#and thats a whole ass child

[zaynes-ocs]

What once was and what will be

#ocs #my ocs #dnd ocs #oc #xadian #Xavier Romero-Diaz #a peek into something interesting my brian concocted~ #literally obsesseddddddd #not size accurate xadian is 10 feet tall #and thats a whole ass child #hes standing on boxes then shshsh

[macolegacy]

felt like doing an alien 3 redraw w my favorite girl happy 9 years 🔥

#star wars #star wars the old republic #mirialan #art fart #kronos #star wars art #yeah she's not 7 yrs old. shes fucking NINE !!!! yrs old. thats someones whole ass child #mine<3

[8rujaa]

my therapist really saved me….

#tw abuse // tw sa #i can’t sleep bc i keep thinking about this. #like i probably would’ve not been here if it weren’t for her #i started seeing her january of 2023… my life has changed entirely since then and she was definitely the one who got the ball rolling #literally so much has changed since then and it’s all because of her #i was so dissociated during our first few sessions #thanks to her i was able to get diagnosed and medicated for adhd. i was able to realize i was in an abusive situation and plan a way out #i was able to focus on myself and my healing and she’s helped me reframe so much of my negative thinking #i was able to process a lot of emotions and become a better version of myself with each session #she’s truly incredible. #i remember the first comment she made about the relationship had been ‘’so it’s like there’s an imbalance of control in the relationship’’ #i had put my partners on such a high pedestal that i had no idea they could be doing anything wrong #and i asked her what she meant and she said ‘from what you’ve been describing it’s sounds like a strict parents and child type of dynamic’ #she told me they didn’t need to understand why i wanted to leave and they didn’t need to make that decision. if that’s what was going to be #best for me the only thing i could do is let them know my reasoning and simply leave. i didn’t need their permission.’’ #i remember being so confused at that realization bc like… i had been putting their emotions over mine the whole time i had forgotten simply #doing what’s best for me was an option… l #ever since then i’ve been putting myself first and it’s been a steady uphill from rock bottom… i’ve made an incredible amount of progress #when i first started with her getting out of bed and walking to the kitchen was incredibly difficult and took all my strength. #yesterday i conquered a mountain!!!!!!! i hiked all the way to the top!!!!! :D #me a year ago thought it was going to take me years and years to recover. as soon as i left i made leaps of progress #im incredibly proud of myself and grateful for her. and my reiki lady she’s also been a great great help. #the silver lining is i realized who really matters. and the relationships i cared about deepened. #my sweet virgo friend was the one who was always like ‘THATS A GROWN ASS MAN WHO CANT UNDERSTAND BASIC CONSENT???’ #LMFAO i would be like ‘but he has trauma and bla bla bla’ she looked me dead in the eyes and said #’jess you said with your last boyfriend that you would never make excuses for a man who was hurting you again. stop defending him.’ #she’s really a gem and i treasure her with my life. i hope she knows i love her. she’s family at this point #she’s also literally saved my life before (like deadass called 911 for help) #im glad i had the support system i had. that was a rough situation with so many layers and im glad i got through it #my 22nd year of life was by far the worst of my life and i don’t ever want to put myself in that situation again. im glad i learned.

[givemewallywestorgivemedeath]

The painful thing is that Young Justice 100% exists in this au but saying literally anything about them would completely spoil the entirety of the Titan's plotlines.

Cept maybe for Kon.... yeaaaaaaaaah... pretty sure his stuff would be unrelated

#so much shit happening with Bart and Cassie #it's an au so i did some... creative things with their origins #still fine tuning Tim's whole deal #i got Kon on lock though #titans fantasy au #very excited about Bart's plotline(s) because there's a lot to play around with #im also putting a lot of effort into Donna and Cassie because they get extremely underdeveloped in canon and fanon #Donna's storyline is kick ass rn and it feeds perfectly into Cassie's which in very excited about #Tim is a sickly victorian child... but thats enough about canon comics. I GOT JOKES FOR DAYS

[apollo-zero-one]

Man I can't believe I had the chance to go to a performing arts school up through middle school and I fuckin quit after 6 months just because I got bullied. BRO YOUR HOMEWORK WAS POETRY!! YOU HAD TO PRACTICE DANCING TO COTTON EYE JOE AS YOUR BIG UNIT TEST. GYM CLASS HAD A CIRCUS UNIT!! YOU HAD A WHOLE DAILY CLASS ON IMPROV!!! YOU FOOL!! YOU ABSOLUTE IMBICILE!! YOU COULD HAVE BEEN A YOUTUBER!!! YOU COULD HAVE BEEN ONE OF THOSE TWEENAGERS GETTING LOADED BY MAKING SHITTY YOUTUBE SHORTS IN 2008-14!! But noooOoooOOOoo little miss Noellie (who WANTED TO GO!! who worked SO HARD and sent in an application essay and did an INTERVIEW to get in!!) couldn't handle disruptive classmates or little scuffles and petty grudges and general Attitude of the other students and cried to mommy to put her back in public school. I am EATING MY HAIR over what Could Have Been. I COULD BE SOMEONE'S ANNOYING YOUTUBER!! I could be a DISGRACED DISNEY CHANNEL STAR!! I could be an America's Got Talent winner! A mild to moderately successful comedian! I could be making short films!! But no no no precious thin skinned baby me heard a few new cus words and watched a teacher get heckled and begged to give up The Dream in favor of?? Quiet math tests?? I am such a fucking quitter I quit everything the second it gets too hard I always take the out as soon as it's offered what's my fucking damage.....

#I had SO MUCH POTENTIAL and I SQUANDERED IT!! weak ass third grade PUSSY! Your life could have been SO SICK!! #or you could at least be addicted to cocain or something interesting like that!! Boring ass goody two shoes always just staying home doing #NOTHING bitch make a REAL FRIEND go to a God Damn PARTY live a little instead of just hiding in the closet eating saltine crackers for years #waiting for it to be quiet outside before you ever even toed the line #mentally ill self-isolating motherfucker #you could have shrugged it off you could have GROWN A PAIR and FOUGHT BACK but you just ran and cried for mommy #victim complex little bitch baby always whining and exaggerating and making shit up fucking LIAR I am you and I KNOW what you did and I know #you knew it wasn't the truth and you regretted it the moment it came out of uour mouth but once you'd said it you just swallowed it back and #doubled down incriminating or discrediting others with your lies. For why? Because you didn't like them? You could have ruined someone's #life you wouldn't have hesitated mayhe you did and don't even remember because you cant keep your mouth shut with your pants ablaze #manipulative little shit and to WHAT END? Pity? Sympathy? Attention? Entertainment?? What was even going on in your stupid ugly head? #This is a callout post for my third grade self that possessed demon ass evil nine year old. That kid drowned anthills in olive oil and #poisoned a wild animal once. That kid cut plants just to see if they oozed. That kid modified her whole ass personality on a dime for a boy #she had a crush on. INSTANTLY dropped a LIFELONG CULTURAL ALLEGIANCE (thats what football teams were like back then in our town) because he #said he had the opposite allegiance??? What the fuck? girl had NO integrity none zip zilch. #No empthy either that kid looked at everyone else on earth like they were friggin space aliens and she was the only one with Real feelings. #bitch literally thought like 'I have Feelings they just have Reactions' bitch what the fuckkkkk #that nine year old was fucked the hell up!!! #and for literally NO REASON!! No cause!! Just born fucking evil and weird. jesus fuck. #Evil ass bitch caused her autistic brother months of nightmares and then laughed about it and wrote poetry about how evil he was because he? #was a kid??? Normal sibling rivalry taken way way way too far defamatory ass statements #and this girl had NO CONSEQUENCES because she could lie and manipulate her way out of ANYTHING she had the baby eyes and the helpless charm #and played dumb soooo well . read people like some calculative evil AI scanning their faces for microexpressions and overanalyzing each word #choice like holy shit. its not That Deep. pretentious shit trying to play 5D chess on a checkers board. #Manipulating shit just to see what happens?? zero awareness?? no asking just skipping straight to testing for yourself?? #'What happens if I step on this' it fucking breaks 'what does that taste like?' it's not fucking yours to mess with 'if I hit this person #how will they respond?' they'll be upset use your goddamn judgement you are NINE not TWO do you even care a little about any other person?? #Are you just living in some other reality??? #callout post for the fucking demon child inside of me #im so goddamn problematic I'm so so so deeply mentally disturbed and broken for no reason

[piplupod]

thinking abt the previous post, the agency i worked at for a couple years would use bits of ABA and I just... I always nodded along to the boss instructing me on how to work with the kids with those tactics (I worked with the kids who were 6 and under) and then as soon as she left I tossed all that shit out of my brain and just treated the kid like a human being and worked with them where they were at.

and guess what !!! i had the most and fastest success out of every other worker in the entire building!! i was often told it seemed like i was working miracles with my kids bc they'd just progress so fast (comparatively) through the skill book we had to work on, and that the kids always seemed so happy and eager to come to the building after they started working with me!!

this is partially why I quit because I couldn't stand seeing my coworkers treat the kids like they were dogs (talking down to them, being patronizing, and utilizing shitty ABA tactics) and as much good as I was doing there, it was fucking me up bc they were extremely demanding that I work more than I was comfortable (or able) to, and often put me with "problem" kids who I didn't get to regularly see so we couldn't make much progress bc the kids weren't able to get to know me and (rightfully!) didn't trust me because they thought I'd be treating them the way everyone else did.

i just...... my coworkers would ask me how I had so much success and I would just shrug and say like, "just treat them like they're human and work with them where they're at" and I couldn't explain any more bc that'd require me admitting I wasn't following the boss' guidance for a lot of shit fjfkdl

#i had kids who didn't like talking suddenly become chatterboxes bc they actually felt safe and listened to for once !!! #(and ofc some kids just didnt like talking and that was okay bc they would talk when needed but just preferred to be quiet) #also yall i had no formal training for this 😭 i was thrown into the fray one day djfkdl i was supposed to just work as an admin assistant #it was just fucking bonkers there #kids had meltdowns sometimes bc the workers were so useless and didnt take the time to learn to read the child and they'd push too much #and they did things in ways that were sooo rigid so often like... if a kid is looking tired u gotta shift ur schedule around !! #but they'd just be like noooope this is our plan and we have to stick to it #my guy!! the child looks exhausted!!! they are fucking four years old !!! what the hell are u doing!!! #no four yr old is going to ever feel okay if u keep pushing them to do stuff they dont rly want to do when theyre tuckered out!! #anyways i could rant for hours abt that place lmfao #i still think abt the kids so often esp some of the ones with rough home lives #and i just rly rly hope theyre doing okay #but i cannot go back and help again bc that place destroyed me gjfkdl i hit autistic burnout HARD while there #and thats what ultimately forced me to quit #otherwise i probably would've stayed bc i rly wanted to give these kids someone safe to be around esp if their homes werent a v safe place #idk its so hard bc one person can't change the entire way things are (esp since i had no formal training) #but also if im not there then i know nobody else there is going to be knocking ABA to the side and treating the kids like whole ass humans! #eugh i hate thinking abt it bc I just... what the fuck do u do with a situation like that lmfao #i miss those kids sm though fjfkdl theyre all so cool and fun and rly good kids #i hope good things happen to them :') #pippen needs 2nd breakfast #ableism tw #aba tw

[gatsby-system-folks]

Au where Murdoc runs away as a kid and ends up at the Pots' house.

#gorillaz #murdoc gorillaz #i have no idea how this would function in canon #just think itd be neat lol. i guess it would depend on what age mudz runs away at. because i like happy endings lets say he runs away #at 8. and somehow makes it to (checks notes) wherethepotslivebourough. stus what... 2 or 3? mr and mrs. pot adopt the trash gremlin #child who appears at their doorstep. #mr. pot: well honey i think we have another kid. hes grey and very sad and angry. golly i guess lets put him in therapy #and then things... go better. yknow. #mudz and stu grow up as brothers and mudz is fiercly protective of him to the point of it getting annoying. maybe hannibal figures out #where his little brother went and finds him and gets the Stern Fatherly Concern treatment too. #im sorry for the whole-ass fic in the notes but im on a role. #97 roles around and idk the boogeyman fucking kidnaps stu or some shit and knocks his eyes about and thats where the 2d nickname comes from #idk what paula would do in this au. maybe shed be a prophet for the boogeyman or something. pfkf #so to like be proper rivals with the boogeyman mudz and 2d form a band! they kidnap russel and noodle shows up like normal and then things #play out roughly as normal except mudz isnt severely traumatized and is able to be a proper unhinged leader as he was destined to be. #... you think this is bad #i have 2 other aus in a similar vein to this lmao #which i will discuss if prompted #~ europa #cursing in tags

[alchemist-shizun]

I've come to the realization that I've known about mdzs for about 4 months and so far I've been juggling in my head 3 different songxuexiao fic ideas (ones actually not ship fic only about post canon song lan and inner turmoil which we love) and SOMEHOW all of them involve little kids to a certain degree, either raising them or having a group of little ducklings following u everywhere u go.

This is a first and a pattern I wasn't expecting but I guess I'm welcoming it!

#mdzs #songxuexiao #theres like. modern swtting au where songxiao adopt a kid out of specific circumstances and xue yang shows up after a while #hes late with starbucks /j but their kid parent traps him as well #then the second one a canon divergence from the novel where an issue sees xxc bringing both zichen and a captured xy to baoshan sanren #xy is there mostly bc xingchen wouldnt know what the hell to do with him and theyre on a time limit #HE DOESNT GET TO TAKE HIM TO ANY BIG SECT. when they get there xxc brings sl to his master for treatment for stuff i havent figured out yet #but its BAD #and while xingchen waits he comes back to find xue yang is cornered SURROUNDED BY a myriad of younger disciples #theyre listening intently to the stories he tells and theyre so engaged by the plot and frequently ask questions #and ngl its kind of a cute vision #AS FOR THE LAST more canon compliant fic we have post yi city song lan doing his wandering cultivator life #stumbles upon a street where some older men are picking a fight with a child #the child is definitely a street child. orphan and homeless. he seems too softhearted to defend himself so sl helps! #ofc it doesnt end there Because this is a whole ass child who needs help so he decides to do what he can #little kid is gripping so HARD at his robes too hes terrified. thats also how he finds out in some twisted sick fate that fhe child is.. #missinf a fucking finger. and now he has to resign himself to the idea of being constantly reminded of a certain someone as he raises him #because he WILL raise him its the right thing to do cant trust anyone these days #okay thats all if u read up until here hi im idya come chat with me about yi city arc im friendless /hj #but seriously im so insane about this arc and the characters i need someone to yell with

[llimerrence]

meet gregory hes on this blog now. but like. with my canon because fuck u hes not a bad boy and i refuse the theories that say he is and i dont think hes Client 46 either. i just ,,,,hes a homeless lil boy how the fuck is he getting therapy lmao even the pizzaplex minis make him just seem a bit odd. not a killer. or at worst, hes being manipulated / corrupted. hes just a lil boy

dont turn children into villians they are just children

anyway, take my boys bio

Gregory was born to a family that seemed perfect on the outside. They loved him, spoiled him, they abandoned him for nine hours a day, and hardly spoke to him when they were home. But, he was fed, he had a bed, and a roof over his head. How could he complain? But then his parents died in an accident. A fire to be exact. Some people suspected that Gregory himself set the fire. Of course, there was no proof, and Gregory denied it. He didn’t want his parents to die, no matter how much other people tried to convince him he did.

Since then, he’s been in and out of foster homes, but often goes days without returning. He lives in the megaplex usually, having found ways to hack into the employee only system and get around locks. It takes him quite some time to do so, and he often seeks help from his friends who help him with more advanced work. He uses the nickname ‘Dr. Rabbit’ to write fun stories with his friends; and he has the top score on almost all the arcade games in the megaplex. And yes, he has managed to get him and his friends some free play passes even though he knows he shouldn’t. 

However, Gregory does not trust easily, and often causes more trouble than he means too. He also tends to get overly attached, to an unhealthy degree. Gregory often invited his counselors to see his true living situation, at which point, something.. Bad happened. The first time, Gregory thought it was just his bad luck. Like what happened to his parents. Then, it happened again. And Again. And Again. That was how Gregory found out it lived there. And it liked to copy Gregory, it liked to wear the same clothes, use the same voice, do the same things. It was kind of funny. And at first, Gregory was excited, thinking that maybe he’d finally found someone to be his family. Then, Gregory found her body. And suddenly, it wasn’t so funny anymore. Gregory tried to talk to it, to tell it to stop, that he didn’t want to hurt anyone. Sure, he was mad, and sometimes he was upset, but that didn’t mean someone had to die. 

But It told him that it was fine, if Gregory didn’t want to play, it would simply find a new friend. After all, unlike Gregory, it had plenty of friends. Such as the security guard, Vanessa. She was a great friend, after all, when Gregory refused to do anymore hacking–all it had to do was ask Vanessa to hit a few more buttons. 

Gregory wanted friends. He wants a family. And It intends to take it all away.

#the breach; || gregory; #--; hes a whole ass child and he cant be a bad boy #--; i refuse it #--; the only villian in this series is the child killer and i refuse anything that says otherwise #--; anyway g regory is gonna be sid's great nephew <3 #--; and hes totally constantly in contact w/ either g litch or m im ic #--; and hes just not having a good time thats the end of it

[coffincoitus]

still re: tlou (sorry), the show rly capitalizes the ways in which ellie is different from sarah in joel's eyes. in the finale, when he's listing to ellie the ways in which she and sarah differ, there's fatherly affection, yes, but also his opinion comes down to how much like a carefree little girl sarah was, while ellie is hardened for her age (a truthful assessment).

imo the circumstances make their relationship much more claustrophobic and confusing than what would be healthy for a father/daughter relationship.

even tho joel's dynamic with sarah had the same structure (father and daughter, no mother/other siblings. daughter takes part in house chores etc), sarah was still allowed to be a kid who flinches and cries at violence, while ellie is a much more adultfied girl. and her role in their version of a father/daughter dynamic reflects that, specially in the way he depends on her.

#ik im the tumblr user whos always spotting claustrophobia and blurred lines in familial relationships but am i wrong #even the show writers comment on their relationship as if they're ~kindred spirits #as if thats not a whole ass child and a million years old man #hdhdhdh #i think we as a society romanticize fathers so much ppl dont even realize anymore how incestuous and claustrophobic some of this is

[puppy-the-mask]

The boys take Amp shopping, per request. She gets the basics of clothes, medical supplies, and snacks like those hidden valley bars. Once done she tells like, one half asleep skeleton that she’s going to a different store and walks over to the second hand store on the other side of the store cluster area (idk what it’s called) and just goes ham on picking clothes there. It’s much cheeper so more things and the store before had all pink and glitter in the girls while the guys section was just unappealing. She doesn’t mind graphic t’s but the graphics turned her off.

After a minor freak out from her trip chaperones they find her outside the changing rooms, in the process of deciding what to keep and what to put back. Some have now decided they’re going to add some life to her choices and set off to see if she’d like anything they picked out, adding them to try pile in the cart as they went.

But whats that we see? On the handle bar hanging is an orange hoodie. Why that looks familiar! Why hath thou chosen this garment small one? It called to me- she writes- soft as a cloud it is, and it hides my features oh so well! Yeah it’s Stretch’s old hoodie from when he first got there years ago. He donated it when it stopped fitting, and it is way too big on her. It’s amazing it lasted so long without getting bought- probably the bright color’s fault- but also destiny I guess.

Stretch @ Blue: bro gimme the adoption papers

NO

bro plz, shared custody at least- I beg

MAYBE

#i just... idfk #everyone has dad/uncle energy in this convept #they wanna be thefavorife #you know the people picking out things are keeping tally of who got the most pieces of clothing approved by the mysterious housemate #whom theyre all starting to suspect is still at an age where parental guidance is needed #imagine that- some person shows up at your house and like 3 weeks in you start to realize #hey wait a minute this isnt ab adult- thats a whole ass child? #what???? #what are you doing here small child? why are you so secretive and wary of the world? what happened to you??? we shall take care of you now #your our kid now- yes even the grumpy ones theyre your dads too- trust me they’ll throw hands for you they’re just emotionally and verbally #idiots #Amp gets Pulled au #(?)- don’t know what else to call it tbh

[musashi]

i do not want to know! i have no interest in anything unkind or judgy that anyone is saying about me, ever.

people on tumblr have been being rude to me for over a decade now and i have gone my whole 12 years here without ever being forced or compelled to see it. please just make it as easy as possible for me to keep ignoring nonsense like that and do not inform me or send anything to me. thank you!

#anonymous #wendy answers #i do not read mean things about myself from strangers on the internet. #that sort of behaviour is insane to me. #more power to you if thats a hobby you all have #but i was bullied enough as a child and i'm a whole ass adult who doesn't have time for that

[ascalonianpicnic]

Is there a reason you don't like taimi/gorrik? just curious cause i haven't seen anyone else dislike the ship so i don't know if there's like, any specific reason to dislike it or not :o

yeah ok so uh, to start off, it's really personal. I have a really close relationship with my older brother, he's disabled and I'm autistic so like its a really similar dynamic to what Gorrik and Blish had, and Blish and Taimi were close friends with major crushes on each other.

and I don't know if you've ever been in a situation like that anon but all of my brother's closest friends and his ex girlfriends that I liked and his wife he married recently have All felt like extra older siblings to me. even though he and i have the same taste in women, all the girls he dated, despite being my "type", just felt like older sisters. So I literally can't read Taimi and Gorrik's relationship as anything but big sister and little brother because I've been in that position and the idea of having romantic or sexual interest in any of my brother's close friends and especially someone he had a crush on? is really gross to me

like those are siblings, that's a pair of asuran siblings what the fuck why are they dating they're siblings stop making the siblings date

its just gross to me and i hate seeing it and im not very comfortable with anet making it canon. i know its maybe just a me thing but it still makes me feel gross so like please tag it so i can blacklist it

#like if gorrik and blish didn't have a super close relationship? sure thatd be fine. but they did #and if taimi and blish hadn't been super close friends? thatd be fine. but they were #but having also been the best friend of an older sibling with a close younger sibling? #how can she look at gorrik and not immediately think 'thats a whole ass child thats my younger brother now too' #probably doesn't help that i read gorrik as 5ish years younger than blish and taimi #socks talks #i'm turning reblogs off for now because i dont want people to be weird about this

[cherry-shipping]

THIS WHOLE BLOG IS SO STUPID!!!!!!!!!! I JUST TALK TO MYSELF AND ONCE IN A BLUE MOON 1 PERSON SEES IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i dont mind though its part of my weirdguy charm ithink ^__^ 😁👍

#cherry chats #blargh. sorry. idk wtf imtalkin about rn................ #this blog is like a neglected child to me who i only feed occasionally and the food is like. unsalted crackers and vodka #← things im eating right now i just realized #well nevermind ok. what im saying is im too embarrassed to post any selfhsip art !!!!!!!!! #and idk what to do about it. except pretend it isnt happening i guess #ive also run out of things to say about sans so imagine two blokes who do fuck all and there you go #thats skenp x sans content in a nutshell so you should be good now #arhhhgghh. dunno what im saying and i wish i would stop talking but im drunk off my whole ASS so im talking too much #gonna go to bedsies . sorry this blog is inactive for the most part and the rest is stupid shitposty bullshit

[todayisafridaynight]

STILL HAVING SUCH A NORMAL ONE ABOUT THAT RGGJO BUT NO Y7JO GETTING REALLY GOOD AT HOUSEWORK I SEE THE VISION… I'm pickin' up what you're puttin' down…

Because I've always wondered how unprepared Jo would've been going into everything. On one hand, he did leave home really young, but since he was working and Ikumi wasn't, one could argue Ikumi would've been the one to handle the housework at least while they were together.

Inversely, I do kiiind of feel like Jo would've done at least Some Things when he could to ease the burden on Ikumi based on his attempt to comfort her at the station. I'm reading way too much into it but it's notable that, despite him definitely being a smoker and them hoping for a miscarriage, the ashtray in their apartment is spotless.

But we only really see his living situation when he's with Ikumi and don't get to see what--if anything--changes when he's on his own, when he has to do everything and not just Some Things. But with regard to food, if you're in survival mode like that, while it is more economical to make food at home, it would make sense that any quality of cooking would be passable. That's not going to fly with a kid who's lived in the lap of luxury his whole life.

So I've always had a lot of feelings about Jo Bettering Himself for Masato's sake (even when Masato isn't necessarily being reasonable) and his overblown neurosis at the prospect of falling short--the post you mentioned in your tags is Exactly It. But, you know, it's cheesy, but I firmly believe he could do whatever he set his mind to, if he can manage to learn Every Martial Art and become a glorified (and very competent) accountant after dropping out of high school.

Also uhhhhhhhh entire post reminded me of this (びら on Pixiv) that's it that's the ask

Ok I'm glad we both caught on to Jo's attempt to console Ikumi and the considerably-clean home. Evidently he was probably self-sufficient enough, but nothing extraordinary- just whatever passed as 'suitable' for them, so it's not as though he's going in totally clueless (but certainly not knowledgeable enough to match Masato's extremely-high standards. Bless Arakawa but he definitely spoiled him a little).

Even if it is a 'cheesy' sentiment, Jo very much has proven that so long as it's for Masato, he's willing to do anything and everything no matter how big (joining the yakuza) or small (probably like. learning how to make quiche)

#snap chats #I WANTED TO REPLY TO THIS LAST NIGHT BUT I GOT A BAD STOMACH BUG EW i'm fine now tho :] #ALSO very happy to see you liked the RGGJo i posted- i definitely hoped you would lkarejlvkej #anyway neglected kids usually pick up on how to do basic things for themselves- some dont obvi #but if jo's ready to lay asphalt on the road by 15 then he probably took like. five minutes to learn how to crack an egg for himself #my favorite Lonely Child's meal growing up was simple yakimeshi- def not a hard meal to make so i imagine he can do at least that #but i can just very clearly see in my brain jo just becoming appalled at his son's standards #cause i mean. on the one hand He's Definitely In Great Hands Now but on the other hand Oh God He Was In REAL Great Hands How The Fuck #ah... now i just really wanna do something with this whole topic it's one of my faves cause it amuses me so much #makes me think plenty.. im sure jo felt a great deal of inadequacy when he finally got to see the full of masato's new life #cause surely- in his eyes- he probably never would have been able to give him such a pleasant life how can he live up to this #just more reason to try harder and assimilate into properly that life right #a small unrelated aside tho now that we're talkin bout ikumi i wonder what she would've done if she did get masato back #i mean they really didnt have means to take care of him but still.. i wonder if she misses him #maybe /i/ care too much about ikumi verALKEJ #FINAL NOTE BACK ON TRACK THOUGH pixiv tells me ive seen this post before but i have no memory of it #but thats EXACTLY the vision and its so cute.. that's how it is in my heart #thanks for writin in and indulgin my goofy ass LMAO

[0ystercatcher]

like it cannot possibly hurt men to idk, wear a condom? get a vasectomy? if theyre gonna be absolute mansluts w no interest in having kids. + if these men are rich as hell they can just freeze their sperm for later if thats smth they do want. maybe its my woman brain but genuinely it makes no sense for them to engage in 0 birth control 0 protection while fucking around w god knows how many women. it drives me crazy to see stuff like this. idk how many regular men do this most of the time its on the news its rich idiots. but this is legitimately irresponsible whore behavior i find it crazy its basically not stigmatized in any way. you just shouldnt be proud of leaving a trail of pregnancies (hopefully abortions, for the womens sake honestly) and fatherless kids wherever you go man. thats incredibly selfish!

#m #inb4 the women do it for the child support...thats great they still have a whole ass kid to take care of tho? #and child support is easy enough to avoid if you ummm dont knock her up in the first place?