#I don't have the energy for this so I'm just gonna private this blog for now while the other blog gets finished up

[dmclemblems]

notice how as soon as Twitter users come back to Tumblr/on Tumblr for the first time, there is immediately a rise in people shitting on other users for their opinions?

#so yeah I'll be password protecting this blog for a while and finishing setting up the other blog #I'll be dropping the link for my followers periodically once I switch t he URLs #it's not happening this very moment but I'm going to private the blog anyway bc like tbh #I was discussing opinions with my anons peacefully this whole time with no problems #then suddenly people come flooding in from Twitter and suddenly people are getting on my ass for UNTAGGED opinions #as if I personally insulted them. like... if you don't like the opinion THAT much just keep scrolling #I literally tag all my asks under one single tag specifically for this blog so these people are just trying to argue and like #I don't have the energy for this so I'm just gonna private this blog for now while the other blog gets finished up #hmmm I say that but will I go play Sims 4 again today all night or will I just focus on work and not the blog sjkfgjs

[historicity-was-already-taken]

Welcome New Followers Post xiv

gonna make this bullet points of Things to Know because deadlines, but hi! welcome!

-this is not a jewish identity or a jumblr blog. i am a jewish person and a holocaust historian, so my content often overlaps with those realms of tumblr

-this is first and foremost a public history blog. public history and public historians do history for the public. we're passionate about transmitting complex historical topics from the academe to the people, and we're in constant (one-sided lmao) conversation with entities such as: film writers and producers, textbook writers, government bodies, journalists, etc regarding the construction of public memory, and the responsibilities that entails

-you don't have to ask if something is ok to reblog. I appreciate the thought, but unless I turn off reblogs or specifically ask people not to engage in certain ways, you're fine, that said:

-I do see and read all tags, replies, and rbs. I consider them public, and I often respond to them as new posts. If you want to engage with me and don't want others to see, then send me an ask which includes the words "please respond privately"

-You can should disagree with me and tell me when you think I'm wrong! Now, I won't lie, years of existing as a young-appearing hyper feminine (i like skirts and bows and sparkly shoes it is what it is) female, Jewish historian have made me defensive and bitey af, and I often misread neutral tones as "coming for me" tones and respond in kind. I apologize for when/if that happens to you, and I assure that, once I realize you're not coming at me in bad faith, I will feel horribly guilty.

-There is a learning curve here. I don't have any desire to gatekeep my blog (it's the opposite tbh), but I do use high level terms which can have multiple meanings in different contexts. I actively try to avoid using impenetrable academic jargon in this space, but sometimes that jargon is the only appropriate phrasing available. In those cases, I urge you to do some research and poke around and then, if you still don't understand what I mean, DM me.

-I am a white, American woman. I am actively anti-racist, and anti-bigotry in general, but there will be times when I do or say something clueless or privileged. If you see that and you have the energy, please tell me! I want this blog to be a welcome place for all,* and I appreciate call-outs as an opportunity for (un)learning.

-Building on that, this is an anti-bigotry space which I'd like people of all demographics and identities to feel comfortable engaging with.* That said, I don't play nice when some random corner of tumblr rolls up in here and barfs their shit all over my posts.

-I am a cringe millennial. I started this blog in 2011, when I was 21, had just finished college, before I'd heard back from any graduate schools, and before I had much resembling a career. I am currently 34. It's fine. But a lot of you are in your teens and 20s and are just starting on your careers, so like, please don't negatively compare yourselves to me or get self-deprecating when/if you want to contact me. We all learn and achieve at different paces and that's ok.

-My book, The Girl Bandits of the Warsaw Ghetto, will be released in Fall 2025. Trust me I will be screaming from the rooftops and you will not miss the announcements lmao.

-If I don't reply to an ask or a DM, it's not because I hate you. There are 800 reasons why I may not reply, and none of them are personal.

and finally

-I am not your Good Leftist Anti-Zionist Jew. I am not here as a rhetorical cudgel for left-wing anti-Semites who seek out Jews with politics similar to mine to then use as a weapon against other Jewish folks. Don't fucking do it.

*That does not mean that everything I post here will make you feel comfortable. History isn't supposed to make you feel comfortable. Sometimes, it can and should make you feel actively uncomfortable, because that discomfort/cognitive dissonance means you're learning (keep your cognitive dissonance temper tantrums tf away from me, tho). It does mean that I, as an individual, want you all to feel that this is a space where you are welcome to learn and ask questions.

i tried to use bullet points to keep this short, and i failed miserably. on brand.

[spellbooking]

Hey there. This is a rather private message, but I was also bullied and trashtalked publicly by one of the big BG3 blogs on here.

I was a fairly small blog (and an artist, too) so I didn't really stand a chance. It was out of my control. I reached out to people to get help but many of them eventually left me. What I'm saying is, I understand what you're going through—or at least know how it feels. People seem to blindly believe popular blogs on Tumblr, and said blogs sometimes abuse their influence and popularity by making all sorts of claims to put them in the spotlight, thinking, they know the person behind the screen even though they don't.

Back then I had to take a break from Tumblr, but I hope you won't let it get you down. Turn to your friends. The BG3 community is quite toxic. Fandom drama is always shitty, unnecessary, stressful and unfair. Take care and keep balance x

Hi anon!

Surprisingly you’re the first person to like really bring it up and tbh I’m glad bc I’ve just been ignoring it and continuing to do my own thing. I kind of just let it happen and just stuck to myself because like… this is tumblr. Im not gonna really expand on it or really discuss it because i gave it my energy for a day and moved on. That’s what i tell my clients (at least the ones I practice with a supervisor) and that’s what i do for myself. but thank you for your kind words.

Yeah it sucked for like the first 12 hours then i kind of got over it. And i agree, influence and popularity definitely is abused! And targeting strangers with no context or stories from both sides or having a grown adult talk is extremely common on the internet period. Honestly the BG3 fandom has been a solace for me but that’s only because i stick to a certain pocket of it: OC love and Gale. But i hope by now my followers realize: I’m super self indulgent. That’s my speciality.

Luckily i had a group of people and some mutuals have my back so i wasn’t alone. Also my fiance kinda talked me through it and we honestly kinda just… laughed. Because the situation was so laughable and silly. Like I’m in grad school, have a job, have to pay rent… I’m not worried about what people in a fandom have to say about me to a small pocket of people 💀 like girl I’m about to start an internship as a therapist, i have better things to worry about. I learned from it and I’m moving on.

But thank you again! Sending you my love and I’m sure your art is fucking awesome! I hope you have others to turn to as well :) if not, this goes for you and everyone else: my DMs are always open.

#re: ask

[vegasandhishedgehog]

I've held off posting for a long time about the issue regarding Build and Poi.

A lot of things have rubbed me wrong about the way it went down, how the people involved handled it in the beginning, I am severely allergic to Twitter, and all in all, it's been so much to take in and digest over the past few weeks. I have no real understanding of law for any fucking country and I am not a source blog for news or updates or translations. Speaking in support of anyone, to me, seems perfectly inappropriate and useless. As much as I have my own personal thoughts and feelings, I'm aware of biases and that's no basis for an open conversation.

That, and well....I've been here before. I don't mean with the thing about the dug-up tweets that caused a riot a few months ago. I don't even mean controversial celebrity trials in general. I'm talking about people I personally knew very well being in a lawsuit where some hefty accusations were made and the community got split over their feelings about it. It's a fucking nightmare. I don't need to repeat those details because it was a different case and projecting any of those circumstances onto the one in question would be wrong.

So I'm only going to say this once.

Cut it out.

Stop being self-righteous. Stop taking extreme positions and cutting off friends whose thoughts and views vary. I don't care how convincing one side or the other is to you right now - we do not know the truth and there is a fairly long wait for us to have it laid out for us. If you look at those supporting the opposite side as you and don't think of yourself as also potentially supporting a guilty person, please take a moment to reflect. What is your goal by acting that way? To be right? To feel right? To "weed out the idiots"?

Curate your experience all you like, but cutting people off to such extremes is going to make for very small corners and very nasty echo chambers. This fandom looked itself in the mirror and got so ugly the mirror shattered and we're all just shards now. Little pods of pro-this, anti-that, unsure-something-or-other, etc. There's still so many unanswered questions, and evidence to be reviewed and cross-examined. Some of you will still choose to deny the outcome because it doesn't match the narrative in your head. But before you reach that level of desperation, I simply ask that you put your energy toward making and keeping this fandom a place where people can come for escape.

I won't judge you for being open about who you support here, if you have chosen a side. But attacking and othering people really doesn't make you the better person and you're not gonna get some kind of badge of honor for being woke. A lot of us are just people who come to fandom because it's what brings us joy in a world that is very fucked up, so coming into that space to start fires and burn bridges is really shitty. Making people feel uncomfortable to speak up because they might be attacked or cancelled for merely wanting a proper discussion is awful and I've seen enough.

For those of you who could really use a shoulder to lean on, my offer is here. I can't promise to be a perfect support, and if you're looking for some kind of mediator in an argument that won't be it. But I encourage anyone who needs to get their thoughts and feelings out to take that opportunity privately. Take a step back or a break if you feel like that's gonna help. If you're still unsure, do not hesitate to use any resource you can think of until something works. This has been hard on mental health for some people and it deserves to be acknowledged and given the attention necessary to help people recover.

I still love many people in the KinnPorsche fandom. I still love KinnPorsche. I would love things to heal, regardless of whatever comes out of this lawsuit. I would still love another season of the show if it were possible, for current and upcoming BOC projects to do well, and for the other actors and creators impacted to still enjoy happy lives and careers. I hope this post encourages thoughtfulness and honesty, and most of all, unity. If you've read this far, thanks for at least considering my input.

#kinnporsche #build jakapan #poi patchayamon #be on cloud #boc

[destinyc1020]

I really dislike people that think they know the chemistry of a real life couple even though we just get glimpses of them. This is like the people that say that Tom and Z don't look good together. They really don't give a fuck if strangers don't like what they perceive is their chemistry when they've made clear their relationship is sacred and private not about entertaining the public. And I would say something similar about Austin and Kaia. Kaia may like her pap walks once in a while but Austin and Kaia life is not a reality show selling their relationship. I'm not saying that they are each other's soulmates but they have been together already for 2 years so it's not just a fling

Wth??

Tom and Z have AMAAAAAAZZZZING chemistry with each other, what are you talking about lol? 😅😂

Nobody has EVER said that Tom and Zendaya lack chemistry at all. EVER. Not even when they were pretending to be "just friends" lol 😆

You can NOT show PDA in public and still exude excellent chemistry with each other, just like Tom and Zendaya did during the 1.0 era.

Just because SOME antis don't like them together doesn't change the fact that Tom and Z have always had wonderful, palatable, "Best friend", "soul mate", lover type energy with each other for years. Chemistry that quite frankly, I never saw them have, when they were dating other people 😆

Re: Austin and Kaia (Kaustin)

I've been saying since 2022 that smthg seems off about their rlshp. Look, I read body language pretty well. I'm the one who did posts upon posts of "Tomdaya Energies" on my blog. You can go back and search. 😏

Sometimes, your gut just senses things. 🤷🏾‍♀️ I can't explain it. But Kaustin has always usually given me "Big Brother" vibes lol 😆

Even if you just go and Google a search of Austin and Vanessa, or even Austin and Lily Rose Depp, the vibe is very different from what I've ever seen him with Kaia.

They're a cute couple ngl (I haven't heard anyone saying they don't look good together), but I have yet to sense the same vibe with her that he had with Vanessa.... not even by a long shot lol 😅

Nobody said Kaustin is a fling. Where did you get that from? 🤔 After two years, I assume they're not?

But ppl commenting on vibes and chemistry is just that. Plain and simple. You can only go by what you see, right? 🤷🏾‍♀️

Nobody is saying they need to break up or smthg rofl 🤣 People are just noticing and picking up on stuff.... and apparently I'm not the only one picking up on this stuff.

Look, to each his/her own... I'm not gonna judge who someone chooses to date... They may end up marrying each other for all I know. 🤷🏾‍♀️ That's their choice.

I only go by what my gut tells me and what I see and sense with my own eyes. 👀

But to try and lump Kaia and Austin into the same boat as Tom and Zendaya is just NONSENSE to me lol 😆

We all know that a lot of ppl/antis don't like Tom and Z together for racist reasons. 🙄 It had nothing to do with a "lack of chemistry", cuz there's been no instance when that's even been the case with them.

[jove999]

Ok, I know you're probably reading this because I know your pattern. I'm saying this so I don't wanna keep thinking about this matter anymore, so It will be my last time to say anything about this. cause I know it's quite pointless to ever argue with you again.

If I Ever find out you talking about me or spreading weird rumors about me, I'm going to release your blog address, release all the conversations I screen-capped, and your ridiculous ao3 fic, (Yes, this person wrote a fic about what happened between me and them), your racist remark about me, how you described me as a predatory person, while that was all because of my clumsy English skill (and I think you knew the reason why I said in that way too while writing all that, cause I'm you know, 'stupid Asian', right) You were too much of a bully to me too for a person who worried about being getting bullied.

You accused me of being a rude artist trying to rob you of money, when in fact, you were the one who asked me for free art first. You made me seen as a predatory person in your fic, which was already released 3 days ago when I first found out, had 23 views, and you made sure anyone can guess who this artist was. (f/f shipper getting lots of likes, Asian, Remember?) So Why would I ever consider making an apology to you after this, for exposing your ID on my post, which had 15 notes, and I deleted from my blog in a matter of 5 hours? (And if I remember correctly, you did the exact same too before me, right?)

sigh. You're making me so tired.

Ok. You were telling me to say sorry

When I deleted the post that exposed your ID, and later when I read your apologies, What I regretted the most was my action was out of pure anger and spite. Because you were seen as a weird stranger, and when I, as an artist, and a wlw, got asked for free art, from a stranger who ships f/m ship...... ought to get angry. If I knew you were, you know, you, I would have just ignored it. But I didn't. sigh.

and When I read that you were autistic from your apologies, I deleted the post from my blog. I can understand the complicate situation autistic people are going through, So I deleted it. and I'm sorry for acting like this to you out of spite. At the moment, I really didn't give a shit if you're getting bad messages, because I didn't know you like that. I want to be a person who can acknowledge their wrongs, and I don't mind a aftermath that follows too. I'm sorry.

But I'm not gonna say sorry to you for saying you should pay first if you wanna have something you want. I think you're old enough to understand why I'm saying this. I hope you learn something from what I said at least.

And now, the thing is, I don't even wanna hear sorry from you anymore. from all the shit you did to me. and probably you don't wanna say sorry too, now I know you better.. I don't care. Like I said, don't say shit about me after this. If you wanna forget about this, then do it. I don't wanna waste my energy anymore too, unless you wanna start a fight again. Don't send a private message after this. If you send a message again, I'll release everything. Bro, I can be real petty.

That's it. Don't care If you block me. I said everything I wanted to say. I'm sorry. I'm sincere about this. Don't ever come to my blog, I'm sincere about this too. bye

(and I'm writing this again for your consideration, Don't send a private message after this)

#personal

[finniestoncrane]

Can't believe you're only getting anon requests (that's a lie - I can believe it but someone's gotta own up to being a simp on main)

💦❔ for which ever riddler floats your boat because you do them so much justice

if you can't be horny on main then what is even the point u-u also i did so many riddlers because i just wanted to because i'm a grown adult and i'm in love with them and want to touch them in a cursed way. digital footprint??? i'm making a digital cast of my entire body and face, i don't care

also i love all my requests and i'm happy to let people simp in privacy omg if i can give someone a moment of private pleasure with words then that's reward enough 💚

thank u for the prompt!!

reply under here, minors DNI!! 🔞 cw for nsfw stuff

💦 - how horny are they ❔ - wildcard bitches

arkham

💦 he could be entirely rigid and he might not even notice if his mind was focused on his work (and i think he probably is rock hard a lot of the time when he's working) but he wouldn't know he was horny until you were on him, kissing him and touching him, at which point he'd be like "oh...OH...ok let's go, need now please hurry". he has other priorities though, so he gets in quick, ruts like a feral animal, and then finishes, makes sure you're completely satisfied of course, and gets back to what he was doing. he'll only get nasty when he wants to though, so i'm giving him a 6/10 on the horny scale (but i'm 7816872686324/10 horny for him smh) ❔ i think he has a whole thing about his partner wearing just socks. he thinks it's freakin adorable to have you padding around his lair just lookin cosy and comfy

gotham

💦 he's not so much horny as he is obsessed with knowing his partner is satisfied, especially if he can satisfy them with his body in whatever way they're craving. he's so well-versed in everything, his research on ways to please a lover and how to be 'good in bed' mean that not only is he fkn amazing, but he quite often gets himself all hot and heavy and has to come begging for a bit of respite. will always be ready and willing to please so i'm gonna give him a 7/10 ❔ don't anyone argue, because he definitely puts his glasses on you while you're having sex and maybe also his hat. hell, you wear the whole damn outfit, one of his suits and a tight shirt, and he's a goner

dano

💦 he's surviving on coffee, monster energy drink, pumpkin pie and pure visceral rage so he has to have an outlet for his energy somewhere. he's also desperate for attention and physical touch, so he's constantly seeking any and all reasons to get in you on you around you whatever, it's just a bonus if whatever physical contact he receives if he gets to cum at the end of it. he's obsessed with being touched and so i'm putting him at an 8/10 on the horny scale, very scientifically calculated and all ❔ he'd lose his mind if he bent you over, pulled down your pants, and saw you'd got even a temporary tattoo of his logo in the classic "tramp stamp" position, definitely using it as target practice for the big finish y'know????

young justice

💦 he's a good boy! a nice boy! and i don't think he goes around with a permanent stauner or anything, but it's pretty easy to get him riled up. a lil wink, touching his chest, bending down in front of him, it's so easy to torment this poor man into being unable to walk or talk. and there's not a point in the day where he's not just ready to go for it, so pretty horny. maybe a 7.5 on the scale, yeah we're giving out half point increments ❔ would absolutely love someone to makeout with him hard and run their tongue against his lil gap tooth and honestly, if you wouldn't do that for him you have no business being on my blog how dare you deny him that ;-;

capullo/zero year

💦 if he's not fuckin, he's cockwarming, if he's not cockwarming, you're giving him head, if you're not giving him head, then he's giving you head, like i'm talking you're getting a friction burn on your inner thighs from those sideburns MY GOD this man is ready to go at the drop of a dumb green hat, anytime, any place, anywhere, any way he is gagging for it on a consistent and constant basis. 12/10 on the horny scale and i'm putting him in horny jail and i am the warden and it's shower time ❔ he tells you how hot you are all the time, constantly during sex, always during the day, anytime you walk by his desk, if you bend over in his line of sight, before you go to bed and when you wake up, and he means it every time

#finnie writes #finnieficfuckery #riddler #the riddler #batman #riddler imagine #the riddler imagine #riddler smut #fanfic #the riddler fanfic #riddler fanfic #riddler x reader #riddler x you #riddler headcanon #ridler scenario #the riddler headcanon #gotham riddler #gotham #the batman #arkham riddler #young justice riddler #dano riddler #zero year riddler #q

[elvenbeard]

I read your post about headcanons about Kerry's sexuality, and I totally agree with what you said about headcanons not taking away from representation, but I'm curious what your view are on mods that change a character's sexuality so anyone can romance them? I know there is, or at least used to be, quite a bit of debate around that. You don't have to answer if you don't want to, I'd hate to start any discourse drama on your blog. I'm just curious because I'm not even sure where I stand on the matter, and have been back and forth on it for a long time.

It's all good nonny! I have been asking myself that lately tbh, and I know I've been back and forth on it myself, too.

In this moment in time, I am completely indifferent on the existence of mods that do stuff like that. I don't condone or like them, but I'm not gonna do anything about them either. I know years ago in the Dragon Age fandom there was huge discourse and drama around a mod that made Dorian (canonically gay, his whole character arc revolves around that fact, just in case you're not into that series) available to be romanced by a female Inquisitor. And back then I was absolutely livid. Dorian was (and still is) one of my fave characters in the DA universe. And honestly, I couldn't even tell you now if anything ever came off of that whole drama (but I doubt it, cause it rarely does) - that's how pointless Internet drama really is. In the worst case, the person who made that mod got driven out of fandom entirely and now has negative associations with the queer community as a whole.

Do I think that mods that change a queer character's canon orientation are amazing? No, not really, and most of the time, especially in Dorian's case, they make no sense at all for the characters' arcs. I personally would never wanna play them and I'd also rather not know why some people make them.

(I'm completely biased here btw, because I do not feel as negatively about mods that change a canonically straight character's orientation to something queer. Simply because I'm queer and greedy for more representation, because there cannot be enough XD Does that make me a hypocrite to some people? Maybe, but honestly, I don't really care. And as I said in my post, and as you mentioned, even the "straight mods" do not take away from any queer representation that canonically exists.)

The thing is, me and others screaming and yelling about "straight mods" (or "bi mods" for characters that are explicitly gay/lesbian) is not gonna change a thing, mods like that are always gonna exist. Content I don't agree with is always something I can come across at random, and I keep finding new things that make me go "nope!" regularly. And even if I'm not screaming and yelling, and instead try to be reasonable, talk objectively with the mod makers as for xyz reasons their mod is not good in my eyes... I'm too old for that shit XD I'd rather use my energy and limited time to make a lot of gay stuff featuring my favourite queer blorbos instead of arguing with strangers why a straight!Dorian or bi!Judy or straight/bi!whoever mod is bad. Fandom should be a hobby, not activism, and you can go about fighting homophobia in a lot better ways than arguing about who certain pixel people would like to bone or not.

I wish there were - or maybe there are and I haven't figured it out yet - ways to filter stuff I don't wanna see on Nexus for example like there are on tumblr, ao3, any other social media site with a good tagging system and means to block tags or phrases or users. Curating your own experience and finding people who share your interests is so important and has really improved my time in fandom a lot over the last years. And it's good to have friends you can rant to about stupid things that upset you in private, definitely XD

So, on that note, ship whoever you wanna ship in this context, but tag it so that people who don't wanna see it can avoid it and don't get mad. Also sorry this got long and slightly off topic, I'm a chronic rambler.

(also, if anything's unclear, feel free to reach out again! sometimes I don't express myself as well as I think I do XD)

#answered asks #anonymous #I don't know how to tag this uuuuhhhhh #fandom stuff

[nctsjiho]

Just gonna clarify some things real quick:

I love @multifandom-01/@multifandom-02 (whichever blog you know her by) as a writer. I'm in a Discord server with her and many other writers and readers and we always have friendly conversation. Like she mentioned we aren't besties, but we talk (talked, since I haven't been on discord for a while) in friendly terms.

I've encouraged her to write angst and I read the sneak peak and I think it's amazing.

Just because a ff about two different addition!ocs are about similar topics, doesn't mean it's a copy of another ones work. (it was just a sneak peak, we don't even know what the context is so lets calm down first 😅)

If you ever think someone is plagiarising my work, please just mention it to me first. I appreciate if you want to look out for me and my work, but to avoid conflict come check in with me first. (Idk if every writer thinks this way, but it's never a bad idea to do this first)

I don't get many asks AT ALL fksjfsd (especially now) if I never answered your ask I either felt uncomfortable doing so, I just haven't gotten to it, I never received it or it was a request and I'm currently not writing anymore. + I do answer some asks privately if I need/want to (I just answered that last one because I thought it was an interesting question -> I did not purposely ignore that multifandom was being mentioned, I just didn't think it pertained to the main question)

If I ever hurt your feelings by something I did or didn't do, I'm sorry. You can always reach out to me if you need me to clarify something

Lastly: If you think I'm shady...😬 I'm sorry. I've been dealing with my personal life and that's taking a lot of energy out of me.

[steves-strapcollection]

My favourite thing in the whole world is how I can spend a week in capitalism hell while literally getting frostbite and then I come onto my little escapism apps to go teehee haha with the gays in my phone about FICTIONAL GODDAMN CHARACTERS to find out that the same fucking ppl are stirring up bullshit drama for no fucking reason and being rude to my friends like please actually grow up.

Like ppl are out here outright fucking lying about shit and why? Bc you don't like someone's headcanon? Youve decided people are Having Fun Wrong? Bc it's not the same way you're having fun? Like ppl are out here MINDING THEIR BUSINESS and creating events FOR THEMSELVES AND LIKE MINDED PPL and you're gonna be out there being rude and belittling ppl or even literally lying about what the mods said about an OPTIONAL EVENT that isn't about or for you???? Like literally do you have NOTHING ELSE GOING ON in your life that you have time to actually care SO MUCH about what other people are doing???? Especially to be MEAN about it?

Genuinely this is the last I'm gonna say I'm just especially pissed bc while fandom shit-stirrers be stirring shit always, this time shit was stirred with ppl I consider friends and I'm peeved. Like literally grow up, we're all just goofing off.

And this is just a general statement I've made a million times: being publicly mean and condescending about ppl having harmless fun, even as a fucking joke, makes you a mean fucking person. Like genuinely, you are an unpleasant, mean person and that's something you're gonna have to come to terms with and maybe hopefully fix that in yourself or at least fucking admit you're mean and unpleasant.

There's a lot of shit that ppl hc that personally? I dislike! But I don't get mean and bitchy about it on my blog where ppl who enjoy those things might see it and feel like I'm making fun of them! I filter tags or words so I don't see that shit! Or I unfollow ppl! Or I just scroll past! And if I rly wanna vent about it, I go to a friend who agrees with me about my feelings on the matter, and we privately bitch about it! But at the end of the day, people are having harmless fucking fun and I'm not gonna fucking yuck their yum where they will likely fucking see it!!! Bc that's how you conduct yourself! Like a fucking kind person!!! In a shared space!!!

Anyway. I've said my piece. This is all I'm saying on it.

Put all that hater energy into shit you actually enjoy and maybe you'll feel fucking better about yourself. Be fucking nice to each other, the world's fucking cruel enough without y'all adding to it, goddamn.

#Listen I don't give a shit about ppl being rude to or about me but like y'all going after friends like.... #If i hadn't already blocked most of these ppl I would've done it today #Like damn y'all have time and energy to be behaving like this? In this economy?

[lultimagoccia]

get to know the mun ! very long post, under readmore.

name / alias. castoro.

are you over 18 ? yes. no.

WRITING.

are you selective about who you write with ? no (anyone.) semi (most people.) yes (some people.) highly (few people.) private.

are you selective about who you follow ? no (anyone.) semi (most people.) yes (some people.) highly (few people.)

if your muse is canon, how much do you adhere to canon ? not at all. a little. some. mostly. strictly. not applicable.

see this one feels like an ' it's complicated ' because i do try to use the information presented in the game / comics / old lore doc / cut dialog sequences / ic tweets / concept art as the groundwork of my portrayal, but i don't like. treat pepp like a video game / cartoon character? i know a big part of pt is the game mechanics so i incorporate those as much as i can, but it's not a thing i lean into a lot

what post lengths do you write ? one - liners. single - para. multi - para. novella. all of the aforementioned.

do you use icons and/or gifs ? no. gifs. icons. yes. sometimes.

do you write on other platforms ? no. yes.

my discord is available to people i write with!

what level of plots do you write ? unplotted. open - ended plots. semi - plotted. fully plotted epics. all of the aforementioned.

i generally prefer to have an idea to work off of and MAYBE some details that'll happen along the way. but overall i like when things happen organically, in whatever way feels right to the story.

how quickly do you usually respond to threads ? very slow (more than a month.) slow (3 - 4 weeks.) average (1 - 2 weeks.) fast (less than one week.) very fast (less than three days.) depends on my motivation, this can make it range from days to weeks.

really varies as of late due to varying levels of energy / motivation.

what types of themes do you like ? adventure. romance. fluff. angst. violence. tragedy. domestic. family. all of the aforementioned.

i like stuff that is very emotionally charged, happy or sad or angry, WHATEVER. make me FEEL, man, i am ready for it. also just love sitting two characters down and letting them talk. some really interesting stuff can emerge from two muses just hashing out their perspectives and seeing what happens.

what genres do you like? high fantasy. supernatural. science fiction. historical. horror. comedy. romantic. drama. action. smut. adventure. espionage. all of the aforementioned.

are there any themes you’re uncomfortable writing on your blog ? (not triggers) no. yes. it depends.

cheating / infidelity has always been a big no for me. also not mega comfortable writing about child death / extreme harm to children. it just makes me really upset.

do you have any triggers ? how do you request it tagged ?

the topic of miscarriages / pregnancy loss can be triggering for me, but i doubt that's gonna come up like much at all.

SHIPPING.

what types of relationships are you open to ? romantic. platonic. familial. other. all of the aforementioned.

what types of pre - established relationships are you open to ? romantic. platonic. familial. other. all of the aforementioned.

all i ask is that we talk about it first. i've had people write muses intended to be mine's kid that presumed my muse was a radically different kind of parent than i would've written them as, so ... i'd kinnnda prefer to plot that sort of stuff out first now.

do you have otps ? no. chemistry only. yes.

i basically ship pepp with all the canon pt characters, with my favorites being pepp / noisette, pepp / gustavo, and pepp / fake ( only when fake is written as being fully cognitively mature, not as an animal or childlike ). for sugary spire, i like pizzano / pizzelle.

do you have notps ? no. yes.

for pt, not really no. there's ships i'm a little picky about how they're written, such as pepp / anton and pepp / pizzahead, but like i said i ship pepp with All.

what is your muse’s sexual orientation ? heterosexual. bisexual. pansexual. homosexual. demisexual. asexual. still trying to figure it out. depends on the muse you’re asking.

what is your muse’s romantic orientation ? heteroromantic. biromantic. homoromantic. panromantic. demiromantic. aromantic. still trying to figure it out. depends on the muse you’re asking.

are you comfortable writing smut ? no. selectively. yes.

i gotta know you at least a lil bit, because i'm a shy weenie about things like that.

how early in a relationship do you ship romantically ? autoship. during plotting. after a couple ic interactions. several ic interactions. slow burn. plot dependent. never.

are you open to toxic ships ? no. selectively. yes. i am not sure.

are you open to problematic ships ? no. selectively. yes. i am not sure.

are you open to polyshipping ? no. selectively. yes. i am not sure.

are you an exclusive shipper ? never. sometimes. yes. i would be open to discuss it.

does crack shipping ever happen ? nope. yes. depends.

all ships i do are serious ships. all of them. does not matter how jokingly it is suggested, i will make it real.

tagged. i stole it.

tagging. @crvptd, @phonypizza, @pizzadoff

#;out for delivery [ ooc ] #;meme response

[dcviline]

Some important things I want to reiterate for my blogs. Some of these things are already in my rules but keep getting ignored repetitively and by different people so I'm going to clarify, and some of these are new additions. I'm sorry if any of this comes across as too harsh in wording, I am just very very tired & stressed irl due to the time of year so I'm gonna be more careful about curating my tumblr experience for the time being. Please read.

First of all, I can usually tell when you have not read my rules or the info I have on my muse(s). I'm not a hardass and I won't get fussy if you forget something, I don't expect everyone to memorize everything about my rules or portrayals, that's just an insane expectation to have in general so don't worry I am not gonna ask that of anyone lmao. We're all just human beings and a lot of us here have funky little brains so trust me I'm very chill about it. And it's okay if you skim, they are just there for reference if you ever need them. I also understand especially with my multis, I don't have info listed for every muse because I am moving things around a lot and still working on new pages, so it's okay to make mistakes. What I mean is, sometimes it's very easy to tell when someone followed without looking at anything at all. The only thing I ask for is an attempt to respect the guidelines and boundaries I have set for myself and the barest attempt to at least try to understand the muse you're intending to interact with instead of picking them purely for the face you saw or the blog aesthetic or whatever.

On that same note, don't try to interact with my muses just because of their faceclaims. Just . . . don't do this please. I'm honestly shocked about how many times this has happened to me in the past year alone. I do not like the concept of face hunts or wanted opposites based solely on a faceclaim and not the character itself; it makes me very uncomfortable.

All of my blogs are mutuals only. If we are not mutuals, I will not be interacting with you on a roleplay basis. I will not be writing starters or answering ic thread starters in my inbox for non mutuals. This is how I curate my space. It's not personal, but please respect this boundary I have set. I have it on my pinned post that I am private and mutually exclusive, so there is no excuse to ignore this.

I am not fast about following back 70% of the time. I'm cautious about who I follow for the sake of curating my dash space. If you do not have an accessible place with your rules listed at the very least, then I will wait to follow until you do and I have read them. Outside of getting notified about a new follow, I check my new followers once or twice every 2-3 weeks, so yes, it can take a while in some cases, especially if I missed the original notification or if you didn't have your rules / info added at the time. Do not repeatedly follow / unfollow to get my attention. All this does is make me not want to follow at all. Please be patient with me, and if you can't afford me patience in even the littlest things, then this is not the blog for you.

I do have long-term writing partners that get prioritized. These are usually friends I have been writing with for years, so there is a great deal of trust and understanding already built. Of course this does mean that typically my inspiration will gravitate towards these mutually-built plots and dynamics, especially when my energy is low. I'm just a human being, not a writing machine. Having friends and having fun writing with them is not "cliquey", so if you hold this view, this is not the blog for you. (Yes, that has been an issue before.) I always welcome new writing partners! If we are mutuals, I want to write with you. Just understand that I do have a severe anxiety disorder, so I'm always shy when first meeting & getting to know someone new. Again, I am interested, just shy & anxious! So feel free to throw yourself and your muses at me first and I promise I will be elated.

Most of the muses I write are women or fem-aligned. I do notice when people only try to interact with my men & masc muses and completely ignore all of my women. Please don't be one of these people.

A new addition because of a trend I'm noticing more and more lately: please do not make the majority of your thread and ask replies to me in all caps. A little bit for decoration is fine, but if it's the majority of the reply, the odds are I cannot read it. I am dyslexic and have adhd, and it's extremely hard (if not impossible in some cases) for my brain to get through a piece of writing if it's a giant block of all caps.

I won't follow you if you use templates / psds / etc. from resource creators and do not credit the people who made them. It takes minimum effort to simply acknowledge the people who went out of their way to make these things, and pretending that someone else's work (no matter how heavily you edited it) is your own is theft and overall icky behavior.

If we are mutuals, you are 100% welcome to come throw your muses at mine at any time! You can send ic asks (and continue them) or throw random starters at me whenever the inspiration hits you, the only requirements are don't godmod or forceship. (If you are unsure about anything, come talk to me!) I promise I do not bite <3

#᯽ ooc. ⊱ ── ❝ 𝘖𝘩 𝘯𝘰 𝘪𝘵'𝘴 𝘔𝘢𝘳𝘪. ❞ #will reblog this slowly on my other blogs so I don't clog the dash all at once #some of this is new and needs to be added to my rules too on some blogs

[tamedgod]

negativity below the cut.

if this is you kat then please just leave me alone. this blog has been re-open for three damn weeks and i haven't even remotely wrote or posted any shipping material. i have barely even sent feelers out. i'm tired of you stalking my tags and blogs and doing this shit, man. just talk to me in a fucking private message, this is beyond ridiculous after four years.

if this somehow ISN'T kat, then again please come talk to me. i NEVER want to make anyone feel like i'm forcing ships or coercing you into writing things you don't want to. there are so many things to write that as long as we're WRITING i do not care. if i pass an idea your way and you're not into it it's not going to be the end of the world. i'm not gonna get mad or yell at you or be shitty. we can find something we're both into and be adults about the situation. i am too old and tired for drama.

on another note; the reason it's easy for me to mark xiao as someone's ex or like a previous fling is because he does date and sleep around. he's a guy that is terrible with expressing his real feelings despite them being so obvious, and he messes around with other people in a piss poor attempt to cope at not being able to share how he feels with people he ACTUALLY cares about. please don't mistake it for me being a "ship whore" or w/e bc nine times out of ten i am not interested in genuinely shipping xiao with anyone. he's stubborn and rude and an all around asshole and in many verses harms or kills whoever he touches. i just want to write true to his character, which atm is not a great guy.

i'm sorry if i've upset or offended anyone. i'm just going to chill on disco for a while, this has really killed a lot of my energy.

#m. ooc #m. tbd #m. mobile #i'm tired

[incarnateirony]

You and I have had our differences, but I wanted to say thank you for being a positive safe space for Dean/Castiel/Jensen/Misha/Destiel. Too many places I’ve been apart of that are supposed to be safe spaces (namely Profound Bond, but other discords and private gc’s) delight in tearing down Destiel or reaching for the worst possible intentions of everything that Misha or Jensen say.

And this, my friends, is why the mods of spnscripthunt screech "cult" about the fact that I establish basic boundaries and expected social codes of civil behavior in my server. PB... wants to try, but all it resorts to is rigid overmodding of topics. Like how dare you squii also about Alex in this Mishalex picture in the Misha room, DELETED, TAKE THAT HERESY TO THE ALEX CHANNEL jesus, jan. calm down. So then nobody can have organic convos and 2po and dotp and those folks FROM scripthunt run around shitting in the corners and dragging people to DMs to shove propaganda down their throat when they aren't salting in any semi viable channel.

Yeah. I know. I. Fucking. Know. It's miserable out there for people that like. Have eyes and ears and just want to enjoy the content. This place is overflowing with entitled shitlords that think antifanning is the only true fanning, that their lies about creatives can supercede who they are as people, EVERYTHING.

I don't care about ~differences to be honest. Hell, a few people that left in the *literal server coup to try to delete my server* have, once they basically apologized and recognized where and how it got out of pocket, come back. I just care about like. Emotional expense bullshit. Because yes, guys, I'm sorry, even the best of you, just be exposure to this deranged ass psychosocial bubble, have developed really bad habits. You're human. Exposure happens. Normalization happens. So odds are if I ever went off, it was less about what you said, than how you said it.

The other nonnie for example REALLY DOES THINK THEY WERE BEING GENUINE. They didn't compute, because how NORMALIZED it is here, how 1. asking a repetitive question on anon is itself an energy investment request in expectant tone from a literal faceless douchebag i can't hold conversation with or know as a person and 2. attaching their own presupposition that I might somehow be Overdoing It even though they ADMITTED they didn't have context.

Like. Don't. If you're gonna ask me shit, put aside your foregone conclusions fucking first. That's the entire problem with this place. That's the plot of the show. And yes it's a metanarrative, and when you are literally aware of that, watching those shenanigans clog up your anon box or try to slip into your server makes you want to like. Rip off your own arm and chew on it. STAHP. omG

So yeah. Unless you like killed a puppy or something anon, regardless of the differences, check out the server. If we had a conflict, under the respect of understanding it's still a space I maintain those conversational boundaries on for a mix of respect and community environment, that's fine. Shelter's still open for the sane.

We have basic debate rules. It's not that we don't allow debate. In fact, the server itself is premised *in* debate. But that debate is literal debate, and designed to end cyclones of indefensible misinformation, appeals to nonsense invisible majorities, concern trolling or halfass shutdowns. Which, again is why the spnscripthunt people shit their pants, because 2po and co's tactics don't work there. Because that's not how reality works when your entitlement goes down the toilet. So anyway. Drop in if you need, w/e.

But btw the above notes about the points of "people who think they're genuine, and even the best of you do this"--these statements are worth taking away from here well beyond my blog, like how you engage creatives and the angles you ask THEM questions from. I can promise most if not all are as tired as I am of it. Because we're always told what it is, even when people ~ask. And after about 6 years of getting talked over by the people that think they're asking you questions, putting the burden on YOU to unpack THEIR bullshit BEFORE you can even answer the ACTUAL QUESTION, like. I'm tired. But imagine how pissed, say, Robbie or Bobo are. Or Jensen.

I'm literally just asking people to be more considerate of other people's perspectives, communication methods, and emotional energy before springing in. Basically start being more critical of how we treat people and how much we expect, and how much those expectations are shaped by lack of context inside our own heads, much of which can often be found for themselves.

Opening that door can be scary. But rather than arguing if someone else is sure they already went through the door or not (I promise, we are sure, even if you're not), figure out why you're not sure there's a door when you're looking right at it, and what YOU need to ask YOURSELF to open it too.

Because yeah. I'm not subtle about how deep the misinfo about these authors is. So maybe start there. Start unpacking that shit and trying to look it up. Then, if you struggle, ask for help. And once YOU are doing the hard work of inspecting the origins of YOUR perspectives and challenging YOURSELF, whether you realize it or not, the asks you send for help will drop those challenges you hurl at others to break down your bad viewpoints. Because you're already working on it. Which is good. (And the plot.)

Then it won't be "Hey, are you SUREEEEEEEE Bobo intended it the whole time?" it'll be "I saw some tweets of his that seemed important but I'm not sure of the context, can you help?" And suddenly, you guys are a lot less casually hostile and frankly, obnoxious.

[darkmasterkattsvault]

Long rambling update under the cut, please give it a read.

aight, so I'm hella bad at actually keeping my word on here. said I was coming back, immediately got sucked into playing Cyberpunk again cos my brother in law has it on his PC and I wanted my goddamn Iguana and to finish the game. So... I may or may not have grinded out the entire game, including all endings. Now, this has led to 2 things: not being active here and now wanting a muse based off Rogue (or just Rogue honestly but is there a market for that?).

now, I could say I'll be active here, but truth be told, I won't be. Not for a while, at least. Come Monday my brother in law is driving me home and one of two things is going to happen, I'm going to spend the week or more following helping him and my dad fix the house or he's gonna help me pack to come here to live permanently. I won't even be unpacking my computer until after we find out what my fate is, cos no point unpacking it until I know I'm staying.

with that said, part of me is thinking of letting this blog go. I created it out of grief, four years ago come November. I used this blog and the characters on it to help myself heal. and I'm starting to think I've outgrown it. yes, this is the remake, but ever since I remade it my activity has been minimal at best. I have a small handful of people I write with and I love writing with y'all, it's just getting harder and harder to do so. To find the mental energy to get on this blog and actually do replies. I want to be here but at the same time, I don't.

if you want my discord, provided you don't already have it, please let me know and I'll pass it along. I might come back, when the dust settles and I know what my life is going to look like moving forward, but I also might not.

if I do come back it will probably be with a lot of changes to my muse list. a lot of cutting back, a lot of removing. this may also just become a private blog. in the sense that I start locking muses to certain people and only write those characters with those people unless discussed.

so, this isn't goodbye, not yet, but it is, at minimum, a see ya later.

Charlie/Katt

#out of cornflakes (ooc)

[hidingoutbackstage]

4, 7 , 12, 16 and 20 for resi ~

4. what was the last straw that made you finally block that annoying person? I realized I was putting too much energy into hate reading their blog to make fun of it. I'm going to dislike every single post they make so why subject myself to their bs? Blocked

7. what character did you begin to hate not because of canon but because how how the fandom acts about them? Luis. I didn't care too much for him in the og, he was fine but w/e (apart from the comment to Ashley I will have his head for that) and even in the remake he's still w/e to me if a little better but. My g-d. Will people not shut up about him. You've seen my rant post about how re4make fans treat Luis vs. Ashley I don't need to explain again lmao

12. the unpopular character that you actually like and why more people should like them Steve Burnside! I have a soft spot for him in my heart right next to Ashley, they were both written to be annoying for comedy's sake but came across as too unlikeable and a way for the creators to be creepy towards women. Well that's bullshit and I love Steve and I'm taking custody of him from Capcom

16. you can't understand why so many people like this thing (characterization, trope, headcanon, etc) Why do people wanna date Wesker???? Even when people make self-ship fics/art/headcanons/etc. it's always like "Wesker fucking ignores you and doesn't like talking to you in public or showing physical affection but rawdogs you in private" like wherrrrrre's the appeal???

20. part of canon you found tedious or boring I'm gonna not say a gameplay aspect because there's PLENTY of gameplay in RE I find boring lol I like puzzles as much as the next person but sometimes for me it's like eh no thanks. Anyway ngl Shadows of Rose for one big reason, and that's that it doesn't matter. You play the entire DLC, having an extremely watered down time when you could be playing mercenaries mode, and then once you finally get to the end you realize it was for nothing and the end is just the epilogue from the main game so what was the point of Rose's arc if it didn't matter? I can't stand sor

#sid answers #kief #ask game