gentle reminder that i am very picky when it comez to mooting/befriending otherz/ppl in the same community as me.
i decide if i want to follow someone or not. do not try and force me to become mutualz with you, and plz keep in mind that i do unmoot ppl if they rub me the wrong way.
do not try and use me or take advantage of my popularity or being mootz with me or act like we're super close buddiez after becoming mootz for like. a day (surprisingly both of these have happened to me many timez).
i have trust issuez, get easily uncomfortable, have a hard time processing social cuez, etc. thank you for respectin my boundariez ^_^
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don't have a fictional kintype or anything but the fact that some people do is wild /pos
like, I cannot believe I am actually talking to a dragon holy shit??? that's so cool???
you're telling me, you used to be something thats beyond human comprehension BESTIE that is the cOOLEST SHIT IVE EVER HEARD
and like, i am so sorry you got stuck on this measly little planet instead of being up in the sky or in the cosmos
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i know it's not impossible. nothing in the world is impossible. i know people irl who have had abortions at a young age.
if you look at the people sending you asks, they seem to be taking what you say seriously. tbey keep spamming you with more questions. someone said in response to your reading, they hope the girl gets kicked out quickly. it's not even confirmed, it hasn't even happened but someone is already wishing a girl gets kicked out. because of a silly tarot reading that you yourself state isn't certain.
you have responsibility to be aware of the harm your content is creating, no matter how little it is.
i hate to compare but if you look at tumblr tarot blogs like the biggest tarot blog here, they have a privacy rule. they will not answer questions they believe are harmful towards who they're reading about. cards about abortion for MINORS shouldn't mean "oh i need to post about this", it should mean "okay i need to avoid posting this." the only reason i'm not gonna say the tarot blog's name is bc your askers will probably go spam them for baemon readings too.
what do you think is better? posting a reading about abortion with a group of mostly minors with a disclaimer that your askers aren't taking into account, since they are replying they want the girl kicked out ... or remembering that minors should be protected from malicious rumours and not posting harmful things? because essentially tarot is rumours, it's not confirmed and hasn't happened.
take responsibility for yourself.
you clearly do not see the problem. i bet you're the type to say "don't debut minors!" but you clearly don't care about protecting them. you just see them as dolls to do tarot readings on.
i understand your criticism, really. and i am taking responsibility always. it’s just that it’s by me that i am not always writing it.
i know too well there are people who take readings (possibly in general) seriously and i do take the responsibility for my blog as a whole, however in this case, for them believing (tarot) readings i am not the one to blame because it’s really up to themselves. i see that the same people have some issues deeply inside so at this moment it’s obvious that it’s not fine but to me it’s understandable, to be honest. before i was one of them that believed readings blindly, if not someone else, then i should be the example of myself for this behaviour. i can be critical at any times but at this point, i don’t quite know. i prefer to not be rude, so this behaviour of mine (for not setting any more strict boundaries with requesting) in that case is at my fault and i’ll always say that i am sorry if i am in the wrong even with guessing.
i know my action of doing this specific situation issue whole bunch of readings is wrong and i do promise that after that update i did hours ago (bc it was released there will be last evaluation video), i’ll stop interfering with this. i really do have good intention on the girls (specifically talking about babymonster here) but my interpretation can be really wrong here. the combination of ace of cups rx and 9 pentacles rx was appearing too often, of course i will look at it! it really was natural to me at that time. sadness about self-sabotage can make sense, yes, but i tried to interpret between the lines, which i am in the wrong here. i really hope i am wrong but do i have to write “who knows” at this point.. it is still a mistake and i do take full responsibility for my readings as a whole.
about the situation, they just asked will there be change in their debut line-up? i said possibly yes with having theories who that might be. they asked who (again, but it’s normal i suppose so) and why. i genuinely wanted to understand why that might happen and i saw this. haram might broke dating rule and nothing more, which i really do hope for that. however, i know that my opinion is controversial at times, especially politics-wise (which i haven’t started that much at this point). and even with the case that my interests are in finding the drama, the scandals, the taboo topics even if there are any, i still take responsibility with even a symbol. i just don’t have the habit to write it.
comparing is fine as long as you respect enough, and i really think i do set up the needed boundaries. however, my intuition just said to me “write and upload it anyways i know it’s fucked up just release this whole shit” and with this, i take my full responsibility and i am deeply sorry. i genuinely hope everyone is mentally okay after reading the babymonster saga of mine. when doing readings, i feel sympathy always, i do take rests when needed, i even cry inside for supporting the idols bc they’re not in fault (this is for serious situations of course; if not, if they’re feeling sad or feeling odd, i will still cry for and with them if needed). i will always be an outsider to the industry as a whole and i do know i take sides sometimes. it’s just that i am being emotional, which i am trying to hide as much as i can.
i did broke a boundary of mine, which i am sorry about because in this case i am one to blame. for everyone else’s reactions however, the people having these emotions should take their responsibilities. if they’re not doing it, that’s fine, at least for the moment because sooner or later they’ll learn their needed lesson. i do know what to avoid and what not and this will be the only time i will write this, so i will take my restriction rule with interpretation seriously.
about your question in your fifth paragraph, of course the second choice. and i know that you’ll react in a way that you’ll ask “then why you did your reading?” and i did said already that it’s because of my intuition. tbh, i accept this experience both as a lesson and as an experiment. i really want to see if i happen to be right with the member who will either leave or will not debut. however, with my possible delusional theories (i had them before with alleged bankruptcy of sme which will definitely turn wrong in the end) i have with the reasoning why one of them might leave i know i am in the wrong. i do realise that. i answer asks just to reassure them as much as i can, but it turns out that my other actions are also wrong (apart from the babymonster saga).
i am not one of these that comment in general. i am really an outsider of gossips, events and generally, news as a whole. i do say to myself these things but only that. i made a mistake with the saga. however, i do have doubts what should i do about the readings i uploaded: either delete them, archive them, censor them, i don’t really know. from now on, i will try to overprotect everyone by censoring my readings. this is the best i can do while doing (possibly controversial) topics i would love to dive into.
i do have responsibility by everyone’s reactions about my posts as a whole, yes, however it’s up to themselves about how they react and if their reactions are public or not. i am sorry once more. thanks for the criticism once again and being as much respectful as possible. i really appreciate your ask.
out of topic, they probably do spam every tarot reader as possible, they’re just more experienced as me with their tumblr audience while me, i am just a dumb 21 y/o student who deleted their previous twitter account who had actually some audience and cannot try with twitter again bc i am shadowbanned from the fucking start :)
(/gen, /nm, /nbr)
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9/6が「黒の日」とのことでノボリさん。
September 6th is “Day of Black” in Japan.
*Black (黒 kuro) / 96 (くろ kuro)
2022/9/11 22:30 added:
「黒の日」なんだから手袋とシャツも黒くしよう!と思って忘れていたのを思い出したので差し替えました。
I had intended to make the gloves and shirt black in honor of "Black Day," but I forgot to do so, so I replaced them with black.
2023/9/7 2:05 added:
手を修正。
Redrawn hands.
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