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#but like no i also wouldn't have sex w anyone just bc it's fun for me bc as with any other recreational activity it's important who you're
sgkjd · 2 months
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it bothers me that I cant just say "im gay" or something short and my preferences are clear. no, i have to be like "i do love sex in a recreational way and also rather than romantically, i still do tend to get platonically attached. moreover, i also like to perform behaviors usually associated with romantic attraction but extremely casually, without giving them any special meaning. i look at each relationship in individual light, seek out where mine and another person's needs meet, then seek to fulfill those needs for each other." do u see my problem here. what's the short version of this. or maybe the question i should be asking is how do i introduce relationship anarchy to ppl in a quick and casual-friendly way without getting too philosophical or political.....
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lowkeyremi · 8 months
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such a random thought but like...
U college!eren and his friends are playing truth or dare (cuz everything happens during truth or dare) and some bitch is jealous bc eren is feeling you and not her. So she's like "I dare you to have sex w someone rn" cuz last time u said truth and they asked u who ur best fuck was and u said no one cuz like u never got past making out
and u start stressing tf OUT cuz aint no way u fucking anyone there. but eren's goofy ass is like "come on let's go fuck" and ur just wide eyed staring at that mf cuz huh???
said bitch is getting mad like "cmon eren someone else should do it, u dont have to pity her"
bro's like "i want to" so he drags u away to his place n is like "we dont gotta fuck, i was just helping u out. wanna fill condoms w lotion?"
uhhhhh "why?"
"proof, armin aint gon believe us if i just give em my word." so u n eren spend the next hour making it look like yall fucked. im talking messed up his sheets, filled condoms, three for good measure. you did end up making out w him cuz like you need realistic hickeys, make up aint gon cut it also he's hot who wouldn't wanna kiss him
he wet his hair to make it look like he showered and changed his clothes.
"take off ur bra"
"what the hell, no"
"it'll be more believable if u "accidentally" left ur bra at my place cuz my dick is so good"
"ur full of shit, u just wanna keep it"
"can i?"
"its one of my cute ones so i'll come back for it, turn around so i can take it off" he turns around, he can hear u shifting around so he takes a lil peek only to see ur back he's lowkey upset cuz he wanted to get a look at those tiddies
eren brings u back to where t or d is going on, n honestly the bitch is mad that eren "fucked" u
yall just acted like it was normal and nothing happened. when u were getting ready to leave armin pulled u aside and said, "ik u guys didnt fuck but ill keep ur little secret."
"how'd u know??" did eren say something
"if u actually had sex w him im sure u wouldn't have come back, eren tends to leave people fucked out."
"why do u know that?"
"threesomes are a thing" he smirks
"i'll keep ur secret if u n eren promise me a threesome, i wouldn't wanna pass up on someone as pretty as you."
you gush a lil bit, "maybe, i wont fuck unless im comfortable."
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remi's note: i wanna write this but i also dont lmaooo, this been on my mind for a little bit. dead ass how fun would it be to make evidence w eren, i feel like you'd be helping mess up the sheets and he'd throw a pillow at u and its not soft either he full on fucking body slammed u with a pillow
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luvring · 1 year
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Hiii! I hope it's not too suggestive since I saw your blog is mainly sfw OWBOANALA but I wanted to hear your headcanons about the main cast of Touchstarved, just in general tho, like who's a bottom, who's a top and who's a switch (I personally think everyone there is a switch bc y'know... whatever makes mc happy they're down for it)
If it's too suggestive or explicit for your blog lemme know and we can ramble about it together in chat if you're down for it! (In that case I'll send you my @)!
!!!! I AGREE!! AND DEFINITELY DID MORE THAN U ASKED! My Bad guys. indulged myself a little w one (1) nsft post. a gift 🫶 & OFC i'll also talk more in chat w u / anyone who wants to!!! i always want 2 hear everyone else's thoughts 👩🏻‍💻
leander
switch...sub leaning.? they did Not have to tell me for a leader he sure likes it when others take control. that vere wouldn't spit on him if he were a fire, "oh no, he'd enjoy that far too much." leander saying he doesn't mind vere around since he's fun and "got a real...presence." when he said "anything you want." I Know What You Are.
smth smth addressed by a title, sensation play, degradation said in a praising way, body worship, size kink, overstim, smth smth. i trust vere. spit on him. leader who relishes in giving up control and being taken care of yeah yeah yeah
enjoying being a sub aside he can easily be a service dom
mfw leander gets on his knees and says he'll do anything to please you just say the word. when he touches you somewhere and asks here? is this good? oh the intimacy of interlacing your fingers and bringing your hands to touch him anywhere, everywhere, just as a reminder that you Can
ais
switch - "gives it almost as well as he takes it, even if he's awfully greedy." thanks vere my buddy my pal
i know this little shit (said lovingly) is a tease like dragging his fingers slowly telling you to say please kind of way
figures out what pet names you like and has the most annoying smirk on his face. "oh? did you like that?"
edging. Needing you to tell him what he wants or he won't do anything.
idk i think this guy likes it when you take control though! like get on top and he'll have a stupid cocky grin before he eventually unravels and is moaning whimpering swearing 🤨
i don't have to say anything about the tentacles. moving on
i have a vision where if you let out a noise he looks at you with a raised brow before smirking and then whispering "cute." in your ear before trailing kisses along your jaw But That's Just Me Projecting I Think
vere
switch in a bratty prove you can dom him way. "looks good in blood and better in tears." LETS BE SERIOUS AIS 😂😂 you don't have to tell me twice if bro likes rough sex or is into bondage or edging or overstim or marking or
smth abt predator/prey... i'm not even really into that but i can see it
same thing w u taking control and him saying a stupid joke then being caught off guard,, at least the first time. i know this guy would do shit to tease and rile you up in public just so you'd do something later
he made that biting comment and i believe him. nips at you. seems like he'd leave hickies in places people could see and if you did the same to him Well why would he hide them. also pull his hair
something about fingers in your mouth or vice versa. smth smth making u taste urself Sorry Woah this was bc he was licking champagne foam from his fingers. i had a vision
kuras
switch in an easily doms + teases you, may surprise you with a few kinks, takes a bit to be sub but ends up liking it kind of way. reminds me of om! barbatos + tot vyn. I know what you are. (brat tamer)
the sub thing. like the first time u ask he's Very curious about what you'd do. amused even. the joy of telling him not to touch and teasing him then stopping right before he finishes. and then telling him to be nice and ask for what he wants,, if u go long enough he'll finally groan w a little "please," where his voice cracks WHO GETS ME!
giving me blindfold + temperature play vibes. don't know why.
anyways. can also be soft i'm sure. like a traditionally romantic sort of sense. i don't know how to explain it.
btw "you know, on account of his massive...heart." thank you vere for being the realest person around
mhin
switch vry sub leaning for me but that's bc i like teasing them. and so does everyone else.... oh mhin...
but if u were a soft dom they could use that i think. like Let yourself be close and taken care of mhin. please. OHH praising them to tease them instead of being mean catches them a little off guard. they get flustered and look away again Yeah
i don't see them as particularly talkative during sex,, tbh i think they'd get embarrassed and try to stop themself from making Any noise until you tell them you like hearing their voice...
drags myself through the mud... breathing heavily... leave hickies on their chest... mhin leaving hickies on you... i have no grounds to explain this btw. i just get sensitive chest/collarbone area vibes
still figuring out dom!mhin in my head. charas who are easily teased can often switch it around on u if u say the right thing so. though i don't really see them as being very degrading during sex
misc / multichara thoughts i didn't form properly bc i have to go back to essay writing in a bit.
vere and ais would have the biggest impact on me w the first vulnerable soft sex scene. they deserve it
someone's into the sex after an argument thing. something about jealousy. marking you etc etc
leander telling you you can use him. leander shower sex. leander using magic. leander. help me
has leander just fucked everybody. can he stop blushing when talking about other people + the others' opinions what r u guys implying YOU ARE GOING TO DRIVE ME OVER THE EDGE /J /NM
i don't see kuras / mhin being very into quickies but well. the other 3.
something abt the bad ending w vere tells me he really enjoys when you're vulnerable and exposed to him. trust or whatever
scenario where you tell kuras u think something's wrong and u need a Check Up w the Doctor :( and he gives u a little look before reminding you if you want attention you could just ask then kissing you. Who gets me
mhin smirking . that's all. my legs wobble
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deadn30n · 4 months
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usfw i thought about while at work today and bored out of my mind
thinking oh so sweetly about heat cycles and how w/ Eden having the rabbit ears in some verses and being part animal they probably have a pretty gnarly heat cycle but they're waaaaaaay too shy to approach anyone about it.
so if your muse is their partner they probably won't know about it until Eden is like. burning up so badly they're about to burst and they finally beg to be fucked and it's like a 7hr session bc Eden wouldn't be satisfied with just one round :)))
also their ears and tail are incredibly sensitive during this time which makes touching/stroking/pulling on them especially fun. Eden is like the most submissive little rabbit when they're in heat and it's probably back to back days of just begging to be ruined but oh lord is it the best sex you've ever had
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daz4i · 5 months
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coming here bc with ur dazai bdsm & control post i think u'll understand my point. i always feel weird when i read skk and specifically filter out "top dazai" because its like it shouldn't matter but it DOES end up mattering. i can't describe it but somehow it feels like whenever people write "top dazai" there's this level of extra control he has over their dynamic. again hard to explain my ick about it but it's feels like (to me) that skk aren't equal. does that make sense. there's always a layer of "dazai is Possessive and Controlling over chuuya" while chuuya's just along for the ride. meanwhile when people write a dominant chuuya its feels more balanced?? like they're both active in the relationship. (not saying top = dominant but we know how heteronormative society thinks of sex roles. everyone writes a top as dominant unless they specify otherwise nowadays :/) i think this stems from like. as readers we all Know that (adult) dazai is the smartest one in the room at any given time. we know he can manipulate and control the situation however he pleases if he wants to. that level of control isn't a given with chuuya. so when chuuya has this (superficial) control in their relationship it's like "sick! dazai trusts chuuya! dazai views chuuya as an equal!" which is what i'm always craving from their dynamic. (i also think i'm truamatized from prior fandoms and quick to think something is heteronormative. i can acknowledge where i'm being dramatic but some people out there really do just think of chuuya as a girl i'm sorry. stop making dazai your harry styles wattpad badboy that is NAWT MY MANS!)
oh anon i get you 🤝 (and i do the same tbh, it's quicker than trying to find fics that DON'T fall into the trope of top = dominant / bottom = submissive)
[also as a usual disclaimer when talking abt this topic that I'm sure you probably agree with; this is all talking abt a fictional couple and the way fics are written about them, speaking realistically they would probably switch but this discussion isn't for the sake of realism but rather talking about characterization through smut. we know it's not that deep, this is an observation for fun and bc it's interesting and harmless, and this isn't judging anyone who writes these fics or subscribes to a different characterization. okay now we can keep going]
the trust thing you point out is honestly the biggest thing here for me!!! like it's not even just dazai letting go of control, it's about letting chuuya take it, too. we see them do it time and time again in the context of battles and strategies and well. why wouldn't it extend to this area too, yknow? same way chuuya gets to have the final word in their plans - they're both involved in every step, but in the end it does hinge on chuuya and his choices. also unironically i think it'd be good for chuuya to get control over smth in his life in a less chaotic way than, say, he does as an executive.
and 😭 god i agree with that part abt people turning dazai into an edgy wattpad bf, esp when it comes to like his current canon self who is just a silly little princess whose entire arc is about trusting people and letting them take control of situations for him
and while I'm at it, i think he COULD be possessive but not in a dark yandere bf way or w/e, first of all he'll be more subtle about it lol, but mostly his possessiveness, to me, is more "no one can hurt those i love" (see: his anger when finding out fyodor is "controlling" chuuya. animezai dni) or "please don't leave me" than "you're mine, no one can touch you, you can't leave me" as people tend to fall into in those fics. does that make sense
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phoebehalliwell · 2 years
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Gotta ask about my bi4bi lovelies chrisxbianca
okay well for starters i think both chris and bianca are a lil bit slutty (affectionate) and like in their line of business (survival) a) seduction can be a very useful way to get what you want but b) the looming threat of death always makes everything just a lil bit more sexy you know what i mean? that mortality/eroticism line. very fun. so i think they kind of both have exes littered across the narrative so like the reveal of like "you've had sex various people of various genders" isn't really like much of a reveal. but like. the thing is. bc the sex isn't reveal being gay isn't just about gay sex that can be a fucking dope part of it but you know what else is also dope? love <3. and chris knows he's bisexual. right. like. come on now. you don't have multiple romances with various men and women to not come to that conclusion, right? wrong. bianca has not realized she's bisexual. she's straight in a katy perry's "i kissed a girl" fashion in a "lesbian is the top category on pornhub so clearly me wanting to sleep w women is straight bc straight men are attracted to that and i am attracted to straight men" fashion. you know? that coupled with the fact that she's in the phoenix who just really aren't big on love like your love your loyalty is with your family is with the phoenix like you don't have anyone else no one else wants you. so like. fun!
but i think like the other shoe dropping would really come like on some type mission where chris and bianca really aren't together still but they're at that point where everyone's just like 👀👀. and like we've burned thru chris's exes we get the gist and this time it's a former connect of bianca's some gal and there's clearly chemistry there there's still this old spark and this old flame is like for your plan to work you need bait i'll be the bait and bianca's like no no way but the flame does it anyways and she dies and it does kind of knock the wind out of bianca, way more that she thought it would. and her and chris are recuperating after the battle and chris is trying his hand at compassion which is a new skill but honestly their both so rough at it it's kind of endearing and he's like look i'm really sorry about old flame you know i know you loved her and bianca's face just immediately crinkles at that and it's such a reaction that it kinda stops chris mid monologue and bianca's like no... it wasn't love... we were.... we weren't like that.. bc they weren't? bc she's not? she doesn't. she doesn't love. anyone. she wouldn't even know what that would feel like. but like. i guess. if she were to like. guess what love felt like. what if would be like to love someone. it would kind of be like how she had felt for her old flame. that would kind of feel like like. it would kind of feel like how she felt with chris right now.
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nsfwjay · 3 years
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oOOOOoh bOY i think about hyungline 5some on the daily basis i shit u not-
Yes, I agree that Sunghoon and Jay would be the more dominant ones while Jake n Heeseung would be more laid back and just there to have a good fuck! AND JAY BEING THE VOYEUR BF ENJOYING IT FROM A CORNER IN THE ROOM JACKING OFF TO THE SIGHT OF YOU BEING USED? smeggci. I swear. He won't hesitate to bark orders here and there, and maybe occasional degrading lines like "Look at you pup, what a view.. Like being filled with their cocks, huh?"
I also think about how Hee, like previously mentioned, would be more laid back and less serious but he wouldn't hesitate to get a lil bit stern w you if you decide to act out?? Like.. mayb a lil disrespect to him, n he'll be like "Now just bcs I don't show off like Jay and Hoon, doesn't mean I have less experience than them. If anything, I can probably fuck you better," since like,, he's older than them n all,, I dunno tho? They would probs just giggle at Hee's lil outburst and maybe that'll motivate him to fuck you even harder HNDJSNS
Also I think the way it would go is after Jay tells you about how his friends r gonna join in, and preps you for a bit, Jake would def go in first?? He'd be so flirty on purpose to get you blushy and rile Jay up.. Anyways, after Jake's done pounding you all the way to heaven, and making you see stars with the help of his skilled dirty talking skills, it'd probably be Heeseung's turn, and Hoon would join in after a while.. Jay's waiting ever-so-patiently and in amusement too :'D
After Hee's done, Hoon's still teasing you with overstim even though you're already sobbing and your face is wet (unknown if it was due to the drool or tears).. And Jay finally joins in??? And oh lord. They both would be such hard, sadistic mean doms.. Manhandling your already fucked out, fragile body... Degrading you but praising you at the same time?? "Such a good whore for us, hm? Took two cocks so well already.. you can handle ours too, can't you, pup?" *one of them chuckles* "Of course she can, what else to expect from a cockslut like her? Besides, we'll make her take it. She can and she will, right, princess?"
Anyways, enha hyung line brainrot. That's all for now, unless you'd like me to elaborate more 👍
p. s. I like to use sincerely as a fun signature thing BDNJSNSJSN
Sincerely,
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omg if i think abt it lots of the stuff on my blog can be linked as one storyline..... imagine hyungline 5some after the Short Skirt Incident but instead of going the jealousy sex w jay <3 route jay proposes a 5some for your slutty holes to finally be fulfilled <3 when he asks if u want all 4 of them to fuck u you're not sure if he's just joking and will rip what u want away from u but he assures you he's not playing games and will gladly let his 3 friends use your holes
dude omg heeseung as a soft dom would be so. painful bro if he's disappointed/mad with you you will literally feel so guilty cuz he'll say things like "i thought you were a good girl, i was jealous of jay for having such a good little angel but turns out i was wrong, hm?" same w jake actually...... but jake is just more smug about it he is just so smug throughout the whole thing
depending on the situation i think it would be even generous for jay to give u any prep at all....... back to the bruises hc and honestly heeseung and jake would b perfect to prep u and lull u into a false sense of security, before sunghoon gets his turn and MAN he would fuck u up..... gently, condescendingly and psychologically before jay just fucks you up all over<3
if anyone is up for this idea..... what about double penetration... with two of the members (but not jay, he gets the final sloppy seconds (thirds....)) and you are just moaning so pornographically, losing yourself in pleasure riding two of his friends' cocks, jay almost cums himself before remembering that he still wants to fuck you, so he just stands up and participates actively for the first time this whole night, wrapping his hand around your throat and lifting your head up just the slightest, revelling in the way your eyes roll back in pleasure <3
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#5
less “fuck terfs” and more “support trans women”
45 notes • Posted 2021-01-21 18:15:05 GMT
#4
I hate "but we reclaimed q-eer!" shit bc it's just like "oh??? so every single person in the community sat down and agreed? did we send in representatives to vote 'yes' to have it reclaimed for every single one of us??" like… who is this 'we'? bc in reality, if it was reclaimed 100% by the entire community… then we wouldn't have slur discourse in 20-fucking-21. Statistically wise, the "reclaiming q-eer" movement in the 80s/90s probably wasn't as huge/popular as people think. Also there were a lot of posters and buttons and shit using the f-slur and d-slur, but you don't see the gay and lesbian communities trying to push "but it was reclaimed!!" shit on people who don't want to use those slurs
people on this website will lose their shit if you make fun of people’s triggers but the second it’s the q slur you’re a “qu—rphobe” if you tag it or don’t like to say it. the hypocrisy is astounding.
slur reclamation is an individual choice, not a communal one. you cannot reclaim a slur on behalf of someone else. it’s shitty to use slurs on others without their consent, even if you’ve personally reclaimed them.
also cishets stop using slurs you aren’t qu—r because you have purple hair and your boyfriend paints his nails and you guys have threesomes sometimes
75 notes • Posted 2021-04-13 16:22:21 GMT
#3
the most pissbrained take on this website rn is “ace discourse/pan discourse/slur discourse is the worst thing to happen to this community because when we fight each other the bigots win”
first of all intracommunity discourse is normal and attempting to completely silence those w differing opinions in the name of “unification” or “progress” is. the opposite of progressive.
second the lgbt community is a diverse group of thousands of different lived experiences and it’s futile to expect every single individual to have the same exact opinions because we are not a hive mind or a monolith
third people can care about multiple things at once! i can simultaneously oppose systematic oppression and reflect inward on my community and the issues within it. it’s not hard to have nuanced critical thinking skills cmon
116 notes • Posted 2021-09-24 13:18:25 GMT
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amab nonbinaries i love you and you look good today
143 notes • Posted 2021-06-05 13:11:06 GMT
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I hate when people say that q*eer is a slur is a TERF dog whistle.
TERF DOGWHISTLES:
urls with an emphasis on female reproductive organs (“uterus-femme” etc)
the phrases “radical feminist/radfem” and “gender critical/gendercrit” in their bios
“TIMs” - a phrase used by terfs to misgender trans women
anti-sex worker sentiment - not all TERFs are SWERFs, but most are
NOT TERF DOGWHISTLES:
not liking the q slur
being an ace exclusionist
truscum/transmeds, while they do suck, are not TERFs
being a lesbian ??? i see so many people who are like “hey i see you use the d slur. are you a terf?” stop being lesbophobic
stop watering down TERF to mean “any meanie on the internet who disagrees with mainstream liberal lgbt politics” it has a specific meaning for a reason. support your trans sisters
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