#trans women the world is for u!!!!

[chick-it-out]

#flockintogether #art #chart #chicken #trans #trans women the world is for u!!!! #trans women i love you #welcome!! welcome to u!! lets make you right at home 💗

[rollercoasterwords]

yeah u can put "i hate jkr" and "fuck terfs" in ur tumblr bio but. can u listen + reflect when a trans woman criticizes hp fandom without immediately getting defensive.....

#if a trans woman says 'my firsthand experience with hp fandom is that it's transmisogynistic' #in what world is the correct response to get angry at her and demand that she reassure u that not EVERYONE is transmisogynistic in fandom.. #like either a) u have not been transmisogynistic in which case...just keep scrolling #or b) u have been transmisogynistic in which case. u should take such posts as an opportunity 2 reflect on ur own behavior #and whether or not a or b applies to u is a personal evaluation for u 2 make privately #but EVEN if u feel the post does not in any way apply 2 u. it's still good 2 reflect!!! we are all participating in a fandom #that is tied inherently 2 a virulent transmisogynist #the least we can do is be vigilant in our personal circles + spaces abt transmisogyny..... #also personally. i think trans women can say whatever they want about hp lmao #especially on their own personal tumblr blogs that u can very easily just block if it's so upsetting 2 u.... #anyway. valid critiques and criticisms of hp fandom exist + part of being in this fandom in 2023 is accepting that imho #txt

[butchviking]

detransitoned women i love u so much

#detrans women have inspired me so much have shaped so much of my politics have given me so much hope #there are so many ways to be a woman in this world. it is never too late to make peace with your body. #u know what this also absolutely extends to reidentified transmen who are still living as trans. #there are so many ways to be a woman in this world!!! youre never doing it wrong all u have to do is be true 2 urself. isnt that beautiful

[radical-thots]

Hi I just saw your post about being harassed and not being able to talk about trans issues. I've attached a handy guide on how to stop that happening to you - see attached image. Hope this helps 🥺🥰🥰

Fellas, is it transphobic to talk about female oppression and the importance of recognizing biological sex? Is it transphobic to speak up against an ideology that is sexist, pedophilic and an attack on women? Also, this ask screams male entitlement - you see a post about women getting death/rape threats and the first thing that u do is blame the women? Wow, that's so man of you.

#radfem #radfemdointeract #radical feminism #radical feminists please interact #radical feminist safe #radical feminist community #feminists #feminism #radfemsafe #radblr #radical feminists do interact #anti patriarchy #trans #ngl this ask made me chuckle bcs how insane it is #The trans community can't handle criticism like every other ideology in the world #If u see women talking about getting death and rape threats and being doxxed for speaking up for themselves #and the first thing u do is attack them congrats you're a sexist not a progressive oppressed breed of something something

[fishflavouredlead]

queer women when trans-masc/men's lived experiences are just a little too similar to their own: 😡☝️🤬🚫😤🤬🚫😡🤬😤☝️

#bc thats really j gotta b what it is right? #bc idk how u can hear ppl #go through exactly what youve been through #the only men or men-like companians who can ever truly ***empathize*** w women #and u want to talk over them or claim that their experience isnt valid in some way because??? #what??? #it makes u feel some type of way??? #u dont like it???? #u dont agree w it bc personally its not yr own personal experience???? #bc u think it somehow takes away frm yr own expereinces??? #when in relaity were both j expereincing the same thing and both suffering in totally similiar ways j in different directions #or sometimes still even in the same direction #idk im really tired of this kinda.. indifferent if not invalidating attitude ppl will have towards transmen #or even transmascs #if theyre a lil too masculine or a lil too binary (which again will always b skewed due to individual perceptions) #and tbh #it kinda scares some of yall bc #honestly some of us including me including some trans ppl too #dont know what good kind gentle postive masculinity looks like #its never been modeled for us (which is glaringly obvious looking at the stae of the world) #idk it just comes off as ignorant and closeminded and yall wpuld think ud b the the last ones caught dead being exactly that #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbt #queer #literally fighting the same fucking battle but were all too busy killing the whole squadron w friendly fucking fire #like i love yall but come on

[cruelsister-moved2]

so many peoples allyship to trans women is just 99% calling them beautiful and then only supporting them when you find them attractive like you people are MISOGYNISTS anyway shout out to trans women who look average as hell and are just some girl

#there's several posts that go around here that will say things we would all recognise as misogynistic af if said abt a cis woman just saying #society if people remembered that transmisogyny is a form of misogyny as opposed to like some ancient dark art possibly involving demons #cuz I'll never forget the era when ppl were like u should never look at radf/ems blogs or learn anything abt what they believe bc they migh #convince you.... can you imagine if ppl were like don't look at r slash redpill they might convince you. #plus I would like people to be more aware of the time tax of beauty #like women have more important things to do w our time #shout out to all the other contributions trans women make to the world w their time #rather than spending it contributing to the male gaze + the at once patronising and envious and appraising cis female ally gaze #also regarding that glow up post I don't think u realise that a lot of ppl put off transition bc they r worried they look better as their a #and like. firstly beauty is subjective and I personally think you 'look better' when ur happier and more comfortable in urself #but also even if u DID get less conventionally attractive that would be irrelevant because u do not exist to be attractive #and u will certainly not become unlovable by becoming more of urself

[cinna-bunnie]

being a boy who likes girls but in a gay way then becoming a girl who likes girls and is somehow 2948685919195582993^¹⁹⁴⁷⁵⁹² times gayer about it than she's ever been

#technically I'm bi but like i need y'all to understand #98% of my brain's available processing power is dedicated to women all day every day 😔💕 i love y'all sm i s2fg #especially u trans women i love u. there is so much beauty in the world (⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠)⁠♡

[mothslimes]

i think it's okay for women to be fujoshis if you disagree you're a misogynist

#mik talks #ok no in all honesty so so so many 'straight women' into gay ships that i know turned out to be gay trans men #and even IF theyre not. like genuinely who careeees #as long as theyre not harassing real life gay men who cares #yeah it may look cringy or make u uncomfortable but like whatever thats the world just block it

[xiaojaan]

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#okay #barbie #review time the movie was Great it was FILLED with white woman feminism but whatever it said and did i never really expected all that either #like dhkekd i also waited till end for a part whr i could get emo over something but honestly it never came things were v deep yes but mayb #thats just on me not really relating to womanhood i guess #just only on a superficial level ig #besides that u can just Tell that it was made to cater to white women and it worked very well #one (1) trans barbie is like giving the lgbt some breadcrumbs honestly #it couldve had one or two gay characters like LIKEEKFJNSKSB THAT WOULDVE BEEN LIFE CHANGING LMAO #i also dk if there r a lot of barbies made by mattel that wear traditional clothes of various ethnicities but it wouldve been cool af #if one would be wearing a lehenga just sayin lmao #in the end my point is: that monologue by america ✅️💯 the kens being a representation of how women r treated in real world ✅️💯 #outfits and everything else ✅️💯 but besides that? u can just tell its made by white women for white women 🫠 #okay idk why this is so long rie made me post this i was eating their brain abt it bdkwlqkd #jays bs

[dyklopces]

trans women are to be quite literal the greatest thing to ever happen to this earth

#frankie fucks about #i love and admire trans women so much u guys go thru so much shit and deserve every good thing in the world

[crazycoven]

bro I go t too fucking high now I'm spiraling over how fucking stupid of a concept gender roles are like wow

like we're human bro and that's beautiful why are we still confining ourselves to these stupid boxes

#I was wathcing a video making fun of the 'not like the other girls memes' and I transcended space and time like wow why does anyone care abo #about those things at all ever #why is everything so gendered I wasn't built for a world like thisifd #I just feel like we should be at a point in our society where men and women and everyone in between can just mix and match and nobody fucki #cares thats my perfect world whens that one comin #idk what exactly I'm trying to say but I get so mad when someone who completely will identify with their birth gender- #and they like to dress as the opposite and present heavily into the opposite gender as themselves and ppl shout NOO U MUST BE TRANS OR NB- #LIKE STOPP STOPP IT ALLOW OURSELVES TO BE WHAT WE ARE A HUMAN WE ARE ALL HUMANS WE GOTTA DROP THE ACTS #good lord what am I saying anymore idk #hayden.txt

[shopcat]

ik this is a dumb ask to send on christmas eve no less but my family is annoying and im tired and need an escape so im just gonna be a bitch for a little while: i hate how much the stddie fandom feminizes steve while simultaneously equating femininity to being small and soft and submissive both sexually and in general. like its rlly telling that none of these people want to explore what steve could find interesting and comfortable in being femme (even though he's pretty consistently traditionally masc throughout the show in how he chooses to dress and what his general interests are etc) they just want him to be The Girl in the relationship. its the same with how like 90% of the fandom decided out of nowhere that he's a bottom and must also be a sub bc steve, the most sexually confident and experienced main character outside of the actual adults, would absolutely be a stereotypical blushing virgin bottom and wouldn't want to be in charge of his own pleasure regardless of how he's physically getting it

no for sure i actually have seen this a lot with other charas but it's particularly off with steve specifically because of the way people go about it is just concerning 😭. i've actually said before in passing that ppl almost tend to treat steve somehow misogynistically which is CRAZY but it makes sense because like one of the roots of homophobia is misogyny and at the end of the day it's just homophobia!! i think people want to indulge in the idea of him being feminine and simply get carried away and it's clear that their idea of femininity is tied in pretty transparently with soft submissiveness. and while it's true that men don't typically GET to indulge in these aspects of their own masculinity and getting to take this typically very masc character who has shown aspects of nontoxic masculinity can be a thing that invites nuance scrubbing him down until he's this like pathetic little waif of a thing who creams his pants the second the big strong man (in this case eddie but i know this is 99% of what h*rringr*vers do too) comes along to tell him what to do is concerning at the very best.

being gender nonconforming in any particular way is a complex thing and i would ENCOURAGE!! people to want to explore it with kindness and NOT as a way to at the end of the day sexualise and bastardise it to the point of no return. steve IS pretty and he is my babygirl and i do like saying he's a mean girl and he giggles and tucks his hair behind his ear and even wears the tinted chapstick and put him in pink outfits and perfume honestly like 99% of what people do with this i tend to ENTHUSIASTICALLY agree with but it's pretty clear when they're doing it to genuinely explore these things and celebrating the dissection of gender nonconformity and sexuality which has traditionally and continues to be dismissed/a marginalised aspect of being outwardly, clockably lgbt and when they're doing it ingeniously because they think it's like hot. and like yeah totally it's literally so hot but omg have some tact.. the hottest thing in the world is a gnc bisexual/gay man so it's understandable that ppl let their brains melt a little but let's give nuance the floor here for a SECOND please...

#asks #sts #also no problem i hope the rest of today and tomorrow goes well!!! #i legit just woke up and answered this hungoverly from MY christmas so we are all going Strong ‼️‼️ #ANYWAY i like to be careful criticising this specifically bc at the end of the day i will always encourage a feminine steve #and i've also said before that like i would rather be around the ppl who do it wrong than like idk actual homophobes #i just think it's a notable thing like u also noted it and it's something to be careful with BUT i do very rarely see it myself bc it's #one of the red flags i tend to avoid if that makes sense #i also just think it's a cop out in a way the weird direction ppl go with it like it's NOT complex to them which is crazy it's the most #layered thing in the world to me... especially if u hc him as any kind of trans #like transmasc or amab nonbinary his relationship w gender could be a really fun thing to explore and it IS #though here's a tip tbh i tend to avoid people who hc him outright as a trans girl when they're not trans girls themselves #and it's usually a red flag to me personally... i don't think tme ppl should be hcing men as trans women Ever and it's not the same as when #transmascs hc a girl as transmasc it is Just Different but ppl can't seem to accept that experiences aren't equal . whatever

[faecaeli]

can not STAND the amount of radfem posts that have show up on my dash "based on my likes" because i've liked posts related to feminism. like what in the world. i should be able to like a quote from bell hooks or a post on reproductive rights and not have this wild and hateful terf shit pop up

#just had a post pop up where the OP was saying drag was similar to blackface #so now i have to deal with my anger about that for the rest of my life #all bc this platforms shit algorithm facilitates extremist thinking and radicalization #as if all women and transfolk arent struggling enough irl huh #fucking all these ppl need to go outside and see whats happening in the world to trans people like........ get off the internet and wake up #how do you look at the trans community and go oh yes! the reason for our oppression! #girl you are looking in completely the wrong direction #you have all the reason to be mad when it comes to the horrible endless misogyny in our world #but how is blaming this very small and widely unaccepted community going to help your cause #its the oldest trick in the fuckin book #u cant scapegoat the minority and make your problems go away #thats just a fast track to violence #like if yall are really interested in feminism why aren't you spending more time looking to men in power #vs people who are already struggling to be themselves in a way that DEFIES the gender norms that you claim to hate and rally against sfm?? #gnc people are not threatening your 'womanhood' u just gotta fucking chill #dont u want to build a future BASED on your sex being of less importance? isn't that the whole damn point? #that our differences are acknowledged and celebrated and accommodated #not used against us #like... c'mon #so full of shit #show me the real feminists on this site who actually care about women and building a better future for everyone #and wanna have real convos rooted in compassion for one another

[megafawna-permhiatus]

one thing about trans women is there are so many of them who are talented synth musicians

#.talk #trans tag #wendy carlos was the blueprint. i love her. #that one post talking about how we should stop sexualizing trans women so much especially when we're talking about like. lifting them up. #was really good. i think we should talk more about how there are so many talented trans girl musicians. 80% of my favorite artists are tran #women. they make the world go round #<- music artists specifically but also so many visual artists . . . and also just trans people in general. not just women. but u get the #idea. trans phobics never acknowledge how talented we can be and i know why that is. because it'd be lifting us up and acknowledging we can #make beautiful things and be beautiful people. inside n out

[cuntboysupremacy]

people online r so stupid about plastic surgery. no, it is not transphobic or anti bodily autonomy to discuss how the cisheteropatriarchial forces of the world create the conditions and pressures for people to get fucking buccal fat removal or bbls oh my god!!!

#we need basic feminism back so bad #if u think the pressure on cis girls and women to get expensive and often underregulated/dangerous procedures that reinforce #oppressive beauty standards #imagine how much worse it is for trans girls!! #a world where women are just allowed to BE without stigma against their natural features is one we should all want!! #good lord

[clownfall]

noticing a lot of new and interesting followers... btw i think trans people are actually better than cis ppl xoxo

#if the down with cis bus was real i would ride it like a goddamn rollercoaster #beep beep motherfuckers #anyways. #terfs i get and respect the radical feminism thing but you're getting distracted by details when u need to focus on the bigger picture #trans ppl r not the enemy. especially not trans women. industrialized society in general is the issue #read some gd kaczynski for once in ur life! #now im not saying you should send pipe bombs to world leaders #but... #jk fbi i would never incite violence #i hate terrorism actually!