Hello beautiful people out here!
I am Deepali. I am from Pune, Maharashtra. I am 21 years old (shaadi ki umar)
Desi fleabag? Because I relate the most with that specific character. Horny, messy, vulnerable, and crazy all the time but also considerate, expressive, and kind. I am a desi version of her.
๐What I like? I like to dance, sing, journal, write poems and stories, and doom scroll all the time
๐Professional side of me
I did my bachelor's in philosophy. I have been working in an organization for quite a long time. I am a content writer. I am a writer/poet. I am an open mic performer. I have performed at esteemed platforms like tapeatale, poemsindia, kommune, and many more. I am a psychology and sociology student too. I am a co-facilitator and youth lead in different schools through my organization. I have worked on poetry anthology books.
The most important part of my life is being a poet or a writer. It's been a decade since I started writing, and professionally, it's been two years. My poetry and stories revolve around different and unique topics like mental health, family dynamics, feminism, societal norms and culture, romance, life intricacies, friendship, etc. I love being a poet and telling people stories about me and the world because I believe poetry is everywhere. I have a blog called Sip and Sofa Stories where I share the most wholesome blogs and fun-to-read stories.
Not much of a reader, but I like reading poetry by Sylvia Plath and more female writers.
๐ Movies and songs? I am a die-hard fan of Bollywood. I listen to 2000s Bollywood and retro songs. No one can challenge me the way I vibe on these songs and dance. My childhood is memorable because of Sunidhi Chauhan, Lata Mangeshkar, Kishore Kumar, RD Burman, Asha Bhosle, Sonu Nigam, Shaan, Arijit Singh, and many more artists. I also listen to Kpop, pop, indie type of music on days when I am dissociating at the fullest. Hold my clutcher, I am a Swiftie and Lana Del Rey fan too, bitch.
I love Bollywood movies, and I am yet to discover more Western movies. I have a bunch of comfort movies like Ye Jawani Hai Dewaani, Piku, Om Shaanti Om, etc.
๐ช My aesthetic type? A combination of Geet and Piku and a little bit of Poo vibe sometimes. But I love desi clothes. Kurti, jhumkas, bindi, bangles, oh god I love being a woman.
Interesting facts about me :
๐ธI have three tattoos on my body (Crescent moon, "you're on your own kid" title, "grateful"). I love getting tattoos!!
๐ฅLoneliness who? I go to bars, cafes, and parks alone because why not. I fear no god.
๐I never was in a relationship, just some hardcore crushes who crushed my soul.
โค๏ธโ๐ฉนI have been in therapy for almost three years and on and off on meds. GAD (generalized anxiety disorder) gang assemble!
๐ถโ๐ซ๏ธI love and hate spending time on LinkedIn. Girl boss era.
๐ฌI write poetry about my crushes and defame my ex-friends. They know it very well! Lol.
I am a hopeless romantic and a professional delusional person. I will cook the best scenarios in my head and write about them. I romanticize life on another level though there are 156 rupees in my bank account by going to aesthetic cafes.
:ยจ ยท.ยท ยจ:
`ยท . เญจเญงโญเนเฃญ โญ ๐ข๐๐ ๐คโ๐ฐ'๐ ๐๐ฐ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐ตโ๐ ๐๐๐ฐ๐ค๐ โ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ,๐โ๐ฐ'๐ ๐๐ฐ๐๐๐ ๐ค๐๐๐ ๐๐ค๐๐ฆ ๐ตโ๐๐๐ ๐ต๐๐๐๐ ? โน โงโห
๐To connect with me
๐นญ kavitavali.deepali to read my poems and stories on instagram
๐นญ sip and sofa stories blog. I write monthly blogs
Thankyou for reading my long ass introduction! Flying kiss tumhai๐
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Last night, I was watching this documentary about tribal people from Sri Lanka.And these nomads were whipping up some kind of drug from leaves, and the explorer says: "No matter where you go, people will always find some kind of way to get high. We have to, the pain of existence is just too much!!!" Man,I laughed so hard.๐ญ๐คฃ
But wait, it gets even funnier at the end.So an older guy starts quizzing the explorer. He starts asking about his wife, for how long they've been married....... Then, when he finds out they don't have any kids yet, he starts praying to the forest spirit because he thinks the explorer is impotent! ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐คฃ๐คฃ
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The day i kill a man,
The blade will be pointing me,
Are you-
are you ready?
I passed a room on my walk tonight,
Strange things have happened there,
How stranger would it be?
To find a dead man in the mirror,
How stranger would it be?
To feel my body is rotting meat,
I passed a home on my walk tonight,
Strange things have happened there,
How stranger would it be?
To wish your childhood was a dream,
How stranger would it be?
To hide your pain and sing a melody,
I passed a man on my walk tonight,
I know Strange things he has seen,
How stranger would it be?
To hold a knife against his soul and make it bleed
How stranger would it be?
To wish to bleed and make them see
Strange things have happened to me
How stranger would it be?
If i kill a man tonight
And hide the body inside me?
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What is your opinion about online relationships??
Hiya anon, tbh you really have to clarify what do you mean by online relationships
Like do you mean meeting online and then meeting up (for eg. Dating apps) or continuing online for a long time?
Coz if the first then well no harm in it, provided you're cautious with respect to your safety
If you mean the latter, then....well that gets tricky. You can maintain online relationships sure. That will prolly polish your trust to the highest degree. But it's still gonna be frustrating
The actual physical presence of a person matters tremendously. And you're just dying for it in online relationships. It's worse if you have conflicting times and that bungles up communication. The only thing that keeps online relationships together is communication (it's required in all relationships tho). If you can't do that, you have literally no hopes. Coz you can't even comfort your partner by being present either. And I highly doubt that's going to last. You need to meet if you are seriously considering the relationship. You can know best if you find your partner's habits and quirks tolerable when you're spending time physically with them which is equally important in considering your compatibility.
If you mean online mostly and then meet up for a few days, that works too! That basically just sums up army relationships and I think they work quite well. (I could never be an army wife๐ฎโ๐จ iron women those)
And factors like trust, security, etc etc. In the end it's your relationship. You have to have a good head on your shoulders and not just keep getting swept away. Practicality is essential and it is upto you whether you make it work or not.
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