#you'll just be wasting your time

[shadowjinx626]

Person A, after seeing the Mario movie: Omg, look at all these easter eggs! This movie is so cool!! IT's a masterpiece!!! Person B: I mean the easter eggs were nice, but it made the movie feel like a commercial. Person A: Omg, it's just a kid's movie! Why you gotta take it so seriously? Months later... Person A, after seeing Wish: Omg, this movie is nothing but easter eggs! And they're trying to make a Disney cinematic universe!! This movie is so terrible!!! Person B: The easter eggs are just references and jokes. They're not meant to be taken seriously. Person A: Omg, stop defending Disney you shill!!!

#mario movie #wish #disney wish #wish 2023 #don't even try to argue with me that the mario movie did it better #you'll just be wasting your time #besides that's not the point of this post #i just want to point out that people tend to take references in wish seriously #to the point where they try to use it against the film #even though it's obvious they're just easter eggs #meanwhile people don't take mario movie references this seriously #i mean this could be said the same thing for the spiderverse films #no one takes the references in the spiderverse movies seriously #to the point that they think it's going to canonically affect the live action movies and comics #i just don't see why wish is treated any different in that department

[rollinsland]

Before anyone comes over here with hate about ships just don't 😂 I don't have ships and I have no problem with any ship that isn't fucked up so keep it to yourself

#text #you'll just be wasting your time

[unbothered]

#if you listen to the end you either get a secret message or you'll have wasted your precious time on earth being tricked by a nefarious tag #aren't you excited to see which one it is #it's probably just a trick to make you waste your time #drum up some notes #that's marketing babey #sales #business #charts #KPIs #suits #uhhhhhhh #branding #touch base #logistics #circle around #as per my last email

[uncanny-tranny]

Your life isn't a to-do list. You're allowed to exist, to take life as slow as you'd like. The dreams you have won't suddenly disappear. It's okay to stop and smell the roses, or to engage with "childish" things, or to recover, or do what you need to.

#positivity #encouraging words #life doesn't need to be a speedrun or a 100% run #sometimes it feels like i'm wasting my life but... who gets to tell me what is wasteful? i'm surviving out here and that's okay #and it's okay if you're also somebody who people think is 'wasting your life' #that's such a meaningless and frankly a very cruel thing to say to a person #because you'll see people call somebody's life wasteful because they're simply coping with disability/mental illness/grief/ect #it's a meaningless saying to tell somebody how YOU think they're wasting life. your life isn't a waste point-blank #we ought to be kinder to ourselves for choosing what we want/need out of our lives rather than placating to what is imposed on us... #...or the expectations we impose on ourselves #be kinder to yourself whenever you can. it's hard as hell but please choose kindness toward yourself #just something i thought about and felt like it was impirtant to me #i couldn't complete high school 'on time' because of covid and because i was in crisis. i felt so much shame about that. i felt stupid... #...i felt unworthy. but who decided that i am those things? the crisis i was in could have killed me. i couldn't deal with school then... #...it humbled me because i had to learn that i am not immune to needing to be kind to myself. i am human - i'm not a mindless drone... #...you aren't a mindless drone either. you are an individual. you deserve to feel safe. you deserve understanding and compassion... #...but not ONLY from others. you deserve it from yourself as well

[carnivalcarriondiscarded]

Hi, I hope you don't mind this message, and idk if anyone else has told you, but there's this troll going around on Tumblr named @/freethepuppet. They claim to be “fighting for justice in the puppet industry”, but really they're just sending hateful and threatening messages to Welcome Home and My Friendly Neighborhood artists/fans.

I myself have receive multiple death threats from this person, and they have sent threats to many of my friends over the matter, some of which are minors.

Because of this issue, I have decided to keep myself and my friends anonymous, especially considering the fact that @/freethepuppet intends to send threats to PartyCoffin himself, along with the creator behind My Friendly Neighborhood.

I just wanted to warn you about this person, so that you can block and report them, as well has tell others in the community about the troll. If you decide to ignore this, then that's fair and I respect your decision.

In any case, I hope you and your friends stay safe. Best of luck!!

blocked! thanks for letting me know! to add on to this, a little advice for everyone:

Don't Engage With This Person At All!

Don't Look At Their Stuff, Don't Respond To Messages, Don't @ Them Or Give Them The Time Of Day. Just Go Block Them And Let Them Exhaust Their Own Hate

#block and move on - thats the best way to deal with this sort of thing #dont give them a single millimeter to work with #they'll get tired of their own vitriol eventually #its like the best way to deal with assholes who say horrible things just to start shit: just ignore them completely #an 'ok. anyway-' will take the wind out of their sails better than any counterargument #they WANT you to engage. they WANT you to argue. they WANT you to waste your time on them #so. Don't! #block and ignore and move on with your day knowing that you're free from that bullshit <3 #rambles from the bog #and you know? i hope that person gets better #no one goes out of their way to be so hateful unless they've got their own shit going on so. #even though i have them blocked! a message to that guy! #things Will get better. i hope that one day you look back on your hate blog with embarrassment and maybe some guilt #because you're in a happier - or at least more peaceful - state of mind #good luck man. ik its rough out there. you'll get through it

[taegularities]

some men are textbook villains fr

#tw religion? #kinda need to rant.. kinda wanna explain what's going on #some ppl are part of humanity but don't know how to be humane... like the guy i started talking to almost 2 weeks ago #liked him a lot bc he was funny sickeningly sweet mature and understanding.. until he was not #tl dr version is that we somehow drifted to the topic religion and i told him im not too religious and don't believe in superstition much #i was extremely respectful and even when he said that he does believe a lot i was like 'thats cool!! different people believe in different #things!!' and at first it was a normal convo until man went all psycho on me (after one damn week!!!) and started talking about how #id have to be religious in a relationship with him.. my dude i barely know your fav food can we not talk about relationships yet #but he says he doesn't even need a woman who cooks/cleans just someone who believes.. n im like i get it but i can't change myself like that #and then guy moves to marriage and is all 'well my entire family is religious' n my mom and sister (who's 16) would be putting pressure on #you n force you to pray etc.. and I'm like???? who can force anyone to a thing like that are u kidding #things escalate and my absolute STUPID ass tells him about my deepest fkn trauma to explain what made me abandon religion bc #life just never got better and this trauma remained for yrs... and he gets so angry that he says he wants to stop talking to me just to spam #me all day next day.. he'd keep messaging me switching between 'i still want you we shouldn't throw this away i have feelings for you' #AFTER A WEEEEEEKKKK!!! and then goes back to 'i wasted my time with you you were so unnecessary im in a bad mood bc of you' #even said 'you'll never find a guy with a trauma and mindset like this. i will find a religious girl but no one will love you like that' #and the worst thing is that he told his friends and mom about the trauma i had just to spite me.. note that he promised to never tell anyone #(and then still asked for forgiveness and for me to rethink whether we want to end this after telling me 473626x he wanted to end it) #(nothing even ever started you bitchass) #also note that his mom knows my mom n basically most of my relatives.. so i was here trembling for days fearing they'd get to know about it #mom somehow convinced her to not tell anyone bc it's important to me and very very fucking personal.. #but he harassed me all day - i wouldn't answer and he'd send 55 messages.. multiple missed calls like dude i got so fkn scared #my heart jumped whenever he texted he was so fkn aggressive and SO MEAN #'you just needed to adjust and we would've been okay' 'tell me are u gonna fkn be religious or not????' 'you ruined everything' kinda mean #i just :') it was the worst time and i don't think i've ever seen someone degrade me so much or make me feel this defective #but.. it's finally over. his mom called my mom and mine was like pls teach him some manners.. n since i couldn't and wouldn't text him back #and literally avoided whatsapp bc of him she ended it all for me and now it's hopefully done forever #anyway i saw jks gcf performance yday n him singing still with you put a genuine smile on my face.. ill stick to THAT boyfriend honestly lol #def gonna delete later #but ty for reading if u did <3

[silenthillbunni]

🐰🌧️

#so on my way home.. #i walked by a school and besides the fact that i felt so depressed bc just looking at these kids and adults i have NO hope for the future #i saw two boys on a bench as i walked by... and i just thought they were talking. and too late i realized that no one of the boys were #bullying the other boy. the bully walked away and the other boy just sat there looking so lifeless and dejected #a teacher came and sat down w that boy and i just kept walking. even if i wanted to say smth it's like what would i even do abt that situati #that made me so sad both bc that boy.. he looked so dejected and used to it. that anxiety going to school knowing you're bullied is awful #and like i imagined talking to him and saying heyyy if you're lucky you'll grow up to be 25yrs old #live like a parasite off your mom and be on wellfare and never have had a job :) #you'll have no education or highschool diploma :) you will still struggle to finish hs even at an easier level :) #you will also not have had friends in 10yrs and you'll be terrified of ppl and getting close to anyone and even going outside!! #you'll have no interests and hobbies and skills! you'll simply be a waste of space loser being a burden on everyone around u! #whoop whoop stay alive buddy it will only get worse ❤️ #god i just wanna cry. how did i let my life turn out this way??? i used to be full of dreams and life and passion and HOPE #i used to believe in things and in people. i had so many dreams and i wanted to try and do so many things #now all i can think is 'i wanna die i wanna die i wanna die'. im miserable wherever i go lmao #there's this bridge over the highway i have to cross when i walk to school and every time i look down at the trafic and when a truck drives #by i feel my entire body vibrate. i just wanna jump and get mauled by it. #or i dont *want* to but i feel so deeply and desperately that it's the only way for me #only way to make it stop hurting. and i am weak. i dont know how to just 'stop' or take control of my life. thats why i wanna die #bc i know that i wont be able to. that my life will never amount to anything #for fuck's sake my dream now is just to have my own 1bedroom apartment and have a shitty job - like in a grocery store or whatever!!!!! #not even that can i make happen! bc im so worthless i cant do anything. im also stupid so i wouldnt be able to do my job right #i dont know... i dont know... these feelings and thoughts are too much i just wanna relax #but i cant bc my ribs hurt and idk if it's heartburn or an ulcer 💀 why am i even alive???? what am i doing all this for? 😭 #my thoughts ran away but i meant like seeing that reminded me of how much of a failure i became #bc of my circumstances and all the shitty ppl around me thru out my life

[strawberrybabydog]

"go to my main blog to read my pinned poat before interacting" nevermind its actually not worth following anymore

why am i being asked to go out of my way to give you support? just copy/paste the same pinned or put the link on the side blog too? its so much less work than asking every single new follower to leave your sideblog to search for your main blog to click on 1 link just to go all the way back? just put your link on the side blog?????

#its the same with those dni banners that say read my pinned before interacting #it basically just means scroll away please #i am not going to visit your main blog's hidden link just to you'll allow me to heart your post #im honestly just tilted about this because they never say anything unique or specific either #it always says read my dni before interacting and then their dni just says 'basic dni criteria' like. why did you make me waste my time #not dog

[eebie]

why do peopelt alk about personality types like that

#What if we were all just people!! #cos all that mbti stuff And the extent of a someone's persoanlioty is impossible 2capture #based on a 20 question online test That offers no context/reasoning behind the situations and answers it gives you #it just assumes why you chose those things u did and gives you a generalization that might be wildly inaccurate !!!!!!!!!!!!!! #but just because something is a whole load of baloney doesnt mean it cant be fun ^_^ heehee #it's silly sometimes. 2 see people describing The result i got like.. Ooooh .. they're cold unfeeling Machines... they're Evil genuis.. #and all coprrect Btw but not in the right way!!!!!!!!!!! #im an unfeeling machine the way im always on my grind and dont give a shit! And im an evilgenuis because im sexy and awesome basically #also thats all super minor stuff Personalitytypes shouldnt be 4 letters it should be about 4986534262357e^10 Letters #cos theres so much shit n overlap and basically its pointless To try n fit that into something as simple as that #Thtas like trying 2 put every color paint from every gradient from every hue and shade onto a single palette #simply impossible n you'll get paint all over yourself trying!!!! and the colors will all smudge together #and then you'll ahve to burn your clothes #but NOT if you have fun with it ^_^ #you don't wear a tuxedo while you're painting You wear that silly shit of which itdoesn't matter if it gets paint on it!! a colorful apron #basically trying to put anything in2 a binary In Sincerity is a waste of TIME but it can be fun !!! #NAYWAYS THIS IS STUFF PPL HAVE ALREADY TALKED ABOU IM SURE i just got carried away #*rubs the back of my head *Well.. heh #fuck how do u #do that thing anime boys do #where they do that. that thing i just tried to roleplay as #i forgot how #anyways this is not me being a hater Do whatever the hell u want ^_^ all tha power to u + i love u

[mokit1]

I get that some teachers use "tough love" as a tactic to hone their students for a tough industry. But I'm not sure that it works for me.

I spent a while making something for the class the other day. Put time into it, tested it, tweaked it until it was just right. It was my first time making something like that, and I wanted to get it right, and it came out great!

I was feeling proud of myself and you know what my teacher told me?

"It took you two hours for that? It should have taken you less than twenty minutes."

And yeah. Speaking from a professional point of view, it should have. But I'm still just a student. I learned from that experience, and now I know how to do it quicker since I've done the same task before.

It frustrates me how I do things more slowly than the average person. Fellow students have pointed out this mannerism I have too. But I also think this is a byproduct of hustle culture. The industry I'm working and learning in currently is all about doing things perfectly and quickly the first time. My problem is that if I try to do something perfectly, it will take more time, and if I do something too quickly, I will sacrifice the quality of my product. Both options result in people being disappointed in me.

Which is why I always opt for taking more time to do something well rather than produce something that looks like shit.

Don't get me wrong, I value all the things I'm learning and I have gotten somewhat faster at it since I started doing this sort of thing mid high-school. And learning the basics as well as how to make my processes more effective and efficient is awesome.

But can I not be belittled for every little thing I get wrong or make a mistake on to the point I start having nightmares about people being disappointed and yelling at me? Thanks.

#rant post #at this point I feel like im being operate conditioned #Ive always had problems with guilt but at least being in this industry is making me more tough about not feeling it too extremely #You just have to pull up your bootstraps and say you'll take responsibility for the mistake you made and fix it #But now im left with this constant underlying fear that I will get told off at any time for doing anything not up to my teachers standards #And then getting indirectly told that im not being productive or wasting my time on something that needed to be done yesterday #yet i persist #I need to finish what I started

[gayspock]

what if I wss emo instead 🤔

#Egg.txt #Sorry im going to my graduation bc they actually let me defer it #But I realise again why I felt like I shouldn't go man #It's always just so depressing going to ''leavers'' celebrations and everyone's crying and reminiscing on the good times with their loved #ones and you just rotted and never managed to make friends and just wasted your life or something ehrrmmmmm #sorry LOL this happens every time I should have felt it coming 😭 but it's so weird being back inmy uni town and just feeling like God.... #What did I even do for 3 years here and cryingggg bc you're just soo bad at connecting with anybody and you have always been no matter how #many chances you get and blah blah there's not even any comfort in it just #empty platitudes of ppl saying wowee you'll find the right place some day like no man I'm a fucking creep I'm a weirdo FOREVER #like God im just a fucking loser to the correeee

[tokyoteddywolf]

22 isn't very much at all, I think.

#5am rambles #anyways ignore this as per usual im just thinking in a post that i'll delete soon. i just worry and writing it helps. #you ever wonder when you'll “grow up'? and then realize youre not even fully grown? #that theres still more to learn in life and that the mistakes you make are just that? mistakes? #that you are still so very very young in a world that is so very very old? #im almost 23. barely a quarter of my lifespan. im still a child in a way- my brain not fully formed. #you ever wonder how many mistakes you can make before you figure something out? #I dont know much of anything really. that's the sad part. and the adults who were supposed to help me learn... didnt. #i was failed. and now im a failure. at almost not quite 23 years old. Maybe i wont be a failure in another few years. #i still have a while to go before I die. I'm not going to waste time thinking about it. im just going to try my best. #I have time. I can learn. Grace and patience are not endless but damn if i dont try to figure things out #first step though is meds and therapy tho. we're done with the pity party. some things you just have to accept are okay #cuz my whole life i was taught that being emotional is a weakness. its pathetic and stupid to be upset or angry about anything. #any time i wanted to show i was upset or angry i was 'wrong'. i was 'selfish' and 'dramatic' #so i suppressed and pretended i was fine. that i wasnt weak and pathetic. that i was good and not an annoyance or burden. #i am not weak. i am not pathetic. i am fine i am fine i am fine you dont need to worry about the inconvenience at your door. #sometimes the shame is so much that i cant look at myself or even think i deserve help. that therapy is for people with real problems. #that i feel like ill just be told im like this for attention or dramatics. that im such a disappointment and selfish too. #ive been a “problem” my whole life to the point i dunno if i CAN be fixed. that anxiety eats me alive every day. #therapy is supposed to give you methods to cope #i dunno if it'll work though. I forget my appointments a lot. i struggle to talk sometimes. i may be autistic but its hard to get diagnosed. #emotions are so hard to figure out.

[datastate]

there’s a certain point where like. self-hatred isn’t doing anything man. you gotta step up and make the change. if it’s an external concept influencing you, it can’t be changed as easily; but if it is an internal criticism... then it is entirely up to you. and other people’s affirmations/reassurance will not help you in the long run - you need to learn to live with yourself, unaligned from other people’s perceptions/views of who you are. understand what you want and whether this critique has value to you and where you want to go with your life. and sure, esp depending on the mental state you’re in, it won’t happen overnight. it’s a habit you’ve got to reaffirm for months, years... but as long as you try to make the push, that’s all you’re asking for. there are some days it’ll be extremely difficult to work past, some days you feel like a literal zombie or the scum of the earth, but if it means you get even one day’s reprieve... that’s better than the constant loathing and harassment you face at your own blade.

#just as a general thing honestly #obviously there are some days where you'll want to ask others. make sure they do enjoy your presence. but... #after a certain point. they'll realize you're wallowing in this and purposefully denying their offers for help. and they Will lose patience #not for your fault. not for theirs. but we are all dealing with 'issues' that wear on us. and in my experience #both as someone who had once dealt with intense self-loathing (to the point it affected my friend of the time) and someone who has tried #helping others... there's a point where you just accept that you aren't getting through to them #and you also need to take care of yourself. you cannot spend all of this time on someone that is wasting your effort #when you can be directing it to other things... you know? #idk... just been thinking. TT_TT #jestersvaguely

[raulfernandez]

Istg yall will turn every somewhat attractive rider who hasn't made it up a tree at the count of 3 into a twink with no personality, and I am so fucking tired of it

#motogp #like Fabio is more than “oh wasted talent because shit bike” HE IS A FUCKING WORLDCHAMPION OKAY?!?!? #“oh Bez is just a stoner twink” okay he's also the only other non-factory rider who put up a fight for the title for a long time #“Vale lost such a bad bitch when giving up twinky marc” like oh my god shut up. he is one of the greatest of all time #i'm just really fucking glad Raul never fell into any of your eyes. stay the fuck away from him. cause i know how you'll treat him #this is a rant post of MINE #I do NOT take fucking criticism and I actually don't fucking care #like sure it's fun as a little joke but if you make that their whole fucking personality it just becomes annoying #you're JUST AS BAD as the people who make Alex & Luca out to be just Marc & Vale's brothers

[gabe-lovebot]

life is weird and complex because it doesn't matter if you have 2 hours of free time or have the whole week off, you will always have a game you want to play, a thing you want to read, inspiration to practice your craft, some niche topic you want to research, an activity you want to do with friends, and you will always, always feel like there are not enough hours in the day to do it all

there will be days when you have free time and no energy to do the things you want to do, there will be days when you have so much energy that you can't decide what you want to spend it on, and you'll think that those days are wasted but i think that doesn't matter, and that life is at its best when you are at that point when you have so many options in your hands and so many plans for fun you will have in both the present and the future that it keeps you up at night and derails your sleep schedule and even motivates you enough to wake up every morning and helps you go through anything you have to do so you can spend more time doing what makes you happy, i really think thats what we're here for

#void.txt #speaking of im currently debating launching bg3 or grabbing my drawing tablet for some anatomy practice #instead im here #and thats fine too #anyways hello i was hit by feelings again #most of the things i want to do are fuelled by my need to create and consume more gabriel ultrakill content which is why im posting it on-- #--this blog but this can apply to just about anything so #you can make 200 plans for the future and you might worry that you'll never do everything you want to do #but that doesnt mean your time is wasted #you can be happy just doing the 1 thing youre doing in the present #i spent the past 20 minutes writing this post while trying to solve my internal debate while also petting the family dog

[the-cat-at-the-theatre-door]

since bomba's and macavity mother is not a good parent jenny have try do give them motherly love. she give her snacks, listen to what they wanna say

I am the biggest sucker for surrogate mom Jenny stuff - really just gets me somewhere in the fluff craving part of my brain.

#and i feel like since jenny is really good at getting a read on cats #she's very emotionally aware of how she needs to go about 'parenting' #like some cats respond better to 'look at me - i'm your mother now come here' and others it's more #'hey i made cookies and there are just so many of them because i accidentally tripled the recipe #so i guess you'll have to take some or else they'll go stale and maybe bring some home to your brother too' #she shows up does the research makes the effort #sometimes it's even acting like she's only half listening to them when they share things #because she knows if she gives them her full attention and they know it they'll feel guilty like they're wasting her time #(even though they're not) #it's all about adjusting the strategy to the kiddos in need #Jennyanydots #Bombalurina #Macavity #other headcanons #jellicles ask because jellicles dare #bombawife #did that make sense i hope that made sense