#poly dating

[witchy-vibes96]

#dm me #dms open #im bored #message me #valentines day #extra thicc #poly #natural bewbs #flirty #polyam #bi girls #bi polyam #poly dating #poly girl #poly girlfriend #ethical non monogamy #bootiful #thicc af #girlswholikegirls #gay girl #curvy girls #alt girl #big tiddy goth girl

[polyamorousmood]

Wanna make a poll🗳️ about how common different accommodations for insecurity/boundaries/jealousy/general relationship harmony are but I feel like it'd be skewed if I had to come up with the options on my own. Like, don't discuss X with them/me, scheduling considerations, and sexual safety ones I think are pretty common but I'm sure there's more. So.

🤔What things do you do for your partner or ask your partner to do for you in regards to making the whole poly thing work?

#feel free to send in asks if you don't want to put it in the notes of this #delete later #polyamory #poly dating #poly relationships

[doctor-of-war-and-heartache]

Hey all! I need some advice from fellow polyamorous folks.

Here's the situation (tdlr at the bottom): my partner and I are both poly but in different ways. I find myself desiring relationships with others where my partner is also involved, like a throuple. My partner desires relationships with others where I am not involved at all.

We've tried dating other people as well as each other but separate (my partners way) and it was extremely detrimental to my mental health. So I decided that I was going to only date my partner and not even look for or entertain anything or anyone else, but my partner was still going to date others.

This hasn't been working for me either. I find myself getting jealous and bitter about these other people, two emotions that I do not want to be having in the slightest. I have voiced these opinions to my partner and we're going to talk more about it but I wanted to see if anyone had any advice for me for this conversation.

Tdlr: I know that theyre my person and i want to stay with them but i also want my partner to be able to love others the way that they do but am having negative emotions about it. Does anyone have any advice for other ideas for compromise or how else we can approach this in order to get what we both desire out of our other relationships?

Even if you don't have anything, could you consider reblogging so that it gets to the right audience? Thank you!!!

#poly #poly dating #polyam #polyam relationship #polyamarous #polyamory #polyamourous #polyam culture #dating #advice #dating advice #dating and relationships #throuple

[spidercookie18]

Why did God give me multiple holes if im not supposed to have multiple boyfriend >:[

I hate this society

Going crazy thinking about an ABO poly relationship aaaaaahhhhh

#smut #nsft #txt post #hornyposting #hornyramble #hornylatina #poly relationship #polyamory #poly dating #abo #omegaverse

[ace-theatre-ghosts]

All the poly fish in the sea and I fell in love with one who lets their other partner veto every relationship they attempt to have...

And now I have trust issues. Trauma. And baggage.

#polyamory #poly dating #queer

[polyintheburbs]

Seven years ago today, we went to a meet & greet because we were exploring this new lifestyle. We had no idea we’d meet two people who’d become such great partners and friends.

#polyamory #swingers #poly dating #ethical nonmonogamy #nonmonogamy #polyamourous

[a-quiet-borderline-diary]

I haven't made an entry in a while. I have a second partner now, and we are in love. We started dating about 4 months ago but it feels like we have been together for a long time.

He is so affectionate and helpful. He gets along well with my husband (primary/nesting partner) quite well. We even play dnd in a group together and that is more fun than I thought it would be! It is my first campaign ever.

My bf is in college still, but he is set to graduate within a year or so. My husband and I are staying in this area for about 2 more years. I already have hopes and dreams about moving somewhere (possibly new), and bringing my partner with us. I wish my husband found another partner like that as well. He does have a current partner, but he told me that when he talked to her about the future it didn't sound like she wanted the same things as we do. They are still together and enjoying their time for now, but I wish she was on board with planning to live together someday.

I know for most couples 4 months or so isn't long enough to decide if you want to move to another state with someone though so maybe in time she will change her mind. If not, I'm sure there are plenty more fish in the sea (especially moving to a more urban area, we are currently in a rural area with few polyamorous or queer folks).

My husband and I have a dream that one day we will own a decent sized house that can accommodate 2 additional partners. We will live life all 4 of us together, helping eachother.

My husband and I already decided that only he and I will have shared bank accounts (we have always chosen to share finances completely since marriage), but it would be a more comfortable life with 2 more household incomes with no kids. (sorry to say, but he and I refuse to date anyone who has children).

I think we both just really yearn for a communal life, even if we wouldn't want to do anything like go off grid. We really like the idea of having our own chosen family.

As a bisexual, it isn't what I had in mind to end up with another male presenting partner, but I simply fell in love with him. I think a lot of what attracts me to my other partner is that even though he identifies as male, he is very feminine. He is smaller than me, and when I hold him it feels similar to holding a woman. I really like that tbh, he has a very androgynous appearance and way of carrying himself.

My husband identifies as nonbinary, more so than I do (although I consider myself probably gender fluid if I had to describe it.) He presents pretty masculinely, but he has feminine qualities in his personality and takes on some more "feminine" gender roles in the house (like cooking, which I do not do.)

My husband's current partner is really cool, I like her a lot. In my opinion, they have more space between them than I do with my bf but it doesn't seem to bother either of them. Maybe this is because they know it may not last beyond the 2 years we are living in this area. It would be so nice if she grew to consider moving with us when we leave, but even if she decides not to stay with my husband it is nice to spend time with her as a "polycule" now.

Since my husband's partner does not seem to cling to him as much as my bf does to me, it feels like I need to work on spending more time with him. Over the next couple of years I definitely need to work on my dynamics juggling my time with both of my partners. Sometimes I still think it would be nice to have a gf as well, but I honestly don't think I could easily juggle my time for a true relationship with another added person. Maybe when I feel I have the dynamics of the 2 I have now down pat, it would be possible... But I would be satisfied to just have a platonic relationship with my husband's partner. I just feel overall I'm lacking in close relationships with women and I would at least like a close female friend again.

I am friends with my husband's current gf, and I enjoy spending time with her but she has always operated as sort of a lone wolf even in her romantic relationship with him. That makes it hard to get close to her tbh, but I know she has reasons why she is the way she is. It's not anything personal.

All in all, I have just found myself daydreaming about the future a lot. I really have faith that my partner is serious about joining our life in a couple of years and it feels nice, but still we have quite a bit of waiting and time here before we enter the next step of our lives.

I have a positive outlook and I'm really happy to have 2 wonderful and loving partners. I can't wait to see what our futures have in store

#poly dating #polyamorous #polyamarous #polyamory #bisexual #bi polyam

[malinastharlock]

One of my partners said no, 😭😭😭😭😭 I was right fucking there almost about to get my insides rearrange and my poly main was like, "hey, don't do that. You're moving too quick." I mean she's right and I do move too quick but ugggggg. She's so freaking hot and so dominate. 🥵 I want her so bad I can still taste her kisses. I think I need a cold shower.

Okay so let me explain. I went on a date last night and my poly partners are like okay and I wasn't expecting anything to happen but honestly you get 2 trans girls together who can't stop flirting and yeah things are going to get freaky real fast. After dinner we talked a little more in my car and then we started making out. Then... I wanted more. All of her. She was so dominate too and it just made me feel so sheepish and so feminine. I, being thoroughly in the GirlBoneZone, suggested we go somewhere and she happens to be selling a house and said she'd give me a tour I was like okay that sounds amazing. This whole time I didn't think to ask my partners if any of this was okay, like it was supposed to just be a dinner date, you know a way for us to just get to know each other, not a full on carnal desire buffet. So I asked to use the bathroom and I sent out a text. My poly second was like okay 👌 but my main was like, "What, you litterly just met her. She's demi and you want a relationship with her so you can get your freak on, babe, that is not a good idea." I saw that and knew she was right. I mean there is a reason why I love her. She's not impulsive like me she thinks shit through. Plus I think the progesterone might be making me not want to think things though. Especially things about her🥵. She pinned me to a wall in the house and had me moaning like I've never moaned before. When she put her hands on my waist she said I was definitely born to be a girl and that was it, when she said that, I wanted her completely. I needed her and even now I crave her touch again. This will be better though. I can wait. All good thing are worth waiting for. 😳👉👈

I just wanna be submissive and breedable darn it 😮‍💨 like if it was just going to be a hookup my partners would have had no problem with that but since my new friend is demisexual she needs a relationship to go all naughty with me and if I bring anyone else into my life in a romantic way it has to be discussed and thems the rules. So I just need to chill out and calm down. I need to step back and really actually think about all this.

#me #trans dating #poly dating #lgbtq #trans #transgender #transfem #trans woman #transgirl #lgbtqia #trans princess #selfie #story time #dating diary

[polyammering]

Polyam problems: When you and your nesting partner both have dates and aren't sure if the dog has been fed... the dog gets fed twice.

#polyamory #polyam #poly dating #polyamourous #bamboozled

[witchy-vibes96]

#poly #dm me #bi girls #dms open #im bored #message me #curvy girls #girlswholikegirls #lgbtq #poly dating #poly girl #polyam #bisexaul #bi polyam #gay girl #girls for girls

[polyamorousmood]

Hi I recently came to terms with the fact I'm polyamarous (ambiamorous specifically but that's a whole nother topic) and you've probably been asked this before but... how??? How do you get into a polycule? I have enough trouble confessing to one person! I want my cuddle pile and affection and I have so many people I wanna give love to but idk what I'm doing!!

-Sincerely, confused autistic anon freshly out the closet

So if you don't have a Hallmark-movie moment of falling in love simultaneously with three people who all love you back, firstly, my apologies 😞

Secondly, its okay if you don't find shit right away! If you're just figuring it out, then its probably not helpful to put pressure⏱️ on finding the perfect relationship right away.

Thirdly, just to be clear, you may "join a polycule" without dating everyone in that polycule. In fact, that's way more common.

Fourthly, we're not actually as rare as you'd think. Dating apps are crawling with us. My partner found his latest on Hinge with no poly discrimination drama. Just reject anyone ❌ who says they're monogamous! And while I'm hesitant to give a lot of info about my real life location, I promise its not liberal lol

If you're worried about making that information public, you could always pay the fee💸 to set non-monogamous as a "deal breaker" on Hinge and just only be shown non-mono people, then explain when you match with someone what you're looking for.

Or there are some apps that are supposed to only be for non-monogamous people (which includes poly, swingers, open relationships, etc), though I haven't tried them and can't speak to them, I've heard of Feeld and #open, and I'm sure there's several more.

Fifth, if you live in an urban area, you could check for poly meet-ups. Facebook has some groups, Fetlife has some groups. I don't personally have any experience with them and if you're shy about being out, this might not be the best fit, but 🤷it'd be remiss not to mention them.

or, idunno, start hitting on someone in the notes of this post 🤪😜

#ask box is always open #poly dating #poly relationship advice

[echoesofadventure]

I swiped right on this dude solely because his bio said "weirdos only" and the dopamine rush from the instant match was an amazing high

#weirdo and proud of it #tinder adventures #poly dating

[under-same-sky]

Holy called out. 😳

#poly dating #dating #trauma #heal how you need to #healing #therapy

[retrogamingblog2]

#pokemon #anime #nintendo #gaming #video games #poly #polyamory #polyamourous #poliwrath #gameboy #90s #90's #nineties #retro #funny #lol #humor #meme #dating #puns #dad jokes #retrogaming

[a-quiet-borderline-diary]

My new bf is so great. He does so much for me and he's so passionate. I want to gush to all my friends about him but they probably think it's annoying or don't want to hear it so I'll gush to my diary 😅

I love how he kisses me so much. I really like kissing, probably more than sex.. And I think he is the same way. I have never had a partner that would make out with me for hours like that.

I'm so attracted to him. I feel like I don't get physically attracted to people easily, and since I have felt this sort of physical infatuation after such a long time I am absolutely intoxicated by it. He is a very feminine looking man. He has pretty long hair and such slender delicate features. I find that very appealing and I just can't seem to get enough of him.

He also spends so much quality time with me I'm very thankful. He even seems to enjoy boring tasks with me just because we are together. I can sense he is a devoted person.

As I get to know him better, I like him more and more too. At first he seems like he is gentle and sweet, but when he is feeling playful he knows just how to tease me. He does this thing where he holds his lips like an inch away from mine, and as I lean in he leans away to maintain the small space between us until I'm begging for it. (spicy) ughhhh so hot. We also shotgun smoke to eachother from our ouid vapes and I think that is sexy too.

I don't know what the future holds, but for now I just want to spend my days feeling good and kissing this boy on god

#polyamorous #bi polyam #polyamarous #polyamory #poly dating