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WIBTA for dropping a friend for being cringe? Obligatory "cringe culture is dead" or whatever people say to feel better about liking kids shows. I (22F) have this friend (21 NB), and we've been friends since high school. We're in college now. This friend of mine genuinely makes me cringe so much I don't think I can maintain this friendship anymore. At the time of writing this I've only been texting them to reply to anything they say, and even then it's a one word answer or an image at most.
They've always been cringe, but when you're a neurodivergent woc in one of the whitest states in the country, you take what you get in terms of friendship. Beggars can't be choosers or whatever. I don't know why I let the world let me think I'm a beggar though.
Anyways, It's a lot of things. They fucking dabbed, without a hint of irony, when I was walking up to them and I considered pretending I didn't know them and walking past. They have this comically nasal voice and are completely incapable of having an appropriate volume anywhere. Like fuck man how do you sound more autistic than me? Their style is so fucking ugly I feel sick looking at them sometimes. They're not dirty or smelly or anything but jesus fuck at least match a color. What I think broke the camel's back was going out to a movie with them. They would NOT shut the fuck up. Like goddamn fuck off I'm trying to enjoy the movie. Stop eating my fucking popcorn bitch. To their credit they did stop after I told them to. I feel embarrassed bringing them anywhere. My brother has asked me multiple times why I hang out with this individual, and I think this is what made me completely reconsider. He's neurotypical and more emotionally intelligent than me, and due to being younger will always keep it real with me, so I trust his judgment. I'm not an emotional person or anything so I can't say I feel much of a bond with people in the first place, so I don't feel bad ab potentially cutting this person off.
I realized I fall into this situation a lot as a neurodivergent woman of color, which is being friends with ugly white people I should know I'm too good to even look at. I've already had other friends tell me I'm too pretty to be seen with them. Objectively? They're right. I'd rather be friendless than interact with this bastard anymore. I've already dropped most of my former friends from before college for similar reasons.
What are these acronyms?
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jewishbarbies · 8 months
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Swifties and their absolute desire to destroy Olivia Rodrigo is just making me and plenty of others root for her more. I'm so fucking sick of Taylor Swift dominating everything and no woc ever being able to be successful without fucking Swifites ruining it
@ swifties being morons about this
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menalez · 9 months
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I think it’s admirable that you don’t let shit slide from these problematic ass people that think it’s ok to be openly, blatantly fucking racist and lesbophobic. I’m a crypto so I don’t engage in any interactions with anyone and I get exhausted just reading through this stupidity, but here you are responding back and trying to educate people! That’s awesome! Honestly, though I’m in awe of how long you’ve stayed on tumblr with how much bullshit that’s been going on lately. It makes sense that so many people have been deactivating since all the increase of bullshit lately. I love the education that radblr offers me and there are so many incredible, non offensive radfems in this community, but as a black lesbian, I’m getting so fucking sick of the casual racism and lesbophobia (from bihets mainly) that it makes me want to delete tumblr and never come back. I know you know exactly how I feel lol. Anyway, thanks for all you do!
damn, i wish u were on radblr id love to follow more black lesbians!!!!
honestly im just stubborn. i completely understand why so many woc & lesbians & especially lesbians of colour have given up on this place and moved on. but knowing how many people sit there refreshing my blog daily hoping to run me off this side of tumblr makes me stay just to piss them off lol. i totally get why ur frustrated too, anon, trust me that frustration is shared... i had so many hopes and idealistic beliefs about this space when i was first here but ive come to realise that despite lauding themselves as better, OSA women & white women on here fail to hold each other accountable and do better for minority women, the same way TRAs do
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ceruleanwhore · 3 months
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I'm getting really sick of the ways in which some people talk about consent and throw around words like 'grooming' and 'abuse' because it's starting to feel pretty insidious. What I'm talking about is this fairly recent progression with how we've gone from 'don't fuck teenagers' to 'you're not actually an adult until you're 25' along with how any (typically hetero) relationship with any semblance of a power imbalance is deemed 'grooming', with the woman being the 'victim.' It feels like people are just finding another way to infantilize women and, by pushing this narrative that we can't consent to many kinds of relationships, it starts to build back up the outdated culture of women not being able to consent at all.
Grown ass women being labeled as children just because they're under the age of 25 is bad enough, but then there's people who will talk about how age gap relationships are gross regardless how old the younger person is, so then it's also 30, 40, 50 year old women being treated like kids as well. There's also this thing where if someone just happens to look young for their age then people act like that person should never date anyone because, regardless of age, anyone who's interested in them is a pedophile. This particularly bothers me because it's typically said about women relative to men but not like twinks in the gay community or younger looking men getting with women their age, or even women who are older than them. It just feels like something that's presented in a way that's supposed to feel feminist, like the people claiming this are trying to somehow protect women when, in truth, they're just infantilizing us while ignoring men.
It gets worse as, recently, people have started to make similar points about 'power imbalances', one notable example being the Try Guys declaring that a grown ass woman couldn't possibly have consented to having a relationship with Ned because he's her boss. I think it's easy to look at isolated situations like this and feel that way but as soon as you start to think about it on a larger scale, it's so insanely stupid. If you truly believe this, then you also believe that anyone who's ever been in any sort of political office can never have a relationship with someone who hasn't, because of the power imbalance. Poor people can never marry rich, people of color can never have relationships with people of more privileged races (mainly white, but there is enough of a racial hierarchy that I can't really just say white), people can only have relationships with people who are exactly the same age, and disabled people can only have relationships with people who have the same disability/combination of disabilities.
Especially when you combine this with the rise of pro-segregation under the guise of liberalism and the recent push for people to stop having interracial relationships, it really does just feel like it's all about controlling women, especially WOC. That definitely checks out since it seems to be mainly white liberals spouting this shit and we all know there's a major issue with white liberals claiming to care so much about equality when they're actually bigoted as fuck and never bothered to actually unlearn any of that shit, so they can only repackage it to fit their aesthetic. I will also acknowledge that part of this is that women who have their own traumas want to prevent other women from going through what they did, so they say stuff like this because they genuinely believe that these strict limitations on (mainly) hetero relationships will keep them safe. However, that doesn't change the fact that this line of thinking is potentially very harmful and could send us back to 20th century rape culture. Hope enough people don't drink the Kool-Aid and this blows over soon but we'll see. Oh and yeah, don't fuck teenagers, that's still true.
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grandekofi · 11 months
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bro like it genuinely makes me sick that people are *shipping* matty and taylor. like how can you give such little of a fuck about woc???
white feminists are such a joke
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radkindoffeminist · 2 years
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i’m getting real sick of your other anons lmao. i’m a black woman with pcos and all my LIFE people have compared me to men. i’ve had doctors not believe me when i say i’m in pain or having horrible reaction’s to medication and when they do finally stop giving me so many issues with getting my meds they give me such huge doses as if it takes more for me to respond to it. i’ve had people straight up stab me because they didn’t think black people felt pain the same way as them. my pcos is a condition but i still have the capacity for those functions. when are people going to understand that you cannot cure being male. why am i being treated like i’m some different species? this ask was all over the place but i’m just so tired and i can’t even talk about it without getting reported.
It is so irritating to see my medical condition being compared to being male and having people tell me that radfems must exclude people with my condition based on their complete misunderstanding of radfem views, so I can’t imagine how hard it must be to face that plus the racism they love to spread.
You said it so correctly: why can’t they understand that you can’t cure being male? Why are we considered outcasts and of other species? Having a medical condition or being a WoC does not make us anywhere near comparable to being male and it’s fucking offensive that people think they can compare full bodied males to women who have slightly higher than average levels of testosterone or black women who historically had their personhood stripped from them due to racism and slavery.
I’m also so sorry that people have treated you like that. The medical profession is completely fucked up and so many women and PoC are victims of a misogynistic and racist system:
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arttrampbelle · 8 months
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Srry for the very heated. Very real. Very raw. And cery fucking angry vent below. Im sick of this shit in the mortal kombat "fandom" on here.
Cw: vent. Im Really fucking angry.
gonna ignore the trash heap dumpster fire that is the mortal kombat fandom and write my own mk stuff.
Thats the only mk that exists. The mk in my brain n heart.
Sorry not sorry but mk sucks now. Ed boon legitimately doesn't know or care to listen to the real fans. (He had the audacity to basically say street fighter was outdated when he hadn't done anything worth a lick of fucking damn in 30yrs that was decent and didn't backtrack on. Gameplay and story. Fuck off ed boon you boomer pathetic ass peice of trash. Go suck a fat dick n die. Fr.)
Oh yeah and called street fighter anime like when wtf is he doing making all the characters look so damn young like that sus af boon. Real sus.
Nrs has their egos so far up their asses. And so do these new "fans" who don't bother to care because they wanna just fuck a fictional character. (Dont get me wrong. I self ship,i love the characters too. But i actually have a working brain to know. There is more going on then whatever the fuck im oogling at you twats! Like fucking stop looking at your pathetic blorbos for five fucking seconds and look at the bigger picture here! Thirsty ass bitches. God damn. )
So yeah. Any mk stuff from mortal kombat is gonna be my own writing. So nrs can suck it. New fans can suck it and fucking die in a dumpster fire. They can kiss my whole asscheek.
Fucking ruined scorpion. They will fucking pay for that. Fucked over everything and everyone.
Kung lao. Got fucking nerfed....AGAIN!
Raiden reduced to bitch boi.
Liu kang need a say more?!
Shang tsung. A pathetic welp. Wtaf?! Also why tf is kronika back?! That absolutely makes no sense. Period. Yup. As i suspected. They lokified him. The fans are not villain fans unless they look "pretty" enough for them. Grossly making him like a teeny bopper. Like wtaf is wrong with y'all?! Shang tsung isn't supposed to be a fucking babyface. You weirdos!
Shao kahn. A diablo genshin impact villain rip off.
All the women have same face syndrome. Looking like kim k Instagram models. Gross. Like im sorry. They all look gross and dehydrated to me. All the same body types. All "conveniently attractive". Yeah. 30yrs and they still have yet to make a character look "average" or a character with a larger body type,fat character that wasn't a joke character or thrown to the side. Cant ever make the women normal looking. Nope gotta appease the loser men with porn models. And anyone who is a woman who falls for that shit. Thinking its hashtag girlboss doesn't help this. No. What would be. Is actually hiring and PAYING actual real woc models and voice actors to be in your games. But nope.
Nrs is lazy pathetic pos guys. Who just want money.
All the asian guy characters look like they took Lewis tans face and copy cut pasted it. Fr. They dont look good. At all. They do not look like they have any personality. Period.
Johnny is the only one that is different. Ofc the only white guy is done decent. Because they cant of course fuck up their precious little white dude to project their insecurities on. (Course they did fuck him up because everything thqt made johnny special is now gone. He just some douche who looks like jc)
The shokan are tiny af. Pathetic. Weak. Ugh.
And they wanna disguise this horseshit as something groundbreaking when it's not really. Most fans are not gonna pay and arm n a leg for a shitty game that you guys legit fucking ruined integral lore to.
All hiding it behind "oh but its a new world" no honey its a entirely new game Franchise only using mortal kombat in name brand alone.
Its not even mortal kombat anymore.
ITS SOME PATHETIC ASS DUDES FANFIC FROM A DC FANS BASEMENT ON WATTPAD.
So yeah im pissed.
So anything from me. Mortal kombat related.
Will be from my own writing.
Until nrs can actually pull their heads out their ass and clean house.
I wont be buying anything official from them. Like merch n games. They can suck it. All movies will be pirated. Etc.
I will play the shit i have,and watch and stick to the 95 movie n be done with it.
Fucking hell. They ruined scorpion!
Im just pissed.
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formerlyroyal · 2 years
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Well I am really hoping The Queen makes it that far because:
1. There will never, ever be another monarch like her and I don’t want to think of a world where she isn’t the head of the BRF 🥺
2. Because I just know (and I don’t think I’m the only one who feels this way) that MM is waiting in anticipation for her to pass because she desperately wants titles for her cross eyed meal tickets. I think the longer HM is alive it messes with whatever devious and exploitative machinations Meghan has planned. I honestly hate writing this because it makes me sick, but she is a deranged, evil, greedy POS and I know how she operates. She and Harry are absolutely miserable together, so say TQ lives 4 or 5 more years it will not be easy or enjoyable for her to keep up the façade that no one is buying. Unfortunately she is a tenacious gold digger who is desperation in human form, so I do think she will stick it out as long as she can *eye roll* because she desperately wants titles for A/ L, whatever inheritance of H’s she believes she’s entitled to, and to be the DIL of a King. Plus just generally trying to sabotage W and K’s chance at a future reign because she is so unhinged and consumed with jealousy.
Maybe if Charles doesn’t give into her delusions and if she and Harry are still massively flopping/ failing at everything and she doesn’t get her way (kids titles, half in/out) it would finally be enough to get rid of her. Even then it wouldn’t be easy because she will be waaaaaaaaay past her prime and I don’t think another wealthy (or sane) man would ever touch her with a barge pole. I believe one thing M would have tonnes of trouble tolerating is sticking it out with someone she deems a loser (no $$$) even though that person is actually HER. She is a creepy, awkward, mentally ill, childish, clingy, cosplaying empty shell {with no personality of her own} and a massive leech who TAKES and brings nothing to the table, but she’s the prize in this scenario, at least in her twisted mind. Lol. What a delusional psycho.
Meghan will never level up the same way Misha Nonoo did and I bet she is extremely jealous of her now. If she is forced to stay with a daft, balding, unattractive, sulking pillock /prick with no real money and a dad bod (b/c alcohol) out of absolute desperation that will be her real karma. She bet on the wrong horse and knows it. They are both extremely lazy and untalented and he’s as thick as a plank. She is scheming, cunning, mentally unstable, a known liar / manipulator and is rather unfortunate looking despite all of her plastic surgeries and the entire world despises her as she doesn’t fool ANYBODY who isn’t a racist sugar. MM is massively fucked either way, IMO. Even if she stays (unhappily) with Harry she loses. You can’t make a silk purse out of a sow’s ear and she refuses to give up all of her futile attempts over and over and over again. She is actually the definition of insanity in human form, it’s quite alarming and pathetic. That inherently duplicitous creature honestly needs a straight jacket. Not even joking, she makes the character Alex Forrest from Fatal Attraction look sane, for real.
Well said and I agree. She won’t give up until it becomes clear she isn’t going to be the first female President (and a woc one🙄🙄🙄) or is PC’s fave and Will and Kate publicly apoligize. For what? Idk
She’s a monster. She just wants attention and to hear herself save the world. I hate them myself.
Thank you 👍
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wonusite · 10 months
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Im furious so i came here to vent and please dont take any of this personal, these words are not meant for you or kpop fandom
Im so fucking sick and tired of every OC in the fanfics who either doesnt wear skirts and dresses or always dresses in the most shortest revaeling clothes known to mankind. They are always the beer girls and the male OC always says they are the best and different because of that. She always either the tiniest skirts and shorts or the most form fitting craptops ever and the male OC is always either jealous of it or says they always look the best when they wear revaeling clothes which i find extremly sexist and fucking "writen by a man" but whatever because thats not my main point
I get that people are from different cpultures, different type of nations and everone can do, wear, drink, say, think whatever they want in their life but for fucks sake what is so wrong with "being like other girls"
In the story the author always "she wasnt like the other girls" "she wasnt like her pears" "she was different from people around her" in some ways, either they make the characters say these stuff about her or they just directly say it about her while introudicing her and its sickwning
WHY CANT WE BE A FUCKING WINE GIRL OR JUST ENJOY ROSES OR WEARING DRESSES THAT ARE NOT UNCOMFORTABLE WHILE SITTING
I repeat, i get that people like to wear stuff that are not "Christian" (i am NOT a Christian and im classified as a woc, im just using this as a term), they like to drink beer and stuff but do we have to be like them to be liked, loved, cared for by our choice of fictional man?
Like why cant we just be "normal" people who didnt had to go through some extremly traumatizing stuff that makes us stoic, cold and uncaring people, who just enjoys life without going extreme, who just likes both going to clubs and picnic at the outdoors with their friends but also reads some books before sleeping?
That was all over the place but to summerize, why the female ocs are always the same two or three storiotypes and they always have to be "different"?
That is one of the reasons why i turned back to reading kpop fanfiction because it has characters that are actually different than each other without being the sore thumb. And i dont say that making a sore thumb character is a bad thing, if the story needs a main character like that then of course we will read about it but it gets tiring and repetetive after reading the same character for hundred times who always acts the same way even tho the author changes and she doesnt have to say some either really rude stuff or "pick me" things
Thanks for reading, i hope this wasnt too offending to anyone because that wasnt my intentiın
Also again, you can read or do whatever you want, but if the characters keep doing the same thing, saying the same thing, have the same or so similar histories then it will get boring and as a reader who reads several different fics from different fandoms its more than irritating at this point
See you when i have thots for Vernon and Wonwoo (im still in vern brainrot)
TEA WAS SPILT OMFGGGG ☕️☕️☕️
no bc i was talking w my friend about this the other day. the overused “she’s not like other girls” trope actually makes me sick. (unless it’s written in a way that’s not cringe, but that’s rare af)
and i agree you can easily tell when it was written by a man or a pick me woman HANSJSJS
anyways idk i think it’s ok to write “normal” or “typical” characters once in a while bc people just exist. not everyone has a tragic backstory or goes out of their way to “not be like other girls/guys”
ever since i got into kpop and reading ff it’s really made me become picky w books and what i read bc it’s too much of the same thing every time.
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kathanisharma · 2 years
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The way Bridgerton continues to pay Simone dust makes me wish she did pull a Rege. And honestly seeing all these bold Polin fans saying shit like it makes sense s2 wasn’t as sexual, white women are more naive therefore their sexuality should be explored, Kanthony don’t deserve a subplot in s3, and just how s3 is being promoted already before they’ve even started filming has honestly been such a damper. AND now the racists are getting bold as ever saying they should have cast a white woman instead of Simone??? As if it’s her fault she’s being excluded because she’s a WOC? I feel sick. Literally only sticking around to defend Simone/Kate, but this is so fucking exhausting.
i mean, im glad she didn't pull a rege because if you've heard a single second of her interviews, it's evident how much she loves kate and kathony and how much she values her partnership with jonny. but the rest of what you've said? absolutely fucking agree.
its been ?12 hours since i first saw those tweets and im still like really hurting over them.
also that comment how the naive white women deserve to explore their sexualities? white women should just shut the fuck up. this entire concept of comparing the ships is so fucking weird to me also just the content of those tweet made no fucking sense. im trying to remember what it said but something about how colin went from i will never court her to shes my wife etc etc and thats why sex is important to show? and what fucking point is that it lacked any brain cells imo. anthony went from saying he doesnt want love to marrying the love of his life so they should show him being with the one he loves right? that's the same exact fucking concept. so yeah those tweets were just plain ignorant.
but i feel you. i'm literally only here anymore to defend kate/simone and also jonny/anthony. :(
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people keep comparing jjpope perfect canon endgame to that horrible nasty yt girl and my precious girl fatin ship I want them all gone now fcvk whatever her name was and free my girl from laetin now! she’s to good for that snotty whinny boring bland basic white girl! I’m so tired of them! if anything my girl would date one of the twins bc they pretty cute and actually have interesting personalities and are great best characters personally haven’t watched s2 but I just know yt girl still annoying and whiny x times elena ginny annoying brats! She’ll serve with Rachel/Nora so hard y’all don’t know and it’s still fuck the blonde bigot homophobic nasty trash yt girl who made her friend k word herself cant believe they had Tony end up with her still makes me sick why I never watching that show ever again thx I hope it gets cancelled so my girls can be free and the actors too!
Idk if I remember correct but even Dot and Martha are right there but maybe they were paired together if not I’ll take any of them with my girl fatin then whinny girl!best characters being the twins fatin dot and Martha so true and nothing for them yt girls and that self hater Toni she don’t deserve having Martha as friend even!
Y’all know how hard it would’ve slayed if we finally got a wlw ship that didnt include some yt girl? like think for once a wlw ship that was bipoc x bipoc instead of the same everyday woc and yt girl! Imagine how tired I/we are of seeing the same 1-two set of wlw sapphic ships everyday in every film tv media we watch just imagine!
If it’s not woc X yt it’s yt X yt wlw sapphic ships! cant ever escape be it in het ships or gay ships! it’s the same two formulas for all ships! just give us gay bipoc + het bipoc ships in peace for once all tv media film people!!
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ianstummy · 2 years
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sigh rant time :/
so i, as every other (sane) pjo fan heard about the casting and immediately went feral. my friend and i were losing our shit. i was having a bad day and i saw the casting photo and it turned around so quick i was fucking ECSTATIC. like i was out here running around the house telling my mom, my heart was melting bro.
that lasted about 3 hours 😃
unfortunately, i opened the hellscape that is instagram to follow the actors and i came upon the comment section of the casting announcement that disney plus posted.
these comments were… not great, to say the least.
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AND I’M SORRY OKAY I’M SORRY. i know it’s supposed to be a happy day. and usually these wouldn’t bother me that much but i don’t know i really thought the pjo fandom was different :/ like with how welcoming everyone was to walker idk i guess i momentarily forgot racism and sexism is apparently still a thing and just assumed it would be the same with annabeth.
and fr i do not wanna make ppl upset so if u wanna ignore this please go right ahead and do so bcoz i do not wanna ruin this for you like it was for me.
it’s just that as a woc it’s so fucking tiring to see this happen again and again. like we are literally the younger generation, when the fuck is it going to get better? and the fact that all the arguments behind these comments are literally just thinly veiled attempts to cover their racism. like “well that’s not how she looked in the books 🥸” “she’s not annabeth 🥸” like motherfucker, you realize the actual person who WROTE THE BOOKS, THE ACTUAL AUTHOR. IS THE ONE WHO CAST THEM??? HOW THE FUCK IS THAT “NOT ANNABETH” WHEN THE PERSON WHO LITERALLY CREATED ANNABETH IS SAYING IT IS ??? i don’t even wanna imagine the actress seeing comments like this when she’s literally like 12 fucking years old what the fuck. ppl like this make me sick to my fucking stomach.
anyway i don’t want to end this on an angry note, especially not today. let’s just focus on the fact that at the end of the day this is such a win for us :) and whether these people like it or not doesn’t even matter at the end of the day because it’s still happening. black annabeth :’) brown grover :’’’). it’s actually real and it’s actually happening and soon we’ll have an awesome show w these awesome actors.
oof. okay. again please feel free to scroll past this. rlly just needed a place to rant and i think tumblrs relatively sane compared to other social media rn. thank you if u read all this. lesgooooo real pjo fans we gotta stick together in times like this :)
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fkinavocado · 2 years
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I was never a fan of 1D or even for Harry in general but I do like his music and some fan fics of him are genuinely so fucking amazing (ex. DI Harry <3 ) and rn seeing that he has not actually spoken out about any pass/current issues to me seems like this persona of him being “ a good guy or perfect unproblematic king” gives off performative activism tbh. Like as. WOC the fact that two POC actors from that movie have spoken out on the movie rubs me the wrong way. And it just goes to show that either he is actively choosing to ignore that aspect of Olivia or he just does not care because he does not directly affect him. Idk all of this makes me just sick ngl like I’ve been used a the “token” POC and it’s so draining and I’m just sad that the actors are clearly saying that
that's the whole issue ppl have with this relationship. she literally represents so much of what he's publicly against. so how does that work???
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menalez · 2 years
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Genuinely white radfems make me so so fucking mad. I saw this post where a black radfem was saying how black women are seen as breeders and therefore them not accepting terms like "birthing bodies" etc is not transphobic.
A radfem in the notes was like "Both are stupid. White women were never treated anything differently than black women". Did this person never try to learn anything about slavery apart from USA's shitty whitewashed school books?
I am fucking mad. Raging and fuming. I want white people to do some fucking research before saying ignorant shit like this. Ik the term "Karen" is nowadays used in misogynistic ways but I still want the black community to continue using Karen and Ken for white people like them. Ik white radfems love to pretend white women never oppressed woc as if the white women's suffragette movement never opposed woc's right to vote. They literally saw us as a threat to THEIR rights and created literal organizations to oppose our rights. Modern white radical feminists are no different in this ideology. Yes they're not all like this but enough to make me mad. Do white radfems really love to erase history sm? I am sick of these colonizers and mayo monkeys.
pls send this post cause whoever said that should be for real called out for their stupidity!! anyways ur so right anon. as long as they deny the importance of misogynoir and how racism intersects with sexism and the differing ways misogyny can manifest for woc, they’ll be alienating woc.
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waitingforeddyneddy · 5 months
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I don't think you understand what it really means to be a woc in this industry and have your own fans be the reason why people could turn against you because they're so busy being vile to other people for no reason. You can hate all of those people but clogging their tags every single day doesn't endear anyone to Simone, it doesn't make them sympathize with her. You're making people resentful and if that's your end goal congrats you're succeeding. You're probably going to respond to this with some inane nonsense about how it's your tumblr and you can do whatever you want but think about how she's being perceived because of you.
listen i gotta respond to you and I hope the bestie who sent me a similar message reads it too
FUCK OFF
i'm not responsible to the way people react to Simone. I'm in no way affiliated with her. Stop with this fucking bullshit that the things I say here on my blog are the reason people "must hate her". This is psycho behaviour, the same behaviour that started to make me answer asks. I'm sick of this fandom trying to silence people who dare to speak their true opinon. It's not that serious bitch. It's not.
JB fans say out out touch things all the fucking time I don't see anyone blaming it on him? How come? Uh? We all know why so shut the fuck up and stop crying in my inbox.
"I don't think you understand what it really means to be a woc in this industry and have your own fans be the reason why people could turn against you because they're so busy being vile to other people for no reason"---->what the fuck does that even mean my fucking god. Shut the fuck up I just rolled my eyes so hard I don't even think i'm going to get them back. Seriously shut the fuck up, you and your besties need help. Nobody is forcing you to like Simone, a lot of you are faking it, you're just here to thirst after that rat, stop saying me, a nobody who shouts in the void of the interent is the reason Simone must be "hated" cause you're only outing yourself you fucking miserable piece of shit
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gooseymacleans · 8 months
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Heyy dw anon here. hope you’re doing good! Bit late on this review as my uni started up again and I am swamped already. but anyway. Episode 5. Want to preface this by saying I did really enjoy the episode. I am just a bit irritated with our girl Bernadette.
That being said loved the Chee and Bern moments. The whole she dated Elvis reveal had me gaping at my TV like??Damn Girl ok?? Thanks for sharing or good for you or? The writers are really trying to embrace the time period in the funkiest way possible!
Blond man is still being awful, Joe should have scalped him and called it a day but nooo some dumbass had to let Gordo drive the dude ALONE at NIGHT like ofc he escaped, who is surprised raise your hand! Need him executed asap.
then the whole thing with Dean was soso sad but so well done. His words to Bern about them not even being recognized as Americans obviously shook her entire worldview a bit.. and her giving him the necklace and a hug was soooo :((( her internal turmoil over Dean and the draft is so much worse in context with her border patrol job too like Bern I know you want to move up the ladder or whatever the fuck but jfccc get a gripppp. Atp I am genuinely concerned she’s going to leave like don’t you fucking dare!!
Like I get it. I do. Glass ceiling on the rez and all that. maybe she feels trapped (tho if that’s actually the case I would have liked the show to make that more obvious beyond her just saying “I want to find my own way”) And having modern day context for how shit the US border patrol is and how badly women and especially woc are treated in white-male dominated professions (and this is happening in 1971 to boot) helps to make it seem like she’s making an even worse decision if she goes. to me it’s a no brainer, I’m staying. But I really just think Bern doesn’t know any of that, or at least choses not to acknowledge it. Like she saw what happened to Jim in the FBI, come on now. and he warns her too this episode, “-I can come back” “Can you?” *silence*. He almost didn’t get to come back! Bern fr needs to make a weighted decision matrix and figure out her decision that way bc I think the lack of sleep is starting to affect her cognitive activity.
Anyway. Sorry for being a downer this week irl shit combined with the fact that the finale of s1 wasn’t exactly happy is giving me a creeping feeling that ep6 will be a rough one. Hopefully I’ll be wrong and we’ll actually get to see everyone experiencing happiness on our screens, but we’ll see!
everyone dont moveeeee, dark winds anon is back.
OKAYYY so we were a litttleeee off in our predictions HOWEVER I will say, in my heart I know what is chrew. that small scene of them sitting on the floor of her living room…….I currently live there in that moment nobody break the immersion for me. yeah, it was kinda weird for them to say that like at first I thought she was joking but no mames, she was actually being serious 😭
literallyyyyy not a bootlicker or whatever but iirc, cops follow a two buddy rule system so like, the fact that gordo probably gave himself the task of driving this sick son of a bitch on his own by himself bc #ego like omfg shut UP take someone with you, idiot 🙄 it’s like every time they try to shoot at the suspect and never shoot at the tires…these people are making the WORST decisions like if I were in that university, that blond man would nottt have escaped. we’d do a better job than the police -_-
omfgggg that part with dean and bern now THAT….moment of silence bc I almost cried LOL sorryyyy the emotions got to me again. if this was meant to push her into the border patrol route, oh, I’m shaking my fist because what is this show without miss. bernadette manuelito?? like, I’m really scratching my head at some of the decisions that are being made in this season. a part of me respects the route they’re taking, there are parts that I do love, and other parts where it makes me look around the room and wonder what everyone is thinking.
this show has always been bold in its message and like you said, I wish they had pressed more into those issues and leaned into the reasonings. I just don’t want bern to become some weird girlboss whedon strong girl because she’s always had that strength within her. it never had to do with the job, it’s about who she is as a person. exactlyyyy like why did she even apply in the first place when she saw the chokehold the government had on jim…….we need to go back to the drawing board…maybe a nap and a sandwich will do her some good 🙏🏽
don’t apologize for anything, babe!! we won’t always dig every single episode. it can be frustrating as well when it’s a show that you care about and they slip a bit and you’re like I know you’re better than this, girl 🤨 to me, I blacked out and only remember the jimbern moments bc the rest I was like, okay, we’re setting things up but I’m yawning a bit. finale day, everyone. and to those who already saw it on amc+, should I prepare for trench warfare or,,..
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