet to show a picture they took on the trip. wayne passes it with ‘here’s a picture of my boys’ and to steve’s surprise it’s a picture of both him and eddie with their biggest catch.

and just idk wayne casually accepting steve into their family and throwing steve off guard with it.

#wayne actually keeps that picture in his wallet for the fish only he stares at it lovingly #i just love the thought of wayne ‘women love me fish fear me’ munson he doesn’t play around about his fish #which makes him inviting steve to the trip even more meaningful #also the steddie picture has them BIG CHEESEING in it like imagine their smiles the equivalent of those toddlers smiles #idk i like the idea of a cute steddie fishing picture because when i think of fishing pictures #i think of those unfortunate ones on straight men’s dating profiles so like #BAM! im making that cute and gay instead #also with these lil earnest moments eddie is always in the background like damn the old man is practically proposing for me #stranger things #steddie #steve harrington #eddie munson #wayne munson

[ato-dato]

They got me gal. They got me again.

#back when season 1 came out I couldn’t draw men let alone older ones but now I have just enough range for these idiots #I’m rewatching s1 at the moment and there’s a hyper fixation afoot I fear #prepare to be sick of me #anyway #good omens #aziraphale #crowley #ineffible husbands #art #artwork #my art #fanart #digital art #drawing #aziracrow

[floramau]

men with hamster-like deaths

#fear and hunger termina #kida tanaka #tanaka fear and hunger #henryk klimkov #henryk fear and hunger #fear and hunger #i wish they were playable ;w; i think they'd be friends ngl #my favorite plain as white bread men <3

[transmascissues]

it's silly but the biggest reason why im not into t yet is bc im so afraid of losing my hair. do you have any solutions/tips for it?

first of all, i don’t think it’s silly — it’s natural to be worried when hair loss is talked about by so many people as like…one of the worst results of aging for men. listening to my dad talk about how much he hates balding definitely did not make me feel particularly good about the knowledge that i may very well be joining him someday. i’m not saying the fear is right, because i don’t think hair loss is something awful that we should avoid at all costs, but it’s an understandable fear given the beauty standards we’re working with, and it’s one that a lot of us (myself included) feel.

one thing that’s helped me is just…paying more attention to the guys that i interact with on a daily basis. i’ve learned two things from it: 1) hair loss is super fucking common. i’d say it’s much harder to find an adult man who isn’t balding at all than it is to find one who’s completely bald. and 2) if you forget everything you’ve been told about how bad hair loss is, you’ll realize that quite frankly, every single one of those guys looks totally fucking fine. it doesn’t ruin their appearance and make them ugly, it looks totally natural and isn’t really even something you’d notice if you weren’t looking for it. we put so much weight on it but it’s really just not that big of a deal. i’ll hear my parents talk shit about men in my family who are losing their hair when i didn’t even notice a difference last time i saw them. it’s one of those things (like so many other appearance-related things) that you really only notice at all because you’ve been taught that you’re supposed to care about it.

this isn’t something i’ve done personally, but if you really want to desensitize yourself to the idea of it, embrace the time-honored queer tradition of just shaving your whole damn head! find out what you’d look like without hair, find out how you feel about it and what you can do that makes you feel good about your appearance without hair, test the waters while it’s still a temporary change and not something permanent. that way, it won’t feel like this big scary unknown, and you’ll actually have a frame of reference for your feelings about how you look without hair rather than accepting the societal assumption that you’ll inevitably hate it. if you don’t want to actually shave your head, you could also just fuck around with bald filters or photoshop and see what happens.

oh, and if you’re attracted to men, keep an eye out for guys who are bald or balding and also hot as fuck. in my experience, there’s no insecurity or potential future insecurity that being gay for other men hasn’t helped me with. just off the top of my head, i can think of a couple actors who i think are absolutely fucking gorgeous who have helped me get over my fears about losing my hair. despite what our anti-aging-obsessed world might want you to think, there is no such thing as a physical feature that automatically makes someone less attractive, and while making attractiveness less of a priority in your life is good, it can’t hurt to also give yourself some proof that actually, you might lose your hair and look hot as hell doing it.

basically, entertain the possibility that it won’t be a bad thing at all! whether that’s just because it turns out to be a neutral thing for you or because you end up actually liking it, it’s not an inherently bad thing. i’ve ended up liking a lot of things that were “supposed to” be bad effects of t — i love the weight i’ve gained and the new shape it gives my body, i get a lot of gender euphoria from the fact that my acne is now on parts of my face that i saw a lot of guys in high school get it and i’m not complaining about the scars i get from it either because i’ve always liked the added texture that acne scars give my skin, and so on. i think there’s a lot of joy to be had in the changes we’re taught to fear, once we look past that conditioning and actually explore how we feel about it.

but if it’s something you really don’t want and you just want to improve your chances of not having to deal with it, it’s not like there’s nothing you can do! products like finasteride (oral) and minoxidil (usually topical but i think there might also be oral versions) are pretty commonly used among trans guys, for the purpose of avoiding hair loss and for other reasons, and there are plenty of other anti-hair loss products out there (though i don’t know how effective any one of them might be). if it’s a big enough deal for you, you can just decide that you’ll go off of t if/when you start noticing signs of it, since no longer having higher t levels would stop the process in its tracks. and if you don’t find prevention options that work for you so it ends up happening, you can always explore different hair styles (judging by the pattern of hair loss i see in my family, i suspect that keeping my hair long would make it less obvious if i started losing mine), find your preferred method of covering it when you don’t feel good about it (personally i love a good beanie generally and would probably wear them a lot more if i didn’t have hair to worry about because my main complaint is the way they press my hair onto my neck), or just shave it all off if you don’t like the look of the partial balding but don’t mind a shaved head. the point being — you have options!

at the end of the day, whether you go on t or not, you’re going to see your body change as you age in ways that aren’t always going to be attractive to others or aesthetically pleasing to you. that’s just the reality of having a body. even if you never went on t, you’d get older and you might see your hair thin out even if you don’t bald, you’ll see your skin start to wrinkle and sag in places that used to be smooth, your metabolism might slow or your body fat might start to gather in new places; hell, you might lose your hair for a totally different reason and end up in the same place but without the benefits of having been on t that whole time. life is full of bodily changes like that. transphobes will fearmonger about the permanent changes of testosterone all day long but the truth is, there is no escaping permanent bodily changes. whether or not you go on t, your body now isn’t the same as it will be in 1 or 5 or 10 or 20 or 50 years, just like it isn’t the same as it was at any point in your life before now. our bodies are never supposed to stop growing and aging and changing throughout our lives. there’s no guaranteeing that we’ll love every single change our bodies go through, but that’s okay! there are so many things in life that are more important than the way our bodies look. even if you go on t and lose your hair and don’t like how it looks, your life won’t be ruined; plenty of other things will bring you joy and more than make up for the insecurities.

just think about the gender euphoria and relief from dysphoria that t could give you. would losing your hair be bad enough to outweigh all of that? or is it just the pressure of a society that decided balding is bad that’s making you fear one single change despite how much joy you could have if you let that fear go? only you can decide if going on t is worth the potential downsides for you, but i suspect that for most of us, the benefits of going on t far outweigh the possibility of side effects like hair loss happening down the line.

#when i say i love helping people beat their fears about t this is what i mean. i will simply write a whole essay about it #some people might think it’s silly to answer a question like this so extensively #but i don’t think it is! i feel like this is a really common fear but also one i don’t see talked about much #maybe because it’s so common among cis guys that people don’t see it as a question to ask in trans spaces? idk #but i think we should talk about it more. especially when transphobes use it as a way to talk shit about t #ask answered #testosterone #hrt #ftm hrt #hair loss #trans men #transmascs

[celaenaeiln]

At the dining table for breakfast

Jason: Heh.

Jason: Hahahaha.

Jason: MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

Bruce: *raising the newspaper up higher*

Alfred: *placidly pouring coffee into Bruce’s mug* Did something interesting happen, Master Jason?

Jason: Alfred, I am about to have the perfect surprise for that bony a-Tim. The perfect surprise for Tim.

Alfred: *putting away the bar of soap he pulled out of nowhere* Is that so? Please do be careful not to make a mess here. The waxing was just done in the dining room.

Jason: No problem, in fact-

Tim: *entering sluggishly*

Jason: In fact…in…fact…Megamind, what are you doing here?

Tim: ……..hm?

Jason: What are you doing here?

Tim: eating??

Jason: You-why are you coming from the right side bathroom-weren’t you going to use the upstairs one on the left?

Tim: oh. Dick was already in it so I decided to use the other one.

Jason: what.

Tim: what.

Jason: No. Hahahahaha. You’re joking…nononono-god, Tim, WHY ARE YOU SO STUPID?

Tim: ????????

Jason: You-

Dick’s voice thundering from a floor away: JASON!!!!

Jason: *staring blankly then running forward and smacking Tim on the head* It’s all your fault!

Tim who hasn’t slept or had coffee or know why something he doesn’t know about is his fault: ???? WHAT DID I DO?!

Jason: *running past and leaping out the window* See you later, losers. Bye, Alf.

Disappearing seconds before a blur of wet skin, white towel, and neon pink hair rushes past and follows him out the window.

Tim:

Bruce:

Tim: ……Did you have breakfast yet?

Bruce: …….Hrmgh.

Alfred: *tutting* I just had the floors done. Master Bruce, would you mind redoing them? I’m afraid I must catch the mailman before he gives treats to Titus again. He’s leaving crumbs all over the entrance.

Bruce: What about Ti-

Bruce: *glancing back to see a lone leaf float in and drop slowly to the ground*

Bruce: ………

#Tim felt the foreboding feeling of housework and ran so fast the wind ripped the leaves from the nearby oak tree #Jason tried to prank Tim by switching out the shampoo and conditioner with hair dye and bleach #It wouldn’t have worked anyway because he doesn’t know that Tim uses an 80 in 1 men’s shampoo #The bath products were Dick’s #And Dick loves his hair #Dick has also instilled the fear of the mother/brother into all his younger siblings #Bludhaven’s gonna have a new Red Hood and Gotham’s gonna have a new Nightwing #from how red Dick’s face is and how black and blue Jason’s gonna be #Bruce wanted no part of this the moment he heard Jason’s Freddy Krueger laugh #dick grayson #nightwing #jason todd #red hood #tim drake #red robin #bruce wayne #batman #alfred pennyworth #batfam incorrect quotes #sibling behavior

[uncanny-tranny]

When I was a young trans guy, I used to have a huge irrational fear of being hit in the groin and needing to overinflate the pain I felt because I wanted to pass in every scenario. However, now, I think if that ever happened to me, I would just stand there like 😐 so everybody can admire that I am just so tough.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #nonbinary #i keep seeing other trans people/trans men*/transmascs/trans guys*/ect talking about this exact fear. do we live the same lives #basically i want people to think i have balls of pure steel (correct) #like it was such an irrational fear that probably took up too many of my precious few thoughts

[icaruspendragon]

i just got a new tattoo and i’m so excited over the prospect of people asking me what it means. because they’ll probably expect me to say it’s a quote found in some classic novel or poem or some shit but what i’ll actually say is, “how familiar are you with destiel fanfic?” and from there, the possibilities are endless. last night some guy at the bar who was hitting on me made the mistake of asking me about it and instead of getting my number, he got a comprehensive history of the impact a cw show (that he had not seen) had on fandom, fanfic, and literature itself.

#spn #fandom #fanfic #heheheh #men want me #men fear me

[genderkoolaid]

i understand the motive behind statements like "real men wear pink!" and what they are trying to do but consider this: reifying the idea of real vs fake manhood sucks actually. we should not perpetuate the idea of manhood as a test of honour that you can fail & that failing is bad. thats patriarchy 101 babe

#gets myself a croptop that says ''fake men wear pink too'' #but yeah um. so much bad comes from the threat of emasculation #like when acceptance into proper manhood = survival then ppl are always motivated to do terrible shit out of fear #and people will always be attacked and hurt for failing

[denjidenjiji]

I put too much effort into this, just to NOT like it. maybe I’ll redraw Marcoh in the future because he deserves better..

#funger #fear and hunger fanart #fear and hunger termina #f&h #funger fanart #funger termina #marcoh #fear and hunger marcoh #art #digital art #ibispaintx #Please ignore the missing jacket I physically couldn’t #He’s the sweetest boy ever #I lobe him #phone art #I need a break so I’ll be dead #Probably #buff men

[fear-and-shitpost]

1v1 -🌻

#fear and hunger #f&h #funger #fear and hunger shitpost #shitpost #cahara #f&h cahara #f&h ragnvaldr #ragnvaldr fear and hunger #cahara fear and hunger #ragnvaldr #fear and hunger le'garde #le'garde #f&h le'garde #ibispaintx #the girls are fighting #the girls in fact are adult men

[gwemmieee]

I didn't realize how much it would help with my fear of men to just, like entertain the idea that men are people too in a big public post and then see a bunch of men reblog it with big thank yous. There's a certain innocence and happiness I used to have that certain masculine people took away from me that's starting to come back now.

I always assumed I would have to wait until I have the chance to meet a really good person who goes out of their way to keep me comfortable and befriend me who happens to be a man. And that's still kinda true. But these small online interactions are helping a lot 😊

And I like that I can still mix this happy innocence with all the new and really good techniques I've learned under duress around how to avoid future situations with bad men like the ones I've had.

#healing #trauma #androphobia #transmisandry #transandrophobia #fear of men