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ryonello · 1 year
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hiiiii everyone come in welcome it is nice to see u <3
i dont talk nearly as much on tumblr as i do on twitter bc i am intimidated and like to keep my blog clean and art only, not sure if thatll change but if this ends up being my main platform it might LMAO
anyways i have an art tag for general stuff, like to think im pretty consistent with tagging fandoms & characters if there’s specific stuff ur lookin to see (or avoid!), and my archive will let u speed thru my work over the past few years easier than scrollin page by page 💕
thank u for comin to find me or for bein here all along i appreciate u sm 😚
if u r new to tumblr make sure u have xkit installed <3 HAVE FUN
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taupewolfy · 1 year
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if twitter goes then there goes my main source of finding cool games made by like 2 people
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so anyway I made a fake Twitter to catfish my coworkers husband (dw shes in on it) cuz he be doing shady shit, and now I have to pretend to be a conservative america-loving right-winger and its kinda funny cuz I have no idea how to do that. but yeah follow me on fake Twitter @livy_jayyy
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lunar-years · 7 months
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WAIT WAIT WAIT people are of the opinion that jamie isn't in any type of love with her in s2 and/or s3? oh no that's not.... 😰
even if he didn't/doesn't know what type of love & even if he really actually didn't mean to say it, i deffo think he meant it in s2 exactly like you said like she's someone extremely important to him who he wants around in some capacity (& he still feels that way in s3) . and that's what matters most 🫶
i feel dizzy i can't believe ppl think he didn't mean it either time or he doesn't understand. this is terrible news oh my god
Unfortunately yeah. There was a lot more of it going around at the time of the funeral episode and again (and much moreso) at the time of the finale. Personally I think it’s harder to headcanon Jamie’s feelings as solely platonic in the bar scene unless you come at it from “he was just saying all that to piss off Roy” angle, and people were Very Upset that Jamie might Dare to still be into her. Tbh I think a lot of it was/is the product of (imo misguided) anger from people who either 1) were very pissed Roy and Keeley weren’t endgame or 2) held very strong opinions about the Roy and Jamie bar scene being the worst thing to happen in the history of television or whatever. (Which, to be clear I can 100% understand disliking either writing choice for various reasons. It’s just that that anger somehow extended to people being FURIOUS that jamie would confirm he’s still got feelings for Keeley because he’s “never cared about her like that and they barely interact and Keeley OBVIOUSLY doesn’t give a shit about Jamie and hasn’t paid him attention since s1, so Jamie just doesn’t know what he’s saying. he’s clearly confused and emotionally immature” etc. which like, look. idk…But TO ME…If you’re gonna be angry about that scene…Boy is that the wrong part to be angry about, lol.
Anyway I wasn’t going to post the twitter thread I saw today that dredged this all up again because it’s so not a big deal and these tweeters are entitled to think whatever they want. but also it’s like 3 a.m and I can’t sleep and I’m feeling in a very idgaf mood so whatever here it is:
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I don’t even know where to start but it got under my skin for many reasons least of all that Jamie is one of the MOST emotionally mature ones like wdym 😭 just ticked all my boxes for little irritants. you know how it is.
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forabeatofadrum · 1 year
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Do you have zimbits fic recs? I’ve never really gotten into Check Please fic, but I just got Madison in the mail and now I wanna read more zimbits but don’t know where to start!
YOU GOT MADISON?????? ASAAAAAAAAAAAAAAGHHHHHHH!!! My order hasn't been shipped yet so no spoilers, but you ask and you shall receive. It got long, so I am putting it under a cut in no particular order. ALSO the new Tumblr post maker is absolutely fucking terrible and it took so long to format this because of it. The whole idea of creating "blocks" in posts is stupid and it doesn't function well ANYWAY FIC TIME.
Set Your Old Heart Free by IBoatedHere
Jack doesn’t find Bitty after graduation. They don’t kiss. Jack doesn't go to Madison for the 4th. They still fall in love.
It's a simple premise, but so well executed. I uhhh always cry at the end and I love to read Jack's thoughts.
when it’s over (you’re the start) by @whoacanada
Jack goes to sleep in Providence next to his boyfriend and wakes up in Montréal to discover he's been in a coma since 2009. Refusing to believe Samwell, Bitty, and the Falconers were all a dream, Jack tracks down the real Shitty, Lardo, Ransom, and Holster to find they’ve shared the same group hallucination for years. Now, they’re on a mission to find Bitty, the love of Jack’s non-existent life, and the only member of SMH they can’t seem to get in contact with.
What it says on the tin. It is a "what if" story and it is great.
i'll see you with your laughter lines by the_one_that_fell
Eric Bittle was fourteen when his soulmate died.
They'd never even gotten to meet.
This is a great story, but heed the warnings. It's an interesting spin on the soulmate trope, because yeah, you can argue that Jack died when he overdosed, even if it was just for a small moment.
like a handprint on my heart by the_one_that_fell
"Dude, we've got an over-competitive golf dad, a badass art freak, a pre-med lax bro on the verge of a breakdown, a chronically naked rugby player, a beat-boxing giant, and an itty-bitty, baking figure skater - there's no way we came together accidentally. This was fate."
"Or it's the normal progression of human beings making friends. Chill out, bro."
(Or, the one where no one plays hockey, but it still manages to bring them all together.)
I have so much to say about this story. SO MUCH. It once gave me a breakdown when I was feeling super lonely, cause the fic is about friendship. Zimbits is just a part of it, though. Everyone gets a moment to shine and it's so good.
don't you look charming (here in the eye of a hurricane) by @whoacanada
In 2009, Jack Zimmermann doesn't just walk away from his future, he packs a bag and runs.
ANGST ANGST ANGST!! This fic captivated me so much. I don't know what else to say!!!
My Words on Your Skin by There_Once_Was_A_Girl
Jack and Bitty have a unique soul connection, they can write back and forth to each other by writing on their own skin. They know each other long before they've ever met. But when Jack overdoses Bitty thinks he's lost the love of his life forever.
Just like the other soulmate AU fic above, this takes the soulmate idea and runs with it. What do you do when you believe the other is dead?
you’ve got my number by ambrosius
It’s not as if Jack was totally inept when it came to technology. He could handle his Tweeter (Tweety? Twits? Twitter? Did it really matter?) just fine and if he’s honest, he much preferred texting to calling most days. So when he gets added to a group chat full of strangers, well, he’s pretty sure he can handle whatever comes next.
This one is so good. I am a bitch for epistolary stuff and I am glad it exists.
Graduation Dayby IBoatedHere
It takes Jack 50 days to finally see what's been right in front of him for the past two years.
Groundhog Day AU, but make it Zimbits. Jack doesn't kiss Bitty when he graduates, and that's fine, right? Well, looks like the universe disagrees. Also this fic has a real good platonic Jackshit moment.
Will Wonders Never Cease by @porcupine-girl
Eric has landed his dream job: social media manager for the Providence Falconers! Not only does he get paid to tweet, for an NHL team at that, but it’s a job where he’ll be able to make good use of his magic - when nobody’s looking, of course. Everyone on the Falconers is a joy to work with… with the notable exception of Jack Zimmermann. Eric understands that Jack doesn’t like social media, but he could certainly be a little more polite about it.
Luckily, Eric has support from his Samwell buddies, as well as his best friend - a man whose face he’s never seen, and whose name he doesn’t know. They met on an online forum where witches can gather anonymously, since it isn’t safe for them to advertise their existence in a world where magic isn’t trusted. They’ve been friends for years now, but Eric is only just starting to realize that he might have deeper feelings for someone he can never meet face-to-face.
THIS FIC!!! Jenna, I don't know if you read my fic Ebb & Flow, but I mentioned this fic in the author's note, because it was a huge inspiration. It's a secret identity magical She Loves Me AU. It sounds bonkers, but it is so goooood.
if you're going through hell (keep going) by @whoacanada
Eighteen years ago, Samwell suffered the tragic loss of one of their most promising young athletes. Ever since rumors have circulated that the school is haunted by the ghost of Eric Bittle. At least, that’s the only way anyone can seem to explain why the locker rooms smell like freshly baked apple pie on game days instead of the usual, omnipresent hockey funk.
Now in the twilight of his career, Jack Zimmermann is facing his own mortality and the last item on his bucket list?
Return to Samwell and disprove the rumor that his long-dead boyfriend is haunting Faber Memorial Rink.
MAIN CHARACTER DEATH!!! WARNING!!! And not like the previous soulmate AUs where the one thinks the other is dead. Bitty dies and Jack moved on, but he has to face the past, because people claim Bitty's ghost is real. Jack decides to find out himself.
Inertia by @foryouandbits
At the age of seven, Eric Bittle is tackled so hard in peewee football, it feels as though he's been knocked into another dimension. At the encouragement of his father, he avoids contact sports until he receives a scholarship to play hockey at Samwell University. The result is the same: every check on the ice hurts so much that Eric hallucinates another world. Eric spends the rest of his freshman year attempting to prove himself to his captain and his coaches. He questions his worth, his talent, and his sanity, and in his search for answers, he uncovers long-hidden secrets that change everything he has ever known.
I loved this one. It is an interesting take on dimension travel and Coach in this story is so great as well. I highly recommend it.
Ice Crew Please! by @petals42
Jack Zimmermann was drafted first by the Providence Falconers when he was eighteen years old. He is good at hockey. Very good. His team won the Cup his second year and now, in his third year, they are looking good. Jack should be on top of the world. And some days, he manages to convince himself he is.
He’s not, of course.
Enter the Ice Crew.
AKA: The Ice Crew AU
This sorta!fic is a fic about friendship thawing Jack Zimmermann's heart. Jack realises he's kind of a dick towards the ice crew of the Falcs and so he gets to know them, including Bitty. It's a good fucking friendship fic.
All shall know the wonder by me, lol
When Bitty decides to skate on Sunday mornings, he didn’t expect to meet a nice, handsome man who cannot hear. The Sunday mornings lead to a deep friendship that slowly leads to more.
Yes, I am finishing this list with a shameless self-promotion. I have 28 fics on AO3, 27 of them being Zimbits (one Holsom) and this is my favourite. Yeehaw.
That's it for now. There's a lot more in my Check, Please! fic tag. Also, hi to the people I have @'ed. If y'all know the tumblr URLs of some writers mentioned on this post, lemme know so I can add them.
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I logged onto Twitter for literally 5 seconds and immediately saw people harassing a community director for something called the MAG Festival, which I gather is a video game convention of some variety, who made this joke banner for their event:
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Game industry folks, of course, lost their minds and they had to backpedal (frustrating, but I get it).
Anyways, funny joke. Wish the games industry wasn’t so toxic and unwelcoming. Even if you genuinely believe GG was a toxic movement, it boggles the mind how anyone thinks harassing community managers for...*checks notes*...a dumb joke you can either choose to laugh at or roll your eyes and ignore, is better.
Unrelated side-note: Can we just talk about how fucked social media is in it’s current state? Like just the overall design of how interactivity between users works, and how all of them are explicitly designed to feed into this industry of hate and overall negativity?
Think about it: you see a joke on Twitter and, assuming you HAVE to respond to it one way or another as that’s what’s asked of you by nature of you using social media, you’re really only given two options:
Either you enjoyed the tweet, found it humorous, so you’ll indicate that enjoyment simply by clicking the little heart icon to increase the little number next to it that indicates how many other people enjoyed it, and then you’ll  promptly move on.
Or, you disliked the tweet, perhaps it even upset you in some capacity, so you’ll indicate that displeasure by writing a 280-character (or h/e long Tweets are these days idfk) comment on how the joke “wasn’t funny” and perhaps even that the tweeter is “a bad person” for making it.
Now when the next person comes across that same tweet, which do you think they’ll see first, the single spot where it indicates that 10k people liked the post, or the seemingly-bottomless deluge of comments from 1k people expressing their negative response to the joke? More than likely their eyes will be drawn to the comments before the likes.
Now I know what you might be thinking: “Well, what’s to stop someone from commenting on the tweet to indicate that they liked the joke?” And you’re not wrong, except that the algorithm on most social media sites values the engagement from those negative comments higher than the engagement on those positive comment. Remember, even if every 100th person who liked the tweet posted a comment saying as much, the other 99 are still just scrolling by the post once they’ve liked it. They aren’t sticking around to like other positive comments. You know who are liking comments though? The ones already sticking around to comment their displeasure of the tweet.
So yeah, the TL;DR here is that social media, as are sadly most websites these days, are actively trying to not only piss you off, but to keep you essentially towing the line, so-to-speak. Don’t post anything too subversive or the algorithm will convince hundreds, if not thousands of people to harass you off the platform, if not worse.
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become-a-robot · 2 months
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OH MY GOD YOU SHOULD TOTALLY LISTEN TO FURY OF THE AQUABATS BY THE AQUABATS!!!!!
ONE OF MY FAVE BANDS EVER!!! THEY'RE SUPER SILLY!!!!
The Fury Of The Aquabats! - The Aquabats! (1997)
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We meet again, mormon ska homestar runner yo gabba gabba vigilante superhero gang.
I remember one post from twitter (I think?) where it said something like "ska music sounds like what plays in a 12 year olds head when they get cheese sticks for dinner", except The Aquabats are the type of band who would literally write a song about having cheese sticks for dinner.
I like their sprinkling in of style mashups they do in songs with no prompting whatsoever. Red sweater has 1950s doo-wop music, Magic Chicken has a random hip hop break, Lobster Bucket with a ragtime feel, etc.
So. The recurring themes of this album are people eating, people geting eaten, being down bad, and getting mauled to death. Cool. Anyway, my favorite tracks are The Story Of Nothing and Martian Girl. I enjoy the former for its imagery of literally disappearing as a result of feeling like a nobody after rejection, and the latter for something something. I'm Going To Kiss the Girl From Venus
The Aquabats have always had some interesting nerdy love songs, coming up with the strangest, most esoteric ways to be attracted to people, that somehow loop back around to being somewhat sincere. It's less "Hey girl I think you're pretty. want to go out?", and more "Hey girl, I saw how you knocked over the produce stand in the supermarket and started pelting people with tomatoes, and wanted to let you know we are happily married in the scenario I made up in my head".
Really fun album, very silly ass band. It's a little much sometimes tho, I don't personally think i can listen to more than one Aquabats album at a time lol.
Also, thanks for the reccomendation! You get: A Woofer In Tweeter's Clothing - Sparks (1973)
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distortedwhite · 4 months
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sits down. hello enstarries i'm here to let everyone know the worst experience i've ever had with game account recovery. literally even aichuu was easier than whatever this fuckery is
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let me provide a little backstory first. everyone here knows i Love enstars—jpstars specifically. i grew up playing !-era enbasic, am still playing !!-era enbasic, and play the japanese version of enmusic as well. when engstars first released i gave it a try, got bigbang subaru and conquest hiyori, somehow became a vice prez for the society i'm in (and still get to mod for even months after quitting engstars. if anyone here needs an active society, contact me or toribuns on tweeter :DDD), got link click kouchan and mika... i was pretty happy with my account.
however, i quickly lost interest in engstars, since jpstars is my one and only love LOL but i kept engstars on my phone in case i wanted to return to it. and i did return to it! i played the campaign that ran during the secret swan gacha just to see if i could get natsume (i didn't ftr www)
and back i went to ignoring engstars for 476534 years. and that's where my personal problem arises. you see, i never linked my account to a tweeter acc, or google acc, or email, or whatever. my thought process was like "why would i need to do that? i still have engstars on my phone, and it isn't gonna randomly kick me from my own account right. RIGHT???" but that's precisely what happened. i opened engstars because i needed some info from the new spotlight event for the wiki, only to see engstars just kicked me out.
ofc i go "OH SHIT. I never linked my acc to anything." so i check support and they don't have Anything on account recovery. but they Do have something on data transfer :D it requires me to have a new engstars account in order for them to do the transfer, so i make a new account. and let me just tell you. fuck the engstars tutorial. legitimately, fuck the engstars tutorial.
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after 4753835 years i escape tutorial containment and fill out the rest of the support form, which included your typical "lost account" miseries. ("how the fuck am i supposed to know what my rank is. HOW THE FUCK AM I SUPPOSED TO KNOW ANYTHING......") eventually i do manage to fill the form and send it off. waiting game.
(also i still cannot believe engstars is an Official thing. it feels so fanmade and unprofessional. typos and spacing issues, And the app won't even let me scroll down further to read whatever it says on the second screenshot. i assume it says "Problem solving in progress" but me not able to scroll down in order to read it is bad design)
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a day later—which, kudos to engstars support team, i did not expect them to only take a day—i receive a response saying they did find my account! but they also said my account was linked to a tweeter account that doesn't match the one my new engstars account—yknow, the one that they needed me to make to transfer data—is linked to.
i was pretty surprised because damn i had no idea my account was actually connected to something but okay! engstars support wanted me to switch tweeter accounts in order for me to do some.... authorization... things... seriously i can't read their response. revoking my kudos because i'd rather have a legible response than a quick one
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ANYWAY i try...??? to log in with a different tweeter account, but engstars won't let me, so i go directly into tweeter and revoke engstars access permissions. and after that? i expected to get back to the tweeter log in screen, but instead engstars won't even give me that, telling me that the login failed after tapping the "Login with Twitter" button.
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guys i'm so tired. but i'm doing my best. link click kouchan. i go clear app data for engstars, and after opening the app again, the support ticket i got was still there which is nice. i also get the tweeter log in screen again, nice. i also don't even get to log in because whatever browser engstars is using, it doesn't have javascript enabled so tweeter doesn't do anything :)))) i have to back out of the page, bringing me back to engstars and the, by now, very familiar "login failed" pop-up
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that's where the story more or less ends? pauses? someone on the wiki server suggested to try login on the pc version so i let it do its downloading thing while i sat here writing this LOL it's done now. time to try that.
forgot the password for the account i was trying to get into DSGHSJDG anyway tweeter blocked my attempts because i had too many wrong ones. how long does it take until i can try again. whatever i'll end this post here... tell all your friends to keep your accounts safe because this is an absolute shitshow.
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destinyc1020 · 5 months
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We don't if this guy twt talking true or not about tom going to Brazil too,but I hope he won't. Those weirdos on twt would call him controlling or something,he better go to London check parents and Tess for few weeks.
Why are we already writing the script for what people on Twitter MIGHT say about Tomdaya again?
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Most of those tweeters have probably never been in a serious, long-term relationship like Tomdaya anyway rofl 🤣
Look.....If Tom goes to Brazil, then Tom goes to Brazil, and good for him! 😤
Let the man get some little time in Brazil with the wifey if he wishes. 🥰
Haters are just gonna have to deal.....😏
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kobithedragon · 1 year
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SO, @cyle , I've actually started using Twitter properly for the first time ever (not cuz Elon, I just hit the daily like limit here too often) and honestly I understand the hate but at the same time I love the tabs each user gets on their own Twitter page.
Specifically, replies.
I love how twitter replies work, I think it's really cleverly designed.
Quote tweet is essentially reblog - it's literally the same thing but stripped down: without showing the via, without being able to see all of the previous comments. So of course it's not feasible for conversations like how tumblr's reblog is, and in general retweet is just awful for content curation, but anyway that's besides the point.
Reply allows for nicely layed out conversations. It fixes the issue of recursive indentation to show consecutive replies to a specific comment, it fixes just tagging the person you're replying to and hoping they know which comment you're replying to, it fixes major platforms (Instagram, tiktok, YouTube, Facebook)'s unhelpful hybrid of both. Tapping through reply tweets, retweeting them, replying to them, it all just makes sense, to me anyway.
Now, if we somehow display reblogs as if they were reply tweets, we'd be implementing replies in the tumblr way! We'd be introducing reblog replies - or something like that, for the lack of a better name.
Reblogging as a user experience would remain exactly the same. The user would be presented with the familiar Tumblr "reblog chain" post, and can reblog it normally, either adding their own text/media or not , along with their reblog.
BUT, the reblogs tab for each post would act like a twitter replies interface - where the user is presented with the most reblogged (with text/media) or liked reblogs (with text/media) first, and then expanding each reblog to reveal more and more reblogs that act in exactly the same way as the one described.
Tumblr and Twitter are vastly different platforms. I love the current way reblogging for conversation works. I think it's just as unique and brilliant as Twitter replies. And it reflects the vastly different nature of the way tumblr is supposed to be used compared to twitter. But , as we all know, Elon happened, and even Duolingo tweeted about returning to tumblr, so there is a very high interest right now in making tumblr at least a bit more like Twitter, so as to accelerate the adoption of ex tweeters. So that they feel a bit more at home here, feature wise, whilst knowing the platform they're on is in safe hands (big up Matt🙏)
I'll add that it is smart to take features from rising platforms such as tiktok as opposed to declining platforms such as Twitter. And Tumblr is way more art & media focused than Twitter - so seems more attractive to the likes of Instagram and tiktok and Pinterest users when Twitter doesn't as much.
But even Matt himself said in an interview, Tumblr could easily be a bigger and better twitter than Twitter is! It already is better in many ways, and bigger because it FEELS bigger because old posts recirculate, nothing has a expiry date!! But yeah it just needs something for the ex tweeters. And me. I love reply tweets٩(♡ε♡ )۶
Those are just my thoughts on one aspect in particular. I hope this can be useful to consider. All the best!! Posting here as opposed to feedback support request because it may need some debating amongst the tumblr users.
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cabbagegunk · 1 year
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i just realised since you’re one of the bitches who i let call me kin so im put under the kin tag whenever i pester you and since people will put kinnie posts under kin tag maybe they think im like your kinnie side blog where you talk to yourself with. well they probably don’t think that because your followers aren’t that stupid. but that would be funny. or maybe they are just that fucking stupid. hey cabbagegunkers are you Wait. cabbagegunkers. that sounds funny as fuck forget what else i was saying Hey cabbagegunkers we out here gunkin⁉️🔥 okay i searched up cabbagegunk because i wanted to see if i got your username right because im paranoid like that even though i know im right and i didn’t know you had a twitter. You didn’t tell me you were a tweeter. anyway you retweeted nagito dying in a gluetap and it made me laugh. thanks for the giggle. also why are you like the sole cause of minecrafters getting pregnant
hi annie kin kindlekore and definitely not me on an alt account hows it going
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stiffyck · 1 year
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I don't know what's happening bc Tweeter is blocked in my country
I have best days of my life without it except the main reason why its blocked
Anyway, i dont see anything why u can be cancelled, i mean, age??? Cannibalism?? SCITTIES?? if thats the reason why, i have so many questions to them
I didn't actually get canceled I just reblogged a post asking what I'd get canceled over on twitter!
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snufflescribbles · 1 year
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Ok this is gonna be hella annoying but I'm somewhat a new tumblrina and I am not from tweeter, I'm from Pinterest, and I'm kinda lost about the tumblr native puns- could u please somehow explain the hellsite and stuff please T-T , also i love your posts
hii! first of all welcome lmaoo :))
basically the hellsite thing is like everyone on tumblr actively acknowledges that this app is a mess. idek where to begin to explain how, but the tag system is thoroughly broken...now people just do whatever they in there. and honestly the whole website usually runs on vibes
it crashes when something happens in any fandom that is popular on here, some of which are incredibly niche
all in all it's a hellsite, it's not carefully curated and pretty stuff like instagram. but at the same time it's not obnoxious takes and hatred like twitter...which is why hellsite (affectionate)
this whole trend of adding stuff in brackets making an oxymoron is a meme. for eg: your fav morally grey character would be, murderer (affectionate)....if that makes sense 😭
anyways as i said, it takes some time but you figure out the jokes and memes. if you have any questions feel free to ask :)))
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ratsplendor · 1 year
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right, any reylos/general Star wars folx migrating in from Twitter on this blursed night: welcome! even if it's just on a backup basis as things maybe get sorted out.
folks, i have been here since 2012 and i never left, even after the Great Fuckening. we have been through some weird times on this hellsite, for better or for worse, but i have seen a lot of sentiment since the Elon buy was first announced that essentially, Tumblr only improved after the Fuckening in the sense that Stan culture essentially moved over there, among other things. if you migrated around that time, or have simply never been on this platform, you may feel a bit upset by said sentiment. you may feel a bit kerfuffled.
i get that. but understand that if it's not about you...it's not about you. simply don't be the kind of person we wish was going down with Twitter's ship. don't be the person who sent death threats to Voltron creators. don't be the person who supports open, proud MAPs. don't be the person who bullies small creators to the point of suicide. reylos, I've gotten to know a lot of you since my return to fandom, and i know you are not those people. (most of you, anyway. that kid who was having a cow about obidala existing still makes me ugly laugh.) we are people who build bridges. i think it has a lot to do with our attachment to a story about hope and commonality and rising against true great evils instead of against one another, but what do i know? it's not personal, it's systemic. you don't have to prove yourselves. just don't *disprove* yourselves.
but if you are those people: you are not welcome here. you will always exist, and if you run out of social media platforms you will turn it on the world. i have made peace with this. it is not my job to fix it. if you, like me, are not the reason Tumblr doesn't want tweeters back, that's my advice, as a simple rodent who has seen it all on this site: don't feed the roaches. they have plenty of food because they eat garbage. if nobody is shouting back at them, they scatter. we are a community, we are adults, and if we're not...well, get the hell off of nsfw Tumblr.
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alltheselights · 2 years
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I’m in a bad place with most Larries right now. Earlier on this year, I don’t remember when because I rage-blocked it out, a pretty big Larrie on tumblr made a kind of list about how Louis could be a better gay man, better ways he could be a gay icon, even though he’s closeted and his closet is a very restrictive one and has been for a long time. I wanted to almost attack them through an ask, challenge them, but I didn’t. Even if they posted the ask I wanted to send, it wouldn’t do anything because the way they think seems to be how the majority of Larries think and I am so tired. Most Larries have done the same thing for years, blame Louis for his closet but feel sorry for Harry for his. “Louis doesn’t do enough to fight it, Louis could fix his image, Louis should do this or that to prove he is worthy of Larrie support, if Louis doesn’t do what I want I’m going to boycott him and his next album, Harry’s stunts are just because he wants to be a star and who can blame him for that, Louis hasn’t publicly supported Harry in years, that’s not fair to Harry, why should Harry publicly support Louis when Harry is closeted and made to not do anything to support Louis”. All things I have seen and heard from Larries. Larries answer and reblog asks saying these things and most of it is directed at Louis. I just went through the double standards tag of one of your mutuals and it was so saddening and disheartening because it hasn’t changed, all these years later, and it has only reminded me of how the fandom blames Louis for anything involving his closet. Louis has borne the brunt of it. Then about two weeks ago a Larrie answered an ask that asked why Harry would date a foul mouthed chainsmoker alcoholic McDonald’s fan unfashionable disgusting person like Louis, and the Larrie answered with how that person was insulting Harry actually, as Harry isn’t a shallow a**hole like them and that Harry values people for their heart and their soul. That’s it. Didn’t say Louis wasn’t those things. Maybe that Larrie thought there was no point arguing with Louis’ many good points because the person wouldn’t care anyway but h***ies reblogged it saying exactly that, that the Larrie didn’t even try to argue that Louis wasn’t those things. It’s been continuous bad moments from Larries for a long time and i hate it so much. I can’t be a Larry anymore because I can’t stand the difference in treatment anymore. Louis is never going to be good enough or do enough to make Larries want to support him as much as they support Harry, unless he comes out with Harry, and I need distance from people who place those kind of restrictions on Louis, Louis whose heart is so big and loving and thoughtful, who is so talented and works at his craft and cares so much but was beaten down for years so that his belief in himself was taken from him. Louis, who has fought to be where he is, to have a solo career, to regain his confidence. Who needs enemies when a person’s “fans” will be the ones actively contributing to a negative public perception of a person? Who needs enemies when “fans” will blame that person for their closet and act like it affects them more than the person who is closeted? Who needs enemies when their “fans” won’t respect them as a human being and not a toy? It feels like there a lot of people who don’t want Louis to succeed and that includes people who are meant to be his fans.
Yep, I'm in the same boat. Unfortunately, most of the loudest voices on Twitter and Tumblr on the Larrie side of the fandom are the least respectful of Louis and don't care about him unless they can relate the things he does, says, or wears to Harry, his sex life, or their personal own sexual fantasies about him. You occasionally find someone who does the same with Harry, but it's not as common and it's not as popular of bloggers or tweeters (not sure that's a word, but I'm going with it) doing it. There are some of us who are fine! Some of them follow me, and I follow others. But it's growing harder to find them every day and being here is intolerable a lot of the time.
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disquiet-doll · 1 year
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Hey just so you know, that tweet you posted about "queer labels from the 90s" is misinformation. Those labels are not from the 90s. They are from a 2013 twitter thread that was published in "My New Gender Workbook." The tweeter of the "90s" misinformation deliberately clipped out responses that included twitter handles so it would seem more 90s.
Why did someone do all this? They did this because there's a concerted effort among the modern sexual libration movement to lie about LGBT history.
oh fun, an obvious mass anon
Well anyway, that's actually pretty heartening. The only thing better than people being sex weirdos in the past is people being sex weirdos in the now. I approve!
Also I checked twitter thread and it seems less like deliberate misinformation and more the tweeter confusing the 2013 book for a similar one from 1998, but I suspect you knew that and were choosing to take it in the worst way possible.
Misinformation about misinformation, what fun!
(Not that you'll see this, I assume this is drive-by guilt tripping, as people are wont to do on this site.)
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