#hes bi not pan

[arrowheadedbitch]

Dick: Let's play two truths and a lie!

Tim: Okay, I have a higher kill count than Damian and Jason combined, I'm pansexual, and I'm toying with the idea of becoming a supervillain when Bruce dies for real.

Dick:

Dick: I don't like this game anymore

#hes bi not pan #tim drake #red robin #robin #rr #chaotic tim drake #batfam #unhinged tim drake #dick grayson #nightwing #two truths and a lie

[saffigon]

reminder that mspec lesbians and male lesbians and he/him lesbians and trans(masc/neu/fem) lesbians have existed for decades and are fucking amazing lesbians that deserve space in the lesbian community

#mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #bisexual lesbian #pan lesbian #pansexual lesbian #he/him lesbian #male lesbian #lesboy #lesboys #transgender #transmasc #transneu #transfem #transgender lesbian #trans lesbian #butch #butch lesbian #boydyke

[lesbianpolls]

happy lesbian visibility week to all lesbians!! all lesbians are important and valued members of the lesbian community!! this includes trans lesbians, intersex lesbians, he/him lesbians, nonbinary lesbians, lesboys and male lesbians, transmasc lesbians, multigender lesbians, butch and femme lesbians, aspec lesbians, polyamorous lesbians, mspec/bi/pan/omni/abro/etc lesbians, gaybians and straightbians, any and all good faith lesbians!! you belong in the lesbian community!! fuck the exclusionists!!

#lesbian #lesbians #lesbian visibility week #lesbian week of visibility #trans lesbian #intersex lesbian #he/him lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #lesboy #male lesbian #transmasc lesbian #butch #femme #mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #omni lesbian #abro lesbian #gaybian #straightbian #inclusive lesbian

[intersexfairy]

happy lesbian visibility week to people who have complicated relationships with lesbianism and mixed feelings on their identity. you don't have to be a lesbian the way others are. you don't have to have all the answers now, either. your lesbianism is yours, complexities and questionings and all. you deserve to have pride and be supported, no matter what.

#ifairy #lesbian visibility week #lesbian #lesbian pride #lesbian man #lesboy #mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #lesbian men #male lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #he/him lesbian #pan lesbian #trans lesbian #mspec #sapphic #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #gay #gay pride #gaybian #lgbt pride #queer #queer pride #qlw #nlw #wlw #lgbtq pride #pride

[awesomechocolatesauce]

So, I found this comment on a video where Neil Newbon, the voice actor of Astarion, confirms that Astarion is, in fact, pansexual. Not gay, but pansexual, and this person still feels the need to try to debunk it, then has the gall to be like "IT FEELS LIKE GAY ERASURE TO MAKE A CLEARLY GAY MAN BI/PAN FOR MARKETING PURPOSES" when they were literally spouting bi/pan erasure just because Astarion is theatrical and talks about men.

So... who's going to tell them that Astarion flirts with Shadowheart and Lae'zel, too? Who's going to tell them that relying on stereotypes is bad?

"It's so weird to watch Astarion romance videos with a female Tav". Well, it shouldn't. He's pansexual. If you can't stomach it, that's your problem.

#baldur's gate 3 #bg3 #astarion #baldur's gate iii #bg3 astarion #lgbtqpia #pansexuality #lgbtqia #lgbt #why do people keep insisting he's gay? #yes he does talk about men #that doesn't mean anybody else isn't an option #will I ever stop being mad at people who keep insisting he's gay? #no #no I will not #jessica's personal stuff #pan erasure #bi erasure

[sydsixxftm]

Being a hairy overweight he/him dyke f'ing rules! I am so hot

#nonbinary dyke #ftm dyke #nonbinary man #transmasc nsft #ftm nsft #enby nsft #queer nsft #bi nsft #pan nsft #t4t nsft #he/him lesbian #trans man lesbian #bi trans masc #hairy butch #hairy tummy #I love my trans body #trans bodys are beautiful #trans masc nsft #boydyke

[ingravinoveritas]

"Was John Taylor from Duran Duran your first ever crush?"

This is fine. I'm fine...

#michael sheen #welsh seduction machine #the assembly #i am 99% sure he will say yes to that one #bless his bisexual Welsh chaos #i will take any opportunity to hear Michael talk about his attractions to men #but if he actually says he is bi (or pan) i will lose my entire mind #i think Michael has been telling us exactly who he is for a long time now #amazing #can't wait to watch

[buddhamethods]

how is it that i find out from a random insta vid that nut is queer? why didn't this information come to me in a premonition or a prophetic dream??

#i guess he is bi or pan because apparently in the full vid he talks about a relationship with a woman as well #but then again im don't want to assume or speculate because im not a goblin freak bitch #it just feels nice that he is one of us 😌 #Instagram #pit babe the series #pit babe cast #nut supanut

[milomilesmib]

Nico: why is Leo clinging to you like that?

Jason: a few hours ago he heard me singing "Nobody Loves Me" and thought I genuinely felt unloved and had a mental breakdown so I offered him comfort and he's been here ever since.

Nico:

Nico: oh, honey.

#nico is the “honey” gay #leo is the clingy bi #jason is the confused pan #open for suggestions on that though #nico thinking of when he was in his clingy phase with will #also if you think nico is actually cold and scary i have to disagree #he is soft and lovely but just closed off because of his fear of losing people #but the second he gets attached he is SO clingy and sweet #percy jackson #heroes of olympus #nico di angelo #pjo #trials of apollo #hoo text post #pjo text post #toa #jason grace #toa text post #valgrace #leo valdez #percy jackson and the olympians #percy jackson text post #heroes of olympus text post #trials of apollo text post #leo valdez text post #jason grace text post #jason grace x leo valdez #leo valdez x jason grace #nico di angelo text post

[steddielations]

*sighs dreamily* steve being eddie’s queer awakening

#steddie #btw i’m here for queer eddie #bi gay pan whichever whatever i’m here for queer eddie #i actually headcanon that he considers his entire self queer and doesn’t label it beyond that but #and likes who he likes #but this fandom makes me ahhh. nervous to talk about that #and ​don’t get me started on my non binary eddie headcanons…

[saffigon]

Happy Lesbian Visibility Week to "Controversial" Lesbians!

He/Him Lesbians Nonbinary Lesbians Male Lesbians and Lesboys Straightbians and Gaybians Mspec Lesbians AroAce Lesbians

"Controversial" lesbians are amazing and powerful and deserve space in the lesbian community

#he/him lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #enby lesbian #male lesbian #lesboy #straightbian #gaybian #mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #pan lesbian #omni lesbian #abro lesbian #poly lesbian #aroace lesbian #aroace #lesbian visibility week #lesbian

[tenderpreyy]

​I’m thinking again about Astarions sexuality and how I've seen some people (to be fair, just a few) talk about it. Mainly, people pointing out his flamboyant behavior, and that us as players are learning more about his past male lovers than female ones and basically all these things for some people pointing to him being gay or at least not interested in women in the same way he is in men. And him only being a romance option regardless of gender, because, well, all companions are and he is therefore just "playersexual", only showing interest in female player characters because he has to, because of the game mechanics.

I think what really rubs me the wrong way about this topic is that it echoes the kind of things bi/pan people (speaking as a bisexual woman myself) find themselves dealing with irl. Whether through some form of internalized biphobia or from the outside through other people's comments. Of course this is about a fictional character so it’s not like he has any feelings that could be hurt. But when i see people tallying up how often he mentions men vs. how often he mentions women it really reminds me of a way of thinking I sometimes fall into in regards to my own sexuality. This is definitely just an internalized response and not something I actually believe when I truly think about it for a second, but I know these patterns of thought very well. Of observing my own behavior. How often do I find which gender attractive? Am I attracted "enough" to women? Do I talk about men's attractiveness too often? Is it the other way around? Am I only saying this woman is attractive to prove something to myself? I literally have a girlfriend and my attitude towards mine or other's sexual orientation is generally a huge big "whatever, I don't care". And I still have a passing thought like that from time to time.

So seeing people talk about a fictional character in this way really sends home how many people (whether consciously or unconsciously) see attraction as some sort of equation, you can solve, where in the end you get a result of either gay or straight.

#bg3 #baldurs gate 3 #baldur's gate 3 #astarion #this has been sitting in my drafts for a few days but i thought why not just post it. its been on my mind. #i saw someone in the notes under a post about astarion literally counting off how often he mentions men vs women #and asking for proof of where he shows he is in fact attracted to women. #like... do you see what you're doing here?? #aaaand another thing since people love bringing up his flamboyancy.... he is obviously playing that up a lot #because you know... that whole 'i have to seduce people so i am safe' thing #not saying that thats not also the real him but breaking it down to flamboyant=gay makes even less sense in the context. #its not that i think people shouldn't headcanon him as gay or asexual or whatever #i think thats great too. seeing different people's readings of the character. #just.... leave out the bi-/panphobia ffs. people dont have to show proof that they are in fact bi/pan.

[seraphsfire]

oh my GOD i finlaly got to the place in neil's stream where the character he invented is banging the character he invented and she (player character) picks up astarion to do some Adult Fantasy Game things and neil just blurts out "oooh, mommy?" ,MSDFOIWYHEGTHSDHSG

#NEIL IS SUCH A BAD BOY #ALSO HE MENTIONED BOTH HIM AND TOM HAVING ADHD I CALLED IT SO HARD #POOR THEO SOLOMON HAVING TO SEE THIS SHIT KSKDFJSHDGHG #neil newbon #bg3 #bg3 spoilers #tbd? #neil: this is getting a little wierd even for me / also neil: MOMMY? oh wait she's/im kind of hot .... omg look at astarions abs... #starting to think he wants to make a neil sandwich with each of them on either side #he did call astarion 'my boyfriend' last stream rip #its ok king i see u its how everybody with bi/pan panic feels in this game

[prismatic-starstuff]

you know what sometimes self-care is just straight up blocking someone who erases a character's canon pansexual identity

#yes i am talking specifically about astarion #he's pan. neil newbon - voice actor who obviously worked with the studio - said so himself on stream. fucking cope. #sincerely: a pansexual who's so fucking tired of erasure from all sides #also don't come at me with 'playersexual' #astarion's confirmed pan and iirc karlach is confirmed bi #so there's no reason to assume any of the rest are 'playersexual' either #y'know what sure i'll tag this #baldur's gate iii #astarion

[flootzavut]

Bless Joey for referring to Jaskier as pan, bi, and queer. I absolutely headcanon Jask as a give me more labels gay who'd be insulted if you tried to make him choose one, but also just Joey getting the widest rep he can into one character 🥹

#joey batey #jaskier #the witcher #spoilers #the witcher spoilers #witcher spoilers #I keep thinking about that #I love him #I have screenshots of all of them somewhere if anyone really wants them #but the tl;dr: version is he used pan bi and queer to describe Jaskier #I love him your honour

[your-stranger-halfblood-things]

Robin: What's your type?

Nancy: You, so whatever type you are

Robin: Steve, what about you?

Steve *cries in bisexuality who had a crush on everyone in the friend group*: I was gonna say humans, but that wouldn't even include Eddie

Eddie: Yes, always include the vampires

Jonathan: I like people who are nice to me *glances at Nancy and Argyle*

Argyle: From brochacho to brochacho, I like stoner boyfriends and girlfriends, and luckily Jonathan fits into both of those categories!

Robin: Cheers to us, the spicy six!

*everyone raises a juice box*: CHEERS!

#jonathan is genderfluid #everyone is gay lesbian bi or pan #steve doesnt have standards he will date anyone as long as they accept he has seven kids #kas vampire eddie #vampire eddie munson #vampire!eddie #kas eddie munson #kas theory #spicy six #fruity four #fruity everyone at this point #fruity six #stranger things #steddie #jargyle #ronance #robin buckley #steve harrington #eddie munson #jonathan byers #argyle #old jancy #platonic jancy