#forget your trauma

[mycptsdstory]

I HATE when people tell me "just forget about your trauma" or "just get over it" or even "just be happy".

Like, how?? I get flashbacks everyday and sometimes multiple times a day.

How can someone "forget trauma"?

How can someone "get over trauma"?

How can someone "just be happy" over trauma"?

LIKE, FUCKING HOW???

It really annoys me and VERY triggering too.

Does anyone else get annoyed and triggered by that statement?

#forget your trauma #just get over it #just be happy #enabling behaviour #enablers #cptsdhealing #living with cptsd #cptsd problems #cptsd thoughts #cptsd vent #actually cptsd #just cptsd things #tw cptsd #actually ptsd #cptsd tag

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

I'm sorry I let down my guard.

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#poorly drawn mdzs #mdzs #xue yang #xiao xingchen #God DAMN this scene was brutal. Season 2 episode 2 is almost nothing but misery and anguish #Helena by Nickle Creek does not quite fit the comic's vibe but it is absolutely a Xue Yang song so I linked it. #The change from “Helena don't walk away...(gentle)” to “HELENA. DON'T WALK AWAY (threat)” is fantastic. #And “Don't waste your pretty sympathy - I'll always be just fine”. Xue Yang core. #Okay now for the real meat. Disclaimer first: *I really like XY.* I think he's a great character. I think his actions consistently- #come from a place of deep trauma. While his reactions and actions put him in a villainous role he is still human about his hurt #and what I'm about to say is NOT intended to be a statement of causality or villianize a group of misunderstood people. #So with that said...Man oh man does Xue Yang have a lot of BPD traits. More that just 'character who is chronically manipulative'. #The impulsivity and emotional reactions and seeking stability makes him feel like he needs that control. What other choice is there? #The part that really gets me is how he *wants* to be safe and happy. But his past experiences tell him how thats impossible #He's the kind of person who goes 'if you don't like me then you better hate me for something substantial". All (pos) or All (neg) #''Love me entirely or Hate me. But don't you dare leave me or forget about me.'' #Not at all comfortable saying 'BPD coded'. Im not a psychiatrist. Just that he has TRAITS. Feel free to disagree or add your thoughts. #ppl with bpd also are not a monolith and everyone has very different experiences. Xue yang is very complex. People more so.

[lostinalem]

he would not fucking say that

unsquished and unblurred boone below?

didn't put as much attention in the details because. he got blurred. but might as well share :3

#sparkle off. it's trauma time. don't forget that it's all your fault. #the courier made this meme by hand with michael angelo's camera and glitter glue they found in the goodsprings schoolhouse #dont like this one that much but thats ok art is about having fun and i had fun #fallout new vegas #fnv #craig boone #boone #sparkle on! #>:3

[lesbiancabdriver]

Mean Streets saint cards

#mean streets #mean streets 1973 #martin scorsese #johnny boy civello #charlie cappa #teresa ronchelli #featuring two caravaggios #😌 #what if YOU wanted to forget your catholic school trauma #but scorsese said NO

[beautifuldarkmind]

BPD culture is getting worked up to the point of becoming physically ill (throwing up/stomach issues etc) because you felt rejected/abandoned by your favourite person

#let's not forget getting the shits too.. your whole body fucks up lol #bpd #mental health #mental illness #borderline personality disorder #anxious #trauma #bpd splitting #fp #bpd fp #bpd culture #bpd awareness #actually eupd #actually bpd #actually borderline #actually mentally ill #actually traumatized #borderline personality #borderline thoughts #personal #borderline things #mentally fucked #mentally unstable #eupd #eupd recovery #living with bpd #bpd life #bpd blog #splitting #borderline rant

[0lympian-c0uncil]

Poseidon, *gesturing to Demeter*: Hera, look what you did! You made Mom upset!

Hades: Mom, please don’t cry, we’re sorry!

Hera: I’m sorry Mom.....

Demeter, *near tears*: .....Wha- What....

#when you raise your younger siblings and they forget that you are their sister and not their mom #older sibling trauma be like #demeter #poseiden #hades #hera #greek gods #greek mythology #incorrect greek gods #incorrect greek god quotes #incorrect greek mythology #incorrect greek quotes

[thankstothe]

He's so fucked

#house md #robert chase #remy hadley #13 #jessica adams #screencap #s07e22 “after hours” #s08e05 “confession” #s08e06 “parents” #the guy has it all the baggage the damage the signature stare #*slaps his roof so hard it resonates* a lot of space for to fit all the trauma religion and dine forget abusive family #all of it primo rot and still barely processed #now how does 250 sounds for whole package #i can knock it down to 200 #but im not going under 175 #oh you still have to think about it? ok no problem. ill be here tomorrow but make your mind quick i dont sell wreck like this everyday

[fanficsforheartandsoul]

Russian!Reader: Therapy

Reader with Taskforce 141 and SpecGru:

Reader: I recently spent some money on therapy.

Gromsko, whistling quietly:

Gaz: Sounds like a good investment.

Soap: Yeah, Y/N, that's great. How's it going so far?

Reader: Unfortunately, I already drank half of it.

Gaz: 'Drank'...?

Soap:

Reader walking away: Thanks again, Gromsko.

Ghost: Care to explain?

Gromsko: I bought Y/N a Polmos Spirytus Rektyfikowany Vodka bottle.

#Soap: 96 % ALCOHOL BY VOLUME??!!? #Gaz: Why does Y/N consider that therapy? #Ghost: probably because you forget your trauma and black out instantly after just one sip #Reader: *happily drinks the rest* #call of duty #call of duty Gromsko #gromsko #Sobieslaw Kościuszko #SpecGru #taskforce 141 #call of duty incorrect quotes #call of duty modern warfare II #modern warfare II incorrect quotes #modern warefare 2 #ghost #kyle gaz garrick #soap #simon ghost riley #simon riley #john mactavish #john soap mactavish

[smokeandhubris]

i love love love media that loves the world. i want to be reminded that the universe is so incomparably beautiful and complex. i want to be shown that life is messy and broken and it hurts so bad but it’s so so so beautiful and you can’t help loving it anyway. there are people out there, wonderful ones who will stay by your side if you’ll let them. there is the sun and the warmth of it and the light. there is the path between the trees and the sandwich shop down the road and the river in the paddock and is that wonderful and isn’t that worth living for. i love when media tells you it’s okay to be broken and it’s okay to be hurting and it’s okay to live despite it. tell me i am worth saving. tell me to listen to the rain falling on tin rooftops and fall in love with life. tell me that the world loves me too.

#when u get too silly and start going on and on about how much u love living: #this is because i played disco elysium by the way #i totally underestimated shivers but it’s actually my favourite skill in the game. you love your city and your city loves you back. #wow. and suddenly im reminded of all thats good in life #trauma dump but i have such poor luck in life that more often than not im conviced life itself hates me #but i like to remind myself that living in itself is such a gift and im very grateful for it. i wont let my setbacks make me forget that. #got too silly again #ehe #lou talks

[crippled-peeper]

I had a nightmare about being stuck in a bathtub and unable to get out on my own and almost drowning. it was super triggering. and I can’t help but think about how many people use “bathing issues” as an example that paralysis and neurodiversity are the same. but I literally have never heard of an ablebodied nd have nightmares or fears like mine

#yay psychological trauma #drowning tw #this is why I still avoid bathing years later #your body does not forget

[skimpilydressedwithanaxe]

Do you think that C-137 and Prime were actually romantically involved in canon?

I think about it so hard its ruining my life

I know this headcanon is solely based on a bunch of lines thrown in there by Rick and fueled by my delusions and the fics I read but yes, I believe that, partly because it’s fun, partly because it adds to the drama to believe Prime’s a bitter, broken hearted ex out for revenge.

#thinking about them so hard I became allergic to fruits #i know technically it doesn’t even make sense #unless the whole ‘let c137 marinate for 40 years in his trauma’ bit was part of the plan #like if he was out for revenge like I say he would’ve found a way to fuck with c137 #rick prime #rick c137 #ask #also I didn’t forget ur request I just have a lot of schoolwork just eating away my personal free time #but your skunkadoodledoo will be drawn I promise 💔

[43sol]

lunapii lunapyon my beloved below cut is terrible joke 😬

#tiger and bunny #tiger and bunny 2 #ngl i was bout to slap kotetsu too if he said that to me #yuri after trauma dumping about his dad: might as well out myself as the homicidal maniac he's been chasing #post-ep25 forgetting you work with the people that just saw you drama dive off of a building #meeting your moral nemesis that beat your ass into the concrete last night at his 8am property damage court trial because you're the judge #socially he's dead but in my heart he's alive #also the fact lunapii got the worst news of his life. murdered some guys. took a gov call in his little torture chamber man cave. #-trauma dumped. got disrespected. in the same night and still went to work the next day?? unparalleled

[kienium]

skyward sword is like catnip to queer people with religious trauma

#kie rambles #skyward sword #loz skyward sword #loz sksw #tloz skyward sword #tloz sksw #hello queer people with religious trauma. how is the childhood friends to goddess and her champion going #are the dynamics strained? is the protagonist questioning his love and faith? are there feelings of betrayal? #are you sympathizing with the enemy? overanalyzing zelda's connection with divinity vs humanity? her offscreen journey on the surface? #the difference between what is right and what is divine? the conviction of the hero to save his friend despite his inner conflict? #oh to be devoted to a god who remarkably loves you back #yet despite her power does nothing to save you. to receive god's apology and feel it is sincere enough to forgive. or do you? #anyway :3c i hope you're having fun. drink your water and dont forget to refill your meds besties

[naamahdarling]

.

#just know that if you work in medicine you're probably hurting people and the best thing you can do is try not to do it deliberately #and believe people when they tell you that you've hurt them #or that others have #and kick your colleagues in the taint until they stop being assholes about medical trauma caused by their profession #front desk staff have more power than patients do and it scales up from there and don't you forget it #DAs never let medpros be sued in criminal court which means patients have to have money to hold them accountable in civil court #and that's making some of you mighty fucking cocky #also if you're fatphobic or transphobic or suspicious of people on scheduled meds you can suck bees out of my ass #rambling again

[emiliosandozsequence]

i gotta say, i don't get where you guys are coming from when you compare dean and laura palmer because, between dean and sam, if anyone is an addict who got amazing grades and did stuff for everyone and convinced everyone they were doing fine while being abused......it certainly wasn't dean

#sometimes i think you guys just....forget everything meaningful in terms of trauma about sam's character because dean is your fav #emilio.txt

[struggling-to-find-home]

Me: I wonder why I feel like shit and have no energy to do anything

Me, a few days later: Ah, it was trauma processing

#from what I deduced from my own body‚ there are two types of processing: active and passive #active is: Congrats!! Your body is now going to be reliving the terror you once experienced and had to push down! #It will be fucking awful‚ but at least after this the specific trigger won't exist in the system!! good luck dealing with the aftermath tho #passive is: you are going to slowly feel like shit over a few days as the body slowly processes the trauma‚ but the bad effects will #fade almost immediately after you are done. Good luck feeling like shit for no particular reason‚ though! #for some reason I almost always forget about the second one so every time it happens or ends I'm just like *surprised Pikachu face* #anywayssssssss #toxic family #toxic household #dysfunctional family #toxic parents #toxic mother #dysfunctional parents #trauma memes #trauma processing