#dont answer weird messages

[guinevereslancelot]

what was with cameron house md she spends 90% of the episode saying she wants their patient to die bc he's a genocidal dictator and her colleague husband says "babe it bothers me for ethical reasons that you want our patient to die :(" and she said "hm maybe you're right :/" but when it comes down to it the genocidal dictator lays a finger on her in an aggressive manner and chase instantly commits medical malpractice to murder the guy and then when he tells her she LEAVES HIM bc boo hoo he's a murderer now like GIRL he killed a man for you!!! he's wracked with catholic guilt!!! he's being crushed beneath the weight of his sins because he chose his devotion to you over his devotion to god!!! he literally could not get any sexier at this moment in time!!!

#girl what are you doing...... #also just in general she did not deserve him honestly he was so good to her and for WHAT #just to be abandoned at peak devotion and guilt and hotness 🙄 #girl get OUT of my way i'm stronger than you #if she cared she could fix him or make him worse but i could love and support him no matter what 😌 #his muder is a part of him and its SEXY #robert chase #house md #malpractice md #i know the actors broke up irl or whatever but wtf..... #i should have ended my rewatch w their happy lil wedding at the end of s5 #s6 everything instantly goes to shit #and stays shitty #chase should be happy fr #he's supposed to turn into house basically but they should have made him the well adjusted version of house #like how nightwing is the well adjusted version of batman #anyway i have no real point here i just lowkey dont like cameron bc of this arc #also her obsession w house is so weird i wish they hadn't made that a thing #this has been a shitpost #anyway she left chase at the absolute peak of his sexiness wtf....... #anyway since this apparently needs to be said its not that deep this is a silly post if you send me hate messages i wont answer #i block and ignore anon hate bc i am too busy touching grass to be rude to strangers over a tv show

[dailyserirei]

Make em go feral.

their clients are gay couple and they are more nicest people ever :] serirei so happy

#anon #ask #serirei #reigen arataka #serizawa katsuya #mp100 #mob psycho 100 #[gonna look back to the messages/prompts esp the old ones so if i answer it super late im so sorry ^^;;] #[also some of those i cant or dont know how to answer it but i'll keep it jic] #unless if i found it weird i had to delete that im so sorry]]

[jinstronaut]

this is also why i stopped using my tracked tag for a while tbh

#and i might do it again bc its just #a reminder that no one rly cares abt what i do / who i am etc #which might sound over dramatic idk how else to describe it tho its just hollow #it feels very much like a Chore and a Task and if i dont reblog things fast enough from my tag #people get very angry and/or upset with me even tho theres just #so much content and i have 0 time so everything gets queued no matter what #like this whole experience feels like a chore lmao #and it never ever used to #but now theres so much animosity if i dont behave / interact with things Properly #or whatever the make believe rules are idk #this dash can just be so negative like have we all truly descended into madness during this hiatus #bc like i get it ive been up and down and all around too but ive never been straight up MEAN to anyone in this community #and i never want to either so this entire situation thats been bubbling for months just feels like shit #bc what the fuck changed and how do we get back to where we were #i never ever ever ever felt this way before like idk the middle of last year #but ever since like last fall its just been idk. Bad #once again im sorry if ive ever done anything to upset anyone but my silence / absence doesnt mean i dont care #ive just been Incredibly busy due to some real life changes that are out of my control #i might not have energy to answer everything but i do Read everything and it does make me smile #and i save messages that are kind in my heart so i can be reminded of the root of what this blog is supposed to be #a space for something im very passionate about and previously had nowhere else to express said passion #so like idk if we all like the same things why does this weird feeling of competition linger over us lmao #why do all ccs have to fight???? each other???? when we all love and do the same things???? #i have nothing against anyone personally but what i Do take issue with is the way that ive been doing this since 2021 and im fully just #ignored and shoved aside by so many people for reasons i fully dont know or understand #so yeah idk this is a novel i just woke up from a spontaneous nap bc im so exhausted i can only stay awake for 3 hours at a time #but yeah anyways idk ! #be nice its so easy ! #tbd

[kxllerblond]

Happy Tuesday everyone, I will now be unloading unsolicited opinions about the RPC.

People take 'This is a hobby!!' way too far to the point you are not taking into account other real people also exist and are only thinking about yourself and it can come across as scummy and self-absorbed and a lot of people use the 'just a hobby!' to excuse this shitty behavior and an inability to communicate with other hobby enjoyers like adults.

No one should get mad at people for dropping threads or not being active, but it's also super shitty to just ghost people and go 'teehee just a hobby so you aren't allowed to be upset!'. Like, yeah, you have limited time and a real life but so does?? everyone else on here?? It's super not cool to just invalidate people who are upset their limited time is, in their view, being wasted.

Obviously, I'm not defending people that don't just unfollow or block and move on and who get passive aggro about it all. And I'm also not calling out the people that don't do much but are like PRESENT to some degree even if it's just ooc shitposting.

I mainly mean the people I see who refuse to do threads, to answer asks, to communicate when stuff is being dropped to some degree, to participate and be social in any capacity and then get kinda pissy when no one wants to send them shit anymore. Like you are entitled to exist and participate in this hobby as you see fit....but it is a social hobby. You HAVE to give to get and if people pin you as someone who only takes, they're going to stop giving. None of us have little meow meows that are so interesting that we can just expect people to frolic to them and gush about them and shower them with interaction without some sort of reciprocation.

And, frankly, I don't think there's room to complain when that happens. You can't have your cake and eat it too in this scenario. You can 'this is just a hobby!' your way through things how you like, but you also have to realize the consequences of that and you can't be upset when they come down on you and your blog.

#like I KNOW there are ppl here i am chill with who do not interact with me as often as before because i am a notorious thread dropper #and not everyone can do that short thread. drop. new thread. drop. manner of rapid rping #and thats FINE. i accept that consequence. #and there are ppl im chill with who i dont send memes to much anymore because they never answer them or never return the favor #doesnt mean im mad about it doesnt mean i fault them for it. ppl have lives. but that the consequence and it involves me redirecting my tim #and energy to send memes to ppl who DO engage in return etc #there's just been this sudden surge in like....entitlement ive noticed. and it's just sort of co-opd what used to be a message #directed at ppl that were being demanded to reply to things the same day etc like it was a legit /good/ message #now you cant even like unfollow someone without them being like ITS JUST A HOBBY HOW DARE YOU UNFOLLOW hostility because someone is choosin #to take their business elsewhere so to speak so they can have fun with this hOBBY. its so...weird ykno #we dont owe anyone anything but a lot of ppl forget the second half of that which is #yeah but other people dont owe us anything in turn either #cw long post #cw negativity #well i mean only if you see urself in this post i guess OOP. otherwise man idk #dont get pissed at ppl for not hobbying to ur speed or standards #but also dont be surprised to learn ppl are different and have different paces and shit and WILL move on #if theyre not getting enjoyment out of the pace you're hobbying at #ur not entitled to their attention just like they're not entitled to urs ykno

[neonacidtrip]

we haven't spoken in a very long time, but i dreamt of you last night, so I couldn't help but think of you. I'm not sure you remember me, but i hope life is treating you well these days. take care.

I'm not sure what to say, but I can promise you I have not forgotten you. My time on Tumblr has been a mess full of hiatuses, I admit, but it will always be a place where I met some very wonderful friends, including you. With 100% honesty, I can say the friends I made here are some of the best friends I have ever had, even though most of us don't talk anymore.

It doesn't matter how often I speak with people, or if we never speak again. I'll always remember you, and I'll always think fondly of you and hope that life is treating you gently and kindly.

I hope you had a nice (or at the very least an okay) dream, and I'm glad to know you still remember me, too, regardless of all else.

Take care, love <3

#it will always amaze me #how the little details in a message can speak such volumes #you dont think of it at the time but the way someone speaks and their writing style really is so unique #im sorry if the message got a little bit general in the middle but i really do mean it #i remember every friend i ever made here. i still check up on a lot of them when i can #its not about talking so much as it is knowing you are all alive and well #and it makes me really sad whenever i stumble across a deactivated account #i miss you though and i hope you are in a better place now #i hope i wasnt annoying in your dream #and i appreciate the bravery it took for you to reach out and check up on me #also i just want to throw out there that i dont find the dream thing weird or anything #some people get creeped out by that but ive actually had three or four people mention i was in their dreams #so its just something im vaguely used to that does not bother me or anything #a guy told me he dreamed we were in a haunted house and i just kept telling him 'its fine dont worry' #and honestly thats pretty accurate. cant complain #anyway~ i hope you are well #i hope you are happy and if you are not happy today i hope you will be happy soon #and however that dream may have gone i hope you have better dreams going forward #beautiful anon #neo answers #ask neo

[mistninja]

For some reason whatsapp deleted my entire chat with my best friend im gonna throw up

#i think my little sister was messing with my phone what if she sent him smt weird and then deleted everything she loves fucking with me #a bunch of apps were deleted and i have terrible memory so now i dont remember what is gone fuck #i need my friend to answer right now fuck this stupid time zone difference i need to know #im feeling so paranoid i hate this shit #nothing else seems to have been deleted why was that chat deleted specifically #thousands of messages gone aoughhhhhh

[redrobin-detective]

One thing that infuriates me about modern life is, for how terminally online everyone is, people are terrible at answering messages. I communicate primarily through texts, show love through ‘thinking of you’ messages, ask important time sensitive questions over the phone. I don’t need answers back right away but when days past without response it passes rude into disheartening. Nothing infuriates me more than following up in person on a text I sent a week before and getting ‘oh lol sorry forgot’

#this is exclusively irl stuff #I know online friendships are weird with different time zones and in and out of fandoms #but people are Constantly on their phones #if I message you about an important work question I expect an answer within a day #if you're busy that second a quick 'talk later' will suffice #just being flat out ignored its mad and hurtful #still lowkey upset that I messaged a friend when I was Really bad with covid asking her advice #and she never responded back #like to me that is very tellin #my attempts to keep in contact with people I dont see every day with lil Thinking of You messages #also get ignored and then when I do see them its 'omg hi why don't we keep in contact more' #well I'M TRYING I guess it really is lip service #idk this has been an issue my whole life #I consider punctuality and consideration to be incredibly important #I dont care if it takes you hours or even a day or 2 to get back to me #but to repeatedly always be ghosted sometimes just exhausts me #like Im throwing my love into the air and watching it evaporate into nothing

[leatherforhell]

seeing lots of posts recently about slow replies, whether ic or ooc, here or on disco, so this is me saying definitively once again that I do not give a fuck if you don’t respond to me right away

take a few weeks if you want. hit me up whenever. I will continue to send you links to posts you may like and also whatever I’m currently thinking about and you come talk to me whenever you get to it ✌️

#this is a zero obligation zone #for me it’s more about the care you put in? like #if you only message me back once a week but when you do it’s with full enthusiasm #and you answer me and add to the conversation and you talk about my thoughts as much as yours #that is brilliant. golden. love that #I would take that any day over somebody who messages me back promptly but doesn’t actually care about me or my characters or what I say #(which has previously been an issue) anyway the point is I’m vibing and you are welcome to come vibe w me dont worry abt it #ooc. #ALSO OF NOTE: IT’S NOT WEIRD TO RESPOND ON ONE PLATFORM IF YOU HAVE A MESSAGE WAITING ON ANOTHER #if I respond to your tumblr post and you feel like answering that but you’re too tired for disco then do that #sometimes I see people feel guilty about this and I promise you that at least on this blog that is not a worry #we are very aware of spoon quota in this house

[phlyaros]

im gonna be real anon I don't care about label shit ship discourse I care about if real people are getting hurt and ONE reblog from someone being jokingly aggressive on the subject isn't enough to convince me that people are getting hurt when there's more evidence to the contrary. you've put me in a shitty situation here and I don't want to engage with it. please just ask people what they actually think next time before you go throwing your assumptions at other people.

#i trust enough that most of my mutuals understand the nuance needed of media depiction of unsavory subjects. #if i'm wrong then I'm wrong. okay. thank you. #i hate the dichotomy i hate the lack of nuance in this discussion I want people to actually talk to each other #I want people to realize that you can respect people with different opinions than you if they aren't actually hurting anyone #I'm literally. someone who was alone with me a lot as a kid is in prison for CP/solicitation. I think if anyone can say that media- #depiction of fucked up shit that really happens is more nuanced than 'x is bad so it shouldnt exist' #you cant do that in real life. you cant make something not exist. just because something fictional contains it doesnt mean it condones it. #im so tired. im so tired. why wasnt this a dm. i dont really want to have this discussion publicly. #i can think things are gross but understand that there's nuance to depiction and just because I don't like it doesn't mean those people- #-don't deserve to have something that understands them. #not everyone is good at actually. being mature enough to handle that nuance. when they try. people can be wrong #and if people ARE weird I can just not engage with them. there's. I can decide for myself! #and now I'M stuck in my brain is insane and. as if! as if people always reblog things they 100% agree with! #im so tired. im so tired. im in pain and people are messaging me about a singular reblog from six months ago on someone else's blog. #i understand being cautious i really do but thats like insane behavior. why are you putting this on me. why didn't you just talk to me. #fucked up things happen and people deserve to be understood. okay. even if i don't like it. there is no right answer. there is no world- #where all pain can be avoided. saving private ryan made vet suicides skyrocket. did you know that #but it also understood those people. yknow. and there's more people living that it understood too. #there's just so much nuance that's thrown out when you cover everything you don't like with a blanket. okay #it's more complicated. it's more complicated. please. #in my mind it's far stranger to assume everyone is out there giggling and twiddling their fingers thinking about in/cest #than it is to just assume they don't until proven otherwise. #im so tired. just block me if you don't understand where I'm coming from. I don't care about ship disco/urse and i dont want to live- #constantly worried about what other people think about shit that has no right answer. #everyone is innocent until proven guilty and one reblog of a joking aggressive post isnt enough for me. sorry. #phlyaros' nonsense #euurgh. #welcome to the internet where we judge people based on one reblogged joke and nothing else even if it contradicts us #what a perfect encapsulation of what I don't like about dichotomy argument #tw suicide

[deathbypufferfish]

question! why would it have freaked you out if the drinks weren’t kosher? is kosher only associated with being jewish? :)

I literally cannot mention anything about being Jewish or my faith without y'all thinking it's "ask the jew" hour on my blog.

#puffer answers #ask #just look up kosher im begging #sorry anon for being mean but i dont care idk why y'all think these asks aren't weird #this is literally why i had to turn off messages from non-mutauls

[lennat2]

Me: I just think octopuses are neat, I'm not obsessed with them

Also me: *Shaking a poor confused novelist by the shoulders* HELLO HAVE YOU HEARD OF OUR AQUATIC LORD, THE OCTOPUS VULGARIS

#in case you are wondering if i actually semt neil gaiman a message asking if he liked octopuses #yes #the answer is yes #i wonder what i was thinking lol #(dont worryvi wasnt as weird as the post implies) #I JUST WANT EVERYONE TO EXPERIENCE THE JOY OF THE OCTOPUS OK #octopus

[sixftmp3]

guess who's a little bit of an idiot! (its me im a little bit of an idiot)

#me.txt #APPARENTLY i've been having minor allergic reactions to my t shot for like a month #and i was just like huh. weird. #then i messaged my doctor yesterday like. hey is my injection site supposed to be itchy and a little swollen? #and the short answer is: no! its not! #i mean its not a big deal i dont rlly care its more of an annoyance than anything #but i mean its good to know how to deal w it so its Less Annoying

[ahoysailorsteve]

I wish I was on Tumblr/twitter after S2 aka at the height of the Steve revolution, he was so fucking iconic in that season( he always is but still) I'm sure the love for him was overwhelming not that people don't love him now but it maybe calmed down a little? Especially with everyone having another white boy to thirst over 😂 I think all in all when you take everything in he's the general audience's favorite but I'm thinking the S2 hype would have been unparalleled.

okay get ready for an annoyingly long post.

so I joined the fandom in 2018, almost a full year after s2 came out, so I didn't experience the immediate reaction. but I WILL say that 2018-june-ish 2019 was my favorite time in this fandom, especially among steve lovers (possibly until the past few months where it appears we're getting a renaissance.) I made some really amazing and talented friends on here that have since either deleted or just straight-up abandoned their blogs over the hiatus. but I would log on here every day to amazing fanart and fics and general unhinged nonsense and it was just so FUN to thirst and be weird openly on each other's posts. like, if you think my tags are ridiculous now you should see the stuff I said there back then, openly, under the many smut fics I would reblog from my friends who were just as crazy about him as I was.

now, its not like the talented creators and amazing work have just disappeared, I know SO many creators that write amazing fics and make fanart and gifsets that blow me away. but like, the ✨️culture✨️ (derogatory) has unfortunately changed so much on this site that sometimes it feels weird putting ns//fw or even just thirsty stuff on my blog now. like I know these amazing creators are putting their work out into the world but reblogging it I get......shy??? is that possible even though y'all don't actually know me?? idk. but I don't engage with content the way I, and so many others, used to. and I know that's a discussion being had in the creative communities too, that engagement is down because people aren't reblogging and sharing content the way they did 2-3 years ago, so I'm trying to work on that to support everyone making amazing content for us.

I really think it's not so much that people have calmed down, they've just moved those unhinged thirsty thoughts to discord chats or DMs or whatever makes them feel more comfortable, not the dashboard for the world to see. maybe we need to get back to that though, because the collective fandom losing our minds over s2 steve was the highlight of my tumblr experience, and I think with the right feral audience we can bring that back 🖤

#I've been thinking about this a lot lately actually #I dont really have a group here anymore and I hardly interact with anyone outside of occasional replies and reblogs and stuff #so sometimes I feel like the weird girl sitting in the corner shouting about thirsty shit in the tags while everyone else has like #message convos to do that in #I'm not complaining bc I never reach out to anyone either #but sometimes I get really self conscious about posting my actual thoughts or the content I like so I just...... #backspace and exit out of the post screen lmao #and with fics and stuff idk. I just get SO shy about it sometimes but??? why??? yall's writing is so good??? #maybe I'll ease into reblogging unhinged content again #anyway tl;dr old fandom lady waxes poetic about the way things used to be #steve harrington #anonymous #answered #sidenote. I miss pepper. my first fandom friend. </3

[everhoods]

tbh i think i wanna be in ffa forever. also im going to change my name in my school system next year. im also going to try to get the google family app off my phone cause like wtfffff im 17 😭 like htis wasnt appropriate when i was 16 either but like dude wtfff

#jesse.txt #my mom says its to track me cuz i dont answer messages but omfg #im literally scared of weird shadows and takeing the recycling out when its dark #im not gonna run away id be too scared of getting shanked 😭 #also i do want to run away TBH if she gets bad again #so i need that shit off my phone #id like use and old one as a trap but the most up to date model i have has a broken screen #the parent app is also the reason i dont have the tumblr app #but im not missing out on much it seems like shit. id highly recommend using ur phones browser for tumblr instead

[radmista]

So I finally watched Nimona (during that date) and it was not worth the hype. The animation was beautiful and I did love how expressive the characters were. But damn, Nimona the character in general was annoying.

Her backstory was really cool, how it was all integrated and revealed stuff. But just eh, was not a fan of her. I really dislike misunderstandings esp when characters just don't talk to each other or walk in on shit out of context. I get what they were trying to do and say with Nimona. But at the same time, I also see exactly how some people will think they relate to how persecuted Nimona actually is to their life when they live a pretty privileged life. And yeah thats not the movies fault, but eh.

I guess overall it wasn't bad, but just not as good as everyone said it would be. And I knew that going in, just bc I know people overhype stuff, but even with my expectations lowered it still was just meh.

#there was stuff i really liked #i just honestly got super bothered by the 'dont ask small minded questions' like what???? #sorry if im too science brain or too curious. but questions are important. and some questions asked were prying #but others were from places of genuine curiosity and seeking to understand and gain knowledge #the fact that part of the message was dont ask 'small minded' questions just really rubbed me the wrong way #you should always be free to ask questions to gain more knowledge. esp since in this case nimona is incredibly unique #of course people are gonna be curious and want to know at least something about her magic or whatever #just bc a question is smth you dont want to answer or makes you uncomfortable doesn't make it small minded #at one point the main guy just asks her if it hurts when she transforms or if she feels anything while doing it #and she gives him this look. like girl seriously? thats such an inocuous question #just esp more confusing/weird when she finds some questions to be okay to answer. #it bothered me more bc i know what people have and will extrapolate from it #but like jfc shape shifters in media can literally actually change their form completely. thats not the same as what tumblr youth do #it was decent enough. if it wasnt slamming you in the head with 'dont ask questions just accept on blind faith' message constantly #questions are good. but i guess only questioning big government is the only good questioning #just random thoughts #also watched howls moving castle and that was also tbh overhyped as well. shit was confusing

[cryptideye]

i am going to wake up EARLY. for mcdonald breakfast sandwich

#i basically never get fast food ok i deserve it as a TREAT. for putting up with SO MUCH SHIT IN THE PAST 2 WEEKS #mfw roommates accuses you of some shit you didnt do then conveniently ignores your messages when u reply #like oh so you get to vent and feel like a better person but when i say ur pulling shit out of ur ass youre quiet??? #i asked her wtf she thinks ive been doing all year and shes silent! that was not a rhetorical question!!! i expect an answer! #oh so im weird when im quiet but you dont like it when i talk??? this is what im like so get used to it or get over yourself #whatever i hope next year other roommate is the exact same and you slowly realize it was never me #but i know she wont feel ashamed of her behavior given how shes #VERY clearly ignoring me because shes trying to playact at 'not giving in to drama' #bitch you CAUSED this shit it sure as hell wasnt me yelling at you bc i dont know how to do my own laundry #and assumed any issues i was having was your fault #skill issue!!! quite literally #and my fucking PAYCHECK. WONT GO THROUGH. COREY WHERE IS MY SEVEN HUNDRED DOLLARS. #IF IT IS NOT IN MY ACCOUNT IN 24 HOURS I AM QUITTING AND THAT IS NOT A JOKE OR EXAGGERATION