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ishouldsleepbut · 1 day
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..........i started watching one of those 'goodnight to everyone except...' videos
and NUMBER ONE was 'ANYBODY WHO USES TUMBLR IN THE BIG YEAR OF 2024'
And i started fuckin dying cos like.
hiiiiiiiiiiii
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ishouldsleepbut · 1 day
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I just saw someone calling Jason "my precious lil kebab" and I'm done. I am absolutely done with y'all. This is the sign that I have had enough internet for one day. I'm officially shutting down.
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ishouldsleepbut · 2 days
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"well if it's not androgynous what should a nonbinary person look like??" ***EXTREMELY LOUD BUZZER SOUND*** WRONG!!!! YOU GOT IT ALL WRONG!!!!!!! NOBODY "SHOULD" ANYTHING!!!! THAT IS NOT WHAT QUEERNESS IS ABOUT!!!!! GO TO THE CALM DOWN CORNER AND THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU'VE JUST SAID.
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ishouldsleepbut · 2 days
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Many lgbt teenagers and young adults growing up on the internet today have socially conservative beliefs that they voice at all times that they got from their conservative parents which they’ve never challenged because they think the life experience of being gay or trans makes them politically progressive
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ishouldsleepbut · 2 days
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Wait… Isn’t Ed Balls day coming up? ED BALLS DAY, I HAVE TO GET READY TO CELEBRATE 
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ishouldsleepbut · 2 days
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if any minors are following me
always make sure to start forging parents' signatures on the first day of class. that way, your teachers won't know that you've been forging signatures for the rest of the year
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ishouldsleepbut · 2 days
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Daily reminder to all tboys!!!!!
Take off your binders
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ishouldsleepbut · 2 days
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ishouldsleepbut · 2 days
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The joy of my body
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ishouldsleepbut · 2 days
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Hi there! I’m rewriting a superhero from my youth. Recently, I’ve been trying to introduce more diversity, and my older characters were written mostly sans race [read: I was a white kid who said stuff like “race doesn’t matter”]. I’ve been considering making this hero black, but his superpowers initially revolve around anger and later around darkness. This carries with it a lot of unfortunate stereotypes. What should I do?
Black Character with Anger and Darkness Powers
You have to be mindful of what you change your previously “Raceless” characters into.
Choosing to make the hero into a Black person with anger and darkness-based powers feels stereotypical, especially in a non-Black writer’s hands. Anger can be complex. It’s not always something to be ashamed of having. There is righteous anger, anger that motivates one into action, and so on. Still, to write a Black character who has a lot of anger vs. an Angry Black Character, requires nuance. I’m personally wary of folks tackling this who are outside of my race.
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Change the powers. 
You could choose another emotion with big impact, or still run with the darkness but develop it enough where darkness isn’t portrayed as all evil. 
Resource: Black and White Symbolism: A Look into the Trope 
Change the race of this character, one that isn’t anger-associated
If going this route, I suggest making the Black hero into someone else similarly significant to the story. I hate to suggest downgrading the role of a Character of Color, but if it’s stereotypical, it ultimately does more harm than good.
If you’re super committed to anger as a power, keep it, but give it to some other non-Black character.
Still, you’ll need to do your research as there may be associations that stick to other races, like the Spicy Latina, or the (Asian) Dragon Lady.
If you’re placing a person of color in the role of Anger powers, I suggest you thoroughly explain the source of the character’s anger, past or present. It shouldn’t be natural to them, as if it’s natural for X race to have anger issues. Showing characters of the same race without anger issues is essential too.
Summary: Trace your logic. I suggest you keep the hero Black and move the power away from your previous idea, particularly the anger. If darkness is to remain, though, it should be worked to avoid the same ole stereotypical dark as evil themes.
~Colette
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ishouldsleepbut · 2 days
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gender is so confusing
im a boy. im nonbinary. im a secret third thing. im none of the above. i used to be a little girl. i never was a girl. my deadname feels like a stranger. i still turn around if i hear it in public. im a boy who looks like a girl who looks like a boy who looks like a girl who looks like-
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ishouldsleepbut · 2 days
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shoutouts to lesbians with weird genders!!
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ishouldsleepbut · 2 days
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Just a reminder to all the demigirls: you are valid and beautiful.
Not super feminine? Still valid.
AFAB and feel like you're "just faking it for attention"? Nope. That's bullshit. Still valid.
Only a demigirl sometimes (genderfluid, genderflux, or something similar)? Still valid.
A demigirl in addition to being something else (multigender or something similar)? Still valid.
Don't use she/her pronouns? Still valid.
You may not be 100% girl, but that's totally fine, because you're forgetting that ur part girl, part ✨GODDESS✨
Demigirls are valid and awesome, and I will throat punch anyone who says otherwise. -ur local chaotic genderflux
🩷🩶🤍🩶🩷‼️
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ishouldsleepbut · 2 days
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this post is going to stay up forever, but I'm going to reblog this post with a picture of a funny cat I drew wearing big boots. the reblog that has the cat in it will only be available for 5 minutes so good luck if you manage to see or find that version.
I'll add the cat to this post about a minute after posting this. I need to add an image description so it'll take a sec
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ishouldsleepbut · 2 days
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ALL trans lesbians are LESBIANS
TERFS, DO NOT, and I mean this, INTERACT
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