#for example.

[mossy-aro]

being aspec is weird sometimes because exploring my boundaries and (a)sexuality in my own way is such a personal and normal thing to do as you go through life but it feels like if you do something or experience something differently than aspec people are ‘supposed to’ it puts the validity of your whole identity in danger

#this is not an original thought but i am expressing it anyways #i do not feel as if the ppl in my life can equate ‘getting the aroace thing’ and my not being sex or romance repulsed #so i either can tell them the truth abt being aroace or i can straight up refuse to disclose my identity #it feels so frustrating idk. a non issue maybe but it feels ugh. #for example. #i kissed someone recently n i didn’t hate it. it’s hard to know who to tell because if i was anything else ppl wouldn’t side eye #me for even talking abt the situation but in this case it’s like 🤨 why r u an aroace person doing that 🤨 #idk if this is getting too personal but u get my point i hope #🌿 #aroace #aspec #personal

[stromuprisahat]

They deserve each other. (derogatory)

#Wuthering Heights #Catherine Earnshaw #Heathcliff #Catherine x Heathcliff #meme #V #But for me also #Bellarke #for example.

[wingsmadeforflying]

I love the idea with soulmarks and them appearing on your 16th birthday (or something similar). But also that someone can have multiple. Multiple platonic and romantic.

#for example. #Regulus wakes up with like #12 different soulmarks #he doesn't even think he knows 12 people personally #Evan Roiser is platonic #Barty is a blurry line between platonic and romantic #James is romantic. #Sirius? If there's a familial bond one. He will always have Sirius #James probably has like 15 #well-meaning loveable prat. #Remus has Sirius and James (I'm convinced they're soul twins. Cannot have one without the others) #there's probably more #but that's the gist #TedTalk Tags done #mauraders

[kentopedia]

i find the most random connections between me & kento and i'm like wow invisible string we're so soulmates

#for example. #my favorite colors are red and dark green and #my birthstone is an emerald but i just realized kento's is a ruby #& my other cat's name is ruby #also my sorority colors were red and green #so stupid anyways

[rustchild]

currently jonesing hard for gritty but not gratuitously depressing queer media set in the immigrant working class milieu of 1930s new york. like if james cagney had kissed that priest in angels with dirty faces. or if paul newmann kissed that twink in the sting. for example.

#really what i am jonesing for is for my short story to be done and also good #or for that book about a golem in new york city to be better #or for that other book about angel and demon chavrutas to not be obvious good omens fanfiction #for example. #also yes i know that the sting takes place in chicago #it's the Vibe

[jonny-b-meowborn]

I go to this support group thingy every tuesday, I love it, the therapist there and most of the people are super sweet, but last week I had. idk. and unpleasant one, I guess. I brought up my concerns about my skin picking disorder, and while I'm not diagnosed with anything I used the word dermatillomania, because I just know the name for that disorder and I'm pretty sure that's it. and the therapist mostly just dismissed it saying that everyone sometimes feels anxious and picks their skin or nails about it. I tried explaining that it's not just that, it happens all the time and on multiple occasions I gave myself an infection from picking skin, but her main giveaway was that I need to think about what makes me stressed and try to do something about it. and then she kinda went on this small, mostly lighthearted rant about youth these days self diagnosing with everything because they hear it on tik tok or whatever. and idk, the therapist is a genuinely lovely lady, so that was weird to hear her be so dismissive about this. I definitely am going to bring my skin picking with my psychologist or psychiatrist if I don't forget tho. it's getting real bad recently and I think I need some professional help with it lmao

#for example. #a few weeks ago I gave myself an infection trying to remove some tiny blackhead because I dug in that spot so much #or a few days ago my brain decided it would be a good idea to try to remove a mole i have with tweezers #it's not infected but still i gave myself a nasty wound for literally no reason #or something that i did mention in group therapy #how a few weeks ago i stepped on a tiny piece of glass #and i did manage to dig it out but the feeling was so satisfying that for a moment i genuinely considered stepping on more glass on purpose #and the therapist was like well it's normal that it feels good when you get a foreign object out of your body #and like. yea that's true but i dont think people then feel the genuine need to walk on glass just to have more stuff to dig out #and like sorry but i don't think self diagnosing is bad #sometimes it can direct you to a specialist for a real diagnosis or just general help #like in my case #if i didn't research autism for a few years and didnt suspect i might be autistic i wouldn't go to therapy and get antidepressants #guh. sometimes therapists suck even when normally they're great #bee buzz

[reigningmax]

Why do people in this fandom think someone’s holding a gun to their head making them read fic about things they don’t like lmao. Writers tag their work. Learn how filtering tags work. Now you won’t see shit not of interest to you. Easy. Grow up.

#this goes for everything #I don’t want to see piss fic it’ll be very easy to filter that link #kink* #for example. #I’ve filtered every variation of ***** **** so I don’t see it #this also applies to non slash fics that triggers people #FILTERING IS EASY!!!!! #my post

[catty-words]

talking deep cuts i am first and foremost a "jealousy, jealousy" and "ballad of a homeschooled girl" bitch

#for example. #sour (2021) #guts (2023) #olivia rodrigo

[gingerteaonthetardis]

i want to just let loose a string of unintelligible txf gibberish so bad like i want to just say a bunch of bullshit. fox mulder has a pussy

#for example. #and they fucked in the camper van during that awful florida sideshow episode. idc i'm just speaking my truth #abbey.txt #txf

[skunkes]

need everyone to really consider what their ocs' favorite mane 6 ponie would be. and NOT the ponie they'd be most like, the poney that wld be their actual fave

#talkys #like the al and applejack comparison is there and easy. bt his favorite ponie wld be fluttershy #for example.

[yvtro]

if you ever wonder why i post/reblog meta that contradicts each other, this is because i enjoy the variety <3 while there are some common threads in my readings, i’m not dogmatic in my interpretation. it’s what it is – interpretation, and i think many fans would benefit from similar attitude.

#maybe that attitude would also stop you from coming to tell me that i’m wrong and you’re right #when the fundamental difference is just the choice material #and when at times i would probably say: oh i like this take! #if you didn’t present it as the superior one tm #don’t get me wrong there are numerous headcanons and ideas that i can’t stand #and i’m not willing to compromise on robin jay’s core values and his relationship with bruce #but i’m very lax when it comes to most of red hood readings? #unless it’s classism or ableism #also idk with the concept of killing being hard for jay #for example. #this is literally a headcanon more than meta even. #and i do like readings wherein he kills with satisfaction or where it’s easy for him considering his rage and grief #idk you need to understand that i’m just having fun with different concepts here and i’m not presenting them as definite truth #unless i explicitly state i’m talking about canon #this is just a general disclaimer #because i get lots of anons telling me: so you think that x why not y #and i don’t bother replying because the answer is usually: y is cool too!

[freakinhorse123]

Watching queer stranger things fans speculate over how byler will definitely be canon and just KNOWING theyre about to get their hearts broken by the writers.

#🎶​i think ive seen this one before🎶 #🎶and i didn’t like the ending🎶 #im so sorry queer st fans but ive seen this one before #FOR EXAMPLE. #merthur finnpoe klance destiel (the mother of all queerbaits) (people are still mad) #SUPERCORP THATS WHAT ITS CALLED #also cherik #from the x-men fox movies #you can argue over whether or not some of these are queerbait but they still broke the hearts of queer fans everywhere #SPIRK HOW COULD I FORGET SPIRK #THE ORIGINS OF FANFIC #this is an exception in tos cause i don’t think they legally could but in the later installments in star trek thats on the writers. #but yeah im ready with the tissues for the poor st fans when byler doesnt happe

[karcatgirl-vantas]

idk what i’d do about all the pregnancy plots but part of me wants to rewrite my name is earl with all the genders swapped and nothing (or as little as possible) else changed.

#some kind of Commentary. #any number of obvious points to make about roy and danielle #and male victims of abuse by women #for example. #and on the other hand it'd also throw the weirdness of randy and catalina's arc way into sharp relief #sexualization of lesbians vs pathological fear of gay men #etc #i'm sure it'd turn up a lot of other interesting baggage i'm not thinking of #you know the kinda lady who does nothing but bad things and then wonders why her life sucks? #that was me #my name is pearl

[ethanhuntfemmefatale]

Claire Phelps is so “wife of an abusive father” core

#Claire………………….. #mission impossible #claire phelps #ethan hunt #jim phelps #sometimes I wonder what Ethan learned from her. what habits of hers he still sees in himself years later #for example. #Ethan learning how to honeypot by watching Claire is such a concept #abuse mention #jim phelps evil polycule

[milfmisspiggy]

actually there might be a silver lining that bearified superman isn't getting officially published in 70 thousand issues a week at my local comic book store because. i do not have enough money for that. and also drooling in public in a lustful manner is "inappropriate"

#re lrb #for example. #like they ever smack a stomach on batman and. it will be embarrassing. im man enough to admit that #immediate win. no doubt about it. but still embarrassing for me personally #dc #clark kent #superman #cj.txt

[hollow-port]

Owl house is almost perfection! 

I just wish we got some more potion-making lore! I know I keep going back to this, but potion making is just my favorite form of magic in fantasy universes, and so many fantasy universes just Downplay it! Even Dungeons and Dragons, it takes a huge back seat in terms of the magic system! (I could rant on and fucking on about the alchemist artificer. The fact it’s so fucking lack luster makes me so fucking sad.)

Eda and Lilith were right there in terms of what I want in terms of brewing witches, but... They fall just short. However, I don’t really blame Dana, because she was fucking kneecapped but the corporate fucks at Disney. I just we got more than the little we got in the show. Maybe in another life. Who knows?

#Vic speaks his mind #Like. #You can get so fucking creative with potions #But holy shit do people don't really do much. #For example. #In my world not only can you make medicine #but you can make things that have different spell effects #Give you temporary magic powers #Elemental damage #Status boosts #Truth serums #knock out gas/sleeping pills #the possiblities! #get crazy with it!