#i lack a father figure

[serenamiumiu]

papa h

#alhaitham #haikaveh #i think that its so attractive for alh to hold their baby while reading a book #i lack a father figure #genshin impact

[lucy-the-demon]

Made this, thought it was funny

Both Harveys I vibe with. I just chill with Harv (acnh) more

#stardew valley #stardew valley harvey #acnh harvey #acnh harv #photopia #acnh #sdv harvey #shitpost #idk its funny to me #the cooler daniel meme #harv can be my dad #which one? the dog #considering stardew Harvey's age hes probably old enough to be my dad #its probably good my dad left my life #dr shrunk is ny dad too #pascal too #i lack a father figure #yes I'm fatherless #just like Sebastian and Alex

[caenith]

It's always been so funny to me that the Council of Elrond is literally just a meeting of people who have showed up in Rivendell with different problems and just happened to do so at more or less the same time. They didn't gather there to discuss the Ring, the future of the Middle Earth or the rise of Sauron.

Nope. Each of them have faced An Issue and decided to ask Elrond for help.

Poor Elrond. He managed to avoid the kingship, but not becoming a parent figure for almost everyone in the Middle Earth.

#tolkien #lotr #lotr newsletter #'shit guys we fucked up Gollum has escaped - what now?' #'... let's ask Elrond' #'... DAAAAAAD? We have a problem...' #I understand the Lack of Screentime but it's so sad that the movies didn't include that #Elrond my love my sweet boy my perfect father figure to absolutely anyone <3 #Ofc the issues that they're all facing are related to the Main Problem - Sauron and his search for the Ring - but still

[lilblucat]

Had some ideas for a Solver flesh-based fankid for them (using the arrow creature Uzi made for reference). Had to set this in my existing parent AU since I've already poured a lot of thought into that. I would imagine that she looked like a blob with an eye when she was born, and then shifted her body over the years to approximate what her parents look like. So she has the drone shape to her with Solver flavoring.

(Also lowkey wondering if maybe the hook on the tail should come out from underneath instead since the needle on Disassembler tails comes out from underneath. Idk she might look a little too demon-ish and wondering if a retake on the tail tip would help things)

#murder drones #nuzi fankid #murder drones oc #additional lore before i forget #yeah she is like biologically Uzi's kid or something??? #she's not N's in that sense #they're not related like that but they are father and daughter #her creation was absolutely traumatic on Uzi though #also yes Colt is also here #no name for her yet I figure N would've named her something he thought Uzi would like but idk what that is yet #and with her I just lack a purple eyed fankid for them #i forgot the Solver thing had yellow eyes so she doubles for having Ns eyes lol #akita doorman

[maddymoreau]

I'm enjoying Fallout 3 a little more but there’s one thing that’s extremely bothering me.

How come, in the dialogue options, I can NEVER can mention, I was FORCED to leave the vault?

I didn’t have a choice but to leave. Jonas Palmer was beaten to death in attempts to get info about my father James. The Overseer was going to have the same done to me if not WORSE.

The Lone Wanderer: "So they killed Jonas, and I'm next, is that it?"

Amata: "Yeah. It's lucky I got here ahead of them. But we can't stand here talking! You're got to get out of here!"

I understand my father didn't know this would happen. That he simply thought I wouldn't be able to leave the vault after he escaped.

But the fact I can never explain what happened when reunited with him is just so ODD!?!?!!?

I COULDN’T STAY!!!!!!!

I FEEL LIKE THIS IS IMPORTANT INFORMATION YOU SHOULD WANT TO KNOW DAD!!!!!

WHY ARE THESE MY ONLY OPTIONS?!?!?!?!!!!!

Why give me that entire section where I had to escape the vault to avoid MURDER!!?? If they were going to back me in a corner (dialogue wise) that I would've gone after my father no matter what.

It would've made the dialogue option, "Why would you throw away the life we had?" WAY MORE INTENSE AND INTERESTING IF I COULD TELL HIM HIS ACTIONS UNINTENTIONALLY AFFECTED ME!!!

It could've been followed by a cute bonding moment where he apologizes and says while this life was never what he wanted for me he'll now help me adjust however he can.

#WHICH COULD'VE LEAD TO EVEN MORE UNIQUE DIALOGUE!!! #Accepting his offer + Being Neutral and saying you need to do this on your own + CRUELY REJECTING HIM!!! #At least Vault 112 was REALLY COOL!!!! #I had fun doing everything Stanislaus Braun wanted before reloading to an older save. #FIGURING OUT THAT MUSIC PUZZLE WAS VERY VERY FUN!!!!! #Fallout 3 #Fallout 3 Spoiler #The frustrating part is I'M ROLEPLAYING AS A CHARACTER WHO WOULD'VE GONE AFTER HER FATHER NO MATTER WHAT!!!! #But is also grieving the loss of the potential life she could've had inside the vault and her lack of choice. #How she HAD to leave because of her Fathers actions and is now feeling lost in this new world he never prepared her for. #MAJOR SPOILER -> #My only guess is it's because dad dies later on RIP I knew he died but I thought it was dependent on your karma. #SO IMAGINE MY SURPRISE!!! I really thought he was going to live in my route. #Writing my The Lone Wanderer the biggest revenge arc!! #Where she has to not betray herself and her morals in the process of getting revenge. #Long Text #Long Post #MaddyPlaysFallout3

[thedeca]

there is something so cunty about bhaal killing sceleritas fel and then using the reflection of sceleritas in his own blood as an avatar to speak with his own lost son that was created from his own flesh and blood

#i kind of see sceleritas as a proxy to a father or uncle figure to durge which made the scene even cuntier #the lord of murder truly does slay #i could be wrong but wasnt bhaal originally a human that became one of the gods of death that chose to rule over murder? #it really adds so much to redeemed durge's lore when u consider that. he is the bhaalspawn that is closest to bhaal #bhaal only ever saw a reflection of himself in durge - durge was never his own person to bhaal #durge was like an extension of his own flesh/body to bhaal #the lack of personhood durge had in bhaals eyes is what allowed him to love durge as a proud father that could never see faults #durge was murder and the son of murder to bhaal which is why bhaal could only ever kill the dark urge snd not the remnants of s person #bg3 #sceleritas fel #the dark urge #bhaal

[fishtank32]

Lmk doodle page that turned into a dragonfruit doodle page. I love them sm.

#lego monkie kid #dragonfruit shipping #mei lmk #red son #red son lmk #hope u guys know i do a big dramatic sigj before starting all the mandatory tags or whatever #i roll my eyes and sigh like someones dissapointed dad #i think these two r so cute tho. they jusg make each other worse lmao😭 #everything is a competition between them. everything. #idk i started lmk w s3 and seeing them bond over the samadhi fire like chemically altered my brainwaves. #everything abt lmk did that to me tbh #like this show sees my absolute lack of a father figure and is like 'yeah.. yeah i think we're going to exploit that' #every time sweet calls mk kid or buddy or smth i just wanna dieeeeeeeeee aaaaa and pigsy? dont get me fucking started #WHEN HE CALLS MK SON???? GODSDDDDDHDKAH asbhddggfejehsbananshsduf u rh #AND MACAQUE???? OH MY GOD THATS IT THATS IT IM RETIRINGGG #he may have done horrible things i dont rlly care i wish that six eared monkey was my dad #what a fucking sentence. anyways. toddles. bye. goodnight. idfk love you

[motherfuckingbrad]

contrary to popular belief (i don’t actually know what people believe) i think the person brad bakshi would get along best with from the study group is mr jeff winger. they’d 100% be bros together that talk about money (brad) and women (jeff) for the first few hours until they get too drunk and start talking about the ways in which society/growing up made them feel like in order to be loved they must be skinny

all i’m saying is if all the closest male friendships revolve around trauma bonding, jeff winger and brad bakshi would be bffs for life

#tw eating disorder mention (kinda) #like … they both have eating disorders #they both were raised in kinda fucked up situations with fucked up father figures or lack thereof #they both keep themselves so insanely guarded #they’re perfect for one another #and britta would have a FIELD DAY #community #mythic quest #crossover episode! #idk who (if anyone) people typically say brad would get along with #i just know people will write about like brad and abed meeting or brad being a character abed is playing #but we never talk about the similarities between jeff and brad! and that ends today #brad bakshi #jeff winger

[sukibenders]

Looking back at Girl Meets World, it will forever irritate me especially for how they handled/treated Angela. Oh this show really hated black women because how do you not only 1.) describe her, one of (correct me if I'm wrong) only few black and MAIN characters of the og show, as a "concept" 2.) have characters show obvious disgust at the small mention of her name 3.) depict her as a homewrecker for a new relationship that, really, shouldn't have ever happened 4.) have her old friends treat her like dirt and her old lover like she is the root of his problems, when there was nothing but positive love there 5.) reuse all the concepts from said previous love story just to elevate the new ship with a yte woman and 6.) compare her to Hurricane Katrina, one of the deadliest hurricanes that caused significant numbers of death, harm, misplacement, and trauma to people, largely of whom were black? Mind you, all these points I mentioned were toward the only main black character of the OG show before the spinoff, and the only, from what I can remember, black female character of the spinoff who didn't even stay long. Not even getting into the racist drama with some of the members on set, but you cannot look me in the eye and tell me that the way the show handled Angela, her story, and her relationship with the other characters + Shawn wasn't fucking disrespectful, you can't because I won't believe you.

#boy meets world #girl meets world #like this show had so many issues (from its depiction of autism to religious intolerance to supporting grooming) #but this was a whole other level #it was especially hurtful as a young black girl to see growing bc i really tried to like this show with its lacking diversity #but coming from watching bmw to this a show from the 90s that depicted a black character better than a 2010s show- u get my point #and its so wrong bc it depicts angela as being the one to end the relationship when all she said in bmw how she #didn't want to see her leaving as a goodbye and there was ambiguous hope for the future #also shoving shawn to be with maya's mom was really unnecessary #not only bc of how it depicted being raised in a single parent household so negatively #but that the only way to solve maya's problems was for her...to have a dad? like that really isn't how it works #i blissfully live in the delulu where angela and shawn came back together once she left europe and he eventually married her #after they graduated college and have a beautiful family together #shawn x angela #don't even get me started on how whenever there was a guest cameo it was met audience applause and happy reactions #but when it was for angela: crickets 😬 #back to maya- i feel like it would have been better for her story if shawn didn't marry her mother (and was with angela) and u would see her #hope and wish for the opposite to where it nearly consumes her only to finally be sat down and informed that #even if shawn isn't with your mom he'll still be in your life as a father figure no matter what #i personally feel like that would've been better #but this is largely just s rant so forgive the structure of it al

[knightsickness]

Cristin is the step father he's the father that stepped up (he cares about the kids 1% more than viserys does bc he's sworn to protect them)

what i’m saying though is like i believe he cares about them enough to remember their names but i don’t think he’s got any especial fondness for them it’s his job. they’re alicent’s kids and he’s alicent’s sworn sword so there’s that emotional connection but when aemond loses an eye on his watch he openly doesn’t care. imagining aegon chronically fatherless says to him i think we have kind of a father son relationship don’t you and he’s like huh. well you can consider me a stepfather if you want internally thinking i don’t need a son. and if i did he wouldn’t be you

#if they’d made criston more manipulative in the show more of the kingmaker puppetmaster thing from the book i think i’d #like green dad criston better. the idea that he’s actively taking advantage of aegon’s lack of a father figure to further his agenda #but doesn’t actually like aegon as a guy could compel me. but as it is in the show it’s very little to me #asoiaf #a song of ice and fire #house of the dragon #hotd #criston cole #aegon ii

[errorsystemfailure]

rough episode of malevolent for those of us who don’t forgive or want forgiveness from our fathers

#i do not understand why this man cares about Daniel at ALL. i found Daniel appalling for p much the entire episode he was in- #before he got shot and he has not improved much to me since. I’m sorry that Arthur lacks a father figure but this is a mess to me 😭 #and it was the conceit of THE WHOLE EPISODE. #I hope no more Daniel for a while I’ve had enough #(there ARE dad forgiveness storylines that are compelling to me but this one felt so quick I got whiplash yknow) #(sorry for being a hater. I liked the part where John was there. I’ve missed him) #malevolent #malevolent spoilers #malevolent part 35 #amalgamation blogs

[autism-corner]

eiden tbh-creature using the new sticker =w=b

#naked guy..... #i wanted to give him a lil dick but i cant figure out how to make it work.... maybe someday o7 #also. dont ask about the lack of image cropping. i did this on my phone :) #sillyposting #nu carnival #nu carnival eiden #augh his face in the OGsticker is soso good.... #all of the stickers are good. i really like the father “the more you know” one. something like that.

[dirtytransmasc]

me 🤝 creating insanely unrealistic "what if?" situations, that put both Jon and Cat into precarious positions, in which Jon *needs* a mother and Cat has no choice but to fill that gap.

#its just too good #I live off of unrealistic angst specifically catered to me #you've seen the reluctant father figure trope #but I think we need more reluctant mother figure trope #love overcoming hate. maternal instincts. the innocence of a child. the guilt of a failed mother... something like that I think #the shock jon feels when catelyn is anything more than dismissive or ambivalent #cat knowing its warranted and feeling nothung but guilt #jon sinking into the comfort a mother without really thinking about it #situations where Jon's hurt (the worse the better. sorry bbg)/having a crisis over his lack of proper parents are just 😋😚💕🫶👌🫰 #Catelyn having to care for him when he's in pain (physical. mental. emotional. all of the above) just has this tang to it #It's an addiction and I'm in need of an intervention I fear #catelyn stark #jon snow #got #game of thrones

[bumblingbabooshka]

Learning Curve Hall-of-Famer right here. Tuvok making Chell clean the transporter room with the equivalent of a toothbrush as, I assume, a punishment of some sort & Harry coming out of left field with a 'You missed a spot <3' just to kick him while he's down. Harry, the man's gonna be there LITERALLY all day. Absolute bastards these Starfleet types <- said with love

#learning curve #Tuvok confiscating the Bajoran earring is obviously bad but his entire method of training is also just so ... it's a Lot #He's such a drill sargent v_v It's moments like these that make me think he and Harry would well together in the mirrorverse #B'Elanna: ?? But he'll be at it for hours! / Kim: (knowing that's the point) : ) ..... #B'Elanna: Well good luck! / Harry: You missed a spot : ) #Tuvok: Ten laps around the ship in increased gravity. Ten more laps if you talk back to me. Twenty. Thirty. Forty. #Twenty six hours scrubbing the floor as punishment. No stopping for water. I expect you to improve daily or I will consider this a failure. #Also Tuvok: I just don't understand why they aren't responding well to my training....hmm.... / Neelix: ................ : ) Um. #People like to focus on Tuvok as a good mentor or father figure but I really think that's only to very select and specific people about #select & specific things - this rigidity and lack of compassion and inability to understand others and general #vibe of being uncaring is also part of his personality #Like what Neelix said: 'That's the problem - you have no feeling for me but you have feelings against me' <- That sort of vibe #<- And also the fact that he's very close with Janeway despite (or perhaps because of) this is another interest component of them #Janeway who at the start of the show stated explictly that she was comfortable with her distance as Captain (which hints that she's not #like say - Pike. Who wants to get to know his crew intimately) #Idk I just think it's interesting! #Janeway & Tuvok as colder than other Human/Vulcan pairs is something that intrigues me. Janeway being comfortable with distance from others #and heavily segmenting her personal vs private lives and Tuvok who is the most quintessential Vulcan also being the closest to her for the #longest time (They've been friends 20 years prior to the show's opening) #There's no component of their relationship which demands Tuvok be more Human which is something I /WISH/....we EXPLORED more....the #Janeway-Tuvok friendship....it's SO telling that other Main Vulcan-Human pairs are like the most delved into relationships on screen but #Tuvok & Janeway's relationship is paid lip service but never REALLY is any time devoted to it explicitly. I wonder why that IS.

[odannygirl7]

a wild thing to me is that they wanted the emotional 'but we're family' death scene but didn't want to bother doing even a few minutes of backstory, like we don't even know how they met or anything, no time or budget to slap a lil montage of their past together I guess

#ofmd #ofmd s2 #ofmd s2 spoilers #an appalling lack of emotional resonance tbh #I was fine with leaving it as 'we know each other as much as anyone can' or whatever until the mentor/father figure/we're family bs #and people being like 'actually there was an entire episode dedicated to how Izzy taught Ed everything he knows' like no?? #there were two sentences said by Stede with zero confirmation that it was true or if Ed had ever even said something like that to him #couldn't have done a tiny flashback there? literally anything to build actual history for them? if it was such an important finale moment?

[kendollroyco]

the fact that kendall seemed to be the only one actually trying to make connor feel better before mattson called him.....roman was doing his thing cracking mean-spirited jokes because he can't just be sincere, which made connor feel worse and shiv was either silent or dismissive??? yeah im fine im okay im fine

#maybe im stoned and misreading but i feel like kendall was definitely like.....leading the charge #even though they are all doomed i really do believe that kendall is the most emotionally intelligent #i feel like he is the most sensitive of all of them #yes he lacks self awareness and the bar is on the floor but #im not sure why this is but perhaps it's because when connor wasnt around he was the protector/'father' figure to his siblings #so he is used to doing that? #kendall roy #connor roy #roman roy #shiv roy #sucession spoilers #succession