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#gender noncomformity
butchbussy · 3 days
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hot take, but i think that if we can see cisgender men in skirts and dresses and still view them as masculine or comfortable in their masculinity that we should be able to look at transgender men or butches the same way.
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nonbinary-polls · 2 days
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pronounpinbadge · 2 years
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i love you girls who are not women i love you guys who are not men
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jiabeewrites · 11 months
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HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!
pride polls: gender edition
put your pronouns in the tags!
reblog to support another genderqueer!
(you'll probaby get a happy pride msg if i see u reblogged)
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heartless-aro · 1 year
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For many girls and women, aromanticism is inherently a form of gender nonconformity, just as asexuality is for boys and men.
Romance novels are seen as being “feminine,” and romcoms are often derogatorily called “chick-flics,” for example. Women are expected to want flowers and chocolates and care about things like anniversaries and marriage to a greater extent than is expected of men. Even many of the things women are expected to do to conform to female gender roles are centered around looking attractive: having long well-styled hair, wearing makeup, shaving, wearing skirts and dresses, etc.
So shoutout to aro women and girls who want to be feminine but feel like their aromanticism makes them feel like an outsider to womanhood. Shout out to women and girls who feel left out of “girl talk” because they don’t have a crush or significant other to tell their friends about, or because they don’t think any of their classmates/coworkers/etc. are “cute.” Shout out to aro girls who are sick of being asked “who you’re dressing up for” any time they want to wear a bit of eyeliner and a pretty skirt. Your femininity is not made any less real or valid by your aromanticism.
And shoutout to gender nonconforming aro women and girls. Shoutout to aro women and girls whose aromanticism makes them feel disconnected from femininity. Shoutout to aro women and girls with short hair, and deep voices, and hair on their upper lips, chins, chests, stomachs, backs, armpits, arms, and legs that they choose not to shave off. Shoutout to aro women and girls who identify as both female and non-binary, who are both male and female, who use pronouns other than she/her. Shoutout to intersex aro girls and women. Y’all’re cool as hell and the aro community wouldn’t nearly as beautiful and vibrant without you.
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magpiethepunkfairy · 8 months
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I love you "weird" queer people
multigender people, trans people who are sometimes cis, queer people who are sometimes straight, trans people who don't want and will not transition, trans and nonbinary people who don't want binary bodys, queer platonic relationship havers, rabies flag people, people who's queer identity is influenced or directly tied to their mental health, queer people with different dissociative disorders, people whos identity is tied to their nerodiversity, identitys that are fluid and constantly changing, queer people who don't feel human, poly aroaces, people who's identitys can't and don't need to be labeled, I love you I love you I love you
Do what ever you want forever
Queer as in fuck you
Queer as in I love you
Queer as in weird!!!
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oediex · 4 months
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I don't know if anyone needs to hear this but if you're gender non-conforming, I love you. Your existence makes me happy. I see you in the street and I smile.
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shout out to mfs with no pronouns at all
we rly said: don't refer to me. matter of fact, don't perceive me at all
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immortalthings · 7 months
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Me, very upset right now at my homophobic school.
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itsyaboi-ray · 2 years
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Paldea really said nonbinary and gnc people ONLY
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nonbinary-polls · 29 days
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digipuni · 2 months
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^_^ prickly!!!!! feeling cute doesn't mean you have to be hairless〜
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catgirl-kaiju · 1 year
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Just curious, what's the "pink scare"?
I misspoke; I was referring to the Lavender Scare.
The Lavender Scare was an American political movement that lasted roughly from 1947 to 1956, paralleling the 2nd Red Scare. It was largely helmed by Joe McCarthy and Roy Cohn and was a targeted campaign of political attack against queer people. The reasoning behind it was that gay men and lesbians constituted a threat against national security because their "subversive behavior" (not being straight) meant they somehow had strong connections to communism and, therefore, the USSR.
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The movement resulted the outing and firing of hundreds of queer people from government jobs (ranging from politicians, clerks, military personnel, and contractors working with the government) with the State Department reporting that by 1953, they had fired 425 people under allegations of homosexuality. It also resulted in Dwight D. Eisenhower's Executive Order 10450, which fully barred any "homosexuals" from working any positions in the federal government.
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EO 10450 was partially repealed in 1975 largely in response to young men using claims of homosexuality to dodge the Vietnam draft, and again in 1995 when the Bill Clinton administration instituted the "Don't Ask Don't Tell" policy for military personnel. It wasn't fully and completely repealed until 1998 with the Bill Clinton passing Executive Order 13087, which prohibited any such discrimination in federal employment and wasn't EXPLICITLY repealed until Barack Obama's Executive Order 13764 wich took effect in 2017.
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The cultural effect was an amplification of pre-existing societal homophobia to violent extremes and the promotion of the idea that queer people are inherently dangerous to "American freedom and democracy". Fun fact, Roy Cohn was actually a gay man who was very openly in sexual and romantic relationships with many men, even during The Lavender Scare, bit considered himself to be different from other gay men, basically because he was a dominant top. He died of AIDS while being part of the federal government's inaction campaign in response to the pandemic.
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If you want to read more about it, the Wikipedia page is a decent place to start.
The point I was making in regards to there being a 2nd Lavender Scare happening right now is in reference to the growing wave of targeted transphobic policies and violence from the political right and the liberal inaction in response to it.
I'd say that this new Lavender Scare started in 2017 with Trump's banning of trans people from entering the military and has continued to the present day when it is rapidly escalating with no end in sight.
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The main characteristics of this new scare, in my opinion are:
A targeting of trans people, gender non-conformity, and drag performance as subversive elements in society that pose a danger to the "traditional family", christian hegemony, and the wellbeing of children.
The platforming of extremist right-wing propaganda from various sources in mainstream media and political discourse, which all spout unified transphobic talking points that inspire discriminatory policies and violence through stochastic terrorism.
Transphobic policies being passed into law at a rapid pace on the state level in multiple states, with little to no federal intervention. (This refers to the US specifically)
Domestic stochastic terrorist attacks on queer spaces that prominently feature and support trans communities and drag performance, which are inspired by transphobic right-wing propaganda.
The boosting of TERF voices who pitch the same transphobic talking points as the right, from a pseudo-leftist perspective that serves as an alternate route of attack in the insemination of violent transphobia into the mainstream. (This is especially prevalent in the UK)
The "groomer" narrative, which links trans people, gender non-conformity, and drag performance to pedophilia in an effort to evoke strong emotional reactions from misinformed people prone to bigotry and reactionary thinking. This tactic can also be seen in action with the Q-Anon conspiracy cult.
Utilizing trans people, gender non-conformity, and drag performance as scapegoats for economic decline, political unrest, and poor quality of life in order to disract from the systems actually responsible for these problems.
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Armed Proud Boy protest against the Holi-Drag Storytime in Columbus, Ohio, and counter protesters protecting the event.
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Protesters against Florida's "Don't Say Gay" bill
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I would also like to add that unlike the 1st Lavender Scare, this is not just an American phenomenon but part of a clear and roughly coordinated multinational right-wing movement and is presenting just as prevalently in the UK (albeit in a slightly different form). It is dangerous to leave this reactionary movement unstated and unnamed, lest is become normalized.
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bi-radiance · 2 years
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I love you gnc women I love you girls who don’t shave I love you gals who never wear make up I love you women in suits I love you muscular women I love androgynous gals and masculine girls I love you tomboys I love you gender non conformity in women
[this includes all women, cis or trans]
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magis-ghast · 27 days
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I love you he/him lesbians
I love you non-binary people with beards
I love you pan polyam people with only one partner of the opposite sex
I love you trans women who dress like tomboys
I love you gender non conforming cis men with girlfriends
I love you gay men who go to football games and hate wearing heels
I love you asexual people who dress in as little as possible
I love you queer men with wives
I love you intersex women who fight to feel like their bodies are theirs again
I love you gender-fluid people who dress the same way every day
I love you lesbians with trans boyfriends
I love you bi people who haven't had a partner yet
I love you trans singers who don't do voice training
I love you neopronoun users
I love you it/its people who like being called gendered names in bed
I love you, queer people.
I love you, trans people.
I love you, people you use approximated labels because nothing fits exactly right.
I love you, unlabeled people or people who's labels change monthly, weekly, or even daily.
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silly-centipede · 7 months
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There seems to be a wave of appreciating girlhood and traditional femininity and while this is great we have to remember that there is space “masculine” traits in girlhood and femininity and there is room for men in girlhood (nonbinary people, some transmascs, Multigender people, gender-fluid people, two spirit people etc) and femininity
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