#and was going to lose her mom

[bigfatbreak]

"what's the biggest difference in Tom's character in the dad villain au" you've never seen a papa-bear go so grizzy mode so fast

#my art #miraculous ladybug #marinette dupain cheng #tom dupain cheng #lê chiến kim #dad villain au #also the final straw for marinette was that the day kim pulled that shitass prank on her #that gave her like. love trauma in the show #was around the same time sabine passed out for the last time and never woke up again #so marinette realized that she was publicly humiliated #by chloe via kim as a proxy for the 'prank' #was going to lose her best friend who was moving #and was going to lose her mom #basically all in the same day

[forget-me-ghost]

Okay, okay.

There are only two episodes till the end of season 1, but Prime promised two seasons and Viv hopes that she gets even more than that bcs she has a lot of plans.

That being said, I really really hope that she planned for Alastor's mother to be mentioned at some point. This man is a confirmed mama's boy and I want to see evidence instead of just talking. I'm actually surprised that he didn't get angry when Mimzy called him 'a son of a bitch'.

#hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel alastor #alastor #alastor the radio demon #another one of my delulu wants #but no for real #i want someone to mention her and for Al to lose his cool #maybe not get angry but feel some kind of emotion #i think there was a theory going around that Al was only interested in hotel bcs maybe he would see his mom again #gimme mama's boy Alastor damn it!

[palmtreepalmtree]

My mom bullied me into going to a Passover seder at some semi-related family members, and I agreed cause she's old and I don't have many of these left.

They sent out an email instructing people to bring a photo of someone that we would like to have at the table but who otherwise could not attend.

As someone who has lost a father, all four grandparents, an aunt, an uncle, and a cousin, this is like telling me to bring a freight train of emotion to a stranger's table, and I am so annoyed by it. I understand that it's a nice gesture, and I'm sure as we go around the table talking about who we would like to have with us who can't be there, that it will be a meaningful moment to a lot of people, and I hope that I will somehow manage not to burst into tears (no, I will, I am getting teary about it now just thinking about it), but FUCK.

I don't know. Maybe I'll bring a photo of Harpo Marx. Nothing says 'we were slaves in Egypt' like the occasional interruption of a honking horn.

#if i end up bringing one of you #i will let you know #i'm gonna be mad about this seder for a while #when i suggested to my mom that she could go without me #she guilt-tripped me #she did the 'nevermind then #i won't go' #which is so fucking manipulative i could lose my mind #but it works cause also i don't want her driving that far alone at night

[aingeal98]

Daisy: You know after having spent 25 years alone and unloved I really thought searching for my birth parents would be the only way I could find a family but you know what this team is kind of-

Daisy: OK so at least one of my team is a traitor and my birth parents are alive they're just evil monsters. Cool cool cool I am once again not feeling very safe and secure

Daisy: Oh actually wait my bio parents love me? They want me? I can make a home here mayb-

Daisy: Oh never mind my mom just tried to murder me. And my dad is still a monster but he's agreed to have his memory wiped. At least he's still breathing I guess?

Daisy: Good news is I still have my found family parents so at least-

Daisy: Aaaaand found family dad is dead. You know what this is fine as long as I just have-

Daisy:

Daisy: Universe. Universe listen to me very closely. You bring back my found family mom right fucking now. If I have all four of my parents die on me I will destroy this world just like you all said I would

Daisy: OK good. We found a nice compromise. I get to keep one parent and don't have to watch four of them die. Oh hey it's my bio mom from another timeline where she didn't get tortured into insanity and could actually love-

Daisy: Are you fucking KIDDING me.

#aos #aos spoilers #aos rambles #daisy johnson #thinking about the universe's favourite chewtoy of tragedy tonight #The narrative said losing your parents twice isn't enough we're going to have all four of them die at least once. #Your bio mom dies twice as compensation for keeping may and robot coulson #No but for real if I was her I would be convinced fate had it out for me. I would fist fight it in a parking lot #and not just for the parents deaths for the little things #the first time a parental figure tries to tell her she loves her Daisy is 27. Her mom gets knocked out before she can actually say it #it takes two more years for her to get that first i love you from coulson #the amount of tragedy and grief this one character has survived is so crazy I want to sit in on just one therapy session #just to see how deeply out of his depth the therapist is #marvel

[puppyeared]

Ouhhhh friendship I love friendship……..

#I’m reading volumes 14-16 of the ouran manga OOUGHHH MY HEART #I love this weird little friend group so much its unreal #like u have this charming sweeps you off your feet prince but he’s actually a huge lovable idiot with a kind heart and his friends #who are all misfits that he reached out to and drew in because of his kindness and own weirdness like that shits TIGHT BRO #and the trauma part where he has some deep seated issues with love bc he thinks that itll break a family apart like with his mom #how his family isnt allowed to be together because his mom and dad fell in love and how he says he wants to build a big house #so that way one day everyone will get along as a family like. all he wants is not to lose everyone and the only way to do that is #by maintaining a certain order.. he both wants a complete family so bad and doesnt want anything to sour between anyone #so he assigns each of his friends a family role based on how he sees them and YEAH its mostly played for giggles and tamakis #already weird so its his way of showing theyre close to him but. god damn this boy has LAYERS #it also feels kinda meta towards how found family tends to get thrown around to assign characters as 'siblings' or family roles instead of #using it to describe characters who are close enough to be each others family. cuz tamakis doing that EXACT THING in a way tht #ties in with his character and i have to say its fascinating using that within the story itself and its completely plausible #theres a lot of things i can say about ouran that are good bad and questionable but. god i love it when characters are niceys to each other #i remember i really liked the kyoya episode bc him and haruhi got to spend time together and their relationship isnt very close #but it was really nice to see their personalities bounce off each other. i think i also wouldve liked to see haruhi alone with kaoru #i also firmly believe all of the hosts are at least a little in love with haruhi and this can be anything like endearing romantic cuz like #who DOESNT love haruhi. kyoya i think would want to study her under a microscope like his fascination with her draws him in #but im fucking obsessed with whatever haruhi and tamaki have going on because YES hes obsessed with her YES he jumps at the chance to #put her in a cute costume but haruhi? she just fucking goes with it because she knows hes fun to be around even if hes a little wacky abt i #theyre all so. NNGGHHHH #ouran #ohshc #yapping

[genderentvy]

Obsessed with Journey to Babel being the episode where Vulcan hand kissing is introduced, and then being immediately followed by Friday's Child, in which we are gifted with a scene where Spock, upon catching sight of Dr McCoy holding a woman's hand, frowns the deepest frown of his life, and McCoy, upon seeing this reaction, yanks his hand away faster than the speed of light and looks as though he has just commited a mortal sin.

#i am losing my mind about them your honor #spones #spock #dr mccoy #dr leonard mccoy #dr leonard horatio 'bones' mccoy #star trek tos #journey to babel #friday's child #aside from that one moment fridays child is choice of an episide i would not personally make #i was trying to explain this to my mom because i am taking her on a guided tour of star trek #and she was like so spock and bones hand kiss? and i was like i wish but thats not how things go around here

[enjoythesilentworld]

did you hear that? that was the sound of my heart shattering into a million pieces.

via NN

#KRISTINA #BE HIS MOM NOT HIS BOSS #💔💔💔 #i feel insane #oh to love your mother so much and to want nothing more but to make her proud #but oh to crumble under the pressure as you fail her again and again #i hope they fix their relationship even more after everything #she starts the show angry with wille for not meeting her expectations #and ends it with the acceptance that she has to let him go #(or else she’ll lose both of her sons) #young royals #yr s3

[duusu-peacock-kwami]

Do you think I could file for custody of all the human-like Sentis that have been created on the basis of "I made them so I'm technically one of their parents"?

#Gabriel Agreste will be the first to lose “his” son in the custody battles #He's not even Gabriel's son - he had no part in the Adrien-making process #EMILIE made Adrien with my Miraculous so SHE'S the only one with any actual claim to him #And she's dead #🦚 #Same with Felix and his dad #Although his mom is pretty cool so I wouldn't mind filing for joint custody instead of full custody of Felix #Kagami is a little tricky because her mom actually DID make her #But I think I can get custody because her mom willingly helped a domestic terrorist (Hawkmoth) and I'm pretty sure that means jail time #The only problem is actually getting the court to take me seriously #@ladybug @felix - do either of you know any good lawyers? #((OOC: brb gonna go write this crackfic))

[spurgie-cousin]

guys this is not a fucking drill I'm in Branson, MO at a pretty popular BBQ place and i heard a familiar annoying voice behind me and who the fuck does it end up being but AMY DUGGAR KING ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

#I'm losing it and it's impossible for me to get a candid picture without being weird she's with her mom and everything AAAAAAA #REMEMBER HOW I WAS JOKING ABOUT SEEING THE DUGGARS HERE AND I FKIN DID HOLY #I'm going to just approach her at a peaceful moment and tell her i follow her on instagram and go from there we'll see #I'm losing it none of my family gets it #my shit

[7swordsmen]

no yeah miri's mom was NOT the ""villain"" and she definitely was not presented as such either.

with the smile spell miri mentioned earlier, and just overall despite the situation she was forced into, misaki clearly did her best with miri even with her conflicting emotions.

the only obviously "bad" choice shes made so far was sending miri, a 4 y/o all alone into the city but 💀 to some degree the thought of sending her to be with her dad is also. yeah. like shes not in a place where she can take care of miri properly, and even if miri seemed to be some sort of... bargaining chip?? miris dad has the resources to help miri more than her mom could

and kazuki isnt the ""good guy"" either nor was the situation presented as so black and white. both parties said things that they've internalized due to their own separate situations, and while kazuki was mostly projecting due to his own losses and experiences, itd be good if he manages to learn about some other worldviews.

but yeah tldr: neither misaki nor kazuki were villains, and they werent PRESENTED as such either. they just said whatever and you the viewer have to interpret it.

i am aware a lot of series often demonize women who dont want their children or are in similar situations etc. but thats not what happened here luckily

#linpost #buddy daddies #buddy daddies spoilers #im really hoping we see her again but NOT as a guardian or whatever. maybe she can like officially ''approve'' kazurei taking miri in #or something bc she KNOWS shes not fit to take care of a child especially with her situation and mental state #and tht shouldnt be demonized #i hope she gets to reach whatever dreams she had that got put on hold :'( not miris fault but its not hers either these things have nuance #the dad kinda sucks tho as far as we can tell. as well as the other guy in the bar #but yeah even if she DOES get into a good situation they should not force her to take miri in #i honestly have some hopes for this series so i doubt they would do that but its worth saying anyway #miri deserves better but yknow shes getting it now and misaki put up with a lot and also DIDNT do a lot of worse things #miri was clothed and fed and cared for while she was with her mom #neglect is something that sucks and its really sad that miri isnt wanted bc she probably knew that #(not i want to go back with my mom but i want mom to be happy) #but misakis situation is also too bad. and kazuki losing his unborn child and projecting is also too bad. its all just too bad

[fictionadventurer]

After very little research into the other writings of Laura Ingalls Wilder and Rose Wilder Lane, my hypothesis about the Little House authorship question is that the writing is mostly Rose's, but the heart is Laura's.

In Laura's newspaper columns, the parts that sound most like Little House mostly come from the extracts she shares from Rose's letters (incidentally, it's kind of adorable how proud she is of Rose: "My daughter's in France!", "My daughter's in Albania!", etc.) The prose of Old Home Town, Rose's inspired-by-my-childhood-home novel, has some of the same concise descriptive prose that I've come to associate with the Little House style (I could hear passages in the voice of the Little House audiobook narrator).

Yet the Little House soul is all over Laura's columns. She's fascinated by the simple tasks of life, believes in home and family and hard work, believes in holding onto the goodness of childhood and looking forward with hope toward the future. There's an optimism, almost a romanticism, about life. The children's series that bears her name clearly comes from the same woman.

Rose, by contrast, is much more pessimistic. When writing about childhood, she's almost cynical about the life of a small town. She highlights the dark stories underlying the wholesome exterior, is extremely sensitive to the pitfalls of the social scene around her. Part of the difference is that Rose is writing for adults, but there does seem to be an essential difference in the personality behind the pen, despite the stylistic similarities to Little House.

(At the risk of pop psychoanalyzing people long dead, Rose seems much more neurotic and introverted and sensitive than her mother. In her writings and in the books about her childhood in Missouri, she comes across as child of a fairly comfortable modern life, with all the modern anxieties, in contrast to a woman who grew up starving on the prairie and knows that there are much worse things to endure than small-town gossip).

It's not much of a thesis, but I'm just fascinated by the fact that the Little House series can share so many stylistic similarities with Rose's writings, yet feel so much more like Laura.

#little house #laura ingalls wilder #rose wilder lane #i did not finish old home town because it came uncomfortably close to deal-breaking swearing and i don't feel like dealing with that #but the book was interesting in its way #rose clearly has an agenda about women's rights #but in focusing so heavily on social justice it loses a lot of heart #if the mother is supposed to be based in any way on laura she's a bit harsh as a mother #though more open-minded than her neighbors #(always standing up for the gossiped-about women) #rose's stand-in (i'm going to assume it's a stand-in because cranford has trained me to assume #(that any first-person narrator in a book based on the author's childhood hometown is a self-insert) #kind of disappears into the background #and it's very tempting to consider how the woman who made her living as a ghostwriter disappeared behind others' stories #(also this book unfortunately seems to confirm that almanzo was a mason) #(sorry mom) #(seeing the freemason symbol on pa's grave was my most terrifying moment as a catholic little house fan) #(i'm pretty sure my mom threw holy water on it) #(took me a few years to get over that) #(now i've just accepted that american history is full of freemasons) #(and as long as she's not spouting anti-catholic propaganda her books are fair game)

[ahsokatanohno]

HERA AND LEIA ARE PALS. AHSOKA AND EZRA AND SABINE REUNITED. AHSOKA IS HOPEFUL AND THRIVING. THREEPIO IS HERE ON BEHALF OF SENATOR AND DEFENSE COORDINATOR LEIA ORGANA. ZEB IS TRAINING RECRUITS. MY HEART IS FULL.

#Ahsoka #Ahsoka spoilers #Ahsoka spoiler #I only need one more thing and that’s Hera reunites with her boy now #if I see Zeb and Ezra reunited I will be through the moon #but I NEED Hera to see and hold her boy after all this time #it will only take that and my skin will be clear my crops will be watered my faith will be restored #it’s a simple request #a humble plea #as I sit here screaming crying losing my marbles #can we talk about leia and Hera being friends tho #can we imagine the wine nights #please someone write Hera and Leia’s conversation about this #can we talk about Mon Mothma looking like an exasperated mom friend #‘NOW what have the pair of you gone and done’ #‘I can’t leave you two alone for two seconds’ #‘I’m relieved you won’t be arrested but I’m going to kill you both’ #Mon mothma’s voice going soft as soon as she saw threepio #that did something to my heart #Hera’s SMILE when she saw him #teva having enough of chopper’s respect that he could hold a hand up to him and not be murdered #Zeb is training recruits 😭😭😭😭 #do you think they remind him of young Ezra #and Ahsoka #can we TALK about Ahsoka #look how much better she’s doing #how much more confident #and hopeful #and involved and emotional and HAPPY #I’ve run out of TAGS

[pepi-nillo]

i think i've literally exhausted every possible thought to have about beyond evil, because i was just thinking about the man juwon's mom left behind to marry han kihwan. literally someone only mentioned once in passing. is this too far.

i mean, he prolly knows who she married right? do you think he recognizes lee suyeon in han juwon? do you think he changed the channel if the hans popped up in that little tv struggle they had about the case, because it only reminded him of a dead lover from the past? do you think he felt vindicated while seeing the news of hkh's arrest?

maybe this is too much thinking

#i am literally sitting here thinking about a character that's not even a character #i just really feel for lee suyeon and want to explore every tidbit they give us about her i'm sorry #anyway hi i had the greatest idea to do the equivalent (?) of summer school (?) and take a math class before next semester begins #so i'm gonna have to do integrals for the next six weeks starting this monday <3 what have i done #this may be me losing my mind but i'm going shopping tomorrow to compensate #also it's math class 7am five days a week isn't it great 😀 #totally unrelated to the post tags what am i a instagram meme page #that is his mom's name right i just remember it was so alike yuyeon's and i'm too tired to check #i'm just gonna post this and it will be no longer my problem it will be yall's #beyond evil #han juwon

[greg-montgomery]

hug from aaron?

#besties i swear september is just not my month idk #like what the fuck #i’m kinda going through it #not kinda I Am going through it #i’m gonna rant a bit #i’m at work all day #leaving my house at 7am and returning around 9pm #and it’s so stressful i’m constantly anxious with a weight on my chest #and feeling not appreciated for all the things i do there #my grandma is very very sick (she’s like a mom to me) and i don’t even wanna think about losing her #i lost my other three grandparents in the span of a year - and it hasn’t even been a year yet since the first one we lost #and now i’m gonna lose my grandma who has literally raised me #i’m tired i just want a calm and peaceful fall #it’s all i wanted

[tenebrius-excellium]

Thinking about Httyd...hot and perhaps too personal take: To me, Httyd was more than anything else a movie about emotional starvation. And Forbidden Friendship was the sweetest, briefest celebration of relief from that.

Afterwards, everybody basically told Hiccup to man up “because that’s just life” and I will never forgive Httyd2 and Httyd3 for that.

#httyd #wherethekiteflies #y'all keep forgetting that Hiccup grew up without a Mom. #In the same day he finds his mother; he loses his Dad. #and the third movie has nothing better to do than to make Hiccup let go of his friend because it's clingy or whatever #to keep the only stable; emotionally available being around that he has ever known. #he's painted as selfish and immature for wanting that. #Neither Astrid; nor Valka; nor Gobber understand Hiccup in the way Toothless did. #Hiccup is simply expected to go without emotional validation or the praise and intimacy he desires for his entire life #because taking responsibility is more important than feeling understood. or whatever. #this boy was granted Forbidden Friendship as the only real hug he ever received... from a dragon who chose him; who stayed with him; #who loved him; who didn't leave or bully or disappoint him. this dragon was the healthiest relationship Hiccup ever had. #and it was judged to be weak. to weaken him as a Chief. when his passion and compassion for Toothless and others were in fact #Hiccup's greatest strengths as Chief. it were those qualities; this sensitivity that made him amazing. #but the plot decided that he needed to become just like Stoick and Astrid and like the Valka who abandoned her dreams & hopes for "reality #how is desiring and needing emotional backup in life void of reality; weak; delusional and too idealistic? #shame on you httyd sequels for never granting this boy what he desired most. and that was honest; unconditional support. #analysis #httyd analysis #rant #hiccup

[electoons]

guys this "keeping myself busy with distractions so I don't get sad" thing isn't working

#my mom is basically scrubbing the house of all traces of her bc thats how she copes. thats what she did when dad died #like two days later she was cleaning out all his medical equipment and stuff #i guess thats a way of dealing with it :( just doesnt really work for me because it makes me feel their absence even harder #like for me i personally wanted to keep Dad's stuff around for a while because. idk i guess it just felt like he was still kind of there #in a way. i guess. i dunno #obviously losing a pet is easier to deal with than losing a parent but it still blows dude i hate this #(* a parent that you had a good relationship with. i know that im very fortunate in that regard. not everyone had that and i need to count #my blessings) #idk this feels harder than losing my childhood dog because jojo was basically my constant companion for the past several years #after dad died i got suicidally depressed and didnt leave the house and was unemployed for a good chunk of time and she kept me company #taking her for walks and hikes was the only thing i enjoyed doing and the only thing that got me out of the house. she was always there #(also there's probably some psychological component to the fact that we adopted her specifically to be a companion for dad #when he was wheelchair-bound and couldnt go anywhere. so she kept him company. and then after he died she did the same for me #so. idk. like.... i feel like theres something there lol) #mia.txt #animal death