#you're loveable

[darknoiserecords]

Are you actually happy with them? Or are you just saying that because you have such a hard time loving yourself that you'll take the bare minimum anyone will give you because you feel that's all you deserve?

#you deserve better #you're loveable #relationship #love #self esteem

[aroaceleovaldez]

my secret project is trying to convince all the jasico fans to watch Promare because i know they'll like it. tbh percico and valdangelo fans are probably also target audience here.

pspspspsp hear me out

#pjo #riordanverse #promare #my art #i know the dynamics these ship fans like #HIMBO X EMO BE UPON YE #loveable silly x tiny angry #you get it. you get it. #anyways nico shippers pspspsp anime movie you will enjoy methinks #Lio is not like Nico but he's like. adjacent enough that he falls into the same general character categories #so if you like That Genre of character you'll probably adore him #same if you like Jason's genre of character you will almost definitely love Galo. if you're a Vash person as well then definitely #Galo to Leo or Percy is like. if you specifically like silly Leo or Percy and them being himbo-esque #also with Leo or Jason - if you like aut4aut ships you will love promare. they are SO aut4aut its great #am i pitching this well enough

[ilovetvtoons]

This is the funniest storyboard dialog ever. These 2 sure would've had fun dynamic between them.

#hahaha!!! #oh marcy!!! #you're such a loveable little energetic goofball!! #amphibia #amphibia storyboard #storyboard #lady olivia #marcy wu #i had to edit some of them together because of the tumblr image limit

[fubuwu]

Cope and seethe xoxox

God seeing jc antis bitch about us loving jc for all his canon and fanon traits truly is a serotonin boost for me

It's not our fault jc is a fan favorite with loveable traits and more intrigue than most of the characters in the book 🤷‍♀️

#jiang cheng #jiang wanyin #Point and laugh jc fans #It's also funny because actually most of the mdzs fandom find these jc antis insufferable and love jc #Most of the mdzs fandom is laughing at all you 🤡 not us jc fans having a good time and creating fun fandom content like you're meant to #Can't imagine being this dull and miserable Jesus Christ #Also FYI most the loveable traits mentioned under the tag are c@non. #You just refuse to accept them because they don't fit your shitty narrative

[inky-duchess]

I would like to thank everyone who pays The Lost Prince any attention or appreciation (those I suppose you're all sick of hearing about it by now 🙃) and to that end, I want to pay love forward to some special WIPs I've been allowed to appreciate over the year. I'll pick a few and if anybody wants to do this, feel free to reblog because nothing makes a writer's day than something to keep them going.

@veneritia I am in love with the WorldBuilding of When Comes the Dawn and the relationship between Fernice and her lil bro, is drama I always enjoy hearing about. Charles and Ambrose, ma'am!

@trapped-inadystopianovel for engaging characters (Sola my son) whom I always love to hear about and wonder what they're up to often.

@serpentarii it's the intriguing plots and complex characters for me, the never ending roll call of acceptional posts. And my star-crossed boys.

@surroundedbypearls Every WIP post is always so beautiful, it's like the art the sky makes just before it takes a nap.

@writingamongther0ses the sheer abundance of the writing you manage to produce never fails to impress me. Like girl, you're singlehandedly pushing me to get off of Tiktok and write. Your wip posts always make my day.

@lottieiswriting for my darling Macro and your beautiful wip, Kill the King

@ccorpsidious Adrian Skylar, the one and only, most precious boy who needs a good mom and a warm blanket.

@eluari the absolute beauty of the accompanying art!

@dameschnee123 for Priestess of Light, for the hardhittibg lines that just stock with you. You know the one I mean!

@writerjodie for a Protagonist like Nessa Herrik, whose complex motives are as compelling as the plot! I really can't wait to see more.

@residentofthedisc for all your works! Every one is utterly amazing, you have the range, darling!

#Wip appreciation #Because every writer needs to be told they're doing a good job #You all are doing a good job and it would take me ages to note you all down #Your plot is bulletproof #Your characters are loveable #You're writing is complex and interesting

[wis-art]

I want to make sure you all understand that i do not encourage self harm, nor do i romanticize it. The reason why i draw the scars on Lucy is that, the trauma does NOT define her and that she's herself despite all of it. She still wants to show her skin like anyone else and i think it's okay. I know i haven't revealed much of my character's personality and story and lore, but she is not perfect and i want to make sure you all understand that. I want you to understand that people with trauma can grow and change and even though the past might manifest in your behavior or your body. You are beautiful and i love you. Please do not hurt yourself.

#i have a story in mind #cw self harm #self harm #i dont know #i also think it's quite a statement #to see someone with scars fully healed #feeling beautiful and loving herself and loving her girlfriend #and her girlfriend loving her #and i repeat #do not harm yourself #there's much better ways to deal with stress and trauma and emotions that are hard to express #pick up a pen #pick up a paper #draw it and then throw it away #talk to your friend #take a shower #the warm feeling of water always soothes me #but please realize that if you've done it you are not ruined forever and you're still loveable #and that this is not an encouragement to keep harming yourself #but to close this chapter and move on #and love yourself

[protect-namine]

mitsuki shirota expressions offstage: sopping wet cat who does NOT want to be bothered

mitsuki shirota expressions onstage: ^^

#mine musings #liveblogging jj #jack jeanne #this coming from the guy who only cares about singing (allegedly) #one of my favorite things about the performances is that mitsuki smiles a lot!! #(rukiora voice) your problem has always been that you're too loveable...

[poppy-metal]

the woes of the night hittin. naws my nails off

#poppy speaks #already lost one friend bc they quite literally lost interest in me and tried to gaslight me into believing it wasn't true #n now i think its happening everywhere #n it just makes me think whats wrong w me that im not. loveable and cherishable enough to just. think abt and value #'i think you're codependent and needy' because im upset that you suddenly dont wanna talk to me when i dont have anything to offer u? #die. die die die. #how am i 25 and not anyones best friend bro.

[bumblingbabooshka]

I will walk down to the end with you / If you will come all the way down with me.

#B'Elanna Torres #B'Elanna art #B'Elanna #-thinks so hard about B'Elanna's self image issues and about how Tom Paris could be baked into an apple pie he oozes so much All American #Charm and about how B'Elanna was literally ready to break up with Tom because she felt he wasn't committed to her emotionally #and didn't prioritize her needs/wants and when she tried to bring it up he didn't address any of that and instead just asked her to marry #him and she said yes bc it's what she wanted wasn't it? But also thinks about how getting married solves literally 0 of their problems bc #that wasn't the issue - and how they never REALLY talked about the issue she had and the proposal seemed more like a desperate attempt to #hold onto her and B'Elanna's acceptance was her tightening her grip as well and thinks about how the solution to Tom not prioritizing #B'Elanna was framed as B'Elanna trying to do what Tom wanted and about how B'Elanna blames her mother entirely for her father abandoning #them - how she blames SPECIFICALLY the fact that her mother was too Klingon and about how Tom blames the fact that he never showed how much #he cares about/is committed to B'Elanna on the fact that she has 'that tough Klingon exterior' and how her response is #'do I look that tough right now?' and about how B'Elanna associates Klingon features so strongly with negativity - unloveability - rejection #that she tries to erase her features from her daughter's face and make her Human which to her means Good and Beautiful and Loveable and #about how she STILL after all this time only wants her father to love her again. Thinks about fear of abandonment which makes you hold onto #something which doesn't work bc you can't bear to be alone or fail. If she said no to Tom's proposal who else would she have? And #doesn't it feel like a prize? Like you finally WON. The Human Prince wants to marry you - you're FINALLY good enough for someone to sign #a contract saying they'll never leave you. Even if they don't pay attention to you - even if they abandon you to pursue their own interests #every time something shinier comes up they'll never LEAVE and that's what you're the most afraid of. Thinks about the fear of being too much #and too klingon and about how B'Elanna told Tom it was okay he forgot their romantic getaway even though she took so much time to plan it #and was so excited for it because she didn't want to spoil his fun (is being with her work?) and about how she still remembers that little #human boy who pointed at her forehead ridges and called her 'turtlehead' until she beat him so viciously they had to pull her off him #Thinks about all of those things VERY hard and EXPLODES- #bea art tag #st voyager #st voyager art #CHARACTER. OF. ALL. TIME.

[sssusuki]

Me, stupidly: Oh my lord and my lanta! The romance for Kai is definitely a curveball from his character who is known as emotionally distant and cool hearted!"

The real curveball: 🚗💨

#I gasped #I just got to the Christmas event and— WHAT THE???? #LIKE KISA JUST. YOU'RE KIDDING ME. WHAT??? #SHE COULDN'T HAVE GOTTEN OUT OF THAT WITH ONLY SCRAPES #fool she would've atleast had a broken bone #ALSO CONFIRMS THAT KAI GENUINELY DID NOT KNOW AND THAT IS AMAZING #Bi Kai is best Kai #he is so loveable istg #jack jeanne #kai mutsumi #I have tagged Kai do much I gotta post more of Mitsuki and Utsuri to compensate

[laffeetaffeegg]

“But Ralph isn’t bad... no. Not bad...”

Not really sure what made me want to draw him. I guess I just really wanted to procrastinate on the billion other projects I have going.

#Detroit Become Human #Detroit Become Human Ralph #Ralph WR600 #RA9 #Loveable murdering android #Technically he did murder that guy #Sorry Ralph #But you can't just say he was like that when you found him #When you're holding a knife #And the victim has─ #(Connor bursts in) #TWENTY-EIGHT STAB WOUNDS

[rainworld-enot]

You are Loveable

TY!!!

#sketchandsneeze #enot rainworld #rainworld #rainworld inv #rw #rainworld askblog #rw enot #rw inv #in all truths you aren't alone. there's always a person who is willing to learn and understand #it may be difficult to understand that in rough patches but you are loved. you are loveable. #wholesome message from the jestoring enot blog but like... fr you have people out there that care for you more than you think. #if you're having issues you have all rights to get help for it. talk with folks! feel free to learn and experience things even if it may #seem stupid at first. nothing is stupid if you're having fun with it or it helps you take care of yourself #you are loveable and you shouldn't forget that ever.

[iloveyouitisruiningmylife]

so I was thinking this since yesterday because of these tags on the webweave

and this one came after that

and it made me think like what if. what if. it's actually not that deep it's just me who's so emotionally attached to this piece of media because i have known it for this long and it's my coping mechanism.like what if that second person watches jjk and doesn't connect with them like this and they end up hating it because i gave them hope and i made it deeper than it is💀

i am so mad at your brain for spiralling down this road because all i can think is OMG!!!!!! YOUR WEBWEAVE IS SO AWESOME PEOPLE WANT TO WATCH THE SHOW JUST BECAUSE OF SOME PICS AND QUOTES GLUED TOGETHER!!!!!!!!!! also pls i love the first tags so cute with DO ANOTHER!!!!

#vio babe in my experience #main kaise samjhau without hurting you 😭 #but like the canon is always so much more underwhelming than fanmade material 😭 #like for kpop you look at the content they give us and you look at the fan fiction ekdum zameen asmaan ka farak hai #but like i don't think you should feel guilty or something because like as a fan all it makes me think is omg #people writers artists are so fucking cool and poetic and awesome how did they take something simple and beautiful and turn it into #something completely different deeper richer better more fleshed out how did they put so much thought into this #and how im so so so thankful that this media existed as a base so that these wonderful artists could get inspired and make such #beautiful things for the world to see #like yk how i felt na seeing stsg i was like that's it??? what are people so crazy about that was barely anything?????? #but the fandom made me love them so much more than canon did because they analysed every little interaction #every quirk or smile or dialogue and made something complicatted and big out of it and now i see the full picturr and it all falls into #place?? #like canon is just adhoora without people like you okay you make it more loveable accessible you're literally carrying the fandom on your #that guy what's his name gege? he should fucking send u thank you cards and like 5000 dollars for making that webweave okay #ok bohot zyada bol diya if my point got lost somewhere i just mean ki ily and your over thinking brain #vio love

[lunityviruz]

I wish there was a 'beat and kill' button for whenever you come across a post that has been purposely mistagged with different aesthetics and subcultures.

#rants n rambles #these are about those annoying lana del rey bitches #them “female manipulators” hoe only person you've ever “manipulated” is yourself into thinking you're actually loveable and valuable #in society

[endworldbroadcast]

One thing I don't really see people tend to talk about with schizoid personality disorder is how much of it is staked on moral shame... It's a little different from how people usually conceptualise 'shame' but it's the closest feeling I can think of at the centre of it.

The 'splitting'/black-and-white thinking associated with ScPD is just so punitive, but it doesn't look punitive at first glance because schizoids are often non-confrontational and 'do' nothing (externally) with the emotions. But internally, it feels like being fixated on all the many ways of fucking up.

Nobody else is good enough and every single thing others do is scrutinised under the lens of obligation—these people that 'love' me, what do they want this time?—to the point where relationships feel like a frustrating power exchange and a court trial of endless litigation, and in the end it's really that yourself is not 'good enough'.

That even if you don't actually hate yourself or think of yourself as inferior in a straightforward manner, it's that because you're acutely aware of some 'obligatory' fucntion of love, it always comes to this overwhelming point where just existing around other people feels like you're failing some invisible demand made of you, and you have to run away if it means you don't have to face that failure.

I remember that case study from the ScPD handbook about this guy who would come to detest any woman who reciprocated his feelings, and it was borne from this feeling that if you view yourself and more importantly your own love and attachment for other people as worthless and unwanted, you can't get rid of the feeling that the love of anybody who could love you was worthless too.

It's a strange, paradoxical form of self-loathing where you might not really recognise yourself as 'incompetent' the way most anxious or insecure people do, but because your standards of what makes a person 'acceptable' enough to relate to are so impossible, you'll always be falling short just by virtue of being a human being.

If another person loves you, it's easier to think that either it's conditional and ulterior or the person has some flaw in their character that gives them such 'poor' taste—and maybe, in some cases, it's an arrogant envy. It's maddening to realise other people can truly 'love' the imperfect and inadequate when you yourself can't.

I'm helplessly cynical towards other people and I attribute it a lot to shame and envy. I feel that if a person doesn't 'love' me enough, they trigger some kind of childish desperation, the way children cry when their parents leave. And if a person 'loves' me too much, I feel like my own selfish nature is put at the forefront. I get embarrassed of wanting affection, of accepting grace, of being treated kindly in a way I can't return—it makes me feel selfish and immoral to think people can care for me in a way I can't reciprocate, especially when the neglect of other people hurts me just the same, so I get angry and envious of other people for having the ability to be so openly kind and I want them to get away from me.

I feel envious that others can care for the people around them so simply and straightforwardly, but more than that, I get envious that other people's love is seen as such a good, desirable thing when I feel like the reason I'm so alienated is because my own feelings of warmth towards others is seen as evil and unwanted. It's not merely that the act of being loved is selfish, but that the very act of loving another is. And it is just absolutely tiresome to feel like the one thing everybody considers as universally good and necessary is wrong when you do it.

#d #schizoid tag #schizoposting #I think when you're neglected for so long at such a young age #it's easier to believe that that happened because you aren't 'good enough' #The people around you can't love you because you're unloveable #so it becomes second nature to measure 'loveability' like it's an internal characteristic #to the point it becomes a veiled competition #and if someone loves you more authentically than you can love them #You lose! And losing makes you the same person as those people that neglected you in the past!!! #So much about 'being loved' feels like being exposed as a MORAL FAILURE!!!! #D:

[lexyscross]

I’m gonna get yelled at for this, but:

While I understand they are serial killers, I dislike how the Ghostfaces are under more criticism from the fandom while the Hero Protags get a pass while being boring and not serving any cunt at all.

I don’t mean criticism for being serial killers or whatever other bad thing they’ve done. I mean this absurd checklist to be accepted by this Hellfandom. (”This character is a LAME Ghostface because-”) 🙄

#NOT YOU MINDY AND DEWEY! You're not fun or exciting but ILY! 😘 #Mindy is at least funny. And Dewey is loveable. The rest? GO ON 5 girls & 2 guys; GIVE ME *NOTHING*! #And by this I mean: #charlie walker #amber freeman #(kinda) #richie kirsch #wayne bailey #quinn bailey #ethan landry #kirsch family #rant #text post