#this is what mommy issues does to you

[beanghostprincess]

I think constantly about Pudding and Sanji being obviously parallels of each other and how fucked up it is that Pudding had to live the life Sanji managed to escape but she constantly gets hate online as if she hadn't been literally manipulated by her mother through the whole fucking arc. But okay. Yes. God forbid women have any sort of trauma response and if they do they're not allowed to have a redemption arc because of course they're extremely evil for making your silly baby boy cry and they don't have a heart even though it's explicitly shown in screen that they do and they regret their past actions.

#sorry every time i see people hating on pudding i have to defend her with my whole soul #it's a physical need it's a condition if i don't do it i collapse #sick and tired of people babying male villains but the second a woman does something wrong she's a monster #ofc what she did was wrong and it honestly fucked me up too but give the girl a chance she obviously regrets that and she's not like that #i mean she IS like that she's a little bitch and i love her BUT you know what i mean #also even if she were evil like that ??? i've seen so many people complain about her as if they didn't love worse villains lmfao #pudding is the representation of a teenage girl with mommy issues and a lot of drama going on in her life leave her alone #one piece #charlotte pudding #black leg sanji #whole cake island

[mariatesstruther]

okay but sarah celebrating tommy every year for mother’s day

#who needs a mommy when you got a tommy #the first time shes does this its preschool teacher maria’s idea #shes four and mothers day is coming up and its usually a hard time for her so joel lets maria know just in case she has any behavioral issue #miss maria is like 🫡 i gotchu #she makes sure to emphasize to the kids that families are all different #they spend every day of may leading up to mother day reading books exploring diversity in families and talking about what mom really means #that it doesnt have to be the person who had you in their tummy or a girl or even a person we call mom #for example miss maria’s real mommy wasnt so nice growing up so miss marias TRUE mommy is just her daddy and her auntie rose #because those are the people that loved her no matter what and kept her safe and taken care of and fed #thats all mom is #it just means someone thats there for you every day and loves you and cares for you #someone who is one of your favorite people and who would say the same about you #all the kids go around and say who they think are their moms #mosy say some iteration of ‘mommy’ and ‘mama’ or ‘grammy’ #but then baby ellie says ‘tess and auntie marlene’ #and baby sarah says ‘uncle thommy’ #one of the other littles says ‘daddy and miss maria’ 😭 #and they all make heart cards for their mommy firgures #they cant write or really read anything but a few letters yet #(even though hyperlexic baby sarah does have pretty incredible letter recognition for her age) #so they tell miss maria what to write on their cards and then decorate with oil pastels #sarah’s says dear uncle tommy thank you for being my mommy you are so funny and i love when we play horsey and princesses. happy mommy day #when he picks her up at the end of the day shes like HI MOMMMMM all giggly and hes like ????? hi???? whats this???? OPEN IT OPEN IT OPEN IT #and when he does and read it he literally drops to his knees to hug her and cry #because theres really nothing more precious than his little angel his baby his best girl #thats tommys DAUGHTER DO YALL UNDERSTAND?????? #miss maria watching them from the cubbies like: godDAMN theyre so cute #the next day tommy brings her a oat milk chai from her favorite coffee shop as a thank you because it meant a lot to him and shes like ???? #how did u know???? and hes like my brother and you ran into each other there last week yeah? he told me abt it i asked for your order #and shes like 🥹🥰🫠 thanks

[milodangermurphyblog]

the!!! ones!!!

seeing Barbie tmr😵‍💫

#ppl have been saying don’t watch it if you have mommy issues?? BARBIE DOESNT HAVE A MOM WHAT DOES THIS MEAN #milo murphy's law #mml #milo murphy #vinnie dakota #balthazar cavendish #zack underwood #milo murphys law #disney #melissa chase #Amanda Lopez

[quietwingsinthesky]

i think river and amy try to do some sort of mother-daughter bonding exercise or trip or something exactly one time, and it goes horribly. it's the most uncomfortable thing they've both ever done, and that's saying a lot. they never try to do it again.

#river song #amy pond #doctor who #river has next level mommy issues. and amy has. amy is inventing something new honestly. #what do you even call it when your daughter is older than you and knows more about you and has never needed you in the entire time #that you've known her. hell you needed her more than she needed you. #but you both also know that there was a time she needed you desperately. and there's nothing either of you can do to fix that. #amy tried to shoot river in the face once to save the doctor. while she was pregnant with river. and river was a child being dragged around #in a spacesuit against her will. #and its just like. i think river remembers that. i think she does and i think she always will. her first real memory of her mother. #is amy trying to kill her while river is begging for someone to help. i think that stays with her forever. how could it not.

[wind-up-thancred]

mama's gonna help build the wall

#mother did it need to be so high? #i highly recommend giving your wol mommy issues it makes the hydaelyn shit sooooo much worse 😊😊😊 #finally fleeing from one pair of handcuffs after years of deliberation only to find you've ran right into another pair #and all the shit she warned you about the outside world was right. it does hurt like fuck. are you gonna go back? #what are you gonna do. hate her? for being right? the woman who birthed and raised you? #i love u inherent unfairness of mother-child relationships #gpose #ffxiv gpose #ffxiv au ra #funnylizardman

[worstloki]

While I do feel Thor should have insecurities about Frigga preferring the adopted son over himself it’s a given presumption that his involvement with Odin overshadows that largely enough for it to not be mentioned much. But it shouldn’t be unless Thor doesn’t respect his mother at all.

#This is why Thor has daddy issues while Loki has mommy issues #with minor well-balanced inclusions permitted of course <4 #like sure Loki wanted Odin’s approval in Thor 1 but the blame of that itself was partially on Frigga #she didn’t handle the conversation with Loki well and perpetuated the idea that he needs to *make* them proud through his actions #because proving your worth is exactly what should be on the mind #like yeah you’d better make your father happy with you :/ sweetie :\ #and then Thor who hardly interacts with Frigga too but his interactions are more. I feel Frigga constantly wants something #she speaks to Loki and is trying to get blame off herself and she speaks to Thor like he doesn’t know anything #so Thor should hurt about his parents too I think and it should be the inverse of how Loki sees Thor as a symbol for the favouritism/throne #Thor should look at his mother and wonder what made the adopted son worth more to her #not because he doesn’t consider Loki his brother but because why does she consider Loki her son #xx

[atopvisenyashill]

not an f&b aegon ii fan, not a hotd aegon ii fan, but a secret third thing (a fan of the aegon ii that only exists in my mind)

#extreme mommy issues his father figure is his grandfather & a dude who literally cannot stop committing hate crimes deeply upset that he #could have been his older sister’s male wife but his mom said no and now he has to be king #wants to be a good husband to helaena but resents how gentle she is and dependent on his protection wears his hair short bc he resents his #father’s obsession with valyria when westeros is here now and needs him to do more than just acclaim rhaenyra decades ago and aegon #his true love is his dragon and he was never going to live long after sunfyre. the son that actually DID come with fire and blood to save #his mother but it wasn’t enough never enough because he’s the oldest son but he’s also only second born and what is a second born son than #girlson who is functionally useless as anything more than a pawn to his family. #dying miserable and alone without even his mother’s love bc he came for her too late but he CAME FOR HER!!! HE SAVED HER. too bad. #she doesn’t care anymore bc everyone she really loved is dead. dying a pawn and yet the powerful man in westeros. #letting the narrative consume him alive after sunfyre is injured and finds him on dragonstone. he knows he’s doomed when he goes up against #baela. he does it because what else do you do. you’ve gone too far. killed too many. you killed your sister’s children and she killed yours #in return and now you can’t go back. no choice but mutually assured destruction with the only woman who ever saw how dangerous he was and #how desperate for loce he was. once upon a time. he was a baby bouncing in his sister’s lap on the throne. and she was beautiful and tall #and soft and smart and she told him he was beautiful and loved and pointed out every name and held him the way a mother does. #it has to end there. if the narrative eats me and sunfyre alive it has to eat her too. he won’t go down without her. #getting on my soap box #aegon the usurper

[crash-bump-bring-the-whump]

In the spirit of that reblog, could you tell me more about Luis? He's the primary whumper in lots of your writing and many of the war mages seem to sincerely loathe him, but then Mariano is shown to have a really trusting relationship with him and Luis clearly cares about the war mages at times. I haven't quite strung together the complexity of it all yet~

Ohhhh my god yeah this ask has activated my Cannot Shut The Fuck Up Disease so let's GO.

Luis is absolutely a complex whumper and hard to easily grasp. He has nothing but love and care in his heart for his mages. He's trained literally every single one since they were 18, and you can't not form a bond of some kind with someone in that time--and all of them know that he loves them. They know he would rather die before seriously, legitimately harming them on purpose without reason. They know he gets zero actual enjoyment out of hurting them.

Unfortunately, they're all special ops soldiers. People who, sometimes alone, are put in situations where they face capture and torture and unthinkable suffering. So Luis has to prepare them for these possibilities. He's seen what happens when you aren't prepared, back when he was one of the very first war mages on his own squad.

He's seen people give up and die, people he loved dearly. He's lost mages, Dimitri and Laredo's old squad, because there was an accident and (in his eyes) they didn't have training and clear guidance to fall back on (I will get to that in the stories though, it's something that informs the "you have to save yourself" standing order he has in place). Luis is someone who fears loss, especially loss of bright, young, talented mages. So he tortures them in a safe area with his own two hands, and teaches them how to read a torturer and captor, and how to mentally recover from the immediate aftermath, and how to escape even if it feels impossible.

He trusts his mages to follow his orders, and they trust that if they do what he wants, he'll treat them well. It's a basic sort of thing but it's necessary for their relationships, and generally he's very fair with not punishing them too harshly for silly stuff so he legitimately does build a good rapport with them all. If they get the training room, or are threatened with death, it's because to Luis what they did was just that serious.

Unfortunately, he does still butt heads with them, and he does still threaten their lives if they decide war crimes aren't something they want to do, all on top of punishing using their worst fears. Over time, no matter how much you love someone, that sort of abuse sours all the good feelings. The good feelings don't go away, bc when they're good they're good, but it makes things complicated.

Dimitri trusts Luis to not freeze him to death over simple disobedience, but he's afraid of him, and he hates him, and loves him, and if Luis approached him with an apology and changed behavior after prison? Dimitri would forgive him, because he was forgiven after making changes and working on himself.

All of the war mages feel similarly, really, because Luis' warmth and care isn't an act. They know that like them, he's also receiving orders that he can't just disregard. They may hate him sometimes, and they may disagree with him on fundamental stuff like "hey, perhaps stopping the war crime stuff could improve our lives in the long run", but they're all stuck with each other in a shitty, traumatic situation, so they make it work.

BASICALLY with Luis I'm exploring complex, complicated feelings about someone who has power over you, sincerely loves you, and who hurts you anyway bc I just think it's interesting! :)

#meta #Ask game #Ask games #The leader #Also Luis was the lamb on his squad #Just a fun fact #That certainly would never come into play as he's training his own mages #Look I have mommy AND daddy issues so now the war mages don't know how to feel about Luis #They do but it's complicated #As it always is when love and abuse coexist #Abuse #abuse of power #I'm discussing frankly really rough stuff and why Luis does what he does and why his is how he is so like be warned #I also talk briefly about navigating forgiveness when someone has horrifically abused you and you still love them #:) all of this will be relevant don't worry

[deus-and-the-machina]

miyako calling aqua and ruby her son and daughter...WAAAAAH AUGH girl you are working so hard ;-;

then BOOM ex husband time. oops. awkward. 

#I dunno if they technically divorced or if he just went off without any big show which is prolly what he did but damn #im hoping the twins get a moment to realize just how much miyako does for them. you both got mommy issues twice over so go give your good #alive parent a hug ;-; i still mostly think the twin thing is funny lol im just laughing at the chaos. but hey at least rubys doing better? #at what cost tho...I do kinda feel like ruby's genuinely pumped again but like miyako says she still puts up a front of positivity and the #thing she takes joy in now is um. NOT gonna work out for her so I just cant help but feel it'll come crashing down again so yeah #oshi no ko #onk 124

[minjiarchive]

yeah fuck it i'm fine (i hold onto ppl's finger instead of their actual hand bc i resort back into wanting to feel safe as a little girl again)

#this is literally what mommy issues does to you #smh

[cheriiyaya]

Whenever I hear ppl romanticize mommy issues I wanna throw a brink at their face

#Like no Sarah ur mom telling u to fold the laundry doesn't make you have mommy issues but y'know what does? #having ur mom curse you to the pits of hell and saying ur a punishment from God and a devil because a jar fell down when #you weren't even there when the jar fell #tw parent issues

[kindan-no-kanojo]

happy mothers day... mommy 🛐✨

"Excuse me!?"

"Get out of my sight!"

#📭Asklett #Scarlett Wakahisa #👻. anon #.DYING 😭😭 #.I DIDNT KNOW IT WAS TODAY LMAO WHAT A WAY TO FIND OUT 😭😭😭😭😭 #.(we just celebrate it another day here but shh) #.maybe yall have mommy issues but so does scarlett so jokes on you 🏃🏻‍♀️

[emmodii-mode]

It's always fun to try an asshole route in games where you can pick your own choices---

Except Disco Elysium.

I can't bring myself to disappoint Kim Kitsuragi... 😔

#i need kim to be proud of me y'know #put a picture of the lieutenant on my desk. motivational kim. #LISTEN IT'S THE WAY HE DOES HIS BEST TO SUPPORT YOU WHEN YOU TRY YOUR BEST #like you're a clusterfuck and constantly fuck up #but he sees when you try and he supports that y'know what i mean? #or maybe it's just the way i play the game #BUT LISTEN. MAYBE IT'S MY MOMMY AND DADDY ISSUES SPEAKING HERE BUT HOW CAN I DISAPPOINT HIM #emmodii rambles

[jrueships]

brian, the new shoe manager and cookie's nice guy sweet little church boo that magic homoerotically dommed and destroyed out of sheer prideful bloodlust should DEFINITELY be looked into as a casting option for a sam cooke biopic bcs .. WOW??

LIKE AM I TRIPPING OR

#add the lil bump in his nose #and mwah 🥰🥰 #cooke in general has a littler nose #but more abt winning time... i am rlly enjoying it so far!!!! #i personally like the 4th wall breaks! #the style is rlly cute and quirky !! keeps ur attention #when it does stuff at the right time it's like OOO but sometimes it doesnt (alot of cuts..) but thats ok!! #i cant wait to see kareem and magic interact (im on ep 3 rn!!) they do such a good job at emphasizing kareems #'i know more than you.' attitude LMAO #i normally have a lovehate relationship with multiple character focuses but bcs all the ppl are meant to be viewed as #kinda immature and kinda shitty (either in a pos/neg sense.. it flips) i rlly like it cus it doesnt force u to like one specific person #everyone has flaws!!! #idk maybe i like it cus one of my fav books is the great gatsby lmao #norm refer kareem as cap whenever he wants his attention/wants to get something he wants... i know what you are . #magics mommy issues go insane #leos when they dont think someone they want proud of them isnt proud in the way they want them to showit/be #or in what THEY want them to be proud abt..... yikes. so the way he treats/views women and then the ppl close to him #.... ej please #him and brian shouldve been endgame instead that was quite hmm! cookie deserves better than the both of them tbh #dr buss or whatever reminds me of every guy who could save themselves with charm and no soul/hardwork #n that playb*y affliation immediately raised red flags. hes very interesting and irritable to watch i like it #AND I TOTALLY CALLED TARK THE SHARK BEING A TURK!!! thank u godfather ANYWAYS i love the show it's great #need more gayness... hope isiah shows up in season 2 so i can clap n whistle like a marvel endcredit character reveal #ZEKE WILL RETURN

[shikai-the-storyteller]

Me: I haven't seen any streams or updates about what's happening on the server lately, let's check social media to see what I missed!

Literally the first frickin thing I see: "I can't believe Pac has mommy issues LOL"

Me:

#i talk #stupid fandom opinions that are wildly ooc don't usually bother me THAT much #but this particular one drives me up the frickin wall because it's one of the best examples of #''complete and utter lack of media literacy'' I've seen from the community in a while #just. blatantly understanding Pac as a character and BLATANTLY misinterpreting this scene #Frickin Em literally spelled it out and everyone's like ''lol mommy issues!!! how quirky!!!! xD'' #ooc stuff does bother me but it doesnt normally make me MAD but this does. It's just so????? #stupid??? and just??????? I literally cannot comprehend how people can look at that scene #and walk away from it saying ''mommy issues'' #Anyways I'm logging out again. #I'm going to writr that giant Pac analysis post once I'm back on desktop #but I'm gonna take a break I literally feel like I lost braincells reading that and what's worse is that it's not just one dumbass #deep sigh. #qsmp talk #fandom wank #it's not really fandom wank but tagging just for the sake of blacklist #It's not fandom wank because I'm RIGHT #I'm usually all for seeing different interpretations of a character but NOT THIS TIME #blatant mischaracterizations that are this bad I don't have patience for #Pac is such a complex character for the love of GOD please stop reducing him to ''quirky tropes'' you think are funny #Anyways. Had to get the salt out so the analysis I post later won't cause sodium poisoning #*** BLATANTLY MISUNDERSTANDING not blatantly understanding. curse you mobile