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iloveyouphillipmorris · 2 years

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re: prev post — scott pilgrim is still one of the coolest franchises to come out in my lifetime but both the books and the movie are horrible at doing anything other than giving scott a pass for all his behaviour and letting specifically scott’s exes fall into weirdly flat people when confronted with having to tell scott his faults in book 6. like even kim who has consistently become one of the most enjoyable and identifiable characters throughout the series is suddenly just egging for scott to be good and be the man she always knew he was by book 6 and it’s like what??? huh??? knives has genuine change and i like that and i think envy’s character stayed consistent. book 6 gives us a glimpse into the ways gideon is genuinely manipulative or at least a control freak weirdo with the way he controls envy’s life but why did we have to get so cartoon-y with it, like.

this is enough. like he’s controlling, he’s probably pretty insecure, he micromanages the girls he’s with and wants attention as a concept but not as a human - smth he probably isn’t very in tune with the idea of being - he’s passive aggressive (according to bryan o’malley’s 10 secrets to gideon graves that he provided jason schwartzman), obsessive, has stalker tendencies, no heathy connections to his emotions, and probably a really elitist prick. ok. and scott is all of these things. he even tells gideon during the second fight that he understands him, the idea is he sees how gideon and himself are similar and how he isn’t any better than him. but then??? cryogenically frozen girlfriends??? huh???? since when does gideon care about his partners enough to keep them frozen like this?? i mean i guess one could argue it’s connected to some form of fe.tish he seems to have (evidenced by the keeping-ramona-on-a-leash in her head thing) but what???

i think that by suddenly making gideon this godly evil goofy dude who has this comical level of evil-ness totally erases how the audience ought to feel about scott: Bad. scott is a shitty dude. he’s all the things gideon is with one exception: gideon has succeeded and scott has not. he has failed. gideon was driven enough to make something of his passions whilst scott is fickle and gives up on even bass the second it becomes slightly inconvenient for him. i would think that envy scott might feel would be a driving force??? but so many of these potential narratives are lost in favour of epic battle scene rawr xd. now for just like some light reading ok. i guess. but i want better from the series.

i also just want more information on gideon.

#scott pilgrim vs the world #gideon graves #ok there i have said my piece #this isn’t even to MENTION the racism…..

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jsteneil · 5 years

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Neil Josten’s Birthday Bash

in which the foxes don’t get anything done, ever

Nicky added Dan, Kevin, Aaron and three others to “Neil Josten's Birthday Bash Organization Committee”.

Nicky: can't add Andrew because he still owns a FLIP PHONE but here we go

Dan: hell yeah B-)

Nicky: kevin can fill him in with the details anyway

Kevin: why me?

Allison: because you live with him?

Matt: you're practically attached at the hip

Dan: omg ur roomm8s

Matt: ^^^ what allison said

Dan: yeah

Nicky: OR aaron can do it on wednesdays so that there's no chance of neil finding out :D

Aaron: no.

Aaron left the chat.

Nicky: what

Nicky: the

Kevin: just add him back

Nicky: fuck

Kevin: ffs

Kevin: some ppl are in class

Nicky added Aaron to the chat.

Aaron: im muting you all

Allison: just embrace the fact that you've lived in SC for years and say y'all

Nicky: y'all!!!

Nicky: yeah

Matt: dude don't how are u gonna know when to buy your coordinated outfit and rehearse the choreography if you mute us

Dan: Aaron?

Renee: I do think he muted us

Allison: fuck a crybaby

Nicky: hey

Allison: what's he gonna do? Unmute us?

Dan: asdhskfjdl ALLI

Matt: lmfao

Nicky: moving ON

Nicky: the important thing here is my boy neil's birthday

Kevin: and you wonder why Aaron left

Nicky: what?

Kevin: maybe Neil doesn't want to celebrate his bday

Nicky: no that's too sad

Nicky: next person?

Allison: not to be that bitch

Matt: oh?

Allison: but do we even know when his birthday is?

Allison: fuck you matthew donovan boyd

Matt: sorry i love you

Dan: it was easy

Dan: matt ur easy

Matt: ily babe

Dan: <3

Kevin: jan 19th

Renee: March 31st?

Allison: wait

Dan: uhhhh

Matt: Neil Josten deserves 2 bdayz

Kevin: no jan 19th

Renee: oh i thought we were using the one he chose for himself

Matt: Renee add a smiley face

Renee: :)

Renee: ?

Dan: babe ur mind,,,, im crying

Matt: ikr

Allison: stop using mygf so

Kevin: is it me or does it sound really passive aggressive bitchy with a smiley face

Dan: ye that's the point

Renee: I really wasn't trying to be

Matt: oh no we know, sorry

Matt: i feel bad now

Matt: it was just funny

Matt: sorry

Dan: :(

Renee: It's okay, don’t worry

Renee: :)

Dan: renee STOP i feel like ur going 2 murder me in my sleep

Renee: I could, but I won't

Nicky: im shaking and im not even in your dorm

Allison: and we daily thank god for that

Nicky: hey im an excellent roommate

Nicky: i always leave so cap and matt can have sexy times

Dan: yeah but then u call it sexy time

Allison: ive seen the bathroom nicky

Nicky: that's aaron

Matt: l o l

Kevin: aaron's a neat freak

Allison: exposed

Nicky: erik come get me the people here are mean

Renee: So when's Neil's actual birthday?

Kevin: jan 19th

Nicky: who's gonna ask andrew?

Kevin: HE HAS REAL PAPERS NOW

Kevin: JUST GO CHECK AND LET ME BE IN CLASS IN PEACE

Allison: well okay drama queen

Dan: kevin: *is on the chat as much as us*

Dan: also kevin: guys why r u dragging me here

Matt: it's okay kevin we can talk about it during practice

Renee: Don't goad him, Matt

Dan: lmfao babe u thought

Matt: uh oh

Allison: lol

Dan: we need 2 trounce the ravens nxt wk

Nicky: do we have to

Dan: y'all r hauling ass @ practice or god help me

Nicky: id settle for a close victory

Matt: nicky if you don't help us close the goal next friday im telling neil about his surprise

Nicky: noooooo :'(

Allison: ye renee has enough to do without having to face stuff y'all should have blocked

Renee: Andrew is also a goalkeeper

Allison: yeah but he doesn't give a fuck

Renee: That's neither true nor fair

Dan: i want bragging rights over this vctry, end of the question

Matt: are we just gonna ignore the fact that the fbi chose neil's old bday

Matt: even tho they made him a new identity

Allison: wonder how this conversation went

Nicky: are we ignoring the fact that neil is a goddamn CAPRICORN

Allison: "in my left hand is your birthday date. In my right hand is your other birthday" *shuffles behind his back*

Matt: idk about astrology but I checked and he tried to pass for an aries so what does that tell us?

Dan: shut up adfhskdjs

Nicky: im dying

Kevin: [attached picture]

Matt: did u steal neil's ID

Allison: i thought you were in class

Kevin: he sent it to me

Nicky: his phone can take pics??

Dan: RLY crappy 1s but yeah

Nicky: so all those times andrew refused to send me pics of his Eden’s Twilight's outfits so i could coordinate neil's…

Matt: :/

Kevin: he just doesn't like you

Allison: i would have laughed but you two have been fighting the good fight since last year, dressing neil up

Nicky: hey

Renee: Kevin, that was mean

Nicky: but thanx allison, I think so too

Kevin: sorry

Kevin: he's just difficult?

Nicky: yeah :(

Dan: omg u guys rmr when neil was on k ferdinand's show n he looked like a bite-sized snack in that shirt

Kevin: not exactly what I remember from this interview

Dan: u were pretty 2 <3

Kevin: oh my god

Renee: Didn't Neil keep the clothes?

Nicky: i've never seen him wear them again

Nicky: maybe he STUFFED THEM DOWN THE TOILET

Matt: uh okay

Allison: weird emphasis

Kevin: are you still stuck on that

Dan: what

Kevin: it's what happened with the clothes he wore the first time we went to columbia

Nicky: do you know how expensive that plumber was?

Matt: just a thought but maybe that wouldn't have happened if you didn't force him to come with you and drugged him against his will

Allison: don't tell me someone actually peed on them and tried to flush

Nicky: take it up with andrew

Matt: you literally drove the car

Kevin: what happened in columbia stays in columbia

Allison: omg oh my god

Dan: IM SCREAMING

Nicky: what was i supposed to do, get knifed?

Nicky: also ^^^^ yeah.

Nicky: ANYWAY

Nicky: now that Kevin got us proof that the FBI officially made neil a capricorn again,,

Dan: the fbi be like "oh u thought u could escape ur traumatic past? That's nice buddy

Matt: yeah I don't think beating last year's party is gonna be hard

Dan: here's ur bday n trauma back"

Nicky: HAPPY THOUGHTS

Nicky: :(

Nicky: anyway it's the big 21st, so the first thing in order is BOOZE

Kevin: uh nicky

Renee: He's turning 20?

Matt: what???

Kevin: yeah he aged himself up on his fake papers

Matt: oh my god

Dan: lmfao only neil

Nicky: he is baby

Matt: does. Does he know though. Like did he check when they made him the papers.

Kevin: I'm guessing so

Matt: imagine filling a form or smth and you get the day right but not the year

Renee: Wait Kevin, how did you get neil to send you the pic without telling him about the surprise party?

Nicky: DON'T YOU DARE HAVE TOLD HIM ABOUT THE NJBB

Allison: njbb?

Dan: neil josten's bday bash, im guessing

Nicky: Neil Josten's

Nicky: BIRTHDAY BASH

Nicky: yes

Allison: it doesn’t sound right

Allison: like, something’s missing in the name

Matt: alli we play a sport named after what you get when you take the s from sexy

Dan: 10 bux kevin wishes he didn't have such a stick up his butt so he could reply with exy is sexy

Allison: im not taking that

Kevin: i actually don't know why she named it that

Kevin: she never told the press and she didn't write it anywhere so

Nicky: :(

Allison: oh

Dan: sorry :(

Renee: Maybe coach knows?

Matt: maybe each letter has a meaning

Kevin: how?

Allison: endangering xylophones yearly?

Matt: EXceptional daY

Matt: and then, boom, it's about your name

Renee: Matt, I like that idea!

Dan: allison, no

Kevin: I'll have to ask coach, renee

Kevin: anyway it was always going to be her name, she invented it

Nicky: someone bring neil in so he can say something super serious about how kevin is a legendary striker whose name is already associated with exy and make us choke with emotion

Kevin: nicky….

Nicky: look it's working and he's not even there

Allison: it's the josten effect

Dan: changing your entire life's beliefs one extremely tragic remark at a time

Matt:...

Matt: someone change the subject im sad

Nicky: BIRTHDAY BASH

Kevin: oh yeah nicky asked me how i got neil's ID

Allison: and?

Kevin: i told him i signed him up for his own exynews account so he could stop hogging mine for streaming

Kevin: so i needed his name and birthday

Kevin: and then we got into an argument about date formats

Nicky: dd/mm/yy 4ever

Allison: eww

Kevin: so he sent me a pic instead of writing the date

Dan: it's the european propaganda getting to him

Kevin: i guess i really have to get him an account now

Dan: kevin i know you're entirely serious but that's so funny

Nicky: THE REST OF THE WORLD USES IT

Matt: admit it, you can't wait to go back to Germany because you secretly like the metric system

Nicky: yeah dicks sound bigger if you use centimeters

Dan: didn't need 2 know that

Nicky: not that erik needs that :)

Dan: I DON'T WANNA KNOW

Renee: ….

Matt: honestly im glad i don't understand german or i would never live down all the skyping

Dan: renee's like "can't relate" lmfao

Renee: No indeed

Allison: hell yeah that's my girlfriend

Renee: <3

Allison: hey minyard if you're secretly lurking now is the time to leave

Allison: …

Renee: No, he truly muted us earlier

Dan: are we surprised?

Renee: we'll catch him up on what we decide to do later

Renee: Nicky?

Nicky: oh, yeah!!!

Nicky: BIRTHDAY BASH

Matt: here we go again

Dan: mamma mia

#aftg #tfc #all for the game #the foxhole court #this is crack #i'm aware of that #my writing #anyway i wrote this just after waking up don't hold me accountable for anything #dan's ridiculous spelling was fun to write #ALSO did tumblr get rid of line breakers on desktop because if so i'm about to fucking RIOT #you hear me tumblr??

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ariesbilly · 5 years

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I hEARD FAKE DATING CHRISTMAS AU SO HERE I AM Why fake dating on Christmas? To prove smth to their parents? Friends? Is there a mistletoe involved at some point???

THERES ALWAYS MISTLETOE INVOLVED!

i’ll take any excuse for a fake dating scenario tbh but my moms downstairs watching some hallmark movie and from what ive gathered through watching one scene is that this dude was engaged or something but broke it off with his ex and then his brother brought her as his date for christmas ?? so the dude now got this random woman (i have no idea how she came into the picture) to pretend to be his girlfriend ?? and now the ex is hella jealous. oh and when the girl and guy were off in private to go over all the important details they need to know about each other and come up with a fake first meeting to tell people, she grabbed him and kissed him and was basically like “we’re inevitably gonna end up under mistletoe at some point and if our first kiss happens then and everyone sees, theyre gonna know so might as well get it out of the way now” and god... thats the shit right there

bUT ALSO im a big fan of either one of them bringing home a guy for christmas cuz theyre in some weird passive aggressive war with their dad about being gay and its a whole thing my BIG kink is the au where fp grew up in a wealthy family and instead of being abusive his dad is just more... negligent and annoying so fp makes fred pretend to be his boyfriend at some big important dinner his dad hosts for work or family and fp is showing off all night with fred and really doing the most to the point where his dad has enough and pulls him aside to yell at him (cuz he cant do it in front of guests its tacky) but fred sees/hears and comes to fps defense and starts yelling at senior about what a great person fp is and how he should be so lucky to have him as a son and fps not used to people coming to his defense like that and basically he’s falling in love right in that very moment merry christmas

#listen...#i have a lot of feelings about faking dating #briana answers things #Anonymous

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irailleth-archive · 7 years

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I'm guessing BPD is short for Borderline Personnality Disorder ? Didn't know the acronym in english. How does it manifest for you ? Cause I kinda self diagnosed it in me (yeah I know I shouldn't so I don't take it too seriously) but I figured it would be impossible for my friends to live a normal life if they were experiencing life the way I do.

hi hi! Yeah it stands for Borderline Personality DisorderI’m gonna put it under a cut for ya bc it’s a bit long ^^”

**DISCLAIMER: I AM IN NO WAY A PROFESSIONAL OR ANYTHING. THIS IS FROM /MY/ PERSONAL EXPERIENCE WITH BPD AND I HAVE SPENT MORE THAN A YEAR ACTIVELY RESEARCHING ABOUT IT AND DOING A CHECKLIST OF THE CRITERIA FOR HAVING BPD.

First of all, there’s no problem with self-dx !! So long as you do your research and all that stuff (I have a bpd tag so you can check that out. There is also a criteria for it if you scroll a bit down in the first page so you can do a checklist ig) Though I’ve heard from a few ppl that it’s hard to get a proffessional dx if you’re under 18 due to your hormones and you still growing and your body changing or smth like that :///

Okay, so now to the important bit. My own BPD manifests itself in extremely intense emotions (ex: for a normal person, smth like getting cut in line for smth would just annoy them in a kind of minor way. For me I would absolutely scowl at the person and mutter things under my breath [like how I want smth bad to happen to them. This can be extreme in thoughts like ‘I hope they get mugged’ or ‘I hope they lose (insert important item here) and they have a shitty day’]. Same goes for when I get sad, happy, etc etc) [[**I’m probably gonna get shit on for this for having these thoughts so I’m just gonna say now that once I manage to calm down I apologize to the person in my head (even if I’m not near them anymore) and scold myself for having such thoughts. I TRY to not be a bad person and will always do my best to be nice to everyone I meet. I never act out on these thoughts to anyone and if I am angry the worst I can do is be passive-aggressive towards the person I am currently talking to (most likely a friend. If it is a stranger or acquiantance I will try my best to be polite)]]

Another way is me having my fp (favorite person) who is my girlfriend. Now before her I didn’t exactly have an fp and my last fp was my ex-datemate so for me, having an fp is usually the person who I’m dating. With me having an fp, for me it means I near constantly want their attention and validation and praise. I want them to talk to me and when they’re happy I’m very happy! But when they don’t respond for some time or sound monotone or uninterested I feel like they hate me and don’t want me around anymore. (Which is not true!! They are either busy or very tired/not okay/etc !!) My fp is like my entire world. I love them so much I would quite literally die for them.

Another thing is Black/White emotions/thinking. Now this is probably one of the more common ones you might have heard of. For me my black/white thinking mostly comes from my black/white emotions. To elaborate if someone who I consider a close friend does something and it hurts/upsets/annoys/etc. me to a great degree my entire mindset will shift and I will absolutely HATE them but even then I try to rationalize it and tell myself valid and completely rational reasons to not feel this upset/angry towards them. But most of the time it never really works bc my emotions are just too intense and strong and the best course of action here is to ask for some space so you don’t blow up in that persons face (I have neglected asking for space which resulted in me lashing out sometimes ://)

And speaking for b/w emotions, here comes my favorite part! (this is pure sarcasm. It’s absolute hell and I hate it) Splitting!! There’s a bpd masterpost in my bpd tag that talks about splitting and different ways but for me, my splitting comes in at angry splitting (anger has become my dominant emotion for when i get upset :”(( it’s not good and needs to be controlled so if you have a problem with it too try looking up solutions for trying to ease it a bit). I’m not quite sure how to describe my splitting but it’s kind of like... I’m angry at this person but I still want to talk to them but at the same time I kind of want to ignore them and just cut them off from myself so :/// I also!! recently noticed I split on myself as well !! It’s very hard to describe since I noticed it recently but it is a thing that happens w ppl who have BPD/symp of BPDRelationship Object Permanence. Now this one’s a HUGE fucking bitch to deal with, especially if you have a partner. It basically means ppl w BPD LACK this certain trait where we have a hard time understanding that our relationship (whether it be romantic or platonic) is still there even if that person doesn’t constantly reassure us that it is there. Which sucks bc then we’ll have to ask the person if they still love/like us so we get some validation and reassurance. This most especially happens with me and gf so.. it sucks.

Other ways is me having some kind of level of distrust with certain ppl (like friends) bc I’m afraid to ask them to give me reassurance that we’re still good and they like me, I WANT attention from my friends but I DON’T want to ask for it because I’ll feel manipulative/abusive (same goes for my gf), my mindset can go from ‘I’m the fucking best. I’m better than you I am a king a god I will Shatter all of you’ to ‘I’m the fucking worst i’m so disgusting and ugly why do I even have friends I’m complete shit they should just tell me to fuck off’, Me being apathetic to a lot of things even though I don’t want to be apathetic to it, there’s a whole bunch more but basically a lot of what’s in my bpd tag applies to me. Especially me having a HUGE fear that I’m being manipulative/abusive to my friends, and especially my girlfriend (at one point, before we were dating, I think I was rapidly apologizing to them for manipulating them into thinking I was a good person while I was having a breakdown so... yeah).

I hope this helps you a little bit!! If you have anymore specific questions you want to ask me just hmu!! (It might be better if you go off anon so we could keep our convo private :0c )

#hawke answers #bpd #mental illness #like i said all of this is from personal experience and should not be taken from a professional viewpoint #if you can possibly be given a professional diagnosis i say go for it #Anonymous

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