#respecting my boundaries and everything

[g-ghostic-basil]

The void urge to give in to my impulses and go full autumn boy theme, despite me also liking my current theme, color choice, and lacking the energy and motivate to edit new headers/dividers/etc </3

#The Void Speaks #listen i may be a lesbian but ffs if i dont want to be in a qpr with this man #hes so SWEET he fr would be the only guy in my life who would ever treat me right #and he would be perfectly content with being platonic too #respecting my boundaries and everything #augh please can i just give him a hug??? and cute littel forehead kisses???? please???? #im normal about him i swear #please let me hug the leaf boy and give him all thr maple leaves in the world :( #i would do anything and everything for him and i know he would do the same for me :((( #he has literally done sm for me #yeah a bunch of pixel has done more for me than any real man ever has or ever will #hes my daily source of serotonin and i would give every last thing to just give him a hug at the very least #even his [eng] VA looks very huggable please :((( #i wanna meet Mark Whitten so bad too oml #his work is astonishing and he gives me the kind of safe fatherly vibes im desperately missing in my life #note to self: dont let sappy 3 am Basil make tumblr posts #i would pay good money to get Mark to record a daily motivation alarm thingy in Kazuha's voice fr fr #i just hope he comes to a con near me one day because then i could die a happy voidling

[wearecrowley]

#good omens #aziraphale #muriel #goodomensedit #tvgifs #tvedit #my gifs #gifs #can I meta on my own post? #obviously I love how precious they are both being #muriel is the sweetest thing #and aziraphale respects her boundary about the tea which kudos for that #but his face isn't just sympathy #it's empathy #he must remember what he was like before crowley temped him #he also bought into heaven's propaganda that human stuff is wrong or gross or not fit for angelic consumption #but crowley showed him it is good and wonderful in its own way #and I think he is reliving everything muriel is missing out on in that moment

[magnus-rhymes-with-swagness]

so in love with the way ballister goes from instinctively trying to draw his sword when he initially finds out nimona is a shapeshifter (institute brainwashing taking over) to exasperatedly asking her to be a girl instead of a shark (begrudgingly accepting that she's his sidekick now but not accepting Her yet) to questioning why she’s a shapeshifter (trying to figure her out) to respectfully asking what shapeshifting feels like while making sure not to cross boundaries (fully accepting her as a person and making a genuine effort to understand her better)

#nimona #ballister blackheart #ballister boldheart #nimona movie #nimona netflix #nimona 2023 #nd stevenson #nimona spoilers #i’ve been thinking about his character development a lot recently #and about how he and nimona both learn to accept and accommodate one another #he doesn’t get her at first but over time he actively tries to. which says so much about him #the scene where he asks her what shapeshifting feels like and then corrects himself with ‘sorry - small minded question’ AAA #but by that point nimona *does* trust him enough to tell him (probably in part because he’s actively respecting her boundaries) AAAAAA #that scene is Everything to me. for lots of different reasons #my words

[spindle-and-nima]

He's really mad at me because I kissed his head too many times but idk don't have such a kissable head, idiot

#this is a joke i respect my baby boys boundaries even if he has the cutest lil kissable head #ough #bunblr #bunnies of tumblr #spindle #he is mad at me for kissing him tho #gave me the bunny butt and everything

[whack-patty]

Reporter asked if they were an ****item*****

#TOOK AN HOUR BREAK OFF HW BC THE ANIMATION ITCH WAS STRONG AND THIS CRACKSHIP IS SO FUNNY TO ME #EVERYONES TAGS ABT THESE GUYS HAVE BEEN MAKING ME LOSE IT #SLAY SHIPPING #????? #C R Y IN G #I STILL DUNNO HOW TUMBLR ETTIQUITE QORKS SO IDK HOW TO RESPOND TO EVERYO E BUT I HOPE Y ALL KNOW #I SEE EVERYTHING AND I THINK YOURE FUNNY AS FRICK #ANYWAY ENJOY THIS #ok ok genuine thoughts abt them tho #clay is still recovering but i think. as he gets better over time his old sense of humor returns #and he can be a little more lighthearted in the same way i #an ace person #can flirt stupidly with my other ace friends #bc i know They know its a joke and we all respect each others boundaries in the process and know it Wont get taken too far #but the joke still is there #u feel #does that make any sense #anyway clay is one of the 2 ppl in the world who have ever seen simon crack a joke #and nobody will ever believe clay ever #the other person is a sweet lady named cass #not even ethan has seen it and she cant tell is clay is lying or not when he INSISTS simon has some of the best comedic timing ever #THEM. GRIPS THEN #I GOT SO ATTACHED TO THIS THROWAWAY CROSSOVER GOSH D A N G IT #earth day/sing #clay calloway #simon hardy #my animations lol #my art lol #animation #please read An Item like tulip from storks btw

[thebirdandhersong]

but you know! bullet dodged! it's almost enough to put a girl off romance for the rest of the year but heck if I care enough at this point! I've literally run out of emotional energy. the past five months have been such a rollercoaster that I just don't have the energy to keep being upset :-)

#i simply.............haven't got the energy to ask him (again) to respect my boundaries/respect me #it's like. why do i even HAVE to ask for this in the first place!!! #i also do not have any tears left to cry which is saying something considering how much i cry over everything. i'm all cried out #right now i have my girls i have my books i have the daylight coming back more and more every day #i shall be okay! i know this won't be The End as i feared it might (i was real pessimistic) #it will only be The End if i let it. i shan't let this cheat me of my dancing my singing my writing or my general joie de vivre! #i fought HARD for that joie de vivre and i ain't giving it up!!!!!

[procrastinatingsoicanreadfanfics]

i love being an oldest sister and sibling!! i love it so much! i especially love how every conflict somehow always ends up being my fault!! god forbid i stand up for myself!!! i love it!

#vent #can u tell lol? #gosh my family #i can literally hear my sister and mother laughing next door #great that they're having such a fun time now that i fixed everything #and then got yelled at for #as an adult!! #please respect my boundaries and treat me with respect challenge #well #im going to bed #nightie night #eldest daughter

[skitskatdacat63]

I hate booktok, is it not literally the exact same as when we(as in people like me lmao) read 'x reader' stories on wattpad back in the day?????

#god just like watching a normal vid on tiktok #and the comments are 'booktok is gonna love this 🥰🥰' #like i dont get it #i thought it was like people who read books #but then i learned its a specific type of book #and im like ....this reminds me of my childhood hm. #just all the over domineering love interests and constant smut hahaha #but its so odd to me. bcs its like literally any vid #some fashion guy i followed posted a vid of him showing off an all black fit #and all thw top comments are abt booktok #istg its atp just a way to say that the vid made you hor- sry thats rude of me djfkvklv #and like commenting it on vids of real people. like that whole hockey controversy thing w booktok #this is why im glad to be into this specific genre of rpf that im in #bcs (*most*) people understand boundaries and are respectful and everything #and booktok people feel like people who never evolved from their wattpaf days #and instead of switching to ao3 or smth they stopped reading fic and then turned into this #catie.rambling.txt

[babydarkstar]

getting assaulted/raped by a stranger really makes you carry a mental crowbar around for the rest of your life huh. i cannot allow men to approach me from behind or stand behind me in any capacity or my brain starts rapidfire going through every terrible hypothetical. what if they grab my hair—what if they pin me to the floor—what if they knock me out—try to throw me over a shoulder and make a run for it? i do not trust men i never will again

#tw rape #tw assault #sowwy i just keep thinking abt this #especially because my fucking father is the worst culprit of it #STOP STANDING BEHIND ME IT’S MAKING ME FEEL INSANE AND UNSAFE #and literally i cant tell him abt it either bc he would a) get offended bc he takes everything personally #and b) im not telling my parents abt getting assaulted bc theyd blame me for it :) #and c) he would probably not even remember to respect that boundary #i feel like a wild animal. Do Not Approach From Behind #my therapist wanted to do some light/eye movement reconditioning abt it #but i stopped seeing her bc i was scawed to relive it oof #and also the looming possibility of having a family therapy session w Consequences after sndnjsdjnd

[hecksupremechips]

Honestly though I think it’s really a bad sign when I look at Shin Tsukimi and literally feel like he’s a self insert 😩

#the klock keeps ticking #yttd #i wanna replay yttd so bad but i also like Gotta play other stuff with the time i have akskks #but yeah the brainrot this specific character has given me idk if I ever really talked about it but it was BAD #i like obsessively played the game in like 3 days and it was not a good idea lol but just like shin #i had to take like a week to recover from this guy cuz i couldnt stop thinking about him and how hes just like me fr #first off just the very inconsistent personality hes got going on that is very me he has these different personalities he wears to cope with #all the traumatic shit happening hes both so helpless its comical and so manipulative its terrifying #and idk its really interesting how like good and bad he is at being manipulative like hes very smart and can analyze weaknesses and lie so #good not even he knows the truth but hes also grasping at straws he doesnt think things through at all #like the second main game he just didnt prepare at all hes fumbling his way through everything its going so bad #he just wants to go home he wants to outdo the game makers but hes being used by them so bad he wants it to STOP #and its just the way that like. it hits so hard cuz you know hes really not a bad person not at all he doesnt want any of this hes just #being horribly manipulated and doing whatever he can to survive but its also really scary how #well hes able to lie and manipulate and claw his way through but hes also weaker than a grade schooler #and you never forget that either and as much as he cheated his way through he still failed it was all just a cheap trick in the end #and all of this hits very hard like his personality is eerily similar to mine and just the way he thinks and acts #cuz im the same like im weak and a dweeb who likes funny cats but im also emotionally detached and observant and selfish #but where it hits the hardest is his relationship with midori like oooof that one was too real just like #the first person who was ever his friend was horribly abusive and treated him like a child and didnt respect any boundaries #and he just got sick pleasure out of seeing shin be upset and he was like. a groomer #and shin was fucking relieved when he died but also kept his scarf and adopted his personality to survive #and still goes by sou after ch2 and the scene that gets me the most is when shin ai is asked about his relationship with midori #and you can just SEE how horrified shin is because his deepest shame his abuse is being shared to everyone without his consent #and hes reliving it all in that moment and literally seeing who he used to be experiencing the abuse #he just curls into himself and like covers his ears and pulls his hair thats literally what i do AAAAAA #im just so grateful for the direction they took this character kokichi ouma wishes he was shin tsukimi so bad #and yeah just like damn. its scary how similar i am to shin like damn i really am going through it huh oof #I LOVE HIM I LOVE HIM I WILL DEFEND HIM WITH MY LIFE HE DID ALL OF THAT STUFF YOUR HONOR BUT LISTENNNN #have you considered that hes cute and smart and weird and maybe just needs friends who arent assholes

[garoujo]

hi! off topic + i normally wouldn’t post about stuff like this but if i have you blocked for whatever reason, specifically if you’re an ex mutual, please respect my boundaries instead of choosing to talk shit about me in other peoples dm’s + comments sections because i blocked you. it really just shows a lot about you as a person considering i blocked you for MY comfort + all you’ve done with that decision is drag my character when i’ve never even mentioned you on my blog.

#ʚ・◞📎 — em entry. #cw discourse #also to that anon in my asks who sent me tht link i won’t be posting it because i have 2/3 of those blogs blocked :) #i’m sure ur story is not what actually happened #like i have screenshots of EVERYTHING #of u breaching my boundaries despite the fact u preach about people respecting ur own #you being hurt by my decision is not my problem

[ballisterboldheart]

couldn't stand the thought of missing out on the rest of our life together.

#why r u mad bc jarmen clowns keep winning ? #cobrakaiedit #cobra kai #carmen diaz #johnny lawrence #s.gif #changed my mind jarmen isnt underdeveloped you're all just haters #because okay listen <- things said before writing a wall of text #johnny's arc w carmen is ALL abt him taking responsibility. he's a man who has run away from literally Everything in the past 30 years. #he's run away from ck/his past w kreese he's run away from his son he's literally on the outskirts of society. #he doesn't. he doesn't CARE enough abt anything to stick w it when it gets hard. #and everyone lets him. no one makes him accountable. #but. for the first time. w miguel. he doesn't want to run away from something. #and i think its so important the carmen and johnny's first Real interaction is when johnny is carrying miguel #home after he got his ass beat. #he's taking that responsibility/that punishment for having failed. #and yeah. he spirals afterwards. self flagellates. and then drags his ass back and promises to be Better. #and he is! he does NOT give up he does not run away ever again #hs fight happens carmen says she never wants to see him again but johnny doesnt take that as a sign to Go Away #instead he helps out however he can while still respecting that boundary #and just ughhhhhhhh that fucking. ''i'll do whatever it takes / i know you would'' exchanges is like. the best way to sum it up #it takes a While for johnny to earn that trust. but he does. #anyways. normal. #long post

[bpdfishprince]

Matpats found welcome home

#welcome home #welcome home arg #partycoffin #gtlive #game theory #matpat #watching it now to see what’s what #fingers crossed this doesn’t end badly #poor Clown #ok just to be clear I don’t hate matpat or wish any ill will towards him and his team #I’m just worried about the influx of fans and about clown ya know? #hopefully everything will be ok and any new fans will respect clowns boundaries #that’s my main concern ngl #that and the fandom becoming a repeat of what happened to HH/HB fandom due to lack of canon content #if u know u know #that’s not a dig at clown like ‘we need more content’ please don’t read it like that #clown please take ur time and don’t let the internet push u around <3 #long story short: be prepared for a possible shitstorm

[b-0-ngripper]

I may have a stalker

#nigga got my snap from the add from your contacts feature #after blocking hin on everything because the bitch nigga flaked on a date THREE TIMES #i forced him to pay me money andthen swiftly blpcked him #now he just sent 4.20$ with a dumbass message saying that it has been a while #he refuses to respect boundaries too #i kept telling him that i wasnt a sub and he kept talking in the shitty daddy/kitten kink dialect #im tempted to tell him that i have shooters so he gets off my ass

[twentythousandvolts]

oh yeah it turns out that an ex of mine has been being fucking weird about me on here again -_- not sure what the point in posting this is i just wanted to complain. about that.

#ohh i'm ''[their] shitty ex''?? dude our last communication was me being Scared out of my fucking mind and Apologizing for Being Scared #like. scared Of Them. and their response was 'i cant remember the last time i was this mad at someone'. #like i realize now they were a fucking loser and just liked the Aesthetic Idea of me while ignoring everything Real about me but still. GOD #<- not venting just giving. Some context if You guys have seen them posting about me????? #genuinely dont care if u r mutuals with both of us idc i have their url blocked im chilling these days. but like. Man it has been 3yr and #youre still telling people im Horrible for Getting Scared Of You? give it a fucking breakkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk #delete later #EDIT. they didnt do anything That Bad the 'scared' is a result of Psychosis. they werent abusive or anything just didnt respect boundaries

[wizardlyghost]

look i'm no nerd supremacist, i'm aware that being a fuckin nerd doesn't make me better than everyone else and in many ways makes me worse. but also hearing someone say that nobody would ever want to read or could ever enjoy the silmarillion does make me despair a little bit.

#sometimes i'm reminded that my petri dish corner of the internet has exposed me to more completely alien worldviews than is normal #like. there's a degree of acknowledgement of the uncategorisable vastness of the human experience that breaks your ability to say #'my view of the world is The view of the world and everything outside of it is an outlier not worth mentioning' y'know? #and i am 1000% in favour of setting boundaries and respecting when people say they will go this far but won't go further #but it does make me sad to see people act like the walls they put up bound the universe and nothing lies beyond them bc they are Right