#stop being embarrassed of yourself

[finalboybyers]

people who think that a romance with a black girl in the 1950s isn’t a good rep or doesn’t fit st / ruins henry’s character…yall are actually insane and not in a good way ^^

#st fandom stop being toxic and embarrass yourself challenge (impossible) #hentty #henry creel/vecna #patty newby #stranger things #st the first shadow #byler #jopper

[mysteriousmoss]

Can people PLEASE respect when a AroAce person says no to them and not beg for a relationship? Including when you barely know the person?!?

In almost two months more the past week I’ve been saying no to these guys who are trying to go out with me when I A) Don’t fucking knwo them and B)am AroAce.

Oh a girl was begging me to give one of the guys a chance and no fucking way. I don’t Liek relationships and don’t know the guy either.

Also main focus is school grades and no relationships.

I am SO done with these people. Kinda ruining my film class experience so far :/

#aroace #moss rants #like I’ve told these fuckers 50 million times #AND THEY STILL WOMT STOP #DONT GET ME STARTED ON THEM BEING LIKE #ILL MAKE YOU LIKE ME #LIKE DUDE #NO HOW MANY TIMES MUST I SAY STOP AND YOURE EMBARRASSING YOURSELF #ADD ON THEY ARE LIKE NOT UNDERSTANDING WHAT AROACE MEANS #JUST #EHHSHEG HE H #if you can’t tell I’m at my breaking point

[criscura]

I wish I wasn't so exhausted and I could make more art.... I even planned out a whole prompt-a-day month for Saigenos/Genosai, TWICE, but the first time no one seemed like they could participate when I asked about it, and the second time I friggin lost the damned plan. I could remake it a third time, but I just....I don't know.

I've been really struggling to get along for a while, and I think if it didn't hit it off--or even if I just got really productive and it seemed like I was reaching crickets--I'd be so incredibly discouraged that it would bring me down even further. It usually takes my stuff a few months to a year to get reach, and that really doesn't do anything for me when I need the support immediately.

It's not that I don't have a billion ideas for so many different things, but my battery has been taking longer and longer to charge up and it's been running out faster and faster, and it's been like this for....a year?? Ish?? Maybe longer, I don't know.

I wish I could just stop needing so much fucking time to bounce back.....

#written from my bed as I'm almost crying from exhaustion and hopelessness #I'm PMSing and I had a really tiring day so i know this feels worse than normal #but when you've been struggling to fall asleep for months because waking up means being disappointed in yourself #for everything you failed to do the day before and everything you know you're going to fail to do again today #it's really hard not to feel like shit about yourself #trying to be constantly hopeful but never living up to your expectations #and then the few times that you do you completely crash for days #and then the only way to not crash is to have your big accomplishment be 'i went to the gym' 'i took a shower' 'i answered a message' #and just. again #to have the be the way you're living for months and months and months #it's so embarrassing to admit how little i can do and it makes me so ashamed knowing how much I've done and see what everyone else around me #is constantly doing #and then when i do share things it just kind of dies off because I've been too exhausted to maintain most relationships #which ALSO makes me feel like absolute fucking shit because i think people think i just don't care about them #when it's really that it takes me hours to get out of bed and I'm lucky if i remember to eat before 4 #and I hate so much of myself and see it as such a huge waste of time that it uses up almost all the energy i have to take care of myself #but if i don't do it I'll just hate myself even more #i know i keep on complaining about this but I'm. I'm trying to fix it #i have BEEN trying to fix it actively for so fucking long #but it's.....i think I've stopped believing anything i do has significant worth and it makes it hard to keep trying #and i know people will read this and say take something for it but when you're only interactions with medications and drugs #are one experience that scarred you so bad you didn't go to the doctors for ten years and one experience so bad #that you couldn't even explain it at first without HARDCORE disassociating #it's hard to convince yourself that anything will ever be any better and that it won't make everything intensely worse for years

[seonghwasblr-moved]

Saw a video of someone who met Wooyoung in Paris and got him to sign their album... why would you just "randomly" walk around with an ateez album, despite how big Paris is? Also he's literally on vacation. Let him be on vacation and get the break he deserves without being followed by fans, damn

#maja talks #is it really just a coincidence to walk around with an ateez album and somehow running into him when you know he's in your city? #like if you run into them just say hi and then leave them alone or smth #as someone who randomly ran into yunho and wooyoung in copenhagen I don't get how you aren't embarrassed to bother them during their freetim #i was in the same store as them and freaked out and attempted to be as far away from them in the store as possible lmao #and then when we got outside we waited for them to leave so we could go without them getting the wrong idea #and we went in the opposite direction than them #like leave them alone when they have freetime!! #I was freaking out so if I can leave them alone while freaking out so can you without freaking out #they were probably freaking out inside #but the point stands #leave them alone and stop being weirdos following them around with their album to get an autograph #wooyoung really looked annoyed in the video too so idk how you can feel okay with yourself

[news4dzhozhar]

#dj khaled #dj coward #dj callous #stop embarrassing yourself #boycott dj khaled #no more excuses #ethics over money #apartheid #save palestine #ethnic cleansing #israel is an apartheid state #seek truth #free palestine 🇵🇸 #genocide #illegal occupation #israel is committing genocide #israeli war crimes #not another one #universal music group #spread awareness #jordans #even if you think hes silent because of his label that doesnt give him free reign to demand being carried like a spoiled fat fool #fuck dj khaled #profit over people #profit over Palestine #shame on you #your music sucks anyway #cancel khaled #use your influence for good #out of touch

[ereborne]

Song of the Day: March 15

“Over Yet" by Hayley Williams

#song of the day #very exciting to have one of my brothers tell me entirely unprompted that he's enjoying the current playlist #a very big win #I spent most of my work day today doing what I've been thinking of as 'evil rubber-ducking' #where the IT guys throw me the especially Difficult faculty members--the ones who can't be helped because they won't listen-- #and I trick them into actually talking me through what they're doing so we can find the problem and fix it #(eternally amazed by people who request help and then refuse it. you called me bud. you submitted a service request ticket on purpose. #oh you can't do your job without connecting to the vpn? that's great we can't fix it until you tell us what's fucking stopping you) #mostly this 'tricking' takes the form of me being a sweet young butter-wouldn't-melt Southern girl in over my head with mean IT guys #bless them (derogatory) these folks who won't let IT even attempt to start working through the 'have you tried' scripts #because they know they're getting something wrong but are too angry-embarrassed to admit they don't know what #are still delighted to mansplain the idea of a remote connection to me #--that's not fair. I shouldn't mischaracterize them it's mostly not mansplaining. #the two today were yankee-splaining me. city-splaining maybe. #what would a hick like me (y'all is one person. all y'all or some'a y'all for multiple people) possibly know about enterprise networks-- #anyway they were using the wrong login credentials and were so sure of themselves they'd never even tried the other set just to see #bless. their. hearts. #(IT owes me so many little favors like this now. the latest database tweak I asked for got done live while I described it to them) #anyway anyway! love the chorus on this song #'to get out of your head yes break a sweat / baby tell yourself it ain't over yet' #makes me move my head every time

[littlegildedswallow]

you losers will see a thin woman existing and rush to let her know how sick and disgusting and starved she looks. I'm becoming so disillusioned with the body positivity movement.

can't even talk about how nutrition and being careful about what you put in your body are important without some performative insecure idiot having a meltdown about diet culture.

everyone's willing to make video essays and write theses on counting calories being "inherently unhealthy", "almond moms" and people who very obviously have an unhealthy, deficient diet. these same people will then turn around and pretend that stuffing your face with empty calories with no nutritional value, greasy, fried shit and ungodly amounts of sugar five times a day everyday is "self care" and "knowing what's right for my body and giving it what it needs 🥺🥰💖".

#fucking hell #realizing the groups of people i despise all do the thing where they talk around in circles rationalizing things that go against basic #common sense #haes people #tras #libfems #so fucking gross #saw someone who claimed to be a radfem rant about how being fat is a feminist action because of diet culture beauty standards yada yada #like girl wtf are you talking about stop embarrassing us #bring back teaching kids about nutrition and the importance of balanced meals and protein and fiber and indulgent junk too but in moderation #saw someone talk about how dieting is toxic because you have to starve yourself to lose weight #like no dumbfuck you just have to be in a calorie deficit #I'm recovering rn but that doesn't mean i want to swing in the opposite direction and gain 100 kilos #been eating balanced meals with lots of sexy spicy chicken and fruits and veggies and muffins #i feel so good #I'm losing body fat but gaining muscle #and i want to keep doing that until i hit around 43 kgs because that's my good zone #the fact that we can't even talk about this stuff without some big-backed defensive haes person yelling about beauty culture is insane #what's funny about these people is their complete lack of integrity #how are you gonna claim you're subverting beauty standards by being fat then wear three different types of shapewear and contour your face #and chin and do everything in your power to give the illusion of having an hourglass figure ? #mine

[kittyhazelnut]

You have to kidding when you say lokius or whatever is the superior Loki ship? Just because you ship it that doesn't make it superior. On top of that Mobius is the ugliest person to ever ship loki with

man, fuck off. someone asked me my opinion on Loki ships and I responded with my opinion on Loki ships. this is that whole "everyone on tumblr is chronically online and thinks every post must be About Them Specifically" bullshit I was talking about earlier. a girl can't even call her fav ship superior in her own post about her own ships without some asshole getting mad that I didn't account for Every Single Marvel Fan's Opinion Ever. make your own post about your own favorite Loki ship if you're this bitter idfc just go away

#also imagine thinking 'he's ugly' is a good defense about why you don't like a ship? #especially when that ugly person is Owen Wilson as Mobius M Mobius‚ the most precious bean of all precious beans??? #when i look at Mobius I don't even see Mobius okay when I look at Mobius i see a being who descended from the heavens #Jesus Himself wept the first time He saw Mr. Mobius M. Mobius because He knew He would never live up to this man #I don't see how you can be upset with *me* for seeing Mobius for the beautiful wholesome fantastic man he is #is it my fault that you're too blind to see the complete and utter adoration Mobius has for this man‚ this god‚ this BEING he's been #searching for for years? is it my fault that you don't understand how deeply and hopelessly in love Mobius fell before hed even met a Loki? #your ignorance to the greatest love story of all time reflects only on yourself‚ anon‚ not on me #fr tho jokes aside i dont give a fuck what you ship and what you don't ship just keep that shit to yourself and your anti community #like why do you hate happiness anon? #when taylor swift said 'i want to be defined by the things that i love‚ not the things i hate‚ not the things that im afraid of‚ the things #that haunt me in the middle of the night‚' she was handing you a guide on how to be less of a miserable fuck and you just threw it out the #window #I'm not even mad man i just feel bad that your life is so miserable you gotta send mean anons about pointless shit #(also the fact that i wrote a whole paragraph praising thorki and you had an issue with my one sentence about lokius is embarrassing 💀) #look i have an ask #i need to stop posting at night because this was a lot of tags for an ask that I'll forget about in 20 minutes lmao

[8-evil-annoying-catboys]

trans girl irl friend called me cute event 193849374 revived 19373933748384748293 healed

#tumblr original post button is literally my diary <3 #t4t #i have the BIGGEST crush on her rn like i feel pathetic for it low-key bc she’s not interested in men and today i was like how do i bring up #that im bigender. ‘Being Genderfluid And Mostly Bigender—‘ like girl stop you’re embarrassing yourself

[somewhatvellum]

istg if i see one more 21 year old refer to themself as "old" in a mixed-age space imma implode or sth

#im 29 and dont consider myself old in mixed-age spaces #ffs #people seem to think being a “fandom old” ir w/e gives them some kinda clout? idk #literally stop youre embarrassing yourself (also feeding into all the stuff about how your life is over by your mid twenties) #literally shush #op

[deathchic]

ooooh my god insomniac peter has fucking invaded my mind after spiderman 2 im sorry im losing it. hes so well written. hes so good guys hes very easily my favourite peter parker. insomniac fucking nailed the way he’s driven almost equally by pure will to do good and being a fundamentally extremely guilt ridden person. the way he’s one of the goofiest spideys (that are big right now) but it’s so obvious in his character and actions that there’s this subtle and ever present grief that shapes every part of him. THATS a good fucking spiderman. and they just completely hit the nail on the head. he’s so. he’s sooooo. i’m going to explode. he’s the lamest man alive and im deeply in love with him. my video game guy

#ruby rambles #he’s chronically silly. he’s consistently high strung. he has tits. he is so so deeply corny like SO corny #he’s fundamentally underlined by staggered but constant massive loss #he’s the definition of cringefail bisexual #he’s in arguably incredible cool. he kicks major ass. it’s almost embarrassing to have the absolute ever loving fuck beaten out of you by #an individual this cheesy #hes filled with genuine passion for life and all the good things in it. he’s so incredibly earnest #i can’t stop thinking about him #hyperfixation going HARD on this guy #i was about to apologise for being so not normal about Guy From Spiderman Video Game but i will not actually #a) you’re fucking here aren’t you you know what to expect. glass houses #b) like 2 people max are going to bother reading this #c) if you’re one of them who made it this far you only have yourself to blame at this point

[kiitxoxo]

ok i'm lost. why do people get angry about their spotify wrapped. it is literally just what you listened to the most right? like its basically a report card and you got a really good grade in taylor swift or podcasts or something.

#i'm just confused #i understand being embarrassed like #getting hit with how many hours you spent on a thing is always staggering but it brought you joy so like? #stop being so hard on yourself maybe those 420 hours in stardew valley saved your life

[pepprs]

ok hi. not to be stupid about this publicly once again but it’s 5:34 am [update it is now 5:53 am] and i have gotten absolutely HORRIBLE sleep tonight. first bc i was so stressed that i couldn’t fall asleep until 1:30am. then because my sister is sleeping in our room again (long story) which is good for her bc she’s making progress w her ocd but it means that she comes in with h the flashlight on after 2am and has to check the room and she leaves the bedroom door wide open which distorts the white noise from the sojnd machine which is right in front of my bed. and she’s like laughing at stuff on her phone too so all the subtleties of sound and light disrupt me and wake me up and throw me off. and also it’s freakishly hot so i woke up a couple times bc of that. and now im awake at 5:30ish after barely sleeping for 4 hours bc im stressed bc it’s Passover and my moms bday and im leaving work early today and tomorrow for the “””””Seder””””” (which again literally is not a seder it’s just dinner w my grandpa) and barely have time to get anything done at work and haven’t done anything for my mom and have to clean the house for my grandpa to come over and we literally don’t even have a dinner table yet likr idkw aht the fuck we’re going to do.. and also im fucking STARVING. because guess what!!!! we have to stop eating bread!!!! and i usually have 4 slices with avocado / guac on them before i go to sleep but there were only 4 slices left in the whole house so i had 2 so my brother will get to have the other 2 during the day. and my stomach is howling rn. and we have other things to eat like fruit and stuff but nothing that’s not going to throw me off.. like im not about to eat an orange at 5:30am it’s going to set my throat on fire with the acid this early in the morning. and we don’t have any snack foods in this house or like anything that can be made without having to prepare it for a while bc of our diet (lol). and we don’t have any flatbread or tortillas or whatever yet. so im going fucking crazy and feeling resentful abt passover again and wondering what the hell im going to do going into work and not being able to eat bagels for breakfast after not being able to eat my bedtime snack and being this hungry and stressed and miserable for a week on top of everything else. lol

#purrs #food #religion tw #(sorry lol) #delete later #ive had a lot of conversations in the last few days (some of them w other jewe) and everyone’s assuring me it’s fine if i keep eating bread #if it’s for health reasons and im not going to experience kareth for that. esp bc i already do things on the kareth list and also gay sex is #on there too and there’s a lot of stuff on there abt ppl being impure for having their periods too so.. just my two sent’s but i think thats #all ​fucking insane and a clear sign that those rules were not made by god and that they were made by prejudiced human beings. bc i believe #in spinozas god i think. and spinozas god would not punish humans for being humans. and would not want humans to suffer and suppress #themselves out of worship. though im not saying that you shouldn’t suffer or suppress yourself or whatever or find meaning in that if you #want to like im thinking abt Yom Kippur and stuff. but idk. im so conflicted. i stirred up this whole big crisis for myself about being #jewish and it’s very embarrassing and i don’t want to die or doom my future children or go to hell or whatever but apparently that’s already #gonna happen to me for like.. not observing shabbat and almost certainly cutting fruit during Shabbat so. whatever. but continuing to eat #bread during Passover feels like a totally different thing to me. but also i know actual jewish ppl who do not observe passover and i don’t #judge them for that or think they’re doomed to kareth. so idk. it’s all so fucked up. i want to be full and i want to go back to sleep and i #want to stop worrying about religion and constantly being afraid im invoking cosmic consequences for living my life and wanting to make #choices that feel good for me. bc it s already so fucking hard to make choices when im worried abt my moms judgment and trying to not hurt #my family ang more than i already do by existing and feeling my way. bringing god into it too is a whole other level of distress and misery

[crossbackpoke-check]

"This extra space next to me belongs to you. I know where I end now. I won't get lost." -- shoot me (metaphorically) and leave me for dead (metaphorically) why won't you. To make this about Dylan and maybe it's about Connor, maybe it's about Brinksy, maybe it's about any journeyman in the NHL. My brain screamed Chris Driedger and his memorable (to me) Players' Tribune article:

And how can you mention Dylan and Zach (Za-ach, the way Dylan says it) without me having a breakdown about them? You simply can't. And for the younger dudes, maybe it's a little Bords/Briss, not yet steady in The Show, a little bit of distance, a summer that tries to erase and make up all the memories they've made separately... and then a blurry insta story in Vegas. Just like old times but somewhere else. Maybe it's not the same bed, maybe it's not the same set of forks, but maybe it's the principle of the thing.

Anyway, goodbye. Sorry for this, your tag walls make me break out in imagined scenarios.

Much love. xxx

please never be sorry for sending me messages <3 i love reading them i love getting them i think they’re beautiful and i love them i’m!!!!! [🥹💕🦋🫧✨💘😭 <- the best approximation of what my heart is doing]

ok NOW i am taking this step by step because every narrative here kicked me straight in the knees (metaphorically) i am w e e p i n g (literally): i knew tangentially about chris driedger going to seattle but i had never read his players’ tribune love letter to seattle & all i can say is oh. oh. and with the part about trains delayed but still being right on time—

sometimes a dream is a truth your heart knows long before you do. the space that the city and the team made for him (“you’d be the only guy on the team”)🗣️🗣️🗣️ !!! but the way that chris talks about needing to put in the work & leo not letting him quit,,, that’s chris filling up the teakettle with twice as much water, crowding one side of the bed (falling asleep against a bus window dreaming), becoming unburdened by the idea of not being their guy, not having the fallback being their draft pick to content and settle himself with. that’s chris betting on a future. that’s the train coming down the tracks, right on time.

(i am feeling unhinged about it)

SECOND. i know i was the one that said zach and dylan to start so technically i brought this on myself but also i have been ktfo by the mere mention of the way that dylan says zach’s name different from everyone else, stealing an extra breath, stealing as much time as he can get with him, which reminded me of a poem i just read:

The Need Is So Great, Jim Moore

^^^dylan still in love with zach even as he’s leaving, can feel himself losing him, and taking every sliver of the love in his smile that he can get. even if he knows zach doesn’t still feel the same way he’s drawing out the long goodbye & saying i love you in a thousand ways without ever saying it out loud (“i have been asking for a time but in ways that have no words” because he doesn’t want to ask too much, to ask for love) in the hope that zach will say it back OKAY I’M LEAVING i can’t do this

that was a lie because THREE. “maybe it’s the principle of the thing” please insert the most ungodly screech how could you just (lovingly) come in straight with the steel chair and bean me upside the head with that l i n e i think this story has the potential for such tragedy in it but also the most tender domestic longing because bords & briss have known each other for a long time (i think) and guys do sometimes lose themselves when they first get to the nhl.

it’s a big scene, you’re with big name guys, you’re finally doing the thing you always dreamed about, you’re no longer necessarily the best because everyone’s the best, you’re not sure how you fit in, you can get lost in the glitz and the glamor of it but you can also literally get lost in it, the slog of the season and getting caught up and down between teams and leagues and endless airports and buses and travel and ice rinks, losing your phone (accidental) and having new people hound you for quotes and fame and connection so you lose your phone (on purpose) and i think where i’m trying to go is: this could play out as the tragedy of borde going to the california coastline and briss shipping off to the vegas strip and both of them getting a little lost.

maybe there’s someone else, maybe i am steadfastly not thinking about “a summer that tries to erase and make up all the memories they've made separately” as either a summer of them pretending things are ok after a year of barely speaking and now being completely different people they never were before OR a summer of them trying to pretend like they can forget about each other because maybe they didn’t think their relationship was the same thing, is all, when they were or weren’t together. maybe it’s nobody’s fault but for the fact that they were scared and tired and lonely trying to make it in the big times and didn’t know how to show it. and then borde shows up with takeout and plastic forks in vegas and it’s december and nothing like winter in ann arbor and still they fill up all the empty spaces in each other with the things they didn’t know they’d miss until they were gone and this is the real thing, not whatever they were trying too hard to be, to recreate their own nostalgia for the love in their memories. it’s the principle of the thing, is all, to always be true to the love they have right now & not what they think it should be.

sorry that i wrote you kind of an essay of an answer but i had so so so many thoughts because your ask was so lovely so thank you for sending it to me (you are always welcome to!! i love your imagined scenarios!!! cannot even explain how much!!!) & thank you for taking the time to read my walls of tags :))) <3

#liv in the replies #every time you send me a message i do the thing where i’ve got heart emojis for thumbs & cease any coherency #FIRSTLY chris driedger who i loved as seattle’s goalie without even knowing the story: #dreidger fourth layer of a dream is making me tear up AGAIN hours later as i try to write this the echl the coast easy come hard to leave & #when he talks about being somebody’s guy laying my head down in the bog & dragging my hands over my face chris who let you say that. who let #u break my HEART i truly don’t think i will ever recover from the inception reference bc that’s what they all talk abt u know? the nhl dream #the players’ tribune articles are often some of the most poetic & touching sports writing & every time i am reminded i lose my shit about it #SECONDLY: #the ever present spectre of dylan’s first boyfriend zach werenski #i have so so so many quotes? drafts? posts? about the thing with saying someone’s name to call them closer to you i say your name to speak #more of you into the world so i will possibly look for some of those to say what i mean but also: this poem was originally reminiscent of #willingly by tess gallagher which is my ajax jack / superbuddies poem & this specifically did go with the a drop of paint / the light has #fallen through you part of it but there’s a part of THIS poem which i did not include that talks about the late light / has already happened #will go on happening forever & that whole poem with this now to say i know it’s embarrassing i’m asking for it :: easy to write about light #like falling asleep on the couch & having to carry yourself up to bed is the dylan/zach heartbreak of this. waiting & waiting for the things #you used to do & the love you used to / were promised to have with the hope that if you keep the coffee ready he’ll come drink it & instead #you have too many cups of tea one yours & one cold then half-warmed over & too sweet for your tastes but you’ve learned to drink it anyway #okAY now third: #this w/the UMICH BOYS? N O I DIDN’T EVEN!!! NOT A THOUGHT IN MY BRAIN!!! & now i can’t stop thinking!!! & i had an entire PLAYLIST already #a ??? while ago before i even truly knew the umich boys Narratives™️ i heard maude latour’s song ‘one more weekend’ & went hahaha isn’t that #a great song for when you have that One Summer of college before everyone splits off into their own lives? isn’t that a fun little umich boy #going into the nhl narrative?? to which i said NO but then it spiraled into a playlist &now there is delightful heartbreak to go with vibes #umich scholars please feel free to correct me if i’m wrong on any points i can’t remember anything presently about anything #also the f a c t that that vegas picture is real and i know exactly what you’re talking about is making me %^•*]+£’ bc how!! is that real!!! #okay ALSO just throwing in brinksy like a casual AHAHA have brainworm for a year (my autocorrect tried to go bringst like angst which. lmao) #connor and dylan… all of my journeymen… we did not touch that because i WILL start yelling about sam gagner and marc staal and #the chrysalis and the caterpillar

[spoonyruncible]

I’m following the Roe v Wade horror show like

I promise you, in this one very specific thing we are as a meaningless sidenote. No one who is anti-choice is going to go, “Oh fuck, a bunch of queers I already hate and don’t consider men can get pregnant too? We have to put a stop to this immediately and give them their well deserved male privilege.” The pro-choice camp is more mixed, sure, but they don’t matter either because we are entirely irrelevant to any part of the equation.

There is a time and a place for this discussion. There are absolutely times when transmasc voices need to dominate a conversation, where that perspective is valuable and helpful to the issue at hand. Now is not one of them. This is a legal issue where gender is irrelevant and the only thing that matters is whose body has the necessary ingredients to react with sperm in a certain way. It’s nice to hear ‘people at risk of pregnancy’ or ‘people who menstruate’ but it’s not the end of the world if some otherwise well meaning person just says ‘women’.

Basically, if I see one more fucking post that says, “Ak-chewally, it’s a men’s issue too. Ur cis villagers are showing,” underneath a thinkpiece or comment on the erosion of women’s rights I will scream and upset my dog. If I see one more person attacked for saying “This wouldn’t happen if men could get pregnant,” then my dog will scream and upset me.

So many folks out here are for real seeing mpreg jokes about this very serious shit and responding with an earnest, “Not all men!”

To be perfectly clear, I’m not talking about voicing your personal feelings on this or about how it will be bad in a specific way for trans men or how you wish you didn’t feel left out of the conversation. I mean, very particularly, the multitude of people who have decided that the single most important thing, the main dog they have in this fight, is that trans men can also sometimes experience pregnancy. It keeps reading like, “Stop calling this a women’s issue! Infertile women, trans women, and women past the age of menopause have nothing to do with this!”

#you're making us look bad #i'm legit embarrassed by how many people can't identify a joke in the wild #i'm absolutely fine with transmen reacting to the issue #god knows i sobbed my eyes out over this #but to jump into every goddamn discussion #it's not that deep bro #some things are just not about what flavor your uterus is #are trans uteri and uteri of color going to be disproportionately affected? #you bet your sweet bippy they are #but this shit right now is derailing and causing infighting #don't roll in like oh now the cis white lady is gonna cry cause her rights are being taken away #don't #this isn't a misery contest #it's also not really helping anyone at all #transmen not getting proper prenatal care is a serious fucking issue #or not being treated for ovarian cancer #or even just not having tampons/pads in the men's room #but stop throwing a fit over it being called a women's issue #how is it not more stressful to go on multiple rants about how you can get pregnant and it would make you so dysphoric you'd kill yourself? #that seems more stressful to me #like maybe calm down #have some tea #have some t #i did not mention non binary people #but i also haven't seen anyone bring up non binary people #this goes for them too #but they seem to be staying in their lane on this #roe v wade bullshit #don't reblog #i do not want this escaping to wider tumblr

[brandnewdress]

at least taylor/her team weren’t bragging about just how well midnights was going to do in its first week and they didn’t cause a global vinyl shortage by manufacturing 5x as many vinyls as they needed to

#maybe she’s always been like this and I didn’t notice but Adele has well and truly been pissing me off since last year #first November 19th then chatting shit about being a real artist who makes real albums #now this music video tomorrow? #WHAT IS SHE TRYING TO PROVE girl Taylor obliterated your week in 1 day stop embarrassing yourself 🫣